5 First Date Tips for Women | IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP
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When he said “offer to pay “ I knew right there he ain’t talking about my type👐🏽
Yep. The man has to pay. Periodt
EXACTLY
Same 😂
Right lol
Watch it again, and listen this time. He didn’t say the guy shouldn’t pay. He said, if the first date is a coffee date, it’s a very low cost test the woman can do to learn. Why wouldn’t you want to test if the guy is going to accept your payment?
This is for masculine women . Never
I work during the week , I’m tired after work. Would only be available on the weekend. Not interested in low expectation, no effort dating. I am from an older generation where dressing up for someone, taking someone out to someplace special, Romance and putting your best foot forward was the norm. What a disappointment this generation of men is . I feel sorry for my daughter.
100 % agree. Having a memorable date is not 30 minute coffee.
I WISH you could tell my family this! Dating now is hard and I look at my peers' relationships and notice they're just together for financial reasons, sex, they simply dont want to be alone or they're waiting for the next best thing.
Im glad you understand as a parent!
For real. 1 hour tops??? That just screams you’re not serious and not worth dating. A real date better be more than an hour.
And getting to the first date - you should’ve already invested a bit of time to know you WANT a real date with this person. A first meeting is NOT a date. It’s just a meeting.
Twit! The idea of a coffee date is to 'weed' out the weirdos so you don't get 'caught up in romance'
Me watching this on the way to a dinner date
Me too 😂
the question is: was the dinner date on weekend? and the 2nd one: was it your FIRST date with this person🥲🥲
@@mamasitatitahow’d it go? ❤😃
@@nicolemjohnson We are in a relationship and happy 😁❤️ There’s still hope out there. Just have to be the best version of yourself and know what you want!
Spot on.🎯 Except for the paying part. The guy should always pay if he's man enough.
Exactly. I also disagree
Agreed
He did say as a woman you’re testing the man by doing this. So I think that’s a good one. A lot of men tend to be very cheap with their woman. I rather know you’re cheap from the beginning before investing so much time with that person to then realize they’re a leech
I strongly disagree about paying the bill
OMG pay for your own coffee WTF
I can’t believe my ear
He went from saying go for coffee, don’t expect dinner to, offer to pay for dinner so I don’t think you’re here for free food. You didn’t even offer food! Wtf?
How about no !!
I disagree with your 1st date philosophy. We are very busy and dont have time during the week . 1st date is a damn interview, always has been. We are married via some of these traditional ways of conducting things that now some of you are all undermining. You content creators just try and come up with things that dont add up, just to come across as presenting a fresh idea . It is what it is a fresh idea, not a must do or else ? There is no formula . Dont agree on the bill either, offering to pay the bill is off masculine energy and not feminine energy. Feminine does not operate that way . Men just dont know what they want. You say you are naturally providers , so why does it hurt to feed an extra mouth. This is Ludacris. What is food really that you be complaining about it. Before we leave , it probably remains in the toilet. Dont date if you dont want the cons that come with . Approaching dating like its investing in stocks and shares ? This is not a business transaction. Its matters of the heart , mind , soul and body . Not matters of try and keep the cost low to get profits 📈 That is business mindset not a dating mind-set. Stay home with your Netflix if you dont want to find a potential somebody while feeding them in the process . The only thing i agree with is the intimacy part . The rest is not make sure, computer is not computing.
100% I like a lunch break activity. A dinner date is too pricey. Why spend time and money on a complete unknown. Kisses are priceless. Does Tiffany"s have free samples? Not even.
Where are men like you?! 🤣 Always a pleasure to watch your videos. Keep going 🤙
I knowww 😩
I don't want to give the false impression on the first date to a man that I would be a cheap, convenient and fast partner by any means. I only date men whom I find truly worth it so if he doesn't make the effort to provide me a proper first date, there would not be a future for us anyways.
U will spend your life dating, chill
Coffee is not a date. Whoever invites should pay. It's not that complicated.
No man wants a relationship anymore. Dating is done. Women can go chat with their 5 male friends they are not attracted to and thats it.
True lol
If I invite someone out to eat I usually pay for them so I think it depends on who asks who on the date
Men pay. Periodt.
cheap man
I don’t understand why so many women think a guy should pay. Sure there’s still a gender wage gap, but it just doesn’t seem like you’re that committed if paying for your own meal is a deal breaker.
I’m old school. Dinner only last as long as you want it too. Friday dinner for an hour….nothing wrong with that. Plus….Im in bed early in the weekdays after a long filled day with early work…gym and repeat.
Me watching this going to the movies😅
I agree men and women need to earn time. Time is priceless.
Nonsense
Whoever invites the person to the date pays. The woman should never have to offer to pay or rummage around for her wallet on the first date. Plain and simple. Although, men should always pay at least for the first date.
number 2 is why I stress to even goooo!!
i agree with some points but... a walk? pls i'm not a dog 😭😭
i'm not saying spend a fortune on me or we have to spend half a day together, a coffee date is fine for a first date IF we met online. the second date absolutely has to be something with a bit more effort. and i wouldn't accept a coffee date if the person already saw me in person before deciding to ask me out.
trust me i've been the girl who was cool with low investment first "dates" (even second and third) and offering to split the bill and all of that. and lemme tell you the type of men who let that all happen are just not the kind you want. the relationship sets off with the entirely wrong dynamics. sure, SOME dudes (like 0.0001% probably - i havent personally met any but hypothetically they could exist) might not base your worth off that, but the vast majority will immediately assume you're a pushover who's just happy to be around a man and they'll start testing how far they can push your courtesy.
better nip it at the bud and start out with a guy who does chivalry off the bat. in my humble opinion
Listening to this just after having a coffee date and was wondering if it should have been dinner? 😆🥰
I’ve had men tell me when I offer to pay especially a an inexpensive date it makes them feel like it’s a signal that the woman isn’t interested & then they don’t ask for a second date. Might it be better to offer the tip
I'd love to do a short & sweet date but what if someone lives 90 minutes away?
Great video ❤ thank you
What if you tell your date to keep it simple and you have no idea where you are going and your a single mom!!!???? I’d rather not eat or owe any many anything. I don’t like to ask for things or get things from others
😅😅😅😂😂you made my day
While I do with agree with everything he said (including women offering to pay) I feel men should peep if their date offers to contribute starting on the 2nd date. If women offers to cover the tip on first date regardless, then that’s great. But it’s not a big indicator of a red flag if she doesn’t ask to chip in ON THE FIRST DATE.
I’m starting to think it’s best a people discuss this topic prior to going out with their date to avoid this nonsense.
💜 I love this video, thank you for sharing!
Omg 🎉you are so right
on point!
Smart man
Nah!!!! I am not offering to pay. No dusties! Be a man or go on....
This is just asking women to lower their standards..
I’m sorry but you sound like you want to give the least