THANK YOU!!! I recive alot/the most attention with attention with my real hair (men of all ethnicities). I've started to gain attention from guys I didn't even think I could get tbh. Seeing wigs as better screams insecurity. Emrabce the hair.
@Parris Robinson I have a ‘go-to’ wig that made me receive alot of attention... at one point in time, I genuinely thought that with that wig, I’d reached the pinnacle/received the most attention I could ever receive...that was up until summer last year, I took my hair out from mini plaits (which revealed my tight curls/coils in a stretched state) and it was the first time in my life EVERY single MAN I walked past looked/stared at me. Whistles from builders ect... (Women would look too) I was shocked. I’ve always cared about my hair health and growth for myself, but i’d be lying if I didn’t say the large amount of external validation I had received last summer didn’t give me an additional boost. Even from East Asians (particularly when I put my hair in bunches) 😅 I was surprised as I genuinely didn’t think I was their cuppa ☕️😅
The part you said about how you don’t register the negative others might say because your relationship with yourself is so good, you phrased that perfectly! That’s exactly how it be.
You really make me want to step out of my comfort zone and do more for myself. Thank you so much for using your channel to help boost the mental, emotional and physical confidence of young African women who watch you. I am so grateful 🙏. I pray the Lord continue to bless your journey. Much love from Ghana ❤️❤️❤️
I started slaying wigs 4rm RUclips, I also started wearing make up 3 years ago and now I'm dat bi**h. Even my fashion sense and body positivity. RUclips has low-key helped alot. This goes without saying Lucy Benson is a huge part of this journey.
1. Hair and Nails (find someone to do it$ 2. Send guys pictures 3. The right perfume 4. Prioritize your mental health 4.5 be healthy and happy. 5. Write positive affirmations and add it to your Home Screen. 6. Add reminder bells with alarms to positive affirmations.
as innnnnn!!!!! the billionaire wife scenario. Massimo's wife-type vibes is how perfume makes me feel. I'm such a fragrance babe, I love how you instantly light up when you talk about fragrances. Another tip I'd like to share is having a clean space...It instantly uplifts my spirit and going to watch a sunset at the canal walk, so peaceful. Thanks for this Lucy! RUclips big sister
I sooo love the part when you emphasized on having a good and healthy relationship with your own self! Also super love the energy you radiate, can't wait to see more from you ❤️
Hey Lucy!! Wanted to say that I took myself out on a date for my birthday at a fancy italian restaurant after watching this and felt so amazing, thank you for the recommendation i'll be doing solo dates more often
I watched from beginning to end! Absolutely in love with your energy and spirit ❤️ For anyone who wants it: 1. Start with your Physical Appearance (hair, nails, makeup)-Make grooming a priority! 2. Take cute pictures and show off to everyone! 3. Invest in a good perfume (uplifts mood + creates a new narrative) 4. Take yourself out! (Boots confidence and creates new opportunity to be approached) 5. It’s all in your head babe! Mental health is important. (Prioritize your emotions and say positive affirmations)
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH SIS💖 I hope you’re the happiest you’ve ever been right now and that tomorrow you’ll be even happier! I’m in loveeee with your energy😍❤️ wow
I honestly needed this video 😩........it’s so hard to put In effort with pandemic but you have a point.....definitely going to make my hair tomorrow PERIOD 😌
Lucy babie trust me you have really change my life , ever since l started watching your video my life has changed , and people are telling me that now l look beautiful and expersive 😋,thank so much babie girl 😍😍 much love from MALAWI
❤❤I can relate to that 100🔥 I never give attention to applying makeup on my face and now that I'm learning through RUclips channel I'm doing good even though I'm not 💯 perfect people are coming through loving My make up❤ I'm giving myself a kiss for that and so far I get to relax and roll My hair By myself now I'm busy learning how to do My own braids what I have learn so far is be yourself and By learning something New every day it makes a huge good outcome so My beautiful ladies let's us learn something positive From one another ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Ok, am loving ur videos so far babe, and am loving the feeling am getting, I've been awaken and also reminded of things I know before. I just subscribed now, and am looking forward to watching movies great videes. Thank you
Alot of this is VERY appearance focused and I don't think that this is healthy. Yes this can help however our confidence should not be based on our appearance because we will always fluctuate. It also can be based on likes and how good others way we look when we post photos, its immature and it will lead to deeper emotional issues because what if we don't receive the amounts of likes we were expecting? I think focusing on other aspects of ourselves that we like for e.g i was kind today, I was generous, im very smart (along with appearance) is better as these will continue even if you age or God forbid get into an accident or get sick. Developing more kindness, more generosity and also showing self compassion to ourselves is very important.
Hey Lucy! I love your videos. I just got admission into Budapest Metropolitan university and I just wish to know what your tips would be for someone who is coming new to Hungary and maybe what to remember to pack. I hope you would make a video about this. Thanks
I’ve been feeling down lately about myself & life… like what’s next for me to accomplish & I feel lost. & I haven’t been feeling attractive. Guys aren’t trying to get at me. I wear the same look, a swoop ponytail, & leggings. I don’t really like how my makeup comes out, cause it look plain & oily, & I’m not an expert. Like is something wrong w| me?
New subscriber..I love make up and wigs and always watch make up tutorial and how to lay wigs videos but sadly I cant afford neither currently..Great video btw😘😘
I laughed so hard and loud when you said "send a picture to that guy that wants to ask you out, and say oh sorry its a mistake" 😂😂😂 I sneeze alot with perfumes, and my skin gets itchy with certain perfumes due to sensitivity, so I'll suggest body oils too, those are also good😋💕🥰.... Thanks for all the tips tho, I enjoyed it all sis😁
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just a reminder that you do not need wigs to look "done". natural hair looks good too if you take care of it
👏👏👏
THANK YOU!!!
I recive alot/the most attention with attention with my real hair (men of all ethnicities). I've started to gain attention from guys I didn't even think I could get tbh.
Seeing wigs as better screams insecurity. Emrabce the hair.
@@FaithsStardust Facts
I was about to post this exact message. 👏👏👏
@Parris Robinson I have a ‘go-to’ wig that made me receive alot of attention... at one point in time, I genuinely thought that with that wig, I’d reached the pinnacle/received the most attention I could ever receive...that was up until summer last year, I took my hair out from mini plaits (which revealed my tight curls/coils in a stretched state) and it was the first time in my life EVERY single MAN I walked past looked/stared at me. Whistles from builders ect...
(Women would look too)
I was shocked.
I’ve always cared about my hair health and growth for myself, but i’d be lying if I didn’t say the large amount of external validation I had received last summer didn’t give me an additional boost.
Even from East Asians (particularly when I put my hair in bunches) 😅 I was surprised as I genuinely didn’t think I was their cuppa ☕️😅
The part you said about how you don’t register the negative others might say because your relationship with yourself is so good, you phrased that perfectly! That’s exactly how it be.
"Nothing is too expensive for your mental health!" ... The quote I never thought I needed. Thanks Sis! You're stunning and encouraging!😘😘😘
You really make me want to step out of my comfort zone and do more for myself. Thank you so much for using your channel to help boost the mental, emotional and physical confidence of young African women who watch you. I am so grateful 🙏. I pray the Lord continue to bless your journey. Much love from Ghana ❤️❤️❤️
Omg Amen! This made my day ❤️
@@MyLucyBenson I'm glad it did, you deserve so much more❤️❤️😍
I started slaying wigs 4rm RUclips, I also started wearing make up 3 years ago and now I'm dat bi**h. Even my fashion sense and body positivity. RUclips has low-key helped alot.
This goes without saying Lucy Benson is a huge part of this journey.
I’m so happy to read this babe 🥺 I’m glad I am a hug part of your transformation ❤️
So you need a wig to be “dat bit*h?
@@veronikaivanov7698 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amazing tips your relationship with yourself is so important
Thank you sis
1. Hair and Nails (find someone to do it$
2. Send guys pictures
3. The right perfume
4. Prioritize your mental health
4.5 be healthy and happy.
5. Write positive affirmations and add it to your Home Screen.
6. Add reminder bells with alarms to positive affirmations.
Thank you for this
Waiittt? Send guys pictures?? How that gonna help with confidence
@@ashd5326 i was about saying the same thing. weird!
@@ashd5326 I think the idea was to help increase confidence by hearing a complement but I think that tip maybe counterproductive
@@ashd5326 send to your boo or family and friends. That’s what she said
as innnnnn!!!!! the billionaire wife scenario. Massimo's wife-type vibes is how perfume makes me feel. I'm such a fragrance babe, I love how you instantly light up when you talk about fragrances. Another tip I'd like to share is having a clean space...It instantly uplifts my spirit and going to watch a sunset at the canal walk, so peaceful. Thanks for this Lucy! RUclips big sister
Yassss!! I jus told my subbies this same thing!! I totally agree
I sooo love the part when you emphasized on having a good and healthy relationship with your own self! Also super love the energy you radiate, can't wait to see more from you ❤️
Hey Lucy!! Wanted to say that I took myself out on a date for my birthday at a fancy italian restaurant after watching this and felt so amazing, thank you for the recommendation i'll be doing solo dates more often
This makes me so happy, I’m super proud of you girl❤️
I watched from beginning to end! Absolutely in love with your energy and spirit ❤️
For anyone who wants it:
1. Start with your Physical Appearance
(hair, nails, makeup)-Make grooming a priority!
2. Take cute pictures and show off to everyone!
3. Invest in a good perfume (uplifts mood + creates a new narrative)
4. Take yourself out! (Boots confidence and creates new opportunity to be approached)
5. It’s all in your head babe! Mental health is important. (Prioritize your emotions and say positive affirmations)
Literally needed to watch of few of her videos made feel better and ready to be back to myself again and have a reason to do it ❤️
"I play scenarios of myself in my head". This is me!!!
About to take these tips seriously
About perfumes I agree with you when I wear a nice perfume with good scent just smelling it on my body makes me feel good 😌 and happy
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH SIS💖 I hope you’re the happiest you’ve ever been right now and that tomorrow you’ll be even happier! I’m in loveeee with your energy😍❤️ wow
Thank you so much ❤️
I honestly needed this video 😩........it’s so hard to put In effort with pandemic but you have a point.....definitely going to make my hair tomorrow PERIOD 😌
Go get it babe, you can do it, I’m glad I am able to help❤️
Lucy babie trust me you have really change my life , ever since l started watching your video my life has changed , and people are telling me that now l look beautiful and expersive 😋,thank so much babie girl 😍😍 much love from MALAWI
Your confidence and your beauty is just everything 😍😍
❤❤I can relate to that 100🔥 I never give attention to applying makeup on my face and now that I'm learning through RUclips channel I'm doing good even though I'm not 💯 perfect people are coming through loving My make up❤ I'm giving myself a kiss for that and so far I get to relax and roll My hair By myself now I'm busy learning how to do My own braids what I have learn so far is be yourself and By learning something New every day it makes a huge good outcome so My beautiful ladies let's us learn something positive From one another ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thanks alot Lucky your motivation will bring a good outcome to anyone that's facing any obstacle in Life May God keep you and protect you 🙌🦋🤝
I do like going out alone...whether its shopping, movies, traveling etc Sometimes, I just don't want the companionship.
Changing my phone screen now 🥺 we spend so much time on it I understand the importance
You literally boost my self confidence❤
I’m happy for this ❤️
You popped up. I clicked and now I'm locked in.🤣🤣 Mission accomplished 💫 Thank you for both the information and the entertainment ❤️
Dear Lucy your sincerity is second to non...Love you so much sis.
Please make a video on your makeup tutorial, I love how simple and classic ur makeup is
You makeup is so pretty😍😍 it would've been great if you used pictures of yourself as your thumbnail however
yessss 🙌🏽 I hope she can update it bc she IS exactly all those things she’s describing
as a new and teen mom, needed this
this really helped me especially the last part about mental health, it really made me tear up
I’m glad I was able to help and I will continue to do my best ❤️
Your energy !!!
you’re beautiful as well
OMG why didn't I subscribe to you sooner. You hit sooo many points it's unbelievable 😩! Thank you so much for this 💖
Ok, am loving ur videos so far babe, and am loving the feeling am getting, I've been awaken and also reminded of things I know before. I just subscribed now, and am looking forward to watching movies great videes. Thank you
Ily soo much Lucy ❤❤thank you so much you're such a sweetheart 🥺🥰 I will always support you and your channel may god bless you🙏🏻😊
Its the scenarios for me 😂😂.Love you girl🇬🇾❤️
Omg, I need to learn how to do my own hair so bad!
You got this girl !! 💗💗
Just started watching ur videos u r really good💝💝😀😀
You’re just like me with the scenario playing !!😭
I loveeee your energyyy🥺🥺. Soo motivating. Thank you❤❤
Did she just say Bill Gates new wife?🤔Yeeeey Sis 👏🤣🤣🤣🤣I laughed 🤣 love ur videos and u beautiful 💞
First time watching your videos and I fell in love with you when you laughed❤️
Hey Lucy, I just came across your channel and I am having a good time on your channel. 🥰🤗
Your energy and personality is so cute freaky cute...thanks this video helped me a lot
Always inspiring. I needed to hear the 5th point. Thanks babe❤
I’m glad you liked it girl❤️
It's the honesty for me❤
Thank you love ❤️
I use screensavers (lock/home screen) with positive affirmations or whatever it is I am speaking to myself about at the time.
Really good trick! 🤍
E for Energy girllll 👏👏
I love your vibe♥️♥️
Lucy based on ur advice today, I want to invest on selling perfumes and body scrubs can u advise me about that?
Great tips to boost self-confidence.👍🏽👍🏽
I love your channel so much. Please about perfume, can you recommend any nice one 🙏
Lavya, Lucy!
Alot of this is VERY appearance focused and I don't think that this is healthy. Yes this can help however our confidence should not be based on our appearance because we will always fluctuate. It also can be based on likes and how good others way we look when we post photos, its immature and it will lead to deeper emotional issues because what if we don't receive the amounts of likes we were expecting? I think focusing on other aspects of ourselves that we like for e.g i was kind today, I was generous, im very smart (along with appearance) is better as these will continue even if you age or God forbid get into an accident or get sick. Developing more kindness, more generosity and also showing self compassion to ourselves is very important.
First time watching you from Ghana 🇬🇭
Nice vid 👌🏾 idk if its the lighting or just the wrong shade of foundation 😳 i was so distracted by the fanta cola 😭.
What do you mean ? she looks gorgeous, i was distracted by her beauty and was admiring the make up throughout this video
Thank you so much love 🥺❤️
I have to go through some of your videos 🥰🥰 I really gain a lot 💯🥰
Hey Lucy! I love your videos. I just got admission into Budapest Metropolitan university and I just wish to know what your tips would be for someone who is coming new to Hungary and maybe what to remember to pack. I hope you would make a video about this. Thanks
Amazing tips I needed to hear thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@lucy Benson God believes you are beautiful ❤️ you are a masterpiece! I felt God lead me to tell you that! He heard your sorrows
Nice video with great contents. For me it's the reminder of having positive affirmations of myself.💞
i love your energy so much fun!!!
I love you Lucy bensonnnn😅 the mistake part!😅😅
I love this video!! Such good info!
I'm reading comments and I'm smiling ☺.
what lip gloss are you wearing
New subbie! Thank u for this video it was the morning motivation I needed to get up and be more active on my channel today 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Thanks for being there for us 💃💃💃💃💃💃🥰🥰
Its the the half man for me
you’re so beautiful 💕
Okrrrrrrr….I was waiting for this. God you are beautiful. Btw I sent an email to you please do watch it.
Thank you so much ❤️
you just got a new subscriber 😍love your videos
Thanks love ❤️
Okayyy 😻
Makes sense
Lucy can lux women wear dark burgundy hair?
Yes they can babe ❤️
Black opium, weekend berries and delina is the best
I love your videos!!! You gained a new subscriber.
Sis said send it to that one guy and say ohh it was a mistake😉
I love you already 😍😍
I’ve been feeling down lately about myself & life… like what’s next for me to accomplish & I feel lost. & I haven’t been feeling attractive. Guys aren’t trying to get at me. I wear the same look, a swoop ponytail, & leggings. I don’t really like how my makeup comes out, cause it look plain & oily, & I’m not an expert. Like is something wrong w| me?
girl i can relate that’s how i’ve been lately but about the makeup part use setting powder with ur foundation it won’t look as oilys
It's ok to feel that way sometimes. U won't always feel the energy, it's fine.
Who’s the third lady in your thumbnail? I like her style 😻
Lori Harvey
@@dabratt_marlee6279 Not Lori, but the one on the right side of the thumb nail?
Kenee Uchiha dang idk 😩
new subscribe, I love your videos so much!
Thank you ❤
Im shocked bc of the timing this i recommended to me
New subscriber..I love make up and wigs and always watch make up tutorial and how to lay wigs videos but sadly I cant afford neither currently..Great video btw😘😘
Heyyyy Lucy your contents are the bomb
Thank you love
I like your smile 😃
New subbie ❤️ & I already adore u… Where did you get your Watch 🧡😍
Pls Lucy talk on how yo have a conversation with a guy or how to make him have a conversation with you coz that’s my problem nw
😂😂😂Lucy are a true lady indeed💕❤
🥺🥺🥺 so beautiful ❤❤❤ gap teeth gang
A new subscriber 🥺🥺
Lucy you are funny “even if its half a man” I’m gonna do that and take myself out it’s about time!!!
Love this video
I like your vibe😂
Skip to 2:32
You are so pretty
Thank you for this ❤️
You are really a daydreamer.
Yes more of this please 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Coming right up ❤️
Truth....
Society anxiety won't let me go out alone
I guess you don't have to let anyone get you
This was a great video
Love the intro 😍😍
don’t have to give yourself to men to feel confident 😅 GOD can heal❤
I know that’s right
I laughed so hard and loud when you said "send a picture to that guy that wants to ask you out, and say oh sorry its a mistake" 😂😂😂
I sneeze alot with perfumes, and my skin gets itchy with certain perfumes due to sensitivity, so I'll suggest body oils too, those are also good😋💕🥰....
Thanks for all the tips tho, I enjoyed it all sis😁