Bachpan se mujhe v Aisa hi feel kraya gya or mai introvert shy or shidi itni ki koi v bewakoof bna de hmesha se lgta tha mujhme koi kmi h Sadi koi nhi krega koi pasand nhi krega yhi sunene ko Mila or mom ko ye pta v nhi h ki unke Aisa kuch bolne k wajah se mujh pr kya asar pada unhe to yaad v nhi ki Aisa kuch bola h unhone mere Kai saal barbad ho gye ye soch kr ki Sadi hi sabse important chij koi pasand kr le ye bhut badi baat h mujhe khud ko accept krne me 10 saal lg gye ab jb carrier important h to mom ko lgta h Sadi k liye age nikl rha h itne nakhre krogi to koi pasand nhi aata tumhe to Sadi kaise hoga ab Mujhe fark nhi padta koi Sadi kre na kre Mai job krugi or khud apni life independent ho kr jee skti hu lekin maan maar k kisi aise insaan se Sadi nhi krugi Jo mere liye shi na ho mujhme koi kmi nhi h kmi logo k soch me h ❤
same here me abhi b usi takleef sy guzr rae hu k koi mjy psnd ni kryga itny bury or uneducated log b a k mjy reject krdyty hn me toot chuki hu koi future ni nzr ata 🥺😢
But the reality is 80% Indian women and men will still go for fair complexion no matter how many such series are made. Fair & lovely has become bright & lovely, I mean this scam will never stop until we ourself raise our voice.
We have same case in my home , I am quiet fair than my sister, everybody commenting since childhood she is so dark and I am so fair like that . Now she is married with Brahmin handsome boy
@@SoniyaVermaRecipesandLifestyle in my case ulta hai....I have to hear such things....bt I love every bit of my body for it is a gift of almighty to me and I m thankful .
It always happens with me from childhood to still. Specially my elder sister and my mother always teasing me cause of my colour complexion is little undertone but not too dark. But i always focused on my studies not for beauty and fashion like my didi...and now she is a housewife and I'm a Central Government Employee. She is dealing with her tough husband who doesn't care about her beauty. And I'm shining in my present and also for future with God's blessings. She always kept taunting me and also my mother loved her more than me.... ye Matt phen tujpe accha nhi lgega tu Kali hai.... and all that..... I really felt bad.... when I got the appointment of my government Job then I was flying and she was crying 😅😅😅😅and her husband jobless after there marriage. And my fiance is a gazetted officer..... Thank you so much Shiva ❤ Bholenath....so guys kbhi kisi ko bura naa bolo na bura socho... my personal experience.... Jai Mata di..
Very beautiful! My story is same. Everyone from childhood said that tumhare nain naksh bhut acche hai agar gori hoti to bhut sunder lagti, but I feel myself beautiful
A child is like a sponge, absorbing everything going around. As a parent it is one's utmost responsibility to give the right kind of values, support and encouragement so that the child grows upto be a confident individual and shines like a star! The worse thing to do is to critisize or bully an individual based on the ridiculous and out rightly negative believes of society when it comes to what is beautiful! When the criticism comes from one's own parents, the scar of that can be life long! Kudos to Life Tak for talking about this particular evil of society. As a mother of two daughters who have diffrent skin tones one "wheatish" and the other "fair" I have always fond both of them gorgeous in their own ways and been there for them with my support, often literally shutting up people who would try to either compare the two or pass a snide one! All humans are beautiful in their own ways... Beauty is skin deep and high time society and it's uncles and aunties understand that and go get a life!!! Thank you Life Tak for this beautiful short film!
In India groom can be dark. But bride should be fair😏 My mum is fair and my dad is dark. I got light brown skin tone. My relatives are telling I didn't get my mother's colour.
In India groom should have high package,job,single child...bride should be graduate, 5 bfs, 😅 It is responsible of groom to seve the bride with love ,care , respect. But bride should be not bounded...she should be independent women, she can have multiple affairs in offices, social media. Groom should take consent for pleasure, but bride should not take. If bride wants and husband not gives then she can happily make extra marital affair also justify it. 👍👏👏
@@manishmaurya8416ladke kamayenge nhi to biwi bachcho ko khilayenge kya or ladkiyan job kre ya na kre unko to ghar ke sare kaam karne hi padte hai or 5 bf kiske hote hai ? Tumhari mom ke hai kya? Indian society ki yahi to mindset hai ki ladki agar job kar rhi hai to uske 5 bf honge, ladka chehe khud 10 gf kyu na rkhta ho 😂
You're right, so I have lived with it all my life too, I'm 40 :). It will never eradicate but will surely educate people to appreciate more than discriminate :)
Thnk fully i had a wonderful parents who protected me from the society n made me feel like a princess at home . But outside i was a victim of this racism every where right frm school to my medical College....but am proud tht i faced it n grew stronger 💪. Being dusky is not easy in India but i was lucky to hv my mom n dad to hv been so supportive throughout which made me forget the pain i faced in the outside world. I can so relate to this video 😊
@@hudabaig2504 awwwwww !!!!! Thnk u so much fr ur kind words. Unfortunately my bad luck I landed up being a dermatologist so u cn image my situation, i hv faced d worse initially I wanted to quit wen I joined but my mentor motivated me n now am successful in my career n happy. I give guidance n counsel the ppl regarding the skin color use of steroid or OTC fairness creams n spread d awareness regarding it , it's jus skin deep n u need to accept them n take care of wat u hv gt , most of them do understand but sum stil hv tht mentality stil which nobody cn change . Atleast I cn make a small difference to the society am happy abt it cos it's a rural setup n ppl trust me .lots of love ❤️ n thnk u
Wow super content I have undergone the same way as my younger sister was very fair and I my colour was black. My grand parents used to show discrimination between us . When the marriage age has come my younger sister got married first as no one was ready to marry me due to my colour. I thought I will not get married but now I am married and my husband is very fair and caring and he liked me because of my character and not due to my colour.
You truly have a spark and glow in your face. Beautiful does not mean skin tone, size or degrees … it’s character and goodness in your heart. Unfortunately 80’s generation are still struck up there carrying the tantrums which they had from may be 60’s or 70’s. Atleast we new generation have to break them
It is easy to say that I love my skin colour..but truly difficult to actually internalize this feeling..after many years of consistently feeling insecure about it.. I remember I was in college once and a guy commented on my picture "Tera iphone bhi tujhe gora nahi bana paya iss picture mei.." I was just 16 or 17 back then..and today after 10 years... I still remember that comment so vividly.
I can’t forget one of my tuition batchmate called me Kala Hit in front of whole class and I still remember I started crying immediately. I can never forget this incident for life .
Fine episode. Beauty doesn't mean fair skin. I wish all those fairness creams etc are banned. In fact, those with dusky skin tone tend to be more photogenic and look beautiful in pictures too. Saw Nirupama ji in a regressive role for the first time :-) Muskaan as a vivacious and supportive sibling was very good. Kudos to the team !
This obsession of fairness is a long term effect of the British rule on our country. My God! We have been independent for more than 75 years now. Dark beauties like Sushmita Sen and Lara Dutta have been Miss Universe. At least now, this mad obsession should leave some fools' brains.
in india people are obsessed with fair skin but the irony it that americans and europeans (actual white people) have a huge market for fake tan products🙂 every skin tone is beautiful
Excuse me ..!! like assumption on its peak ...!😂 Ye kaale gore ka obsession koi British ki den nahi h ....usse bohot pehele hi aa chuka tha ye hamari society me.
Not "assumption". Its what I have read in books of sociology written by learned authors. Read a little ancient history and you will realize learned intellectual women like Gargi, Gauri, Matreyi (and many more) existed and they were known for their intelligence, not color of skin. Its an open fact that Britishers ruled us for more than 200 years, still some Indians get so much offended if they hear facts against them.😂🙏
Kabhi majak me kbhi knowingly kbhi unknowingly my family too have hurt me on my dusky complexion. But as I get older, I started loving myself and my complexion. Recently, I gave birth to a baby boy. His complexion is on me. When anyone comment bhot sunder hai beta par sawla kyu hai. I reply them uski maa sawli hai isliye vo bhi sawla hai. No one can hurt you unless you let them to.
I can relate the pain of dusky girl. It took me a long time to gain the self confidence and to me it's an achievement that I post pictures without adding any filter😊😊 I had supportive childhood but I was under confident as all my friends were fair skin so it took a toll on my confidence while I was growing up.
Not only colour but height and money also make this fuss…I’m a doctor and from middle class family after completing my studies (which was very challenging) my parents want me to get marry and they was very worried about my height and we are financially not so good….instead of being proud of me they started telling me to compromise and marry someone who is uneducated or someone who I don’t feel my worth….it was very challenging days for me…I use to cry and pray god for myself….but it happened 1 day when my husband parents met with my parents…and I got married within a month ..my husband is an engineer at one of the largest oil and gas refinery abroad and most handsome and down to earth man I have ever seen…now I thank god
Aj Bhi ...Yes 2023 main bhi aysa video banana parta hain ....🥺 Thank you for the reminding me that I am blessed with this kind of supporting family ❤ thank you Maa Baba again ... ❤❤
I always admire how you conclude the videos... no melodramatic shift in circumstances or diametrically different behaviour. Rather you show a realistic and believable attitude of the characters towards the point in question. The acting and script and concepts are already bang on!! Well done Life Tak ❤❤
Nice story. This is applicable for thin and fat and short and tall girls. I have faced this and maybe many girls faced this. Attitude should be changed.
So true, I was born fat. No matter what I do, I am unable to lose some of the weight and be skinny like my sister who eats more than me and never gains weight. I was called all sorts of names by my own sister, and my brother was always on about when was I going to lost the weight, to this day.
Black is diamond 💎 ❤ no one should ever let you down because of your skin color!? Every skin colour is beautiful and we have to appreciate it!? A proud black queen 👑❤
It's just not color .... parents n society make us conscious about our body type , features n not having flawless skin , wearing specs .... etc .... I experienced it since childhood n this insecurity stays with us 4r life long 😢
With me it always was weight. Which was not that bad, now that I see old pics. Strangely I was always over-confident despite the 'body shaming' but I was always put on a diet. I was 17 when I left home (for school) till my thirties, no diets or scales.
@@shaktiratan I can relate to it .... I was made to realise about my small tummy n make me wear clothes to hide it though I wasn't even fat that time.... as 4r me also the weight n body shaming by family let me go through so much n even today it hasn't stopped ... I feel we cannot change them but we definitely can accept n love ourselves ..... so I feel it's OK to Disappoint ppl n choose ourselves n love our body in every phase ❤️
@@shaktiratan wow that is inspirational .... I m learning it in my 40s ... dealing with perimenopause n now I don't care who likes Mr or not as I do 🥰❤️
Gunjan one day I said to my parents 'What am I to you? A fat body or your daughter?' They stopped from that day and the thoughts of the rest doesn't really count. My over-confidence is just in me. Have it with everything, think I can do almost everything and think I am great ....... not neccessarily always good though! I am learning the opposite....to tone down!
Why can't we treat everybody as normal person, lets not sugarcoat everything by saying " BUT u r beautiful" which makes people more insecure, let them be themselves, let us be ourselves 😊
Amazing video 👌🤘 Well said - Beauty lies in character not colour. But our judgemental society thinks that fair skin is one & only parameter of Beauty which is absolutely wrong 🙅. Being darker or dusky skin tone doesn't means it's bad or not beautiful it's just our foolish mindset that we don't accept the truth .
Hope your views remain same when it comes to a fat guy, but if you ask women whether a fat guy is looking handsome or a guy with six packs, almost all women would have the same answer, rather than 50:50 which should be according to the probability. Foolish mindset right!
But to remain fat or thin is in your hands. The color complexion is not in your hands. A fat guy can do some dieting but obviously a dusky girl cannot make her complexion fair and it is not in her hands as well.
I am proud of my mother who always supported me never let me realise I am less beautiful just because I am overweight. I am really lucky to have a beautiful soul like her in my life.
The concept is actually nice but people are not aware that it is never about the complexion its always about the skin undertone (warm,cool n neutral). When we wear colors according to our skin undertone it gives a glow to a person regardless of complexion. ❤❤
@@asifali-rw5oc sure you can look on google for various articles about how to find your skin undertone ? Then after discovering your skin undertone you can search for which colors look good on your discovered skin undertone ? E.g. my wrist veins are greenish in color so i am warm undertone mostly mustards,purples,green,offwhite etc suits me more. If i wear light yellow and white my complexion does not pops out it looks dull. There are many instagram reels and youtube channels of image consultants who guide people to look better according to their body types,skin undertone,face shape,complexion,eye shape,lip shape etc etc. Every body type and complexion is pretty if styled well. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So grateful and happy to be part of this film! The Life Tak team was so lovely to work with ❤️ Thank you for all the love and compliments everyone 🥹🙏🏽❤️
Aap apna address mere number per send kre me aap ko real story send krugi , ye story hmare hi saamaj ka hissa hai, jin per short film banna jroori hai, ek family bhi dekh ker sbak sikh jayegi ho kafi hai.
बहुत अच्छी लगी फिल्म और सही में लोगो का नजरिया ये रंग भेद को लेकर आज भी बहुत nhi बदला है जो अत्यंत ही दुखद और शर्मनाक भी है।ये भेदभाव लार्कियो में हीनभावना को बढ़ाती है।अतः इस तरह के व्यवहार को खत्म करना चाहिए।
I'm 34 married.. Still face this every time by almost lot many people Bachpan se Ghar walo ne confidence khatam kar Diya tha College me gai to dheere dheere apne aap me confidence le k aai that color doesn't matter but shadi k baad sasural walo ne fir se yaad dila diya Today I don't bother much about that but at some points , some people always point out that am not fair 😢
That's true I have seen many girls who don't wear specs even after having low vision because they will not get a good ' Rista ' after wearing it. My many friends and cousins do the same but I was so shocked when I asked my 15 year old student that why don't she wear specs even after she can't see black board clearly. She told me that She will not get a good groom if anyone in her community get to know about her specs.
My own mother would always comment that if she lose abit of weight in the tummy she will look beautiful. so for her i was never beautiful i had to be perfect. When own family member pushes us down our trust in them breaks, that what happen with me. Husband would say I wish i love you when you were thin so when i was thin he didn't be care for me. Everyone love was base on appearance. So I started to love myself fully including flaws, being stubborn, being disobedient, what habit i have positive or negative I give unconditional love to myself and always be kind to myself no matter what. Cause words have power to push us down or lift us up. I Choose to rise up by being emotionally & physically independent. Support myself in every step of the way no matter what other say my respond will always be "I love myself unconditionally"
Log gareebi aur kale rang ki taw dhajiyan hin udate hai. Aur ye kabhi mitne wala bhi nahi .yahan jis ladki darshaya gaya uska color phir bhi.. brown me jaayega..par Jo pure hard black hote hai..unko kitna kuchh sunna aur sehna padta hai..woh taw wahi jaane...jaise ki hum..log...kaale aur brown bohut difference..hain..bhaii behen 🙏
I was also heard bad things about my body and skin colour from childhood. I cried when I was alone everytime. But now I realise that I am beautiful in my own way. Every women is beautiful in her own way. No one has right to call her ugly or body shaming her.
I'm brown skinned, and my aunt is dark-skinned, and we both are facing this color discrimination. Hn woh alag baat hai ki mereko farak padta nhi . Koi mere skin color ko kuch bolta hai toh middle finger 🖕 dikha deti hun😂
Same happened..mere sath bhi. Or aaj tal shadi k matter me b yhi ho rha h. Sach to ye h.. jaha sundarta or gorapan ho wha logo ko pyar b apne aap ho jate h
Being a girl with brown skin in India I have faced a lot racism. And being from an Indian brown family it's natural for me to have brown skin. I have no control over it. And personally I love the way I am, but this Indian society will never accept me as beautiful or pretty girl also after having great facial features and being in proper shape and having many skills just because I am not fair. It literally sucks because the society judge me on the basis of my dark skin tone, skin tone is the thing which I don't choose for my self it's god gifted and I love it but the people of India don't after knowing that our Indian original skin tone meant to be wheatish brown. The ancient Indian queens were also not of fair skin tone then also they were considered as beautiful. This fair skin obsession comes after the British Empire. Even Lord Krishna was of dark skin tone . But people will always do partiality on the basis of skin tone. There's no problem in having dark skin tone. The problem is we are born in the sick society who can't look beyond some ones looks and appearance
Only brown or black girls can understand the situations of us...... i used get lots of hate comments about my skin tone. One of my classmate called me kaali front of whole class and i had no answer......now I'm in 12th and because of color I always sky to talk to boys..... Really, it's very hard for me.......
Oh it's so true. Although I am wheatish colour but her taunts made me from wheatish to black. However and how much one tries but the skin tone will remain the same. I wish and hope people become more appreciative and accepting instead of being rude and discriminating.
My skintone is a little bit dark that's why some of my toxic cousins and my friends told me that im ugly i have to do my skincare even they told it infront of some unknown people as they hear it even they compare me with a animal i felt so bad for that but some of my friends cousins and relatives always support me and never make me feel bad for my skin tone big respect for people who have dark skin tone!❤️
Beautiful video , very nice message to all of us , that a colour can't describe the personality of a person for example a person is fair doesn't mean that he or she is not good in any way or if a person is beautiful that also don't mean that he or she is very good in every manners. So don't judge a person on the basis of colour ,body or phical apairence , etc etc love all and please don't hate anyone just on the basis of stupid things. 🙏 Love you both sisters ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes...I can this to myself almost same as my past. Its really hurts when this kind of demotivation get from near ones. By time I accepted myself n loving to which really gave me lots of confidence. N yeah Nobody believes me that i m telling my story as people get attracts towards me easily. ❤❤❤❤
Hope everyone sees this short film and understand what we go through when we are criticized for our skin tone.. I have faced a lot of criticism for my skin tone and now my 7 years old daughter is being criticized for the same. But I have stood strong for my child and warned everyone not to speak to my kid about complexion. Thank God my mil has stopped criticizing my daughter for her complexion.
Please do not let others define you. Next time a relative brings up your colour, you must speak up and let them KNOW how theirs comments make you feel inside and tell them to STOP! If they get offended then so be it, after all they have been offending you all this time. Speak UP, you can do it!🤗
I am dark and felt black color doesn't suit me . I was presented a printed saree by my friend and everyone was surprised how black suits a dark skinned person. My inlaws were upset I was dark . But I was educated, traveled and was holding a good position. One day I was giving lift to 2 of colleagues One told her daughter didn't want to attend the school as teacher had dark skin . But the girl married someone darker than me. Other lady told me her grand child not play with dark skinned child. Unfortunately her son divorced so called beautiful girl
And my maa is just the opposite of this mother. I myself hesitate to wear cream, yellow but my mom says, "Tera veham hai" and then I bought mustard coloured dress and believe me, I wore that dress only thrice and at least three people praised me every time I wore that and I flaunt myself beautifully in that mustard colour. So yes, my maa is beautiful & so is her daughter ❤❤
My little cousin she look beautiful, fair skin tone and I have dusky skin tone. My relative and neighbors use to say , "बडी बेटी के शादी के वक्त छोटी बेटी को छुपाकर रखना पडेगा इतनी सुंदर लग रही है नही तो लोग इसेही देखते रहे जायेंगे." But I always ignore them and try to love my self.❤
The best part of this channel is they never says to subscribe the channel.not only say but also never write this line. Jisko content achcha lgega wo khud subscribe krega .. ❤❤❤❤
You may not find this as interesting or engaging, but since it is very close to my heart, I thought I should share it. When I was four years old, I lost my sight. Due to that, I was mocked by everyone, even my relatives didn't spare me. With my family by my side, I was able to get admission to Tagore International School where I got the chance to study with normal students and prove my worth. Even now, after one year of my passing out from school, I continue to receive advices and suggestions from my teachers. The college where I study, Motilal Nehru College, even there , in the department of Political Science, of which I am a student, we have a professor who is a visually impaired.. It does not matter how you look, but how you are from inside.
@@Winston-v4x Hi there, thank you so much for those comments sir. I strongly believe that you are not weak from the body part that for some reason does not work at all, but you get weaker the moment you start thinking in your mind that you are useless. Be mentally strong and you will ace every challenge in life. Until class 10th, I was a student who did not speak or participate much in class discussions. But in 2020, when the world was battling Corona virus and we all moved to do our work remotely from home, it was then that in class eleventh, i met a teacher who was to teach me Political Science because I had taken up Humanities. She gave me my lost voice back and the confidence that I was able to achieve anything and everything if I wanted the thing diligently and if I was determined for it. From that very day, I made her my coach and in her guidance, performed stupendously in the board exams of class 12th and scored 95 percent with my highest marks being in Political Science.
@@Winston-v4x Hi there, thank you so much for those comments sir. I strongly believe that you are not weak from the body part that for some reason does not work at all, but you get weaker the moment you start thinking in your mind that you are useless. Be mentally strong and you will ace every challenge in life. Until class 10th, I was a student who did not speak or participate much in class discussions. But in 2020, when the world was battling Corona virus and we all moved online to do our work from the comfort of our homes, due to the health threat that loomed large in those days, it was then that in class eleventh, i met a teacher who was to teach me Political Science because I had taken up Humanities. She gave me my lost voice back and the confidence that I was able to achieve anything and everything if I wanted the thing diligently and if I was determined for it. From that very day, I made her my coach and in her guidance, performed stupendously in the board exams of class 12th and scored 95 percent with my highest marks being in Political Science.
this is such a true story .. I am the younger one in this story and I have an elder sister . In our teenage my mum used to do a lot of discrimination not only with my sister but with me also that I should not wear nice clothes so that I don't look better than my sis ... and then nobody would look at my sis. That feeling got imbibed in my sis so deep that till now she feels jealous of me
It’s not the question of being beautiful or not / in our Indian society people are extremely and obnoxiously judgmental about women’s look , skin color which is always under scrutiny! And also dark women in our society should be self confident and proud of their beauty- never bow down or accept to any discriminatory comments even from their mothers !
*'Tumhari didi 29 ki ho gayi hai aur abhi tak ladka nahi mila hai...!!'* Yes, dark skinned girls have to try a lot harder in order to gain acceptance in the matrimonial circuit, in spite of their brilliant academic and professional accomplishments - that is the sad and bitter truth in Northern India!
Meri mummy jb bhi mera scl mai parents meeting k liye jati thi n to kch female teacher meri mummy ko aa kr bolta tha apki ladki aap pr to bikul nhi gyi kyuki aap to bhot sundar ho jrur apna papa pr gyi hogiii. Meri ko acha nhii lgta ye sun kr vo to mai sambli nhi hu . Pta nhii log aese kaise bol deta hai kisi ko ,mujh to agr koi acha bhi nhi lgta to mai usko bura shura nhii khati balki usko appreciate krti hu uski tarerf krti huu .
Nirupama ji always plays the idealistic mom in most episodes but this time she got an earful from her daughter. Talking of black complexion Rekha is an amazing example of the saying ' black is beautiful '. Even though someone may be dark at least they should have good facial features to overlook the dark skin tone.
If you don't judge people on facial complexion, why you are judging on facial features saying some are good while others aren't, if beauty doesn't lies in color, neither it should lie in features as well, or otherwise in both. The point is that it is what it is, do fat people are considered beautiful, if blacks can be considered beautiful, fats should also be, but people never say fats beautiful, why videos aren't made on that topic. I mean people spreads narrative in which they are most comfortably placed in, black girls are beautiful but if a boy is fat, why he isn't handsome then, hence completely biased
@@divyansh1305 what bullshit you are commenting . What has women colour to do with men fat . Both should be discussed separately . She shouldn't have said that black can beautiful if one has good features . With that logic even fair skin too required good features to look beautiful . Let's be honest not all fair skin are beautiful . It comes down to features I mean facial features. Here the discussion is going on skin colour irrespective of gender .
Me as a fair toned skin girl think differently..i always think that dusky skin toned people can wear any colour outfit because they look great in those all colours..but whenever i want to wear any light shaded coloured dress, i always feel that it doesnot suits me well as it resembles my skin tone..so dusky skin tone is much more better than fair skin tone as per my opinion..love this video❤ and the yellow dress is so gorgeous ❤❤
Jaise girl boy ka hota hai... Aajkal bezizak log bolte hai ki mujhe to beti hi chahiye, beta to chahiye hi nhi... Why don't they understand that this is also a gender discrimination... 😅😅😅😅
Not just light but dark is beautiful too !! My mom is also like same who forces me to apply fairness creams, but I don't like using it at all ... I'm really blessed with dusky skin tone and I love my own skin tone
Let your mother know that you derive your skin tone from her and your father's genes, and that it is never going to change, nor do you want it to...that she must accept the reality and stop bothering you about it.
@@Winston-v4xTBH when my dad was young he was extremely very fair skinned like newspapers but later he became quiet darker but my granny (dad's mom) was dusk like me and I got the skin color from her
Very good topic and new girl too👌🏻Often, before society, it's our family only who belittles us upon our shortcoming. Rather family should support the person
I am a brown kudi but the best thing is my parents never said anything about my colour literally nothing and thankfully I've got the best friends who never even talk about my skin tone.
Kahani Hai ek bohu ki , who was offended in sasural for her lower cast. Even her daughter (first child) also considered as lower cast but her second child a boy considered as upper cast like them. Cast which can't be seen in our open eyes is made her life miserable in sasural.
Ye video bahut Accha laga mujhe me v dikhe me sundar nhi hu or bachapan se mujhe v yese hi sunne ko mila har koi majak banata tha lekin ab mene apne aap ko accept kar liya me jesi hu sundar hu or ab mujhe kisi ko face karne me dar nhi lagta 😊😊
Bachpan se mujhe v Aisa hi feel kraya gya or mai introvert shy or shidi itni ki koi v bewakoof bna de hmesha se lgta tha mujhme koi kmi h Sadi koi nhi krega koi pasand nhi krega yhi sunene ko Mila or mom ko ye pta v nhi h ki unke Aisa kuch bolne k wajah se mujh pr kya asar pada unhe to yaad v nhi ki Aisa kuch bola h unhone mere Kai saal barbad ho gye ye soch kr ki Sadi hi sabse important chij koi pasand kr le ye bhut badi baat h mujhe khud ko accept krne me 10 saal lg gye ab jb carrier important h to mom ko lgta h Sadi k liye age nikl rha h itne nakhre krogi to koi pasand nhi aata tumhe to Sadi kaise hoga ab Mujhe fark nhi padta koi Sadi kre na kre Mai job krugi or khud apni life independent ho kr jee skti hu lekin maan maar k kisi aise insaan se Sadi nhi krugi Jo mere liye shi na ho mujhme koi kmi nhi h kmi logo k soch me h ❤
Sorry apki bat padhi bahut bura laga kyuki maa ke liye sab bache barabar hote he pls sab acha hoga aap pareshan na ho rona aa gaya
same here
me abhi b usi takleef sy guzr rae hu k koi mjy psnd ni kryga
itny bury or uneducated log b a k mjy reject krdyty hn me toot chuki hu koi future ni nzr ata 🥺😢
Bilkul sahi kaha sis aapne par AAP ka mr wright AAP ko jarur milega jo aap ko dekh kr nhi aap ke Dil ko dekh kr aap ko pasand karega
Same 🥺
Very good decision beta
But the reality is 80% Indian women and men will still go for fair complexion no matter how many such series are made. Fair & lovely has become bright & lovely, I mean this scam will never stop until we ourself raise our voice.
Sad bt true.
Yes
We have same case in my home , I am quiet fair than my sister, everybody commenting since childhood she is so dark and I am so fair like that . Now she is married with Brahmin handsome boy
@@SoniyaVermaRecipesandLifestyle in my case ulta hai....I have to hear such things....bt I love every bit of my body for it is a gift of almighty to me and I m thankful .
@@Roochii....bilkul thankfull hona chahiye khoobsoorat dill hona chahiye or white s ziyada dark color acha lagta hay kashish hoti hay bohot ❤
It always happens with me from childhood to still. Specially my elder sister and my mother always teasing me cause of my colour complexion is little undertone but not too dark. But i always focused on my studies not for beauty and fashion like my didi...and now she is a housewife and I'm a Central Government Employee. She is dealing with her tough husband who doesn't care about her beauty. And I'm shining in my present and also for future with God's blessings. She always kept taunting me and also my mother loved her more than me.... ye Matt phen tujpe accha nhi lgega tu Kali hai.... and all that..... I really felt bad.... when I got the appointment of my government Job then I was flying and she was crying 😅😅😅😅and her husband jobless after there marriage. And my fiance is a gazetted officer..... Thank you so much Shiva ❤ Bholenath....so guys kbhi kisi ko bura naa bolo na bura socho... my personal experience.... Jai Mata di..
Sahi hai tumhari gori bhen ki iski saza bhi mili 😏
Great can we be friends I am Sarah afzal.
Jobless husband 😂
Your story reminds me a book called "One Indian Girl" by Chetan Bhagat.
Ohh yeahhh you slayed it girl.....now it's something that I want to flex after some years 🙌....
Proud of you girlll❤
Very beautiful! My story is same. Everyone from childhood said that tumhare nain naksh bhut acche hai agar gori hoti to bhut sunder lagti, but I feel myself beautiful
Lived it
Same here..
Same here
Same...even I heard this after my marriage
Me too
Its important and best to have such siblings ❤
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Yesss just like you who always hv a back 💗💞❤️😘
@@khushboodudeja1812 ❤ indeed!
This happens only in villages not capitals like Delhi Bangalore
@@shreyatr8059no...not at all
A child is like a sponge, absorbing everything going around. As a parent it is one's utmost responsibility to give the right kind of values, support and encouragement so that the child grows upto be a confident individual and shines like a star!
The worse thing to do is to critisize or bully an individual based on the ridiculous and out rightly negative believes of society when it comes to what is beautiful!
When the criticism comes from one's own parents, the scar of that can be life long!
Kudos to Life Tak for talking about this particular evil of society.
As a mother of two daughters who have diffrent skin tones one "wheatish" and the other "fair" I have always fond both of them gorgeous in their own ways and been there for them with my support, often literally shutting up people who would try to either compare the two or pass a snide one!
All humans are beautiful in their own ways... Beauty is skin deep and high time society and it's uncles and aunties understand that and go get a life!!!
Thank you Life Tak for this beautiful short film!
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Best comment ever read.❤❤
In India groom can be dark. But bride should be fair😏
My mum is fair and my dad is dark. I got light brown skin tone. My relatives are telling I didn't get my mother's colour.
Same situation..... My relatives are also same 😓
Same like me....
In India groom should have high package,job,single child...bride should be graduate, 5 bfs, 😅
It is responsible of groom to seve the bride with love ,care , respect. But bride should be not bounded...she should be independent women, she can have multiple affairs in offices, social media.
Groom should take consent for pleasure, but bride should not take. If bride wants and husband not gives then she can happily make extra marital affair also justify it.
👍👏👏
It's all about giving and taking the girl should be beautiful and the boy should be working in a good company with a higher package.
@@manishmaurya8416ladke kamayenge nhi to biwi bachcho ko khilayenge kya or ladkiyan job kre ya na kre unko to ghar ke sare kaam karne hi padte hai or 5 bf kiske hote hai ? Tumhari mom ke hai kya? Indian society ki yahi to mindset hai ki ladki agar job kar rhi hai to uske 5 bf honge, ladka chehe khud 10 gf kyu na rkhta ho 😂
Color discrimination has always existed and not going anywhere, no matter how much you educate people. I have lived with it my whole life
Soo treu
So relatable
You are soooooo right...many of us go thru hell coz of our skin color n fair maidens are considered apsaras...
Sahi baat ..I am also facing same situation.
You're right, so I have lived with it all my life too, I'm 40 :). It will never eradicate but will surely educate people to appreciate more than discriminate :)
Thnk fully i had a wonderful parents who protected me from the society n made me feel like a princess at home . But outside i was a victim of this racism every where right frm school to my medical College....but am proud tht i faced it n grew stronger 💪. Being dusky is not easy in India but i was lucky to hv my mom n dad to hv been so supportive throughout which made me forget the pain i faced in the outside world. I can so relate to this video 😊
Ap doctor bun rahi ho,u are soooo lucky dear sis 💖💖💖doctor tu human angel hote hain,aur angels gore kale ya dusky nahi hote,siraf angels hote hain
@@hudabaig2504 awwwwww !!!!! Thnk u so much fr ur kind words. Unfortunately my bad luck I landed up being a dermatologist so u cn image my situation, i hv faced d worse initially I wanted to quit wen I joined but my mentor motivated me n now am successful in my career n happy. I give guidance n counsel the ppl regarding the skin color use of steroid or OTC fairness creams n spread d awareness regarding it , it's jus skin deep n u need to accept them n take care of wat u hv gt , most of them do understand but sum stil hv tht mentality stil which nobody cn change . Atleast I cn make a small difference to the society am happy abt it cos it's a rural setup n ppl trust me .lots of love ❤️ n thnk u
Did they tease you as black, black😂? Kaali Kaluti agayi😂
Wow super content I have undergone the same way as my younger sister was very fair and I my colour was black. My grand parents used to show discrimination between us . When the marriage age has come my younger sister got married first as no one was ready to marry me due to my colour. I thought I will not get married but now I am married and my husband is very fair and caring and he liked me because of my character and not due to my colour.
Congratulations ❤❤❤❤
Lucky you
❤❤❤❤be happy❤❤
" You are not ugly we just live in a judgemental society"
RM said it ..the best line❤
Kim namjoon from bts rm said this line ...❤❤❤❤
Said by Kim namjoon...💜
No but she's literally sooo very BEAUTIFUL?? I absolutely love how she looks ❤️ Both of the siblings were so beautiful!!!
Thank you so much for the love 🥹❤️
@@meghlayanaso you are the actress wow dude ❤
Honestly , no
Who needs enemies when one has mother's like that.
😢😢
This story is just like mine.I face this situation from childhood
Mee too
And my
Fair complexion means beautiful as per the society 😔
Truly said-"Beauty is only in your soul not in your Colour ❤ Awesome msg.
You truly have a spark and glow in your face. Beautiful does not mean skin tone, size or degrees … it’s character and goodness in your heart. Unfortunately 80’s generation are still struck up there carrying the tantrums which they had from may be 60’s or 70’s. Atleast we new generation have to break them
So true 😢
@@Gunjankauranand😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 0:46
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10:09 same story of me...
It is easy to say that I love my skin colour..but truly difficult to actually internalize this feeling..after many years of consistently feeling insecure about it.. I remember I was in college once and a guy commented on my picture "Tera iphone bhi tujhe gora nahi bana paya iss picture mei.." I was just 16 or 17 back then..and today after 10 years... I still remember that comment so vividly.
I can’t forget one of my tuition batchmate called me Kala Hit in front of whole class and I still remember I started crying immediately.
I can never forget this incident for life .
Fine episode. Beauty doesn't mean fair skin. I wish all those fairness creams etc are banned. In fact, those with dusky skin tone tend to be more photogenic and look beautiful in pictures too. Saw Nirupama ji in a regressive role for the first time :-) Muskaan as a vivacious and supportive sibling was very good. Kudos to the team !
But fairness creams are also used by fair girls.
@@hinaamin5717 Yes, those who want to look fairer, but dark-skinned girls use them more - all due to obsession with far skin in general :-(
Meri beti ka skin tone bhi aisa hai and she says main brown color ki hoon but i always say that u r beautiful ..she is only 5.
MashAllah. Every girl deserve a mother like u. Salute to u
This obsession of fairness is a long term effect of the British rule on our country. My God! We have been independent for more than 75 years now. Dark beauties like Sushmita Sen and Lara Dutta have been Miss Universe. At least now, this mad obsession should leave some fools' brains.
in india people are obsessed with fair skin but the irony it that americans and europeans (actual white people) have a huge market for fake tan products🙂
every skin tone is beautiful
Why blame the British for it? It's been that way long before the British came over.
Excuse me ..!! like assumption on its peak ...!😂 Ye kaale gore ka obsession koi British ki den nahi h ....usse bohot pehele hi aa chuka tha ye hamari society me.
Not "assumption". Its what I have read in books of sociology written by learned authors. Read a little ancient history and you will realize learned intellectual women like Gargi, Gauri, Matreyi (and many more) existed and they were known for their intelligence, not color of skin. Its an open fact that Britishers ruled us for more than 200 years, still some Indians get so much offended if they hear facts against them.😂🙏
@@meghanawagh7991❤❤❤
The sister is so nice. Thank you for another great episode.
Kabhi majak me kbhi knowingly kbhi unknowingly my family too have hurt me on my dusky complexion.
But as I get older, I started loving myself and my complexion.
Recently, I gave birth to a baby boy. His complexion is on me. When anyone comment bhot sunder hai beta par sawla kyu hai.
I reply them uski maa sawli hai isliye vo bhi sawla hai.
No one can hurt you unless you let them to.
Well said.
Dii just add one more word kahiye .. kyoki uski maa khubsurt savli hai ..isiliye bachha bhi khubsurat savla hai..
I can relate the pain of dusky girl. It took me a long time to gain the self confidence and to me it's an achievement that I post pictures without adding any filter😊😊
I had supportive childhood but I was under confident as all my friends were fair skin so it took a toll on my confidence while I was growing up.
Not only colour but height and money also make this fuss…I’m a doctor and from middle class family after completing my studies (which was very challenging) my parents want me to get marry and they was very worried about my height and we are financially not so good….instead of being proud of me they started telling me to compromise and marry someone who is uneducated or someone who I don’t feel my worth….it was very challenging days for me…I use to cry and pray god for myself….but it happened 1 day when my husband parents met with my parents…and I got married within a month ..my husband is an engineer at one of the largest oil and gas refinery abroad and most handsome and down to earth man I have ever seen…now I thank god
Aj Bhi ...Yes 2023 main bhi aysa video banana parta hain ....🥺 Thank you for the reminding me that I am blessed with this kind of supporting family ❤ thank you Maa Baba again ... ❤❤
Jo bhe in kahaniyo ko likhta h aur apke kirdaar sab dekh ke maja a jata h her baar naye soche love u❤❤
I always admire how you conclude the videos... no melodramatic shift in circumstances or diametrically different behaviour. Rather you show a realistic and believable attitude of the characters towards the point in question. The acting and script and concepts are already bang on!! Well done Life Tak ❤❤
Nice story. This is applicable for thin and fat and short and tall girls. I have faced this and maybe many girls faced this. Attitude should be changed.
So true, I was born fat. No matter what I do, I am unable to lose some of the weight and be skinny like my sister who eats more than me and never gains weight. I was called all sorts of names by my own sister, and my brother was always on about when was I going to lost the weight, to this day.
Black is diamond 💎 ❤ no one should ever let you down because of your skin color!? Every skin colour is beautiful and we have to appreciate it!? A proud black queen 👑❤
Omg she is indeed extremely beautiful.. haven’t seen such a beauty ❤
She is beautiful and her skin is flawless.
That’s so sweet thank you ❤️🥹
It's just not color .... parents n society make us conscious about our body type , features n not having flawless skin , wearing specs .... etc .... I experienced it since childhood n this insecurity stays with us 4r life long 😢
With me it always was weight. Which was not that bad, now that I see old pics.
Strangely I was always over-confident despite the 'body shaming' but I was always put on a diet.
I was 17 when I left home (for school) till my thirties, no diets or scales.
@@shaktiratan I can relate to it .... I was made to realise about my small tummy n make me wear clothes to hide it though I wasn't even fat that time.... as 4r me also the weight n body shaming by family let me go through so much n even today it hasn't stopped ... I feel we cannot change them but we definitely can accept n love ourselves ..... so I feel it's OK to Disappoint ppl n choose ourselves n love our body in every phase ❤️
@@shaktiratan 🥰❤️
@@shaktiratan wow that is inspirational .... I m learning it in my 40s ... dealing with perimenopause n now I don't care who likes Mr or not as I do 🥰❤️
Gunjan one day I said to my parents 'What am I to you? A fat body or your daughter?' They stopped from that day and the thoughts of the rest doesn't really count.
My over-confidence is just in me. Have it with everything, think I can do almost everything and think I am great ....... not neccessarily always good though! I am learning the opposite....to tone down!
I m lucky to hv a sister like her ❤
Why can't we treat everybody as normal person, lets not sugarcoat everything by saying " BUT u r beautiful" which makes people more insecure, let them be themselves, let us be ourselves 😊
But the reality is everyone gives more respect to fairness
Amazing video 👌🤘 Well said - Beauty lies in character not colour. But our judgemental society thinks that fair skin is one & only parameter of Beauty which is absolutely wrong 🙅. Being darker or dusky skin tone doesn't means it's bad or not beautiful it's just our foolish mindset that we don't accept the truth .
Hope your views remain same when it comes to a fat guy, but if you ask women whether a fat guy is looking handsome or a guy with six packs, almost all women would have the same answer, rather than 50:50 which should be according to the probability. Foolish mindset right!
But to remain fat or thin is in your hands. The color complexion is not in your hands. A fat guy can do some dieting but obviously a dusky girl cannot make her complexion fair and it is not in her hands as well.
@@hinaamin5717 Very Well said 👌 exactly my point 👍
I am proud of my mother who always supported me never let me realise I am less beautiful just because I am overweight. I am really lucky to have a beautiful soul like her in my life.
May this world not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character
The concept is actually nice but people are not aware that it is never about the complexion its always about the skin undertone (warm,cool n neutral). When we wear colors according to our skin undertone it gives a glow to a person regardless of complexion. ❤❤
Can I know/read about this more in ditails..
Pls Mam
@@asifali-rw5oc sure you can look on google for various articles about how to find your skin undertone ? Then after discovering your skin undertone you can search for which colors look good on your discovered skin undertone ? E.g. my wrist veins are greenish in color so i am warm undertone mostly mustards,purples,green,offwhite etc suits me more. If i wear light yellow and white my complexion does not pops out it looks dull. There are many instagram reels and youtube channels of image consultants who guide people to look better according to their body types,skin undertone,face shape,complexion,eye shape,lip shape etc etc. Every body type and complexion is pretty if styled well. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So grateful and happy to be part of this film! The Life Tak team was so lovely to work with ❤️
Thank you for all the love and compliments everyone 🥹🙏🏽❤️
It awesome in the video
Aap apna address mere number per send kre me aap ko real story send krugi , ye story hmare hi saamaj ka hissa hai, jin per short film banna jroori hai, ek family bhi dekh ker sbak sikh jayegi ho kafi hai.
You were great ❤
Big fan ma’am
You’re a star ❤
You are a beautiful person!
बहुत अच्छी लगी फिल्म और सही में लोगो का नजरिया ये रंग भेद को लेकर आज भी बहुत nhi बदला है जो अत्यंत ही दुखद और शर्मनाक भी है।ये भेदभाव लार्कियो में हीनभावना को बढ़ाती है।अतः इस तरह के व्यवहार को खत्म करना चाहिए।
my sister was a shade darker and she had to endure so much. She is no longer with us but those who taunted her are still around glorifying themselves
I'm 34
married..
Still face this every time by almost lot many people
Bachpan se Ghar walo ne confidence khatam kar Diya tha
College me gai to dheere dheere apne aap me confidence le k aai that color doesn't matter but shadi k baad sasural walo ne fir se yaad dila diya
Today I don't bother much about that but at some points , some people always point out that am not fair 😢
Good message. Not just color even girls wearing specs r abused and made fun of by some people which I have faced in my life
That's true I have seen many girls who don't wear specs even after having low vision because they will not get a good ' Rista ' after wearing it. My many friends and cousins do the same but I was so shocked when I asked my 15 year old student that why don't she wear specs even after she can't see black board clearly. She told me that She will not get a good groom if anyone in her community get to know about her specs.
My own mother would always comment that if she lose abit of weight in the tummy she will look beautiful. so for her i was never beautiful i had to be perfect. When own family member pushes us down our trust in them breaks, that what happen with me. Husband would say I wish i love you when you were thin so when i was thin he didn't be care for me. Everyone love was base on appearance. So I started to love myself fully including flaws, being stubborn, being disobedient, what habit i have positive or negative I give unconditional love to myself and always be kind to myself no matter what. Cause words have power to push us down or lift us up. I Choose to rise up by being emotionally & physically independent. Support myself in every step of the way no matter what other say my respond will always be "I love myself unconditionally"
Log gareebi aur kale rang ki taw dhajiyan hin udate hai. Aur ye kabhi mitne wala bhi nahi .yahan jis ladki darshaya gaya uska color phir bhi.. brown me jaayega..par Jo pure hard black hote hai..unko kitna kuchh sunna aur sehna padta hai..woh taw wahi jaane...jaise ki hum..log...kaale aur brown bohut difference..hain..bhaii behen 🙏
It's true but this is still prevalent and will be there till eternity.
I was also heard bad things about my body and skin colour from childhood. I cried when I was alone everytime. But now I realise that I am beautiful in my own way. Every women is beautiful in her own way. No one has right to call her ugly or body shaming her.
Great subject, Great presentation, great acting by all of you
I'm brown skinned, and my aunt is dark-skinned, and we both are facing this color discrimination. Hn woh alag baat hai ki mereko farak padta nhi . Koi mere skin color ko kuch bolta hai toh middle finger 🖕 dikha deti hun😂
M to yhi bolti hu mujje mera rang bht psnd h....gora bda bekar lgta h mujje....fr chup ho jate h sb 🤣
Same happened..mere sath bhi. Or aaj tal shadi k matter me b yhi ho rha h. Sach to ye h.. jaha sundarta or gorapan ho wha logo ko pyar b apne aap ho jate h
Being a girl with brown skin in India I have faced a lot racism.
And being from an Indian brown family it's natural for me to have brown skin.
I have no control over it. And personally I love the way I am, but this Indian society will never accept me as beautiful or pretty girl also after having great facial features and being in proper shape and having many skills just because I am not fair.
It literally sucks because the society judge me on the basis of my dark skin tone, skin tone is the thing which I don't choose for my self it's god gifted and I love it but the people of India don't after knowing that our Indian original skin tone meant to be wheatish brown. The ancient Indian queens were also not of fair skin tone then also they were considered as beautiful.
This fair skin obsession comes after the British Empire.
Even Lord Krishna was of dark skin tone .
But people will always do partiality on the basis of skin tone.
There's no problem in having dark skin tone. The problem is we are born in the sick society who can't look beyond some ones looks and appearance
Only brown or black girls can understand the situations of us......
i used get lots of hate comments about my skin tone. One of my classmate called me kaali front of whole class and i had no answer......now I'm in 12th and because of color I always sky to talk to boys..... Really, it's very hard for me.......
Honestly the brown sister looks magically beautiful
Oh it's so true. Although I am wheatish colour but her taunts made me from wheatish to black. However and how much one tries but the skin tone will remain the same. I wish and hope people become more appreciative and accepting instead of being rude and discriminating.
My skintone is a little bit dark that's why some of my toxic cousins and my friends told me that im ugly i have to do my skincare even they told it infront of some unknown people as they hear it even they compare me with a animal i felt so bad for that but some of my friends cousins and relatives always support me and never make me feel bad for my skin tone big respect for people who have dark skin tone!❤️
Same my friends and cousins are also very toxic 😢
Tbh she is actually beautiful not only she every girl is beautiful in their own way 💗 just believe in yourself trust me you are beautiful 😍
Exactly everything is temporary.
Waw ...I agree on this short film 😊❤❤
Ensan apne behavior or character se sundr hota h na ke color se 😊🌸🪔
Beautiful video , very nice message to all of us , that a colour can't describe the personality of a person for example a person is fair doesn't mean that he or she is not good in any way or if a person is beautiful that also don't mean that he or she is very good in every manners. So don't judge a person on the basis of colour ,body or phical apairence , etc etc love all and please don't hate anyone just on the basis of stupid things. 🙏
Love you both sisters ❤️❤️❤️❤️
When people compare siblings, it hurts both of them. 🙁
Skin colour aur height aaj ka society ma bht matter krta baaki fir to taunt hi milta hai
Yes...I can this to myself almost same as my past. Its really hurts when this kind of demotivation get from near ones. By time I accepted myself n loving to which really gave me lots of confidence. N yeah Nobody believes me that i m telling my story as people get attracts towards me easily. ❤❤❤❤
Hope everyone sees this short film and understand what we go through when we are criticized for our skin tone.. I have faced a lot of criticism for my skin tone and now my 7 years old daughter is being criticized for the same. But I have stood strong for my child and warned everyone not to speak to my kid about complexion. Thank God my mil has stopped criticizing my daughter for her complexion.
Way to go. Mama bear..
I am a shade lighter than her and since childhood have been hearing taunts for my wheatish skin color from relatives, it loses your self confidence
Please do not let others define you. Next time a relative brings up your colour, you must speak up and let them KNOW how theirs comments make you feel inside and tell them to STOP! If they get offended then so be it, after all they have been offending you all this time. Speak UP, you can do it!🤗
@@Winston-v4x no now i dont care, am a grown up independent woman and i can reply back as well
I am dark and felt black color doesn't suit me . I was presented a printed saree by my friend and everyone was surprised how black suits a dark skinned person. My inlaws were upset I was dark . But I was educated, traveled and was holding a good position. One day I was giving lift to 2 of colleagues
One told her daughter didn't want to attend the school as teacher had dark skin . But the girl married someone darker than me. Other lady told me her grand child not play with dark skinned child. Unfortunately her son divorced so called beautiful girl
Nice concept... but the younger daughter she is very cute.. her acting is perfect ❤
And my maa is just the opposite of this mother. I myself hesitate to wear cream, yellow but my mom says, "Tera veham hai" and then I bought mustard coloured dress and believe me, I wore that dress only thrice and at least three people praised me every time I wore that and I flaunt myself beautifully in that mustard colour. So yes, my maa is beautiful & so is her daughter ❤❤
Everyone deserves people like your mom in their life❤
My little cousin she look beautiful, fair skin tone
and I have dusky skin tone.
My relative and neighbors use to say ,
"बडी बेटी के शादी के वक्त छोटी बेटी को छुपाकर रखना पडेगा इतनी सुंदर लग रही है नही तो लोग इसेही देखते रहे जायेंगे."
But I always ignore them and try to love my self.❤
The best part of this channel is they never says to subscribe the channel.not only say but also never write this line.
Jisko content achcha lgega wo khud subscribe krega ..
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Aap bahut Sundar ho kisi ke roop se nahi uske dil aur character se asli sunder hona chahiye 👌❤️
She really is very beautiful 😍😍❤❤
Its message of not color important but beauty is importance
You may not find this as interesting or engaging, but since it is very close to my heart, I thought I should share it.
When I was four years old, I lost my sight. Due to that, I was mocked by everyone, even my relatives didn't spare me. With my family by my side, I was able to get admission to Tagore International School where I got the chance to study with normal students and prove my worth. Even now, after one year of my passing out from school, I continue to receive advices and suggestions from my teachers. The college where I study, Motilal Nehru College, even there , in the department of Political Science, of which I am a student, we have a professor who is a visually impaired.. It does not matter how you look, but how you are from inside.
Congratulations on your achievements despite the added hardships!
@@Winston-v4x
Hi there, thank you so much for those comments sir. I strongly believe that you are not weak from the body part that for some reason does not work at all, but you get weaker the moment you start thinking in your mind that you are useless. Be mentally strong and you will ace every challenge in life. Until class 10th, I was a student who did not speak or participate much in class discussions. But in 2020, when the world was battling Corona virus and we all moved to do our work remotely from home, it was then that in class eleventh, i met a teacher who was to teach me Political Science because I had taken up Humanities. She gave me my lost voice back and the confidence that I was able to achieve anything and everything if I wanted the thing diligently and if I was determined for it. From that very day, I made her my coach and in her guidance, performed stupendously in the board exams of class 12th and scored 95 percent with my highest marks being in Political Science.
@@Winston-v4x
Hi there, thank you so much for those comments sir. I strongly believe that you are not weak from the body part that for some reason does not work at all, but you get weaker the moment you start thinking in your mind that you are useless. Be mentally strong and you will ace every challenge in life. Until class 10th, I was a student who did not speak or participate much in class discussions. But in 2020, when the world was battling Corona virus and we all moved online to do our work from the comfort of our homes, due to the health threat that loomed large in those days, it was then that in class eleventh, i met a teacher who was to teach me Political Science because I had taken up Humanities. She gave me my lost voice back and the confidence that I was able to achieve anything and everything if I wanted the thing diligently and if I was determined for it. From that very day, I made her my coach and in her guidance, performed stupendously in the board exams of class 12th and scored 95 percent with my highest marks being in Political Science.
@Sakura_forge_Xyz
Yes I am totally fine. Its Aryaman not Aryan.
@Sakura_forge_Xyz
No ma'am, it has not come back and I am a visually impaired still.
this is such a true story .. I am the younger one in this story and I have an elder sister . In our teenage my mum used to do a lot of discrimination not only with my sister but with me also that I should not wear nice clothes so that I don't look better than my sis ... and then nobody would look at my sis. That feeling got imbibed in my sis so deep that till now she feels jealous of me
It’s not the question of being beautiful or not / in our Indian society people are extremely and obnoxiously judgmental about women’s look , skin color which is always under scrutiny!
And also dark women in our society should be self confident and proud of their beauty- never bow down or accept to any discriminatory comments even from their mothers !
So beautiful yellow dress and jhumke very beautiful
It happens with me before my marriage, it's hurting so much
Fortunate.....i have one younger sister who too helps to take stand for me....❤❤
all your videos are just amazing. please make a video on the topic of equal sharing of household and outdoor work between male and female.
Faced this all my childhood no one should face this
*'Tumhari didi 29 ki ho gayi hai aur abhi tak ladka nahi mila hai...!!'* Yes, dark skinned girls have to try a lot harder in order to gain acceptance in the matrimonial circuit, in spite of their brilliant academic and professional accomplishments - that is the sad and bitter truth in Northern India!
All over India, it is not any better in the south
Meri mummy jb bhi mera scl mai parents meeting k liye jati thi n to kch female teacher meri mummy ko aa kr bolta tha apki ladki aap pr to bikul nhi gyi kyuki aap to bhot sundar ho jrur apna papa pr gyi hogiii. Meri ko acha nhii lgta ye sun kr vo to mai sambli nhi hu . Pta nhii log aese kaise bol deta hai kisi ko ,mujh to agr koi acha bhi nhi lgta to mai usko bura shura nhii khati balki usko appreciate krti hu uski tarerf krti huu .
Nirupama ji always plays the idealistic mom in most episodes but this time she got an earful from her daughter. Talking of black complexion Rekha is an amazing example of the saying ' black is beautiful '. Even though someone may be dark at least they should have good facial features to overlook the dark skin tone.
Who is Rekha?
@@Winston-v4x famous Bollywood actress
If you don't judge people on facial complexion, why you are judging on facial features saying some are good while others aren't, if beauty doesn't lies in color, neither it should lie in features as well, or otherwise in both. The point is that it is what it is, do fat people are considered beautiful, if blacks can be considered beautiful, fats should also be, but people never say fats beautiful, why videos aren't made on that topic. I mean people spreads narrative in which they are most comfortably placed in, black girls are beautiful but if a boy is fat, why he isn't handsome then, hence completely biased
Rekha was never black , she was brown
@@divyansh1305 what bullshit you are commenting . What has women colour to do with men fat . Both should be discussed separately . She shouldn't have said that black can beautiful if one has good features . With that logic even fair skin too required good features to look beautiful . Let's be honest not all fair skin are beautiful . It comes down to features I mean facial features. Here the discussion is going on skin colour irrespective of gender .
I am glad that this sister looks out for her. Usually, the beautiful sister always tears down the other.
Me as a fair toned skin girl think differently..i always think that dusky skin toned people can wear any colour outfit because they look great in those all colours..but whenever i want to wear any light shaded coloured dress, i always feel that it doesnot suits me well as it resembles my skin tone..so dusky skin tone is much more better than fair skin tone as per my opinion..love this video❤ and the yellow dress is so gorgeous ❤❤
But dear, even that's not true.
But ye bhi to same hi hua...
Discrimination hi hua na
Jaise girl boy ka hota hai... Aajkal bezizak log bolte hai ki mujhe to beti hi chahiye, beta to chahiye hi nhi... Why don't they understand that this is also a gender discrimination... 😅😅😅😅
You are not fair skinned though
Everyone is beautiful in someway, other person should just have the sight.
Not just light but dark is beautiful too !!
My mom is also like same who forces me to apply fairness creams, but I don't like using it at all ...
I'm really blessed with dusky skin tone and I love my own skin tone
Let your mother know that you derive your skin tone from her and your father's genes, and that it is never going to change, nor do you want it to...that she must accept the reality and stop bothering you about it.
@@Winston-v4xTBH when my dad was young he was extremely very fair skinned like newspapers but later he became quiet darker but my granny (dad's mom) was dusk like me and I got the skin color from her
💯TRUE !! Behind every successful woman is herself.
Very good topic and new girl too👌🏻Often, before society, it's our family only who belittles us upon our shortcoming. Rather family should support the person
True..all our society's induction...self contentment is imp
these actresses are the best among the crew
Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder!!!
I am a brown kudi but the best thing is my parents never said anything about my colour literally nothing and thankfully I've got the best friends who never even talk about my skin tone.
Sabka atma se sunder hona zaruri hai😊 Hare Krishna ❤
Kahani Hai ek bohu ki , who was offended in sasural for her lower cast. Even her daughter (first child) also considered as lower cast but her second child a boy considered as upper cast like them. Cast which can't be seen in our open eyes is made her life miserable in sasural.
Ye video bahut Accha laga mujhe me v dikhe me sundar nhi hu or bachapan se mujhe v yese hi sunne ko mila har koi majak banata tha lekin ab mene apne aap ko accept kar liya me jesi hu sundar hu or ab mujhe kisi ko face karne me dar nhi lagta 😊😊
Yeh jitna bhi gyaan de dein jo sach he r jo log dekhte hein vohi he roop aur rang nowadays these are the things matter dts it
She really looks beautiful in that yellow suit she looks so beautiful ❤❤❤❤