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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @preservid
    @preservid 5 лет назад +322

    I also went through this. The day I was to mail our invitations off, My then fiancé called and said DONT SEND THEM......I sold everything to do with the wedding and went on a two week vacation to California. I met my Now Husband and we got married 3 months later in a very quiet low key wedding (the first one was a huge "Show"). We have now been Happily married 41 years! To this day we often say that we owe this other guy a Big Thank you, if he hadnt broken the engagement I would have never left for California and we would never have met!

  • @mariat978
    @mariat978 5 лет назад +733

    He was not the one darling....You are blessed with health,family and friends....I guarantee you will get through it....there is not a single doubt in my mind....

  • @sophiasmith6111
    @sophiasmith6111 5 лет назад +1837

    As harsh as it seems - it's better this happened before you got married , rather than a few years down the line when it would of been that much more complicated . Sending love your way ❤️❤️

    • @jackienolan9142
      @jackienolan9142 5 лет назад +44

      Sophia smith agree 100%. Consider it a bullet dodged and you will end up with the person who you were meant to be with.

    • @suvachatomar
      @suvachatomar 5 лет назад +63

      I don’t want to seem harsh but he always seemed weird to me. It looked like she loved and adored him way more than he loved her. You’ll find someone amazing that will look at you with true love Amelia!

    • @vogamadrid207
      @vogamadrid207 5 лет назад +6

      Oficially they are married, they married in the Uk, she said that in one of her vlogs. They did in order to get married later in France (paper work).

    • @Cara-39
      @Cara-39 5 лет назад +6

      @@suvachatomar It's hard to know what really goes on when the camera is turned off and some people are just not comfortable in front of one. He may have seemed standoffish but RUclips videos are so edited that we really only see what the channel owner wants us to.

    • @KwniStewart
      @KwniStewart 5 лет назад +7

      @@suvachatomar You can't really know if he loves her or not just by the way he shows on camera. Some people get really uncomfortable in front of one or they don't show much emotion in general, but that doesn't mean she wasn't loved

  • @SusieB361
    @SusieB361 5 лет назад +1221

    Amelia, I am so sorry for you. My current husband married his first wife and as they were driving away from the church in London he knew in his heart it was wrong, but he had made the commitment. Six months later she dumped him. He was so devastated that he left London and moved to Miami. That’s where I met him! We’ve been married 39 years and together for 41. People often ask us how we’ve been together that long. The answer is simple: you marry the right person. I am so glad that his first wife dumped him! He wasn’t the right person for her, but he is the one for me! You will find “the one”. ❣️❣️❣️

    • @LaraJoannaJarvis
      @LaraJoannaJarvis 5 лет назад +35

      That is so lovely, 39 years is incredible! Everything happens for a reason x

    • @lw729
      @lw729 5 лет назад +16

      this is very sweet - definitely teared up! Thank you for sharing!

    • @kat.5927
      @kat.5927 5 лет назад +10

      Such a sweet story Susie!

    • @claudiaschultz95
      @claudiaschultz95 5 лет назад +8

      This is so wonderful! Wishing you all the happiness in the world x

    • @emmastrachan9997
      @emmastrachan9997 5 лет назад +7

      What an amazing message! How lovely 🥰

  • @MrMissesFabulous
    @MrMissesFabulous 5 лет назад +821

    In my opinion it was the bravest thing to decide this while planning a wedding. Takes so much courage! There will be the right man one day!

    • @jenm9027
      @jenm9027 5 лет назад +15

      MrMissesFabulous I was thinking the same thing. Some would go through with it just because all of the planning was done. You are wise, Amelia!

    • @hemlockknits
      @hemlockknits 5 лет назад +16

      So much respect. It does get better with ever passing day. I didn’t cancel my wedding when I knew I should. Worst mistake of my life. Going through a divorce is so horrible.

    • @jaykay5541
      @jaykay5541 5 лет назад

      @@hemlockknits same.

  • @TheAnnaEdit
    @TheAnnaEdit 5 лет назад +1293

    Sending you so much love Amelia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @myliemoore6254
    @myliemoore6254 5 лет назад +1024

    I’ve been there before. My engagement fell apart. But 10 months later I met my now husband. 15 years strong. It will happen when it’s right. Take the time you need and heal. Much love to you!❤️

    • @petrak4746
      @petrak4746 5 лет назад +8

      mylie moore yaaaas happy endings do happen x☺️

    • @suesheification
      @suesheification 5 лет назад +8

      Damn. It's been ten years for me and I've met no one.

    • @CARIBLOVE
      @CARIBLOVE 5 лет назад +1

      @@suesheification 😂😂

    • @cdh5068
      @cdh5068 5 лет назад +22

      Yes! My mom was engaged when she was younger and they called it off. Shortly after, she met my dad and 40 years later they’re so in love. My fiancé was engaged before too, which ended with his ex cheating. He met me just a few months later and in two weeks I get to call his my husband! Better things will come

    • @TheLCLeung
      @TheLCLeung 5 лет назад

      CARIBLOVE bcXcxcghu

  • @jadesquires1346
    @jadesquires1346 5 лет назад +815

    There are a lot of people who stay in an unhappy relationship as they can’t find the strength or courage to go through the break up. You’re a brave and beautiful woman who deserves to be incredibly happy, sending you hugs Amelia 💕

    • @prajaktakanade8907
      @prajaktakanade8907 5 лет назад +1

      So true

    • @JJBabbles
      @JJBabbles 5 лет назад +1

      Eloquently said. Very true

    • @DGenerationX1311
      @DGenerationX1311 5 лет назад +1

      Beautifully put

    • @poojaketaruth2920
      @poojaketaruth2920 5 лет назад +1

      Love you Jade. U deserve peace and happiness. Dont let ur past define ur glorious future. Much love ur way😚😚😚😚

    • @abcdefghijklmno785
      @abcdefghijklmno785 4 года назад

      been there, done that. got out of a 5-year miserable relationship with a cheater and a violent man. whew. i guess, you won't find out who someone really is until you are living in the same house. well, we werent married but we lived together.

  • @sophiaottley7203
    @sophiaottley7203 5 лет назад +904

    This takes guts. I'm not gonna lie. I stopped watching your channel because I was a bit overwhelmed with the wedding content. But to go from that to now having to face the world and say you're not ok and everything wasn't as it seems is truly courageous and something not alot of people have the strength to do. But it only proves one thing - you love and care deeply for the people in your life. It's a beautiful gift and something you should only share with someone who is worthy.
    I truly wish you the best Amelia, your spirit and love will take you to far greater places than you've ever imagined. God has plans for you.

    • @karolinaks4192
      @karolinaks4192 5 лет назад +10

      What a lovely post.

    • @sophiaottley7203
      @sophiaottley7203 5 лет назад +2

      @@karolinaks4192 Thanks girl

    • @springett91
      @springett91 5 лет назад +2

      Spot on!

    • @_Jael
      @_Jael 5 лет назад +1

      Same!!

    • @somiyachapman
      @somiyachapman 5 лет назад +5

      Sophia Ottleu honestly, what is going on with her? Wedding, boyfriend, man man man and man and then no man.

  • @indigobluerainbowsun
    @indigobluerainbowsun 5 лет назад +345

    You're grieving a lost future and sometimes that can be almost as painful as losing a person. You've achieved so much in your life so far and as the saying goes, after hardship comes ease, so wishing you the absolute best xxx

  • @froncifresh
    @froncifresh 5 лет назад +492

    Throughout the video i wanted to reach out through the screen and hug you so badly. Stya strong amelia, you ARE that strong 💓 and love will most definitely find you again and catch you by surprise

  • @sandispady9058
    @sandispady9058 5 лет назад +1029

    Never felt 100% for this relationship. Was just so happy for your happiness. Now so sad for your sadness. Don't change for anyone. Keep being you!

    • @Nairah912
      @Nairah912 5 лет назад +79

      Unfortunately I had the same feeling, she looked so happy though. However, I’m glad it happened now and not after the marriage. There’s someone out there for all of us ☺️

    • @bellissima78
      @bellissima78 5 лет назад +9

      Same feeling. And I feel so bad, but she will move on to what is right!

    • @aliciacomprayha
      @aliciacomprayha 5 лет назад +9

      Same! Better to be sad now than destroyed later 😣💕

    • @chockycake1
      @chockycake1 5 лет назад +12

      Sandi Spady same here..it really was all moving so fast. Very sad though.

    • @ChichiMike777
      @ChichiMike777 5 лет назад +6

      I felt it was too fast

  • @gmx3700
    @gmx3700 5 лет назад +306

    Personally feel relieved for you, I feel like he was not the man you were supposed to be with. You deserve all the love in the world, you'll find real love Amelia. Thank you for sharing this with us, you're so strong! Sending you all the love and best wishes 💖

  • @ilovesnoopy7018
    @ilovesnoopy7018 5 лет назад +251

    One of the best decisions I made was to call off my wedding in 2002.
    I’m so glad I didn’t marry him.
    He would have been a disaster.
    Now I’m married to a wonderful and loving man.
    Give yourself time to heal.

  • @voonkeychee1238
    @voonkeychee1238 5 лет назад +106

    We are in similar situation. Wedding date was announced , bridal dress was ready, but wedding never happened. Was a tough time for me, coz I did not know how to manage my own emotion. But I did it. I survived it. Trust in the timing of god. He has better thing for us.

  • @irenemorfin1
    @irenemorfin1 5 лет назад +270

    Amelia I’m heartbroken for you but, I also want to applaud your strength and courage. There’s literally thousands of people who love you and want the best for you all over the world. So all the way from Arizona sending you a huge hug!!!! Thank you for continuing to be a light!

  • @BeingGemmaJones
    @BeingGemmaJones 5 лет назад +274

    Aw Amelia devastated for you. This happened to me 10 years ago. Was the worst moment of my life. But time moves us on. I hope you’ll be ok xxx

  • @annaschulz3695
    @annaschulz3695 5 лет назад +244

    We are half a million people right behind you, sweet girl❤️❤️All around the world. Two things we all have in common besides YOU are understanding the power of love, but also the meaning of a heartbreak..😘

  • @yourgalcal8965
    @yourgalcal8965 5 лет назад +128

    I’m so glad you didn’t settle Amelia. You are worth the best person the world has to offer you and nothing less ❤️

  • @Truth1561
    @Truth1561 5 лет назад +138

    Better now than end up divorced . You’re young and beautiful and once you’ve healed the world is your oyster .

    • @somiyachapman
      @somiyachapman 5 лет назад

      Sue Hadley didn’t she JUST have her Greek weeding? I thought her mom was there...?

  • @chrissylong6001
    @chrissylong6001 5 лет назад +461

    One thing I love about you is how you address issues. You maintain your own privacy and respect others, while letting viewers be a part of what you’re going through in a classy way. Love 💕

  • @philippaweare6139
    @philippaweare6139 5 лет назад +253

    Hi Amelia, I very rarely comment. Just wanted to say, I am so sorry for you and commend you for such an honest, difficult and dignified update. Take care xx

  • @Bexsta
    @Bexsta 5 лет назад +210

    I'm proud of you for putting together a thoughtful, graceful and honest video about something deeply personal. Please keep your head up! This to will pass. x

  • @15lamisma
    @15lamisma 5 лет назад +207

    I’d like to say one thing; perhaps the one never comes, perhaps he comes and then you go or viceversa. This relationship didn’t work out but your relationship with yourself must stand still and strong. It won’t be easy and at this point it shouldn’t be. Don’t look for happiness if you feel sad, look for comfort and allow yourself to ride this rollercoaster of emotions.
    You may or may not say “I do” to a man but remember to say “yes, I do” to yourself everyday.
    We are here for you.

  • @audreychu5447
    @audreychu5447 5 лет назад +10

    Thank you for publicly saying a therapist helped you through this sad time! As someone with mental health diagnoses, it is so wonderful to hear that a public figure also sees a professional; it helps break stigma!! Sending much warmth and love to you, I hope you stand up stronger from this, and I know I know it’s cheesy, but there is no love like the love a woman gives herself and her friends. 💕

  • @snicolexoxo
    @snicolexoxo 5 лет назад +431

    Amelia, thank you for posting this. My boyfriend of 3.5 years, whom I live with and thought I was spending the rest of my life with, broke up with me 2 days ago. I have never felt so devastated. Seeing you only a few weeks later doing so well gives me hope that I can get to that place. This is my first real heart break and right now it feels like I’m never going to be happy again. Sending you lots of love from Canada.

    • @LittleCheeseburger
      @LittleCheeseburger 5 лет назад +25

      I feel exactly the same as you right now and I am so grateful for Amelia posting this video and you commenting too. I was with my boyfriend for just under 3 years, also living together and I also thought I was spending the rest of my life with him, and he also broke up with me. It is also my first real heart break and I cannot see myself finding anyone else right now. Amelia's video has given me hope and strength too, and I hope that knowing that you're definitely not alone will help you too (as your comment helped me). So far, I have just found it helpful to take each day at a time.

    • @myja100
      @myja100 5 лет назад +5

      All the love and best wishes to you xxx If you ever need to talk, please don’t hesitate to ask!

    • @Adrenaline2024
      @Adrenaline2024 5 лет назад +20

      It is their loss ladies, but don’t worry, it heals.. i have been dumped 3 times by men, and everytime it happened i felt like i can never forget and move on.. but ladies God is great.. and once you heal you will start asking yourself “what on earth did i love about this loser?!” Trust me.. just take your time to heal.. the right one is waiting for you somewhere 😊

    • @naniomitendayo
      @naniomitendayo 5 лет назад +2

      Girl, I've been there. I know how you feel. I'm so sorry you are going through this now. Believe me, you will be happy again! Sending hugs and support your way.

    • @marchesachaneldior
      @marchesachaneldior 5 лет назад +1

      I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you positive thoughts 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @cristinapoole9144
    @cristinapoole9144 5 лет назад +267

    this broke my heart. i can’t even imagine how you’ve been feeling.

  • @aishaness
    @aishaness 5 лет назад +161

    I’m sorry Amelia, it just means he wasn’t the one and that’s okay. You are still wonderful and funny and you deserve someone truly special.

  • @jonieanthony3991
    @jonieanthony3991 5 лет назад +47

    I didn’t feel like this was going to go anywhere because it was so fast , everything very fast. Take your time , love will find you.

  • @nathaliebevers773
    @nathaliebevers773 4 года назад +21

    It's exactly 1 year ago that you posted this and I just wanted to say I'm so proud of how you've grown since this moment. I'm glad you're so much happier now!

  • @ritualzzz
    @ritualzzz 5 лет назад +212

    One day when the right man comes, you'll know everything was worth it. Be strong. and trust the Universe

  • @TaraDuncan1971
    @TaraDuncan1971 5 лет назад +132

    I had a feeling something had happened and my heart goes out to you, been there myself, I remember sobbing while sending emails to cancel my wedding venue and all wedding stuff, sobbed picking up the wedding dress. But I came through it and so will you. It will take time but times a healer. Much love to you and Duke. Xx

  • @PeepsMcNutley
    @PeepsMcNutley 5 лет назад +164

    I had a feeling... this just means that he wasn’t the one. I hope you’re feeling better & that you continue to feel better! Hugs to you and to Duke.

    • @Solatruth
      @Solatruth 5 лет назад +24

      Kimberly Holt I agree with you! He felt weird. But I’m so sad for you Amelia 💔

    • @a49-n2o
      @a49-n2o 5 лет назад +6

      Me too, whilst we don't see behind closed doors, it also seemed they were both great people but a little too different - But the main thing is that I hope they both find happiness and contentment in their own journeys 💗

  • @LeaLikesIcecream
    @LeaLikesIcecream 5 лет назад +82

    5:00 I think this is what seperates a good person from a bad person. Feeling joy for someone elses happiness - instead of jealousy - while you yourself can't have that (at that moment).

    • @emu9520
      @emu9520 4 года назад +1

      I don't think it makes a person and to feel sadness as they witness a dream they had evaporate

  • @kellig2211
    @kellig2211 5 лет назад +51

    I just want to say I am so PROUD of you! I never had a peace about him, but I wanted to enjoy watching you do all the wedding things and see the joy in your heart. I felt you knew more than the things you chose to share in a video. You must know , and maybe be relieved when it all comes down to it, that your soulmate is out there and he's looking for you. May you feel peace, comfort, and hope! You are so loved by so many!

  • @FoodieForce
    @FoodieForce 5 лет назад +123

    I am absolutely heartbroken for you both, I say both because no one ventures into a proposal wishing to end up where you are. You might not think it now but it is a blessing for you both. You could have ended up married, children, cheating and divorce. Now you have the space to rebuild for a better and happier future one that will be true. Sending love, do the things that you need and you will mend. Much love x

  • @totheleftthenright
    @totheleftthenright 5 лет назад +101

    You never had to share this with us as it is none of our business. But thank you nonetheless for doing so, it really makes us feel like we are your closest friends. We can never be physically there for you but we are cheering for you Amelia ❤❤❤ sending you all the love and strength we can send to you.

  • @elec.0754
    @elec.0754 5 лет назад +163

    I’ m really sorry for you. Sending love and happy thoughts

  • @ohouda1517
    @ohouda1517 5 лет назад +30

    Amelia, I am so sorry to hear that. I don't know how to tell you but I thought since the first time I saw you together in the vlogs that he doesn't suit you. Maybe it's better this happened sooner than later. wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart. LOVE YOU

  • @nabbott16
    @nabbott16 5 лет назад +7

    Coming from a person who was in your shoes 16 months ago (engaged and having to cancel a wedding) it does get easier. Although there are days where I think ‘Why me?!!’ I agree it was a time which showed how loved I was and what great family and friends I had. You can do this.

  • @cherylgohmh
    @cherylgohmh 5 лет назад +59

    absolutely shattered my heart to hear this, but these are the moments in life when we realise how strong we really are, stay strong Amelia, there will always be someone else better, all the love from the other side of the world in Singapore, I wish I could be there in London but my trip is only in October. as women we are much stronger than this!!! you will get through this!!!

  • @LomasLifestyle
    @LomasLifestyle 5 лет назад +60

    Sometimes heartache is a blessing in disguise. Feel all the emotions they will just make you feel stronger. Sending positive energy your way.

  • @chana6184
    @chana6184 5 лет назад +144

    You'll end up finding someone better. Keep strong. 🙂

  • @withlovefrommichigan
    @withlovefrommichigan 5 лет назад +13

    I was in a relationship for many years and when it ended I felt exactly as though you described even though we weren’t engaged. When the right person comes along you will know it and you will be SO GLAD that this did not work out the way you had hoped. Just you speaking about how happy you were for your friend shows you are a good person in the inside because most would not feel that way going through what you’re going through. Time heals everything. Nice job addressing this - it WILL get better! ❤️

  • @martham7356
    @martham7356 5 лет назад +22

    Sadness or grief hits you in the most unexpected moments, it’s like a revolving door opening up at the most inconvenient times. Be kind to yourself through those moments. Surely your family, close friends, and your viewers know how truly amazing you are. Take it easy on yourself and be proud about the fact that you chose YOU when most of us find that super difficult. Thank you for sharing and remember that we’re all here for you. You’re a true definition of grace. My whole heart is with you and even though you might never get to this message I hope the vibes reach you. ❤️

  • @martafb16
    @martafb16 5 лет назад +61

    Amelia, as I read this, I can honestly tell you that my heart is broken for you. As years go by, as we are your "youtube family", you also are ours. I can only imagine what you are going through but I wish you all the strenght in the world. You have our support! Lots of Love from Lisbon*

  • @TheEiffelTowerGirl
    @TheEiffelTowerGirl 5 лет назад +90

    Amelia, I’m so sorry to hear that 💜 Thinking of you and sending lots of love your way! Stay strong 💜

  • @miszBEB0x
    @miszBEB0x 5 лет назад +42

    If something wasn’t meant to be it’s okay. You’ll be great full 10 years later. Glad your smiling and thanks for sharing 💜

  • @lenlen8488
    @lenlen8488 5 лет назад +10

    I'm so sorry Amelia, only people that's going through same process truly understands how you feel. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday after 9 years and he has the guts to tell me how happy he is with the new girlfriend. My heart is broken and I don't know how to heal. Watching you made me feel I can move on and begin a renewed spirit.

    • @MegaTinygirl
      @MegaTinygirl 4 года назад +1

      Hi Lenlen, hope your okay. My fiancé of 8 years has just ending things suddenly last night and I’m struggling. How are you getting through this? Xx

    • @loveyourself8026
      @loveyourself8026 Год назад

      Move on fast! New chapter New love 💕 control your feelings!!!!

  • @BenikahDee
    @BenikahDee 5 лет назад +32

    I rarely comment on videos, long time subbie. But I just want you to know, we’re all rooting for you and your happiness. Sending lots of love and light. ✨

  • @miss1920s
    @miss1920s 5 лет назад +52

    I'm so sorry to hear this . You are still loved and always will be!

  • @oreobiscuitify
    @oreobiscuitify 5 лет назад +34

    Hi Amelia, although i have been following you for many many years, I have only left a few comments but now is the time again. My heart broke on your behalf when i saw your video and i knew what was coming when i say the grief in your expression and the weight on your shoulders. I really want to reach out to you and comfort you now that you are in the hardest of time. I think you are already very well reflected in knowing that time is the best healer. This is especially true for you as joy in life is a skill. It is something that we most focus on and work on for it to flourish. For some it comes natural and for others, it can be learned. It is not found in material objects nor in luxurious lifestyles or privileged. These things are not enjoyed, felt or truly appreciated unless you have that skill for joy. I watch your channel because i see in you that you have that skill and it inspires me. Thank you for being you and sharing.
    I was so happy to hear that you found Brene Brown and that her research and thoughts have had the same positive influence on you as it had on me years back when i started reading her books. I am happy to know that your platform can now have guided more people towards her Ted Talks and books and spread even more insight and inspiration. I hope that you can also have some comfort in knowing the impact you have had. i would also like to recommend reading Alain de Botton's book called Status Anxiety and pretty much all books he has written. I hope they can bring you something good like they did for me.
    I don't know how to end this comment other than to say that i care about you and so do many others. I hope that you find support and love from the people around you. As i have not ever had the pleasure of meeting you in real life, this comment is all i can do. I hope it can give perhaps a little lift and reading everyones' comments combined can have a real impact to support you. Much love, Sara

  • @katiethriveshine
    @katiethriveshine 5 лет назад +235

    Sobbing my heart out for you. And yet, I’m sorry to say, I had a feeling, a knowing that this was not the man for you. I think a lot of your followers did, which is utterly ridiculous as we only see fragments of your life and relationship so really can’t comment but I felt an uneasiness. I so wanted it to be right for you, sweet girl and I’m sorry that it’s over. However, I know only too well that endings make for glorious new beginnings and that the future is so very bright for you. Sending sincerest love and healing to you x

    • @CARIBLOVE
      @CARIBLOVE 5 лет назад +11

      I always said he wasn't for her by just his vibe and world be called a "hater". Some things are easier seen from the outside

    • @fauziadesai3544
      @fauziadesai3544 5 лет назад +3

      Katie Hedges In a weird way I also felt the same 😔

    • @rania9332
      @rania9332 5 лет назад +4

      I knew it also. Something was off.

    • @v-r-o-n4978
      @v-r-o-n4978 5 лет назад +28

      I agree. There was something negative about him to my eye; a certain palpable distance between him and Ameila that I could sense objectively (but when you are in love, you may not be alert to). Amelia seems so warm and open, and I found him a bit cold in her presence. In time I think she will look back and realise he released her from an unhappy future and she will be grateful. There is someone better out there for her. I know it. Someone more like Guy, perhaps. A best friend with warmth, laughter and positivity as their default. Life is full of drains and radiators. Amelia is the latter and she needs someone to reflect her warmth back at her. Not absorb it.

    • @GuusjeSparkles
      @GuusjeSparkles 5 лет назад +6

      Such a loving comment! Thank you for writing that.
      And it's really about that gut instinct. Something was off. It dripped through the screen and many picked up on it.
      In time she will let go of the hopes she had about having a/this marriage and will try to find het true match where marriage will be 'just a special day' in happy fulfilling relationship.
      I'm just so glad she's shielded with friendships and family.
      This will pass. And new days full of new love with come. To share with them. And maybe us.
      To come back to that gut feeling:
      She's always so relaxed and her true giddy self around Guy.
      I hope she will find The One that will let her be thát way (too) and who will embrace her for all she is and not is. But just as she is. And who is wanting to grow (old) together and share hopes, fears, dreams and wishes with her as a true team with intertwined hearts and lives.
      Wishing you all the best Amelia.
      Proud of how you are dealing with this. You are strong. Someone will carry you one day 😘

  • @LauraIsOverstimulated
    @LauraIsOverstimulated 2 года назад +10

    I remember watching this when you uploaded it and now I’ve come back to it for strength after just ending my own engagement a couple of days ago❤️

    • @roseg1333
      @roseg1333 2 года назад

      Im so sorry 😞 praying for strength and courage for you during this heartbreaking and difficult process ❤️‍🩹 but you will have joy and love again never give up 🥰

  • @burcinhanife2510
    @burcinhanife2510 5 лет назад +2

    Brave heart. Watching this I teared up in seconds, and my heart feels so heavy but proud to see how graceful and strong you are. I am sending you so much love and hope you heal. Just take your time, coz good things take time beautiful soul Amelia.

  • @nandas6035
    @nandas6035 5 лет назад +87

    Hun, if he is not on your life anymore, obviously, he is not the 'one' 😉 that means .. the 'one' still there trying to find u!! 😘

  • @S.Georgia
    @S.Georgia 5 лет назад +69

    You're amazing Amelia!! Things happen but they make us stronger. 💙

  • @devishribhatnagar5545
    @devishribhatnagar5545 5 лет назад +34

    I don’t ever comment, I am so so so sorry that this happened to a beautiful soul like you. Sending loads on loads of love, hugs and healing your way. xx

  • @ellalock4679
    @ellalock4679 5 лет назад +2

    So many of us are sending you lots of love and hugs. You are a very classy and loving person. I can't wait to see you sharing new products lunching , traveling experiences and much more... Everything will pass and you will get better and wiser. Much much love.

  • @sarahholic
    @sarahholic 5 лет назад +3

    Stories of courage are so inspiring. Thank you for teaching us about resilience and strength to look after yourself. One of the most important lessons in life is to learn to let go of the things that no longer serve us, no matter how hard the situation. You’re an inspiration, all the best in your new chapter 💞

  • @Lushleah1988
    @Lushleah1988 5 лет назад +54

    Sending my love I’ve been there and it will get through this. You won’t believe how strong you are and after this you will be even stronger. You’ve got lovely family and friends and of corse your viewers. Your such a lovely girl and your young and you will find love again and when u do you’ll understand why this all happened. Xxx

  • @zeegoogle9817
    @zeegoogle9817 5 лет назад +140

    Always thought he seemed controlling and odd- You are amazing as always and you can do so much better! Your a lovely strong woman!

    • @gnislia
      @gnislia 5 лет назад +61

      Zee Google well it all happened so fast too, she was always having to address comments about rushing into marriage

    • @zeegoogle9817
      @zeegoogle9817 5 лет назад +12

      @a̶n̶n̶a̶s̶l̶i̶f̶e̶It is an OPINION- Get Over Yourself Miss Prudish!

    • @zunairafaiz372
      @zunairafaiz372 5 лет назад

      Why do you think he was controlling?

    • @eye_key
      @eye_key 5 лет назад +25

      I agree that he seemed stiff and not as light and free as Amelia, but I figured that she knows what is best for her so who am I to judge.

    • @chrissylong6001
      @chrissylong6001 5 лет назад +5

      Even when you’re no longer with someone, it’s still hurtful to hear someone talk down about them. Especially with a breakup that’s so fresh.

  • @lilacr.4739
    @lilacr.4739 5 лет назад +54

    He lost you Amelia... he lost the most precious and beautiful woman! Amelia, you didn’t lose anything... keep this in mind darling!

  • @naruchan92
    @naruchan92 5 лет назад +2

    I’m so sorry to hear this. I cannot imagine what you’re going through. You’re a strong, smart and beautiful woman. You’ll get through this, take the time you need to heal!

  • @echoetj
    @echoetj 5 лет назад +8

    I was engaged several years ago, our relationship was a nightmare and I finally gained the courage to walk away from it, but I was heartbroken. I grieved the time I had spent and the future I lost even though I knew it wouldn’t have been happy. I met my husband 6 years ago and I just knew when I met him that he was IT for me, I never had that feeling with my ex. You will find someone in time, but most importantly you need to find yourself and I think, even though this is so so hard, this will guide you to the most authentic you, and then when you LEAST expecting it there he’ll be...

  • @polyannamoonbeam
    @polyannamoonbeam 5 лет назад +31

    Oh you have been through a shocking time..my daughter went through just the same before christmas last year. Aside from the heartbreak of a sudden break up you've both lost your home and love nest . It's a huge start over. Wishing you all the best to carry you through too.

  • @starlitmoon1212
    @starlitmoon1212 5 лет назад +17

    Sending you so much love, Amelia. My hear breaks knowing how you must have felt. Thank you for sharing your strength and beautiful heart with us. You deserve the best, like many others in the comments said you will find love again!

  • @jekaterinarudakova6671
    @jekaterinarudakova6671 5 лет назад +47

    I don’t want to sound ridicculous, but even though I was happy for you, because you were very happy and shining Amelia, BUT I somehow didn’t feel it was the real thing for you... call it a gut feeling or whatever, but I felt like Rob didn’t actually see everything about you, how wonderful you are... I really think, that you deserve better, you deserve an unconditional love! You will be better! You will flourish girl and someone else will love you for every bit of who you are!
    I love you so much! and send so many kisses 😘😘😘😘 get well and move at your own pace! No pressure ❤️

  • @jesshattam9230
    @jesshattam9230 5 лет назад +27

    He clearly did not deserve you! You've handled this with so much grace Amelia, relationships will come and go but your viewers will always be here. Sending you all my love ♥

  • @CarlyRowena
    @CarlyRowena 5 лет назад +99

    Proud of you, sending the biggest squeezes your way xxx

  • @koaysiewni5476
    @koaysiewni5476 5 лет назад +7

    This video shows how much stronger you are than what people give you credit for. Even though it's a heartbreaking situation, I just wanna commend you on how well you are handling it. Sending lots of love your way. Hugs.

  • @ciciheart6085
    @ciciheart6085 5 лет назад +42

    I have no clue who you are, this popped up on my timeline and it is the first video I have seen of you but I just wanted to tell you to hang in there. Give it time and it Will become better. X

  • @mahadewiiii
    @mahadewiiii 5 лет назад +78

    He wasn’t the one! You have so much to look forward to!!! x

  • @ems6490
    @ems6490 5 лет назад +1

    I am so terribly sorry to hear this. I have been there. You are loved and cherished, you are stronger than you think and time is a great healer. Cry when you need, it is cathodic. Take all the time you need and do what you need to. You have amazing, family, friends and supporters. We love you and we understand. Sending love and prayers of healing. 😘

  • @brionysbeauty
    @brionysbeauty 5 лет назад +25

    Sending my love. My marriage broke up after 18 months so this is similar to me. It can be a big surprise how you well you cope, I thought my life would be over if my relationship ever ended but I truly believe I am better off 2 months later.

  • @chocoflipify
    @chocoflipify 5 лет назад +14

    I'm so sorry for you, Amelia! This made me cry and my heart feel so heavy, but you're right: take every day on its own and walk through with the feeling that you're surrounded by wonderful, loving people who will catch you in situations like that ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anilyousuf9438
    @anilyousuf9438 5 лет назад +41

    Hello from Australia! 🇦🇺 We adore you and support you ALWAYS SENDING POSITIVE VIBES 💐💖💖💖 Keep being you and you will find what your heart is aching for genuine product of LOVE ❤️

  • @terryfischer1070
    @terryfischer1070 5 лет назад +70

    Your sister and Duke in bed with you providing quiet comfort...that is real love. :) :) Love and prayers from Florida!

  • @NallelieVega
    @NallelieVega 5 лет назад

    I just needed a 3 year relationship, 3 months ago. And it gets better! Everything will get better! Take your time! Don’t rush through the process. I’m still grieving and I will probably grieve for maybe ever, but at the end of the day we are better off! You are a strong woman and we are right behind you!

  • @effie5238
    @effie5238 5 лет назад +1

    So terribly sorry for what you're going through...sending you love & light...and wishing you all the best moving forward.

  • @saral9796
    @saral9796 5 лет назад +27

    My heart is broken for you. I’m so sorry. Sending love xx ❤️

  • @luchie621
    @luchie621 5 лет назад +23

    This is the first time I'm posting on your video. Dammit man! I always had this gut-wrenching feeling that this (relationship) was going to fall through. I couldn't place my finger on it. I just knew. Really sorry for the heartbreak you're going through right now. Sending you lots of love, light, and happiness! You will weather this storm. This too shall pass. Stay strong, love!

  • @melamartins
    @melamartins 5 лет назад +79

    Take your time and rest. We’ll be here

  • @elfenprinzessin22
    @elfenprinzessin22 5 лет назад +2

    Amelia, your sadness makes me sad and I am so sorry that you need to go trough this. I am stunned by how strong you are, how professional and how honest in such a difficult time. You are such a strong, beautiful and inspiring person and I understand why the people closest to you love you so much. Thank you for being you!

  • @jtakh11
    @jtakh11 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for posting this! I had stopped watching you because I was jealous of your relationship it seemed so perfect and I wanted it. I had stopped being able to relate to you, but this video was one of the most realest videos you have posted on RUclips in my opinion. Thank you for being so strong and honest about everything ❤️

  • @MsApfelmuss
    @MsApfelmuss 5 лет назад +37

    Amelia my heart goes out to you. I cannot even imagine the pain you were and are in. You are loved and you so deserve to be loved! Xx

  • @l00sysun
    @l00sysun 5 лет назад +70

    Love you Amelia, hope everything is ok :( You will always find love again

  • @demiday7098
    @demiday7098 5 лет назад +18

    I am so so sorry Amelia. You’re gonna get through this with your amazing positive attitude ♥️

  • @waterlilly1498
    @waterlilly1498 5 лет назад +1

    So so sorry Amelia. I can just imagine how hard it is, to share something like this with the public. I wish you strenght to overcome this Situation, that nobody should have to go through, but sadly most of us have been there.you have a beautiful wonderful family, blood is thicker than water. Be strong girl

  • @hellokri55y
    @hellokri55y 5 лет назад +5

    I never comment but you are strong, you will become wiser, and time will heal your wounds! My rule of thumb was to see how my partner reacts to life’s curveballs (tragedy, financial burdens, disagreements etc). These reactions can show you your partners commitment and love to your relationship. Unfortunately I know some people that experience this after marriage and they couldn’t work through it. It’s best it happened now rather than later! Sending love and good vibes from Texas!

  • @biancabezuidenhout3572
    @biancabezuidenhout3572 5 лет назад +39

    Despite this shocking news & sandness😢😭, I am truly excited for the next adventures if Amelia & Duke🤗🤩

  • @sneehas3468
    @sneehas3468 5 лет назад +16

    I am so sorry to hear this sweetheart. My heart goes out to you. I hope you will feel better in the upcoming days ❤

  • @charlenewilliams2854
    @charlenewilliams2854 5 лет назад +12

    Absolutely shocked and stunned. I don’t even know what to say. Tight and warm hugs xxxxx

  • @stephaniecastro9911
    @stephaniecastro9911 5 лет назад +1

    You are a truly strong & beautiful woman inside and out!!... it's obvious in your videos and is honestly the reason why I believe that you are so successful in your work... & why you are so loved and adored!! Trust in your strength and there is nothing you cannot achieve!! ❤

  • @77ele77
    @77ele77 5 лет назад +1

    It happened to me this last month. The only thing I can say, something better is waiting for you and look for the lesson of this situation. Good luck. Good energy for you , good vibes!

  • @irinasandor_coach
    @irinasandor_coach 5 лет назад +43

    Crying with you ((( everything happens for a reason!! You are a beautiful person!! Time flys! Lots of love from Russia!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @amyw778
    @amyw778 5 лет назад +53

    It was very clear he wasn’t the one, however you looked so happy so I thought he maybe he actually was. You will find someone who you truly deserve and then you will feel real happiness. xx

  • @giraffegiraffe3
    @giraffegiraffe3 5 лет назад +16

    Sending you so much love and warmth Amelia💛
    You're surrounded by so much love from us and everyone around you at this tough time💛💛
    As someone who also recently went through a big breakup (7 year relationship, also someone I thought I'd end up spending my life with) I wanted to say a huge THANK YOU for sharing this and being so open with us, it can't have been easy (I didn't want to tell anyone either so I can't even imagine how hard it must be for you) - so thank you so much. I know your video will help me and others in similar situations. Keep taking it day by day, you're so strong, the universe has a plan!! 💛

  • @borlagsdiaries6715
    @borlagsdiaries6715 5 лет назад +2

    Oh Amelia, I have been a silent avid fan ever since. I have similar situation, I fought for us many times, begged and even gave tons of chances but to no avail. I have been there, hugs, kisses and praying for you. You are so much loved than you ever know. ❤️🇵🇭

  • @kathleensmith8365
    @kathleensmith8365 Год назад +4

    I remember this. Such a difficult thing to go through for you and your family who love you so much. You did so much work to recover and discover your strength. Such a beautiful difference now! You look so happy and relaxed. Your long time friend Jak seems to be supportive and kind. If I recall, your father does not miss a trick. In your videos he was there watching over his daughter. If your Dad likes Jak that is a badge of honor!