It's Just Me couldn't agree more! It sucks to feel like your body is a taboo. I got a really new coil and decided to document it and nobody understood why on earth I'd put my business on the internet..... But if nobody talks, nobody learns. It's nice also to see her lived experience of it not just a recapitulation xx
pixelpi I did it too. I came off the pill for 8 weeks and got Kyleena instead. It's not actually sore at all i had ponstan and cervical softeners so it was dead handy. I did it during a break in work 😂 xx
Beth Freeman I find it sooooo crazy that people had a completely different experience to me! The procedure for me was unbearably painful i nearly passed out! Spoke to my mum who also had the coil and she said it was honestly worse than giving birth😂😂😂 Im so glad i have it now but sweet baby jesus i would never do it again!
Sarah Bosley Yeah I wasn't offered one either. I'm in Ireland so to get it I had to go to Wellwoman (family planning clinic) get a prescription €65 for Kyleena, Ponstan (anti inflammatories) and 2 cervical softeners pills (to insert 5 hours before the apt). Buy them €144. Then wait till day 1 of my period to call for an apt. (I called 3 different ones so I could get one for the next day) I also took shots of Castor oil, I took magnesium, vitamin C and things that naturally soften your cervix and I hardly felt a thing. I've never had a baby either. I'd never heard of anyone getting an anaesthetic during a fitting Insertion cost €195 too so it was about €400..... Madness xx
Sarah Bosley that's mad. I suffer chronic daily migraines, so I'm in pain 24/7 so maybe I've a high tolerance. It is amazing how you can have 2 people with similar situations buy MARJORLY different experiences. A friend of a friend had such bad pain and a reaction that she had to have hers removed. I've not noticed it pretty much at all, except for random bleeding.... And bleeding (like a period, not a cut) every time I have sex At least you can now imagine what childbirth will feel like if your mam found insertion worse than childbirth 😂x
Just wanted to put a comment up to show another side to the coil. I went on my own when I was 18. It was completely fine. Little to no pain and after 5 minutes I was able to walk myself back to college and get on with my day. Overall so positive.
Also if you want local anaesthetic it is normally available in the UK. Just need to ask as they don't always offer. Or phone before hand and ask if they will give it 😊 and in the UK we have merina and also the jaydess which is what I am on. And two versions of the copper iud. Just in case you didn't know 😊 wasn't told about the moon cup senario so that's made me slightly upset but I'm going to try to continue to use it anyway
Great video! My story for those looking to read more experiences: I got the coil in March when I entered into a long term relationship. The pill had previously wreaked havoc on my digestive system and condoms weren't working for us so we decided on the coil as our best bet. Insertion was EXTREMELY painful (and I have a very high pain threshold.) I had to take the rest of the day off, but the next day was nearly back to normal. I had light spotting for 3 days. It took about 6 months for my body to get into check but BOY was it worth it. I have long, light periods about 45 days apart. Much better than my super heavy, painful, 25 day spaced ones. I did get some nasty breakouts on my face and back, which then went away after 4 months. That was tough, but I'm glad I battled through that part. The contraception part hasn't faltered. However it unfortunately has not helped my raging PMS which turns me into a massive b*tch for 2 days of the cycle, but I now track that using CLUE so I can at least warn my poor poor partner and try extra hard to be a good human. In summary girls - it was tough at first but I'm SO glad I've done it!
oh also, I felt like I was on a 2-week long 'fat day' with inflammation after insertion, but that cleared up and I didn't experience any weight fluctuations.
I also had an extremely painful/traumatizing experience during insertion and after. Had I known it would be that painful, I never would have gotten it. I got the Mirena years ago, it is now about to expire so I'm thinking I will be brave and have it replaced with a copper one so that I can be hormone free. Even though it was so painful, it was entirely worth it for me and my partner.
I have the copper coil & it's great! (I don't like having hormonal contraception) It hurt like HELL to get it fitted though, I didn't have a local anaesthetic and it was honestly the most painful experience I've ever had. To anyone considering either kind of coil: get the anaesthetic (!), especially if you've never had children/a smear test etc. The cramps were realllyyyyyy bad after, but my periods are getting less & less painful each month - apparently it takes a while to settle down. I recommend the copper one to anyone who has issues with hormones, it works great for me 💕
Juliette Hamelle Hi! I do still have it, my periods are heavier but now they’re much shorter. I don’t know if that’s typical, but mine are now 2-3 days of heavy bleeding (cramps on the first day) and then nothing. They used to be around 5 days. So it’s definitely changed, but I’m not sure if it’s entirely due to the coil, or just changes as I age (I’m nearly 25). x
It makes sense that the cramps started when you just started walking. My period cramps always start about half an hour after I've gotten out of bed so I've been standing and walking around the house for a while. Suck that the painkillers didn't cover those cramps. :/
I love mine! I have exactly the same type and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The procedure was fine, and the cramps afterwords sucked but were manageable. I just took a regular dose of painkillers and slept most of it off. The confidence in my birth control, lack of side effects (acne, mood swings, etc.) and knowledge that I don’t have to think about it for years totally makes it worth it. Also really minimal periods, those are great too.
I want to quickly write a comment about the IUD and the way the procedure goes in the Netherlands as it is quite different. You need to see your GP and get tested for STI's. Only if you are cleared, you get your prescription to get the device at your local farmacy. You have to pay €140/150 for it, regardless of your health covering, so it is really pricey and not everyone will be able to get the IUD because of this. Inserting is recommended while on your period, as the cervix is a little more open to release blood and this might make it less painful. I had mine fitted in May and it has been great! No more periods for me and therefore, no more reason to use my beloved mooncup. Hope this helps some girls out as not all viewers are UK based :)
Sweet Suzie I'm from the Netherlands as well and 1) didn't get checked for STI's and 2) it was covered by my health covering, so this is not totally accurate either. I don't have periods anymore either though, so awesome
I'm from Norway, and it seems the system is more similar to how you do it in the Netherlands. I have scheduled a consultation for later today actually, but I am a bit disappointed in my doctor. Basically, she said she could even do it right away if I decided to, but I rang her back voicing my concerns that some women experience such bad cramps that driving may not be safe, and since I have a long way home I thought it best to wait until I could bring someone, and she said she had never heard of anyone getting bad pains after...! It's not that I'm afraid of the pain, but I want someone to tell me that it is normal so I don't freak out thinking I'm going to die if it happens! Imagine doing something at the doctor's office and halfway home you feel like a baby is coming out of you - if you didn't know that was normal and could happen (even if rare) I can't imagine anyone who wouldn't freak out.
Emma Lindvall we actually discussed this. The nurse remarked that they should have a picture or a video showing above you, on the ceiling, like at the dentist 😄
As someone who has an appointment booked for next month to get a coil fitted, this has been super useful and informative. I've had such a nightmare with cystic acne since changing from the combined pill to the implant (and soon after that I started the mini pill). I didn't know you could have local anaesthetic when having a coil fitted so that's really comforting to know. Have loved the Hormone Diaries series so much! Thank you Hannah 💖
I haven't personally gotten the coil but both my sister and my mother have. There symptoms were almost identical to yours, Hannah, with the exception of the fact that all of the menstruating women in my family have extremely painful cramps with every period so that aspect was, as I've been told, only slightly different. But they both felt weak and nauseas and had bad cramps that evening continuing on for the next couple of days with the cramps decreasing in intensity as time passed. They both recommend scheduling the procedure when you can take the rest of the day and at least one additional day off in order to cater to the symptoms and not cause yourself any extra discomfort. It was really awesome to see this video detail the process and the actual response! Thanks so much and I can't wait to learn more!
Really pleased to have this video after struggling with the pill too and having to get colposcopy treatment. Thank you for giving authentic advice that the doctors don't! XXXXX
This is perfect timing. I took the mirena coil about two weeks ago. I was also dieing from the pain and still went to class after that.. advice: never do that. I was the most depressed and non talkative person that day. In Holland it is all done without the use of fingers. Its all done with plastic sticks... kind of things. They recommend to do it on the fifth or first day of your period so they can reach your womb easier. Now I am experiencing bleeding and cramps for 2,5 weeks and still going. (Spoke to my doctor everything is okay. After 2 months they will recommend one month of taking the pill, to make the bleeding less). But I am interested if you (and others) also experience this. Thankyou for posting these video series. It is really informative and nice to see someones experience and to have someone talk openly about it. Sparkly greetings!!
Same in sweden, with the plastic insertion devices. but she did check the position of everything with her fingers first to make sure of the angle of the cervix and uterus. I was also told to do it while on my period since the cervix is a bit opened for natural reasons anyways.
I have been thinking of getting the coil soon and watching this has put me in such ease!! I had watched other videos about other peoples experiences, but because I already watch your videos it just makes me feel better about it to hear about the experience from you!! Love you Hannah!!
I just want to say thank you so much for this video Hannah. I just got the mirena today and am in so much pain. Your doctors sound amazing, mine didn’t even tell me about cramping until I was in the room to get it. Thankfully I had remembered watching this video when it first came out and had my husband drive me to the appointment. What a good move! I’m currently rewatching this because I am in so much pain and it’s great to have the virtual company of someone going through the same thing
You got injections! No way! I’ve had my coil for 6 weeks now and my god. I had two days off work for it because of the cramps afterwards but they were actually okay to deal with. Just comfy clothes, warm heat pads and carbs. but I had no injection (had it done through my GP), just numbing gel which by all accounts.... did nothing. It was the most intense immediate painful cramp I have EVER felt whilst they were putting it in and I can’t even explain the feeling of someone poking around in your womb.... it sucked. I had a panic attack half way through and made it worse for myself and also didn’t eat before hand which did not help my blood sugars and made me feel sick. BUT Now everything is absolutely fine, just some spotting while my body gets used to it. But oooooh it hurt 😩
The Hormone Diaries is how I found your channel over a year ago when I stopped the pill at the same time as you, and this episode was one of the most interesting ones for me!! I don't need constant contraception right now but when I need it again I think I'll get the hormonal (or copper but afraid of the period) coil! Thank you for telling us about the whole process
Congrats on joining the coil club! Even after having a bit of a nightmare insertion and bad cramps after, I'm still really glad I got the (copper) coil. It's so easy just to forget about it and get on with life! took me a little while to get used to it, and stop worrying about it mostly after hearing lots of scare stories, but after having it a while I barely even think about it anymore. Hope it all works well for you! x
After watching this series I became really aware of the Hormones I was putting in my body each month. You empowered me to question this and I have since got the copper coil and its the best decision I've ever made. I can not thank you enough for inspiring young women to make these sorts of decisions x
I really appreciate your doing these kinds of videos. It's surprisingly hard, in my opinion, to find out what these kinds of things a re actually like to go through.
literally thinking about booking my appointment to get the coil as i saw this video pop up - this was super useful thank you. It was great to hear about the immediate side affects and the procedure itself. You've eased my anxiety now so I'll be booking my appointment in the morning
Marley King Yes! The measuring and stabilization of the cervix was definitely the worst part when I got mine inserted (aside from the horrific cramping afterwards). I wish I would have been able to getba local anesthetic.
YES! Specifically the second measurement lol. I clenched and gasped during that one and was afraid I had messed it up and asked the doctor if she was going to have to do it again. If she had said yes I would have walked out of the clinic lol.
I am booked in to have a Mirena coil fitted next week and this was super helpful, thanks Hannah! In the rural area I live in the clinic requires you to have a chatty appointment first before you can book to actual insertion. However the information given during that was mainly around how the coil works and whether it's a good contraception for you personally, so it was helpful to hear about the actual procedure and what to expect.
I got my copper coil inserted in August. It was really good for about 2 months but then I had real problems with it. It moved from my uterus into my cervix and therefore wasn’t working anymore. I had it removed a couple of weeks ago and now I’m using natural cycles. I hope the coil works for you! 💕
I‘ve gotten the Mirena Coil twice now, so for about 5 years i‘m avoiding pregnancy with it 😄 I absolutely LOVE it. Getting it inserted hurtes a little (smear test is a good comparison). I had no cramps, but a little weak both times I got it inserted. I have no period anymore and i did not feel the coil ever since I got it. ❤️ Love you Hannah
I got the mirena about a year ago. It was a horrendous insertion process. I didn't wait the recommended 5 minutes before standing up and got SUPER dizzy. I ended up vomming from the cramping pain after. It was only about half an hour of this and then I felt exhausted but for all intents and purposes FINE! I've had it for a year, don't get my period, and feel none of the hormonal side effects I felt with the pill and the ring. Not having to think about pregnancy prevention for five years is truly a blessing! Go IUD!!
I got the copper coil 3 months ago and it's such a great form for contraception. No fuss and no upkeep if it agrees with your body! And a relief not to have to worry about pregnancy or side-effects from hormones
Best timing for a video! I'm getting a coil fitted tomorrow evening. I've spoken to a few women at the office who have had them and their reaction was mainly "It's horrific, but worth it". Bit terrified, can't lie.
Oh no! I didn’t know that about the mooncup! I’m 18 and have used one for about 2 years and have had the copper coil for about a year and a half. I’ve never had a problem but that’s really interesting to know that it could become an issue! Thank you! I adorrree the hormone diaries!!!!!!
Hahaha this came just in the right Time, i got my copper coil yesterday. I was given a pill by my doctor i took 4 hours before the insertion that was ment to soften my cervix. The procedure itself was fine, on the scale of uncomfortable to a bit painful. I felt great. But when I got to the reception to set up a date for a check suddenly my circulation broke down very badly and I needed to lay down for a few minutes. When I finally got home I slept for 2 hours and since then everything's fine, no cramps, no pain, no painkillers 🙌
I got an IUD when I was 15 and a virgin. It's made periods much worse but I love it so much! I don't have to worry about pregnancy and insertion only hurt for about 10 seconds- not even that! I wasn't offered any anaesthetic and I took paracetamol after (that's what I was recommended), I had a dull cramp afterwards for a few hours but felt okay on my way home! I got it on the third day of my period; this was recommended as cervixes are more 'open' on period. Would definitely recommend! I love you, your videos and book Hannah! I adore the hormone diaries 😍😍💕
She talked about this in the video about being back on the pill - basically she said that The Hormone Diaries will be less about her, and that she's going to have some guests - like the one with Alex and Jake and the one with Leena.
Emily S I sure hope so. Love this series. Even if she just does videos perhaps asking others about their hormonal journey or something. But yeah, at least we'll get an update on how she's finding the coil.
Thank you for sharing your experience! I was extremely helpful for me to know the details and how you felt. I am very scary of anything like this, but I know the importance.
I just got my second coil put in yesterday! I was previously on the copper one for 5 months then changed to the mirena yesterday. I bled every two weeks super heavily on the copper coil and used my moon cup constantly and everything was fine! All doctors etc that i asked said using the moon cup is totally safe as long as you check for the threads being wrapped around the cup before removal. So you are totally fine to use the cup!
And make sure to totally release the suction of the cup before pulling it out! That's how I accidentally removed my IUD--pulled out my moon cup even though it was still suctioned in.
For anyone curious about the non-hormonal copper IUD. I am currently part of a blind study at Penn Uni, testing the American Paragaurd vs a smaller not yet FDA approved IUD. I, someone sensitive to hormones, and terrible at taking pills, love the copper IUD. For me the procedure was nearly painless. Lasted no more than 5 minutes and I was up and at home in no time. I had spotting for a day or two and light cramps a few hours later but nothing that had me bed ridden. My periods have always been light, and continue to be even on the IUD. Honestly I have no complaints about the copper IUD and highly recommend it.
I'm contemplating an IUD/Coil or the implant and I'm honestly terrified of the cramping pain. I can't wait to hear an update from you! I've heard both really good things and really bad things about IUD/coils.
Me too, although after seeing this video and hearing about the awful cramps I've ruled out an IUS or IUD, I'm leaning towards implant or Seasonale, I'd prefer no periods at all though but that's probably never gonna happen.
It's different for everyone. I had cramping during the procedure (but it was a fast procedure, so that didn't last long), but I had very little cramping afterward. I got it at my school's student clinic, and afterward I just walked back to my school building and went to class like normal. No issues. You just can't know ahead of time what your body will do.
I got the implant, which doesn't give you cramps. You're arm can hurt for a couple of days but that's it! I would recommend it, but it is different for everyone.
Kiana It's one day of bad cramps for potentially 5 years with no period or cramps at all. Yes that day is bad but really in the long term it isn't the worst thing, it is more than definitely worth it.
I watched this video a few months back, i got the Mirena yesterday! I am 23 and never had a smear or anything, I didn’t have the anaesthetic and it is honestly the weirdest pain! It’s bearable if you take deep breaths so don’t be put off! Like you, The after part was the worst. The cramps are still going a day later, and it’s bad. But i think its worth it for the five year period you have it xxxxx
I got a kyleena iud inserted yesterday! I’m in Canada, and was able to get a prescription for one from my gp during my annual. The prescription was covered under my insurance (would have been 300-400$? otherwise). I took some midol beforehand. Hannah is right about the speculum being the worst part. I had a bit of freezing on my cervix (felt like a pinch) and then the insertion felt like a wave of cramps. Doc finished filling out my chart, told me how to check for the strings then sent me on my way! I was a little worried about it, but didn’t have any pain driving home. Have had some cramping since, but I’ve definitely had period cramps that hurt more. I took it slow for the afternoon but still went out with my parents last night and am up for work today!
your experience of symptoms after the fitting sounds just like my monthly period pain :/ trying the combined pill and so far I've had the most pain free period ever, it's amazing!
so glad you've had a good experience with it! I got the copper coil in april '16. Literally the most painful experience of my life! I got the copper one because I've never had any problems with my periods before and wanted a non-hormonal method of contraception, so I decided having slightly heavier/more painful periods was the way to go. They were unbearable! Every period after that was excruciating and I could not function in daily life. After 18 months of trying to 'stick it out' I got it removed. Best decision I've ever made. It was annoying the my experience was so awful, because now I'm too scared to get the mirena coil, which I probably should have got in the first place!
Not all hope is lost for your mooncup! I have the copper iud and the fluercup and have used both together for six years. I had to adjust the way I removed it so that it wasn't literally suctioning everything but they can definitely work together if your comfortable with it. IUD + cup = dream no worries combo
I have the coil and had a very similar experience, the first couple of days were not fun (but I had my appointment on a Friday so could rest all weekend) but in the 10months that I have had it there hasn't been a single problem! And no period at all- so don't feel too sad about not being able to use the cup, you hopefully won't need it until the coil comes out!
I have a prescription for the coil and I've had it for like 6 months but I'm sooo scared to get it. But this video makes me feel muuuch more informed and ready for it, so I'll have to call my doctor soon and set up the appointment!
I'm a guy, but have always loved your openness and honestly when it comes to this series of the hormone diaries.. And as there is not an open subject for a guy to learn about this kind of stuff besides just doing research.. But as someone who finds maybe this will be helpful knowledge to have for a future potential girlfriend or wife, it has been really good to just watch this series and observe what you were going through.. As again, it is not an open conversation between guys, and besides having a Girlfriend or looming it up, it is not something that comes across very often
I have Mirena and I love it! I actually had it replaced last year after a good 5 year run with my first one with no periods or notable side effects. I also had no issue with insertion either time. My second time they actually showed me the first one once they took it out and the nurse waved it at me and said "say thank you for your service!" It was a weird clinic, but has been fine. So yay for being period and baby free since 2011!
Good luck Hannah! I went through getting the copper coil earlier this year and it was just...such a hassle. My body rejected it twice. I ended up getting the implant in my arm and so far that's worked for me 💗
I’ve had the copper coil for nearly three years now and it’s honestly one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I was on the pill for 2 and a half years and decided to change due to the effects the hormones had on me. Getting it put in was fine, uncomfortable but not painful, but I was pretty dazed and had significant cramping for the rest of the day This settled down in a day or two. Whilst the first 5 months or so were occasionally very uncomfortable, the rest of the time I felt no significant side effects apart from slightly heavier and more painful periods (which have now lighten up). I feel I was incredibly lucky with my experience but from that, I can’t recommend the coil enough. It’s genuinely made my day to day life easier and much less stressful. I hope it works out the same for you!
I watched this video and many others before my insertion on my first copper coil (iud). I can not lie the pain of insertion was a lot and my doctor told me that’s common for women who haven’t experience child birth. I took paracetamol before insertion as suggested on this video but still the pain was so intense. The drive home hurt so I recommend making sure you have a day to yourself in bed if needed after insertion. For me the bleeding, pain and spotting was constant for 2 months and I felt so lost and down but I stuck with it and as the months went by I seen the benefits. Now a year in my skin is the same as before, my weight is the same, my mood is stable/ normal for me, my periods are every other month very minor pain and light bleeding which for me is so worth it
I got the coil in early october and hearing you say that the cramps after insertion are essentially contractions made SO much sense to me i was pacing in pain and had to leave a seminar because of it and now i know i wasn’t just being a wuss about it 😩 i’ve had pretty steady spotting ever since it being put in but this week it’s eased off and i’m praying that’s the end of any bleeding for a long time. i’m really interested to see if you can always feel the strings because i’m pretty sure mine keep bunching up at the top out of reach 🤔 anyway keep it up with the hormone diaries it’s the only youtube series i really eagerly watch and love your approach to contraception and sex ed!
Hannah, it was definitely this video that made me decide to go and get the coil, so thank you for sharing your experience. I have just had an IUD (copper) fitted this morning, and have had a really great experience having it fitted. It was obviously uncomfortable, but if the idea of the fitting is putting anybody off then I personally don't think it should. If you breathe through it, and don't panic its all over in 5 minutes. Obviously I can't speak for everyone's experience, but I had a great experience and wouldn't dissuade anybody from having it done.
Cassie Goldsmith If you’re in the UK, you mostly have to ask or they won’t give it to you. I had the coil put in when I was 18 and had my first (and only) boyfriend, it was not incredibly painful despite the fact that I didn’t have any injections. It was actually more painful taking it out a couple of years later when I found out I was a lesbian and didn’t actually need (or really want) the coil any more. This time they didn’t even offer anaesthetic and it hurt me so much, which might have been because it has to come out every three years and I was taking it out after two. My periods changed wildly for about 6-8 months then went back to normal afterwards.
The Mirena unfortunately did not work for me due to continuous pain, and I got it removed after four months. I have now been using Cerazette for almost two months and I'm very pleasantly surprised by it :) Thanks for shedding light on these topics - crossing my fingers the coil continues to agree with your body!
4:23 "Who knew not getting pregnant would be this hard" I learned how to fit a coil back in 198, then a young doctor. It's not that easy for some male doctors to do this because we have to confront our own feelings about learning about women's parts but I wanted to give my patients the best of help, to be gentle and to be expert.. NHS "Guidelines" stopped me fitting coils after many, many years of experience because I did not fit more than ten a year in my practice. I've left the NHS now and agree with your comments that it is hard to like the NHS sometimes.
Sorry you had so much trouble booking your appointment! I had the copper coil inserted at the beginning of this month and my doctor made it such an easy experience. I spoke to her over the phone about it and she gave me all the info I needed and then she inserted it herself! The experience was SO painful but after about 10 days I had no pain anymore!
Exactly the same experience with my Mirena. Insertion was fine and then it hit me with the worst pain of my life. But now it's great! I'm always shocked when I hear how British women don't go to their gynecologist regularly and get physically checked. In Germany most women have appointments at least once a year starting when they first want the pill. It always includes internal ultrasound and checking of the cervix.
My experience with the mirena has been great! I had brain surgery 5 years ago which meant I couldn’t use the pill anymore - I then spent ages like you trying different things, and my doctors always viewed getting the mirena as a total last resort. Turns out it’s the best and I really think it should be higher up on lists of potential contraception rather than being seen as an ‘if all else fails’ option. For me it’s the freakin bomb!
I had a sense of euphoria after getting the IUD in where I wanted to talk to everyone about it and was so happy for abou 15 minutes then I crashed when I got home and didn’t leave the couch the rest of the afternoon
Great video Hannah! So proud of you for getting the coil! I think it is interesting that you weren't required to be on your period when you had the coil inserted. I live in the US and received my care from Planned Parenthood, and they required I be on my period when I got the coil in. This made it tricky when I hadn't started it by the date of my appointment because I was so stressed about HAVING TO BLEED, thankfully they let me come back a few days later when it started. I also wasn't offered local anesthetic, but just took some very strong painkillers and I was totally fine until about an hour after I got home. Also, in regards to menstrual cups and coils: there is a risk of dislodging your coil if you use a moon cup or diva cup but it isn't the end of the world! What matters is that you break the seal of your cup before you pull it out so the suction doesn't disrupt the coil, thats what I was told by the Nurse Practitioner at Planned Parenthood. One of my friends has had the copper coil for 8 years and she uses her diva cup every month with no issues. Anyways, good luck with your coil and very happy for you that you got it sorted, agree having that everyday stress go away is lovely! xoxo
First off, well done getting a coil! I really hope you end up liking it. I got the copper coil about a year ago. Insertion was uncomfortable and I experienced cramping. I also felt lightheaded and faint so had to stay sitting for 15 mins. Eventually left and got home. The cramps I experienced for the next 24 hours were excruciating. I couldn’t get out of bed and was unable to eat anything without fear of throwing it back up. The bad cramping got a little better but persisted for about 5 days. After that, everything was ok. Every period for the first 6 months was very painful and I even thought of getting it out a few times. But I persisted because I knew I needed to give my body the right amount of time. It’s been a year now, and I don’t have any of the painful cramping with my periods anymore. It’s truly an amazing option and I do recommend it to every woman - even if I did have a peculiarly rare and horrid experience.
I have the copper coil and I love it, It's great not having to think about taking pills! I've had it for about a year now and although random cramping wore off after a few months it's increased the intensity of my period cramps which isn't great but I feel like it's worth a few days of pain to not have to think about contraception for 5 years. My local clinic didn't offer anesthetic when I got it inserted so I felt all the pain and it hurt a lot! I was panting and sweating and squeezing the nurse's hand and afterwords I asked if that was what labor was like haha, but again, 100% worth it! Hope you enjoy your coil :)
i got on the coil three years ago, and it was HELL for the first two months. never been in so much pain in my life but now i wouldnt change it for the world!
Yay! I’ve had a Mirena for a few years. Whenever friends complain of period related annoyance, I smugly say I don’t even need to buy sanitary products anymore. P.s I’m pretty sure the coil and Mirena (a brand of IUD) are two separate things.
Ooof agree with you about the pain after the fact - mine was soooo intense for a week and then went back to normal cramps for a week or so. After having had it for a couple years though - SO worth it!! Easiest birth control ever :) xo
I got the copper coil inserted back in April before work. I found that the first period that I got was really heavy and the cramps that came with it were really painful. Now, they don't hurt at all (or if they do they're just like normal deal-able cramps). P.S. I love the hormone diaries, they're so informative and good to listen to.
I got the Lyletta coil last December and I am so in love with it. The entire insertion process took about 5 minutes and wasnt very painful. I had some cramping for about an hour or 2 afterwards but that was about it.
Coil club! Mines the copper one- you’re right, my period was AWFUL when I first got it. It’s been about 5 months now and it’s FINALLY going back to normal so all is good 🙌🏻 I don’t want kids ever so that’s why I went for copper. 10 years!
Well done and welcome to the Mirena club! Fun times with hormones(is the sarcastic title of my future autobiography)! I got mine inserted in July, less painful than I thought it would be (I read some horrible stories, of course). My doctor told me that the injection of the anaesthetic is equivalent to the actual pain that I would be experiencing, so I decided to go without. Cramping and bleeding for around 2ish months, then slowly got lighter. I was having trouble with BAD cramps before the coil, so Mirena was also a way to stop THAT happening(and it has, great success). Five months in, pretty settled, although not amazing in the pH department and not sure if my cycle is a thing at all thus far(so never sure if I am feeling strange for cycle-related reasons). My boobs have also decided that they are going through another growth spurt, which is somewhat annoying, but not the end of the world. Win some, lose some, I suppose. Hopefully, that'll also settle soon. Look forward to hearing about your experience! :)
I totally feel your pain! I was exactly the same after the mirina, and then walked out of the clinic and literally thought I was going to faint!! The cramps took a few weeks to go but 6 months on its the best decision I have ever made!! Just persevere with the cramps in the mean time as they do get much better. I also found emotionally I feel much calmer and less anxious than when I was taking the combined oral pill, even my partner has noticed a difference so thats got to be a positive :) xxx
I was really surprised that your insertion wasn't painful, because mine was hands down the worst pain of my life. But then when you said you got local anesthetic that explained it. I feel like that should be emphasized more, because if I hadn't experienced so much pain during insertion I would recommend it much more highly. But, still worth it since it'll be in for 5 years.
I got the cooper coil in August. I really love it!! During insertion and for the rest of the day after, it was extremely painful and I had to come home from work. But after that, I felt totally fine. I had light bleeding for around 5 days after. My first period also was extremely painful and very heavy, but now it is much better. It is still heavy, but not as painful. It’s great just having something in there that means you never have to think about contraception again! I highly highly recommend it. Oh and I’m 18 in case anyone else is looking to get the coil that’s around my age 😊
Great information! Love talking about this. I got the copper IUD (we call it that in the US) twice. The first time, I was 20. I took a prescription pill before to relax the cervix and had another for pain after. I had terrible cramping and bleeding for nearly 4 months straight. It would lighten up but then start all over again. I also started reading online about experiences with IUD but got onto some sites that shared some terrible stories! Stuff like infertility and the IUD getting stuck in a fallopian tube! So I got it taken out and got nexplanon put in. Flash forward 5 years, I had continuous bad/uncomfortable reactions to most hormone-based birth control so I started researching the copper IUD again since it is hormone free. Talked to my doctor and we decided it was the best choice for me and my goals. Went into the appointment with Tylenol in my system and just kept up with Tylenol, raspberry leaf tea, and heat for the next month ish. At first there was pain but nothing compared to before. This pain continued for maybe a month on and off but I think by month two I was feeling normal. I am 9 months out and I love my copper IUD! I have regular periods again with the average flow with regular amounts of cramping. No side effects to do with the IUD at all actually. I was surprised that they recommend not to use a moon cup! I've been using mine consistently for the past year and everything is still in place. Maybe its something to do with suction? But I feel pretty confident to avoid that kind of situation. So same person, two IUDs, two VERY different experiences. No babies! :)
Thank you for being badass and sharing things about your life that people shouldn't be afraid to talk about
It's Just Me couldn't agree more! It sucks to feel like your body is a taboo. I got a really new coil and decided to document it and nobody understood why on earth I'd put my business on the internet..... But if nobody talks, nobody learns. It's nice also to see her lived experience of it not just a recapitulation xx
She did it the absolute madman!
pixelpi I did it too. I came off the pill for 8 weeks and got Kyleena instead. It's not actually sore at all i had ponstan and cervical softeners so it was dead handy. I did it during a break in work 😂 xx
Beth Freeman I find it sooooo crazy that people had a completely different experience to me! The procedure for me was unbearably painful i nearly passed out! Spoke to my mum who also had the coil and she said it was honestly worse than giving birth😂😂😂 Im so glad i have it now but sweet baby jesus i would never do it again!
pixelpi Then again Hannah talks about receiving anaesthetic which i was never offered! I hadn't even had painkillers😣😣
Sarah Bosley Yeah I wasn't offered one either. I'm in Ireland so to get it I had to go to Wellwoman (family planning clinic) get a prescription €65 for Kyleena, Ponstan (anti inflammatories) and 2 cervical softeners pills (to insert 5 hours before the apt). Buy them €144.
Then wait till day 1 of my period to call for an apt. (I called 3 different ones so I could get one for the next day)
I also took shots of Castor oil, I took magnesium, vitamin C and things that naturally soften your cervix and I hardly felt a thing. I've never had a baby either. I'd never heard of anyone getting an anaesthetic during a fitting
Insertion cost €195 too so it was about €400..... Madness xx
Sarah Bosley that's mad. I suffer chronic daily migraines, so I'm in pain 24/7 so maybe I've a high tolerance. It is amazing how you can have 2 people with similar situations buy MARJORLY different experiences. A friend of a friend had such bad pain and a reaction that she had to have hers removed. I've not noticed it pretty much at all, except for random bleeding.... And bleeding (like a period, not a cut) every time I have sex
At least you can now imagine what childbirth will feel like if your mam found insertion worse than childbirth 😂x
Just wanted to put a comment up to show another side to the coil. I went on my own when I was 18. It was completely fine. Little to no pain and after 5 minutes I was able to walk myself back to college and get on with my day. Overall so positive.
Yep, same for me both times I've gotten one. Everyone's different.
Haha I hate you for this! I couldn’t even move but I had to drive home!! No one ever told me it might hurt!’
Also if you want local anaesthetic it is normally available in the UK. Just need to ask as they don't always offer. Or phone before hand and ask if they will give it 😊 and in the UK we have merina and also the jaydess which is what I am on. And two versions of the copper iud. Just in case you didn't know 😊 wasn't told about the moon cup senario so that's made me slightly upset but I'm going to try to continue to use it anyway
IndieAppletree same got mine inserted and then went to a lecture no problem. Just felt like cramping for a short time.
Guess it really does differ from person to person. My GP is suggesting I go for the coil but I already have awful cramps so I don’t know man.
Great video! My story for those looking to read more experiences: I got the coil in March when I entered into a long term relationship. The pill had previously wreaked havoc on my digestive system and condoms weren't working for us so we decided on the coil as our best bet. Insertion was EXTREMELY painful (and I have a very high pain threshold.) I had to take the rest of the day off, but the next day was nearly back to normal. I had light spotting for 3 days. It took about 6 months for my body to get into check but BOY was it worth it. I have long, light periods about 45 days apart. Much better than my super heavy, painful, 25 day spaced ones. I did get some nasty breakouts on my face and back, which then went away after 4 months. That was tough, but I'm glad I battled through that part. The contraception part hasn't faltered. However it unfortunately has not helped my raging PMS which turns me into a massive b*tch for 2 days of the cycle, but I now track that using CLUE so I can at least warn my poor poor partner and try extra hard to be a good human. In summary girls - it was tough at first but I'm SO glad I've done it!
oh also, I felt like I was on a 2-week long 'fat day' with inflammation after insertion, but that cleared up and I didn't experience any weight fluctuations.
Thank you for sharing your experience!! Just to be sure, you got the hormonal coil, not the copper one?
oh hey lucy ! :D
I also had an extremely painful/traumatizing experience during insertion and after. Had I known it would be that painful, I never would have gotten it. I got the Mirena years ago, it is now about to expire so I'm thinking I will be brave and have it replaced with a copper one so that I can be hormone free. Even though it was so painful, it was entirely worth it for me and my partner.
Oh I know the PMS part too well 😂 So your not alone.
Ahhhhh this video made my uterus tingle! Which I don’t think makes sense because I can’t feel my uterus but ahhhh!!!!!
HannahLouisiana haha, yes!!
Makes sense as you can feel your uterus perfectly when you get the coil (yes, ough) hahahaha
HannahLouisiana me too hahaha
I can see it, close your legs
I have the copper coil & it's great! (I don't like having hormonal contraception) It hurt like HELL to get it fitted though, I didn't have a local anaesthetic and it was honestly the most painful experience I've ever had. To anyone considering either kind of coil: get the anaesthetic (!), especially if you've never had children/a smear test etc. The cramps were realllyyyyyy bad after, but my periods are getting less & less painful each month - apparently it takes a while to settle down. I recommend the copper one to anyone who has issues with hormones, it works great for me 💕
Quick followup question if you still have it: are your periods back to what they were before contraception or still heavier like everyone says? xx
Juliette Hamelle Hi! I do still have it, my periods are heavier but now they’re much shorter. I don’t know if that’s typical, but mine are now 2-3 days of heavy bleeding (cramps on the first day) and then nothing. They used to be around 5 days. So it’s definitely changed, but I’m not sure if it’s entirely due to the coil, or just changes as I age (I’m nearly 25). x
It makes sense that the cramps started when you just started walking. My period cramps always start about half an hour after I've gotten out of bed so I've been standing and walking around the house for a while. Suck that the painkillers didn't cover those cramps. :/
I love mine! I have exactly the same type and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The procedure was fine, and the cramps afterwords sucked but were manageable. I just took a regular dose of painkillers and slept most of it off. The confidence in my birth control, lack of side effects (acne, mood swings, etc.) and knowledge that I don’t have to think about it for years totally makes it worth it. Also really minimal periods, those are great too.
I want to quickly write a comment about the IUD and the way the procedure goes in the Netherlands as it is quite different. You need to see your GP and get tested for STI's. Only if you are cleared, you get your prescription to get the device at your local farmacy. You have to pay €140/150 for it, regardless of your health covering, so it is really pricey and not everyone will be able to get the IUD because of this. Inserting is recommended while on your period, as the cervix is a little more open to release blood and this might make it less painful. I had mine fitted in May and it has been great! No more periods for me and therefore, no more reason to use my beloved mooncup. Hope this helps some girls out as not all viewers are UK based :)
Sweet Suzie I'm from the Netherlands as well and 1) didn't get checked for STI's and 2) it was covered by my health covering, so this is not totally accurate either. I don't have periods anymore either though, so awesome
I'm from Norway, and it seems the system is more similar to how you do it in the Netherlands. I have scheduled a consultation for later today actually, but I am a bit disappointed in my doctor. Basically, she said she could even do it right away if I decided to, but I rang her back voicing my concerns that some women experience such bad cramps that driving may not be safe, and since I have a long way home I thought it best to wait until I could bring someone, and she said she had never heard of anyone getting bad pains after...! It's not that I'm afraid of the pain, but I want someone to tell me that it is normal so I don't freak out thinking I'm going to die if it happens! Imagine doing something at the doctor's office and halfway home you feel like a baby is coming out of you - if you didn't know that was normal and could happen (even if rare) I can't imagine anyone who wouldn't freak out.
Watching this after her 'trying to get pregnant' video and i can't even 😭
I got mine today! No anaesthetic, but the nurse, doctor and I discussed puppies as we waited for my cervix to relax and open up a bit haha :D
They should show you videos of like puppies and kittens...
Emma Lindvall we actually discussed this. The nurse remarked that they should have a picture or a video showing above you, on the ceiling, like at the dentist 😄
As someone who has an appointment booked for next month to get a coil fitted, this has been super useful and informative. I've had such a nightmare with cystic acne since changing from the combined pill to the implant (and soon after that I started the mini pill). I didn't know you could have local anaesthetic when having a coil fitted so that's really comforting to know. Have loved the Hormone Diaries series so much! Thank you Hannah 💖
I haven't personally gotten the coil but both my sister and my mother have. There symptoms were almost identical to yours, Hannah, with the exception of the fact that all of the menstruating women in my family have extremely painful cramps with every period so that aspect was, as I've been told, only slightly different. But they both felt weak and nauseas and had bad cramps that evening continuing on for the next couple of days with the cramps decreasing in intensity as time passed. They both recommend scheduling the procedure when you can take the rest of the day and at least one additional day off in order to cater to the symptoms and not cause yourself any extra discomfort. It was really awesome to see this video detail the process and the actual response! Thanks so much and I can't wait to learn more!
Really pleased to have this video after struggling with the pill too and having to get colposcopy treatment. Thank you for giving authentic advice that the doctors don't!
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This is perfect timing. I took the mirena coil about two weeks ago. I was also dieing from the pain and still went to class after that.. advice: never do that. I was the most depressed and non talkative person that day.
In Holland it is all done without the use of fingers. Its all done with plastic sticks... kind of things. They recommend to do it on the fifth or first day of your period so they can reach your womb easier.
Now I am experiencing bleeding and cramps for 2,5 weeks and still going. (Spoke to my doctor everything is okay. After 2 months they will recommend one month of taking the pill, to make the bleeding less). But I am interested if you (and others) also experience this.
Thankyou for posting these video series. It is really informative and nice to see someones experience and to have someone talk openly about it.
Sparkly greetings!!
Same in sweden, with the plastic insertion devices. but she did check the position of everything with her fingers first to make sure of the angle of the cervix and uterus. I was also told to do it while on my period since the cervix is a bit opened for natural reasons anyways.
this is quite funny. a clearblue pregnancy ad just came up before your video.. :D
I'm re-watching this while laying in bed recovering from my IUS insertion this morning! It hurt a bit but definitely not as much as I expected!
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My uterus hurts thinking about this
I have been thinking of getting the coil soon and watching this has put me in such ease!! I had watched other videos about other peoples experiences, but because I already watch your videos it just makes me feel better about it to hear about the experience from you!! Love you Hannah!!
I just want to say thank you so much for this video Hannah. I just got the mirena today and am in so much pain. Your doctors sound amazing, mine didn’t even tell me about cramping until I was in the room to get it. Thankfully I had remembered watching this video when it first came out and had my husband drive me to the appointment. What a good move! I’m currently rewatching this because I am in so much pain and it’s great to have the virtual company of someone going through the same thing
You got injections! No way!
I’ve had my coil for 6 weeks now and my god.
I had two days off work for it because of the cramps afterwards but they were actually okay to deal with. Just comfy clothes, warm heat pads and carbs.
but I had no injection (had it done through my GP), just numbing gel which by all accounts.... did nothing.
It was the most intense immediate painful cramp I have EVER felt whilst they were putting it in and I can’t even explain the feeling of someone poking around in your womb....
it sucked. I had a panic attack half way through and made it worse for myself and also didn’t eat before hand which did not help my blood sugars and made me feel sick.
BUT Now everything is absolutely fine, just some spotting while my body gets used to it.
But oooooh it hurt 😩
The Hormone Diaries is how I found your channel over a year ago when I stopped the pill at the same time as you, and this episode was one of the most interesting ones for me!! I don't need constant contraception right now but when I need it again I think I'll get the hormonal (or copper but afraid of the period) coil! Thank you for telling us about the whole process
Congrats on joining the coil club! Even after having a bit of a nightmare insertion and bad cramps after, I'm still really glad I got the (copper) coil. It's so easy just to forget about it and get on with life! took me a little while to get used to it, and stop worrying about it mostly after hearing lots of scare stories, but after having it a while I barely even think about it anymore. Hope it all works well for you! x
After watching this series I became really aware of the Hormones I was putting in my body each month. You empowered me to question this and I have since got the copper coil and its the best decision I've ever made. I can not thank you enough for inspiring young women to make these sorts of decisions x
I really appreciate your doing these kinds of videos. It's surprisingly hard, in my opinion, to find out what these kinds of things a re actually like to go through.
literally thinking about booking my appointment to get the coil as i saw this video pop up - this was super useful thank you. It was great to hear about the immediate side affects and the procedure itself. You've eased my anxiety now so I'll be booking my appointment in the morning
I love my IUD/coil! In the US it's standard to measure the uterus before insertion though. It was the most painful part. Hope it works out for you!
Marley King Yes! The measuring and stabilization of the cervix was definitely the worst part when I got mine inserted (aside from the horrific cramping afterwards). I wish I would have been able to getba local anesthetic.
Yep, that was the worst part for me. Still ultimately quick and doable, but yeah, that was more painful for me than the IUD going in.
YES! Specifically the second measurement lol. I clenched and gasped during that one and was afraid I had messed it up and asked the doctor if she was going to have to do it again. If she had said yes I would have walked out of the clinic lol.
I am booked in to have a Mirena coil fitted next week and this was super helpful, thanks Hannah! In the rural area I live in the clinic requires you to have a chatty appointment first before you can book to actual insertion. However the information given during that was mainly around how the coil works and whether it's a good contraception for you personally, so it was helpful to hear about the actual procedure and what to expect.
I set up my IUD appointment THIS MORNING and I just happened to get the notification about this video! Best of luck to you too!
this is by far my favorite series to watch.. do continue with guests tooo
I got my copper coil inserted in August. It was really good for about 2 months but then I had real problems with it. It moved from my uterus into my cervix and therefore wasn’t working anymore. I had it removed a couple of weeks ago and now I’m using natural cycles. I hope the coil works for you! 💕
I‘ve gotten the Mirena Coil twice now, so for about 5 years i‘m avoiding pregnancy with it 😄
I absolutely LOVE it.
Getting it inserted hurtes a little (smear test is a good comparison). I had no cramps, but a little weak both times I got it inserted.
I have no period anymore and i did not feel the coil ever since I got it.
❤️ Love you Hannah
Just to be clear, My Mirena is a little smaller and lasts only for 3 years, Not for 5.
This is the final push I needed to book an appointment, sick of taking the pill!
I got the mirena about a year ago. It was a horrendous insertion process. I didn't wait the recommended 5 minutes before standing up and got SUPER dizzy. I ended up vomming from the cramping pain after. It was only about half an hour of this and then I felt exhausted but for all intents and purposes FINE! I've had it for a year, don't get my period, and feel none of the hormonal side effects I felt with the pill and the ring. Not having to think about pregnancy prevention for five years is truly a blessing! Go IUD!!
I got the copper coil 3 months ago and it's such a great form for contraception. No fuss and no upkeep if it agrees with your body! And a relief not to have to worry about pregnancy or side-effects from hormones
Best timing for a video! I'm getting a coil fitted tomorrow evening. I've spoken to a few women at the office who have had them and their reaction was mainly "It's horrific, but worth it". Bit terrified, can't lie.
Oh no! I didn’t know that about the mooncup! I’m 18 and have used one for about 2 years and have had the copper coil for about a year and a half. I’ve never had a problem but that’s really interesting to know that it could become an issue! Thank you! I adorrree the hormone diaries!!!!!!
You are so thorough! I really admire how well you explain things, you're like the perfect teacher mum I've never had
Hahaha this came just in the right Time, i got my copper coil yesterday. I was given a pill by my doctor i took 4 hours before the insertion that was ment to soften my cervix.
The procedure itself was fine, on the scale of uncomfortable to a bit painful. I felt great. But when I got to the reception to set up a date for a check suddenly my circulation broke down very badly and I needed to lay down for a few minutes. When I finally got home I slept for 2 hours and since then everything's fine, no cramps, no pain, no painkillers 🙌
I got an IUD when I was 15 and a virgin. It's made periods much worse but I love it so much! I don't have to worry about pregnancy and insertion only hurt for about 10 seconds- not even that! I wasn't offered any anaesthetic and I took paracetamol after (that's what I was recommended), I had a dull cramp afterwards for a few hours but felt okay on my way home! I got it on the third day of my period; this was recommended as cervixes are more 'open' on period.
Would definitely recommend!
I love you, your videos and book Hannah! I adore the hormone diaries 😍😍💕
This was honestly so helpful and informative, much more than any nurses I've seen about contraception have been. Thank you!
Will you still be doing hormone diaries videos now that you’ve gotten the coil?
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16:14 she says she'll do a follow up in 3-6 months
Jessica Riedy yeah I wondered if she’d do any others besides a check in
She talked about this in the video about being back on the pill - basically she said that The Hormone Diaries will be less about her, and that she's going to have some guests - like the one with Alex and Jake and the one with Leena.
Emily S I sure hope so. Love this series. Even if she just does videos perhaps asking others about their hormonal journey or something. But yeah, at least we'll get an update on how she's finding the coil.
Thank you for sharing your experience! I was extremely helpful for me to know the details and how you felt. I am very scary of anything like this, but I know the importance.
I just got my second coil put in yesterday! I was previously on the copper one for 5 months then changed to the mirena yesterday. I bled every two weeks super heavily on the copper coil and used my moon cup constantly and everything was fine! All doctors etc that i asked said using the moon cup is totally safe as long as you check for the threads being wrapped around the cup before removal. So you are totally fine to use the cup!
And make sure to totally release the suction of the cup before pulling it out! That's how I accidentally removed my IUD--pulled out my moon cup even though it was still suctioned in.
You can also get the Jaydess coil, another type of hormonal coil which is slightly smaller than the Mirena; but only effective for 3 years
For anyone curious about the non-hormonal copper IUD. I am currently part of a blind study at Penn Uni, testing the American Paragaurd vs a smaller not yet FDA approved IUD. I, someone sensitive to hormones, and terrible at taking pills, love the copper IUD. For me the procedure was nearly painless. Lasted no more than 5 minutes and I was up and at home in no time. I had spotting for a day or two and light cramps a few hours later but nothing that had me bed ridden. My periods have always been light, and continue to be even on the IUD. Honestly I have no complaints about the copper IUD and highly recommend it.
I'm contemplating an IUD/Coil or the implant and I'm honestly terrified of the cramping pain. I can't wait to hear an update from you! I've heard both really good things and really bad things about IUD/coils.
Me too, although after seeing this video and hearing about the awful cramps I've ruled out an IUS or IUD, I'm leaning towards implant or Seasonale, I'd prefer no periods at all though but that's probably never gonna happen.
It's different for everyone. I had cramping during the procedure (but it was a fast procedure, so that didn't last long), but I had very little cramping afterward. I got it at my school's student clinic, and afterward I just walked back to my school building and went to class like normal. No issues. You just can't know ahead of time what your body will do.
I got the implant, which doesn't give you cramps. You're arm can hurt for a couple of days but that's it! I would recommend it, but it is different for everyone.
Kiana It's one day of bad cramps for potentially 5 years with no period or cramps at all. Yes that day is bad but really in the long term it isn't the worst thing, it is more than definitely worth it.
Really love the implant :)
I watched this video a few months back, i got the Mirena yesterday! I am 23 and never had a smear or anything, I didn’t have the anaesthetic and it is honestly the weirdest pain! It’s bearable if you take deep breaths so don’t be put off! Like you, The after part was the worst. The cramps are still going a day later, and it’s bad. But i think its worth it for the five year period you have it xxxxx
I got a kyleena iud inserted yesterday! I’m in Canada, and was able to get a prescription for one from my gp during my annual. The prescription was covered under my insurance (would have been 300-400$? otherwise). I took some midol beforehand. Hannah is right about the speculum being the worst part. I had a bit of freezing on my cervix (felt like a pinch) and then the insertion felt like a wave of cramps. Doc finished filling out my chart, told me how to check for the strings then sent me on my way! I was a little worried about it, but didn’t have any pain driving home. Have had some cramping since, but I’ve definitely had period cramps that hurt more. I took it slow for the afternoon but still went out with my parents last night and am up for work today!
They also had me do a urine test beforehand, I’m not sure what that was for 😂 perhaps sti testing? I may call and ask….
@@emilygray2025 Maybe pregnancy testing?
Yay! I am a coil-convert (I'm on my 2nd Mirena now). It feels odd (but appropriate) to say hope you love it as much as I do!
your experience of symptoms after the fitting sounds just like my monthly period pain :/ trying the combined pill and so far I've had the most pain free period ever, it's amazing!
I love this series so much. So much information which is so listenable! Just thank you Hannah!
so glad you've had a good experience with it! I got the copper coil in april '16. Literally the most painful experience of my life! I got the copper one because I've never had any problems with my periods before and wanted a non-hormonal method of contraception, so I decided having slightly heavier/more painful periods was the way to go. They were unbearable! Every period after that was excruciating and I could not function in daily life. After 18 months of trying to 'stick it out' I got it removed. Best decision I've ever made. It was annoying the my experience was so awful, because now I'm too scared to get the mirena coil, which I probably should have got in the first place!
I got the coil around 6 months ago now and I absolutely love it❤️ I hope everything goes okay for you and I admire you so much for doing this!!
Not all hope is lost for your mooncup! I have the copper iud and the fluercup and have used both together for six years. I had to adjust the way I removed it so that it wasn't literally suctioning everything but they can definitely work together if your comfortable with it. IUD + cup = dream no worries combo
I have the coil and had a very similar experience, the first couple of days were not fun (but I had my appointment on a Friday so could rest all weekend) but in the 10months that I have had it there hasn't been a single problem! And no period at all- so don't feel too sad about not being able to use the cup, you hopefully won't need it until the coil comes out!
I have a prescription for the coil and I've had it for like 6 months but I'm sooo scared to get it. But this video makes me feel muuuch more informed and ready for it, so I'll have to call my doctor soon and set up the appointment!
I'm a guy, but have always loved your openness and honestly when it comes to this series of the hormone diaries.. And as there is not an open subject for a guy to learn about this kind of stuff besides just doing research.. But as someone who finds maybe this will be helpful knowledge to have for a future potential girlfriend or wife, it has been really good to just watch this series and observe what you were going through.. As again, it is not an open conversation between guys, and besides having a Girlfriend or looming it up, it is not something that comes across very often
I love how honest you are. I’m currently on the Depo Provera injection which is my absolute saviour🙌🏼
Watching this is making me have flashbacks to my copper coil being inserted. Such a strange experience, literal shivers.
I have Mirena and I love it! I actually had it replaced last year after a good 5 year run with my first one with no periods or notable side effects. I also had no issue with insertion either time. My second time they actually showed me the first one once they took it out and the nurse waved it at me and said "say thank you for your service!" It was a weird clinic, but has been fine. So yay for being period and baby free since 2011!
Good luck Hannah! I went through getting the copper coil earlier this year and it was just...such a hassle. My body rejected it twice. I ended up getting the implant in my arm and so far that's worked for me 💗
I’ve had the copper coil for nearly three years now and it’s honestly one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I was on the pill for 2 and a half years and decided to change due to the effects the hormones had on me. Getting it put in was fine, uncomfortable but not painful, but I was pretty dazed and had significant cramping for the rest of the day
This settled down in a day or two. Whilst the first 5 months or so were occasionally very uncomfortable, the rest of the time I felt no significant side effects apart from slightly heavier and more painful periods (which have now lighten up). I feel I was incredibly lucky with my experience but from that, I can’t recommend the coil enough. It’s genuinely made my day to day life easier and much less stressful. I hope it works out the same for you!
I watched this video and many others before my insertion on my first copper coil (iud). I can not lie the pain of insertion was a lot and my doctor told me that’s common for women who haven’t experience child birth. I took paracetamol before insertion as suggested on this video but still the pain was so intense. The drive home hurt so I recommend making sure you have a day to yourself in bed if needed after insertion. For me the bleeding, pain and spotting was constant for 2 months and I felt so lost and down but I stuck with it and as the months went by I seen the benefits. Now a year in my skin is the same as before, my weight is the same, my mood is stable/ normal for me, my periods are every other month very minor pain and light bleeding which for me is so worth it
I got the coil in early october and hearing you say that the cramps after insertion are essentially contractions made SO much sense to me i was pacing in pain and had to leave a seminar because of it and now i know i wasn’t just being a wuss about it 😩 i’ve had pretty steady spotting ever since it being put in but this week it’s eased off and i’m praying that’s the end of any bleeding for a long time. i’m really interested to see if you can always feel the strings because i’m pretty sure mine keep bunching up at the top out of reach 🤔 anyway keep it up with the hormone diaries it’s the only youtube series i really eagerly watch and love your approach to contraception and sex ed!
Perfect timing - just recently been considering the copper coil and have an appointment to explore my options at the clinic next Monday!
Hannah, it was definitely this video that made me decide to go and get the coil, so thank you for sharing your experience. I have just had an IUD (copper) fitted this morning, and have had a really great experience having it fitted. It was obviously uncomfortable, but if the idea of the fitting is putting anybody off then I personally don't think it should. If you breathe through it, and don't panic its all over in 5 minutes. Obviously I can't speak for everyone's experience, but I had a great experience and wouldn't dissuade anybody from having it done.
I wish my dr had offered local anaesthetic - it was the most painful thing I’ve ever felt having it put in 🤮
Cassie Goldsmith If you’re in the UK, you mostly have to ask or they won’t give it to you. I had the coil put in when I was 18 and had my first (and only) boyfriend, it was not incredibly painful despite the fact that I didn’t have any injections. It was actually more painful taking it out a couple of years later when I found out I was a lesbian and didn’t actually need (or really want) the coil any more. This time they didn’t even offer anaesthetic and it hurt me so much, which might have been because it has to come out every three years and I was taking it out after two. My periods changed wildly for about 6-8 months then went back to normal afterwards.
Had kind today and agree I've had plastic surgery and the coil defo topped my pain
Meeee tooo
Oh poor Hannah, you are so brave! Lots of love from Poland xxx
The Mirena unfortunately did not work for me due to continuous pain, and I got it removed after four months. I have now been using Cerazette for almost two months and I'm very pleasantly surprised by it :)
Thanks for shedding light on these topics - crossing my fingers the coil continues to agree with your body!
So happy I found this video! I'm getting the Marina coil inserted in a weeks time so was great to hear a little experience before hand!
4:23 "Who knew not getting pregnant would be this hard" I learned how to fit a coil back in 198, then a young doctor. It's not that easy for some male doctors to do this because we have to confront our own feelings about learning about women's parts but I wanted to give my patients the best of help, to be gentle and to be expert.. NHS "Guidelines" stopped me fitting coils after many, many years of experience because I did not fit more than ten a year in my practice. I've left the NHS now and agree with your comments that it is hard to like the NHS sometimes.
Knew you'd end up getting it - your process of picking it over a few months was the same as mine before I got it. Good on ya girl.
Sorry you had so much trouble booking your appointment! I had the copper coil inserted at the beginning of this month and my doctor made it such an easy experience. I spoke to her over the phone about it and she gave me all the info I needed and then she inserted it herself! The experience was SO painful but after about 10 days I had no pain anymore!
I've had the coil, it took a 1.5 hours to be put in and was so so painful, however been so worth it! highly recommend!
Exactly the same experience with my Mirena. Insertion was fine and then it hit me with the worst pain of my life. But now it's great! I'm always shocked when I hear how British women don't go to their gynecologist regularly and get physically checked. In Germany most women have appointments at least once a year starting when they first want the pill. It always includes internal ultrasound and checking of the cervix.
i'm from germny too and i've never had the ultrasound, only a smear test and checking of the cervix
My experience with the mirena has been great! I had brain surgery 5 years ago which meant I couldn’t use the pill anymore - I then spent ages like you trying different things, and my doctors always viewed getting the mirena as a total last resort. Turns out it’s the best and I really think it should be higher up on lists of potential contraception rather than being seen as an ‘if all else fails’ option. For me it’s the freakin bomb!
I had a sense of euphoria after getting the IUD in where I wanted to talk to everyone about it and was so happy for abou 15 minutes then I crashed when I got home and didn’t leave the couch the rest of the afternoon
Great video Hannah! So proud of you for getting the coil!
I think it is interesting that you weren't required to be on your period when you had the coil inserted. I live in the US and received my care from Planned Parenthood, and they required I be on my period when I got the coil in. This made it tricky when I hadn't started it by the date of my appointment because I was so stressed about HAVING TO BLEED, thankfully they let me come back a few days later when it started. I also wasn't offered local anesthetic, but just took some very strong painkillers and I was totally fine until about an hour after I got home.
Also, in regards to menstrual cups and coils: there is a risk of dislodging your coil if you use a moon cup or diva cup but it isn't the end of the world! What matters is that you break the seal of your cup before you pull it out so the suction doesn't disrupt the coil, thats what I was told by the Nurse Practitioner at Planned Parenthood. One of my friends has had the copper coil for 8 years and she uses her diva cup every month with no issues.
Anyways, good luck with your coil and very happy for you that you got it sorted, agree having that everyday stress go away is lovely! xoxo
I just want you to know this is my favourite series on RUclips!!
First off, well done getting a coil! I really hope you end up liking it. I got the copper coil about a year ago. Insertion was uncomfortable and I experienced cramping. I also felt lightheaded and faint so had to stay sitting for 15 mins. Eventually left and got home. The cramps I experienced for the next 24 hours were excruciating. I couldn’t get out of bed and was unable to eat anything without fear of throwing it back up. The bad cramping got a little better but persisted for about 5 days. After that, everything was ok. Every period for the first 6 months was very painful and I even thought of getting it out a few times. But I persisted because I knew I needed to give my body the right amount of time. It’s been a year now, and I don’t have any of the painful cramping with my periods anymore. It’s truly an amazing option and I do recommend it to every woman - even if I did have a peculiarly rare and horrid experience.
I'm thinking of getting the coil so it was great to watch this! Hope the pain/cramps go away!
Such a helpful vid Hannah! excited to see how you get on with the coil & thanku for sharing your experience with us !!
I have the copper coil and I love it, It's great not having to think about taking pills! I've had it for about a year now and although random cramping wore off after a few months it's increased the intensity of my period cramps which isn't great but I feel like it's worth a few days of pain to not have to think about contraception for 5 years. My local clinic didn't offer anesthetic when I got it inserted so I felt all the pain and it hurt a lot! I was panting and sweating and squeezing the nurse's hand and afterwords I asked if that was what labor was like haha, but again, 100% worth it! Hope you enjoy your coil :)
i got on the coil three years ago, and it was HELL for the first two months. never been in so much pain in my life
but now i wouldnt change it for the world!
Yay! I’ve had a Mirena for a few years. Whenever friends complain of period related annoyance, I smugly say I don’t even need to buy sanitary products anymore.
P.s I’m pretty sure the coil and Mirena (a brand of IUD) are two separate things.
Ooof agree with you about the pain after the fact - mine was soooo intense for a week and then went back to normal cramps for a week or so. After having had it for a couple years though - SO worth it!! Easiest birth control ever :) xo
I got the copper coil inserted back in April before work. I found that the first period that I got was really heavy and the cramps that came with it were really painful. Now, they don't hurt at all (or if they do they're just like normal deal-able cramps).
P.S. I love the hormone diaries, they're so informative and good to listen to.
I got the Lyletta coil last December and I am so in love with it. The entire insertion process took about 5 minutes and wasnt very painful. I had some cramping for about an hour or 2 afterwards but that was about it.
Coil club! Mines the copper one- you’re right, my period was AWFUL when I first got it. It’s been about 5 months now and it’s FINALLY going back to normal so all is good 🙌🏻 I don’t want kids ever so that’s why I went for copper. 10 years!
Well done and welcome to the Mirena club! Fun times with hormones(is the sarcastic title of my future autobiography)!
I got mine inserted in July, less painful than I thought it would be (I read some horrible stories, of course). My doctor told me that the injection of the anaesthetic is equivalent to the actual pain that I would be experiencing, so I decided to go without. Cramping and bleeding for around 2ish months, then slowly got lighter. I was having trouble with BAD cramps before the coil, so Mirena was also a way to stop THAT happening(and it has, great success). Five months in, pretty settled, although not amazing in the pH department and not sure if my cycle is a thing at all thus far(so never sure if I am feeling strange for cycle-related reasons). My boobs have also decided that they are going through another growth spurt, which is somewhat annoying, but not the end of the world. Win some, lose some, I suppose. Hopefully, that'll also settle soon. Look forward to hearing about your experience! :)
As someone who got a surprise IUD today, I really appreciate this video 😢
this made me consider getting a coil myself, thank you for talking so openly Hannah!
Just got my coil put in on Wednesday and it is so cool that this came out around this time!
I totally feel your pain! I was exactly the same after the mirina, and then walked out of the clinic and literally thought I was going to faint!! The cramps took a few weeks to go but 6 months on its the best decision I have ever made!! Just persevere with the cramps in the mean time as they do get much better. I also found emotionally I feel much calmer and less anxious than when I was taking the combined oral pill, even my partner has noticed a difference so thats got to be a positive :) xxx
I appreciate this series so much. Thanks, Hannah!
I was really surprised that your insertion wasn't painful, because mine was hands down the worst pain of my life. But then when you said you got local anesthetic that explained it. I feel like that should be emphasized more, because if I hadn't experienced so much pain during insertion I would recommend it much more highly. But, still worth it since it'll be in for 5 years.
I got the cooper coil in August. I really love it!! During insertion and for the rest of the day after, it was extremely painful and I had to come home from work. But after that, I felt totally fine. I had light bleeding for around 5 days after. My first period also was extremely painful and very heavy, but now it is much better. It is still heavy, but not as painful. It’s great just having something in there that means you never have to think about contraception again! I highly highly recommend it. Oh and I’m 18 in case anyone else is looking to get the coil that’s around my age 😊
This was so helpful, I've had it recommended to me by my GP so was doing some research and this helped so much.
Great information! Love talking about this. I got the copper IUD (we call it that in the US) twice. The first time, I was 20. I took a prescription pill before to relax the cervix and had another for pain after. I had terrible cramping and bleeding for nearly 4 months straight. It would lighten up but then start all over again. I also started reading online about experiences with IUD but got onto some sites that shared some terrible stories! Stuff like infertility and the IUD getting stuck in a fallopian tube! So I got it taken out and got nexplanon put in. Flash forward 5 years, I had continuous bad/uncomfortable reactions to most hormone-based birth control so I started researching the copper IUD again since it is hormone free. Talked to my doctor and we decided it was the best choice for me and my goals. Went into the appointment with Tylenol in my system and just kept up with Tylenol, raspberry leaf tea, and heat for the next month ish. At first there was pain but nothing compared to before. This pain continued for maybe a month on and off but I think by month two I was feeling normal. I am 9 months out and I love my copper IUD! I have regular periods again with the average flow with regular amounts of cramping. No side effects to do with the IUD at all actually. I was surprised that they recommend not to use a moon cup! I've been using mine consistently for the past year and everything is still in place. Maybe its something to do with suction? But I feel pretty confident to avoid that kind of situation. So same person, two IUDs, two VERY different experiences. No babies! :)