When i see the efforts that those families did to adopt a little baby, it makes me cry, they needed so disperatly a family and the autority without any shame make it so difficult, what heart had those people!!? 😢
I'm born in '80's and even that i grow up with my mom and dad, i remember i was so unhappy, my mom was always nervous and unhappy, my dad had alcohol problems. I was so affraid of both of them and this cause me personality issues, i was so timid, i cry a lot and i was affraid of everthing. We use to stay alone when they work, at 10 pm when light was take off we(me and my sister) start to cry, because we were so scare of dark. My mom when i was little didn't let anyone to take me in their arms, because she didn't want me to get use to, so i don't remember her give us love or play with us...The real problem was that many of my friends grow up in the same dysfunctional families like we did, it was a bad/ wrong society, people were so unhappy.Even i was a child i remember everything, even the days that my mom send us to stay in line for bread, i was 5 and my sis 7.When i heard people that are still "crying" for communist era, i'm so sad...there was nothing good in those time!!😢😢😢
when it comes to international adoptions, some people say that the children should stay where they are, rather than being adopted abroad. I say that it is more important how they grow up rather than where they grow up.
@@OKBgoshYou are narrow minded. There are many different countries that have children needing to be adopted. Each country has their own rules & requirements for adoptions. I am American, we adopted our Thai daughter & brought her home in 1980, after 2 yrs of completing paperwork & many steps that are part of the process. We used HOLT International Adoption Agency in Eugene, Oregon, USA. They are the best in the world & have been around since the 1960s. Write to them and get on their free mailing list showing many of the children that are available for adoption and they work with you to help you complete your adoption. They are wonderful. You can also pick a child in their orphanage that you can send money to them, write letters to them and sponsor them monthly. We did that for a couple of yrs.
Contraception and abortion were made illegal in 1966. Women were forced to give birth over and over again. This is what happens when reproductive choice is removed.
It dosent matter if you think thw children should stay in their own country. If they do, good chance they won't have the success they need to be able to have a good life. If you don't want them going elsewhere, don't have the kids, or work harder to put them where they can have a better chance. Other wise, be quite.
This disgusts me to my core. Yhis hasn't anything to do with the child's well being and everything to do with money & power. These babies have the opportunity to live Wonderful lives with a loving family yet their being made to stay in horrible conditions throughout this bull shit they call process. I bet if u had a wod of $$$$$$ that process would magically disappear.
I know an italien family that adopt un russian baby in 2009, they spend a lot of money and they did a lots of trips in Russia, in Vladivostok, 10 hours of flight from Moscow.The child now is very beautiful and educated, but when he came, he had many problems behaving.
Wonder in what years have disposable diapers arrived like Pampers or other diaper brands are the first time in Romania? Especially in the maternity wards of hospitals I ask how babies used diapers because having lived in 2 orphanages up to 8 years old I remember small babies wrapped in pieces of cloth that looked like diapers and in Bucharest babies with today's diapers like Pampers
Alina, as far as I knew, the disposable Pampers diapers arrived for the first time in Romania in 1990/1991, after the fall of the Ceausescu regime at the end of 1989!
@@garycooper9207 Wonder in what years have disposable diapers arrived like Pampers or other diaper brands are the first time in Romania? Especially in the maternity wards of hospitals
@@alinasimoncini3604 I think later after fall of Communism because diapers must have been very expensive. I saw cloth diapers being used still in 90's in Finland, because those were cheaper. It was just thin cloth and you fold it.
perfect example showing the benefits of providing women with legal abortion, the fact that these orphanages were filled with children born to families too poor or unable to support a child especially the many born with major disabilities.. A population which had drastically declined since a woman's right was instated. These children born from desperate situations without a woman's choice to avoid this inevitable suffering of child, which were forcibly born to exist for their short lives of misery and neglect left to die experiencing no understanding of joy or warmth. I don't see how one can argue that this is more humane than abortion.
This is an example of why communism is so dangerous. The communist dictator forced women to have five children per family,even though the country was experiencing shortages, little food, and poverty due to the communist policies.
Where did u get the impression I've failed to remember when my entire comment was in reference to the repercussions of his ban on abortion and contraception;
I think it’s just an observation. This is always the argument in favor of birth control or abortion, it’s better to terminate or not have a pregnancy than to have children be born into neglect and abuse. There are severe repercussions to abusing/neglecting human beings from birth.
Children and Babies Who Are ,Unloved and Physically and Emotionally Neglected are Sadly SMALLER in Size , Because , Due to the Lack of Care and Love , unloved Babies will Stop Growing Due to a Hormone , A Baby and Begin Rocking and Doing other things LiKE Hurting themselves , the Babies Are usually QUIET Because those Babies SADLY KNOW Their Crie's WONT BE Answered BY People I Was Neglected By my own BirthMom in the USA FOSTER CARE System , I was In their from the Time ( I Was 3 Months old Until just after I was 2 Years old ) I was Also Born with Brain Damage and Heart Defects, Heart Surgery Helped Save MY Life , And I Was Adopted with My Life Long Issues , and I Have Been With My Family Ever Since, I'm now 30 Year's old
@Calascibetti WOW 😲 🥺 YOU'RE So RUDE ! , THESE Children and Babies CANT help the Fact that They were Born With DISABILITIES It's Not Their Fault , THESE Kids Need Help and Better Medical Care and Good Medical Supplie's I Was in Foster Care , I know How Children Like them Feel it's Truly Heartbreaking , 💔 So Do YOU THINK That CHILDREN & Babies Withouts Disabilities Only Should Have Families And Love ? Every Child Need's Love and Care , No matter Who they or Where they Come From. I Feel Bad. For you
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When i see the efforts that those families did to adopt a little baby, it makes me cry, they needed so disperatly a family and the autority without any shame make it so difficult, what heart had those people!!? 😢
I'm born in '80's and even that i grow up with my mom and dad, i remember i was so unhappy, my mom was always nervous and unhappy, my dad had alcohol problems. I was so affraid of both of them and this cause me personality issues, i was so timid, i cry a lot and i was affraid of everthing. We use to stay alone when they work, at 10 pm when light was take off we(me and my sister) start to cry, because we were so scare of dark. My mom when i was little didn't let anyone to take me in their arms, because she didn't want me to get use to, so i don't remember her give us love or play with us...The real problem was that many of my friends grow up in the same dysfunctional families like we did, it was a bad/ wrong society, people were so unhappy.Even i was a child i remember everything, even the days that my mom send us to stay in line for bread, i was 5 and my sis 7.When i heard people that are still "crying" for communist era, i'm so sad...there was nothing good in those time!!😢😢😢
when it comes to international adoptions, some people say that the children should stay where they are, rather than being adopted abroad. I say that it is more important how they grow up rather than where they grow up.
@@aykakatibli7249 I remain shocked so many people don't recognize how much international adoption is comparable to human trafficking.
@@aykakatibli7249agree
@@OKBgoshYou are narrow minded. There are many different countries that have children needing to be adopted. Each country has their own rules & requirements for adoptions. I am American, we adopted our Thai daughter & brought her home in 1980, after 2 yrs of completing paperwork & many steps that are part of the process. We used HOLT International Adoption Agency in Eugene, Oregon, USA. They are the best in the world & have been around since the 1960s. Write to them and get on their free mailing list showing many of the children that are available for adoption and they work with you to help you complete your adoption. They are wonderful. You can also pick a child in their orphanage that you can send money to them, write letters to them and sponsor them monthly. We did that for a couple of yrs.
depends on many many things. each child is different
Doesn't seem that much has changed since then. I think international adoption is far better than this life for them.
Who can abandon there children.😢 its so heartbreaking, my heart aces for them.
Contraception and abortion were made illegal in 1966. Women were forced to give birth over and over again. This is what happens when reproductive choice is removed.
It sad to think this was happening in the 90s
This is still happening today in many places
It dosent matter if you think thw children should stay in their own country. If they do, good chance they won't have the success they need to be able to have a good life. If you don't want them going elsewhere, don't have the kids, or work harder to put them where they can have a better chance. Other wise, be quite.
Birth control and abortion were made illegal in Romania in 1966 and this continued until the early 90s.
Io cerco i miei fratelli biologici Danut Robert e George Fieraru Panait ....
Have you done a DNA test?
what are they eating
This disgusts me to my core.
Yhis hasn't anything to do with the child's well being and everything to do with money & power. These babies have the opportunity to live Wonderful lives with a loving family yet their being made to stay in horrible conditions throughout this bull shit they call process. I bet if u had a wod of $$$$$$ that process would magically disappear.
I know an italien family that adopt un russian baby in 2009, they spend a lot of money and they did a lots of trips in Russia, in Vladivostok, 10 hours of flight from Moscow.The child now is very beautiful and educated, but when he came, he had many problems behaving.
Wonder if she did get that little girl in the end
Romanians are from ostrogoths!!
What does that mean?
Poor babies
Year of this video?
About the year 1990.
Wonder in what years have disposable diapers arrived like Pampers or other diaper brands are the first time in Romania? Especially in the maternity wards of hospitals
I ask how babies used diapers because having lived in 2 orphanages up to 8 years old I remember small babies wrapped in pieces of cloth that looked like diapers and in Bucharest babies with today's diapers like Pampers
Alina, as far as I knew, the disposable Pampers diapers arrived for the first time in Romania in 1990/1991, after the fall of the Ceausescu regime at the end of 1989!
@@marianstoica1968 How did babies use diapers before the fall of the regime?
@@alinasimoncini3604Cloth diapers. My mum used them for me, I was born 1979 in Finland
@@garycooper9207 Wonder in what years have disposable diapers arrived like Pampers or other diaper brands are the first time in Romania? Especially in the maternity wards of hospitals
@@alinasimoncini3604 I think later after fall of Communism because diapers must have been very expensive. I saw cloth diapers being used still in 90's in Finland, because those were cheaper. It was just thin cloth and you fold it.
perfect example showing the benefits of providing women with legal abortion, the fact that these orphanages were filled with children born to families too poor or unable to support a child especially the many born with major disabilities.. A population which had drastically declined since a woman's right was instated. These children born from desperate situations without a woman's choice to avoid this inevitable suffering of child, which were forcibly born to exist for their short lives of misery and neglect left to die experiencing no understanding of joy or warmth. I don't see how one can argue that this is more humane than abortion.
yep. Abortion is sad, but it is a hell of a lot more humane than this.
This is an example of why communism is so dangerous. The communist dictator forced women to have five children per family,even though the country was experiencing shortages, little food, and poverty due to the communist policies.
You failed to remember than Ceaucescu imposed extra birthing, along with the prohibition of abortion and the rampant misery.
Where did u get the impression I've failed to remember when my entire comment was in reference to the repercussions of his ban on abortion and contraception;
I think it’s just an observation. This is always the argument in favor of birth control or abortion, it’s better to terminate or not have a pregnancy than to have children be born into neglect and abuse. There are severe repercussions to abusing/neglecting human beings from birth.
Those babies look fucking Weird! Scary even…
What a terrible thing 2 say.😠
Children and Babies Who Are ,Unloved and Physically and Emotionally Neglected are Sadly SMALLER in Size , Because , Due to the Lack of Care and Love , unloved Babies will Stop Growing Due to a Hormone , A Baby and Begin Rocking and Doing other things LiKE Hurting themselves , the Babies Are usually QUIET Because those Babies SADLY KNOW Their Crie's WONT BE Answered BY People
I Was Neglected By my own BirthMom in the USA FOSTER CARE System , I was In their from the Time ( I Was 3 Months old Until just after I was 2 Years old ) I was Also Born with Brain Damage and Heart Defects, Heart Surgery Helped Save MY Life , And I Was Adopted with My Life Long Issues , and I Have Been With My Family Ever Since, I'm now 30 Year's old
What?! No one wanted Ol’ Pissy Pants?? Shocking
@Calascibetti WOW 😲 🥺 YOU'RE So RUDE ! , THESE Children and Babies CANT help the Fact that They were Born With DISABILITIES It's Not Their Fault , THESE Kids Need Help and Better Medical Care and Good Medical Supplie's I Was in Foster Care , I know How Children Like them Feel it's Truly Heartbreaking , 💔 So Do YOU THINK That CHILDREN & Babies Withouts Disabilities Only Should Have Families And Love ?
Every Child Need's Love and Care , No matter Who they or Where they Come From. I Feel Bad. For you
Hi, Im from Singapore TV production house, we would like to use your video in our programme, may I know how can I contact you for the permission of the video?