How Important Is Age? (Older vs. Younger)

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  • @Ben-fx9kx
    @Ben-fx9kx 9 лет назад +73

    Age isnt maturity
    Maturity is maturity

  • @cocoxo7873
    @cocoxo7873 8 лет назад +15

    The thing about girls liking older guys is so accurate. It's typically true that girls are more mature, so that's why girls tend to go for older guys. They can relate to them more

  • @girtisholland
    @girtisholland 8 лет назад +9

    I'm 35 and always end up dating younger girls. I look like I'm in my early 20's so I think it makes it harder for women my age to be into me because they think I'm a kid. That being said, its hard to date young girls. There is a clear mentality difference when I date a 21 year old. I've found 26/27 is a good age because generally people start knowing what they want in life and the partying and childish behavior isn't there...as much.

  • @censorshipshit
    @censorshipshit 9 лет назад +4

    I've actually dated ten years in each direction. I truly have no preference, the girls who were 10 years older than me when we dated were pretty much using me as a rebound, they wanted to feel young and I knew I was a short term thing. The girls ive dated who were ten years younger were kind of the same to me...It was just superficial. Everyone of my meaningful relationships have been with people a year or two younger or older than me.

  • @Lightningslick
    @Lightningslick 7 лет назад +12

    I am in my 60s and would not look at a woman under 50 y/o.

  • @Renkk17
    @Renkk17 6 лет назад +4

    I rather be with someone my own age, maybe a couple of years older if they still look and act young.....but I have been with guys and in a couple of relationships that the guys were in their 30's and that would be 10 to 15 years younger than me!
    These days the guys my age or older, just don't take care of themselves anymore and look a lot older than they are (lots of grey hair, beards, wrinkles, beer bellies, baggage, old fashion standards) and just don't have the fun spirit and stamina to keep up anymore!
    I'm older but people always guess much younger, so I can lie and say I'm 10 or 15 yrs younger and people will believe me, some that are younger actually think they are older than me when we first meet!

  • @themanecareactor1512
    @themanecareactor1512 9 лет назад +42

    I would never EVER date someone who's younger than me, dunno why but I don't like the thought of being the older one

    • @CRW5252
      @CRW5252 9 лет назад

      Reham Beshir Even if you really liked them? Surely age is just a number.

    • @themanecareactor1512
      @themanecareactor1512 9 лет назад +3

      I wouldn't like them in the first place lol, I'v never liked someone who's younger than me

    • @CRW5252
      @CRW5252 9 лет назад +2

      What happens if you didn't know?

    • @themanecareactor1512
      @themanecareactor1512 9 лет назад +1

      I don't know haha, I would probably be turned off lol

    • @CRW5252
      @CRW5252 9 лет назад +6

      Reham Beshir I find that so bizarre. I can understand why a girl would want a mature guy but some 18 year olds are more mature than some 25 year olds.

  • @idonttellmyhearttobeatbuti97
    @idonttellmyhearttobeatbuti97 8 лет назад +1

    yafa love ur show💞

  • @bradbrendon8331
    @bradbrendon8331 9 лет назад +30

    dude that 37 year old blonde was into you man!!!!

  • @alaah4183
    @alaah4183 9 лет назад +6

    10-15 years older, they tend to be mature and have their lives together
    but some younger guys are mature too, so it depends on the guy

  • @MrSkullHead1250
    @MrSkullHead1250 8 лет назад +4

    The youngest I will go is 21, the oldest is 30. I am gonna be 26 on the 25th

  • @Verify110
    @Verify110 7 лет назад +5

    lowest i would go: 18. highest i would go: 18

  • @cchh1
    @cchh1 9 лет назад +15

    When I turned 21 I didn't want to date anyone under 20. I like to go to bars and watch live music a lot and if you weren't 21 or turning 21 anytime soon it was a deal breaker.
    I'm 25 now and I'll go four years up or four years down from my age. My mom's 4 years older than my dad so that's where I got my base. Plus I want someone like-minded. I want someone mature enough to talk about world issues and deep topics with, but immature enough to laugh at stupid shit and still go out at 10pm and come home at 3am.

    • @lovelyxskinny
      @lovelyxskinny 8 лет назад +1

      I agree 4 years is a good range that's almost like me. I'd go 4 younger or 5 older..

    • @xxJustinsTutsxx
      @xxJustinsTutsxx 8 лет назад

      I wish I would have been older.. Thats ttly me though.

    • @bluecozade2922
      @bluecozade2922 8 лет назад

      But age doesn't define maturity. I'm just saying that because I'm 19, but the fact people think age is important because it defines knowledge and maturity is beyond me, maturity and knowledge is based upon the person not their age.

    • @cchh1
      @cchh1 8 лет назад

      BlueLucozade It's not like I dismiss young people's intellect just because they're young. I was a 19yo once, I know how mature and knowledgable that age group can be. I just don't want to *date* anyone from that age group because it's highly unlikely I'd find someone like-minded, who'd want the same things out of life that I want. Who can be immature and mature on the level I find attractive.

    • @Sir_BoazMutatayi
      @Sir_BoazMutatayi 7 лет назад

      Bluecozade Maturity comes with experience. I can assure you that you do not have a huge experience at 19. Do not feel insulted its a fact.

  • @barbanegra8560
    @barbanegra8560 9 лет назад +6

    Age is too vague of an indicator for me.
    I'd rather get to know the person rather than filter them through an age range.
    It is a bit of a complicated topic though, considering that society uses age as a measure for particular privileges, or use it as a filter, it kind of does matter in some special cases.
    However that's society - not my opinion, my opinion is: Screw age, I don't care how many earth rotations ago you were born, I care about your character, your physical attributes, and your personal life =)

  • @trudiva9000
    @trudiva9000 7 лет назад +4

    I'm 26 and open to age but I rather like someone who is more capable of being mature.

  • @lovelyxskinny
    @lovelyxskinny 8 лет назад +2

    04:09 "I don't want a grandpa or a dad so I'd say 6 years older than me" girl, you're right who wants someone 7 years older who is old enough to be your dad! lmao

  • @Rapturo_to_YESHUA
    @Rapturo_to_YESHUA 9 лет назад +1

    It mainly depends on the mindset of the individual. People growing up decades apart, like one who is 40 compared to another being 20 (yeah, big gap there), they really cannot relate on many levels (music, culture, experiences, etc.), typically, so it really doesn't tend to work out. There are exceptions to every rule out there though.
    I think that it's best people grow up with each other and stay together at roughly the same age. That is where it's likely the bond will remain strong; they're not strangers to each other then, but feel like life (past and present) partners, not just two strangers who've been through a lot over the last 10-15 years and finally met, yet cannot really relate to them on a deep level. It's just different.
    The sooner (high school sweethearts?) you hook up with someone with plans to stay together for life, the better, imo.

  • @amdperacha
    @amdperacha 8 лет назад

    Yafa is so handsome. And he seems like a kind person.

  • @ShawnieEllis
    @ShawnieEllis 8 лет назад +8

    It shouldn't matter so long as the other person is legal. I think people miss out on an amazing person from limiting themselves. "Age is just a number and a number aint nothing but a thang." How a person treats you and if care for them, funk what society has to say about it.

  • @timlada7760
    @timlada7760 2 года назад

    The host has a very good personality

  • @Mizzanonymousx
    @Mizzanonymousx 8 лет назад +1

    his voice is beauts

  • @jjsan27
    @jjsan27 8 лет назад

    Haha that blonde girl was digging you Yafa!

  • @pivotkid85
    @pivotkid85 9 лет назад

    i'm 19 so at the moment i have a three year limit. if she is beyond three years older then shes too old, if shes below three years younger then shes too young. I'd rather stick to my generation and date people that i can relate to. maybe when i get past 30 years old i will expand the limit.

  • @OJViews
    @OJViews 9 лет назад

    I prefer the around same age, priorities are likely to be somewhat similar in terms of stages in life. wouldn't want to feel like a parent or feel like a child in a relationship

  • @Renkk17
    @Renkk17 6 лет назад

    I read somewhere that there is a formula for the youngest you should go in age to still be able to get along......take your age, divide it in half, and add 7
    Eg: 50 year old divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32 youngest you should go
    30 divided by 2 = 15 + 7 = 22 youngest you should go .....etc....
    40 divided by 2 = 20 + 7 = 27
    60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37

  • @silasdietrich7464
    @silasdietrich7464 9 лет назад +1

    I could go either way, I'm 24 male and would go down to 18 just as long as we connect. Around 30 I would go up to.

  • @leak4153
    @leak4153 8 лет назад

    but the question is..how old is yafa?

  • @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx
    @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx 8 лет назад

    MI wouldn't go for ppl who are younger like 2-3 years, it's weird but if they're mature that's fine 😊

  • @mason4127
    @mason4127 8 лет назад +1

    the problem here is even if women prefer someone more mature men don't get mature we are just bigger kids

  • @savagelychill2858
    @savagelychill2858 8 лет назад +1

    I like your videos bro. But just an observation. Use your natural voice. Also no need to over pronounce words.

  • @missovercomer2488
    @missovercomer2488 9 лет назад +1

    Basically demeanor ranks higher than actual age. I have the 3 years rule. You can be 3 years older or younger.

    • @missovercomer2488
      @missovercomer2488 9 лет назад +1

      Basically someone on the same level as me so we can grow together. Its no fun if they have done all their growing and I have to play catch up.

  • @user-rq6rp6rg4r
    @user-rq6rp6rg4r 8 лет назад

    That Jacob guy with the long hair was hot as hell

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 7 лет назад

    Great vid. I would date a younger guy(9/10 younger) because I have always been with younger guys, and because I look young myself.

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 5 лет назад

    nice vox pop

  • @Bill-py1fn
    @Bill-py1fn 7 лет назад +1

    it depends entirely on the individual. there are always exceptions at nearly any age.

  • @yougottamfchill.8042
    @yougottamfchill.8042 6 лет назад

    My crush is one month older than me😐
    Does it matter?

  • @danacol__7574
    @danacol__7574 9 лет назад +1

    Guys definitely usually secretly prefer younger women.When I tell older guys my age they become so much more interested

  • @bobsyauncle1746
    @bobsyauncle1746 8 лет назад

    this guy's a geezer

  • @MarsealuvzU
    @MarsealuvzU 9 лет назад

    I'm 18 and would possibly date someone a year younger than me and I've dated someone who is four years older than me and I would possibly date someone up to seven years older then me depending on their personality and maturity level. Though keep in mind most people think I'm around 21 so those difference don't seem like as big a gap as it might to others.

  • @hop208
    @hop208 9 лет назад

    I thought the general rule for dating someone younger than you was to divide your age by 2 and then add 7. So as a 28 year old (28/2=14. 14+7=21) The absolute youngest person I should date would be 21 years old. Although that seems too young to me personally. I think I would go no younger than 24 and no older than 35.

  • @SilentCheechGaming1991
    @SilentCheechGaming1991 8 лет назад +10

    Im 24 and i prefer women from around 26-35. Too much drama and bullshit with younger women.

    • @lovelyxskinny
      @lovelyxskinny 8 лет назад

      well said

    • @user-dm7ex1gs4v
      @user-dm7ex1gs4v 8 лет назад

      For sex, i agree with you.
      In a serious relationship and marriage, men must be older.
      Read about the -divorce statistics.

    • @user-dm7ex1gs4v
      @user-dm7ex1gs4v 8 лет назад

      +Σπαρτιάτης Εθνικιστής
      I am 35, for sex i don't care about age, if the girl looks nice.
      For serious relationship and marriage, i prefer 27-28
      By the way, although i am big and muscular, they tell me i look under 30.

    • @bluecozade2922
      @bluecozade2922 8 лет назад +1

      not all younger women are full of drama. you just probably go for the wrong ones that are younger.

    • @olie0561
      @olie0561 7 лет назад

      ye same

  • @MuresanVladMihail
    @MuresanVladMihail 9 лет назад +1

    Since I'm 17 my max would be around 19-20 and min 15

  • @RockaholicGirl323
    @RockaholicGirl323 7 лет назад

    I like them a year younger but have to be mature.. or my age. If they are older they have to look young and have the same mentality level as me. :) and of course chemistry is everything.

  • @jayjasperjp
    @jayjasperjp 8 лет назад

    I prefer exact same age.

  • @BlueSky-qv7cd
    @BlueSky-qv7cd 8 лет назад +9

    The more money a man has , the less his age matters.

  • @oo4758
    @oo4758 8 лет назад

    No more than five years younger no more than ten years older for me.
    But when I was younger and saw the lord of the rings, then witnessed Hugo Weaving as Elrond, I developed a major crush on him(Elrond)😘.

  • @Inumiko
    @Inumiko 9 лет назад

    I prefer my age or at the most 5 years older than me. I might date him if he is a year younger than me, depending on maturity level.

  • @joshstruck7669
    @joshstruck7669 9 лет назад

    Dude with red hat and dude with long hair are high af

  • @1234567twenty
    @1234567twenty 9 лет назад

    I dated an older girl, about 6 years older. The major problem was that she was condescending the entire way through, as if my wisdom was less than hers no matter what due to our age gap.

    • @barbanegra8560
      @barbanegra8560 9 лет назад +1

      peacebypiece lol

    • @1234567twenty
      @1234567twenty 9 лет назад +1

      barba negra so mean lol, whyre you laughing. she was great, aside from the occasional attitude, it was a good relationship.

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 6 лет назад

    i'm a girl and i would prefer a guy my age. If i had to choose between older and younger i'd pick older.

  • @AaYy0o
    @AaYy0o 8 лет назад

    I get asked out by guys 15 years younger than me all the time. When I tell them how old I am, they don't believe me and want to date me anyway, but guys that young aren't looking to settle down, so nope.

    • @InfectedoOG
      @InfectedoOG 8 лет назад

      Well, how old are you?

    • @AaYy0o
      @AaYy0o 8 лет назад

      39 :)

    • @mic9check
      @mic9check 8 лет назад

      +A Yo "When I tell them how old I am, they don't believe me and want to date me anyway," blah blah blah lol

  • @Bloxyz
    @Bloxyz 9 лет назад

    2:46 words!

  • @allthingspinkandlovly5340
    @allthingspinkandlovly5340 7 лет назад

    older doesn't always mean more mature in 2yrs younger and 4 yrs older

  • @bjtibbs6436
    @bjtibbs6436 8 лет назад +1

    I'd probably rather date someone a few years older. Guys my age just don't have their shit together.

  • @amandawagner4657
    @amandawagner4657 4 года назад

    I'm 48.To me age doesn't matter.I would date younge ,same ,or older. So long as you are 2 consenting adults and there is an attraction between both of you.Why should it matter?

  • @irimfiaz951
    @irimfiaz951 8 лет назад +4

    You can drink at 18 in the UK

    • @xxJustinsTutsxx
      @xxJustinsTutsxx 8 лет назад

      In the EU you can drink at 18. And in asia too.

    • @AmandaDel20
      @AmandaDel20 8 лет назад +2

      And in Brazil

    • @divinest
      @divinest 6 лет назад +1

      and in everywhere else except US

    • @Renkk17
      @Renkk17 6 лет назад

      and in Canada

  • @ariannawelch2115
    @ariannawelch2115 7 лет назад

    uh well i'd want to date someone the same age as me or barley older. like i'm 14 and the oldest i'd date is a 16 year old. wait that sounded bad..

  • @ThisIsMissCheeky
    @ThisIsMissCheeky 9 лет назад

    I would prefer a guy who's older I've actually never been attracted to a guy my age or younger. Maybe because a guy my age or younger are still growing and going through puberty.

  • @mackenziedube2640
    @mackenziedube2640 8 лет назад

    as a 15 year old girl I would rather date someone older... not to much older but maybe 2 or 3 years limit. same age is okay too

  • @ilovetheseventies6461
    @ilovetheseventies6461 8 лет назад +6

    yafa is fine

  • @jessethornsbury3035
    @jessethornsbury3035 8 лет назад

    10 years older

  • @no213
    @no213 9 лет назад

    Yafa a majority of these women be totally showing interest towards you…

  • @Rapturo_to_YESHUA
    @Rapturo_to_YESHUA 9 лет назад

    I think women misinterpret high testosterone levels in men as "immature", but men are like this for a reason: we are the hunters with high energy. We're not typically into boring stuff like sitting around all calm and 'chatting' about things for hours.
    Many guys can do it, yes, but most would probably rather do high energy activities if they could. If you were to look at stereotypes then males are way more into sports activities, mountain climbing, doing pranks and etc. We have to release this energy. We're not in our natural habitat in the wild while in this modern society. The wild is where this energy would be put to good use for hours at a time. In this society, it's way too controlled.
    Once people look at how we're naturally supposed to live, in the wild, then the answers will be easier to grasp onto for why men and women think and act a certain way.

  • @crookedmouthcampbell6459
    @crookedmouthcampbell6459 6 лет назад +1

    I would never date somebody that was younger than me, I think because I would always have a suspicious mind. Ye I have trust issues lol

  • @olie0561
    @olie0561 7 лет назад +1

    I prefer older girls. I think its better

  • @hneezy10
    @hneezy10 9 лет назад +1

    it doesnt matter what age b/c sex is just sex

  • @walkerschouviller5349
    @walkerschouviller5349 9 лет назад

    I would rather date someone younger because they are more fun to talk to

  • @CaapriceTube1
    @CaapriceTube1 8 лет назад +5

    I DATED A 38 YEAR OLD WHEN I WAS 21,
    I LIKE OLDER MEN. OR YOUNGER GUYS WHO ARE MATURE

  • @gabrielleabraham5773
    @gabrielleabraham5773 7 лет назад

    I would date someone about the same age as me for preference why it's to the point where we would be in similar stages of our life.

  • @valenciameredith3364
    @valenciameredith3364 9 лет назад

    Older for sure

    • @kpnxtra7894
      @kpnxtra7894 4 года назад

      Valencia Meredith explain

  • @amandawagner4657
    @amandawagner4657 4 года назад

    *younger I can't type apparently.

  • @sangyalchoedongyalthang3094
    @sangyalchoedongyalthang3094 7 лет назад

    Older.

  • @Lagniprimatte
    @Lagniprimatte 9 лет назад

    Yaya's voice started getting real fake...

  • @DOMSKEE75
    @DOMSKEE75 9 лет назад

    No less than 18 and no more than 58. That's just me lol

  • @bluecozade2922
    @bluecozade2922 8 лет назад +2

    if someone is mature and decent their age shouldn't matter smh age obsession is low.
    I swear I'm just against every sort of thing 90%! of people have strong opinions on.

  • @shad0wzilla383
    @shad0wzilla383 9 лет назад

    No older than 21

  • @NoName718.
    @NoName718. 9 лет назад +1

    Look how she looks at him at 4:50 lol... That's a guaranteed smash if he picked up on it.

  • @jasonburris9576
    @jasonburris9576 7 лет назад

    I'd rather date someone younger than me, thats just my preference

  • @emmanuelchristopher4148
    @emmanuelchristopher4148 8 лет назад +1

    PHILOSOPHICALLY: There is "Chronological Age", defined as your birth date. "Biologic/Physiologic Age" is how old your body and mind actually is. The latter is your true age. If you are 61, feel in your heart and act like a 40 y/o, and really can "Pass" (Physically) for 40s, then you can say you are 40. 40 IS THE NEW 60. Age is a mind set thing. No person should place a boundary on age when it comes to love, or friendship. There is really nothing as "Time" in the Cosmos. Time is man made. The caveat is NOT TO BREAK THE LAW with respect to minors. A 100 year old man can get with a legal age female of 18, if there is SINCERE mutual CONSENT, and attraction. Socially bizarre , yes, but if works for both who cares. If 80-90 y/o rich wealthy men can marry models in their 20s, then an average man in good health should be able to do the same, Somehow, society hypocritically wants to exempt those men based on power, wealth, or influence, which is BS.
    PRACTICALLY: If the guy or woman looks good, and they are both very attracted to each other, they should go for it if they're really drawn to one another unless for some extenuating circumstances it is not practical. Sometimes a young woman may want to start a family and would like both parents to be around to see their great grand children together. So she keeps the age difference narrow. If that is not a concern other factors such as family member objections, and threats of isolation, outcast, etc. get in the way. My inclination is a woman over 40-45 can date/marry any man above her age without limit, and down to any age over 18 for sex, and over mid 20s for companionship, depending on what she wants out of the relationship.
    Both sides could use the ages of their children, or parents as guidelines to avoid heated/intense criticisms. For sex, any combination of legal ages b/w 18 to 120 should work as long as everybody is on board. For public socializing it's pretty much do wtf you want based on your particular situation. No "One shoe fits all" type of sh*t here.

  • @carlosbeltran2198
    @carlosbeltran2198 9 лет назад

    Older are better

  • @ill-fatedantidote
    @ill-fatedantidote 8 лет назад

    I'm 19 and the oldest I'd go for would be 41. But I wouldn't dare go out with someone younger than me, even by a year.

  • @guysparks
    @guysparks 8 лет назад

    Since I'm 48 and my current is 22, ...-YOUNGER!!!!!