@@Karl__Pierre but when we are extroverted, we are extremely extroverted 😂 and same when we r introverted, that’s the reason why ppl always get confused
I have always struggled in these areas and have recently been seeking info for an ENTP’s character flaws and tips to fix. This video is awesome and was very useful to me. Thanks for creating it!
You’re the ENTP mentor I didn’t know I needed. 😂 seriously, I spent a lot of time fighting my own preferences and finally asked if it would be more beneficial to go with my innate preferences & figure out ways to make it work for me. Such a great video!
20 year old ENTP, super grateful I found your channel. I have a million ideas yet feel so lost, hopefully things will click soon. Thank you for all of this information!
Male ENTP here. I naturally talk to myself during conversation or rely on another person to give me a motivation to do something and then get an idea to change it for the better! The phrase over creative comes to mind.@@TrackStar42
The main flaw with ENTP is we are oriented around the negative. We are smart, bold, great at making arguments, and good leaders, but we use that to look for problems and their sources, then try to solve those problems. Great for certain careers and roles, but in normal jobs the ENTP comes off as a threat to people who are insecure, incompetent, or averse to change - pretty much every middle manager type. So if you are gonna work for somebody, make sure they will always see you as an asset rather than a threat.
Nailed it. Thats exactly an issue in the corporate world in seconds we will indentify gaps in process and either exploit them to do less work or tell the boss there's a better way to do this....most likely during a staff meeting in front of their superior. While thinking our suggestion will be considered a value add...the average middle manager sees that as a challenge to his throne. Got fired from every job and have stayed away ever since.
Insecure, incompetent and averse to change middle managers SHOULD feel threatened. The bulk of their job can and ought to be done by a SINGLE spreadsheet. Entire HR departments too. An intern with a Python IDE can automate 99% of their jobs, so get rid of the "department", and keep the two people from that office who are _actually_ useful and care enough to look out for people.
You're confirming my realization that I need to honor my personality not try to work against it because of society or thinking there is no choice but to modify myself. Particularly the part about bringing on others to take the tasks that, because I hate them (even when I am competent at them) slow me down and sap my vitality. I am an ENTP on the border with ENFP, with a close to 50/50 T & F but I realize that my empathy and clear communication were things I chose to learn. I was born with a preference for economical directness that I thought of as respectful honesty but others saw as hurtful or rude. . I do like orderliness in my home, but when I'm involved in a project it's like a mini tornado hit until it's done (& I'd really prefer someone else clean it up so I can move on to the next, lol)
Spot on. Thought it would be some stereotypical “endless arguing” bs, which I never found to be true ( people are too dumb for me wasting my energy to change some random wacko’s way of thinking), but you listed the actual problems I find very hard to overcome.
Once you're actively thinking about Overcoming them you will create the necessary hacks to do so. You'll still slip but if you improve my 75% that would be a major self improvement
People perceive me as the loveliest (no flex) but am actually the loneliest. I don't know if other fellow entps feel this, but i do get quite lonely at times.
Yeah at times. Flip between wanting to be social and in the world to then wanting to be alone, then feeling lonely. Not sure if it's an entp thing or a human thing.
So true. I always shift from being a product manager, game developer, pilot, rescue diver. It’s like you want to do it all but I can only do each one at a time. I’m really struggling with this as I enjoy all of them.
Thanks for sharing! As an ENTP, it's completely natural to have a wide range of interests and to want to explore them all. The challenge is often finding balance and prioritizing what to focus on.
To give my advice, I think two books helped me overcome my brutally honest problem and scatterbrained problem as an ENTP. first is “How to Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie(which helps me deal with social situations). Second is “12 rules for life” by Jordan Peterson.(it helps me track life and sort meanings)
I'm a 35 yr old ENTP who just found out about personality tests through tinder. Naturally I thought I'm missing something fundamentally or just weird compared to those around me and spent a great deal of effort trying to be more organized and consistent. It's one thing to learn about personality traits, but hearing you speak almost brought tears to my eyes. Thank You
Once you are clear on those gaps start designing the mechanisms to help you with your gaps. Get yourself an INFJ INTJ ENTJ partner and they'll balance you out.
Wow. I had no idea I even needed to hear all this. This was like pivotal for me. Thanks so much for this and your work. You've got a subscriber out of me!
My best friend is an INTJ and Im an ENTP and we work pretty well together! Most of the time, I just insert my ideas and she's amazing at connecting them together and organizing them. I also really like seeing other people's opinions on things, so I go do the networking job in our groupings and she handles organizing every idea I receive from myself and other people, its a blast to be teamed up with her. Sometimes, when I'm too interested in a topic she doesn't like, it can slightly be like talking to a wall, but I'm sure she has her own problems with me when I get too disorganized, but I wouldn't have it any other way. She tolerates my nonsense, I tolerate her nonsense. Its an equally fun and informative friendship!
You have it figured out! I hope to get there soon. I'm currently super bored, and sad but being an entp I guess its just coz I have nothing new going on!
I'm a 23 year old maybe ENTP (maybe because some people tell me i am an ENTP and others that i'm an ENTJ/ESTJ) guy dating an ESFJ girl and it's actually a very nice bond we have. I'm weirdly fairly more organized than her, and lowkey our disagreements (which are mainly because of how differently we see social norms) tend to be very stimulating and we both learn things about each other and learn how to Better ourselves
I think you have to be constantly engaged with things that you are interested in, I also think you need someone who likes to listen to you a lot and is open enough to be interested in all the subjects you have to talk about, you absolutely need an open mind person since you go back and forth all the time they should be able to understand and also you like that person to know you well because sometimes you get loss in your own ideas and that person should be able to bring you to reality. You are a very supportive partner. Being with you is not difficult as long as your partner is clear in who you are and loves you exactly like that.
This video right here, 🙌🏽everything. Around the 13:19 minute mark I was thinking about how certain types of interactions were a complete waste of time. 🤣🤣and then he said it right after my thoughts, and I was like damn.
I´m an ENTP. One thing that i would like to change, is the fact that i can only like a video ONCE. I want to like this video TWICE. Change that RUclips. Cheers from Brazil. :)
Exactly on target. So good. A tip on criticism... Because we have strong fe, leaning into an understanding of other people's feelings is something we can learn! We can actually be one very good at it. I think due to socialization, female entps may have a leg up here. I was trained to soften my abrasiveness from the time I was very young.
.... Wow, thank you Karl! This video is the top one and it spoke to me. I finally found answers to my questions. Keep going and shine the light upon us!
as an ENTP who can charm anyone, why do I screw it up with lovers I really want? Also, why is every ENTP dating advise is for the other person, 'keep them engaged', 'be spontaneous', 'be open to new ideas', etc. What are we as a personality doing wrong???
If i had to guess, you're a younger entp male. Probably attracted to girls who don't value your skillset and personality yet. Younger women want older men that can provide and make them feel special... Also as a younger entp i was very attracted to extraverted women that were organized and oderly. Those types tend to have a hard time understanding our ways. Find yourself a nice INFP or INFJ they'll appreciate the current guy you are but may not present like the type that always gets your attention.
In my country, in my family, i was raised how to be polite so brutally honest, just American ig... but yes lack of focus is sth i need to change, and being rebellious
Speaking as a senior, I finally stopped worrying about it lol. I realized I was never going to find THE place, or city, or piece of land that would satisfy me permanently. I think 8 years is the longest I've lived in any one house. I find a place, move in, fix it up, enjoy it, and then I'm ready to move on to create something else, somewhere else, a different lifestyle perhaps. Big city, small town, country acreage - I've tried it all. I'm 80 now and the realization that this is most likely the last place I will own is admittedly a little disconcerting, but such is life. As long as I have projects I can keep doing here, I expect I'll be ok.
Amazing video. Well written, shot, and presented. I have a question. Im assuming writing this script was easy for you (in fact you probably could have freestyled this and been just as good) But how were you able set up the camera, get the footage, EDIT it, and render it, and then come up with new ideas for your next video without giving up because it was just too much work to do that every time?
Haha yes... I write only the portions when I'm facing the camera frontal. The side shots when I am facing the other direction is off the Top of my head. I write scripts when I'm on flights because i have nothing else to do. Then I film with a videographer 6-8 videos in one day which carries me for 2 months. My editor handles the most grueling part which is the editing. Social media manager handles the uploads I get my ideas from the comment section, and from everyday questions. Sometimes spontaneously. You just gave me a good idea for a video hahaha ...my setup and my start and transition to being more professional. 2 videos actually!
I was watching your video at the part where you talk about losing focus.I missed 2 mins and had to go back cause I thought of an idea for a new project. And now I've lost focus on this video and I'm clicking off, to do something that isnt even that new idea. O.. M.. G...
I also wonder as ENTP, have you struggled with specializing in ur past, I tried so many different things and now I am more driven than before but still I am scatterbrained, I remembered 3 years ago, I asked advice from you about my job choice and I said I am doing accounting because my parents told me to do so, and you find it ridiculed, 😂and you were so right I dropped out from accounting because I am too creative an accountant and now I think I am better suited from entrepreneurship, which is a general broad major and suited me better 😂 I also watched your growth since 3 years ago, thank you very much for the help and hope you keep moving forward ❤ I am still in college right now while most of my friends have graduated because I spent these years looking for inspirations.
Hey how are you. I remember that conversation. Are you still in school? I think some of your accounting background will help you on the entrepreneurship path. What's important is that you operate within your interest range. I hope you didn't drop out of school altogether. If not what are you studying now?
@@Karl__Pierre entrepreneurship and I think either supplant chain management or finance so far well I did transfer because I was so confused and lack of focus with my accounting degree so I didn’t do well in my first year and I got depressed in the first year lol 😂 I don’t feel behind tho, if it’s other people they would feel behind, I think I gain lots of wide experience these years so I don’t regret that much
@@Karl__Pierre thanks tho 😂 haha, yea I think the accounting backgrounds make me more organized sometimes but I realize I organize from times to times and periodically I will loosen my organization habits and then I will re pick it up lol 😂
Anyone here ever be gaslighted by another? I thought my boss did it to me through our 4 eye discussions for around 6 month - 1 year. Since I realized there was something wrong with my mind after discussions with him, I avoided to argue with him anymore. After months avoiding him, I got my sense back for his non sense actions that he always has argument about that. Actually I still wonder what is a better way to face that kind of people.
With facts. You can't have subjective discussions with that type. Additionally you might just need to switch environments because it maybe pointless for you to continue there.
I loved working with project managers who were comfortable directing others and keeping us all on track using MS Project or some other planning tool. I was never good at keeping up the project plan. I'm a retired ENTP engineer.
I’m an ENTP about to marry an ESFJ, she’s the most loyal nurturing type.. but ur right about losing a certain engagement.. whether social, intellectual.. i find she is most sophisticated emotionally, and her specialized in home and family life which is very foreign to me. With cleaning, she likes to do it on her own daily and doesn’t want me to get in the way (because I’m not good enough).. even if I try, she’ll just redo it anyway after w no fuss. Only when I pick on her does she bring up how much she does. I’m curious how it’s like with an NF?
Hey hey you're about to get married don't start thinking about Nf's lol. I think the entp ESFJ pairing can be a good one. My ex wife as mentioned is an esfj we paired nicely for work and the exchanges involved in marriage but there was something just missing. The NFs from my own experience enfjs enfps infjs are good for theoretical conversations, alternate perspectives, and physical chemistry. An ENFP will pack up, drop everything, and run away with you without thinking through the consequences....their the type to steal you from your wife hahaha. An enfj would too while staying organized. I think ENFJs are also great entertainers and people masters. They can work a room with you or for you. Host a party mingle and then report who is the snake in your circle. They will certainly have irrational arguments based on how they "feel" and are super stubborn. If you can navigate that they are awesome partners.
for a long time I was confused by interactions I would have discussing problems with people at work. So many times the conversation would end with them being angry/offended and I was confused cause the whole time I thought we were just talking about the problem but they thought I was attacking them or being condescending. I also have a really hard time not showing it on my face if I don't see the logic in what others are saying.
It's funny because I had to rewind the video like five times and I'm just at minute 7! Lol Lack of focus. Thanks for your advices, I'll take them because I'm now on our INTJ shadow mode and I don't like it at all.
haha its ok. Nothing wrong with being there some good soul searching can be done there. I slip into it all the time almost like the contrast my mind needs.
I really hate it when I realize someone is working up to criticizing me and they talk around it, instead of being direct. I have a really hard time figuring out how to not be direct with people, so I don’t offend their feelings.
Wow! So true about me so I wonder as for me what personality type is most suitable my mom is the complete opposite of me (ISTJ) and we butt heads lol 😅
It's interesting how different personality types can lead to some clashes, especially when you're complete opposites. Sometimes, opposites can complement each other well, but it definitely takes some patience and compromise.
Wow. I’m an ENTP 😂. I’ve done multiple Mayer Briggs and I’ve clearly missed the point. My business partner, is the opposite of me, structured, organized, execution oriented. We work well because we complement one another very well.
Hi Karl. First Time i found you ... but you Nailed it .... thats how i am :D did you find or Try to work with other ENTP´s and whats you experiance ? Regards Timo
@timoshankar2582 other entps are good for think tanks and strategic partnerships but a room of us working together could lead to an 8 hour meeting where we start with a corporate problem then walk away with an ayauhuasca trip planned
I’m an ENTP, and have adhd… yeah focusing doesn’t exist unless it’s languages. Many ENTPs I believe do want to be a good person and have a good heart. Are honest mostly. I’m an ENTP-T (TURBULENT ENTP) I have a high feeling percentage… 40 something percent. But I have thinking as my dominant. I get REALLY MAD 😂 WHY DIDN’T YOU GIVE 3 PIZZA SLICES 😂 I’ve been working on my issues and am doing better.
Hahah same here entp female my test was always assertive but lately as I have some relationship issues i dont know if its related but my test shows entp turbulent
When I was a beginner Coach I told my athletes they were amazing because they sucked (at the form). I like straight foward but it might not be the best for everyone.
so does that mean I should not start my own business until I have found a partner who can take responsibility for the things I have difficulties with? that has been on my mind.... I keep going back and forth between figuring out how to be everything myself so I don't have to rely on anybody and accepting that we all need other people to thrive.
That's one option or start a business that you know you can get to cashflow positive quickly and be able to afford to hire help before you get distracted
I mean... I'm go with "I'm a weirdo". The online psychobabble test said ENTP-A, and a lot of what I hear about that seems to resonate with me, but I also see a lot of contradictory content and stuff that simply doesn't apply, so I'm calling it a tentative typing until I can be f-cked to do this properly with a professional, or ultimately decide it's all a load of bollocks that's not worth my time. Jury's still out on that last one ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Hey. Just came across your channel. I am 18 years old about to leave for college and I am interested in starting a nursing agency. I have seen that you are very open to communication and I would love to get into contact with you.
@@Karl__Pierre lmao Well I'm watching it now anyway. It's funny how similar your mannerisms are to me when you explain things. The way you speak, move your hands, the little pauses, eye movements, sudden new thoughts while talking and quickly sliding them in etc.. It's eerie but cool at the same time
As an ENTP myself (Granted I am seemingly far more strict than yourself) noticed a pattern between what you are saying and a similarity in SPED Children. Basically you stated what you are and how you think, which is good, but it moves into a justification after on why you may be fleeting, irresponsible, inattentive, and why the majority needs to work around you. Again, I am an ENTP myself but I would put me in a realm above yourself as you seem to be in the 1980's still while I am in 2023. Have you noticed that everything you talked about is something the 80's strove for that no longer exists? Basically a flip flopper looking for that one job that gives him that lifetime original programming happy ending that also doesnt exist. Have you evaluated THAT about yourself and why you are doing what you are doing?
Knowing an ENTP *wink* you saw or will see that there is a comment to this and got curious before finishing the above. Hi! Another fair question as you havent noticed it about yourself. Are you aware that like the LGBTQUIA have you moved out of being a person and now see and project yourself as a personality type with no real identity at all? Actually helping you for a first time ever can say, you're welcome. Thats what your problem is.
Projection much? Putting yourself in a "higher category" is judgemental, arrogant and competitive; something narcissists are known for. Don't confuse personality type (ENTP) with personality disorders.
Yes because your socialist/communist mentality has gone very well for everyone in all of history. Are you searching for the pat on the back for salvation to kill your routine boredom or are your trying to argue with your denial of the world you despise you just never can find your little niche in? Tired of the stares you eventually run into everywhere you go that they know you are cliche? @@barbarabuttler7647
When you close your mouth madam after pulling your head out of your ass did however enjoy striking a nerve with you. Anger is a secondary emotional reaction to sorrow or depression. Probably extends from your over played "Narcissist" again cliche. Comes from that hollow void of a life in there cause even you're tired and bored of always hearing others yell that and we all like to be special don't we?
As an ENTP, sometimes I want to socialize so much and sometimes I withdraw😂, and it makes my friends confused about my extroversion
Totally normal we are the most introverted extroverts
@@Karl__Pierre but when we are extroverted, we are extremely extroverted 😂 and same when we r introverted, that’s the reason why ppl always get confused
Welcome to my world LOL
I have always struggled in these areas and have recently been seeking info for an ENTP’s character flaws and tips to fix. This video is awesome and was very useful to me. Thanks for creating it!
You’re the ENTP mentor I didn’t know I needed. 😂 seriously, I spent a lot of time fighting my own preferences and finally asked if it would be more beneficial to go with my innate preferences & figure out ways to make it work for me. Such a great video!
Gotta just be honest with yourself and supplement any shortcomings. It's hard when you see all the possibilities
if you were an entp you would be dead in the jungle right now. instead you live in a city, bug man
@@mansertwo How did ENTPs survive? 🤔
20 year old ENTP, super grateful I found your channel. I have a million ideas yet feel so lost, hopefully things will click soon. Thank you for all of this information!
Narrow it down to what you know for furr you would never get bored of and do that
I am pulling your ip and coordinates right now. I am going to DELETE you.
Same here my mind races and understands everything easily, i never know what my passion is because everything is interesting😂
Male ENTP here. I naturally talk to myself during conversation or rely on another person to give me a motivation to do something and then get an idea to change it for the better! The phrase over creative comes to mind.@@TrackStar42
The main flaw with ENTP is we are oriented around the negative. We are smart, bold, great at making arguments, and good leaders, but we use that to look for problems and their sources, then try to solve those problems. Great for certain careers and roles, but in normal jobs the ENTP comes off as a threat to people who are insecure, incompetent, or averse to change - pretty much every middle manager type. So if you are gonna work for somebody, make sure they will always see you as an asset rather than a threat.
Nailed it. Thats exactly an issue in the corporate world in seconds we will indentify gaps in process and either exploit them to do less work or tell the boss there's a better way to do this....most likely during a staff meeting in front of their superior. While thinking our suggestion will be considered a value add...the average middle manager sees that as a challenge to his throne. Got fired from every job and have stayed away ever since.
@@Karl__Pierreeow, so true
Insecure, incompetent and averse to change middle managers SHOULD feel threatened. The bulk of their job can and ought to be done by a SINGLE spreadsheet. Entire HR departments too. An intern with a Python IDE can automate 99% of their jobs, so get rid of the "department", and keep the two people from that office who are _actually_ useful and care enough to look out for people.
You're confirming my realization that I need to honor my personality not try to work against it because of society or thinking there is no choice but to modify myself. Particularly the part about bringing on others to take the tasks that, because I hate them (even when I am competent at them) slow me down and sap my vitality. I am an ENTP on the border with ENFP, with a close to 50/50 T & F but I realize that my empathy and clear communication were things I chose to learn. I was born with a preference for economical directness that I thought of as respectful honesty but others saw as hurtful or rude. . I do like orderliness in my home, but when I'm involved in a project it's like a mini tornado hit until it's done (& I'd really prefer someone else clean it up so I can move on to the next, lol)
Totally get it.
That’s so true for me also, grateful for your openness
Spot on. Thought it would be some stereotypical “endless arguing” bs, which I never found to be true ( people are too dumb for me wasting my energy to change some random wacko’s way of thinking), but you listed the actual problems I find very hard to overcome.
Once you're actively thinking about Overcoming them you will create the necessary hacks to do so. You'll still slip but if you improve my 75% that would be a major self improvement
Arguing is accurate. I am an ENTP and do struggle with arguing. But this guy has SO MUCH good information.
People perceive me as the loveliest (no flex) but am actually the loneliest. I don't know if other fellow entps feel this, but i do get quite lonely at times.
Yeah at times. Flip between wanting to be social and in the world to then wanting to be alone, then feeling lonely. Not sure if it's an entp thing or a human thing.
I would rather be alone than be lonely.
I feel lonely every day
It feels the same here
ENTP here, thank you for making this video! We need more of these
Thanks for watching!
So true. I always shift from being a product manager, game developer, pilot, rescue diver. It’s like you want to do it all but I can only do each one at a time. I’m really struggling with this as I enjoy all of them.
Thanks for sharing! As an ENTP, it's completely natural to have a wide range of interests and to want to explore them all. The challenge is often finding balance and prioritizing what to focus on.
@@Karl__Pierre I life long learning lesson :)
feels like I'm talking to myself reading this comment section and I love it.
Haha
Gold video, you make us entps proud 😭 I have virtual tears now
Haha you're welcome
To give my advice, I think two books helped me overcome my brutally honest problem and scatterbrained problem as an ENTP. first is “How to Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie(which helps me deal with social situations). Second is “12 rules for life” by Jordan Peterson.(it helps me track life and sort meanings)
Thansk for sharing
I've read both and agree. They are both good reads and both have helped me.
Imma read them. Thanks!
I'm a 35 yr old ENTP who just found out about personality tests through tinder. Naturally I thought I'm missing something fundamentally or just weird compared to those around me and spent a great deal of effort trying to be more organized and consistent. It's one thing to learn about personality traits, but hearing you speak almost brought tears to my eyes. Thank You
Once you are clear on those gaps start designing the mechanisms to help you with your gaps. Get yourself an INFJ INTJ ENTJ partner and they'll balance you out.
Wow. I had no idea I even needed to hear all this. This was like pivotal for me. Thanks so much for this and your work. You've got a subscriber out of me!
Thanks for being a subscriber!
My best friend is an INTJ and Im an ENTP and we work pretty well together! Most of the time, I just insert my ideas and she's amazing at connecting them together and organizing them. I also really like seeing other people's opinions on things, so I go do the networking job in our groupings and she handles organizing every idea I receive from myself and other people, its a blast to be teamed up with her. Sometimes, when I'm too interested in a topic she doesn't like, it can slightly be like talking to a wall, but I'm sure she has her own problems with me when I get too disorganized, but I wouldn't have it any other way. She tolerates my nonsense, I tolerate her nonsense. Its an equally fun and informative friendship!
Haha yup it is a good paring. Two intuitive thinkers will enjoy the thought wrestling.
That's very true, me too😭
I married the INFJ in my life. We make the perfect team. No one "gets me" like he does.
I'm an ENTP happily married to an INTJ for 19 years.❤
You have it figured out! I hope to get there soon. I'm currently super bored, and sad but being an entp I guess its just coz I have nothing new going on!
Most likely nothing new. Buy try to find something that feels new, keeps you interested and actually is consistent
I'm a 23 year old maybe ENTP (maybe because some people tell me i am an ENTP and others that i'm an ENTJ/ESTJ) guy dating an ESFJ girl and it's actually a very nice bond we have. I'm weirdly fairly more organized than her, and lowkey our disagreements (which are mainly because of how differently we see social norms) tend to be very stimulating and we both learn things about each other and learn how to Better ourselves
Cool entp and esfj can get along great my ex-wife is an esfj. She was a very loyal friend and good partner while it lasted.
Ohhhhh all three I said "ouch". That list is perfection
Hard life as an entp lol
I didn't take my assessment until 3 months ago and it has helped me to understand myself soooo much more. YOU are spot on.
Awesome glad it was helpful
you have not never will be, have not been, will not be and are not, will never be, can not will not be, have not will not be have never been, entp
Your videos make me feel better. Knowing that i have twins out there. That im not alone. Now that i understand this better. I can work on it.
Thanks for watching!
WOW 😳. Description of me so damn much. I stay away from others because of this. Maybe this will help me reconnect and make new connections.
Why do you stay away from others?
@@Karl__Pierre Former Afghanistan Veteran. Integrity in society is far and few, especially when shit hits the fan.
@@mr.miller3396 well yes I understand.
My goodness this was too accurate, every single point I was nodding like a maniac.
Hahaha this is our life.
Dating you was not difficult at all ❤️
Haha I know ...but now that you're married to me what's your thoughts
I think you have to be constantly engaged with things that you are interested in, I also think you need someone who likes to listen to you a lot and is open enough to be interested in all the subjects you have to talk about, you absolutely need an open mind person since you go back and forth all the time they should be able to understand and also you like that person to know you well because sometimes you get loss in your own ideas and that person should be able to bring you to reality. You are a very supportive partner. Being with you is not difficult as long as your partner is clear in who you are and loves you exactly like that.
This is exactly how I want my partner to be as an entp myself lol
This exchange is great! I resonate with desiring this understanding.
@@estefaniav49May I ask what personality type you are?
This video right here, 🙌🏽everything. Around the 13:19 minute mark I was thinking about how certain types of interactions were a complete waste of time. 🤣🤣and then he said it right after my thoughts, and I was like damn.
Hahaha that's how it is. Life of an entp
Rehearsing... 1.Focus 2. Brutal Honesty 3. Rebellious
ENTP Abstract Thinking ability lends itself to all 3 issues, me thinks. 🤔
It's kinda crazy making really. 😆
Lol
I´m an ENTP. One thing that i would like to change, is the fact that i can only like a video ONCE. I want to like this video TWICE. Change that RUclips. Cheers from Brazil. :)
Obrigado
Exactly on target. So good. A tip on criticism... Because we have strong fe, leaning into an understanding of other people's feelings is something we can learn! We can actually be one very good at it. I think due to socialization, female entps may have a leg up here. I was trained to soften my abrasiveness from the time I was very young.
I've learned a little over time.
Thanks for giving us your point of view of ENTP lifestyle
You're welcome...sorry for the randomness
.... Wow, thank you Karl! This video is the top one and it spoke to me. I finally found answers to my questions. Keep going and shine the light upon us!
Glad it was helpful!
as an ENTP who can charm anyone, why do I screw it up with lovers I really want? Also, why is every ENTP dating advise is for the other person, 'keep them engaged', 'be spontaneous', 'be open to new ideas', etc. What are we as a personality doing wrong???
If i had to guess, you're a younger entp male. Probably attracted to girls who don't value your skillset and personality yet. Younger women want older men that can provide and make them feel special... Also as a younger entp i was very attracted to extraverted women that were organized and oderly. Those types tend to have a hard time understanding our ways. Find yourself a nice INFP or INFJ they'll appreciate the current guy you are but may not present like the type that always gets your attention.
In my country, in my family, i was raised how to be polite so brutally honest, just American ig... but yes lack of focus is sth i need to change, and being rebellious
Yeah it's tough...have to use it to your advantage
Please add a time signature so i can see which part talks about lack of Focus... I'm loosing focus in the video
Lol
A video on how to and where to live as an ENTP would be great
Live free and wherever you find interesting.
Speaking as a senior, I finally stopped worrying about it lol. I realized I was never going to find THE place, or city, or piece of land that would satisfy me permanently. I think 8 years is the longest I've lived in any one house. I find a place, move in, fix it up, enjoy it, and then I'm ready to move on to create something else, somewhere else, a different lifestyle perhaps. Big city, small town, country acreage - I've tried it all.
I'm 80 now and the realization that this is most likely the last place I will own is admittedly a little disconcerting, but such is life. As long as I have projects I can keep doing here, I expect I'll be ok.
spot on brother. every point on point. appreciate it.
Glad to help
Amazing video. Well written, shot, and presented. I have a question. Im assuming writing this script was easy for you (in fact you probably could have freestyled this and been just as good) But how were you able set up the camera, get the footage, EDIT it, and render it, and then come up with new ideas for your next video without giving up because it was just too much work to do that every time?
Haha yes... I write only the portions when I'm facing the camera frontal. The side shots when I am facing the other direction is off the Top of my head.
I write scripts when I'm on flights because i have nothing else to do.
Then I film with a videographer 6-8 videos in one day which carries me for 2 months.
My editor handles the most grueling part which is the editing.
Social media manager handles the uploads
I get my ideas from the comment section, and from everyday questions. Sometimes spontaneously.
You just gave me a good idea for a video hahaha ...my setup and my start and transition to being more professional. 2 videos actually!
@@Karl__PierreYes please; maybe talk about video editing software, microphone and lighting, too? You rock!❤
i'm intj ~ i love the entp's
Sweet!
I'm so glad; my husband is INTJ, too!
Top notch content about ENTPs
wow thanks appreciate that.
Super cool quality podcast, hat off!
Thank you
I was watching your video at the part where you talk about losing focus.I missed 2 mins and had to go back cause I thought of an idea for a new project. And now I've lost focus on this video and I'm clicking off, to do something that isnt even that new idea.
O.. M.. G...
Lololol get yourself together
Its me, exactly me. I quess im really a stereotypical ENTP.
Yup
Great Video as Always. I definitely found myself saying YES!! So True, many times.
Thanks for the feedback. I think most entps will relate
I can stand the end of your videos without skipping, thanks.
That's good to know sometimes I personally can't haha
Enfp here, resonate with all you say
Married to and have dated enfps so I know this does haha
I also wonder as ENTP, have you struggled with specializing in ur past, I tried so many different things and now I am more driven than before but still I am scatterbrained, I remembered 3 years ago, I asked advice from you about my job choice and I said I am doing accounting because my parents told me to do so, and you find it ridiculed, 😂and you were so right I dropped out from accounting because I am too creative an accountant and now I think I am better suited from entrepreneurship, which is a general broad major and suited me better 😂 I also watched your growth since 3 years ago, thank you very much for the help and hope you keep moving forward ❤ I am still in college right now while most of my friends have graduated because I spent these years looking for inspirations.
Hey how are you. I remember that conversation. Are you still in school? I think some of your accounting background will help you on the entrepreneurship path. What's important is that you operate within your interest range. I hope you didn't drop out of school altogether. If not what are you studying now?
@@Karl__Pierre entrepreneurship and I think either supplant chain management or finance so far well I did transfer because I was so confused and lack of focus with my accounting degree so I didn’t do well in my first year and I got depressed in the first year lol 😂 I don’t feel behind tho, if it’s other people they would feel behind, I think I gain lots of wide experience these years so I don’t regret that much
@@Karl__Pierre thanks tho 😂 haha, yea I think the accounting backgrounds make me more organized sometimes but I realize I organize from times to times and periodically I will loosen my organization habits and then I will re pick it up lol 😂
All of this is really true as an entp
Of course it's true lol
This is my channel!
Welcome
Anyone here ever be gaslighted by another? I thought my boss did it to me through our 4 eye discussions for around 6 month - 1 year. Since I realized there was something wrong with my mind after discussions with him, I avoided to argue with him anymore. After months avoiding him, I got my sense back for his non sense actions that he always has argument about that.
Actually I still wonder what is a better way to face that kind of people.
With facts. You can't have subjective discussions with that type. Additionally you might just need to switch environments because it maybe pointless for you to continue there.
As an entp i suck at explaining things but. I feel like if i started changing i will be a nice arguer.
Lol
@@Karl__Pierre lol
I think the key is understanding your audience personality profile and then speaking to their interests, emotions and feelings.
this is so accurate 🥲
Hahaha made by an entp for those who might know one
I struggle with being messy ! In my home and car. How do you guys handle it?
This was GREAT.
Consciously taking care of it and hiring help.
Holding a mirror up to myself here! 😂🤣
Haha
You are fantastic. A mirror I appreciate. Sage advice. 21 minutes though? C'mon!
I'm sure you've wasted more time on dumber things hahaha thanks for the feedback
Do you have any methods or direction for entp that struggle with planning things thoroughly?
Yes book a call with me and we can talk through the issues or see a psychologist.
I loved working with project managers who were comfortable directing others and keeping us all on track using MS Project or some other planning tool. I was never good at keeping up the project plan. I'm a retired ENTP engineer.
I’m an ENTP about to marry an ESFJ, she’s the most loyal nurturing type.. but ur right about losing a certain engagement.. whether social, intellectual.. i find she is most sophisticated emotionally, and her specialized in home and family life which is very foreign to me. With cleaning, she likes to do it on her own daily and doesn’t want me to get in the way (because I’m not good enough).. even if I try, she’ll just redo it anyway after w no fuss. Only when I pick on her does she bring up how much she does. I’m curious how it’s like with an NF?
Hey hey you're about to get married don't start thinking about Nf's lol. I think the entp ESFJ pairing can be a good one. My ex wife as mentioned is an esfj we paired nicely for work and the exchanges involved in marriage but there was something just missing.
The NFs from my own experience enfjs enfps infjs are good for theoretical conversations, alternate perspectives, and physical chemistry. An ENFP will pack up, drop everything, and run away with you without thinking through the consequences....their the type to steal you from your wife hahaha. An enfj would too while staying organized. I think ENFJs are also great entertainers and people masters. They can work a room with you or for you. Host a party mingle and then report who is the snake in your circle. They will certainly have irrational arguments based on how they "feel" and are super stubborn. If you can navigate that they are awesome partners.
Great perspective on the love life.
Thanks for watching! Are you an ENTP?
@@Karl__Pierre Yes, a creative ENTP.
@@deveauxx5 awesome!
Karl. You have helped me so much. Thank you
Glad to hear it!
for a long time I was confused by interactions I would have discussing problems with people at work. So many times the conversation would end with them being angry/offended and I was confused cause the whole time I thought we were just talking about the problem but they thought I was attacking them or being condescending. I also have a really hard time not showing it on my face if I don't see the logic in what others are saying.
Entp problems lol.
Yea I spend years overcoming being brutally honest 😂
Congratulations
It's funny because I had to rewind the video like five times and I'm just at minute 7! Lol
Lack of focus.
Thanks for your advices, I'll take them because I'm now on our INTJ shadow mode and I don't like it at all.
I'm still at minute 7 but I had to write this down 🤷🏻♂️
haha its ok. Nothing wrong with being there some good soul searching can be done there. I slip into it all the time almost like the contrast my mind needs.
I really hate it when I realize someone is working up to criticizing me and they talk around it, instead of being direct. I have a really hard time figuring out how to not be direct with people, so I don’t offend their feelings.
I you to ask them how do they prefer feedback raw and hard or soft served coated with sprinkles. That eliminates having to think
Today we gonna steal the Moon!
Need a long rope!
And be a quick climber. You DO know about the nazis, right ?
But ND filter to your camera to remove the highlighting
Have, however the sun beams from behind. What we have done is bought some lighting to counter it.
Damn, Im an INfJ, by foundation. But your main pointed ENTP challenges I relate to more. Like Im an ENTP trapped in an INFJ. But im both
Other side of the coin
@@Karl__Pierre Interesting, would u say they are the ultimate 'Gemini' polarities of each other?
@@Karl__Pierre Other than ENTP vs ISFJ
@@homernd5369 I'm not saying that. I wouldn't call them polor opposites. They have many similarities with ENTPS as far as big picture sentiment goes.
@@Karl__Pierre I hear that cuz
This video makes us sound slightly unhinged 😂
My wife would agree.
Just slightly
Wow! So true about me so I wonder as for me what personality type is most suitable my mom is the complete opposite of me (ISTJ) and we butt heads lol 😅
It's interesting how different personality types can lead to some clashes, especially when you're complete opposites. Sometimes, opposites can complement each other well, but it definitely takes some patience and compromise.
Wow. I’m an ENTP 😂. I’ve done multiple Mayer Briggs and I’ve clearly missed the point. My business partner, is the opposite of me, structured, organized, execution oriented. We work well because we complement one another very well.
Thanks for sharing!
Straightening picture frames, yes. Willing to take on random activities 🙌😂
Yup
Entp and RE investor. Glad to see Its normal for me to hate managing rentals and rather do a project haha. Which markets are you in?
NY, NJ, FL, Brazil, Italy, Colombia
Hi Karl. First Time i found you ... but you Nailed it .... thats how i am :D did you find or Try to work with other ENTP´s and whats you experiance ? Regards Timo
@timoshankar2582 other entps are good for think tanks and strategic partnerships but a room of us working together could lead to an 8 hour meeting where we start with a corporate problem then walk away with an ayauhuasca trip planned
@@Karl__Pierre 🤣 yea that could happen ^^ a stategic partnership could be a good aoption with diffent responsibilities...
Glad I found your channel
I’m an ENTP, and have adhd… yeah focusing doesn’t exist unless it’s languages. Many ENTPs I believe do want to be a good person and have a good heart. Are honest mostly. I’m an ENTP-T (TURBULENT ENTP) I have a high feeling percentage… 40 something percent. But I have thinking as my dominant. I get REALLY MAD 😂 WHY DIDN’T YOU GIVE 3 PIZZA SLICES 😂 I’ve been working on my issues and am doing better.
Cool thanks for sharing
Hahah same here entp female my test was always assertive but lately as I have some relationship issues i dont know if its related but my test shows entp turbulent
Hey Karl,
What test did you take determined if you are an ENTP?
16 personalities
@@Karl__Pierre thank you.
Respect
Thanks
why no subtitle , so hard for me a bad english speaking ENTP
I think you can turn on right from RUclips if you click. CC button
When I was a beginner Coach I told my athletes they were amazing because they sucked (at the form). I like straight foward but it might not be the best for everyone.
Gotta tell them they suck and how to fix it
so does that mean I should not start my own business until I have found a partner who can take responsibility for the things I have difficulties with? that has been on my mind.... I keep going back and forth between figuring out how to be everything myself so I don't have to rely on anybody and accepting that we all need other people to thrive.
That's one option or start a business that you know you can get to cashflow positive quickly and be able to afford to hire help before you get distracted
@@Karl__Pierre thanks for the quick reply ❤️
@@Monikainlove thanks for watching
I mean... I'm go with "I'm a weirdo". The online psychobabble test said ENTP-A, and a lot of what I hear about that seems to resonate with me, but I also see a lot of contradictory content and stuff that simply doesn't apply, so I'm calling it a tentative typing until I can be f-cked to do this properly with a professional, or ultimately decide it's all a load of bollocks that's not worth my time. Jury's still out on that last one ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Here's to exploring!
Thanks for watching
lol I feel attacked.
Don't
Fuck yes!
Thanks for watching!
I don't know, I think I only being too honest (don't filtering my words) only when I don't like the people I talked to
But if you like them you adjust?
Yep, adjust the way I deliver my thoughts so it won't upset them
Hey. Just came across your channel. I am 18 years old about to leave for college and I am interested in starting a nursing agency. I have seen that you are very open to communication and I would love to get into contact with you.
That's awesome. You can schedule a consultation appointment going to my website or clicking the link in the description
🎉 ❤😂
Thanks
I want to watch it but it seems so long
Lol that's what she said
@@Karl__Pierre lmao
Well I'm watching it now anyway. It's funny how similar your mannerisms are to me when you explain things. The way you speak, move your hands, the little pauses, eye movements, sudden new thoughts while talking and quickly sliding them in etc..
It's eerie but cool at the same time
My boyfriend said to me, "You are the female version of Karl". Lol
I feel sorry for your boyfriend hahaha
As an ENTP myself (Granted I am seemingly far more strict than yourself) noticed a pattern between what you are saying and a similarity in SPED Children. Basically you stated what you are and how you think, which is good, but it moves into a justification after on why you may be fleeting, irresponsible, inattentive, and why the majority needs to work around you.
Again, I am an ENTP myself but I would put me in a realm above yourself as you seem to be in the 1980's still while I am in 2023. Have you noticed that everything you talked about is something the 80's strove for that no longer exists?
Basically a flip flopper looking for that one job that gives him that lifetime original programming happy ending that also doesnt exist. Have you evaluated THAT about yourself and why you are doing what you are doing?
Knowing an ENTP *wink* you saw or will see that there is a comment to this and got curious before finishing the above. Hi!
Another fair question as you havent noticed it about yourself. Are you aware that like the LGBTQUIA have you moved out of being a person and now see and project yourself as a personality type with no real identity at all?
Actually helping you for a first time ever can say, you're welcome. Thats what your problem is.
Projection much? Putting yourself in a "higher category" is judgemental, arrogant and competitive; something narcissists are known for. Don't confuse personality type (ENTP) with personality disorders.
Yes because your socialist/communist mentality has gone very well for everyone in all of history. Are you searching for the pat on the back for salvation to kill your routine boredom or are your trying to argue with your denial of the world you despise you just never can find your little niche in? Tired of the stares you eventually run into everywhere you go that they know you are cliche? @@barbarabuttler7647
When you close your mouth madam after pulling your head out of your ass did however enjoy striking a nerve with you. Anger is a secondary emotional reaction to sorrow or depression. Probably extends from your over played "Narcissist" again cliche. Comes from that hollow void of a life in there cause even you're tired and bored of always hearing others yell that and we all like to be special don't we?
Intj versus ENTP shadow type...who am I really..?!¿...😂🤔😏🤭🤪
Lol
brother this video is too long. i was interested but ima pass
Thanks for your feedback
Struggles ?
...yes
@@Karl__Pierre I've mastered everything around me. There are no struggles for this goon