DO MODERN WOMEN JUST WANT SIMPS??
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
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We take a look at modern day women in the dating pool and ask the question... do they really just want SIMP BOYS??
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My son is coming up on dating age, and I deeply fear for him. These walking red flags are everywhere, it seems.
Tell him to be gay. It's the safer option.
@@notmousse stop recruiting, sam the semen sniffer
His best weapon is enjoying solitude. Teach him the value of himself and these con artists wanting to scam free drinks, and the pro simp high maintenance girls can't move him. It's not about being a jerk, it's about disabling their techniques because he has options they can't begin to fathom.
@@ChristianHill-ep2ho A man may bend you over, but a woman will bend you over before the judge.
If he's 6ft+ and/or square jawed and/or six-packing he'll probably be fine. If not - yeah, he's probably in trouble. With these qualities (wealth also helps) these girls will make excuses for him, even if he says or does something objectively terrible, and vice versa - lack of these attractive qualities may get him in trouble even if he didn't do or say anything wrong. Good luck either way :)
“Modern feminism is for Women who want the rights of a man, the privileges of a woman and the accountability of a child.”
Feminism is basically masculine energy
@@AndyKirtland11No. Exactly the opposite. Masculine energy implies that you earn what you have and take responsibility for your actions
@@jth_printed_designsI’d say that masculine energy you just described is general maturity
@@TheOnlyPedroGameplays I agree, women are immature generally
Feminism is a movement created to give ugly women equal access to mainstream society.
"Become asshole through experience" happens because how they're treated. It's women like these that make the monsters they want to see men as.
If you meet one asshole, you've met an asshole
If you always meet assholes all day -- YOU are the asshole
Self forfilling prophecy. The wonderful circle of life. Or.. "You get what you fkng deserve!" 😂
Her scale for assholes may be skewed. She might think a guy not paying for her meal is asshole behavior.
Misogynists aren't born.
*They're made.*
Then there is the concept of body counts. All that matters is how many tits and crotches they have licked. The more the better.
Women complaining about the men they raised while being single moms and cutting out the fathers of these men. Irony...
And they wonder why we kill our selfs or fuck demons.
Facts 🧐😂
Yeah a Single woman told me once that the issue with men is that they aren't men anymore, i said: What did you expect when majority of Men are raised by Single-Moms that doesn't know how to be a Male rolemodel? She actually did the math correctly on that one 2+2=4.
Do you really think they’ll take accountability for their terrible decisions and actions.
It's not just women raising men, it's also that a lot of men live in an environment that is actively hostile against masculinity and can get you fired or worse
The problem with the "dating game" is that it's seen as a game. My last serious dating relationship can be summed up in her grand statement that "we'll get married, you will buy me a lakefront house, a boat, 2 jetskis (I can't swim so one wouldn't be mine) and a new car every 2 years...and if it doesn't work out, we'll just divorce and split everything 50/50". She's why I gave up dating in the late 90s.
Yeah. It's supposed to be love, nothing more. Not a cold transaction.
@@TheBcoolGuy no that is horifically wrong it is supposed to be a BINDING cold business contract till death do you part for the purposes of raising a family. Now it is just a bad business deal because of no fault divorce etc. But it was always a business contract about family they just turned it into a weapon. Love is a recent concept people didnt marry for love that is ridiculous.
I mean on average, obviously some people got to marry for love but they were the minority throughout history or they grew to love their partners but for the longest time it was about responsibility and family for most, not love.
@@ughno2836in a post-aristocratic and a (mostly) capitalistic world where you could at least in theory rise to the top through ward work and/or talent, why would any normal person want that, especially after artificial insemination and surrogacy and such come into play? Such a contract as you describe works in a place where classes are also both de facto and de jure binding or for some higher class failure really want to keep family wealth, but otherwise that’s a severely outdated concept model of what marriage is.
Pre nup!
Can't lose respect they never had in the first place.
Bingo😂
Exactly respect is earned not given
@@x_hibernia I mean, true, and these guys don't even have self respect, but I meant that these types of women wouldn't know how to be respectful if they wanted to. Can't lose respect or stop being respectful if they never were to begin with.
@@zombiemanjosh I see what you mean, well when their going on 40 year's old wondering why they can't hold a relationship with anyone and will most likely die alone they might realise it was them the whole time being a narcissistic gold digger, I've came across a few of them and most I'd do a air shoveling gravel into a wheel barrow and at any point they would ask what I'm doing to respond with I'm digging for gold, now a few would get it straight away and walk away but some wouldn't get it and I'd tell them forget about it, it seems some are dumber than others
Respect , hard won , easily lost and it doesn't come automatically.
Always order the lady a water. If she thinks you should buy her a drink just for talking to you, she's already way too drunk.
But I want tea!
Date: Let me go get the milk.
Ghost her after leaving
She got a mouth she can ask for water herself
@@MrFLstyleShe got a mouth, she can ask for a drink herself. 😅
In fact, DRINK ALL THE BOOZE! All the booze before she does.
I promise it'll only cost a kidney and a couple brain cells.
Man: would you sleep with me for a million dollars?
Woman: yes absolutely.
Man: would you sleep with me for a million pennies?
Woman: No what do you think I am?
Man: We already established that. Now we're haggling over price.
😂😂😂
Sadly it wouldn't surprise me that some women wouldn't sleep with a guy for $10,000, not because of their moral character, but because they view that as underselling themselves. Personally I'd just visit a professional who would charge $100 and call it a night.
@@odio3965. That's one of the reasons I think prostitution should be legalized in the United States. It can be made safe, and taxed. Thus removing the need for taxes elsewhere like say on food, and income.
@@buckysgirl4945 It is legal, it’s just called “marriage,” though the ROI is horrendous
@@jth_printed_designsWOAHHH
The fact that so many women are valuing weakness over strength is actually kind of terrifying, especially when you think about the wider implications to our society.
I don't believe that they actually do. That psycho of a woman that was saying that women love simps is just lying so she and her parasitic friends can continue to milk normal men dry on onlyfans while they continue to bang the same 3% of men.
Fortunately, it's not a mindset that works realistically. You can't pursue a career of any importance while also being a grovelling pushover who falls apart at any and every moment.
They'll change their minds quickly when they meet a real man and get off the pill.
They don't value it, they know they can take advantage of weak guys starved of affection or addicted to it. They know that if they score a weak dude they can cuck his money out, bang all the Tyrones they want and demand the poor emasculated dude to pay for everything and take responsibility for their decisions.
@@TheBcoolGuy They'll change their mind real quick when WW3 starts soon, or SHTF
Simping is just a long distance relationship with a stripper... Boys? Just so you know, they're only being nice to you so you'll give them money, cause it's their job.
And, in the very next breath, these women will wonder where all the 'good men' have stopped trying to pick them up. I've seen too many articles complaining about exactly that.
The "good men" can spot scammers like these a mile away and just don't waste their time with'em. These kinds of women don't get that a quality guy requires a woman to have more than good looks and an awful personality.
pretty much.... the "good men"? They realized the game at play and pretty much... stopped. Natural reaction to the environment.
I was always taught "Never pay for what you can get free." 😁
I've been married since 2006 and I really appreciate that my wife isn't dripping with narcissism, makes life so much easier.
@@user-bw6iq7dd8l Or you could go MGTOW.
@@user-bw6iq7dd8l he sure is, was married for 12 years to unlock the narc. And honestly starting to think about becoming a monk -_-
@@user-bw6iq7dd8l Careful, we gay guys can be pretty narcissistic too. Not me personally, I'm more than willing to admit that I'm a jackass, but I've seen a _bunch_ of uptight, prissy dudes in my time.
Pro-Tip: Go for the ones that try to come off as "straight". They're usually the most normal.
Is she dripping with anything else? 😎
@@user-bw6iq7dd8l Good women can be made from bad women, just pick from the better ones.
The age of social media, when everything gets taken to its illogical extreme.
In university, I lived in a townhouse with 6 other people, boys and girls. I forget why, but I went shopping with this one guy, Bobby, and the girl he wanted. Apparently, they were not bf/gf. But she made him buy her all this crap from IKEA, the whole time treating him like shit. I was so shocked. It was so apparent she had no intention of dating him. So I told him upfront: "dude, that woman is using you. She will never get with you." Unfortunately I'm female. So he thought I was coming on to him and got OBSESSED with me. It was so creepy. Simps are also creeps. I have no respect for them since they have none for themselves.
He incorrectly saw that as a form of intrasexual competition - ie, he thought you was sabotaging his crush because you wanted him. Some men can't read cues whether because of being neuroatypical or being socially inept. Unfortunately for them, that form of behaviour could soon become illegal, first in Scotland, then the UK and eventually in other western countries.
you jelly
to be fair i think thas a fetish at that point. Like there is really strange, disgusting and even retarded fetishes out there and being this dumb and easy to manipulate must be one of them.
You're correct in that simps have low self-esteem. But while their behavior may come across as "creepy" to you, it's really just a lack of understanding of how the attraction thing works. Simps and conceited women reinforce each other's behaviors.
It’s sad really. Not in the laughing way either, it’s just blokes either too stupid or too unaware to know better.
Hopefully he’s doing well, but damn. The Simp Mentality at work
I doubt they actually want simps. They just want them to pay for their lifestyle. I challenged the "Simp appreciation" by asking one of my friends "Then why don't you date one of your simp fans? One of them seem really opennto date you". Post deleted, and she dm'ed me telling me the WHOLE ASS TRUTH!
Yeah if they ever personally met one of these sniveling rodents in man suits in person, they'd be put out immediately. They know that this is a racket, and this is their Big Dirty.
@@viscountrainbows2857unless you yourself had a simp problem at one point, I don't get why anger is directed at them? It's far more pitiable than aggravating. You'll never convince your simp buddy to stop simping through demeaning them.
@@propheinx2250 the harsh reality the common simp won't acknowledge is that the girl they vouch for so much is usually always spoken for. They are waiting for the breakup so they can make their move, knowing damn well they will never be chosen. Having false hope can be a dangerous mindset
Yeah no doubt that’s the narcissistic ones who don’t know the meaning of compromising. Such women don’t deserve relationships.
Yes, they want to be famous, celebrities, with their legions of fans, like some sort of quasi-empress. They want their whims and fantasies realized and reinforced at every turn.
They really think they can manipulate a man by using relations. sometimes it may work but not for alphas 😂😂
@@jomesias Alpha is not a thing. every example you can name is just an arrogant prick that managed to make or be born good looking enough and maybe managed to get a decent income, while figuring out some tricks to nail chicks. they are not leaders of men and nine out of ten are failures as men because they have no family to carry their legacies, if they had legacies at all
It's a childish delusion that it's being reinforced by the subverted culture we're living in. The media, politics, "entertainment", all that. And the format of living life out of your phone.
@@jomesias It's past time to dispense with the notion of alpha. What pack do you want to be the leader of, in todays society? Walk away, bro. The pack will always turn on you, stop trying to lead it, it hates you. Walk. Away.
The day that falls apart for them, they might just uninstall Life. They will be told that their girl boss nonsense will not hold up and that they are only creating a whole wave of these so-called "misogynists" because if they can say "I hate all men" to a "yaaaass queen" but a dude dares make a valid criticism of one woman and he's a misogynist, is not okay and you will duly be smacked down, proverbial or otherwise.
I was in a bar one night and this woman was flirting with me (trying to get free drinks) and she turns to me and says, "If we were to go out, what would you give me?", to which (after the brief shock) I replied, "A sore arse!". She left me alone after that :D
I like that answer.
😂😂😂omg that made my day
lol..ill use that if i ever get inthat situation
"If you play Super Smash Bros., an L."
😂
the pro-simper chicky is probably saying that women love simps, because she loves "attention", and wants guys to fix things for her, and if men stop simping, she stops getting free help
She gave me creepy eye vibes. Be wary of anyone who opens up their eyes like that.
She's a con-artist telling her marks to be more gullible. What she's really saying is that her and others like her love simps because they'll get a free ride without actually giving you anything in return.
NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. EVER
@@spinninggood I fear you are correct.
She's certainly got a solid career as a dominatrix or someshit, that is for sure. She has a humiliation fetish on the S end of BDSM.
"I hope I did a little damage"
By far the most disgusting/disturbing one. Using someone for personal benefit is bad enough, aiming to scar them purely for your own amusement is evil!
Now queue the video where these same women complain about not being able to find a man.
no, no, it will be "where are all the good men?"
"Where have all the good men gone" and "the man who I have a one night stand with won't commit to me and is seeing other women".
Women do find men, a surplus of them, just not their desired man.
...give it a few years. Simp supplies dry out with the wall. You see it all the time.
My co-worker confessed to me that, she in the past before her current fiance had a roster of men. A food man, a movies man, a handy man, a rent man etc etc. The manipulation and use of men is whats killing dating not just modern femimism. Dont help women who are not your girlfriend, sister or friend. You might be playing a role where your manipulated for low quality Psleve.
Careful with that "friend" thing. These women will convince you she is your friend, and make you think maybe there's something more. That's why it's called "friend zoned". It's pathetic. A man should never put himself at the mercy of a woman. If he wants something, he declares it loud and clear, and if the woman doesn't want him, so be it.
@@TheBcoolGuyI had one experience but most of my female friends were just friends and never made me think otherwise but I agree guys should be careful though
@@TheBcoolGuy the friend zone is only for simps.
You can be a friend with a woman and have no interest in dating them. I have friends that I know would be a disaster in a relationship. She’s a good person, heart of gold, but our interests are just not compatible.
But sitting around pretending that you’re her friend just hoping one day she will let you in is a waste of time.
Anyway according to your other post, if she did let you get a piece you’d call her a tramp.
You seem to suffer from the Madonna-whore complex. You need to figure out that women are human.
I really don't get why men do that. It's so obvious.
@@znail4675Very obvious indeed, especially in this day and age. It comes across as being too predictable, especially when too many men try to help and these simps end up expecting to get something in return. Yet, they only get used and abused by women without realising it. Women wanted equality and they often they don’t need a man because they are strong and independent, so let them deal with any problem alone. They can’t have it both ways!
Imagine being hated for just wanting your partner to care about you...
no, imagine being hated because you try to lay women like acting like their mother.
@@getfreemazes I've never done that?
Imagine being hated for literally everything you do. That's what being a man is like 😂
100% agree with what you said I have been married for 20 years I have 3 kids I'm a stay at home mom simping is gross also extreme try hards are mostly fake and or abusive..
I have 2 sons and one daughter I use to be extremely concerned with having a daughter but with the way everything is going I'm far more concerned for my boys
Great video
Thank you luv ❤️
Women today want 6 figure simps. I can't even.
They bumped to 7
@@reclaimtheframe 7/8 figure simps. When you think the average is 500,000, makes sense 🤣🤣🤣
In terms of the example of the woman who wants Elon Musk levels of income from her man, we're now up to 12 figures. I guess if you've never had to work and have had everything handed to you, then you will generate an inflated idea of what an average income is and how much things are worth.
@@nathanieljordan6144in what world is 500,000 (dollars I assume?) an average wage?
According to Forbes the average US wage is $60K. £28k in the UK.
These women are absolutely delusional.
When a woman thinks she is a ten she will demand to be treated as such.
Reciprocity is a forgotten concept.
Of course they do. Imagine getting money from men without having to actually do anything for it.
I don’t get why there are still men out there who pay these toxic feminists on OnlyFans, which I call OnlyLosers. Never in my life have I ever given money to women like that and never will do. Yet, these are the women who say how strong and independent they are, but on OnlyLosers 🤣🤣🤣
I've been married for 41 years. To the same woman. The only advice I have for the young men out there is find a woman who was raised by a married couple that never split, they have a good relationship with their father, and you find their mother attractive and warm.
Last part sounds kinda weird, but I'm guessing you mean the mom is personable and nurturing. Also while I don't necessarily disagree with your advice, I'd say you should look for someone with strong family values. Because plenty of people, men and women, in my generation fit this description but don't have family values, or are not interested in any traditional relationship. Plus a lot of people don't fit this description because of unfortunate events outside of their control, but do have strong family morals.
At the end of the day it's the morals that make the person.
Some modern women got so enamored with the idea of being mini-celebrities, that they forgot, most of them are nobodies and will remain so for the rest of life. I am however big proponent of women's rights, and this is their right to make themselves miserable for the rest of their life. Hopefully men wisen up to this BS tho.
Agreed. I'd add that guys certainly have the right to be a pathetic simp to these kinds of women, but they'll get absolutely zero sympathy from me if they do so. You get to make your choices, but then you got to own the consequences.
Absolutely, all these modern women or let’s just call them toxic feminists ever wanted was superiority. Not for one second did they ever want equality because I am yet to come across a woman who understands the meaning of compromising or how relationships truly work. Instead it’s all about them and more and more men are waking up to these narcissistic, toxic and selfish feminists. Sooner or later they will wake up when no decent man wants them!
That "simping is good" chick was delusional. Simping is bad because there are manipulative, greedy, insane women seemingly everywhere, who want to destroy you. Don't try to impress anyone, be confident in yourself, and know who you are.
Modern women's value just keeps on plummeting
Yeah, but what alternatives do we have? It’s not as if there are herds of traditional women roaming the countryside 😅
'80 years old or 8 years old'
Hold up. I'm going to stop you right there.
We are not going to just ignore what she just said
IKR!!!! 🙈🙈🙈
The broad is the definition of lights on but no one's home. She's not winning any nobel prizes in this lifetime.
I think I rather be single for the rest of my life then be a simp 😂
The only difference is you’d be spending time on yourself instead of someone who doesn’t care about you.
Time and money
@@megamax898 that is very true I want to feel respected and loved rather then used and disrespectd. And being told I'm useless or filling her bank account with my money while she fucks other guys
@@megamax898a simple cost/benefit analysis.
If you were a simp you'd still be single anyway, women despise desperation, even fuggos can get chicks if they're confident enough.
Around my 50th year, I was sitting at the bar and two twenty somethings approached me and informed me that they would sit and talk with me if I bought them drinks. My response was to look them up and down and tell them they were not worth it; I feel I might given them the wrong impression, as I was ponder the level conversation and how much I would enjoy talking to them.
Also for that first woman in the white blouse, there is an old saying that goes - if everywhere you walk you smell sh*t, you might want to check the bottom of your shoe.
A simp holds his wife's purse so she can catch a nooner with her boyfriend.
Will Smith?
Excellent definition.
Simp with a wife? Sounds like an oxyclean... er... oxymoron.
@@propheinx2250 when a man's inner beta 'flowers'
Ah once again my choice to stay single is proven right. Thanks ladies.
Let's face it, men tend to understand other men better and while that doesn't mean you have to force yourself to be gay, you might find that simply being with close male friends is more fulfilling than dating women. On the other hand, there are guys out there who really do look like girls, believe it or not. There really is a male equivalent for everyone's "type", I can't imagine dating females for any reason unless you're desperate to produce babies.
couldn't agree more. You have no idea the bullets I've dodged in my life. XD (Although the best one might have been a "fem-simp?" I'm not sure... all I know is she disappeared for a month then called crying that I was going to hate her for breaking up and the whole nine yards.... and after she hung up it dawned on me... "breaking up?" We went on 3 DATES!!!! I don't think a lesson in clarity for how CRAZY it all is could have been offered on such a silver plate.)
Yeah ... If a Chick likes you and you are giving her money with no reciprocity, she better be your daughter. Otherwise you are in for a cruel pointless existence. I had a buddy b ack in my 20s, nice guy, but very socially awkward, chicks on the net took advantage of him constantly. We started making fun of him at work when we found out he gave a girl 1k dollars and she stopped talking to him the next day. He learned his lesson.
How many men have ended up in ruin because they didn't learn this lesson? There's a whole industry now to monetise loneliness with zero concept of ethics, morals or empathy.
Even with a daughter, you can't spoil her or she'll turn into this. My daughters, just as my sons, will learn how to make fires, tie knots, build camps, and actually do things for themselves, and they will of course learn to do all the girly things they wanna do. I will not raise them to think they can have something for nothing. They will be humble.
Was happening before the internet!
@@ChristianHill-ep2ho you keep track of your buddies finances? 🧐 Exactly how close are you? Is there something you want to tell the class?
And as for telling your buddy about a woman, it’s useless. They never listen.
Have these simps ever heard of this classic old saying “never ever give money to strangers!” That includes these feminists on OnlyFans, which I call OnlyLosers because it is an account for losers.
The internet definitely inflates the amount of bad people we see, and I do think dating is harder now then before. However in my personal experience there are still a lot of good women out there its just harder to find them. For me personally the biggest issue is how many girls have a 10 plus body count or dont want a family.
To me, 1, 10, and 100 is all the same. It just ruins it. It means it isn't special to her. Then nothing can be, and she will just use me and take from me if I go in for her. I wouldn't sleep with a woman if I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with her and make a bunch of babies with her and gives her kisses 😊
The biggest problem I see is lack of real life influence on youngsters.
So many kids spend the day getting government propaganda shoved into them, then they go home and lock themselves in their bedroom with screens. Parents are too busy with their own lives to bother with actually dealing with their offspring.
I mean 30% of people actually admit they don’t even sit down to one meal a week together.
I also find it amazing that the experts are split on this. On one side we’ve got the sane experts that flatly tell you giving into a temper tantrum just reinforces the idea that whining enough will get them what they want, and on the other side we have CPS investigating a single mother who took away her child’s electronics. Yes, CPS considered that worth an investigation.
@@TheBcoolGuy you would have hated the 70s
Yes they do indeed exist, but very rare to come across because majority of women have been brainwashed by feminism and they think that they are entitled to everything without earning it. Far too many narcissistic, selfish and toxic women in this modern society, it’s a sad reality.
Women just want a man that repeats their opinions in a male voice.
No they don't. That's what they say they want, but when they have it, they're never happy and they never respect that simp. So infidelity ensues and society degenerates yet a little further.
I do admit that I am pretty lonely, but I would never stoop so low to start simping. It’s just sad
I've been slowly studying people like this over time but now that media has made people like this more accessible the study it's made it easier to avoid them😂. Also thank you for your Breakdown of this subject❤
Once had a girlfriend stab me in the leg with a pair of scissors, and I've just been kind of traumatized ever since.
Jeezus
Ah, got one of those BPD types, aka Amber Heard Syndrome, huh?
Had one myself. LIved with her over a year and what started out as great slowly turned into a nightmare as the mask came off, abuse, manipulative lies, and legal threats included - at the drop of a hat. When I broke up it got even worse, to include a physical attack through my door and some stalking. Definitely traumatized for life.
@@NefariousKoel I had one like that, when she dumped me, I learned that she replaced me with a younger taller richer guy, then I learned there was another guy, and found out later yet another guy.....she replaced me with 3 guys! So I'm equal the 3 guys!! A year later , she wanted to get back with me.
@@cubiczirconiabeard5366Please tell me you didn't get back with her
@@lucifer-librarian9562 Hell no! She had a mutual acquaintance tell me that she really liked me. Could it be that she run out of guyz to use in all of Los Angeles in just one year???
That's why i am not a simp. I am a gentleman.
i am an moky 🐒
@@TheBcoolGuy What?
Unfortunately, women see a gentleman in the same vein as they see a Simp.
@@mintoxace5571 Certain women, you mean.
@@mintoxace5571 Excuse me, but there is a huge difference between a simp and a gentleman.
Honestly, I feel bad for simps. They’re sense of self-worth is so low that they’ve lost all sense of moderation and become repellent to some, and targets for exploitation by others.
Someone who gets it. A simp deserves your pity, not your anger. They've only hurt themselves. Personally, I get the feeling that simp haters, and I emphasize hate, are simply getting mad at seeing their younger selves reflected in another. It hurts to see someone make the mistakes you've made yourself.
You know what's a lot sexier than a guy being a simp? A guy respecting himself and knows his value
A guy being a Simpson.
@@shyviking ?????
So do nothing and just wait for a girlfriend to fall from the sky?
We know women can't be bothered to take the initiative. Though you are right about simps not waisting time. Pursuing a relationship is pointless.
@petelee2477 lol I asked out 2 of the 3 guys I've ever dated. Yes, only 3 guys ever at 24 years old. All I'll say is that a bad attitude turns a 😺 into a desert real fast
@@SouthernGothicYT They will find someone else to exploit.
They want simps, and I just want to be left alone.
It’s a Sunday morning, the sun is shining, it’s 76 degrees, I have my coffee, and another gem from ST. Life is good.
Sugar you are a breath of fresh air, after finding out my ex wife was having a affair and healing somewhat. I got back out in the dating field and holy shit trying to find a date is ridiculous, the entitlement is crazy!
Simping is being nice to women with little to zero in reciprocation. Modern women feel entitled to anything they want without any effort on their part.
Wahman let chads break them, then settle for simps to pickup the pieces and pay for the damages while the rest of us dont care and move on with our life
Chads are more loyal than Tyrones
4:40 Men are not allowed to feel confident in the bedroom apparently
I have saved myself thus far, but when I do have a wife, I will always be in control, oh man. I will touch her, grab her, and make her feel things she didn't know were possible to feel, because it will please me. I will take what I want from her sexually because I know it is what we will both want. The last thing I'll be is a wimpy lover.
As a 18 year old just getting into college this was very informational
College girls are probably the worst girls. Be very very careful. Never lose your self-respect or your dignity.
Wear condoms or avoid it all together. You don't know where these people have been, the girls and the boys that sleeps around. It's no joke... I know It's easy to think: Won't happen to me...
But being dry is better than pissing in a cup at the Doctor.
Simping and self respect are mutually exclusive.
SIMPs are men that are over the top for a lady, but the lady doesn't reciprocate anything. The lady just take advantage of the SIMP with zero intent to date or marry the man. So, SIMP is a bad thing. The man gets taken advantage of thinking he may have a chance with the lady. Of course these ladies love that. (Of course not all.) They get free stuff without committing to anything. As a man, once the lady refuses a committed relationship, then I have enough self respect to just move on and leave her in the past.
(Of course not all.) There are "ladies" out there who wont take advantage of men. In over 70 years of life on this planet and in 11 countries I have visited, I have never found any of those women, but I am sure they are out there.
Yeah, if the lady is also over the top for the guy he isn't really a simp
@@lucifer-librarian9562 Yes, like I said, the lady doesn't reciprocate anything. If she reciprocates, then that would fall outside what I said. No SIMPing in that case.
I am with sugar, I kind of need my own space and don't like crap being thrown at me. I want an equal and want to raise the children with me. I find it hard to meet men as I have children and these women make it harder for me.
I stood up to my ex’s narcissistic behaviour. I now date a wonderful woman from Vietnam. Now my ex is realizing she doesn’t want a simp and is harassing me to get back together. If this narcissist trend doesn’t die off soon, all our men will have foreign wives and the women will be cat ladies.
So happy my soon-to-be-wife is a traditional catholic lady, who doesn't mind getting some dirt under her fingernails while talking about philosophical concepts. That's a unicorn right there, in these awful times.
Honestly, a big problem with simping is not just the apparent lack of self respect or desperation, its the fact that there is NEVER any promise of any sort of reciprocation on the woman's part. A guy can empty out his life savings buying her designer clothes, diamond jewelry, giant bouquets, gourmet chocolates, expensive dinners, etc, and that same woman might not even bother to learn his name, but keep all the gifts and show them off on social media without showing any gratitude for them. Its sheer exploitation of male lonliness and generosity. Our western culture does not teach women to court or woo men. Women just expect men to come to them and compete for their affection. But modern feminism teaches women that they never owe men anything at all, even a little bit of basic attention. So we get these inflated ego, self centered, entitled women who are out to exploit men.
Not all women of course, but enough that its a significant social media trend.
How broken of a society have we become ...
Almost irreparably and I only write almost, because thinking about (the fact) that there's NO way to fix it, is just too depressing.
I just repress it, I'm sure that will work out HAHAHA
The situation is well and truly FUBAR
The biggest insult with SIMP/SIMPING, is actually towards the Woman.
As a dude who married my wife last year, fellas, there are good women out there. It's tough, but persistence pays off. Stay strong, kings.
And thank you, SugarTits for another great video. You're one of the good ones.
Well said!
sigh, if only more women were like you :( , it's rough out there for us single men nowadays looking for a nice lady to be a long term partner. A lot of men especially from the west are just packing up and leaving to find a more traditional wife in countries like Philippines or Indonesia
Gotta watch out with them too. They're after transactional relationships and benefits: the love and traditional aspects only last as long as they get what they want. Also really good at hiding their cheating.
If you go to a poorer country, you're not coming back with a wife, but a controlling gold digger, don't worry
Don't do that. One way or another, it's always a trap!
Embrace MGTOW
Go to church, find a girl with good morals. There's literally billions of women to choose from.
I thank the good Lord that I met a wonderful, old-fashioned woman 2 decades ago, and we are still happily married, as I could not possibly imagine dating in the 2020s. If I didn't have my wife, I'd probably just go celebit, become a monk and join a monastery or something.
Anyone else notice the "contempt face" she has when she's describing what "simp" actually means and who is represented by it? It's particularly strong when she says "...enamored with you" - the right side of her mouth (our right) is pulled up tight, while the left side drops down. Classic "contempt" expression. She is telling men to simp while visibly showing her contempt for those who do.
She wants them for their money and has no respect for them
I'm 34. I've been single for almost 10 years now. and it's NOT for a lack of trying. It's because DATING IN THIS DAY AND AGE FUCKING SUCKS.
I worked in Hospis care for a short time in my twenties. Talk about perspective changing you're outlook. I don't want to tell you the number of wonderful nice people that die completely alone just looking for someone they know to keep them company instead of stranger. Money, possessions, status are so meaningless. When we all face the end we just want someone who loves us to be there.
Remind me to give a crap about whether a woman respects me or not.
Women love to say "have confidence" when they spend their entire lives tearing down anyone who tries to be decent to them.
I hate to be that guy but...
Get a passport.
I do like the term “simping” for a guy illogically yearning for a woman who might be out of his league or at the least is unlikely to return his loyalty and affection.
The next generation is doomed.
honest advice. don't go looking for love. let it come too you. it can happen from the most unexpected places. looks aren't everything, a good nature soul and loving and supporting personality makes the best partner in my honest opinion. how ever, they must be able to stand up for themselves as well. you can't hover and cling that drives people away as it comes across as manipulative.
Sorry, tried the "I'll just walk into love" strategy for 40 years, but I think you have to actually work for it.
@@linusgustafsson2629 sorry but i find looking for it just made me miserable. i found my love by not looking for it. and just enjoying the company of those around me.
@@linusgustafsson2629 Gotta go places where there are ladies to walk into.
Yeah. I really think it just kind of has to happen. Forcing it never leads to good relationships, when it leads to relationships at all. Most men don't know how to interact with women. They've been taught to be really nervous, scared, self-conscious, and to practically implode as soon as they need to talk to women they find attractive, or even just any ladies of a comparable age to themselves. Not me. I mock lady for having cooties and I don't give them a pass for acting like bad people. I reward good behaviour and I don't worry about myself. I know I am good, and I see when women try to make me feel insecure. That's when I just roll my eyes and lose all interest, and walk away.
@@TheBcoolGuy exactly. it all comes down too respect for yourself and the people around you. if you don't respect yourself, then no one else will either. but you also need to temper that with humility.
It does not matter how good looking somebody is. If they have scary views and ways, it makes them ugly.
I'm the same as you are in my marriage. My husband is great but definitely not a simp.
Love that!
Just for clarification, taking your girl out to dinner and to see a film every Friday just cause ya like spending time with her and ya both wanna unwind from a hard week wouldn't be simping, right?
No, that would not be simping. Unless you let her choose the movie all the time and when she says jump you ask how high just to get some popcorn.
@@angrytheclown801 Ah, gotcha.
Simping is putting the other person on a pedestal and giving everything and receiving nothing in return. Think friend zoned.
If you always pay and she does not at least offer to pay from time to time chances are you are simping.
Unless she contribues elsewhere in the relationship
That wouldn't simping if you're actually dating the girl, with all the basic relationship stuff you'd expect. On the other hand, if she only hangs out with you or talks to you when you're paying for that dinner and a movie, and you don't have any sort of physical relationship, then yeah, it's simping. The difference is that in one case you're doing something nice for a woman who'll return the favor, the other is that you're getting taken advantage of.
No, you can't "just have confidence," even fake confidence. Just don't date, boys. Marriage is a lose-lose for us.
Here's a thought about why marriage sucks so much: It involves government.
If you can’t “just have confidence”
Why not?
Perhaps therapy would help? A hobby?
But if you have no confidence, don’t bother trying to date, it isn’t going to work.
@@madtabby66 "Fake" confidence is only worth if your problem was the lack of confidence based on a unrealistic view of yourself..... if your view of your "status" was realistic and lack of confidence was the results you need to first increase your "status" and then you can try the confidence thing.
Unspoken Charisma shall be the new wave.
@@ricardokojin7I am of two minds on the "false courage" approach. Like, what happens if the mask slips off? Or what if they see right through it anyway?
But... also could be a good test drive for what it could look like for when "Fake It Til Ya Make it", turns into "Made It".
better alone than a drone
Amen
There’s something called the dry hustle. A woman like the one who says she likes simps, will let you buy drinks for her all night long, spend money on her and lavish her with extravagant gifts. She’ll keep it going for weeks or months, as long as you’ll keep kissing her ass and she’ll say that you’re so sweet but she will never put out. Meanwhile, she’s making it with the guy at the other end of the bar who just rode up on a Harley. Women are attracted to strong confident men who aren’t needy or sappy. They want to be respected but not worshipped. Some women don’t even want to be respected. You want to stay away from them too if you’re looking for a healthy relationship.
I unfortunately have simped before for a couple of broads.........One of the worst mistakes in my life and i will never repeat that again because they showed me no respect primarily because i had no respect for myself. I am truly glad that i am red pilled like a son of a bitch.
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And women WONDER why more and more men are checking out of marriage and wanting more one night stands if THIS is modern women.
Ah, should have been around back in the day.
My advice to people trying to actually date and form relationships:
Ask all the hard questions first.
Lifegoals? Values? Hobbies?
Yes. Ask about them.
Previous relationships?
Ask that too.
Politics and Religion?
Definitely ask that.
Socond piece of advice:
If you can't be friends, you can't be lovers.
It will come the time when they demand them even outside of Twitch regardless how atrocious they are. 😂 In every Form.
I'm so glad I was young in the 80s and 90s . Dam good and NORMAN times.
Ehhh.. some of the current problem was already starting to set in by the mid-to-late '90s. It was certainly fewer in quantity though.
*Data: Women swipe like on 5% of men*
... Thus female 6s being Chad's 14th plaything
Chad rules. Tyrone drools
It depends. If we are in a dimly lit room, she might move up in the ranks to plaything 11 or 12.
One bad cultural marker we have in the US (and probably many modern countries) is the "sleep on the couch" phenomenon.
If theres a little bit of tension in a relationship a man shouldn't roll over and sleep outside his own bed. Everyone needs to step up, discuss the problem, find a solution, and not act like petty toddlers or submissive wimps.
The difference between a merch drop and simping is whether or not YOU wore it first.
Watching this video I am thinking of starting a kitten farm. There is a huge opportunity to corner the market supplying cute little kitties to future crazy cat ladies.
They want simps. They will get bored with simps. They will leave simps. The world will be full of sad lonely simps.
They’ll leave the simp when the simp gets wise.
Until then….
They will get bored regardless of the simpiness. Women are for recreational use only. Do not cohabitate with one, loan one money, buy one gifts or go out of your way for a woman. The return on your investment will not be there.
That tends to make simps less simpy. When simping consistently fails, most learn to stop simping. When a man simps, THE worst thing that can happen is it working. It's harder to stop doing something that worked than it is to stop doing something that's never worked.
It’s nice to see more women speaking up against the modern feminist mindset. I was losing faith in women (still am honestly, but less than before).
4:34 She has no self-confidence. Bad bitches don't have to say they're bad bitches. They just are.
4:32 I shuddered...
Keep yourself and your street alley cat away from me.
Honestly, I have a really high maintenance friend who needs someone who practically simps for her. Her boyfriend doesn’t and while I think he does need to do more (he went out with his friends the same day her mum was in the hospital with a possible heart attack) they both need to figure out what they need, because I think she is definitely asking to much.
In the inverse I mostly tend to be awkward with gifts. But tend to get offended if people don’t think of me. If I get a coffee on the way to your house 100% I’m getting you one. If you come to my house and on the way get a coffee 99% you don’t get me one, I’ll be upset but likely won’t say anything.
No the boyfriend doesn't need to do more lol. She won't respect a simp.
@@petelee2477 I said he needs to do more because he went out with friends instead of going to the hospital with her or making sure she’s ok to be alone when she got home.
I said my friend is high maintenance and needs to work on it.
Never did I say he needs to simp. If my BF went out with friends when I asked him to come with me to see my mother in hospital I’d break up with him because he clearly care’s very little for me.
He absolutely NEEDS to do better, and she also has to stop expecting so much in the day to day normal situations.
I feel extremely sorry for your partner if you think being there for them in the event of a family emergency simping.
I'm perfectly happy just waiting to meet a woman that's interested in meeting me and not looking to play games to get my attention.
These people have forgotten what words mean.
Simp is short for _Simpleton,_ e.i someone easy to manipulate and take advantage of.
A Fan is someone that is _fanatical_ about something, unhealthy obsession and all.
Stan is a _Stalker Fan,_ someone dangerously obsessed to someone/something. (This originated with eminem and he wrote a song about it _20 years ago,_ feel old yet? Lol)
Incel is someone that is _Involuntary_ Celibate, not someone that is cringe or a mysoggyknees.
A 304 is a tiktoking woman, her value is defined by what's between her knees, not what's between her ears.
I see alot of this behavior on Instagram from low T men towards female influencers or celebrities.They will also deride a man who tells a woman she's not all that.
Thing is, society tells us women want relationships, but reality tells us, women want to be pursued, forever. They actually will leave if you propose a relationship. It's more fun for women today to go through endless short term relationships than the potential of something long and boring.
Dating was much much simpler back in a day, i met my wife back in -99, and what i had was 1985 chinese shitbox with 4 wheels, love for movies and music, she had love for music and movies, both were same level of crazy, i asked: "wanna go out with me?" Aaaaand DONE.. happily together 24 years with 3 kids..
I would like to asked those tiktokers (those women that were in this video) what is the foundation that you build your relationship on?..
Money? Or looks?..both will wither and decay over time so what is left?
I build mine on love, trust, respect for each other..
*sigh* im gonna go and hug my wife right now❤
Nope, they don't, but these modern ones sure as hell say a lot that they do :D
SugarTits has a store!! Shut up and take my money!! But... in all seriousness, you should also sell a plushie of your avatar.
What many men don't understand when a woman says she wants a sensitive, attentive man who generally idolizes her is that this man is not just any man. She dreams of Chad who doesn't even look at her, or who just sleeps with her one night and she never hears from him again. She want this person to be the attentive one, the sensitive one, etc. The thing is, Chad wouldnt do this, or he wouldnt be Chad, so this kind of women will be forever chasing something they will never achive. Meanwhile letting pathetic men pay for their expenses.
It's pathetic of men to defer to these women's judgement of what love is.
Chad is Prince Charming for White princesses
Go in, wreck their shit, and disappear without a trace just like a tornado. And when I say without a trace, I mean it. Use protection. I don't want any souvenirs in the form of an STD or a surprise in 9 months.
As a western atheist I can no longer make a good argument for young men who want a family not to turn to Islam and just walk away from all this crazy.