I’ve been lying my entire life. I’ve been telling truths my entire life. All I want to do is tell the truth but when I do, people either treat me w a pedestal, fear, or a door slam. What I really want is to follow through on the truth for mySelf.
I have a nine years old son with an ENTP preference. This series can be by the way a great guide for parents to understand better their children a to know in which areas is good to push on them and on the contrary. Thanks!
Agree with the ENTP lady. I'm not 'afraid' or hard work. I'll out-work most anybody if I'm feeling spiteful enough. I just feel trapped with routines. Claustraphobic almost. I'll bust my ass doing the impossible....for a while. And then I'm out. I don't care if it's hard/easy/mid. All I see is a numbing sameness, a blink or two, and I'm on my death bed having done nothing else but that one silly thing. Ne is scary as your lead function. I don't just see possibilities, I see dead ends too.
43:33 😅 the sigh of relief upon hearing you state the truth here. Oof. This little “phase” hit me hard in my 30s- suddenly worried about every social interaction & how things were being perceived & wanted to become a hermit 😂 but with strangers it’s a whole different game. I did not understand how I could be so different around strangers vs my social circles (where I would become the most tame & boring & fearful version of myself).
I loved it. Amazing. Taught me so much about myself. Aspects of SI. Remembering the 'collective past'. I realised in myself and other ENTPs that we enjoy watching old shows. I and others like to compare 'times'. As child I got very sensitive to show adaptation, details, like cowboys with clean nails. Medieval mages from a 1970ies show with modern eyebrow-trims. I can get very sensitive to these inaccurate adaptations. They distort a message. I understand why producers are doing it (lazyness, lack of attention to detail, wanting to captivate a modern viewership, not win the history prize. 50 years ago a person in their 40ies would look much older than today.) It fundamentally falsifies. I have a strong attraction towards none-toned N-type opposite sex, a low attraction towards toned S-type opposite sex, a very high attraction towards very versatile (cold reading!) in their movement N-types that are toned. A low attraction to plain toned N-types. Only recently have I accepted that I must measure the attractiveness of a partner on indirect indicators. Wealth, status, looks. Wheras before I made a point of seing this as shallow. (My own lack of Fe, SI integration). Even though I want yo work on it, I also dont want to. Diversity, difference and tolerance should be the basis of our society, but unfortunately cannot lead it.
Is it possible to be Ne Ti Fe Se? I have an excellent memory but otherwise have trouble w follow through and I am very into my senses/physical environment. An athlete since very young.
I understand introverted sensing is the putting down the roots function, but why does this make me so depressed? At the same time; the fear of being financially unstable from avoiding my introverted sensing keeps me in a constant state of analysis paralysis. Damned if do, damned if don’t. So now what?
Hi antonia, how do you deal with fear of activities that develop your ti or ne? like public speaking opportunities, or others. i tend to deflect from opportunities for self love like these. is it a consequence of living in an fe laden life filled with so many instances of faking and people pleasing that there is a disbelief or distrust of avenues that seem to encourage ti or ne?
Antonia, the reason people think you are an ETJ is because an ESTJ is your Socionics Benefactor. Which means you are healthy. Because healthy ENTPs develope contact Ti,Te,Si,Se to look more like their ESTJ (LSE) Benefactor in public and their ISTJ (LSI) Supervisee in private. Just as healthy ENFPs develop Contact Fe,Fi,Se,Si to look more like their ESFJ (ESE) Benefactor in public and ISFJ (ESI) Supervisee in private.
ENTP-ISFP = Socionics Duality A lot of people erroneously think a Socionics ISFp is an mbti ISFJ. Not so. The J and P switch only applies to introverted intuitives. So: INFj = INFP But: ISFp = ISFP ------------------------------------- Observation & Socionics proves ALL mbti-SJs actually lead with judging. ALL mbti-SPs actually lead with sensing. Including the introverts!!!!! So: Mbti- ISFJ = ISFj (ESI) leads with correctly defined FiSe = Relations enforced through external sensory actions like nursing. Mbti-ISTJ = ISTj (LSI) leads with correctly defined TiSe = laws enforced ✏️ 📝 . Example: Accounting. Mbti-ISTP = ISTp (SLI) leads with correctly defined SiTe = Sensory pragmatism 🔨 🛠 🪛 🔧 Mbti- ISFP = ISFp (SEI) leads with correctly defined SiFe = Sensory mood 💋 💄 Note: Thankfully Mbti only has the 4 introverted sensor's leading 2 functions wrong. Thankfully, it has the other 12 type's leading 2 functions right after doing a J and P switch ONLY for the introverted intuitives.
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I’ve been lying my entire life. I’ve been telling truths my entire life. All I want to do is tell the truth but when I do, people either treat me w a pedestal, fear, or a door slam. What I really want is to follow through on the truth for mySelf.
2023 was a very tough year for me too! so glad we made it out. thank you for this thorough conversation! and p.s. i love when you get personal.
I have a nine years old son with an ENTP preference. This series can be by the way a great guide for parents to understand better their children a to know in which areas is good to push on them and on the contrary. Thanks!
Agree with the ENTP lady. I'm not 'afraid' or hard work. I'll out-work most anybody if I'm feeling spiteful enough. I just feel trapped with routines. Claustraphobic almost. I'll bust my ass doing the impossible....for a while. And then I'm out. I don't care if it's hard/easy/mid. All I see is a numbing sameness, a blink or two, and I'm on my death bed having done nothing else but that one silly thing.
Ne is scary as your lead function. I don't just see possibilities, I see dead ends too.
Excellent. Super useful.
43:33 😅 the sigh of relief upon hearing you state the truth here. Oof. This little “phase” hit me hard in my 30s- suddenly worried about every social interaction & how things were being perceived & wanted to become a hermit 😂 but with strangers it’s a whole different game. I did not understand how I could be so different around strangers vs my social circles (where I would become the most tame & boring & fearful version of myself).
Ohh this is live?😭 I put it on while driving thinking it was a video.
checking in late, but atleast not a dollar short, lol
Ya Grate ,, on the path of discovery,, thanks it helps a lot !
When is the ENFP video coming?
I loved it. Amazing. Taught me so much about myself. Aspects of SI. Remembering the 'collective past'. I realised in myself and other ENTPs that we enjoy watching old shows. I and others like to compare 'times'. As child I got very sensitive to show adaptation, details, like cowboys with clean nails. Medieval mages from a 1970ies show with modern eyebrow-trims. I can get very sensitive to these inaccurate adaptations. They distort a message. I understand why producers are doing it (lazyness, lack of attention to detail, wanting to captivate a modern viewership, not win the history prize. 50 years ago a person in their 40ies would look much older than today.) It fundamentally falsifies.
I have a strong attraction towards none-toned N-type opposite sex, a low attraction towards toned S-type opposite sex, a very high attraction towards very versatile (cold reading!) in their movement N-types that are toned. A low attraction to plain toned N-types. Only recently have I accepted that I must measure the attractiveness of a partner on indirect indicators. Wealth, status, looks. Wheras before I made a point of seing this as shallow. (My own lack of Fe, SI integration). Even though I want yo work on it, I also dont want to. Diversity, difference and tolerance should be the basis of our society, but unfortunately cannot lead it.
I appreciate this so much, I agree and as an ENTP I get typed as an ENTJ at work, but definitely a chaotic ENTP through and through
Is it possible to be Ne Ti Fe Se? I have an excellent memory but otherwise have trouble w follow through and I am very into my senses/physical environment. An athlete since very young.
with the way the world is right now entps being themselves is important
Super valuable. Thanks.
Play with your Selves to improve in sight 👌🏻
I understand introverted sensing is the putting down the roots function, but why does this make me so depressed? At the same time; the fear of being financially unstable from avoiding my introverted sensing keeps me in a constant state of analysis paralysis.
Damned if do, damned if don’t.
So now what?
Hi antonia, how do you deal with fear of activities that develop your ti or ne? like public speaking opportunities, or others. i tend to deflect from opportunities for self love like these. is it a consequence of living in an fe laden life filled with so many instances of faking and people pleasing that there is a disbelief or distrust of avenues that seem to encourage ti or ne?
Antonia, the reason people think you are an ETJ is because an ESTJ is your Socionics Benefactor.
Which means you are healthy. Because healthy ENTPs develope contact Ti,Te,Si,Se to look more like their ESTJ (LSE) Benefactor in public and their ISTJ (LSI) Supervisee in private.
Just as healthy ENFPs develop Contact Fe,Fi,Se,Si to look more like their ESFJ (ESE) Benefactor in public and ISFJ (ESI) Supervisee in private.
I'm not sure if we totally agree on how we interpret the system, but I will absolutely accept your compliment of being healthy. Thank you! 🙏 -Antonia
ENTP-ISFP = Socionics Duality
A lot of people erroneously think a Socionics ISFp is an mbti ISFJ. Not so. The J and P switch only applies to introverted intuitives.
So:
INFj = INFP
But:
ISFp = ISFP
-------------------------------------
Observation & Socionics proves ALL mbti-SJs actually lead with judging. ALL mbti-SPs actually lead with sensing. Including the introverts!!!!!
So:
Mbti- ISFJ = ISFj (ESI) leads with correctly defined FiSe = Relations enforced through external sensory actions like nursing.
Mbti-ISTJ = ISTj (LSI) leads with correctly defined TiSe = laws enforced ✏️ 📝 . Example: Accounting.
Mbti-ISTP = ISTp (SLI) leads with correctly defined SiTe = Sensory pragmatism 🔨 🛠 🪛 🔧
Mbti- ISFP = ISFp (SEI) leads with correctly defined SiFe = Sensory mood 💋 💄
Note:
Thankfully Mbti only has the 4 introverted sensor's leading 2 functions wrong. Thankfully, it has the other 12 type's leading 2 functions right after doing a J and P switch ONLY for the introverted intuitives.