See How This Girl Takes A Stand Against Dowry | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- Before demanding dowry, think that you are comparing your soulmate with Money, If you have true guts, Go and earn your money yourself.
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Director: Akash Dayal | @akashdayal1
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AD: Meghna, Leher
Script Writer : Sachin Mishra
Cinematography: Akash Dayal
Asst. Camera : Himanshu Shrivastava
Editor: Rishika Sharma
Head of Production: Sudhanshu Mishra
Social Media: Anjali Tanwar
Channel Manager: Vivek Rajput
Actors:
Sunita Hooda
Shraddha Vasdev
Harpaal Maan
Sparsh Dhawan
I refused my dowry. My father never spoke to me again. It was the best thing I ever did. I 've never been happier( I've 3 wonderful children).
Very good my friend
I respect you sir
Ignore your parents mY friend they don't know the happiness and reality of life
Money is need for living,not much. Dowry concept is actually from british.
In India we have concept like when a girl is giving birth That time they need money for girl and child, for their well being by family. Until the children grown their level.
@@CSisekaiLife
No, no . Dowry , caste , racism and apartheid are Indian (hindu) concepts. In my village , caste, dowry, racism and apartheid are still practiced. There are no British here just Indians. The British had nothing to do with dowry , caste, racism or apartheid. In UK one can live anywhere , no caste and racism is a criminal offence unlike in our India.
I treat every Indian as an equal and always will.
I'm glad that I was born, raised and live in a community where there is no case of dowry at all. We are taught that a girl should be hardworking to be successfull and independent one day.
Same here, in my community there’s no system of dowry.
Absolutely
Which is your community🤩?
What will you do if she gives divorce in future and take compensation, kids and ask for alimony including fact she is unemployed.
Another case she is studying.
You paid all of her educational expenses now after getting everything you found that she was cheating with you. Her family also used you as source of money. You can't do anything.
You lost everything.
I will take dowry from a women if she is unemployed or studying.
I don't care what law says or what people says. I have to adopt according to my current environment. Law is not changing with time we have to change. I am not fool who will be emotional enough to be fooled by so called feminist.
No body will help you if you will stuck .
If you think I am stupid or no girl will marry me than it's your point of view.
I saw people suffering.
It is not about something like only money money targetting mindset. Or it is buisness but I would be able to compensate financial problems atleast. But can't time and emotions.
Emotions are temporary, they are changing then and now.
Ask people who suffered.
Always remember law is no equal be careful if you are man
Don't forget 90% of dowry case are false in India
I work as a teacher at a school, and I was surprised to listen to a beautiful acronym about Dowry by one of my students.
D - Donkeys
O - Of the First Order
W - Who can’t stand on their own feet
R - Relying on their wife’s riches
Y - Yet Shameless
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine. A 10- year old has this basic sense of decency which some of us adults do not.
I've rejected a match 2weeks before as they demanded dowry. The guy was pin drop silence when the whole dowry discussion was happening. This was the first red flag for me. After one week his family called and asked for more money. My father said, he doesn't have it. Father asked the guy why are you asking after all the discussion was over. and the guy said that their family doesn't have much money for the marriage and he supported his family for asking more money.
Me and family was scared that before marriage they're demanding money won't they ask after the marriage??
So me and my family called off this match.
I'm so relieved that this match didn't move forward.
Very good.
Don't marry hime
@@shubhamgarg5519 wow the stereotypical thoughts... I'm a well settled software engineer who earns more than him and have more knowledge than him in terms of social awareness. They're poor than we're. I'm saying all this just because you've a very vayyadh soch.
@@shubhamgarg5519 oh and not to forget he asked if i can come to US. I said I want to be in India only near our families. I feel sorry for you as you met the wrong girls or your thought itself is wrong 😊
@@shubhamgarg5519 😂😂😂😂
Superb, don't marry beggars. Once a beggar always a beggar.
My husband did not take single rupee dowry. Inspite of my health issues he accepted me as I am. I am lucky. Thank you God.
You're Lucky 🙂
Alhamdulillah sis......but am unlucky...prayer for me inshallah 👍
Gahna bhi chahiye
Mc sex worker ko bhi fokat ka paisa lene me sharam aati h tum jaise chhinro ko nahi aati , mard apni property share kare thik, lekin papa apne pari ko 10% bhi de de to bawal,
1 lakh dene ki jinki aukat nahi vo 10 lakh alimony mangate upar se maintenance alag se,
1 hazar jinki maintenance nahi vo 1 lakh maintenance ka mangate hai aukat 1 hazar kamane ki bhi nahi jin aurto ki unko nahi pata mard 50 hazar kaise kamata h badi besharmi se fokat me bed garam karke paisa lene ko haw bolte sharam nahi aati mc chhinre dkbossdk chadrmod, ladki ko uske biological properties me hissa milna chahiye jaa ki artificial riste me
People like you i promote and will take dowry a lot a lot , mardo ki sunvai kaha h, papa apne pari ko uski biological genetical property me hissa nahi denge, ladka ka jindagi buar padhe aur jab kamane lage to zindagi bhar mauj karne vale aurte aakr aadha loot leti h, mard chahkr bhi kuchh nahu kar sakta, so dowry haq hai mardo ka har tarah se, dowry is k ke insurance policy,
Good for you. We need more men like him. May God bless you both. Wish you all the best.
+1
My father
Brave woman! It's very true that after giving all her demands the mother in law is not going to keep her happy. It's obvious in her words and actions. If she's good, she would have not asked for dowry. Nice message 👏👏
Finally a new type of story as well as the girl took a strong stand instead of forgiving the guys and getting married .
Girls should be brought up in such a way that they stand against such stupid formalities. But unfortunately many parents teach their daughter to always be soft, be kind, be obedient irrespective of the situation with the inlaws. They should also tell their daughter to protect her self respect and dignity.
I was starting to like your comment but the more I read it the more it hurt me tbh and it hurt me even more because it's coming from a woman who I think among all the people understands the situation better. Why do you think the problem lies with the girl and her family? It's so simple and I am always surprised people don't get it. Groom and their families need to learn to stay happy with what they earn and what they have, if they want more, they need to work hard not 'beg' hard.
You are right and parents should teach their son to be independent rather than begging for mon ey
@@solihacs3786 ironic.
Girls can be bought up to be soft, loving caring and obedient. They can also taught to stand up for themselves as needed.
True
Wish every girl had the courage to do so. Romio Singha is absolutely correct. There is no dowry system in North East India. I am from Nagaland and the men don't sell themselves here.
In Andhrapradesh huge dowry demand is still in practice.
@@PriyankaPandey-hv4jv The girls should say no to the marriage, How can anyone fall in love with the person who asks money from her own family to marry her? Feels kind of selfish to me.
I think evry girl will do the same thing shown in the video becuz noone wants to spoil there life in this date....nd if the mother' in laws behaviour is like this wht would happen after marriage 😂🖕 f*ck of to this kind of family i would give a slap if i was in place of her nd thn dhka jata
True.
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Demanding for dowry has been a norm. May this story be a wake up call for all. SAY NO TO DOWRY🙏🙏
@Diganta 🤔 what a logic 👏🏻
@Diganta what why not?
@Diganta was there any person killed for not having a govt job? But there are tons os dowry deaths first understand difference between requirement and exploitation...men like you are shame to this country better you guys are vanished for this country to develop
Why is it necessary for people to get married? Late Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Late Jayalalithaa, Ratan Tata, Late Abdul Kalam etc, all of them are single and childfree.
Say no to gold digging women also
Today we need to stand against dowry system together..... salute this girl's courage.
Every bride should have courage just like hers .. toh kitne dulhano ki jaan bach jayegi ..
very gud
Exactly
THEN STOP CHOOSING MAN DEPEND ON THIER INCOME , HOUSE,
@@RONIT848 they have to do it because of their poor economic conditions
@@avanikasharma3407 STOP ASKING MONEY FROM MAN NO ALIMONY NO EXPENSES PROBLEM SOLVE
I m proud to born in Assam & northeast India where no dowry system exists..Infact some tribes of northeast follow matrilineal society..
So you just kick you kids away once they are married... what happens to inherited wealth, you give no share of it to your daughter?
"matrilineal society" That's why they are Tribal!
@@riscnxlols you know with dowry only the mother in law and her son will enjoy it 😂
Now a day's the groom family required a girl with higher education, good family ground, Job holder with high salary, Maid who can do cooking, house chores and take care of in-laws and dowry with all the packages then why can't bride family except the good salary from the groom. Change should come from both sides not only from side, If a boy expecting his wife have to takecare of his parents and siblings then he have to takecare of her parents, they have share there works, chores and responsibilities, and have to understand each other should respect each opinions and interests. And majorly parents stop checking these stupid horoscopes for your son's instead of that first of check if the bride and groom have compatibility or liked each other or have understanding for each other.
Everyone should raise the voice against the dowry !!!!... Don't seek the alliance for your daughters who is asking for the dowry !!!
But what if the girl stays at home
I dont know what to do if my daughter does not get married.
@@ltp3664 Fix the alliance with the family who doesn't ask for the dowry !!!
Fir to kabhi nhi hogi shaadi 😅🤐😠
@@ltp3664 marriage is not necessary
THEN STOP ASKING MAN FOR MONEY AND HOUSE
Any guy who demands dowry from the bride's family or is silent when his family demands dowry is a spineless beggar. He does not have self-respect.
Any girl who demands that the groom should own a house, or have a 'well-paying' job is an opportunistic gold digger, who wants to free-load on the groom's earnings. No self respect there too.
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Superr bro ... best words u covered from both sides.
But any bride whos an opportuniies wants best for her n her kids
He already has it
Gold digger word isn't real
Women will marry whoever they can
Men also same
@ashish kumar Let me make this really short. I'm against the concept of the bride's father paying dowry, in spite of the fact that I have already been made to pay alimony.
Dowry a curse to the society.... Nicely featured everyone played their character well. Hats off to all the team workers
Dowry is not a curse it is free choice of males .Hypocrisy of feminist is curse on socity which says that girl choosing rich boy is right.boy choosing girl giving dowry is wrong.
@Dibya Mahapatra so isme kya ladka ladki ko kharid raha hai?itnee foolishness wali and hypocrite bat na karo.jab ladki ko rich husband chahiye tab?
Aur agar koi khrid bhi raha hai to tab bhi free choice hai.
If girl not agree to dowry refuse .but why you call boys freedom wrong.
Just stop hypocrisy.
@Dibya Mahapatra ladke ko bechna nahi hai isme pahlee bat .
Aur ladki kharidte hai aur ladka bechte hai ye dono contradictory statement hai..
Ab ladki ko rich husband chahiye to kya wo ladki bechna hai?
Accha batao will girls marry a unemployed male with zero assets?
@Dibya Mahapatra stop hypocrisy .If you think that girls can choose rich husbands with good income and/or property but boys can not say that girl should also bring in dowry .than cleary it is anti justice and honesty.
No body is compelling.
@Dibya Mahapatra but is there law which bars girls from choosing rich husbands?
No but dowry prohibition act is there.
And there is freedom of choice of girl .so similar for boys what one want
Actually I feel what you do returns back . My father didn't take any thing for my brother 40 yrs ago n was just the best . It returned back later yrs after when my father in law did the same . He said v have had our daughter married n understand things . V don't want anything just a marriage as you have decided for your daughter . N had simple but elegant marriage . My parents shared the best relationship with my bhabhi s family . They were the strength to them and I too got it from my side . My father n father in law were the best of friends . Would enjoy each other help each other n every way n from a distance it was just like two lost old school friends . Meeting again . Parents must understand . What is it to be a daughter s father also .
Money never brings happiness.... Daughters r PRICELESS... Don't take, don't give dowry 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Very real and touchable story..those who have daughter only they understand this video content
Specially South Indian girls feel proud of their parents if they give more dowry...first girls should stop giving then boys don't expect
Nonsense. I see only north indians practice dowry more. Am south indian. Independent woman. I purchased my jewels for myself. Neither I forced my parents nor my husband family demanded .
@laxmicnu kuch bhi
Exactly even i saw this in andhra they also give dowry to groom sister like adapodachu katanam being a bengali i was shocked.yaa dowry is there in bengal too but in south india and rajasthan it is really too high
Yaa its absolutely TRUE that most people in south India are taking dowry .....and I am.from Andhra as I was suffering from my- in- laws mentally that I haven't given THE DOWRY......THIS CULTURE HAS TO CHANGE .....and this persons who are expecting the dowry has to change their mind set....especially girl parents should not encourage the dowry ,,,so i think the change will starts from girl parents .. !..so .girls say to your parents ......."we will.marry a guy who says no to the dowry " ......
A parent who is giving her girl child is only so precious n valuable that no one should demand for anything els...say no to dowry in any case.
First of all it is not dowry it is a fees paid to groom by bride for fulfilling her needs. He deserves that fees because after all he had put a lot of efforts in getting the govt job. And that girl in free without doing any effort would get access to all the assets which primarily belongs to groom and even the salary of husband who does govt job. Think of the effort he had put for getting govt job. He deserves that fees which you called dowry. If she dont want to give money she can marry a person whose income is 20k or 25k. Why was she approaching the guy who is beyond her and her's family level. Because marriage should be done between the same level. And after all it is a one time fees to keep their daughter happy.
@@hhhhh12552 just bcoz he doing government job ...he will take money so called fee for his efforts i.e govt job...
After reaching at such level of govt . employe...still he has to take dowry or wt u call to hide it as fee ...than wt d use of reaching at that level ...
A girl also spend alot to b educated n than after she support boys family n children ... without making any excuses n without getting tired...
The only point I want to make clear is ...being human if u can reach at such gud position than wt d need of taking anything els from bride side...n bride her self is precious n valuable...that why girls are called Lakshmi...
So instead of thinking to take dowry just focus on how to respect her n her fmly by supporting by not taking dowry ...
N last but not d least ...one day u might also have a girl child than will u agree to give dowry...n will u b cnfrm that after giving dowry ...she n her life is in gud hand???
It's easy to give lecture but when it comes to self u are speechless...so pls ...it's only request to not to take or give dowry...
@@sunitajaiswal8814 You mistook my point. I believe in giving dowry not taking. We ourself had given 30lakh dowry in my sister's wedding. But we are not willing to take anything in my marriage. Because we don't believe in taking money from woman because in my opinion it is shameful for man to take woman's money. I have belief in myself I dont need girl's money. But willing to give dowry in our case. Because we dont want to let ourself down in any case. I myself a govt job guy joined 6 months before. I need no money from girls side but I will give more money when a girl will go from my house. In both matters I would like to be on the top. My parents are also on govt service my mother too. I and my father had never asked for a single penny from my mother because it is shameful for a guy to ask for money from a girl. I had never taken any money from my mom. So actually my concept is I will not allow my wife to work then only she would be under my control. In my opinion taking dowry is nonsense but giving is superiority.
@@hhhhh12552 both giving and taking dowry is same thing ...by giving dowry we jst increasing the mentality of taking dowry...n how by giving one can become superior...???
One can become superior by standing in equall level and supporting each other feeling emotions family...
And by not letting a woman work...is it right to control her life n indipendency???
Did u even control ur sister life d same???
If not than how could u think to control other girl life...n if yes u controlled ur sister life also than its really ashamed to say being a man of today's generation still ur thot r of old generation...
Not only u but I think all have to change their mind setup that by not letting wrk u could control her...but u shud b proud that girl today standing in support of fmly n husband.
In today all field girls r going grt n indipendentlly...
I think by giving dowry n by not letting girl to wrk u can't b superior...but for being superior first change ur thot ...as all whether boy or girl both have ryt of indipendency...
N Mr...i commented on general but u r taking it personally...n by the way I m not interested in ur personal views...n comment as i don't bother the way u ruin ur or others life...so pls dnt comments on my comment.
I m jst against dowry as if u look history n even present many women r still suffering coz of this...
So guys... overall...both giving n taking dowry is punishable n yes it's ashamed too...
So all in ur hand in which category u fall...
@@hhhhh12552 Dutchess Katherine got married to prince william without any dowry
That's it
If u justify dowry u justify harassment
Being unmarried for lifetime is better than Marriage with like this begger and his family... 🙂
Well said.. 👍
No because dowry ke liye kal Ko usko maar bhi sakte hai,so it's better ki unmarried and financially independent raha jaaye.
True
Sab se badi bigger women hote jo alimony leti hai half property chahiye half salary chahiye bikhari kahein ke
I agree totally
I too got married without dowry. It's been 8 years to my marriage, and have never ever regret my decision.
Dowry is itself a crime and anyone demanding or anyone giving becomes a criminal and can be jailed, plz everyone remove dowry permanently and don't encourage dowry
Usme bhi logon ne loophole nikal liya hai abhi Gift ka trend chalake indirectly Dowry ko promote kar rahe hai
@@sagar_nayak han bhai sahi baat hai
In our North East India dowry system is ban ...kuch log lete hai but in our North East India dowry lene walo ko bikhari samjhte hai
In our North India especially in Punjab region unfortunately Dowry is necessary otherwise Groom's family call them Bhookha nanga weather they themself are begging for dowry and that is reality
That's great agar har ladki apne aap me saksham hogi to kisi baap ko nhi jhukna padega dahej lobhiyo ke aage.
@@pragyapandey6843 ma'am or sister dowry kiu de .....jab ekk ladki apne family ko chhor ke pure zindagi ke liye dusre jage life jine ayihe....or app ko Kya bhado sa hai dowry dene ke bat ladki khus rahi gi ush ghar main ....kuch na kuch kami nikalke tanne marenge.......in our North East India Jo hum pyar se dete uttana leta hai unlogo ka hak nahi mange ka...are hamari Didi or Jo bahan hai woh mang Shakti not uska sashural wale
@@paragchandra8219 Sach main yeh kab khatam hoga pata nahi
Oh man in AP or Telangana, dowry is like a burden to bride's father, demand is in tens of lakhs or even crores if the groom is working in abroad
South me opposite hai, Bride feel so proud that their father gave so much dowry.
And marriage become so much commerical that bride have so many demands like grome should work in IT company and earn minimum 2 lks per month, should have a car and own house and will not stay with parents etc, love is non existent.
It's in whole India.
Baapre such high demands
Car own house already ??
😠😠😠😠😠
I thought normal men were taking dowry
Not while of south . It’s rampant in Andhra Pradesh. It’s like telling Punjabi what happens in Bihar . So plz educate yourself . I see this a lot among North Indians . They lack knowledge about southern states and generalize every little thing . Where I come from usually ppl marry within same social status for various reasons too but not necessarily true all times . Also makes sense sometimes coz there woukd be incompatibility otherwise . Women who is raised with no money issues at all woukd not know how to live life being frugal and that would hurt a guy who has family responsibilities too. I have seen this and support girls marrying within their own financial status Atleast
For the sake of victory, only passion is needed, blood that boils,
This sky will also come on the ground, just intentions need the buzz of victory..
Hats off madam hats off great video thank you nijo sir.
Hi What a good example ❤❤❤
Keep it up
Thanks God in Islaam we don't have such things like this ❤❤❤❤
From Africa 😊
Dowry will end when girls parents focus on educating and empowering them to earn for themselves rather than trying to buy a sarkari or NRI dulha.
@Diganta True. This is what needs to change. Even in this video see how the bride's father is trying to secure a sarkari groom. The mindset that the guy needs to be the main breadwinner cannot go hand in hand with call for gender equality.
It's their choice what they want sarkari Naukri or nri dulha
I understand but in Bihar even a sadakchaap ladka demands minimum 3 Lakhs !!!
@Diganta No it's not their choice to demand dowry it's a crime as per law.
@Diganta Dowry imposes injustice on women. Men have a choice to walk out if the bride side demands govt job. But dowry is a well established system practiced throughout India with exceptions in few places. Even a well qualified women is asked to pay dowry for marriage regardless of her capabilities. There is a difference between "choice" and "demand giving rise to injustice". You cannot compare bride side demand of govt employee with dowry demanded by groom side. It is just like a man demanding Homemaker or a working women as his spouse. At times man expect a women to leave her job and do household chores. Then this is not a crime, it is his choice to go for a homemaker or a working Profesional wife.
Though whether the demand is dowry from groom's side or govt job from bride's side both pollutes the essence of marriage and makes it a mere business deal. That's disappointing !
I wish I got a father who supported me like this ...
Even till now I am suffering coz I was married without dowry
Please don't blame your father 😂, he did whatever he could or would for you. It's high time you do something for yourself. No offense please...
Love At all time say a heart prayer and you got to stand up for yourself with strength don't be sacred speak up you will feel good to and I know it not always ease to stand up and speaks against this crap but we live in 2022 don't let Noone offense you stand up love women in India need to be tough rough around society you live your life happy ok ❤ respect to all women in India
Go and take divorce
One of my cousin sister's in laws were asking for dowry, they were in a long term relationship, still the guy didn't say anything against his family due to their pressure, her in laws used to say that they want to maintain their standard infront of their family members, when my sister came to know about dowry she denied for marriage and then after 5 months that guy came to her apologized and then they got married in court, now they have loving children
Wow that's a good choices marriage should be based on love happiness understanding not based on money and all this bullshit matrimonial site are fraud I am a failure in cbse school never topped college I'm just an average guy who did class 7 twice myself as a person who loves a whole lot of Rapunzel girls with very long hair I'm saying always say no to dowry
Baapre in laws toxic hey
Go to any western country
No dowry is taken
Aisa har koi kyu nhi h .isse jada kuch nhi bol sakti.
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Good message to all
Never ask or hurt any girls for dowry
Rules have changed 😊😊😊😊
Best video till now Nijo SIr.. This dowry thing should be stopped for all.. We all are working and we all are standing on our legs.. No need to ask anything from anyone when u are capable to do anything..
I am thankful to all those people who left me in bad times
Because he believed that I could deal with the problems alone.
Say YES to dowry. Dowry is 'buying' the groom over. Hence, go ahead with the dowry BUT ensure that the groom stays with the bride in her house since she has bought him over. This applies to families who demand for dowry and for men who are cowardly enough to accept it (selling himself).
GANJA PEEKE COMMENT MAST KRTE HO BHAYY
@sathyavathi sahi kaha aapne 👍👏👏
@@dds6234dowry is not selling the groom . It is compensation for groom for taking up her father’s burden. It is like paying someone to take out garbage from house because girls are not valued by parents. I don’t believe in dowry , nor do I believe in bahu fighting with husbands parents to grab their property.
Really great video, today's scenario need to be shown on social platform. So we can stand against this🙏
Dowry is like cancer ,I m against,when I will marry I don't ask single penny 😐
Let's see...brother 😄
Proud of u for deciding to do so😇
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Let's fight against Indian dowry system
My friend it's a fantastic idea I am a boy only myself as a person who loves a whole bunch of Rapunzel girls with very long hair from my soul and heart I'm saying "NO TO INDIAN DOWRY SYSTEM"
My friend's neighbour is a widow.She has 4 daughters.She married them but gave dowry to the in laws.It's wrong but this only happens in a society where everyone is greedy of dowry.She could have filed a complaint against the in laws.We have to stand up for dowry together.
Some people write a long essay for competitive exams and then after getting government job they ask for dowry.
I told my boyfriend of 4 years to go hang himself as he asked for dowry with his parents,.. i live and breathe for my mom n dad... Marriage is not necessary.. career and education is important... If not today guys will show their evil colours and never ever will in laws accept u as their daughter.. so don't yearn for marriage... It's a glorified trap for women..
Giving dowry is as wrong as taking it
Husband's house is not a free hotel.
Women must pay the rent and food cost
@@ultimate6243 Husband's house is also wife's house after marriage.Both have same rights over the house.And your thinking is very old fashioned and disgusting.And because of people like you girls face a lot of problem in marriage.I wish to God that no girl marries you,her life will be destroyed.
Money is not everything in life,instead of asking money do something in life.And only beggars ask for dowry.
@@ultimate6243 Hiring a caretaker and whole timer is not free .....since a wife does all the work of a whole timer men need to pay them for their work
In my friends circle and relatives, every women is ready to give dowry. But guys are unable to reach their expectations so they are idle even after crossing 35.
Dowry is a greed that never gets fulfilled.. The demands keep increasing by the day !! Dowry harassment is a crime and still we see women getting victimised by this malice…
Marriage is not a business deal its a pious ritual of binding two lives which create another …
Live and let live ..
A terrific video Nijo. I anxiously look for your new videos when they come out
Thank god for not giving me synch an insane family in my life .. but lot of the girls are suffering from this type of situation.. hope every girl should get such a courage to handle her life.
*Always Remember that Dowry is very Big Crime and to give and take Dowry is also Crime and it is very necessary to raise the voice against this Crime*
30 years back my father and my father in law wanted a dowry free wedding for their children and I was so proud of them for carrying it out despite raised eyebrows.
Only passion is needed for victory, such blood is needed to boil,
This sky will also come on the ground, just intentions need the buzz of victory..
So good story 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 well done Maan saab 🙏🏻
Good. The bride said No.
Groom is silent now, then after marriage his mother's demand will come before his bride's wish / dream.
Good that the bride said No.
When all stand against dowry only the problem will be solved. Everyone who asking dowry should think if their own girl child is getting married by giving dowry above their capacity then only they know about problems faced by the girl family.
@@yogeshwaritikku2375 👍🏼 No dowry.
Great job, didi. People like you will help bring a Wonderful community... 👍🙌
Refusing a dowry is the best thing one can ever do to keep yourself happy and peaceful throughout your life.
@ARUL TA yep it's better to stay alone than bhikaris
What will you do if she gives divorce in future and take compensation, kids and ask for alimony including fact she is unemployed.
Another case she is studying.
You paid all of her educational expenses now after getting everything you found that she was cheating with you. Her family also used you as source of money. You can't do anything.
You lost everything.
I will take dowry from a women if she is unemployed or studying.
I don't care what law says or what people says. I have to adopt according to my current environment. Law is not changing with time we have to change. I am not fool who will be emotional enough to be fooled by so called feminist.
No body will help you if you will stuck .
If you think I am stupid or no girl will marry me than it's your point of view.
I saw people suffering.
It is not about something like only money money targetting mindset. Or it is buisness but I would be able to compensate financial problems atleast. But can't time and emotions.
Emotions are temporary, they are changing then and now.
Ask people who suffered.
Always remember law is no equal be careful if you are man
and refusing alimony also
@@dhananjayjadhav7208 India has the least divorce rates in the world. Alimony is not one sided dude. A husband can also claim it . But dowry deaths are reality in India. It is the cause of female infanticide and foeticide in India. Women life has no value in family and considered as liability of the family. Alimony is still not a major issue in India but dowry is. Many women in my state Kerala now don't prefer to get married because of the constant dowry death cases. They prefer to build a career first .
@@geethasanthosh6084 Konse jamane mai jii rahi ho 'Liability of the family'
Never give your daughter into a family which demands dowry.... Your girl will not be safe
ALSO SON TO A WOMEN WHO DEMAND MONEY HOUSE CAR
@@RONIT848 then the boy can Marry a girl which doesn't demands money house and car, there are plenty of women who want a loving husband even though he earns a very decent salary.
@@RealCherry8085 woman are gold digger at present , DO NOT NEED LOVE BUT MONEY BE HAPPY BE SINGLE
I just got goosebumps same my feeling too help full vedio.thanks for giving such message to the society.👏👏👏👏👏
SAY NO TO GIVE AND TAKE OF DOWRY... 🙏 MANY PEOPLE ARE AGAINST IT NOW DAYS 👏👏
Thank God this RARELY happens in our community in Bengal since the last 30 years or more.
The father must also understand that event if his daughter would have married there, the inlaws will keep demanding him more money.
Very nice message 👌 Thanks for the video hats off to u r team sir
Proud be an Assamese because no dowry system in Assamese people.
Fantastic by shraddha didi...a giant slap to those who demands dowry
Beautiful vedio, beautyful house and beautiful msg.☺☺
Excellent moral to the society. Actors and actresses faced the camera boldly, Dialogue delivery amazing. Become up with more short videos.👍
I am ready for the impending storm that's about to ensue. So I'll just leave my opinion here. Asking for dowry , i mean insisting that i cant marry until you give me 'x' sum of money is indeed bad. Equally bad is the attitude of bride's side during arranged marriages. They put forth so many fricking parameters that the most important of them all, the ability to stay loyal and be a loving partner for your kid takes a backseat. Its near impossible to get a good alliance unless you land a 6 figure salary or have a government job. Most parents even insist on seeing the salary slip or even ITR of the prospective grooms. But imagine a groom asking the same to the bride or her parents? That's the society we live in. For every issue you raise there is an equally or even more morally grave counter issue on the other side. Maybe when both parties give importance to love and respect than seeing marriage as a business, the situation will eventually change. Peace out~
I totally agree with your point. Actually the problem lies in the society in general. The norms set by the society are so hollow, the consequences of which are manifold. The institution of marriage especially arrange marriage is totally flawed. It is in this set up the waves of demand, expectations etc etc arises. Both the families think this set up as market where only buy sell of groom and brides happen according to the family standards.
To be honest today's girl & boy both are mature and sensible enough to find good partners. But both girl's & boy's side means their family spoil the essence of marriage by their demands.
Now a day's the groom family required a girl with higher education, good family ground, Job holder with high salary, Maid who can do cooking, house chores and take care of in-laws and dowry with all the packages then why can't bride family except the good salary from the groom. Change should come from both sides not only from side, If a boy expecting his wife have to takecare of his parents and siblings then he have to takecare of her parents, they have share there works, chores and responsibilities, and have to understand each other should respect each opinions and interests.
To be honest ...if girl's parent looking for stable partner for her then I don't think it's wrong....they are going to give their dauthef to someone else(totally stranger) n on what basis they'll do so?? In arrange marriage...if father of girl looking or asking for stable person...with high salary...then at the same time form boy side ...they ask for beauty...they ask qualities....they ask or judge on basis of the natural things which can't be chnge or not even in control of human....and one more thing now a days..they also want gurl with all those qualities and higher education...am I right or not???
Toh I must say ki ye toh equal hogya na...then dowry is toh still extra burden ???
@@Unknown_creator10 If you don't want to pay dowry then don't marry the person who demands dowry and marry someone who doesn't demand dowry.
Wow, this is the really inspiration to all girls.
Wow! This is the real thing to do in return! Bravo!
When gifts are given voluntarily, there is no problem. But demanding is not acceptable.
There is problem!!! This gift system only makes others also to expect!!
@@Philosopherbilla exactly
@@Philosopherbilla exactly.. Much true
Gifts is nothing but Dowry !!!!!
@@shriramupasna and it's one's own wish whether to give gifts or not.
My cousin sister's marriage no dowry was given but she demanded alimony after divorce..
Yes this happens very common these days . I too have seen many cases as such . Divorce for small reasons n huge alimony demands from the girls . Even her parents don't agree with it but girls are stubborn enough so parents can't say anything but just keep quiet .
Yes
Coz he probably abused or cheated
In india divorce rate is less than 1%
But dowry is always demanded
Almost all marriages i know dowry was taken
@@jyotikulkarni2669only 5 percent of marriages end in divorce. So alimony affects 5 percent of married men. Dowry is affecting 95 percent of women.
We arranged 80L in cash, one safari & gold ornaments for groom's family, but they weren't happy enough and broke the relation at last moment. Being a brother, i don't know what else should i do for my sis 😔
Never get your sister married in that family. They will make your sister's and your family's life hell. Keep that money in FD, it will help her more
@@dr.sandhyagupta8317 Yeah we ain't in contact with them anymore. I'm already in search of some other "normal" family.
Help her get a job so that she can stand on her feet
@@hredyakj3191 Hmm
@@legion206 good luck. I never married for the same reason as you can't trust such people. Further I wanted to study and go abroad which I did. Based on your family take a decision. Just spport your sister to be independent and find her liking. Please do not pressurise. I wish you all the best.
All parents must gave the courage to raise their daughters well.educate them and allow them to standbon their own.
Right.. every girls should be like her.. take new step👍👍👍
the worst part in this video was that the person who asked for the dowry was a lady as in a lady is unable to realise the plight of another lady such a selfish thought
100% true sir super 👌 I hate these stuff of society 😑
The main question is, why Sarkari Naukri?? If the parent's target is Sarkari Naukri, then the car and land are justifiable.
Gahna bhi chahiye
Mc sex worker ko bhi fokat ka paisa lene me sharam aati h tum jaise chhinro ko nahi aati , mard apni property share kare thik, lekin papa apne pari ko 10% bhi de de to bawal,
1 lakh dene ki jinki aukat nahi vo 10 lakh alimony mangate upar se maintenance alag se,
1 hazar jinki maintenance nahi vo 1 lakh maintenance ka mangate hai aukat 1 hazar kamane ki bhi nahi jin aurto ki unko nahi pata mard 50 hazar kaise kamata h badi besharmi se fokat me bed garam karke paisa lene ko haw bolte sharam nahi aati mc chhinre dkbossdk chadrmod, ladki ko uske biological properties me hissa milna chahiye jaa ki artificial riste me
People like you i promote and will take dowry a lot a lot , mardo ki sunvai kaha h, papa apne pari ko uski biological genetical property me hissa nahi denge, ladka ka jindagi buar padhe aur jab kamane lage to zindagi bhar mauj karne vale aurte aakr aadha loot leti h, mard chahkr bhi kuchh nahu kar sakta, so dowry haq hai mardo ka har tarah se, dowry is k ke insurance policy,
Brilliant 👏 Brilliant 👏 Brilliant 👏...it's time we get rid if this thing call DOWRY.
i have faced similar situation...i wish i could have taken step at the right time like this girl ...they tortured me..so now after 8months of marriage i filed for divorce.. greedy people can never change
Be independent financially... No one will have the courage to ask for dowry!
😂😂
Get out of your bubble. Even doctors are demanded to give dowry upto 1cr by doctor groom and their parents.
@@KosmoNavisagreed . Men ask for dowry from equally educated and equally earning woman . Even unemployed men ask for dowry from working women, amount maybe lesser.
Dowry is stigma still it is at its peak .No matter how educated we become , the people expect free money gushing in , in the name of marriage , In both my sisters wedding tonnes of money , gold , arrangements furnitures gifts and what not , how can you measure the pain and helplessness a father goes through , such a pain to human is sin , still these greedy people remain unsatisfied and cause troubles to brides taunt and tease her with abusive remarks. These whole system is toxic. Shameless people just dont realise they are just a kind of beggars in the name of just being the so called "LADKEWALE". !!
Such a lovely mag and we newd more of such stories which make ppl think and tealise .. at least a few and then only we can expect some change innour society .. very nice
Men should stand against dowry not women. No father wants his daughter to feel bad in her new house.
Many people of family in men side insist even when the male don't want dowry my father don't want dowry but relatives my grandparents but still only men the take the total stand only then the change will come.
But one of my cousins was unemployed so her father zabardasti gave her home appliances n car
Coz her husband family not so rich
But he wanted her to marry him
Super rohit gaba sir this is one of the best episodes, nowadays Father's r behind in everything, grooms mother's r leading the show which is not correct, also vice versa, also my whole comment can also be read ulta, general comment is that mother in laws r forward n father in law r taking bac stagr don't what has happened.....
Nowadays , Dowry = price of a Groom
Good video. One thing that should have been added is them getting arrested for asking for dowry. Asking for dowry is a crime. Period!!!
@Diganta That is the problem. People just want grooms that are either doctors, engineers, lawyers and those with government jobs. And then the groom’s family just keeps asking for dowry.
Bridegroom = Bank and Bride = Model
This is the dark side of our Indian Relations, it's more like a business
WOW! Love it! No Dowry, do u want free money ???? Earn it man!
I shared my incident.. why my comment get deleted i wrote what i m facing due to dowry.. please atleast don't do this.. i wrote because I m facing depression due to domestic violence.. atleast this is the only platform where I can share my problems.. 😢
I was offered a Car and a few lakhs as a gift by my in-laws when we went to see my wife. I refused it and told them that I am capable enough to take care of my future wife and my family and they became so happy. Later they deposited around 8 lakhs in my account without my consent saying that it is for the initial support to take care of their daughter just to support and as a gift to their daughter. I accepted it because their argument was legit.
A guy directly asked me for 3.5cr dowry, i rejected him immediately, those guys who are taking/expecting dowry are shameless and they don't even have confidence that he can survive by him self, especially those guys who are abroad they feel like they are god's are something, there they will earn less than a girl still shamelessly ask for dowry after dowry also they will ask for girls bank balance.
3.5cr? means he should atleast earn 7 crore. is he earning so much?
@@indipacifician3693one NRI boy ( not boy but 30 year old man) was complaining about not getting girl for marriage. I suggested my cousin sister who works in the same country and earns more than him . Then his father asked for 50 lakhs dowry and the ‘ boy ‘ agreed with it . Then I understood why he was having difficulty in getting married and told them to get lost .
A girl directly asked me about my money salary and property. I rejected her immediately. Such a shameless woman. She cannot survive by herself 😂
@@Rawlins7482 if she asked your salary it is ok . You can also ask her salary. But if you ask dowry, then she has the right to ask about your property. Most men who don’t own any piece of property are asking working women for dowry .
@@wowser2153 .. why should working women give any dowry,, when there are many poor unemployed men who are ready to marry her without any dowry??
We should stop the dowry system. We should understand towards it. Not to give and not to take. 😢
Not in this story even in ou society dowry will be asked by grooms mother...what I observed is ladies only ask for dowry ..
Excellent work guys
What about people who act as nice before marriage and torture for money after marriage? Atleast those people are lucky who get to know before marriage but there are so many people who are suffering alot after marriage because of dowry as either they don't have choice of divorce because of children nor don't have money to give in-laws
Really very good, informative. Good luck team 🎉🎉
Car in the form of Dowry, is what I get to see in my street. On the left of my house is a grey car worth 11-12 Lakhs and my right side is a White Car worth 8-9 Lakhs. One of them actually demanded the girl's house for a car and they are happy driving it🤭🤭🤭
Esa logo k saath esa hi karna chahiye. Very nice
What a shame!
I had actually hoped that at least the groom would have rejected this horrible practice.
Unfortunately, it turns out he is no different from his family. I guess the fruit doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
I remembered my father in law requested to my family that he dont want even a single penny in dowry and wants simple marriage as well but shockingly my parents insisted on dowry because my relatives started making fun of us. I remembered my father in law was on the verge of tears. He said bete tumko hath jorh k manaa kia tha. Ye kya kiya tumne😢. He had tears iin his eyes. Rishtedar bhi kamm nahi hote
Can't imagine the height of quality
Ladka be like main yahan kyu hoon😂😂🤣baaki nice video.
Dowry to North India me bahot zyada h....alag alag tariko se demand rakhi jati h customs aur rituals k naam par...ki ladki Wale inferior h aur unhe sirf ladkewalo ko khush rakhna h hamesha
It’s true story of Indian families. Pl people support as like gals
I agree with girl ❣️❣️