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  • @nijojonsons
    @nijojonsons  2 года назад +78

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    • @sanjaybhatt1203
      @sanjaybhatt1203 Год назад +2

      Hi sar

    • @seemabrahma6872
      @seemabrahma6872 Год назад +5

      Am also suffering this problem..Don't know how to get rid of this from my life

    • @sumbulnaz5180
      @sumbulnaz5180 Год назад +6

      It happens with me too.. He can’t take stand for me even I have done love marriage with him but after marriage I realised I lost all d ways of happiness and smile due to my mother in law & sis in law controlling and manipulative nature.. My husband who used to love me a lot before marriage now hé don’t feels anything for me due to their constant manipulation, they always tried to to find my fault and bring me down before him.. I wish and pray meri shadi chal jaye, wherever I read this kind of comments or story I came to know their marriage ends soon.. Please pray for me meri chal jaye

    • @shwetarai9827
      @shwetarai9827 8 месяцев назад +1

      this link is not working. Do you provide personal counseling as well?

    • @ShalinisharmaSharma123
      @ShalinisharmaSharma123 8 месяцев назад +2

      Help me sir/mam

  • @nikisharma1006
    @nikisharma1006 Год назад +206

    It’s a miracle mother in law realising her mistake nd husband makin her realise .. 😅n reality this rarely happens

    • @ThejeshwiniRamesh
      @ThejeshwiniRamesh 6 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah

    • @Eastwindwards
      @Eastwindwards 6 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly , I know right? Mother in laws with old fashion ideals, that are so deeply ingrained into their beliefs, can only “act sweet” for a few days, at best. I had to walk out. My mental health deteriorated so much in six “insult laden” weeks. She was a petulant pariah. 30 years later, she is 86, totally defeated and deflated. She never managed to get her claws into me. We live away from them. When the time comes and they need help, THEIR own daughter can care for them. They financially exploited me for 30 years.. but that’s another story 😒

    • @neelamsharma6078
      @neelamsharma6078 3 месяца назад

      Dramebaji nothing else

    • @s.varshini2777
      @s.varshini2777 3 месяца назад +1

      It never happen in reality..... We cant change people

    • @viraa-tara3182
      @viraa-tara3182 2 месяца назад +2

      It never happens in reality.. Man never realises...

  • @somprabharajpoot4617
    @somprabharajpoot4617 2 года назад +700

    Thankfully this husband took a stand for his wife but in reality, even the husbands are mumma’s boy and spoil their marriages. It happened with me and many others.
    Hope such videos may bring changes in the society.

    • @yc_8088
      @yc_8088 2 года назад +6

      Right

    • @anarkalimamta3448
      @anarkalimamta3448 2 года назад +6

      Very true

    • @tribikramdas2181
      @tribikramdas2181 2 года назад +10

      Am I at liberty to call my wife papa's girl because if she always talks about our personal lives to her father? Unfortunately, you will call me misogynist.

    • @poornimac3127
      @poornimac3127 2 года назад +14

      Right as u said in real life husband's r maamas boys knodding head they won't open there mouth it goes to such a level that they r even forced to divorce and re marriage also then only they realize same thing is repeating with her also that time they will stand 4 it why don't they do this before only because of them two girl families has to suffer and most of them end there life by taking wrong decisions

    • @tribikramdas2181
      @tribikramdas2181 2 года назад +2

      @@poornimac3127 So you started assuming all boys are mamas' boys for which divorce are happening. Well do you know in India divorce rate is less than 1%? And brutal truth that when husband of a woman will say that her parents are interfering in their personal lives, mostly wife's mother, then wife will pack all her belongings and simply will go to her parental home.
      In such situation, woman will like you call that husband misogynist because he said that her mother is interfering too much. This is what exactly happened with my maternal uncle. My mother is fed up with such type of feminism. She tells me real woman are those who are rani laxmi bai, amitra pritam fought for independence. This is what my mother tells me that these women are real feminists.
      Stop presuming boys are mamma's boys and dowry seeker otherwise woman will call me as well as boys as misogynist if we say that girls are gold diggers and treat boys as an ATM machine.

  • @sindhikaarigari
    @sindhikaarigari 2 года назад +285

    I recently got divorced because of same situations... That daughter-in-laws are nothing but just house maids.
    I suffered this mentality in 21st century for 4 yrs... And finally left the house... But that husband never helped me liked the husband in this video. That man instead divorced me rather than to hire a maid 💔
    I loved him but now I don't have a single penny regret of leaving him.
    To make a marriage work is not only woman's responsibility, man is equally responsible to maintain the dignity of the relationship.

    • @mona9096
      @mona9096 2 года назад +25

      I also want divorce but dar lagta hai

    • @sindhikaarigari
      @sindhikaarigari Год назад +29

      @@mona9096 if your life and health is at risk, be brave. May God always bless you.

    • @deadshotjet3476
      @deadshotjet3476 Год назад +17

      @@mona9096 agar aap ke saath aap ke gharwale aur husband achche nahi rehte tho mere hisab se alag hona chahiye baad mai bahot pachtana padhta hai mai apn personal experience bata rahi hu

    • @priya-jk
      @priya-jk Год назад +5

      Stay strong

    • @Satisfying_vidzz
      @Satisfying_vidzz Год назад +5

      Right

  • @surmit100
    @surmit100 2 года назад +655

    It happens only in shows not realities. In laws never apologise or nor even try to understand opposite side's feelings.

  • @lostboy1190
    @lostboy1190 2 года назад +149

    The prominent problem of Indian Parenting is that they enter into their children's marriage life 24×7 hours. In this way, one can never be independent and can never learn the proper way of living. So, just let them live their life and live your own life freely. If their son/daughter are happy with their spouse, then let them be in a pure harmony state.

    • @Akashsingh-xj6td
      @Akashsingh-xj6td 2 года назад +1

      Agar itni permission dedi in laws ne to yahi bahu fijul kharcha karegi..
      Aur jab apka beta uski jarurate puri nhi kar payega to fir ladai aur extra marital affairs..
      This is bitter truth why people don't want to accept this

    • @anweshabhatta5951
      @anweshabhatta5951 2 года назад +8

      @@Akashsingh-xj6td Hr insan extra kharcha nhi krta bohot sari bat aurte hi ghr ka saving krti hai apko nhi pta aur ha inlaws samjhaye advice de finances ko lekr to thik hai pr aise hitler bnkr mere hisab se hi chlna pdega ye bohot glt bat hai aur ha ye bat ap kbhi nhi smjhoge kyuki ap ldke ho apko khi to jna nhi hai

    • @aijazfatima1234
      @aijazfatima1234 Год назад

      True

    • @ANJALI-hs6bb
      @ANJALI-hs6bb Год назад +5

      @@Akashsingh-xj6td ajkal ladkiyan bhi job karti h bhai aur bhot se husbands ko to problem hi nhi h apni wife pe paise kharch karne me kyunki wo dikhana chahte h ki wo unko kitna khush rakh rhe h yahan tak ki mene dekha hai bhot se logo ko apni wife ko zabardasti mehngi chizey lene bolte h taaki unka standard na gire.
      Fizul kharchi ki itni chinta h to wife bhi kaam karle wo phir apne paise apni zarurat ke liye use kar payegi to husband ko bhi problem nhi hogi lekin nhi inhe to problem h bhot badi wali ek to chahenge ki hi-fi bahu ho aur paisa kharch hoga to usme bhi rona h

    • @madhavprasad3824
      @madhavprasad3824 Год назад +1

      I am struggling same to manage my mom listen to my sister at the same time my wife listen to her mother they both allowing outside people to interfere with their life's.

  • @jb9201
    @jb9201 8 месяцев назад +4

    All it takes is respect and humanity for someone to feel valued

  • @vaijayantideshpande5189
    @vaijayantideshpande5189 2 года назад +323

    Mother in law realised her mistake only when she had to do all house hold work 🤣

  • @anjaninandibhotla8877
    @anjaninandibhotla8877 2 года назад +110

    Here the husband understood what his mom is doing..but mostly it doesn't happen like that.. every one feels that their moms are right and tend to control the wife along with mil. Hopefully this video brings changes in peoples lives.

  • @sapna_creation1
    @sapna_creation1 2 года назад +278

    It's very important for girls and women to become independent and break the chain of patriarchy. We need to help each other in rising 😊😊

    • @mishapillai9414
      @mishapillai9414 Год назад +10

      Yes. Women should support each other

    • @gopalhatwal7245
      @gopalhatwal7245 Год назад

      apaki bhabhi bhi yahi bol rahi thi ki bhabhi ka Ghar nhi basne deti
      Inki bhudi maa aur sadiual sa bhudha baap pada rehta hai bhabhi n bhabhi ki chhati par.. marte bhi dono bhudha

    • @monikabarbie7453
      @monikabarbie7453 Год назад +12

      Aurat ki dushman aurat hi hoti h

    • @Anonomus007
      @Anonomus007 Год назад +2

      ​@@monikabarbie7453 aapke sath shadi ke bad agr ye sb hua to😂

    • @annsgal2025
      @annsgal2025 Год назад

      The mother-in-laws apology stemmed from selfish motivations, and was opportunistic. If I was the daughter-in-law, I would have filed for divorce because the MIL is an evil bitch at heart.

  • @aryanverma6143
    @aryanverma6143 2 года назад +192

    This is reality and that is the reason for the most of the divorces. Care is good but controlling someone life is worst.

    • @dharmawatieautar6857
      @dharmawatieautar6857 2 года назад +11

      You are right. The lady married the son not the mother in law.

    • @jerryandme
      @jerryandme 2 года назад +8

      So true. And it is mama's boys who usually have divorces.

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад

      @@dharmawatieautar6857soon they will have a child . Daughter in law will go back to work and mother in law will be free house maid

  • @naomilazar4765
    @naomilazar4765 2 года назад +402

    The moment he said he cannot say no to his mother...she should have asked who she is marrying and walked off.

    • @kashish9285
      @kashish9285 2 года назад +80

      Momma’s boys are a curse to marriages 😒

    • @Jenny_Mitter
      @Jenny_Mitter 2 года назад +11

      Exactly

    • @rad4217
      @rad4217 2 года назад +14

      Aren't you overreacting he seems a nice guy atleast he took a stand for her and agreed to help her financially as well it's just that he respects his mother and I don't think it's wrong you are just overreacting

    • @sakshi2366
      @sakshi2366 2 года назад +46

      @@rad4217 it's not overreacting, imagine if a girl's family demand that the boy leaves his job & sit at home & the wife will take care of their financial expenses. Career & job is not just for money, it's for independence too. And by the video, they (husband,wife) have already talked about job.

    • @ashwinmiyer6159
      @ashwinmiyer6159 2 года назад

      @@sakshi2366 boys have the exact opposite pressure from society, in laws of men often taunt them for not earning much.

  • @jinendra.jain1588
    @jinendra.jain1588 2 года назад +31

    It happens only on screen, not in real life.
    Nobody changes and realises own mistakes so soon.
    It's Harsh truth of real life.

  • @sujalkapiswe6829
    @sujalkapiswe6829 2 года назад +197

    Best move by the daughter-in-law👏👏, the happiness which we saw in the last part is possible only when people understand that they bring their daughter-in-law in house, not an all-time free maid

    • @luckyreddy360
      @luckyreddy360 2 года назад +5

      Thank you bro for understanding womens

    • @sakshibagga3771
      @sakshibagga3771 Год назад

      They want DILs to do full time job and be their slave all the time.

    • @johnparbhu5128
      @johnparbhu5128 Год назад

      Spend so much time getting educated & mother in law, shut down ur life after that!! Can't risk that with a girl in the West!!! Anyway, the M I L could be employed too!!

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад

      @@luckyreddy360soon the mother in law will be the free house maid

  • @Purvihdave
    @Purvihdave Год назад +41

    I still feel she wanted her back because there was so much work and she couldn't do all by herself !! Every mother in law wants only a unpaid maid for their family and son!! Nothing more!!

    • @vijrever2770
      @vijrever2770 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah husband realized mom is old and is not a wife. And mom realized that she is getting old and can fool daughter in law by talking sweet and making her do all the household work anyway.

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад

      @@vijrever2770soon daughter in law will produce a child and go back to work and mother in law will be treated like free house maid

    • @vijrever2770
      @vijrever2770 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@wowser2153 not this mil. She is smart enough to escape. That’s why her son got his wife back because his mom won’t cook even for him. They want the wife as a maid.

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@vijrever2770 but in the end they showed daughter in law goes to work and mother in law serving food 😀

    • @vijrever2770
      @vijrever2770 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@wowser2153 that’s bad too. I didn’t notice that. Replacing one woman slave for another. Why does anyone have to serve food. The man can also do some cooking after work or employ a maid helper or at least wash vessels. Anyway this is all fake and life goes through cycles.

  • @nabanita26
    @nabanita26 Год назад +418

    Couples need to have an independent separate household, and parents need to be mentally prepared for it before the marriage.

    • @Satisfying_vidzz
      @Satisfying_vidzz Год назад +6

      Right

    • @akshaymundkur
      @akshaymundkur Год назад +7

      @@nishabojammma8268
      I am not sure if I can agree.
      Trust me. Living together with in-laws does breed resentment in the long run.
      A newly wed couple prefers to live life on their own terms and build a life together.
      It is better to let them do exactly that.

    • @monikabarbie7453
      @monikabarbie7453 Год назад +15

      This is india ...uha aisi soch bnane me abhi hazaro saal lg jayege

    • @Soumyameghani
      @Soumyameghani Год назад +10

      Really ?
      Your parents raised you most of your life
      And you won't do anything for them
      How selfish could you be
      You can make adjustments with your parents as well as your partner's parents
      Leaving your parents alone on their own is the worst thing to do

    • @SAM-NITP
      @SAM-NITP Год назад +3

      ​@@Soumyameghani aggreed

  • @sangeetakulkarni8770
    @sangeetakulkarni8770 2 года назад +1429

    It's difficult to live with a husband who is a Mama's boy.

    • @tribikramdas2181
      @tribikramdas2181 2 года назад +91

      It's also difficult to live with a wife who is a papa's girl.

    • @tribikramdas2181
      @tribikramdas2181 2 года назад +34

      @@deepthyhemanth Once a papa ki pari is always a papa ki pari !! until her father dies her husband will have no justice. Sounds misogynist right. Don't forget your statements is completely misandrist.

    • @farhat517
      @farhat517 2 года назад +137

      @@tribikramdas2181 papa ki pariya sirf apne ghar me pari hoti hai,, apke ghr aake waise bhi usko naukrani bana diya jata hai, but muma's boy ka kya .?? Naha ke khud ka towel tak jagha pe rakh nhi pate due to mother's pampering...

    • @tribikramdas2181
      @tribikramdas2181 2 года назад +24

      @Riya So according to same logic, a man also tolerates a stranger woman who will come to live with him permanently. He will have to buy properties in order to get respected by society for which they will say that it is duty of man to maintain his wife.
      You know the problem of men is that we don't create ruckus in society when we have abusive wife.

    • @indiangirl001
      @indiangirl001 2 года назад +73

      @@tribikramdas2181 you are probably hurt or broken.. Nothing else brings so much hate towards women.. I have seen your other comments too.. Or you certainly are mammas boy

  • @simaranmahajan681
    @simaranmahajan681 2 года назад +58

    All mother's in law are like this only. Mine doesn't allow me to go and meet my parents. They refuse to let us enjoy our basic human rights. Everything we do, they hate. Her son cannot give her a grandchild, so she is taking spites on me. I hope God never forgives her for this.

    • @priyannanoeline1483
      @priyannanoeline1483 2 года назад +6

      Please don't generalize. Not all mothers in law are bad. Some are really good and caring. My mom in law is so loving and caring. She loves me just like her own daughter and she treats me the same way she treats her sons.

    • @PoojaVaidya1111
      @PoojaVaidya1111 2 года назад +16

      ​@@priyannanoeline1483 good for u. Aisi log hardly 5% hai india mai

    • @madhavprasad3824
      @madhavprasad3824 Год назад +2

      Sorry for your situation one should not behave like that but at the same time you do self analysis for the reason they are behaving like it because maybe you are allowing your mother so much by any chance. I know you feel bad by listening that your mom case but in most cases Indian girls unknowingly listen to her mother which is definitely not good. Like you expect that husband should have own decision and independece you should also maintain limit with your parents. You should not expect in one way that husband family should not interfere but it's ok your parents and siblings interfere. It is the main reason why so many marriage is in trouble today.

    • @md.suhail8181
      @md.suhail8181 Год назад +5

      Yeah I think bride and groom should live themselves .....not with parents.......the groom is not living with his father/mother in law

    • @ishika1818
      @ishika1818 Год назад

      Can you leave sis ?

  • @priyannanoeline1483
    @priyannanoeline1483 2 года назад +212

    I am very lucky that I have got an amazing mother in law ❤️ She is caring, supportive and open minded.

    • @srushtichavan19
      @srushtichavan19 2 года назад +5

      same here dea 🥰

    • @subhashjha8689
      @subhashjha8689 2 года назад

      @@srushtichavan19 ⁵,

    • @pranayabannoth1578
      @pranayabannoth1578 2 года назад +3

      Lucky u r

    • @jagrutibhat1384
      @jagrutibhat1384 2 года назад +6

      @@pranayabannoth1578 you got but not every daughter in law gets such good mother in law even me n my mom had got evil torturing husband n torturing mother in law 👊😡👊

    • @pranayabannoth1578
      @pranayabannoth1578 2 года назад

      @@jagrutibhat1384 may i know you?

  • @sudharaman4405
    @sudharaman4405 2 года назад +26

    Thank God finally 👍if every mother-in-law understand the feelings of daughter-in-law then there will be no problem at all. 🙏🙏

  • @harikakota9329
    @harikakota9329 2 года назад +68

    In most of the cases mother in law and sister in law will spoil the home....they will create so much nonsense and daughter in law will suffer

    • @mona9096
      @mona9096 2 года назад +8

      In my case my brother in law .

    • @pinkyrajput2607
      @pinkyrajput2607 Год назад +3

      Exactly

    • @elsa2885
      @elsa2885 Год назад +1

      Hence get a separate house .

    • @AnneX59
      @AnneX59 Год назад +2

      Yesss and if the victim bahu reacts she's demonized as a home breaker or tagged as a trouble maker.

    • @ArkritiRana
      @ArkritiRana 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@AnneX59😢

  • @misbahpathan4968
    @misbahpathan4968 2 года назад +63

    In videos, in the end everything comes back to normalcy.. They even realise their mistake. But, in reality, nothing sort of thing happen.. They just feel this as their priority.. Husband's support also matters, not all husband are like this.

    • @wg3951
      @wg3951 Год назад +1

      They don’t care and have zero realization.

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад

      @@wg3951this was a love marriage, so husband was understanding

  • @NirajSingh-ym4yi
    @NirajSingh-ym4yi 2 года назад +34

    Atleast in this story the mother in law and husband understand the lady's pain bt in reality no one even try to understand....they believe in making us proof wrong.

  • @merlynmenezes_0106
    @merlynmenezes_0106 2 года назад +35

    Very good move by the daughter in law to get the mother in law to her senses...

  • @shafishafi339
    @shafishafi339 2 года назад +19

    from South to North the mentality of most of the mother in laws are like this. very few exception.

  • @saritareddydonthi1432
    @saritareddydonthi1432 Год назад +14

    They not only control , but also get her shamed. Abused and also evicted !
    They trap you with motherhood as a vulnerable condition!
    They take away everything from you !

    • @kiki__-ch2em
      @kiki__-ch2em 5 месяцев назад

      This happened to me indirectly. My father in law refused to pay his grandchildren’s school fees even though my husband worked for him. All my money went to the school . I was penniless for 17 years. Now I stay away from them. They are elderly and need a carer. I stay away. Let them suffer. Let them spend the money that I subsidised on their business ( about £100,000 over 17 years) on a nursemaid, cook, cleaner, gardner and whatever other service they surely expected of me!
      I am getting a lot of hostility from their daughter because she has to care for them. I DON’T CARE. My husband agrees with me that it was wrong to financially abuse me over the years but says it was out of his control. He has no balls when it comes to his parents, so I grew some balls instead. I’m not going to care for my abusers who didn’t give a fuck about my poor quality of life due to having no money. They did ZERO for me. I have no security apart from my parent’s inheritance, and they are trying to get their greedy fingers on that too!😒

  • @shrutijain2019
    @shrutijain2019 2 года назад +18

    Itne supportive and understanding husbands are rare to find

  • @lay6745
    @lay6745 2 года назад +19

    Parents should learn to be independent and teach children to be independent. Children should help parents too depending on situation. Raise children with love and proper discipline and be a role model to your own children.

  • @gaurika1000
    @gaurika1000 2 года назад +19

    The way the mil says- join back your job. As if the job was waiting for her. She would again have to start job hunting and may be start from a lower salary because she is out of a job & has lost her bargaining power . Its difficult to live with such dominating people .

  • @jayalakshmikonatala7031
    @jayalakshmikonatala7031 2 года назад +48

    But all daughter in law cannot leave the house they are dependent and face it daily..... adjustment in the name of love

    • @Doggo491
      @Doggo491 2 года назад +7

      let husband also adjust its love right

    • @jagrutibhat1384
      @jagrutibhat1384 2 года назад

      @@Doggo491 this 😡😡bloody husbands just torture harads their wives bloody monsters👹

    • @ss-qv6un
      @ss-qv6un Год назад

      I guess you are that type of MIL too or mostly a lady who suffered the same that you think it's normal

    • @aayushgupta8149
      @aayushgupta8149 4 месяца назад

      Husband should also adjust then.

  • @simranahuja.
    @simranahuja. 2 года назад +22

    The most irritating thing is why do women themselves want to downgrade other woman? Like Its sad your mother in law tortured you or women in your family never experienced freedom. Why do you want your daughter in law to go through the same?

    • @poonamshinde9597
      @poonamshinde9597 Год назад +2

      They are reflecting back their own traumas on to others

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 6 месяцев назад

      @@poonamshinde9597because when bahu goes to work the mother in law will be treated as free house maid

  • @bts_fiction653
    @bts_fiction653 Год назад +20

    No one should interfere between couples not even parents

  • @mrsrana5314
    @mrsrana5314 2 года назад +12

    God bless you for this video
    U teach us how to tackle this type of situation.

  • @dianalayne4803
    @dianalayne4803 2 года назад +21

    He should have been able to stand up for his wife and not let her be treated that way by his mom we all must adjust at one point it another

  • @happyalways2753
    @happyalways2753 3 месяца назад +2

    I have cried badly seeing this as I could remember all that happened with me 😢😢

  • @nitin9625
    @nitin9625 Год назад +12

    In India mothers in law are so dominating.. Especially the mother of the groom, over involvement of parents ruin the life of their kids. Every time they think they are right. I myself faced all this and finally my married life suffered a lot and it ended within 2 years. I believe live and let live. sorry if I hurt anybody's sentiment.

    • @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818
      @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818 2 месяца назад

      Husbands are the main culprit.Vo pehle se hi ahse hote hain,apna to dimag hota hain

    • @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818
      @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818 2 месяца назад

      For few months I have stopped talking to my inlaws .but husband ko koi fark hi nahi padta.

    • @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818
      @ramasa-meremammakikitchen3818 2 месяца назад

      Maine Baal shote karva liye to itna scene.he n his family.fir bolte Mari mamma tumhe apni beti samajti hain.tum kisi ki baat nahi sunta. jab aapko Sara din koi kosta rahe,how you will react you will loose confidence.i just want to rebuild my life.want to start career but really don't know where to start.

  • @elizabethsamuel2894
    @elizabethsamuel2894 2 года назад +82

    At least this husband spoke up for his wife.mines never does; I just sit and suffer all these years

  • @calcotitus
    @calcotitus 2 года назад +17

    Yeah right! How many mothers in law understand their daughters in law? This happens only in movies but not in reality!! Daughters in law will always have that pain in their heart till their last breath, that they left their own families to come to an indifferent environment where she is always made to feel like an outsider.

    • @ishika1818
      @ishika1818 Год назад +1

      when our generation eill become kother in law, they will understand. And i think there arw mother in law out there who do understand. They love their daughter in laws so much. Mother ib laws who are toxic just does not want to change or had no education on how to deal with their daughter in laws who is another human being. Or they are simply kuttis.

  • @banupriyar4173
    @banupriyar4173 2 года назад +11

    Leaving away Is a right choice.this is what the punishment for these kind of people.

  • @roshmiray674
    @roshmiray674 2 года назад +6

    This is one of the best 💯👍 short film tht I have ever seen... Keep it up guys..... And keep uploading short films like this... Every mother in laws should watch this kind of short films and learn something from these films...

  • @jumanahuzefa
    @jumanahuzefa 2 года назад +37

    Wish you had made this video 18 yrs back! It's like my story, I was pushed to the extent of taking my own life... Alhamdulillah I'm much better now.

    • @muskankhan74063
      @muskankhan74063 2 года назад

      Now ur mother in law is alive❓

    • @UmaJaiswalArtist
      @UmaJaiswalArtist Год назад

      what you did sister so everything got better ritenow i m suffering from all these

    • @ishika1818
      @ishika1818 Год назад

      ​@@UmaJaiswalArtistSister, if you married your husbanf because you both loved each other. It is okay. But if you re husband is normal that these things are happening, your husband does not respect you and love you the way he should. Leave him behind and move on with life. I know when it is a marriage, it is hard and especially if you are not financially stable or even due to attachment. but trust me, leaving that man is the best thing you can do to set YOUR life free. YOUR LIFE , YOU matter. Stop sacrificing your entire life for a husband who does not give a shit about you.

  • @AS-jo8qh
    @AS-jo8qh 4 месяца назад +3

    I have told my son to live in a separate house after marriage. I don't want all the saas bahu jhamela in my old age. I want peace

  • @sanalp.k4681
    @sanalp.k4681 2 года назад +3

    Wow..Here the person....The son..put the question beautifully...
    Ys..if this stand is taken... marriage is saved...

  • @syedaadeebafatima6666
    @syedaadeebafatima6666 Год назад +7

    It's not that easy to make people realise their faults..
    And if a girl leaves the husband's home this way, she'd better kiss him goodbye. Because this will surely lead to the end of the marriage.
    They won't realise it's their fault that she left the house. Instead they'll blame it all on her. She wasn't given proper upbringing, she's not worth it, whatnot. Things will get even worse.
    The husband that didn't take a stand for her in the first place, what makes you think he'll stand up for her when she's gone.
    Leaving will give the in laws more of an opportunity to brainwash the husband against the wife.
    Which will eventually lead to divorce, I guess.
    Whatever happens after, doesn't matter because the damage has been done.

  • @anushahegde9774
    @anushahegde9774 Год назад +5

    Sometimes I feel it is better to get married later in life by love marriage,or after reaching a deeper analysis of your spouse and their family through lots of meetings and pre marriage counseling,even intercaste or inter religious marriage is not a problem.Rather than sacrificing your self respect,your financial independence,rather than marrying a stranger or emotionally manipulative person or a flirt or a Mamas boy who is over pampered and then regretting it your whole life,it is better to proceed very carefully when getting married.Even staying single is a better option rather than staying in a constantly toxic and abusive marriage.Marraige is supposed to make you happy,bring out the best in both spouses otherwise it is more like a forced compromise

  • @vijayalakshmikarthik3503
    @vijayalakshmikarthik3503 2 года назад +14

    All your stories r eye openers.....👏👏

  • @moila04
    @moila04 Год назад +6

    If the mother in law treats ger daughter in law as her iwn daughter and us loving towards her, it us natural for the daughter to have a positive energy abd relationship and give that back.
    Respecting each other goes both ways. After marriage, both partners should keep close connections to both sides of the family.

  • @beachybird246
    @beachybird246 2 года назад +24

    This was quite a nice story👌👌👌

  • @PragatiVyas-p5u
    @PragatiVyas-p5u Год назад +3

    Sometime they stop daughter in law to meet her family and they think its there right.and this is not tolarable

  • @tarjinderkaur5437
    @tarjinderkaur5437 2 года назад +18

    My husband is also mumma's boy she always interfere in our talkings and life as well we can't even give time to each other that's why there are a lot of problems which I have to face
    She is such a greedy lady but never show to anyone and don't like my parents she always have problem from my every side and find the way by which we can get upset from each other never helps me in house chores but always show to Everyone that she is much tired by doing everything
    I tolerate all this only for my baby and my family but can't talk to anyone and that's my Life
    24*7 work work and work and then listen listen and listen though I m ill dead or whatever

  • @preran67492
    @preran67492 2 года назад +13

    Some time realisation is must
    But kuch logo ko apni galti pata hokar bhi realize na karna chahte balki they want us to manage them

  • @here2hear90
    @here2hear90 Год назад +2

    This man stood for her..but same men never stand

  • @neham5100
    @neham5100 2 года назад +7

    This does not happen in real life.. in real life husband would say.. if u r leaving then don’t ever come back.. stay at ur parents house itself..

  • @RhythmDivine1-g6j
    @RhythmDivine1-g6j 4 месяца назад +1

    I also suffered this cruelty in many forms - ended up broke almost a momth after marriage as i had to settle for a NRI. Initially I couldnt work due to visa restrictions,later he wouldnt cooperate . I was utterly exasperated when he wouldn't let me even attend my grandma's funeral or see her for one last time,saying it costs money to travel -while he could fully afford.His mother had other ways to torture whenever I visited their home in India .plenty of gifts for them and sister in law,worth hundreds of dollars.
    When I finally walked out to my parents home ,though they were unhappy ,they took me in . But it did not end there. I was pained on receiving court notices from him-and decided to end it once and for all after 12 years. Enough was enough.

  • @suriyakala3393
    @suriyakala3393 Год назад +3

    Mother in law is always a mother in law.. I don't understand why do they behave badly with daughter in laws. They also once daughter in law na? I have a boy and I am very conscious I should not repeat the same to my daughter in law in future.. they need privacy and should be ready to support whenever they required. Need to leave my ego.. that's it😊❤

  • @Linaelinaeya
    @Linaelinaeya Год назад +2

    That mother understood because she had the ability and the intellect to realize that at least later on, but most people do not have that ability

  • @kamexa29
    @kamexa29 2 года назад +7

    Real life me aisa koi nahi samjta. This is Real story bt half only.

  • @hello-xf5ow
    @hello-xf5ow Год назад +12

    NO GIRL SHOULD EVER LEAVE HOME AFTER MARRIAGE
    WHY GIRLS AND WHY NOT BOYS SHOULD LEAVE?? IF WE ARE EQUAL

  • @meghabansal3224
    @meghabansal3224 2 года назад +6

    I hate all those people who tries to control other's life

  • @jb9201
    @jb9201 8 месяцев назад +1

    Parents should not live with their full grown married children. Both need their own space and peace.

  • @faridakhan3687
    @faridakhan3687 2 года назад +6

    It doesn't matter how slow you go
    What matters is how long you don't stop..!!

  • @reemapadhan5660
    @reemapadhan5660 Год назад +1

    Beautiful video... Respect women

  • @HardeepKaur-zg1jh
    @HardeepKaur-zg1jh 2 года назад +6

    Mostly real life Mai yahi hota h this is a nice story'

  • @balajirs9171
    @balajirs9171 11 месяцев назад +1

    Well done Daughter in law 💯👌👍

  • @priyadamor5683
    @priyadamor5683 2 года назад +10

    I really don't understand that why can't elders can't apologize if they did wrong...if you have done mistake you have to apologise.. Even if you are a child or an elder person..

    • @sakshikochar3000
      @sakshikochar3000 2 года назад

      Because we show this to our children

    • @priyannanoeline1483
      @priyannanoeline1483 2 года назад +1

      True that. Once my aunt told me sorry for something and I told her to not say sorry because it doesn't look good but she told me that there is nothing wrong in apologizing if they have done a mistake even if they are older to us.

    • @priyadamor5683
      @priyadamor5683 2 года назад

      @@priyannanoeline1483 Really happy with what ur aunt did.. Mistake is a mistake..whosoever does it.. U shouldn't feel ashamed accepting your mistakes and apologising for that..

  • @jasshandilya.b1386
    @jasshandilya.b1386 6 месяцев назад +2

    Better to leave forever someone like this

  • @mitalipusti5028
    @mitalipusti5028 Год назад +5

    The same story was going on in my life and don't know how it's going to be end.

  • @hariniakula2272
    @hariniakula2272 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good message

  • @esakkirajamoopanar6289
    @esakkirajamoopanar6289 2 года назад +11

    Nice video 💪 🙏 with great messages.
    This vedio must be shown to oversmartness and Arrogant Mother-in - Laws who mistreat their daughter-in- Laws for their own selfish by snatching freedom and controlling like TV remote control everytime . Never make daughter-in-law life heal as she comes to husband's house with expect of getting
    Care , love ❤ , Happiness 😊 and stability from husband and their family 👪 members by leaving behind the lovely parents and siblings. If anyone tries to destroy the freedom , husband must stand up for wife or wife shoud stand up for husband find a positive steps to make life stable and throw away ego from relationships.
    Keep going NIJO!!🙂

  • @vishaldeshmukh9265
    @vishaldeshmukh9265 Год назад +2

    Nice act .. and very helpful. Thank you 😊

  • @shashicanth7285
    @shashicanth7285 2 года назад +4

    Amazing story and great message 👍🙏🏼

  • @ushathottan6785
    @ushathottan6785 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ego always destroy any goodness in oneself....

  • @farhanashabbir6565
    @farhanashabbir6565 2 года назад +9

    Everything in this video is correct except one thing "saas itni jaldi nhi sudharti"🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aakanshasaxena5247
    @aakanshasaxena5247 2 года назад +1

    Kash hr ldka ya hr husband shdi k bd itnaa hi supportive ho jya understanding ho jya apni wife ko smjha uska sth de to married life m ya ghr m koi problem hi na ho fr age sh m hatss off to this guy...jb usna apni wife k ly khud stand liya mummy k saamna 👍👍

  • @beenupandey9728
    @beenupandey9728 Год назад +3

    The simplest thing needed to be understood by everyone that girls don't born to only marry and take care of all household but she is also a human like men. Even after studying well, establishing career, they are questioned negatively if they are not good cook. Even if they are abused by someone in in-laws, they are expected to adjust and forget as mother in law explains how she adjusted after all insults she faced so so this is nothing and should move on. ... Girl after being pampered and loved by her parents see such kind of life and husband also cant take stand as he is also brought up same Way. A girl should choose a partner very very carefully and should meet the guy family as well.

    • @sakshibagga3771
      @sakshibagga3771 Год назад +1

      But its hard to judge the family before marriage..they always act sweet before marriage and will say "ise hum apni beto bnakar rkhenge".

  • @manishadhiman2611
    @manishadhiman2611 Год назад +3

    Girls need to be independent before and after marriage so dear mother in law please understand her feelings emotional

  • @clubmar7508
    @clubmar7508 Год назад +3

    Poor girl 😢 even my sister in law is like this . It took years to leave this toxicity

    • @kiki__-ch2em
      @kiki__-ch2em 5 месяцев назад

      Yes. Sister in laws are as toxic as their mothers 😣

  • @nithyan1890
    @nithyan1890 3 месяца назад

    I'm from tamilnadu.awsome.if this happens in every women's life.....she will be the happiest person in whole world 🌎.. nice..

  • @mvvkb
    @mvvkb Год назад +3

    It never happens in Indian society. In laws never apologize and husband never take a stand for his wife

  • @saritareddydonthi1432
    @saritareddydonthi1432 2 года назад +1

    Good that this mil understood her mistakes .. There are few who are ready to take your liabilities but will never understand your limitations… They dig problems for themselves and for their son and his wife too … Try to manipulate even her kids too … Like My Children are always my Children and .. your Children are my Grand Children … That is called Narcissistic Inlaws .. They even try to humiliate you and also try to malign your character….
    Solution … Build Boundaries and Break Barriers ….🇮🇳🙏🌎

  • @arunatolani
    @arunatolani 2 года назад +7

    He could have taken a balanced way . Though he promised his mom not to help her financially but he could have helped her from behind.

    • @xcrystalxo
      @xcrystalxo 2 года назад +2

      that still doesnt solve the problem..his mom should underher fault..how long will this going behind back last?

  • @BeenuSingh-sp1mv
    @BeenuSingh-sp1mv 4 месяца назад +1

    Adjust ek aisa word hai jiski limit decide hona bahut important hai

  • @anushka5746
    @anushka5746 2 года назад +11

    Ek aurat he aurat ki dushman haii aj ke time main 🙂

  • @Ananta_Shesha
    @Ananta_Shesha 2 года назад +2

    The quality content of this channel is top notch 👍🏼

  • @shobham5997
    @shobham5997 2 года назад +17

    This climax will never happen in this real life

    • @rachnarawat9916
      @rachnarawat9916 2 года назад +1

      Right it's not so easy to everyone log pagal bna ke chod dete hai tb b unko chain nhi milta

    • @jagrutibhat1384
      @jagrutibhat1384 2 года назад

      @@rachnarawat9916 sab rakshas hai saale Madarchod Ladke hi kyu krte saale hum Ladkiyon ki zindagi barbaad kar ne ke liye 😡saali Saas Saala Sasur Sare Rakshas hai 😡

  • @imrrai
    @imrrai 10 месяцев назад +1

    If the in laws have such evil mentality then they should never get their children married in the first place.

  • @Hussain-
    @Hussain- Год назад +16

    My husband still can’t support me after 17 years of marriage in front of his controlling mom and sisters 😢

  • @shivangisahay
    @shivangisahay Год назад +1

    There are some women who do it intentionally.. real woman empowerment is when a woman SUPPORTS AND ENCOURAGES another woman.. 😊

  • @tanvigupta6348
    @tanvigupta6348 2 года назад +9

    This was a quiet nyc story 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

  • @shrividyachellam64
    @shrividyachellam64 2 года назад +1

    Nice video. The lady who played the Mother in law looks very good.

  • @piyushsomani5018
    @piyushsomani5018 2 года назад +12

    सास की पुंगी बज गई थी अकेले काम करते करते... इसलिए उसने बहू को वापस घर बुला लिया 😃😃😃

  • @reshmaraj9058
    @reshmaraj9058 Год назад +1

    She shouldn't come back. Worst mistake in the world. Living through one.

  • @kainatsharif1402
    @kainatsharif1402 2 года назад +6

    These types of MIL never understand that they aren't only destroy their DIL lives but also their sons' lives too

  • @Priyanka-sl8hs
    @Priyanka-sl8hs 6 месяцев назад +1

    Everyone said he's mama's boy😂idts guys
    Look at how he confronted her🔥sceeeene!
    He's the man
    Poor guy, he loved her so much n missed her too

  • @theultimateflawless779
    @theultimateflawless779 2 года назад +29

    Bharati is Phenomenally Pretty, exceptionally cutie pie & fabulously Brilliant Actor🤗🤗😍😍🧚🏻‍♀️👑

  • @kruttikahegde8284
    @kruttikahegde8284 Год назад

    such things happen when a woman sees another woman as her enemy... it's high time that we stood up for each other :)

  • @CARaviShankar-bf4in
    @CARaviShankar-bf4in 2 года назад +15

    Ur entire concept of happy ending makes video creepy at the end.

    • @anushap4626
      @anushap4626 2 года назад

      In real life its very rare

  • @vjayaraman1
    @vjayaraman1 3 месяца назад +1

    Don't quit your job.. leave this house. You're not a slave.

  • @sumansamee5652
    @sumansamee5652 Год назад +6

    In islam every bride has the right to have her own household and is supposed to be queen. But it's so unfortunate we follow our society more than our faith.

  • @sharenowthen39
    @sharenowthen39 Год назад

    Good men really support women consistently