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I wear my mask to survive. Not to 'bridge' to someone I think I should be. I have no opinion on who I should be. I just want to be treated like a normal human being. And as an autistic person, whenever I take off my mask, people get angry at me because they tell me I act rude or mean and when I say 'no I'm not' they say I am lying and it gets even worse. When it does not happen to my face people start gossiping that I am a 'negative' and manipulative person. So I mask. Else I just get excluded and misread everywhere :( I don't really get most of your video ^^' But maybe NT masks are different!?
@@deep-psychology824 "People will constantly tell you to be yourself but when you do, they will still say "not like that!" If the world truly wanted you to be real, they wouldn't make their disapproval of you so clear once you are. The truth is that people only want you to be real to the extent that they are comfortable with and in a way that they can approve of." (YT sclera 74)
@@deep-psychology824 Yeah, but I am thinking about this a lot. Problem could start if our true personality is traumatized and conditioned to worry and see only negative. If we talk about that - we will be toxic and draining to others. The correct thing would be to recognize that we are chronic complainers and work the trauma and heal it. I think in this case it is okay to mask our dark shadow and our inner critic from being verbalized and externalized onto others- by complaining to others, criticizing them, find danger, talk only about crime events from the week and news, and potential dangers etc
This was a fantastic & insightful talk, thank you!
You're welcome Kristina 👍
Interesting topic and well explained. Thanks!
You're welcome
good explanation
Very good video
thanks brittany
Good Talk
Thanks!!
Hey Deep Psychology, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?
I wear my mask to survive. Not to 'bridge' to someone I think I should be. I have no opinion on who I should be. I just want to be treated like a normal human being. And as an autistic person, whenever I take off my mask, people get angry at me because they tell me I act rude or mean and when I say 'no I'm not' they say I am lying and it gets even worse. When it does not happen to my face people start gossiping that I am a 'negative' and manipulative person. So I mask. Else I just get excluded and misread everywhere :( I don't really get most of your video ^^' But maybe NT masks are different!?
It seems you're very aware of your own masks, and you might like to use this to your advantage. I can imagine you'd be very good at reading NT masks.
@@deep-psychology824 "People will constantly tell you to be yourself but when you do, they will still say "not like that!" If the world truly wanted you to be real, they wouldn't make their disapproval of you so clear once you are. The truth is that people only want you to be real to the extent that they are comfortable with and in a way that they can approve of."
(YT sclera 74)
@@ranc1977 totally. And it's no wonder we create inauthentic personalities to fit in.
@@deep-psychology824 Yeah, but I am thinking about this a lot.
Problem could start if our true personality is traumatized and conditioned to worry and see only negative. If we talk about that - we will be toxic and draining to others. The correct thing would be to recognize that we are chronic complainers and work the trauma and heal it. I think in this case it is okay to mask our dark shadow and our inner critic from being verbalized and externalized onto others- by complaining to others, criticizing them, find danger, talk only about crime events from the week and news, and potential dangers etc