Seems like a lot of people are missing the point of the video. He's not saying psychology is wrong, he's saying psychology which removes Allah from the equation - ie modern psychology which looks to using drugs and therapy as the first solution - is the problem. So then you get all these people with the most rudimentary knowledge spreading misinformation and diagnosing people left and right - including themselves - with this toxic trait or that mental illness without the full scope of the issue. And it's true bc look how many people are suffering from mental health issues bc they've turned away from Allah, don't wanna follow His commands and then end up taking wrong paths and ruining their lives and those of people around them. We need to turn back to Allah when we need help. If getting medical help is the best option for our situation, Allah will guide us to that. If it's something we need to change in our own perspective or lifestyle, He will guide us to do that instead. Modern psychology isn't necessarily the first step, especially when so many people abuse and misuse it for gain today. (I'm not hating on psychology in general bc Allah even teaches us about the psychological state of humans and what happens when we neglect worship of Him in the correct ways)
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt. We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
Just like his pop culture like teachings? No researxh, no actual mean of gaining his knowledge just his confabulation of thoughts and opinions for what he FEELS is accurate, misleading and misinforming, thru his means of presentation and articulating it to be pleasing.
⚠️⚠️TITLE IS MISLEADING⚠️⚠️ it should be "pop psychology is a scam", not the field of psychology as a whole. Not every single psychologist on the planet thinks the exact same way, as Nouman is describing. There are so many Muslim psychologists who are greatly knowledgeable.
Exactly. Iv heard him talking about it differently.. this is just few mins of full video. Very misleading... He has even asked to go to doctors /expert psychologists/psychiatrists when we need them ..
Allahu akbar, I was sceptic at first by reading the title, but the way he explains it shows a truth that truly hurts for the non believers, how can you be guided without Allah ? How can your hapiness be forever when the core of everything in this life is to end ? I'm actually experiencing a Big depression since one or two years I think, I never got to a psychologist, I dont want to take pill as they can hurt me, but I feel better now by simply doing two things : Taking my time in Salah, putting effort into it, And Reading Quran until I feel the urge to open it, Elhemdulillah, Allah guides who he wants and misguides who he wants, and he is the way to success. ❤️❤️ Take care of you and be with Allah as he is always here for you ❤️
You are talking about a psychiatrist, those aren't interested on the clien, only on selling. It isn't the same as a psychologist as the other comment said. Greetings
As a Muslim majoring in psychology, I couldn't agree with the content of the video more (not the misleading title, haha). I believe psychology, when applied properly, can work harmoniously with faith. Pop psychology has definitely led to misinterpretations of psychological teachings via people who don't really know what they're talking about, and it's no surprise that in an individualistic society, people will take psychological practices/habits that can (and should!) otherwise help people and abuse them for self-serving purposes.
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
Wrong Interpretation about Ustaz Nouman.. He just want to supreme Al Quran which is words of true God, Allah SWT over psychology.. Yes indeed psychologyg good for a certain way but as Muslim follow Quran guidance with a proper teaching from Muhammad SAW is the best method.. Its overpowered western method (psychology) which is maybe fall for 2nd rank after Quran guidance as a first rank. Its true indeed. Which guidance is the best, Quran miraculous(Allah word) or human word/method?
It’s not about pleasure. It’s about understanding and growth. Growing in relationships… especially that within your faith. As I knew Muslim, I find it disturbing to see how looked-down upon psychology is. As in every industry, you have to be cautious who you listen to but sweeping statements demonizing mental help is extremely problematic. The majority of Muslim women I know are depressed and on medication and the Muslim men refuse to do any therapy and look at their feelings and actions. It’s quite sad.
This video came out at the right moment for me. I’ve really been trying to be more kind and loving but I recently discovered that I was emotionally unavailable and I had issues with being vulnerable in front of my beloved ones so I couldn’t says what I wanted to say even if a wanted to hug them I wouldn’t be able to do it. The psychology aspect has really help me but they said to cure you childhood emotional and touch neglect you have to give it to your self. But I thought that Allah is the one who can cure me, he is the one who would give me love, care, empathy without asking anything back he is the most reliable source of comfort and love and that’s when for the first time I felt the love of Allah DEEP inside my heart. I do have some other issues to fix and I really want to find the balance between psychology and Islam😭. May Allah bless you for reading until the end 😘 May Allah make it easy for us to cure our traumas and bring us closer to him Ameen 🌸🤲🏾
Slightly misleading title - he never specifically said that psychology itself will misguide you. It's just that the way it's being used by the masses for the last few decades or so have been very commercial-ish and is very destructive.
But with half cooked knowledge by non professionals who are trying to solve peoples problems by selling psychology as a whole sum of every possibility and purposes
Oh my God , this video made me realize , how I chose wrong people to be around after moving to Europe - that’s are 100% what Noman is talking about - Toxicity, boundaries , selfishness , I will get what I want , my happiness is above all , oh my God , on my God - this video is such a wake up call for me 🌼🍀❤️
Which is in the end making people more depressing because they are cautious of little things about human behavior they are not only destroying their own mental peace but also of others around them.
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt. We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
Psychology isn't necessarily following your emotions but rather understanding them. It's also not just the study of your emotional processes but also your logical ones. It could be used wrong but advising against it should be said with much more nuance
Agree 100%. Ironically enough, he is also acting somewhat in the same way as the people he is criticising- talking about a vast subject as a layperson. Maybe he talks about it more in the original longer video but this short clip absolutely lacks nuance. So many Muslims avoid getting mental health help because stigma + they are fed so much misinformation about psychological help and this short clip even though made a few valid points, lacks depth and nuance and adds to the problem. In my opinion. As a psychologist :)
@@mahnoor2775I think he’s trying to make a case of people who victimise to avoid accountability but that has nothing to do with psychology, it’s not psychology fault, these guys are ignorants anyway
When your heart is properly linked with Allah , it never misleads you , even what you think is a mistake is usually just a plan to prepare you for the bigger picture
OMG! He's so right. Everything nowadays is about feelings and trauma, Thank God I gave up on all that energy and universe crap, I was so misguided and mislead.
As a Muslim, I think what you are saying is quite absurd. Religion does not give you solutions to deal with your pain instantly. And unfortunately, when you suffer from various types of abuses as a kid, this changes your neurons in a very adverse way, that sometimes takes so many years to get over. The Qur'an never said that science is incompatible with religion ;on the contrary, it teaches you to seek knowledge. Psychiatry or the science of the human brain is a science. And the human brain is so complex that obviously you will need to find the underlying reasons of your mental state, and your attitude /conduct.
He didnt denounce psychology itself. He criticized the modern psychology by taking God out of the equation entirely. He said that psychology should include God in its equation. Not that psychology and God are incompatible
@@sarfarazhassan1334yes it is.. but that doesn't change who she is. Name is just an identification..your identity is what you are not what your name is
WOW thats so true ! Subhan Allah ! I never thought about that in this way. Wow. Baraka Allahu Feek for this Video. May Allah bless and protect our Brother Nouman. Amin !
the title is misleading lol psychology itself will not misguide nobody. it's simply a branch of knowledge that's studying human behaviour/ thought processes etc in order to understand human better thus creating a better life for human being. NAK never says that psychology gonna misguide you. if you're not learning it properly from authentic sources duhhh that's a no brainer.
Half videos made me think he is talking bullshit but the 2nd half of the video has completed the image, he is absolutely right. Being born here living this life doesnt mean that you have to do everything just to make urself feel better. Accepting the realities of life the way they are is required a lot of times. Always trying to feel better or good is something that ruins alot of things in life, its not a solution
As a student of psychology currently at my 6th semester and i think Muslims should approach psychology with care and wisdom Instead of rejecting it completely or accepting it without questions we must try to combine it with the guidance of Islam. As a Muslim psychologist we can play an important role in bridging the gap between science and faith, creating a mental health care model that cares for the mind, body, and soul while keeping the ultimate goal of pleasing Allah in focus. And i personally think true happiness and peace don’t come from worldly things or focusing only on oneself, but from submitting to Allah and living life according to Islam
Psychology that QURAN tells about humans is enough for us. Btw I'm not talking about medicines but just human psychology and it's phycological solutions.
No, it is not. Ideally psychology has to be derived from the sources of Quran and sunnah primarily. But we can use any other psychological technique and therapeutic technique that aligns with Islam. Psy from the Quran is not enough exactly the way medical science from the Quran is not enough.
he's talking logic bro, Qur'an is the mainly the book for hidayah of humans, not for psychology or medicine some verses might have those topics but he's talking about details
He has missed the point totally. Allah is never removed from the equation- thus is misguiding others I am a clinical psychologist and have come closer to my Deen since qualifying and practicing psychology I feel he needs to get his facts and remove his bias against the subject
He is criticizing Pop Psychologists and not professionals like you. Probably you didnt bother listening to whole thing because the misleading title turned you off (rightfully). I was shocked by the title too.
Feelings are important, but there is wisdom underlying our feelings. That's what Buddha and wisdom traditions across the world taught. Psychologists get stuck on the feeling level.
Why do we jump to extremes and never wish for a holistic approach to things? I have watched a few videos of Nouman and have liked them but I find this one extremely misleading and ironically- misguiding. A comment says that he has been severely depressed was considering to go to a psychologist but was sceptical about having medicines and now after watching this, he won't. This is what the problem is with this video. Where that person could have gone for therapy (non pharmaceutical treatment) along with Namaaz and Qur'an , he dropped the very idea of visiting a psychologist. Again Ironically-Nouman himself hasn't researched about Psychology, doing exactly what the 18 y/o kids making RUclips videos without proper research are doing. Psychology is not the science that is talking about "Feel good" or "Be happy" or "Pleasure seeking". What you are talking about is called Hedonism not Psychology. And if you were talking about the people who spread misinformation about psychology, and not psychology itself, then the video title is extremely misleading.
He's not condemning psychology itself. But highlighting the sickness of "modern psychology" that focuses solely on the self, which removes Allah SWT from the equation.
@@miakamei1751 Psychology or science in general doesn't include God. If you want God to be included in every topic like a participation trophy stick to religious studies.
Psychology is not a science. It is not based on facts and the analyses of different Psychology enthusiasts may not be consistent. It is a concept of studying the human mind based on opinions, not facts. The only thing useful about Psychology is the introduction of terminology for different behaviors. But the set of behaviors which are defined by these terms, too, may lack consistency.
Psychology debates it's Science or Religion to understand people emotions. From Science perspective, mental disorders are caused by brain chemicals imbalance. Where else Religions look at much deeper insight; spirituality; inside the heart. The condition of the heart then shown by the behavior. And there is a study of Behaviorial Science.
According to Hollywood, the purpose of life is happiness. In actuality the purpose of life is the obedience of Allah (the creator). Which ultimately leads you to the eternal happiness of achieving jannah but not before going through the test of life in this world. Psychology is just another tool to achieve “happy life” removing God out of the question crossing the boundary of haram and halal which in actuality is the message of western psychology, isn’t it!
yeah, BEFORE I watch mr. Nouman talk about this, I'm already start feeling like this, I feel, I can almost diagnose myself with this with that with this with that, I start to "distancing" what I think "problem", yeah, mr. Nouman right, I was distancing myself with "harsh-truth", when I start not to self diagnose myself with these kind of lgbt-thing jargons, I start to "brave" to take an actions, take challenges, not too afraid to act to someone, now, the person who can "diagnose" myself is professional psychologist, not myself (now I'm not too interested with psychology), and I feel great about it
Self-care is not arrogance. Drawing boundaries is not bad ahlaq. Psychology never really say you can feel good all the time but it tells you to hug the uncomfortable. The feeling is not the God in psychology but it is a natural mechanism (Given by God of course) that directs us in situations and this mechanism generally has a good point (even though we don't understand at the time). This speech is just wrong all the way. Some people may be using pop psychology but how do you know that is the case? Maybe you are really being narcissistic to them and you have no idea. But maybe NAK is the one who is THE expert of all sciences, and I am the one who should be ashamed of herself 😂😂😂
As someone who studied psychology for a few years at university I wholeheartedly agree. Yes there is some interesting information about the development of the mind, but it gets to the point where they teach you that "gender fluidity" is an important scientific principle, and you have to treat it as fact
@@saudbassier9689 They used to consider gay people mentally ill on the DMS5 but since they had to remove it they are scared of getting acussed harshly and wont investigate the mind on those topics
Ustaz please answer i used to be a very forgiving person and tried not to hurt to anyone to try and please Allah i ended up with depression and so much anxiety and very bad self esteem, i want to be religious but the expense seems to be my mental health and i cant do that. Give me advice
Psychology is the science of the mind, not the brain. Big difference. Brain is an organ just like other organs of the body doing its designated role. If there was no mind every individual would be a xerox copy of the other.
What's he actually talking about is pop psychology which isn't really psychology. It's ppl with little knowledge of a topic making media content for popularity and that content either is false or not the whole story. Biggest example of this is "anxiety attack", there is no such term in the clinical psychology field.
Why does it matter when people are experiencing anxiety attacks and look for ways to fix it? Aspergers syndrome was removed as a diagnosis as well and now only falls under autism but there is a huge difference between autists and asperger autists. There are people who have been in therapy (with the experts) for years without benefiting and then after watching one video or buying on course or reading one book etc from a non-expert who make instant progress in their healing journey.
@bellak2140 that highly depends upon individual differences and the 'experts' they've met. Unfortunately, people tend to look for personal benefits over others well being, as a result, therapists tend to prolong sessions to earn extra money. Such people aren't experts nor the ones who can't extend therapy timings to adjust a patient. As for the categorisation of a disorder, this is something that changes over time. Researchers and professionals always debate on which symptom or disorder should fall under which category. You are right that aspergers syndrome and autism do have their differences, but they have more common ground. And whether or not they should be put under the same category is still an ongoing debate. And ppl do benefit from those courses and social media content and may showcase immediate effect,but it all comes down to individual journey. Perhaps they've found a temporary cure but still haven't resolved the deep, conflicting darkness. Either ways, if everyone starts stuff like this and not once consider professional help, it could create a toxic trend where influencers can use this weakness for their own promotion
If psychology removes someone's belief system then its not proper psychology. Blaim people but not the subject... This subject heals people every single day…
If you just dont get threatened by the title and actually listen to him, you'll understand he literally solved all modern problems with this 3 min vd. People nowadays are soooo misguided and forgot how to differentiate between right and wrong only bcz how they feel
Islam is our guide,we can learn Islamic psychology,our religion always comes first. I like sister Yasmin’s lectures and also Nouman Ali Han‘s Islamic psychology. (We should learn psychology from trusted sources.)👍
My question to people who give therapy to others is - How are you doing in your life? How is your relationship with others? How is your marriage? How is your relationship with your children and parent going? If you are not doing great yourself , then do not counsel others with your own brand of psychology that you learned by going to the community college.
I think the main problem of the current state of psychology, is that it either aims to satisfy that drug-addict mentality of "feeling good" at all costs, or aims to turn the person into a happy corporate slave, a lot of time perverting or oversimplifying spiritual teachings.
Please correct the title .NAK is criticizing pop psychology or amateur content creators. He isn't criticizing the genuine ones. There are lots of muslim psycologist by the way.
His right very very right because psychology is something that his is own and our deen has its own rules so we must see and research our deen first than look at psychology and use it in a way that is permissible our deen comes first than psychology second than if psychology does not go according to our deen we leave it if it is we take and use it carefully our comes first every time because it's the only God the true God Allah
There’s is growing muslim psychology field which is very in line in finding life problem according to Islamic teachings . However psychology in itself is scientific in the approach but it’s as well heavily influenced by western cultural biases. There is book by Sudanese psychologist malik badri dilemma of Muslim psychologist very interesting about this topic
I ,too, feel like that ,though it interests me(the psychology).Just trying to live like the Prophet peace be upon him ordered Momins is the salvation from perplexity and costly/hard-researched tools/techniques ther are to it. As a tool for a professional human curer, it might be an aid in his quest for curing the patient. Probably the first psychiatrist Alshaykh AlRaees Abu Ali Ibn-e-Sina told that some illnesses are related to mind and should be cured via proper verbal communication with the patient.
Mr Nouman Ali, with all due respect, I really dont think that you have ever listened to a true Psychologist yet. What I mean by that is if you really came across one, you will realise that Psychology itself actually makes you realise about the One Supreme Power, which if all human beings trusted in, they would actually find peace within themselves. All the famous Psychologists around the world have studied the Bible deeply and they all believe in God.
Controversial. Dismissing emotions and feelings is not the key, given you cannot prove Gods existence with reason and logic. Hence, people CHOOSE to believe or not in God based on how they feel, not on logic alone.
This is not helpfull for people with depression or burn out to come to mental health care. In arab culture there is a shame already and people come to me secretly for help when depressed
My 3 months old daughter is highly sensitive. Research says that these kids will have high tantrums and they'll be always not emotional resilient. But they're empathetic and kind people too. Please tell me about highly sensitive people if you know about it. How can I upbring my daughter.
by not asking that to a dummy who just cares about his dreamfriend. psychology that he bullshetted is the solution. speak to psychologists. not mindless book holders.
It's only that people think that Psychology is more accurate than Quran. Quran is about all animals, plants, earth and everything interacting with human beings including its psychology. Every person has its own juz in Quran. Each surah can have psychology meaning for each person.
I have some background in psychology and I can see the brother doesn’t have a reasonable hold on psychology. His argument is also flawed about science that is devoid of god. Science works and that’s all that science needs to do. The ‘hawa’ that the brother quotes is in reference to the lower impulses or man, not his aspirations or values for happiness. The ultimate goal of psychology is not happiness, as he claims. Maybe he needs to refer to a definition. This is a big grievance against brothers who issue opinions about science with no qualifying study or experience. It goes to show that there’s an element of misplaced pride (arrogance) our scholars have in Quran and sunnah. That’s the realm of worship and human conduct. Not the realm of science.
Seems like a lot of people are missing the point of the video. He's not saying psychology is wrong, he's saying psychology which removes Allah from the equation - ie modern psychology which looks to using drugs and therapy as the first solution - is the problem. So then you get all these people with the most rudimentary knowledge spreading misinformation and diagnosing people left and right - including themselves - with this toxic trait or that mental illness without the full scope of the issue. And it's true bc look how many people are suffering from mental health issues bc they've turned away from Allah, don't wanna follow His commands and then end up taking wrong paths and ruining their lives and those of people around them. We need to turn back to Allah when we need help. If getting medical help is the best option for our situation, Allah will guide us to that. If it's something we need to change in our own perspective or lifestyle, He will guide us to do that instead. Modern psychology isn't necessarily the first step, especially when so many people abuse and misuse it for gain today. (I'm not hating on psychology in general bc Allah even teaches us about the psychological state of humans and what happens when we neglect worship of Him in the correct ways)
@@leirleoblivion exactly 💯
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt.
We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
he clearly states in the video that he is talking about POP Psychology. Stupid misleading title.
The thumbnail literally says "Psychology is a huge scam". Don't pretend you don't know what you're doing.
Just like his pop culture like teachings? No researxh, no actual mean of gaining his knowledge just his confabulation of thoughts and opinions for what he FEELS is accurate, misleading and misinforming, thru his means of presentation and articulating it to be pleasing.
⚠️⚠️TITLE IS MISLEADING⚠️⚠️ it should be "pop psychology is a scam", not the field of psychology as a whole. Not every single psychologist on the planet thinks the exact same way, as Nouman is describing. There are so many Muslim psychologists who are greatly knowledgeable.
I feel he’s just used his limited knowledge of psychology and ranted against a wide subject which he’s not read properly
It's marketing, some title are exaggerated in order to get the attention of the viewer and too often, IT WORKS.
Exactly. Iv heard him talking about it differently.. this is just few mins of full video. Very misleading... He has even asked to go to doctors /expert psychologists/psychiatrists when we need them ..
@@mahwashgaba8511 watch from around @1:54 he talks about people who make up things and label them as psychology. the title is indeed misleading.
oh really
Allahu akbar, I was sceptic at first by reading the title, but the way he explains it shows a truth that truly hurts for the non believers, how can you be guided without Allah ? How can your hapiness be forever when the core of everything in this life is to end ?
I'm actually experiencing a Big depression since one or two years I think, I never got to a psychologist, I dont want to take pill as they can hurt me, but I feel better now by simply doing two things :
Taking my time in Salah, putting effort into it,
And Reading Quran until I feel the urge to open it,
Elhemdulillah, Allah guides who he wants and misguides who he wants, and he is the way to success. ❤️❤️
Take care of you and be with Allah as he is always here for you ❤️
psychologist does not give pills.
You are talking about a psychiatrist, those aren't interested on the clien, only on selling. It isn't the same as a psychologist as the other comment said. Greetings
You mean psychiatrist?
howcome this question comes ..from where on earth which part of psychology
As a Muslim majoring in psychology, I couldn't agree with the content of the video more (not the misleading title, haha). I believe psychology, when applied properly, can work harmoniously with faith. Pop psychology has definitely led to misinterpretations of psychological teachings via people who don't really know what they're talking about, and it's no surprise that in an individualistic society, people will take psychological practices/habits that can (and should!) otherwise help people and abuse them for self-serving purposes.
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
Wrong Interpretation about Ustaz Nouman.. He just want to supreme Al Quran which is words of true God, Allah SWT over psychology.. Yes indeed psychologyg good for a certain way but as Muslim follow Quran guidance with a proper teaching from Muhammad SAW is the best method..
Its overpowered western method (psychology) which is maybe fall for 2nd rank after Quran guidance as a first rank. Its true indeed. Which guidance is the best, Quran miraculous(Allah word) or human word/method?
@@MsPeace-pd2nzyou provided zero reason or any logical refutation to his arguments.
Agreed 💯👍🏻
Modern psychology prefers the pleasure of the self over the pleasure of Allah!!
Edit: psychology is not bad in and of itself
Normal for humans
Oh no
Modern society is about hedonism
True
It’s not about pleasure. It’s about understanding and growth. Growing in relationships… especially that within your faith. As I knew Muslim, I find it disturbing to see how looked-down upon psychology is. As in every industry, you have to be cautious who you listen to but sweeping statements demonizing mental help is extremely problematic. The majority of Muslim women I know are depressed and on medication and the Muslim men refuse to do any therapy and look at their feelings and actions. It’s quite sad.
This video came out at the right moment for me. I’ve really been trying to be more kind and loving but I recently discovered that I was emotionally unavailable and I had issues with being vulnerable in front of my beloved ones so I couldn’t says what I wanted to say even if a wanted to hug them I wouldn’t be able to do it. The psychology aspect has really help me but they said to cure you childhood emotional and touch neglect you have to give it to your self. But I thought that Allah is the one who can cure me, he is the one who would give me love, care, empathy without asking anything back he is the most reliable source of comfort and love and that’s when for the first time I felt the love of Allah DEEP inside my heart. I do have some other issues to fix and I really want to find the balance between psychology and Islam😭. May Allah bless you for reading until the end 😘 May Allah make it easy for us to cure our traumas and bring us closer to him Ameen 🌸🤲🏾
Very well said, thank you for your comment.
May Allah bless you with peace and ease in your Heart, mind and life ❤
Slightly misleading title - he never specifically said that psychology itself will misguide you. It's just that the way it's being used by the masses for the last few decades or so have been very commercial-ish and is very destructive.
But with half cooked knowledge by non professionals who are trying to solve peoples problems by selling psychology as a whole sum of every possibility and purposes
The human mind is one of the most complex things, governed by mysterious and elusive rules...
Oh my God , this video made me realize , how I chose wrong people to be around after moving to Europe - that’s are 100% what Noman is talking about - Toxicity, boundaries , selfishness , I will get what I want , my happiness is above all , oh my God , on my God - this video is such a wake up call for me 🌼🍀❤️
Very interesting. Jazak'Allahu-khair for sharing
Which is in the end making people more depressing because they are cautious of little things about human behavior they are not only destroying their own mental peace but also of others around them.
Spot on with the emotional people!
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt.
We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
Feeling, émotions are ayat too... it's a sign that we must not ignore. Abd, narcissist and evil persons exist.
Psychology isn't necessarily following your emotions but rather understanding them. It's also not just the study of your emotional processes but also your logical ones. It could be used wrong but advising against it should be said with much more nuance
Agree 100%. Ironically enough, he is also acting somewhat in the same way as the people he is criticising- talking about a vast subject as a layperson. Maybe he talks about it more in the original longer video but this short clip absolutely lacks nuance. So many Muslims avoid getting mental health help because stigma + they are fed so much misinformation about psychological help and this short clip even though made a few valid points, lacks depth and nuance and adds to the problem. In my opinion. As a psychologist :)
@@mahnoor2775I think he’s trying to make a case of people who victimise to avoid accountability but that has nothing to do with psychology, it’s not psychology fault, these guys are ignorants anyway
When your heart is properly linked with Allah , it never misleads you , even what you think is a mistake is usually just a plan to prepare you for the bigger picture
OMG! He's so right. Everything nowadays is about feelings and trauma, Thank God I gave up on all that energy and universe crap, I was so misguided and mislead.
Trauma is not the same as the energy/law of attraction crap.
So legit and correct. May Allah SWT bless you and us all sir
As a Muslim, I think what you are saying is quite absurd. Religion does not give you solutions to deal with your pain instantly. And unfortunately, when you suffer from various types of abuses as a kid, this changes your neurons in a very adverse way, that sometimes takes so many years to get over. The Qur'an never said that science is incompatible with religion ;on the contrary, it teaches you to seek knowledge. Psychiatry or the science of the human brain is a science. And the human brain is so complex that obviously you will need to find the underlying reasons of your mental state, and your attitude /conduct.
He didnt denounce psychology itself. He criticized the modern psychology by taking God out of the equation entirely. He said that psychology should include God in its equation. Not that psychology and God are incompatible
Religion actually gives you a solution to these problems. You just haven’t searched for them
To add to the above points, having tawakkul gives you ultimate peace nomatter what the consequences are in sha Allah
@@sarfarazhassan1334yes it is.. but that doesn't change who she is. Name is just an identification..your identity is what you are not what your name is
@@saifaramor u r right
Wow.. never think of that. A reminder that all we need is Allah SWT.. ❤
ALLAH is the Most Loving❤
WOW thats so true ! Subhan Allah ! I never thought about that in this way. Wow. Baraka Allahu Feek for this Video. May Allah bless and protect our Brother Nouman. Amin !
the title is misleading lol
psychology itself will not misguide nobody. it's simply a branch of knowledge that's studying human behaviour/ thought processes etc in order to understand human better thus creating a better life for human being. NAK never says that psychology gonna misguide you. if you're not learning it properly from authentic sources duhhh that's a no brainer.
Just like his religious teaches, from questionable authentic sources.
@@AAdam2021really 😮
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
QURAN is the perfect cure for people✔️ The best therapy❤
It’s not perfect dude
It is very good
But not perfect for sure
ISLAM is the truth✔️ Listen to QURAN
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I’ve heard the Quran many times , nothing special bro , it’s just good
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Ok tell me what to say , il say that
We are infact helping you
It’s not good to be brainwashed
Extremely true fact of today's situation
I wouldn’t say that it is onesided like this. Psychology also teaches techniques to stay or become mentally sane that are also taught in Islam….
Jazallahu khairan for being the best guide Sir..
Sirrr.. you are absolutely correct but due to some minor causes u cannot nullify the whole discipline of psychology....
Half videos made me think he is talking bullshit but the 2nd half of the video has completed the image, he is absolutely right. Being born here living this life doesnt mean that you have to do everything just to make urself feel better. Accepting the realities of life the way they are is required a lot of times. Always trying to feel better or good is something that ruins alot of things in life, its not a solution
I couldn’t agree more. Accepting the reality either it’s good or bad is the key for better life
then agree that death İS end, and your arab god doesnt even exist. thats reality.
As a student of psychology currently at my 6th semester and i think Muslims should approach psychology with care and wisdom Instead of rejecting it completely or accepting it without questions we must try to combine it with the guidance of Islam. As a Muslim psychologist we can play an important role in bridging the gap between science and faith, creating a mental health care model that cares for the mind, body, and soul while keeping the ultimate goal of pleasing Allah in focus.
And i personally think true happiness and peace don’t come from worldly things or focusing only on oneself, but from submitting to Allah and living life according to Islam
Psychology that QURAN tells about humans is enough for us.
Btw I'm not talking about medicines but just human psychology and it's phycological solutions.
No, it is not. Ideally psychology has to be derived from the sources of Quran and sunnah primarily. But we can use any other psychological technique and therapeutic technique that aligns with Islam.
Psy from the Quran is not enough exactly the way medical science from the Quran is not enough.
Truee
@@shanzesalman5606who are you?
he's talking logic bro, Qur'an is the mainly the book for hidayah of humans, not for psychology or medicine
some verses might have those topics but he's talking about details
@@sabbirnoor4820 what do you mean??
He has missed the point totally. Allah is never removed from the equation- thus is misguiding others
I am a clinical psychologist and have come closer to my Deen since qualifying and practicing psychology
I feel he needs to get his facts and remove his bias against the subject
He is criticizing Pop Psychologists and not professionals like you. Probably you didnt bother listening to whole thing because the misleading title turned you off (rightfully). I was shocked by the title too.
He sounds like a pop scholar here himself
Feelings are important, but there is wisdom underlying our feelings. That's what Buddha and wisdom traditions across the world taught. Psychologists get stuck on the feeling level.
Why do we jump to extremes and never wish for a holistic approach to things?
I have watched a few videos of Nouman and have liked them but I find this one extremely misleading and ironically- misguiding.
A comment says that he has been severely depressed was considering to go to a psychologist but was sceptical about having medicines and now after watching this, he won't. This is what the problem is with this video. Where that person could have gone for therapy (non pharmaceutical treatment) along with Namaaz and Qur'an , he dropped the very idea of visiting a psychologist.
Again Ironically-Nouman himself hasn't researched about Psychology, doing exactly what the 18 y/o kids making RUclips videos without proper research are doing. Psychology is not the science that is talking about "Feel good" or "Be happy" or "Pleasure seeking". What you are talking about is called Hedonism not Psychology. And if you were talking about the people who spread misinformation about psychology, and not psychology itself, then the video title is extremely misleading.
Video titles on this channel are sometimes too far stretched. But the actual contents are usually good.
Agreed bro.But i think this was not the intention of Ustad Nouman
thank you for explaining. i was thinking the exact same thing. i feel like he might have misunderstood what psychology even is.
He's not condemning psychology itself. But highlighting the sickness of "modern psychology" that focuses solely on the self, which removes Allah SWT from the equation.
@@miakamei1751 Psychology or science in general doesn't include God. If you want God to be included in every topic like a participation trophy stick to religious studies.
Yes such is, and thank very much for Taken it público.
Peace is with You!!!☪️☪️
Psychology is not a science. It is not based on facts and the analyses of different Psychology enthusiasts may not be consistent. It is a concept of studying the human mind based on opinions, not facts.
The only thing useful about Psychology is the introduction of terminology for different behaviors. But the set of behaviors which are defined by these terms, too, may lack consistency.
Not all other sciences are based on facts only... most sciences are based on theories, which can be refuted by research...
❤ jazak Illah o Khairan. For guidance
Brilliant speech
This is extremely important
Pls Where can I find the full vedio?
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
Gaslighting is not telling the truth, it means lying confidently.
Couldn't agree more. Thanks
Psychology debates it's Science or Religion to understand people emotions. From Science perspective, mental disorders are caused by brain chemicals imbalance. Where else Religions look at much deeper insight; spirituality; inside the heart. The condition of the heart then shown by the behavior. And there is a study of Behaviorial Science.
According to Hollywood, the purpose of life is happiness. In actuality the purpose of life is the obedience of Allah (the creator). Which ultimately leads you to the eternal happiness of achieving jannah but not before going through the test of life in this world. Psychology is just another tool to achieve “happy life” removing God out of the question crossing the boundary of haram and halal which in actuality is the message of western psychology, isn’t it!
Yes
yeah, BEFORE I watch mr. Nouman talk about this, I'm already start feeling like this, I feel, I can almost diagnose myself with this with that with this with that, I start to "distancing" what I think "problem", yeah, mr. Nouman right, I was distancing myself with "harsh-truth",
when I start not to self diagnose myself with these kind of lgbt-thing jargons, I start to "brave" to take an actions, take challenges, not too afraid to act to someone, now, the person who can "diagnose" myself is professional psychologist, not myself (now I'm not too interested with psychology), and I feel great about it
As a Psychology major, I totally agree
Self-care is not arrogance.
Drawing boundaries is not bad ahlaq.
Psychology never really say you can feel good all the time but it tells you to hug the uncomfortable.
The feeling is not the God in psychology but it is a natural mechanism (Given by God of course) that directs us in situations and this mechanism generally has a good point (even though we don't understand at the time).
This speech is just wrong all the way.
Some people may be using pop psychology but how do you know that is the case? Maybe you are really being narcissistic to them and you have no idea.
But maybe NAK is the one who is THE expert of all sciences, and I am the one who should be ashamed of herself 😂😂😂
Sub Han Allah his point is so valid . Never thought that way but is true
Anytime there’s a misleading title the video should be reported and taken down
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Subhanallah
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As someone who studied psychology for a few years at university I wholeheartedly agree. Yes there is some interesting information about the development of the mind, but it gets to the point where they teach you that "gender fluidity" is an important scientific principle, and you have to treat it as fact
@@saudbassier9689 They used to consider gay people mentally ill on the DMS5 but since they had to remove it they are scared of getting acussed harshly and wont investigate the mind on those topics
Ustaz please answer i used to be a very forgiving person and tried not to hurt to anyone to try and please Allah i ended up with depression and so much anxiety and very bad self esteem, i want to be religious but the expense seems to be my mental health and i cant do that. Give me advice
Exactly why we need Muslim psychologist, psychological challenges can impact on the practicing of religion...
Psychology is basically the brain trying to figure itself out...
But when u have a Muslim male "scholar" think he knows it all
Definitely not... the human soul is definitely part of human behaviour whether western psychology recognises it or not! Muslim psychologist do...
Psychology is the science of the mind, not the brain. Big difference.
Brain is an organ just like other organs of the body doing its designated role. If there was no mind every individual would be a xerox copy of the other.
What's he actually talking about is pop psychology which isn't really psychology. It's ppl with little knowledge of a topic making media content for popularity and that content either is false or not the whole story. Biggest example of this is "anxiety attack", there is no such term in the clinical psychology field.
Why does it matter when people are experiencing anxiety attacks and look for ways to fix it?
Aspergers syndrome was removed as a diagnosis as well and now only falls under autism but there is a huge difference between autists and asperger autists.
There are people who have been in therapy (with the experts) for years without benefiting and then after watching one video or buying on course or reading one book etc from a non-expert who make instant progress in their healing journey.
@bellak2140 that highly depends upon individual differences and the 'experts' they've met. Unfortunately, people tend to look for personal benefits over others well being, as a result, therapists tend to prolong sessions to earn extra money. Such people aren't experts nor the ones who can't extend therapy timings to adjust a patient.
As for the categorisation of a disorder, this is something that changes over time. Researchers and professionals always debate on which symptom or disorder should fall under which category. You are right that aspergers syndrome and autism do have their differences, but they have more common ground. And whether or not they should be put under the same category is still an ongoing debate.
And ppl do benefit from those courses and social media content and may showcase immediate effect,but it all comes down to individual journey. Perhaps they've found a temporary cure but still haven't resolved the deep, conflicting darkness. Either ways, if everyone starts stuff like this and not once consider professional help, it could create a toxic trend where influencers can use this weakness for their own promotion
If psychology removes someone's belief system then its not proper psychology.
Blaim people but not the subject...
This subject heals people every single day…
Title is not what he is trying to say.. he is talking about the pop culture psychology.. he is right!
Both the video thumbnail and the title of the video are misleading. Psychology is not a scam and psychologists don't misguide people.
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You can hear people say no one derserve hell from them
It’s pretty simple. Narcissism creates craziness
I think everybody should listen the whole video
If you just dont get threatened by the title and actually listen to him, you'll understand he literally solved all modern problems with this 3 min vd. People nowadays are soooo misguided and forgot how to differentiate between right and wrong only bcz how they feel
Anyone can help? Where can I find the full version of this topic from Sheikh Ustaadh Nouman? This is a very important topic.
Search up "when our feelings become our God"
Jazak Allah khair
That's so true 👍
Amazing 👍👍👍
Islam is our guide,we can learn Islamic psychology,our religion always comes first. I like sister Yasmin’s lectures and also Nouman Ali Han‘s Islamic psychology. (We should learn psychology from trusted sources.)👍
2:58 Can someone provide me the verse number for Suratul Jathiya!
Verse no 23
Extremely waiting for @Tariq pathan sir one million followers...
My question to people who give therapy to others is - How are you doing in your life? How is your relationship with others? How is your marriage? How is your relationship with your children and parent going? If you are not doing great yourself , then do not counsel others with your own brand of psychology that you learned by going to the community college.
You speak the tru tru. You is smart person.
So True
I think the main problem of the current state of psychology, is that it either aims to satisfy that drug-addict mentality of "feeling good" at all costs, or aims to turn the person into a happy corporate slave, a lot of time perverting or oversimplifying spiritual teachings.
Conquer the mind. You will have control of person
Ulema's son committed suicide, he's having mental health issues for a decade. Only God is One , unequalled.
My own psychologist pointed out i needed purpose
Psychology focuses on the mind. While Allah tells us to focus on our hearts and He Himself talks about our heart
Please correct the title .NAK is criticizing pop psychology or amateur content creators. He isn't criticizing the genuine ones. There are lots of muslim psycologist by the way.
Amazing
Assalamualaikum wrt
Do look into "economy"?
His right very very right because psychology is something that his is own and our deen has its own rules so we must see and research our deen first than look at psychology and use it in a way that is permissible our deen comes first than psychology second than if psychology does not go according to our deen we leave it if it is we take and use it carefully our comes first every time because it's the only God the true God Allah
There’s is growing muslim psychology field which is very in line in finding life problem according to Islamic teachings . However psychology in itself is scientific in the approach but it’s as well heavily influenced by western cultural biases. There is book by Sudanese psychologist malik badri dilemma of Muslim psychologist very interesting about this topic
The title should be When your feelings become your god
I ,too, feel like that ,though it interests me(the psychology).Just trying to live like the Prophet peace be upon him ordered Momins is the salvation from perplexity and costly/hard-researched tools/techniques ther are to it. As a tool for a professional human curer, it might be an aid in his quest for curing the patient. Probably the first psychiatrist Alshaykh AlRaees Abu Ali Ibn-e-Sina told that some illnesses are related to mind and should be cured via proper verbal communication with the patient.
wallahi, shaykh is so on point
Full lecture?
PHILOSOPHY > PSYCHOLOGY
Where can i find the whole lecture??
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
where can i get full session?
Mr Nouman Ali, with all due respect, I really dont think that you have ever listened to a true Psychologist yet. What I mean by that is if you really came across one, you will realise that Psychology itself actually makes you realise about the One Supreme Power, which if all human beings trusted in, they would actually find peace within themselves. All the famous Psychologists around the world have studied the Bible deeply and they all believe in God.
Controversial.
Dismissing emotions and feelings is not the key, given you cannot prove Gods existence with reason and logic. Hence, people CHOOSE to believe or not in God based on how they feel, not on logic alone.
I roamed the whole world but came back to Allah.
Title is misleading, this is NOT Nauman Ali Khan's channel, someone is misrepresenting NAK. "STOP IT" :-)
Exactly, but not for fools.
This is not helpfull for people with depression or burn out to come to mental health care. In arab culture there is a shame already and people come to me secretly for help when depressed
My 3 months old daughter is highly sensitive. Research says that these kids will have high tantrums and they'll be always not emotional resilient. But they're empathetic and kind people too.
Please tell me about highly sensitive people if you know about it. How can I upbring my daughter.
by not asking that to a dummy who just cares about his dreamfriend. psychology that he bullshetted is the solution. speak to psychologists. not mindless book holders.
It's only that people think that Psychology is more accurate than Quran. Quran is about all animals, plants, earth and everything interacting with human beings including its psychology. Every person has its own juz in Quran. Each surah can have psychology meaning for each person.
Base from video title 'social media' psychology vs The Quran
I have some background in psychology and I can see the brother doesn’t have a reasonable hold on psychology. His argument is also flawed about science that is devoid of god. Science works and that’s all that science needs to do. The ‘hawa’ that the brother quotes is in reference to the lower impulses or man, not his aspirations or values for happiness.
The ultimate goal of psychology is not happiness, as he claims. Maybe he needs to refer to a definition.
This is a big grievance against brothers who issue opinions about science with no qualifying study or experience. It goes to show that there’s an element of misplaced pride (arrogance) our scholars have in Quran and sunnah. That’s the realm of worship and human conduct. Not the realm of science.