I actually think every time I’ve had that crazy instant connection or passion it ends up being toxic and fizzling out because it’s so intense at the beginning. My best relationships and husband to be was one where I felt so comfortable I couldn’t explain it and thought ok I’ll go on another. 3 years later I didn’t even think men like him existed. He’s everything I wanted! 🥰
I thought the same myself and the same happens to me as well. The best relationships like you said tend to grow with time and the being comfortable part.
100% agree! Instant chemistry never led to healthy relationships for me. My now-husband was definitely NOT instant chemistry-our chemistry grew over time (a few months) and I actually wasn't sure about him in the beginning at all, but I felt comfortable being myself with him and he was emotionally intelligent. Now 6 years in, he is absolutely the love of my life, and I'm so glad that I gave it a chance beyond that initial chemistry phase because BELIEVE ME, it is there now and still going strong. 🔥🔥🔥
It was the same for me too. I met my husband and felt like I had known him forever. Sure there was attraction, but it wasn’t a giant spark, more of a slow burning flame. We’ve been together for nearly 26 years and married for 12. I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
@@TheJamJaf Right, the chemistry causes you to go blind and you end with an unsustainable relationship. More like being in love with love, Exciting in the beginning but shallow.
As a woman of 51yrs old. I can look back on the last 30yrs and now think 'thank God I am not married or have children' . I did feel a void and a sense of grieving a dream that didn't become a reality. But looking back the couples are either not happy, resentful of their spouse, cheating or getting divorced. I can honestly say I'm happier in my late 40's -50. I don't need or want attention, I love hanging out with my friends , I love having time for people and I love having freedom and the choice to do what I want. If I met someone in the future and we were on the same course in life then I would have to think long and hard about the relationship. I think it's important to know that one relationship will not meet all our needs. Amelia, carry on being the wonderful woman you are and whether you choose to have a partner or not you will still have a wonderful purpose ❤❤❤❤
What a load of rubbish. There are plenty of people happily married and now with grandchildren who fill their lives with a sense of achievement and adventure. Growing old lonely and without kids to protect and care for you is bloody miserable!
i totally agree with you - i'm in my early 40s and I'm fascinated how suddenly I had this moment of "i have an amazing life" moment and I realised that so many of my friends in couples were really miserable
@@Cassieskins21 how can it be a load of rubbish when it's from lived experience of the couples I have known for between 20-30 years. Please let people express their opinions. On top of the growing old lonely that is such a miss conception of single older people. Some people with children don't even visit their parent's. Fact - I have heard from nursing home mangers ( where my mum was before she passed away) some son's and daughters wouldn't even visit their parents. That's awful. So whose talking rubbish 😁
@@Cassieskins21 Not true! I lived in a neighborhood that used to have a lot of seniors and yes, a couple of them did have their children and grand children visit but a majority of them didn't...it was sad. All this to say that it is not automatically promised to you that the future generations will want to spend time with you.
Who are ALL these friends??? I'm 57 and my married friends are still in love with their partners and enjoying the new little additions to their family called grandchildren. So lovely to watch!
i think the instant connection is overrated and misleading. i found that the one for me was the most comfortable date i had been on. just felt like myself.
My 33rd birthday ended with me in tears. I was so over being single and I really thought I’d be alone forever. That year I met my person, my best friend, the person I prayed for when I felt hopeless. Being single taught me to wait for THE GUY. Wouldn’t trade all the bad dates for anything because our timing needed to work. I divorced 4 years prior and he was recently divorced when we met. Got engaged after 3 years and we still have the best chemistry and just genuinely love being around each other. 😂❤
Amelia! I was single in my early 30s, after having a few long relationships in my 20s. I met my now partner at 34, and we are getting married next month (and we’re having a baby early next year!). I had to get over the timeline, and I’m so happy I did. It all works out… and hey you’re 30s is amazing anyways! Long time viewer from Florida xo
Hi Amelia! Thank you for sharing this with us. Would like to disagree with you about the instant connection with somebody. I met my husband in my early thirties. We didn't really liked each other on the first date, but there was a second date, and a 3rd one. And then we went together on vacation. There we realised how comfortable we feel in each other's company. Long story short, 9 years later, we have 2 kids and a stable, adult, respectful, loving marriage.
Hello, I’ve been married 10 years and together with my husband for 18 years. I’m a similar age to you. We tried for a baby for years! Never been pregnant ever then had IVF - just FYI I was sedated for the egg retrieval so don’t worry no GA! I have a beautiful little boy now. IVF Was an incredible experience. We went in totally open minded. I’ve 6 left in the freezer but I am so happy with our son. He’s our dream ❤
RE: egg freezing- I have had quite a few very close friends freeze their eggs, and seeing their experience and hear them talk about the process in depth, I would SO SO encourage anyone who is thinking about doing it to do so. The sense of calm these friends have described, the peace of mind that it has given them, the pressure it has taken off of them for dating, and so much more...highly recommend. And for anyone U.S.-based who sees this- check with your insurance!- it is sometimes covered or partially covered by insurance. It is a pricey endeavor for sure, so look into those opportunities to lighten the financial burden!
I think it can cause cancer , read some forums although the fertility industry is big $$$$ so they don’t agree obviously. Many women get cancer after this .
Hi Amelia! I know some comments differ in my pov, but I totally agree with that instant connection you feel with a person. When I met my now husband, there was this natural gravitation to each other and a spark that felt different. We got married after 1 yr & 1/2 of dating and we’ve been together for over 5 years now. I think the key is to observe the person on each date and check in with yourself on how you feel and if there’s reciprocation on both sides.
When I was 16 or 17, I, for sure, thought I’d be married by 25 or something. I’m in my early 30s, I have similar approach when it comes to marriage. I don’t expect or plan to get married or have a wedding, I just want a long lasting genuine relationship filled with love, hopefully have kids and my own little family. That’s all. But it seems hard to find😅
Instant chemistry and intensity is a big red flag 🚩 It triggers unhealed trauma and wounds, and we mistake that with true love or the love of your life. Just run.
Yesss a talk video! It makes me so happy to see you so happy!! Love your energy and just being you! I’m also 32 & single and understand everything 😆 sometimes I get sad and scared, but then again: i make such great memories now that maybe wouldn’t have been if I was in a relationship like going on a road trip with a girl friend, going on dance lessons alone, traveling alone,… and meeting people!
Amelia I have to ask what is the hair colour treatment you’re getting? I mean it’s balayage/highlights, etc? It looks so natural and amazing and I’m soooo jealous 😅😍
I froze my eggs two years ago when I was 30 and it wasn't bad at all. I did not have many side effects and the procedure was totally fine! The shots were not bad either I did them myself. I just used ice packs on the spot before and didn't feel a thing!
I heard from a professor in psychology instant connection and passion is very different from the love you develop needed for a long term relationship. Also passion doesn’t necessarily turn into long term love . The transition is not straight forward. That’s why lots of relationships fail, some because they must and some because of wrong expectations. For long term relationship you don’t need the spark at the beginning , you do need it for the passion though. But passion unfortunately fades and is only short term
egg freezing - not sure if you'll see this but I've had eggs frozen and it was really painless and easy. I was sedated, not under general anesthesia, so I was awake but did not feel a thing, and I don't really remember the procedure other than them saying they liked my tattoos haha, and the pain after was really minimal, I just napped for the rest of the day and was able to go back to work the next day. If you've had a smear test I'd say it's even less painful than that. You also have to inject yourself with hormones for a few weeks before but I could barely feel those either.
I tried EMDR briefly and it made me worse so I couldn’t continue. I know it can sometimes get worse before getting better. Did you do it privately as I’m looking for someone private to try again in London and would love a recommendation.
I look forward to your Sunday upload every week and have watched your videos forever. Today I really needed to hear your “everything is meant to be how it is and everything is going to be okay”. Thank you Amelia. We really do connect on a spiritual level and I hope to be able to meet you in person one day to hug you 💕
It’s great to hear that you accessed therapy to address your difficulties however people can become dependent on therapy and feel that they are not able to function without being in therapy please be mindful private therapist will sponge of your money!
Hello Amelia ❤ I just have to say I admire how confident and positive you are answering these Qs❣️ I’m so proud of the person you’ve become!! All the best to you and thanks always for sharing 💜
Im sorry not everybody has deep issues to go for therapy. I personally grew up in a house where my parents loved me and they never argued and i grew up went to ui found a job and met my husband at 27 and got married. Never had a major breakup and never had issues with my parent. Had friends here and there and got a lovely sister. So i honestly dont have anything to talk to therapist. Never felt frustrated so there are people who dont need it. My husband needs it since het stressful but what am i going to say to a therapist?
Amelia, are you able to share the details of the latest nose surgeon you have used? Your nose looks amazing, I’m on nose job #2 and still unhappy. Would really appreciate it! Thanks
Thank you so much, Amelia, for sharing your thoughts and feelings in this Q&A! I’m truly hoping to run into you in London one day (I’m American, but I’m in London a few times a year for work) and I’d love a hug!! ❤❤❤
I agree with the just not caring what people think. At nearly 50 oh geez I'm there. It feels good to just not give a damn. It's a relief really just doing what you want. When I was 32 I met my 2nd husband. He met me at the start of I wasn't caring about stuff. He liked that I kept distance and wasn't playing catch up with phone calls. I was living my life. If I was available to see him great if I wasn't that was okay too. My husband back then was 38 so he was probably in the same phase of life as I was at that time. Now 17 years later we are still doing our thing and not giving a damn.
This is why you’re single. First dates are not necessarily a taste of what’s to come. Give a guy a second date and either way you’ll know for sure if there’s a possibility or not.
Ok, I did not have the instant connection and a lot of happy couples Don't have that but as they were friends or gave the second data a chance it helped get that connection and know each other.
You don’t have to have general for egg freezing :) just sedation! It’s honestly not bad at all, and earlier the better so if in doubt would get it out the way.
Your voice reminds me of when Phoebe in Friends got sick and had her new sexy singing voice 😂 and totally agree about the spark when meeting someone...I'm also currently single in my 30s and if I'm ever "ehhh" after a date, that means it's a NO!
Love the saying about the making plans and thr universe laughs about it. Life is just that. Unpredictable. My husband and I used to talk hours on end, laugh till our stomachs hurt and just were thick as thieves. Now our son is 2, I have herniated discs on end and we just bicker and fight and argue all the time. We are still the same people, but life changed and so did our relationship. I don‘t know where I was going with that….😂 anyway the green hermes is stunning
i almost never watch Q&A and hardly leave comments.... am a quick hit a like button gal..... i am glade i watched this and i loved it. Thank you!! you are awesome.
I think the most important thing to focus on is being happy and satisfied with your life in your 30s. There are plenty of women who have men who are completely miserable and unfulfilled in their 30s. You only get one shot at life and once you get to a certain age you can't go back and start over and check all of the important things off the list. Having a partner can be very limiting because now you've got to focus on their needs and goals and oftentimes you just become the person that cheerleads and helps actualize your partners goals meanwhile your time is dwindling down the drain. Having a partner is for people who are done living. I bet if you asked Mama Rachel she would say the same thing. Grab life with both hands and never look back.
I've been single for a long time an im5 40 an I feeling it a lot more my younger cousins are already Married before me an as of now I don't see myself married I am ready to be with someone again being alone is ok at times, I just tired of being alone.
In Ireland it's common to get married in tour mid 30s. Some of my friends married in their mid 20s all but one of those couples are separated now.most married in mid 30s.
I did IVF a few months ago, I have had many pelvic surgeries but egg collection surgery/ wake up from anaesthetic was the best experience I have had. I usually struggle with awful nausea and sickness post anaesthetic, blood pressure issues etc. Waking up from egg collection I didn’t ask for anti nausea once, I didn’t feel sick or have any issues infact was able to leave hospital earlier than anticipated. I did have some tenderness as to be expected but the surgery itself was very smooth! ❤
Literally the best thing about being in your 30s is you stop giving a f@*k! Can’t explain how or why it happens but I am definitely way more happy now than I ever was in my 20s and you definitely seem way more confident and content in yourself now than you used to be xx
Hi Amelia I also feel anxious when thinking about the future .. so thinking about 5 years time I just can’t do. I’m also a lot older than you and all of a sudden I’m 50 (I don’t feel 50 though). 😂
i loved this video ! thank you for sharing your life with all of us ! Really i give you so much credit in the world 🌎 Because i couldn’t do it !! i get so mad when people get in here and criticize you , because i want to tell them F@@@off !! she doesn’t have to tell you anything! so you keep being you Girl i absolutely adore you ♥️
Ive been watching you for years and i feel the frustration under the surface. I wish i could give you constructive advice on life because i feel youre fundamentally a good and loving person. But i dont know you personally and unsolicited advice is not usually recieved well. The malady is spiritual in nature.
Thank god for you having a shit day and good old Amelia never fails to bring it with her uplifting little smile and reliable vlong I’m 9 hrs late because of my shit day but heh there you are Thankyou 😢❤
I knew you were neurodivergent 6:46 !!! I knew there was an intimate reason I liked you and that I have a subconscious pattern of following neurodivergent RUclipsrs! And I watch all sorts of stuff, from medicine to science and the main hosts are mostly ND, whatever the field! Anyway, you’re awesome and your special-interests in bags and fashion are awesome but your genuine enthusiasm and vulnerable honesty is what’s great, most of all.
If I lived anywhere near you I would be thrilled bumping into you. You seem like such an absolute sweetheart. I wouldn't even mind the hug as I'm a hugger too!
🌹Loved this Amelia! You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You have always been so genuine and sweet. You look gorgeous in the thumbnail btw. Continued Blessings and Support. ~Love&Light♥️C. xx
What an odd thing to say to not want to date someone who hasn't had therapy. There are people out there who don't have issues, are happy and lead a life free of complexities ;-). Not everyone "needs" therapy.
Her claim is (unsurprisingly) also consumerist. A requirement of a date that went through therapy presupposes a set type of person that is free of moral and psychological ailments. It's like you 'buy' a fantasy of a person, a facade. But dating doesnt work like this since everyone, regardless of whether they went to therapy, is complex. Therapy is not salvation. It's no wonder that consumerist/capitalist ppl like her constantly fail in relationships.
I disagree. I do believe those people are out there, but I would prefer to be with someone who also takes advantage of therapy to improve themselves, whether there are serious issues or not. There is benefit in that type of personal reflection. Better to have that support in your life, anything can happen.
I would so love to bump into you, but unlikely to have a Fendi and Bottega to show, just me I'm afraid. I was single with two beautiful babies in my 30s and then met my husband, 23 years together this year and so happy. So it will come to you when you least expect it 💗
I actually think every time I’ve had that crazy instant connection or passion it ends up being toxic and fizzling out because it’s so intense at the beginning. My best relationships and husband to be was one where I felt so comfortable I couldn’t explain it and thought ok I’ll go on another. 3 years later I didn’t even think men like him existed. He’s everything I wanted! 🥰
I thought the same myself and the same happens to me as well. The best relationships like you said tend to grow with time and the being comfortable part.
100% agree! Instant chemistry never led to healthy relationships for me. My now-husband was definitely NOT instant chemistry-our chemistry grew over time (a few months) and I actually wasn't sure about him in the beginning at all, but I felt comfortable being myself with him and he was emotionally intelligent. Now 6 years in, he is absolutely the love of my life, and I'm so glad that I gave it a chance beyond that initial chemistry phase because BELIEVE ME, it is there now and still going strong. 🔥🔥🔥
It was the same for me too. I met my husband and felt like I had known him forever. Sure there was attraction, but it wasn’t a giant spark, more of a slow burning flame. We’ve been together for nearly 26 years and married for 12. I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
I fell for my husband immediately, n we're going on 30 years together. He's my soul mate, n I'm a better person for knowing him 🎉Ev
@@TheJamJaf Right, the chemistry causes you to go blind and you end with an unsustainable relationship. More like being in love with love, Exciting in the beginning but shallow.
As a woman of 51yrs old. I can look back on the last 30yrs and now think 'thank God I am not married or have children' . I did feel a void and a sense of grieving a dream that didn't become a reality. But looking back the couples are either not happy, resentful of their spouse, cheating or getting divorced.
I can honestly say I'm happier in my late 40's -50. I don't need or want attention, I love hanging out with my friends , I love having time for people and I love having freedom and the choice to do what I want.
If I met someone in the future and we were on the same course in life then I would have to think long and hard about the relationship. I think it's important to know that one relationship will not meet all our needs.
Amelia, carry on being the wonderful woman you are and whether you choose to have a partner or not you will still have a wonderful purpose ❤❤❤❤
What a load of rubbish. There are plenty of people happily married and now with grandchildren who fill their lives with a sense of achievement and adventure. Growing old lonely and without kids to protect and care for you is bloody miserable!
i totally agree with you - i'm in my early 40s and I'm fascinated how suddenly I had this moment of "i have an amazing life" moment and I realised that so many of my friends in couples were really miserable
@@Cassieskins21 how can it be a load of rubbish when it's from lived experience of the couples I have known for between 20-30 years.
Please let people express their opinions.
On top of the growing old lonely that is such a miss conception of single older people.
Some people with children don't even visit their parent's.
Fact - I have heard from nursing home mangers ( where my mum was before she passed away) some son's and daughters wouldn't even visit their parents. That's awful.
So whose talking rubbish 😁
@@Cassieskins21 Not true! I lived in a neighborhood that used to have a lot of seniors and yes, a couple of them did have their children and grand children visit but a majority of them didn't...it was sad. All this to say that it is not automatically promised to you that the future generations will want to spend time with you.
Who are ALL these friends??? I'm 57 and my married friends are still in love with their partners and enjoying the new little additions to their family called grandchildren. So lovely to watch!
i think the instant connection is overrated and misleading. i found that the one for me was the most comfortable date i had been on. just felt like myself.
My 33rd birthday ended with me in tears. I was so over being single and I really thought I’d be alone forever. That year I met my person, my best friend, the person I prayed for when I felt hopeless. Being single taught me to wait for THE GUY. Wouldn’t trade all the bad dates for anything because our timing needed to work. I divorced 4 years prior and he was recently divorced when we met. Got engaged after 3 years and we still have the best chemistry and just genuinely love being around each other. 😂❤
Amelia! I was single in my early 30s, after having a few long relationships in my 20s. I met my now partner at 34, and we are getting married next month (and we’re having a baby early next year!). I had to get over the timeline, and I’m so happy I did. It all works out… and hey you’re 30s is amazing anyways! Long time viewer from Florida xo
I needed this ❤ 🌞 Best wishes❤
Aww love you
@@parirubhogal4664I’m agree
Hi Amelia! Thank you for sharing this with us. Would like to disagree with you about the instant connection with somebody. I met my husband in my early thirties. We didn't really liked each other on the first date, but there was a second date, and a 3rd one. And then we went together on vacation. There we realised how comfortable we feel in each other's company. Long story short, 9 years later, we have 2 kids and a stable, adult, respectful, loving marriage.
Awww this is so beautiful 😻
Hello, I’ve been married 10 years and together with my husband for 18 years. I’m a similar age to you. We tried for a baby for years! Never been pregnant ever then had IVF - just FYI I was sedated for the egg retrieval so don’t worry no GA! I have a beautiful little boy now. IVF Was an incredible experience. We went in totally open minded. I’ve 6 left in the freezer but I am so happy with our son. He’s our dream ❤
Btw you look so gorgeous in this vlog. Glowing ❤
RE: egg freezing- I have had quite a few very close friends freeze their eggs, and seeing their experience and hear them talk about the process in depth, I would SO SO encourage anyone who is thinking about doing it to do so. The sense of calm these friends have described, the peace of mind that it has given them, the pressure it has taken off of them for dating, and so much more...highly recommend. And for anyone U.S.-based who sees this- check with your insurance!- it is sometimes covered or partially covered by insurance. It is a pricey endeavor for sure, so look into those opportunities to lighten the financial burden!
I did it and it’s also not under general anesthetic. It’s just sedation. It’s better to do it and never use them, than not do it and wish you had.
I think it can cause cancer , read some forums although the fertility industry is big $$$$ so they don’t agree obviously. Many women get cancer after this .
Have any of your friends actually used the eggs?
@@Vacasa21 no, not yet! However, my friends who have done it, have only done it within the past year.
What a weird time we live in lol
Hi Amelia! I know some comments differ in my pov, but I totally agree with that instant connection you feel with a person. When I met my now husband, there was this natural gravitation to each other and a spark that felt different. We got married after 1 yr & 1/2 of dating and we’ve been together for over 5 years now. I think the key is to observe the person on each date and check in with yourself on how you feel and if there’s reciprocation on both sides.
Amelia you seem like such a lovely person! I am 30 with 3 little girls and your videos are my escape. I feel like we’d be friends if we met 😊 xx
aww this is so kind, thank you xx
I Really really wish u added an extra vlog during the week. Just Sundays isn’t enough I enjoy watching so much
When I was 16 or 17, I, for sure, thought I’d be married by 25 or something. I’m in my early 30s, I have similar approach when it comes to marriage. I don’t expect or plan to get married or have a wedding, I just want a long lasting genuine relationship filled with love, hopefully have kids and my own little family. That’s all. But it seems hard to find😅
❤️ this
Love seeing you animated and happy. Roll with it and see what happens, is my mantra. Hopefully good things come for both of us. Love always x
aww thank you! love you!
I absolutely love the Emdr therapy it turned a lot of negative trauma I was carrying for years into something positive I highly recommend it ❤
Instant chemistry and intensity is a big red flag 🚩 It triggers unhealed trauma and wounds, and we mistake that with true love or the love of your life. Just run.
Yesss a talk video! It makes me so happy to see you so happy!! Love your energy and just being you!
I’m also 32 & single and understand everything 😆 sometimes I get sad and scared, but then again: i make such great memories now that maybe wouldn’t have been if I was in a relationship like going on a road trip with a girl friend, going on dance lessons alone, traveling alone,… and meeting people!
Thought I’d give you a heads up. Drinking hot tea doesn’t help a sore throat or raspy voice. Steaming your throat helps the best.
I love these types of videos Amelia. We get to see a different and more grounded side to you❤
Amelia I have to ask what is the hair colour treatment you’re getting? I mean it’s balayage/highlights, etc? It looks so natural and amazing and I’m soooo jealous 😅😍
I froze my eggs two years ago when I was 30 and it wasn't bad at all. I did not have many side effects and the procedure was totally fine! The shots were not bad either I did them myself. I just used ice packs on the spot before and didn't feel a thing!
Wait you mean to say that NO ONE asked about Mr. Miami? I don’t buy it.
you're an amazing person with a big kind heart!! thank you so so much for sharing your light with us!!
Love your q & a sessions 💚 Also Vert Criquet is back this year. I literally picked up my wish in this colour 2 weeks ago xx
OMGGG jel!!!
I heard from a professor in psychology instant connection and passion is very different from the love you develop needed for a long term relationship. Also passion doesn’t necessarily turn into long term love . The transition is not straight forward. That’s why lots of relationships fail, some because they must and some because of wrong expectations. For long term relationship you don’t need the spark at the beginning , you do need it for the passion though. But passion unfortunately fades and is only short term
egg freezing - not sure if you'll see this but I've had eggs frozen and it was really painless and easy. I was sedated, not under general anesthesia, so I was awake but did not feel a thing, and I don't really remember the procedure other than them saying they liked my tattoos haha, and the pain after was really minimal, I just napped for the rest of the day and was able to go back to work the next day. If you've had a smear test I'd say it's even less painful than that. You also have to inject yourself with hormones for a few weeks before but I could barely feel those either.
You are so cute!! Have been a fan for a long time now and I just love your personality. You are "the friend" that everyone needs.
Omg this is so kind xx
I tried EMDR briefly and it made me worse so I couldn’t continue. I know it can sometimes get worse before getting better. Did you do it privately as I’m looking for someone private to try again in London and would love a recommendation.
I look forward to your Sunday upload every week and have watched your videos forever.
Today I really needed to hear your “everything is meant to be how it is and everything is going to be okay”.
Thank you Amelia. We really do connect on a spiritual level and I hope to be able to meet you in person one day to hug you 💕
It’s definitely being in your 30s. The best decade for not caring about other peoples opinions anymore. Love it for us.
Girl I turned 40 last year and am freaking loving it, it gets even better than your 30s!!
This was lovely Amelia!!
Everyone needs a friend like you. ❤
It’s great to hear that you accessed therapy to address your difficulties however people can become dependent on therapy and feel that they are not able to function without being in therapy please be mindful private therapist will sponge of your money!
Love that you feel connected to your viewers. We feel the same way!
Hello Amelia ❤ I just have to say I admire how confident and positive you are answering these Qs❣️ I’m so proud of the person you’ve become!! All the best to you and thanks always for sharing 💜
aww thank you
I didn’t have to go under for my egg retrieval, i got a cocktail of drugs that made me really happy and relaxed and was awake for the whole things. 😅❤
ooh really! so interesting thank you for sharing xx
As a woman with a husky voice of my own...I love your new voice! xxx
Thank you for sharing the anxiety part ❤ it helps so much!!!
Im sorry not everybody has deep issues to go for therapy. I personally grew up in a house where my parents loved me and they never argued and i grew up went to ui found a job and met my husband at 27 and got married. Never had a major breakup and never had issues with my parent. Had friends here and there and got a lovely sister. So i honestly dont have anything to talk to therapist. Never felt frustrated so there are people who dont need it. My husband needs it since het stressful but what am i going to say to a therapist?
Amelia, are you able to share the details of the latest nose surgeon you have used?
Your nose looks amazing, I’m on nose job #2 and still unhappy. Would really appreciate it! Thanks
Thank you so much, Amelia, for sharing your thoughts and feelings in this Q&A! I’m truly hoping to run into you in London one day (I’m American, but I’m in London a few times a year for work) and I’d love a hug!! ❤❤❤
Just to let you know you don't have to do general anaesthetic for egg freezing. Mine was done using twilight sedation.
I agree with the just not caring what people think. At nearly 50 oh geez I'm there. It feels good to just not give a damn. It's a relief really just doing what you want. When I was 32 I met my 2nd husband. He met me at the start of I wasn't caring about stuff. He liked that I kept distance and wasn't playing catch up with phone calls. I was living my life. If I was available to see him great if I wasn't that was okay too. My husband back then was 38 so he was probably in the same phase of life as I was at that time. Now 17 years later we are still doing our thing and not giving a damn.
This is why you’re single. First dates are not necessarily a taste of what’s to come. Give a guy a second date and either way you’ll know for sure if there’s a possibility or not.
Ok, I did not have the instant connection and a lot of happy couples Don't have that but as they were friends or gave the second data a chance it helped get that connection and know each other.
Love a good Q&A ❤looking forward to your dating updates, if you choose to share 😊
You don’t have to have general for egg freezing :) just sedation! It’s honestly not bad at all, and earlier the better so if in doubt would get it out the way.
Your voice reminds me of when Phoebe in Friends got sick and had her new sexy singing voice 😂 and totally agree about the spark when meeting someone...I'm also currently single in my 30s and if I'm ever "ehhh" after a date, that means it's a NO!
Love the saying about the making plans and thr universe laughs about it. Life is just that. Unpredictable. My husband and I used to talk hours on end, laugh till our stomachs hurt and just were thick as thieves. Now our son is 2, I have herniated discs on end and we just bicker and fight and argue all the time. We are still the same people, but life changed and so did our relationship. I don‘t know where I was going with that….😂 anyway the green hermes is stunning
i almost never watch Q&A and hardly leave comments.... am a quick hit a like button gal..... i am glade i watched this and i loved it. Thank you!! you are awesome.
I think the most important thing to focus on is being happy and satisfied with your life in your 30s. There are plenty of women who have men who are completely miserable and unfulfilled in their 30s. You only get one shot at life and once you get to a certain age you can't go back and start over and check all of the important things off the list. Having a partner can be very limiting because now you've got to focus on their needs and goals and oftentimes you just become the person that cheerleads and helps actualize your partners goals meanwhile your time is dwindling down the drain. Having a partner is for people who are done living. I bet if you asked Mama Rachel she would say the same thing. Grab life with both hands and never look back.
We all just need to be our genuine self. Which makes us happy
Dear Amelia U r so right horses are true soul mates.
You glow in this outfit.❤
aw so kind thanks lovely x
I've been single for a long time an im5 40 an I feeling it a lot more my younger cousins are already Married before me an as of now I don't see myself married I am ready to be with someone again being alone is ok at times, I just tired of being alone.
In Ireland it's common to get married in tour mid 30s. Some of my friends married in their mid 20s all but one of those couples are separated now.most married in mid 30s.
Thank u amelia!!! You're the best, love u
I did IVF a few months ago, I have had many pelvic surgeries but egg collection surgery/ wake up from anaesthetic was the best experience I have had. I usually struggle with awful nausea and sickness post anaesthetic, blood pressure issues etc. Waking up from egg collection I didn’t ask for anti nausea once, I didn’t feel sick or have any issues infact was able to leave hospital earlier than anticipated. I did have some tenderness as to be expected but the surgery itself was very smooth! ❤
Morning Amelia. Hope Your Voice Soon Gets better, Lovely QA, Have a Lovely Sunday. Xx 😊😘
Love the q and a video ❤😊
aw thank you!
@@amelialiana your welcome
Literally the best thing about being in your 30s is you stop giving a f@*k! Can’t explain how or why it happens but I am definitely way more happy now than I ever was in my 20s and you definitely seem way more confident and content in yourself now than you used to be xx
Hi Amelia I also feel anxious when thinking about the future .. so thinking about 5 years time I just can’t do. I’m also a lot older than you and all of a sudden I’m 50 (I don’t feel 50 though). 😂
I find bring in my 30 is so much more fun, easy and peacefull than beint in my 20
Love that your whole fam is so fun partyers. I put my heal through someone’s leather chairs once during a mindless party moment🤦🏽♀️
That top is so cute
Amelia we all know that the funniest one in the group is almost always the most depressed one.
Woooho! Go, Amelia, Go!
Amelia, i love your Sunday vlogs. I always look forward to a slow Sunday morning with your vlogs ❤
Hi Amelia can you do an update bag and shoe collection please
You’re so sweet. Enjoy all the good days.❤
I Love your Q&A videos! I agree the 5 year question is such a hard one - so much changes all the time! Just keep swimming!
thank you angel xx
Don't delay freezing your eggs delaying becomes a habit. Do it asap so no regrets
L’Chaim to the new weds ❤️🧿
I'm so happy you got to design your dress
Love you so much ❤ here’s to a future of ssssliving 🤗⚡️
I personally think that having too much choice turns into a trial and calamity in itself and leaves a person with nothing.
i loved this video ! thank you for sharing your life with all of us ! Really i give you so much credit in the world 🌎 Because i couldn’t do it !! i get so mad when people get in here and criticize you , because i want to tell them F@@@off !! she doesn’t have to tell you anything! so you keep being you Girl i absolutely adore you ♥️
yessss I'm loving the IDGAF era . Welcome😎
You are such a sweetheart, your vlogs are just the best ❤
Amelia: “I lost my voice from all the wooing…”
Amelia a couple of seconds later: “Woo!”
😂😂😂🩷🩷🩷
Clearly can’t help myself 😂
Beautiful Amelia, thank you for sharing, love your rings 😊
❤❤Thank you I love this much better than insta💕💕
those miserable aunties...they are are always asking the same questions!!😂
First thing I looked at was the time.... a lil over 15 mins only.... 😂
Ive been watching you for years and i feel the frustration under the surface. I wish i could give you constructive advice on life because i feel youre fundamentally a good and loving person. But i dont know you personally and unsolicited advice is not usually recieved well. The malady is spiritual in nature.
Thank god for you having a shit day and good old Amelia never fails to bring it with her uplifting little smile and reliable vlong I’m 9 hrs late because of my shit day but heh there you are Thankyou 😢❤
Who’s wedding?? 👀😂
Love your content
Once I turned 30 I went into my IDGAF era 😅 Something just changes in your 30’s. It’s the best 🥰
You sound and look a space cadet with snappy hand gestures
Gosh, i lovee her videos, if therapy was a person, it would be amelia❤❤❤
I knew you were neurodivergent 6:46 !!! I knew there was an intimate reason I liked you and that I have a subconscious pattern of following neurodivergent RUclipsrs! And I watch all sorts of stuff, from medicine to science and the main hosts are mostly ND, whatever the field! Anyway, you’re awesome and your special-interests in bags and fashion are awesome but your genuine enthusiasm and vulnerable honesty is what’s great, most of all.
If I lived anywhere near you I would be thrilled bumping into you. You seem like such an absolute sweetheart. I wouldn't even mind the hug as I'm a hugger too!
sorry don't copy model naomi campbell. Having children et do truly see their dad. Who should support them.
u should do more of these videos💅🏽
Omg I’ve never heard someone say they’d never date anyone who’s not had therapy 😮.
🌹Loved this Amelia! You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You have always been so genuine and sweet. You look gorgeous in the thumbnail btw. Continued Blessings and Support. ~Love&Light♥️C. xx
aw thank you so much xx
Was this Estee’s wedding that you were MC? Did she merry someone in your family?
No her sister Hannah’s wedding
Estees wedding has been called off sadly.
@@Skyebright1 Thank you!
@@johannacollins1130 so sorry to hear but thank you!
Love your videos!!!!!!
What an odd thing to say to not want to date someone who hasn't had therapy. There are people out there who don't have issues, are happy and lead a life free of complexities ;-). Not everyone "needs" therapy.
I quite agree with you .
Her claim is (unsurprisingly) also consumerist. A requirement of a date that went through therapy presupposes a set type of person that is free of moral and psychological ailments. It's like you 'buy' a fantasy of a person, a facade. But dating doesnt work like this since everyone, regardless of whether they went to therapy, is complex. Therapy is not salvation. It's no wonder that consumerist/capitalist ppl like her constantly fail in relationships.
You are funny.
I disagree. I do believe those people are out there, but I would prefer to be with someone who also takes advantage of therapy to improve themselves, whether there are serious issues or not. There is benefit in that type of personal reflection. Better to have that support in your life, anything can happen.
I agree
Amelia babe im in my fifties single and i have never felt happier❤❤❤❤
I would so love to bump into you, but unlikely to have a Fendi and Bottega to show, just me I'm afraid. I was single with two beautiful babies in my 30s and then met my husband, 23 years together this year and so happy. So it will come to you when you least expect it 💗
Amelia the older you get… the less you give a 💩! 😂
Yep ahaha