When girls do it: an examination of female sexual predators (EXCLUSIVE)
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- Опубликовано: 16 авг 2022
- When Girls Do It is a 45-minute video examining the motivations of female sexual predators, the destructive effects of their actions on their victims, and the reluctance of victims to come forward. The most common offenders are relatives, with mothers topping the list, but it could be anyone such as baby-sitters, neighbors or teachers.
This documentary features compelling testimony and powerful interviews with survivors of abuse by female sexual offenders, therapists, and psychologists. The documentary delves into related issues including the long-held misconception that sexual abuse of children is exclusively a male crime.
This is a hard-hitting investigation of one of the most under-reported crimes in North America, as well as a provocative and passionate look at the motivations of women who abuse and the devastating effects of their crime on their victims. It underscores the urgent need for victims of abuse to feel secure in identifying female sexual predators in order to prevent countless other children from becoming victims.
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Yorr title is odd. It was women not girls.
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daycare workers have abused many babies and toddlers they abuse in all ages
It's absolutely horrifying that a female abuser is able to continue working as a social worker with access to teenage boys and isn't in prison where she belongs.
No shit like WTF??
this happens with all sex offenders sadly
go johnny go, johnny b good
@@bcmcboot is there some underlying meaning or message in the lyrics of this song that relates to the subject of this video?
The vagina power and privileges!. EXTREMELY disturbing for sure!.
Women seem to slip under the radar when it comes to them sexually abusing anyone I'm grateful you are highlighting this issue.
I 100% agree! As there are some people/parents/women who will trust a woman (known or not ) with their children... you always hear people tell kids about the bad men , we need to teach them about bad people ! I get it, being a female and a mother I can’t imagine doing anything to upset a child let alone hurt them and as a woman/mum you want to think all females have this same caring, nurturing, protective personality but sadly it is not the case!
There are female monsters out there and they do SA kids and if not themselves they help some pedo get access to kids even their own 😤😡🤬
Use your instincts parents and never trust anyone you don’t know 100% wouldn’t hurt them, anyone can get to your child so make sure your kids know what to look for and let them know that they can talk to you and tell on anyone no matter who they are, family/friend/ neighbour/teacher... teach them to know that no one should touch them in any way and not to be afraid to tell!
Better safe than sorry as these monsters lurk in every corner and will exploit any chance they get!
Even regular abuse to like physical abuse
@@weegreeneyes3196 👏👏👏Totally agree
@@pinkpugginz yes any kind of abuse be it verbal, mental, physical, sexual they all destroy a child’s spirit and children are innocent and should be protected to have a normal childhood and grow up to be the future leaders !
No child should feel unworthy of love on this earth!
We need to rid this earth of these heinous monsters and give the social services and justice system a good shake up to stop the cycle!
It's why gender stereotypes are so damaging, at best you are mocked for liking the "wrong" hobby. At worst, you are overlooked for crimes.
My son was abused by his stepmother from 3-6 years old. As his mother, I knew something was wrong but I couldn't prove it and he couldn't verbalize it yet. So my son suffered for 3 years. When he was finally able to verbalize it and told me what was going on, I blamed myself first. I turned it in and followed all the correct steps. She got a slap on the wrist and wasn't charged for anything. My son didn't get the justice he deserved.
I'm sorry that happened to your son. I agree that the woman should have had tougher consequences since she did harm your child.
Did the father and step mother at least lose visitation/ any custody/ any contact with your son? If she only got a slap on the wrist and they didn’t protect your son and enforce visitation, I can’t imagine how hard that would be for both of you.
And you did the right thing and you can’t blame yourself: you protected your child
Can you sue for damages (civil suit) . At least your son could get therapy without you having to shoulder the cost. Good luck.
Sending prayers hugs and strength to you and your kids
Did you suspect it was sexual abuse by his step mother?
I heard “their sexual needs” more than once. They weren’t needs. They were perverted desires.
👏 👏 👏 THIS!!!! ^^ 😤😤🤬
Exactly.
thanks for clearing that up.
Same things since thise are needs that should be acting on
@@hbsupreme1499 ??
Just because women gives life doesn't mean she's incapable of abuse,women can be mean,abusive and can kill too
WRONG. Women do not GIVE life. She incubates it.
Women does not give life. They birth the new body.
Its just women can get away easier than men
Some women are mean, abusive, and many have murdered. No they are not innocent!!!!!!!
@@keithharrison9797 “many” no, some yes.
24 years ago my sister was murdered here in Brisbane Australia, trying to speak out against the female paedophile in our family.
I spend my time watching murder podcasts trying to understand.
When she was screaming about this Nobody believed it was real.
Im so very sorry for your loss. Was the perpetrator caught? May I ask her name?
So sorry to hear this
I’m so sorry
Big hugs 😢
My parents were murdered when I was 18 years old and I do the exact same thing! Sending you love from the across the world ❤
I’m so sorry. This is a special kind of painful. I feel you. I hope you know you’re not alone ❤
When you finally get the courage to tell anyone that you were sexually molested by a woman or girl when you were a child you often get met with a few responses - silence, disbelief, belittling, or excusing it as “well have you ever considered that she was probably the victim of abuse herself?” These are not the same things that people say when someone talks about being a victim of sexual abuse at the hands of a male.
You are right female abuser are treated differently than male abusers
Exactly my experience from close friends, my wife and my mother. Only my counselor and support group could truly be there. Survivors should seek out both. I don't think regular people can, they can't truly understand the experience and the loss. I wouldn't want them to honestly. Then they would feel how I did and do.
The difference is they actually have a show called how to catch a predator in in those videos it multiply men about most likely all men and I am trying to wonder why they would never want it it’s kind of strange like where are the women predators.
@@skreggie2522 The overwhelming majority of sexual predators tend to be men. Especially those who would go out of their way to meet a young stranger online for the purpose of a sexual encounter. Women tend to victimize family or their students. But on the rare occasion when women commit these acts they’re often given a an out and some sympathy instead of treated exactly like a man committing the same act. I was sexually assaulted by an older sister repeatedly for years. This person also happened to be my mothers favorite child. When I tried to talk to my Mom about it she dismissed it and laughed it off. When I told a counselor about it she tried to get me to have empathy and sympathy for my sister who molested me instead of being supportive to me. That’s the difference I’m talking about.
@@goodgrief888 this is why I tell people that women can’t just do this type of stuff men can’t do it’s just that we have to recognize that something is wrong about how is this other person getting away with it while the other person doesn’t both are punishment now they’re punishable because they already admitted and they know that they did something wrong it doesn’t matter what you have to say it doesn’t matter I don’t care if you rape your the problem is that I’m gonna victimize and make it seem like he did it or I’m gonna make it seem like she did it it doesn’t matter if you rape you kill you do something bad is punishable.
What the native American guy had to say and the one who was held as a sex slave by the social worker left me almost in tears. How absolutely despicable humans can be. The more I see of humans the more they sicken me. I really hope these brave men can find healing.
have you seen all those videos of random people helping save the life of animals in distress? humans are good. don't let the few ruin your perception .
The human race is evil, violent,selfish and disgusting. I avoid people as much as possible.
@@billphilips8522 A ton of those videos are staged by people who endanger the animals in the first place, so that's not the best example.
@@Good100 go suck a dick. Don't say shit you have no proof for.
It’s relatable
Parents SHOULD always BELIEVE their KIDS when they say somebody is touching them or showing dirty pictures or anything you’ve taught them to avoid !!! I raised my sons & all the kids in my family to always tell if somebody did something that wasn’t right. I know you can’t always expect a kid to tell because of threats but we should tell our kids no matter what the offender says that you believe the kid & they’ve done nothing wrong. Once you find out INVESTIGATE , then move forward.
Great Advice! Having been an ER/TRAUMA RN almost 40 years (now retired!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼) I truly wish more parents, extended or blended family members (Aunt/ Grandparents) would be as honest with their children/their family children. I think the most important thing you’re telling your children, is that they did NOT do anything bad (the other person did) as well as “I BELIEVE YOU! NO MATTER WHAT, ALWAYS TELL ME (or Grandma, etc)”. The child then has a great support system that they can run to, and lets them know THEY ARE LOVED AND BELIEVED, THEY ARE NOT BAD!
You should work with your local schools or hospital ER’s, put together a program for kids.....you are very honest! I will be praying for you and your work! God bless and safely keep you, in Jesus’s Precious Name, Amen!🙏🕊💕💜✝️✡️🙋♀️🌹
Yes. I did the same thing with my daughter. We live in a evil world.
@@heathercarpenter5497 I think a lot of moms have just gotten lazy, it’s hard raising & protecting our kids. A lot of moms give into their kids just to get them out if their hair, but good mothers discipline their kids & teach them there are monsters out there. I think we should teach our kids as soon as they start talking drill it into them,, may sound harsh but life is harsh. It’s repetition & it does get tiring but look at what happens if we don’t. Kids are our future & they should be cherished , not abused. God even says in His word better for you to tie a bolder around your neck & drown before hurting one of these little ones. So thank God for teaching morals values & safety to their kids. God Bless you & yours.
@@deborahleone4351 yes I agree with what you said & that’s what we all did when our kids were little. That awful tragedy has happened in my family & it’s something you never get over kids & the moms, it’s gut wrenching. I detest child molesters & they should have cruel & unusual punishment, I don’t mean torture but very harsh prison parole therapy etc. They should never have a free moment. 40years I can only imagine what you must of seen ? You could tell some very sad stories im sure. I’d like to thank you for all you’ve done for the good of people, it takes a special heart to be a nurse epically a emergency room nurse. I know I couldn’t do it But there should be different types of punishment , I mean found the clock reporting to somebody. It breaks my heart when people destroy our kids future, they are always innocent & don’t deserve any of that or to be taught that garbage in schools. My kids are grown but I have grankids nieces & nephews & I’ve taught them just like their parents to always tell one of us & they’ve done nothing wrong. God is keeping record of every harm people do to our little ones. It really breaks my heart to think about what it’s done to a couple of my family members & they were threatened not to tell or they’d kill their mom. Sickining that’s why I tell them or did everybody is older they ( creeps ) are lying don’t believe them, tell somebody . God Bless you & all your family to.
💯!! I raised five children, and I have that talk many times with them, and I was also very open with them, I did not want them to be surprised or not understand something, and I even included myself and their father that NO ONE including us, should EVER do certain things and tell them it’s ok.. I included aunts, uncles,cousins, siblings, grandparents, close friends of the family, ect ect! I wanted to make sure they knew NOBODY should touch them !
I’ve met many men with similar stories of predatory women. I always said to myself, girl/boy child of mine, it doesn’t matter. I will watch out for them the same.
Facts. I don't trust women any more than men..
Having young boy and girl siblings, I watch out for both female and male predators, There’s predators in all genders and races.
@@Selfhatingalabamian Amen.
Evil doesn’t know or care about race, ethnicity, gender, or creed!
@@Selfhatingalabamian💯 big respect for that. My big sis always taught me don't trust women to easy either. I'm youngest of three. Thank god for my older siblings 🤌🏽
So have I. It's a lot more common that people think, unfortunately.
I am a woman and I feel women predators should at least get treated like a male sex offender. Then my opinion is also the penalties that are given to all sex offenders isn't enough.
A big problem is all the judges and law enforcement who are predators. They often give fellow predators a slap on the wrist.
There's a documentary on RUclips of a female who slept with a boy who lied about his age at 14 when the girl was 19. No foul play, no dramatic anything. She is on the registry for life and can't even go to the park with her own kids even years after the offense.
Sex offender laws need to be narrowed down, just like other laws. Extreme cases like the video, sure, life in prison is good. But for other cases, it's too much.
We don't put people away for life for getting in a fist fight and calling it murder. We don't put people away for life for having a single syringe of heroin and call them drug lords. Sex offenders needs more specific breakdowns of the crime and not just a broad blanket that treats everyone the same.
@@thebutterflybuddhas the thing is, sex offenders can't be rehabilitated. Yes, innocent people get caught up, just as they do with other crimes...innocent people get accused of murder. Not sure what you mean by "narrow down" but the laws and punishment are not severe enough. Because women and children are not safe, anywhere. Too many judges, DAs, and law enforcement are offenders. They give each other "passes," a slap on the wrist, looking the other way...until sex offenders become terrified of the consequences, as victims are terrified, we're just not safe.
I'd like to see a citizen committee that weighs in on these cases. If the corrupt ones know that their dirt won't stay in the dark, they just might have to do right.
@@miapdx503 they are and they get punished daily.
@@thebutterflybuddhasI have no sympathy for said girl. putting her on the registry probably prevented an escalating pattern of crimes
Absolutely vile. All sexual predators should get the maximum punishment.
Most protected species . Sick fucks
Listening to these men share helped me realize this kind of abuse by women is more common than we think it's not tallked about enough. Thank you making me more aware.
Domestic violence double standards🚩 Alex Skeel Jordan Worth. Ian McNichol Michelle Williamson. Paul Jenner Sherri Naidoo. David Edwards Sharon Edwards. Just tip of the iceberg‼️
Men don't rape men, women and children and nor do women.
Rapists Rape Men, Women & Children.
They're in a "class" of their own .... regardless of gender.
A lot more common than you think. The problem is ignored though. Look at when women teachers get caught abusing students. Nobody bats an eyelash. They cheer these women on. Especially if they are attractive.
Women sexually abuse children just as much. Here goes 2 hours of cases.
ruclips.net/video/0H1EkSAmbHk/видео.html
I was sexually assaulted by women when i was a child, they were teenagers as well
Almost all of my boyfriends were abused as children by older girls or young women. It's not spoken about enough.
I was raped and molested as a child by two different teenage females. It does happen!
@@AZ-JKUR-HR I'm so sorry that happened to you😞
@@TwinBleaks thanks. A lot of therapy and learning to love yourself has helped. But relationships are hard. You unfortunately know that. Again, thanks.
@@AZ-JKUR-HR I'm sorry to ask, did you get justice; were your predators charged ever? That is absolutely vile, lean on God he will heal you.
@@mimi-lg8lo unfortunately no. I reported it in the 1980's when it was believed girls couldn't rape children. So the females got away with it. But God knows. Thanks.
The survivors in this group are incredibly strong and brave people. I hope they find peace and compassion for themselves.
My aunt did it to me multiple times when I was small.
I’ll never be fully healed but I learned how to cope and use my pain to make my corner of the world a bit better and more understanding.
What??!!! A aunty did it to you??? A sisters sister or a brothers sister did this to you when they are suppose to be helping in raising you and caring for you and loving you? This is sad I'm sorry for what you had to go through as a result and I pray for your full healing.
@@eddiegranberry5276 why are you so surprised? Even the Bible says to not trust anyone…
@@belle3055 but to sit here and stomach the idea of being sexually abused or know that you have been abused by someone that was suppose to love and protect you now I'm awaken to reality to what you said.
I was abused by a 30 year old women when I was 14/15. When I told my mom laughed at me. She even met her and did nothing.
Your mom is sick and was a hundred percent wrong.
That sucks and I'm so sorry you went through that. Society seems to act like it's a badge of being a man or it's wanted somehow bc it's a boy as a victim vs. a female. I know personally how horrible abuse can be for a boy. I've been close to a number of men as friends, relatives, lovers, etc who have confided abuse to me. ALL without exception had issues bc of this, just as a girl would. And I think for a boy in it can be even more confusing in many ways- such as if they are abused by a male does it mean they are homosexual if they are aroused etc. It's also more taboo to speak openly bc the reactions are so lame, as you experienced. The victims I know all had issues with addiction, intimacy, depression, poor boundaries and so on. I hope that you are seeking whatever help you need so that you can lead a healthy happy life. Including setting boundaries with family members who are unsupportive or toxic. 🫶🏻
I had some issues with a girl when I was younger and looking back at it now I wish I would’ve known what it meant to have sexual contact and what time you should do it and there was times when it was consensual or not but now looking back at it I’m terrified.
@@LuvDelux so true. I am a woman though. A little girl at the time. People didn't take lesbian sex as seriously back then but it still fuvks with my head and makes me sick.
@@skreggie2522 remember, it wasn't consensual. You were a kid and can't consent. Just because you didn't fight doesn't mean you consented
Thank you for examining this subject. It's very common. Female sexual predators have very similar grooming techniques and are rarely suspected - it's extremely confusing and painful when this is done to a girl as well. Little girls are taught early on to fear men - when a woman targets you, nobody cares or seems to understand it.
You are right I was groomed and abused by a woman who was a family friend of my mom
@Marie Baker it is very common. You’re the problem Marie
As a child I was molested often by a female family member and was laughed at any time I tried to get help. Cause “only men do that. No real guy would complain about it. You are just trying to get her in trouble.” Your body will react. No one thinks a girl wanted it even if their body betrays them and gets aroused. If a young boy becomes aroused “see you must have wanted it.
That's so sad. I'm so sorry that someone took advantage of you like that. I think people just think, "It's just sex. What are ya complaining about??" And just like you said, guys are always gonna be teased if they complain to someone that they were molested by a woman. They always act like, if you complain about it, then either you're gay or there's something wrong with you, & that's just bullsh*t. All that's gonna do is push the person deeper into their depression and cause them to keep everything inside and cause more and more damage over time. I hope you've been able to work through these things and are doing well now. Sending positive vibes your way
Im sorry my guy. You had to fight not only your abuser buy the entire world
If they didn't help you because she was a female, seems they'd be upset because she's a relative.😠
It's true though
I was abused by family members. I am a man, these were female relatives and even my Sunday School teacher. First time I have admitted that 65 years.
Some Sunday School teacher 🤮🤮
Terrible !!!
I know I’m just an Internet rando, but I’m so proud of you for speaking on this! You deserved so much better. I hope vids like this & testimonies like yours can help society wake up.
I was sexually abused when I was 8 or 9 by a cousin. I later found out that she did the same with my other cousins. She used to watch us when our parents would go to work. It happened so many times and I couldnt say anything to anyone out of fear. I finally told my parents about it during my freshmen high school year when she had relocated overseas. I should have spoken up about it earlier. This has affected me and my sexuality. I never spoke to her since or forgive her.
I'm so sorry that happened to you
I am sorry you went through that
I’m with you. This is so complicated and I’m 43.
Same shit here, my abuser works as a lecturer in child protection.
You don't need to forgive her! I'm a Christian woman and some things are unforgivable. Period
There's a novel called "Tampa" (by Alissa Nutting), written from the perspective of a young teacher with unseemly interest in a student. It's a chilling story, as it presents a less-discussed, nauseating reality that clashes with the typical narrative that a young boy should enjoy that attention from an adult woman. People probably can't imagine how this stuff really goes down. this subject absolutely needs more recognition and research.
My theory is that maybe they are not interested in the oyung body......but "free, careless" spirit
16, 17-year-old boy has no responsibilities, has almost free time, has no values yet, he is free as a bird.
I was guessing that maybe these women subconsciously dream about someone who is free careless and has plenty of time for himself and is naive etc.
Or maybe she thinks he will idolize her, because it's older.
So she is stupid.. Instead of finding someone of her age who has a lot of responsibility and limited time for hobbies.
But I may be wrong.
@@alaalfa8839 There is two categories to that: the pederast and the pedophile. The former is not necessarily a subset of the second. The pederast is necessarily an offender, but not necessarily interested in children. The opposite is true for the pedophile: interested in children, but not necessarily an offender.
"Tampa" is amazing. 🤝
I read that book a few months ago....very sick book but really gives you the insight into that disgusting mind.
@@alaalfa8839 There are absolutely women who are into the physical aspects though. (actually the book I mentioned covers some of that). They are just as creepy about it as the men-- obsessing over certain physical features, getting off on the power imbalance.
Woman also abuse woman. It's not just them offending against men. I was raped by a young college aged babysitter from 6-9 years old. My family never believed me. And this woman tortured me! She was brutal. And she just kept coming over. It just got worse everytime. I would beg my mom to not leave. And she always would. This woman has scarred my life. I wish parents would seriously listen to their children!!!!!!!
Useless parents. It's true they do and it's this attitude that allows it. Sorry that happened to you.
Lucky you!
I can't believe that woman said women get more harsh sentences!!🤯 I still remember that teacher who had sex with her student, and got HOUSE ARREST!! Her lawyers argument was that she was too pretty to go to prison! And what's even crazier is the judge agreed with him!!! Can you imagine as a man your lawyer saying you're too handsome to go to prison and a judge agreed with him?!
That case was complicated by the fact that the victim was too traumatised to testify. The judge initially, rejected the plea deal and declared that if she doesn't get prison time, it will be a travesty of justice. But seeing the boy's inability to testify because of trauma, he relented and signed the plea.
@@Nimish204 I don't buy that, that was just an excuse. If that judge really wanted to charge her with real prison time he could. They never have any problems giving people plenty of time for selling or using drugs. But when someone commits a crime against a minor NOW there are complications?! I call bullshit!
@@ggeorge4144 I agree, it's childish to be honest
She based in Canada so she was probably talking about their system
@@Nimish204 which court case was this?
I'm glad this is being talked about, it needs to be talked about alot more.
I don't know if talking about sex crimes more and more, like we have been over the past years, is actually helping society. We need to actually proactively do something about these things. Just talking about it is traumatising our society and it seems to be attributing, at least in part, to the increasing sexual degeneracy we see today. Sorry, I probably sound incredibly pedantic, I just can't stand the 'we need to talk about this more' thinking.
@@pegleg2959 I think it is because as a society we need to be traumatized before we ever act. Why must we be proactive in taking precautions for something that is not a real issue. I see this mentality in so many things. Our climate change issue, as long as most of society feels there is no problem why should individuals recycle or shop wisely using items that are made from recycled material. Have an ice age hit then it is real. Health care is another. Take the opium crisis. There were pharmacist warning about the over issued scripts of certain drugs. No one listened now we have a crisis that has caused billions in lost wages, government pay outs. As much as I wish people would take the warnings of others as a society we refuse to change our personal lifestyle until it is thrown in our face. We must become traumatized by actions not just talking inorder to make changes.
As a whole Child Sex Abuse must be brought forth publically and Worldwide. Our children, any child is NOT safe ANYWHERE!
@@reason5591 that's a bit over the top
@@reason5591 what do you mean by "attributing at least in part, to the increasing sexual degeneracy we see today"?
Im a female, adopted, and yes, me too. It is hard to say it, I still do not like to say it, not as severe as some get, but damaging none the less. When I do tell my story, people repeat it back but say I said my dad did it, even though I would clairfy, when I talked about it, it was my mom, NOT my dad.
Im sorry this happened to you. Ya'll are so very brave. Warrior heart to tell your story. 🙏✌️
Any type at any level is ABUSE
It hits so much different being abused by your mother. It is so courageous of you to speak your truth.
YOU are so very brave!
I was abused by two different females when I was seven... This is the first video of this type I have ever seen... Rough and powerful stuff!!!!
I am now 48
Report them
Finally a video about the female podophiles!. Most of the times, we hear only about male predators.
We all need to be aware and protect our children.
I've met women who are sexually deviant and they look normal( normal as in coming from suburbia). Narcissistic personality disorder plays a large role in why they break boundaries which goes for pretty much all sexual predators of either gender.
Me too it shocked me to realise the truth of some sexual behaviours in Woman too.
Interesting yet not...
Agreed 💯
Right like a narcissist would feel entitled to someone's body and would already shrug off laws and ethics.
@@synesthesia.aesthetic exactly
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by seven different unrelated (to each other, only one to myself) men I have a LOT to say about this subject. The first is to say that while I never suffered at the hands of a female I know *it happens.* We need to give space and support to every victim of female predators - as well as victims of male predators. Vile is vile, period.
The second is that it is *absolutely imperative to stop* pitting abuse victims against each other as though our suffering can be quantified. Female victims experience JUST as much shame, JUST as much isolation, JUST as much normalization, just as much dismissal, and just as much lifetime stigma as male victims. It's just presented in different ways. A male child victim of a male pedophile is stigmatized as less of a male/effeminate if they speak up (as though being female is an insult - but this is the stigma) - a female child is forever seen as tainted, impure, dirty. A male child abused by a female pedophile is seen as coming into "manhood" early as though it is an honor to be abused, thus making them feel like they should be grateful for their abuse. Female children abused by female abusers are almost unseen completely. NONE of these situations are any better than the others. They're all equally awful. They are ALL under-reported. They are ALL under-acknowledged, under-prosecuted, and equally dismissed.
*THESE MONSTERS ARE EVERYWHERE* Studies show as much as 1% of the adult population or more are attracted to pre-pubescent children and as much as 5% are attracted to underage children. Now understand that this number is greatly skewed in a child's circle of connection because pedophiles tend to find careers and/or hobbies and/or competitive sports that increase their exposure to and trust with children. Do your children know adults? Think...Teachers, friends' parents, spiritual or club leaders?
It's a really uncomfortable subject, so many of us (survivors) never speak out and the ones that do rarely speak to the true depth or frequency that we experienced. The best advice I can give is to listen, give space and strength and support to anyone who confides in you, and do your absolute best to shed light on this truly horrific putrescence on humanity.
Love, peace, and healing.
Thank you for this message.
Thank you for this 🖤
As a woman who was abused by a woman during adolescence, I truly appreciate you seeing me. Even though we're virtually strangers.
My abuser is still out there, doing what she does. So very sad for those who can't or won't speak up, and those who refuse to see it.
@@carolineehling I do. I do see you. We are stronger together, stronger than they know. 💛💟
The hole problem is that we no longer lynch a perverted freak once caught.
@@opmone5333 To catch an animal you do not have to be one. The actual problem has many moving parts to the machinery that keep these monsters among us. Children are disregarded, institutions that find them in their midst cover it up to save their rep, children are used as honeypots for blackmail, the subject makes people uncomfortable so no one discusses how prominent the problem is, and there is no cure for this sickness (literally, psychologically speaking) so there is no reformation, they don't do well in prison, which actually costs the prison more for things like extra guards and medical costs so they're often spit back into society as fast as possible, and so many more. Honestly, I'm personally in favor of life without parole with intensive psychological examination regularly and frequently for their lives and about their lives (the more we learn about them the better we can stop them) and they should be surgically rendered incapable of reproduction. The thing that's made the worst impact on pedophilia, honestly, is the internet. It allows them to communicate with each other, have access to materials, and it encourages exploitation for financial gain. If we lynched them we'd never find their buddies on the www.
my cousin's were sexually abused by a 16 year old female babysitter at the young ages of 4 & 5 .Their lives were turned upsidedown and she walks free as a youth pastors wife. it's disgusting how female abusers get little to no consequences for their vile behavior.
Of course a pastors wife… 👀
Justice needs to occur
These stories need to be heard. I feel for the men that have been abused by women. We never hear those stories. Breaks my heart. I am a survivor of incest abuse and it has been hard to heal from it. Hearing other survivors speak about their abuse makes me feel less alone. I pray for those survivors healing and peace.
My prayers are going up for your mental health, stay strong 🙏❤️🙏
We rarely hear about those stories, but since we just did, we can no longer say never.
It's because it's actually rare compared to abuse by males
@@roleat we don't know the true numbers bc it's so rarely reported
@@roleat no, no it's not. And even if it was, is that supposed to comforting to abused men?
Men or women who sexually abuse minors are sick in both mind and body this predators should not be around children
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They should be slaughtered by other criminals .
Totally agree 💯
I have heard this before from a couple of males I know. As a survivor myself, I KNOW boys are abused and yet as a woman....it is soooo disgusting to me to see a mother, the soft place to land, is the abuser.
Yet my mother abused us in every way possible and allowed others to do the same, so I know it happens. This is how powerful society is. Somehow it's different in their minds.
These men display the very same things I do as to relationships, trust, etc. God bless you all and I pray for your healing.
Im so glad you guys are making this public. I have a very close male family member that was abused by a younger female family member. He was in elementary school and the family member had recently come to live in their home because because the caretaker was a severe alcoholic. When the sexual abuse happened it was discovered immediately and the offending child was immediately SENT BACK to the alcoholic caretaker before the crime could be investigated by the authorities. The offending child was NOT sent for. The abused male child had a small amount of counseling and the parents that originally discovered the crime downplayed the incident, believing that they 'took care' of the problem by sending the girl away. The mother was actually reported to say 'I don't think its possible for such a young girl to abuse an older boy. It can't possibly be her fault. How could it? She was SO YOUNG!' Baloney!
These women are so disgusting! I'm so sorry that you were put in this situation.
Horrific, & who & where is that sw today ?!!!😳😳😳🥺
I taught my son that no matter who it is, male, female, child if they touch you in the wrong place you tell me asap. I would always believe him, kids don't make things like that up.
Good mum ❤
Children could be pressured to think something happened while it actually didn't, there are few notorious cases where parents and psychologist involuntarily planted the idea through what are now considered bad practice. They rarely made up but there are sociopath narcissistic children, I met one while really young and have been quite instructional
I love it when the authorities reveal their biases, "she can't be a predator, she looks so innocent" 😏
very odd comment
Yeah the programming is funny in people. Especially when the narrator said we I was laughing not everybody makes an assumption based off gender and looks 🙄
This is a conversation that needs to be had, more people need to understand this really happens and stop excusing the women who do this. Imagine the absolute outrage if someone had the audacity to say to a little girl who was sexually abused "aren't you lucky" or "he's so good looking" why tf is that the acceptable response to the little boy? I wish I could tell each one of these men how thankful I am for them being vulnerable and opening up to the world about their abuse and how brave and strong each one of them are.
This is honestly unbelievable…..not that I don’t believe it, it’s just so disgusting that I don’t want to believe it !
I give these men credit for speaking up about this disgusting behavior!
Gosh, listening to these men talk and hearing what was done to them, it’s just infuriating 😡
And the fact that some of these women are still out here to this day and never got a punishment is just unacceptable. Hell some of these women are probably still doing this sh*t and probably still didn't get a punishment.
Yeah it's sickening what happened to them
Anyone..I mean ANYONE can be a sexual predator please pay attention to your children at ALL times!
You are right but sadly the world is still blind in believing that women are not abusers
As a man there’s nothing more disheartening than telling a friend something that happened to you as a kid and their natural reaction is to try and high five you instead of sympathize.
Bless your heart.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
So sad. I feel their pain. It's hard to hear adults being sexually aroused by a child. What is wrong with these individuals?
Yeah it's truly disgusting
They were 99% abused as a child themselves! is what professionals will tell you. It's a cycle. and that's the biggest part of it. that's why it keeps happening. people grow up not saying anything or getting treatment for it and end up just like their abuser. pretty much.. or become disfuctional, or a drug addict. etc.
Their stories are horrifying. Wishing them healing, love and inner peace.
My husband was SA by a family friend as a teen and it has messed him up so bad it's been effecting our marriage for years.
@Lyric Melody Song I'll do my best. He's just got to be ready to hear it.
I'm female, but I am also a sexual abuse survivor, who was abused by several different men, for over a decade. I'm 46yo & I just learned that my issues w/ SENSITIVITY is a 'side effect' of SA. At least NOW, my husband (of nearly 25yrs😍) will know WHY I behave the way I do sometimes. I thought it was b/c I'm just a tender-hearted person who is easily hurt. 🤷🏼♀️😂 I AM really tender hearted, but now I try realize the SA is linked to it, too. So, a big THANK YOU to all the people who had a hand in me discovering this video on RUclips! 🙏🏼❤🥹
I know your pain, I'm so sorry. May we heal with every breath 💛💜
@@Lynn_Clifton ♥️🙏🏼
I'm so sorry that happened to you
I am sorry you went through that,
I 100% relate to Al and what he went through. I am a male and I was sexually molested for 8 years of my childhood by a male family friend between ages 5-13. I am 56 now and I have learned how to deal with it all and overcome it all for the most part by age 38. It is rough when nobody will believe what you tell them had happened especially as a child and being male.
This is why there should be no time limits on reporting and prosecuting these cases. Trauma and social stigma will make it very likely these issues aren't understood, let alone reported until much later in life.
You are right 💯
I agree
Exactly!!!
As a female victim of incest, my heart goes out to these men. My Mother was a pervert too. She did her dirt to my brother as well as me. Of course my family was a hotbed of complete psychological pathology. I started trying to kill myself at age 9. She came into the kitchen and saw me with every pill bottle out ready to take them ALL! She said "go back to bed." AND when I was in the 7th grade and started writing in my journal THAT I wanted to kill myself my parents had to do something when my teachers called them in to discuss it. I had my first psychiatric hospitalization when I was in the 8th grade when I left a suicide note in my little girlfriend's locker telling her goodbye. She, of course freaked out and told someone, getting me the help I so desperately needed at long last! I do hope these men get the help and relief they need at long last too! Their abusers deserve prison!
What happened to your mother? Did you get the justice you and your brother deserved?
@@TheMaiah13 never. Actually what happened MANY years later I was staying with her and working as a Prospect Researcher evaluating sources of wealth, corporate foundation and individuals at the largest black university in the nation on a $100 million dollars campaign over 5 years. I heard her and my brother talking about how he was going to come down over his summer break. Because he was studying to be a lawyer. He was going to go down to the Magistrate's office and claim THAT he had seen me hit her.. thus getting me arrested for false assault charges and possibly sent to prison! I had told her that I was waiting for my Section 8 letter to come in so I would have a chance to get my voucher and move out with affordable housing options because I am disabled and wasn't making much working at the school as an independent contractor. BUT she's a messed up person! So instead I got my friend Ig to witness my leaving her house and just packed up my stuff and became homeless! While employed in the Development office! Investigating millionaires! Isn't that pretty crazy! No, some people just have sick pathology...
@@amandamiller6995 wow...am so sorry to hear that! You may not get the justice that you deserve in this life, but am sure one day she will have to pay for those atrocities...even if thats in the after life. Praying for you.
@@TheMaiah13 thank you for your kind words M Sharma. Yes, I agree with you on THAT. Whether those of us who fail to get justice through the courts ever get relief are denied doesn't really matter in the long run, because I do truly believe we will ALL truly face a MORE ultimate justice one day!
I am really sorry for your abuse. How are you and your brother faring? I hope you both get the happiness you so much deserve.
As a victim of female sexual assault, I agree with almost everything this video has to say, it happens almost to the same frequency if not equally with male SA, THERE'S JUST ABSOLUTELY ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY EVER HELD FOR
As a parent you are usually wary of men and glad these videos are on here for awareness.
I had an abusive mother(not sexually but physically and alot mental abuse)I was abused by female cousin from 8-12. When it finally came out she seemed to worry more about who did to my cousin more than taking care of me. It took me running a razor to wrists before she finally got me professional help...thanks ma!! Smh
My gawd this is hard to listen too.. how can people do these things to innocent children 😢
So much respect for these brave strong men to be able to talk about this and tell their story.
Prayers to them to stand strong and heal through their journey 🙏🏻
Yeah it's disgusting that people could do this to children
From the age of 3-4, I was sexually abused by a female neighbour in her late 20's. I'm 37 now and remember it like yesterday. Not understanding what was going on back then, being bullied to secrecy I regret not saying anything.
It's never too late... sorry that happened to you.
This happened to me too but they were teenagers i was 3 years old
Report her. Do it now.
I am so sorry that happened to you , you need to report it, how disgusting
Sad stories for all of these men, being made to endure these acts of abuse these men were subjected to is HORRIFYING heartbreaking for the Man Who as a 14 year old boy was put in the situation where he forcibly fathered a child to add to this abuse. Absolutely horrifying and traumatizing.
When I was 10 and my brother 9, we were abused by the house maids... We always hid it and 40 years later, I would tell the story and no one among my family and relatives want to hear it
I’m so sorry 😔❤️
Nobody in the family ever wants to hear about boys being abused. When I was sexually abused at the age of five in about 10 by two different teenage females, nobody wanted to believe it and nobody wanted to talk about it. And everybody around me wanted to give me high fives for it. Sad but if it was a young girl being molested by a guy, they want to kill him. Sorry for your abuse, I know how you feel.
I'm so sorry for what you went through. 😓
It can brake you down more , not being believed .
I was sexually assaulted by my stepfather the first time I realized it was him I was 9 1/2 yrs old .
And I say realized it was him . It's because he would come in my room in total darkness while I was a sleep.
So most of the time I thought it was a bad dream.
But this time I knew it was real , I jumped up and ran and locked my self into the bathroom. He came to the door and tried to come in asking me if I was ok .
He went back into the room with my mom , and I ran to the room my two brothers and sister were sleeping on the floor and climbed in-between them .
The next morning I told my mother ,
Her response was to slap me in the face and call me a liar.
And tell me I had better tell him I was sorry for saying that and hug him.
I never told again.
I am now 52 yrs old.
About 10 yrs ago my oldest brother , who also sexual assaulted me .
Committed suicide but few years before that he confessed to my youngest brother what he had done .
And that my step father had also sexually molested him.
The demons my brother carried around got to heavy and he killed himself.
Then a few years after that my brother that's one year younger than I finally told me that my mother had sexually assaulted him when he was very young.
My point in telling you this is .
That I understand how you felt to not be believed ,
when it took so much courage to tell to start with.
Stay strong ! I will pray for you .
Lord God I pray for healing to begin ,
I pray you surround him with Your love ,
Guard his heart and protect his mind .
Send him your peace that surpasses all understanding . For
By Your strips we are healed.
I pray this in the Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior .🙏 Amen
@@denisezimmerman4208 AMEN!
Damn. I'm 59 years old & younger guys flirt But I can not date a younger guy. It sickens me to think about women abusing young boys 🤔🤨😤🤢🤮🤮
Don t exagerate.two mature PEOPLE can do WHAT they wany.18+ and IT s nobody s business.
I understand exactly what you are saying. I'm 52 and have had propositions from younger men. I have a son who is 33. I can't date a man as young or younger than my oldest child. I just can't look past them being " a kid".
@@acorn8170 so IT s not a personality that matters but age? 33 is a full grown man.So I understand when you meet a man and he is inteligent,funny and handsome but is 33 yo ,YOU will not date him?????
@@AB-gb4xf I'm 35 and I'm not interested in 18 or 21 year olds, my only child is 8 - these are not comparative levels of maturity, no but I'm not comfortable dating someone who is developmentally, behind me.
The age gap, is a solid representation of time spent, processing & experiencing information, on Earth. Everyone younger than me, isn't a child.... But generational knowledge/wisdom, is not nonexistent and needs to be accounted for.
- Exceptions, seem to validate the 'rule'/average/norm.
@@AB-gb4xf Why are you so hung up over adults wanting to date within their age group? I'm 32 and would never date a 19-year-old, and I am a demisexual panromantic who doesn't care about physical appearance. Stop pretending that it makes someone shallow to want someone close in age. My husband was born the same year as me. In contrast, my father was 19 when he started dating my mom at 13, and married her when she was 18 and he was 24. 6 years difference, not that much, right? I mean, he was attracted to the fact that she had stunted her growth with eating disorders at 12 and will be child-sized for the rest of her life, and after she left him, he met another woman who looked like a child because she'd stunted her growth at a young age as well and had a bonus 5-year-old daughter for him to play with on the side who was 12 when he impregnated her.
But suuuuuuure, let's hyper-focus on getting upset that a lot of women are just grossed out by the idea of dating someone with a huge age gap due to simple preference.
A HS teacher was having a “relationship” with another student and everybody’s reaction was dammm she was pretty his lucky even myself . I didn’t see him as a victim at time because we all felt “grown “ but looking back now that I’m 30 I understand he was a child , I was a literal child at 16-17 I didn’t know shit and he was groomed 😢
This NEEDS to be talked about more!! The awareness needs to be bigger than 1 or 2 videos. The stigma behind this needs to be bigger. Too many mothers are getting away with this and how many children are being prostituted by their mothers??? We need a larger reach.
It’ll be a long time before that happens, but I agree with you.
we have to do better for our kids. i am so proud of these Men. thank you for coming forward.
The indigenous man broke my heart 💔 I hope someone in his life tells him hes worth love and respect. I hope for all of these men they know they are worth respect.
Yes
I feel the same
Beautiful heart
Yes it is heart breaking.
You only pity him? Because he's indigenous.
@@WreckShop not sure why you thought that but it was just a way to describe him.
I didn't understand when the lady said female abusers get harsher punishment. I've seen thousands of these cases over the years and females always get 1/3 of the time their male counterparts if they are punished at all.
Abuse at any age is disgusting I was abused by both. I made sure no one touched my kids.
When I was 17, I was sent from PA to Fl to babysit my 30 year old sister’s 6 year son. Upon arrival I found her in a sexual relationship that had begun when he was 16 & she was 29. My sister & I had both been raised by extremely fundamentalist, violent “Christians.” I knew nothing about the world & it took me awhile to figure out that when they went into the bedroom at night “to talk,” they weren’t really talking.
Furthermore this bedroom was small & contained only 2 twin beds with 2 feet between them. Her 6 year old son was always “asleep” in the other bed. I was ridiculously naïve about sex; and no way could I even imagine she’d be having sex two feet from her son in the same room.
When I finally put all the pieces together, I realized this was probably sinning ; but I had no clue it was against the law. In August I was told to pack up everything in the house. They were moving to California without telling his parents. I did not know it was illegal for a 30 year old woman to move a 17 year old boy thousands of miles, across state lines.
In California she passed him off as her younger brother. I met him years later. He told me they stayed together a few years. He got her pregnant several times. She was a nurse in an operating room & would bring home surgical equipment to perform abortions on herself, using these tools & a mirror.
Later she had an affair with a man who was married & had 4 sons. He divorced & married her. She joined him in the Seventh Day Adventist church. She became very strict religiously again. This new husband lasted a few years, until he shot himself in front of her in their kitchen.
She eventually moved back to Florida & told everyone in her SDA church there that she was a childless spinster.
She’s dead now. Left everything to the church.
Is this true? Wild story! I hope you have found peace.
Wow, that's a story!
Sounds like the plot to a great movie.hope u cool these days bud
@@MaTTheWish yeah, of course it’s true, performing surgery on yourself with no anesthesia using mirrors sounds so legit 😒😒😒
@@Mindyourlanguagedeargreat attitude lady 😑
My heart goes out to all these victims. Parents need to be present for their children and open conversations in families.about consent and boundaries is critical.
It’s so beautiful to see, like minded men together feel safe and can heal and be emotional about their experience.
We also need to talk about just how many MEN are the victims of domestic violence perpetrated by women.
When I was a teenager I was in juvenile hall. I remember a very nerdy and quiet "good" girl, and I asked her why she was there. She said she molested her brother
😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
Plot twist
I would've thrown hands
We don't even have juvenile centers in my town, and this type of stuff is RAMPANT here. It's sickening.
I still remember the time when i was at a geek convention, we were in line for something i can't remember, but i was with my parents and a woman began to speak to both my mom and me a teen girl more spefcifically.
My father suspected an adult woman was preying on me while in line, with how she kept flattering me, (he wasn't there the whole time to hear, but something went off in his head). Later she sent me a piece of jewlery from her and a note in the mail, I believe my father wrote back to her. I don't know what he wrote, but we didn't hear from her after that.
It was weird for me at the time when she spoke to us, but I thought my mom would have alerted me to trouble. Well my mom never even thought about women preying on others till my father said something. I think I donated the jewlery.
Yeah, men are much better in recognition off predatory intention than women, because they bs women on a daily basis.
How did she get ur address?
@@Starae336 I still am uncertain. I didn't post it online, neither did my parents and facebook had only begun to be a thing high schoolers could have.
Often times there is a chaotic family structure, with stress and inappropriate use of coping mechanisms. This leaves the child open to being used by other people.
Most often it seems
That’s not an excuse.
It seems like female predators can victimize more people while maintaining the guise of innocence and a nurturing personality than male predators, who are almost always suspected from the jump.
The men are not always suspected from the start, if they were then they would not get as many victims as they do. What about all the sports instructors who train the young girls in swimming and athletics etc, they got away with it for years because no one suspected.
The cruel is that most of kids that are abused sexually by a woman are not believed by authorities and that woman continues doing to other kids .
When I was 19, I was enticed by a 32 year old woman. Although I was of age, when I started getting older, I started to realize how weird that was. Now that I'm 35, I would never even consider talking to someone who is 19. I admit, it was fun to brag to my friends about it at the time, but it was wrong. She came onto me knowing my age and everything. I wish she hadn't.
You're an adult at nineteen lol men marry younger women all the time
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I am so sorry that was put upon you. Thank goodness you can talk about it and you seem to understand it is not and was not your fault! 🙏🏻☮️
@@taniabrandon1642 ahem. It’s not like he said she molested him or broke any laws. He said when he got older he realized how weird that was. Makes me wonder what your story is 🤷🏼♀️💭
@@taniabrandon1642Yes, it was mutual and I was of age. I was just simply stating the fact that there was a big age difference and I was still young. My story was just pointing out the fact that women can be just as predatory.
This was an amazing documentary. I shared it on all my social media.
So many men are and women are assaulted of female offenders and I send to them all love and light, we are survivors, not victims. ❤
As a kid I had a babysitter It was a girl,She molested me regularly as a 7-year-old boy.....My parents were going through the divorce and was living my mother who happened to be a drunk....So she never knew what was going on....Years later as a adult I tried telling this to my parents and how it messed me up for life .....both of them told me basically the f**k off ( with more polite words than that but it basically meant the same thing) .... They both tried to tell me that women don't do that especially young women.....Keep your eyes on your kids no matter who it is.....Watch for major changes in their behavior.....It's too late for me but look out for those who are around you,Like I wish someone had done when I was young
i've been a victim when underaged of a female predator, she never got convicted even if the story came out and most people (till when i was still sharing this with people looking for support and understanding) made "fun" of me cause they -wished they'll be lucky as i did-. Sexual abuse traumatize you for life but even more so when you have to spend the rest of your life accepting you can't be seen as a victim cause you are a men.
As a girl she should have served for atleast 16 years in jail. These kind of people are monsters.
I’m so sorry 😢
Hugs
I just want to know why people let this happen to guys. Is there even a reason?
@@animesparklingdreamer1438 Are you seriouly joking? She needs a life sentence because she is extremely dangerous! Why are you letting her go at 16 years?
Female sexual predators are more common than you think, most their victims suffer in silence with depression and sexual disfunction.
I was abused as a child an I became a drug addict and am still fighting to remain clean, I see light at the end of the tunnel but I feel I have more work to do to try to heal.
The drugs helped me to survive now I need to try and live which I haven’t been doing… more like a existing.
A very interesting documentary, thanks for posting.
I had a similar experience. I'm clean now and seeking therapy for complex ptsd. I hope you continue to value life sober, and I hope you find the healing and peace you deserve!! 🙏 ✌️ I promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
🖤
Praying for you.
I can't even....
This is one of the most horrific things I've ever heard of.
My God.
I hope these men can heal.
So sad to hear these guys stories about abuse, I'm so sorry they have went through that. I'm always glad when people who are guilty are brought to justice but not always the case in these situations. I hope these men and any man and or women who has ever been abused in any way heals well and finds the strength to carry on.
Sending ALL these BRAVE participants MUCH LOVE.
No, it was nothing that you did and there was nothing you could have done. The abuser carries the sickness and the shame. You're all BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE XX
It happened to me when I was 11. She was my 6th grade homeroom teacher. It destroyed my life. I loved her the way a man loves a woman. When we were discovered and she was allowed to resign, I was devastated. Her parting words were cruel and remain with me to this day. I learned early to mistrust females. I also became fixated on older females, particularly teachers. My childhood was anything but normal. Sex became my primary focus, but it was also my most singular fear and I could not bond emotionally with females over fear of abandonment.
What's worse is watching videos or reading about the sexual exploitation of boys by women arouses me sexually which fuels such a deep hatred and rage all these decades later.
Can confirm. Was abused by my aunt when she was a late teen babysitting me. Mom said it was bullshit and Ive never talked about it since.
I'm glad that this issue is being brought to the light. I'm a female survivor of sexualising anuse, but I believe that women offenders should receive the same sentencing as men, the laws should be changed, to accommodate the issue of non vaginally penetrative, otherwise they just go back to reoffending while still working with children. They should also be put on the child sex offenders list to be know as a child abuser. I hope the men in this documentary managed to find healing and were able to move forward with their lives and have found happiness.
My heart goes out to these men and I am so sorry for the abuse they have been forced to endure. The trauma that this type of abuse creates in a child (whether male or female) is something that is sadly, often carried for life and has severe emotional and psychological consequences for that person😔 I wish all of these men the healing, peace and therapeutic support they need to live full and healthy lives... You are all incredibly survivors and I admire the courage it took to speak out and share your stories💞🌿🙌🕊🌠
Stop treating women like children, treat them like you would treat men.
Yess!!! I was a victim. They know exactly what they're doing.
@@TheMulattaMermaidShow What happened to you?
@@DrJones20 mdsa
The fact that the teacher didnt expect to be arrested 🤯
If the boy reports on his mother, he is NOT betraying her!
The drive to "not be a burden on society" while highly commendable, is a furtherance on the unfair treatment he has experienced.
I, too, have not been a burden on sociery... but Society has damn sure been a burden on me!
Sending prayers hugs and strength to those of us who’ve been abused by sick people
I was sexually abused as a child my eldest sister's female friend Tya who was also a child. Later in life I received harassment, bullying and retaliated against by females who resented me for sexually turning them down. Some even stalked me.
People sleep on older females preying on girls and teens.
I have two male friends who were abused by step mother's, whom were much younger than their fathers'. And I was one of only few women who seen this as abuse where their own father's didn't even have a problem???? And even girlfriends over the years would imply how fortunate and lucky??? WT? I cried with them as I'm a mother and Nanna and find this so disturbing and have seen the pain these victim's can never be the same. It's heartbreaking 💔😪🇭🇲
Bless you Susan, having someone listen and understand is priceless to someone who has been through abuse ❤️ you are a blessing x
Extremely sick parents
You're not from Penrith are you ?
Unfortunately the responses fit in with social norms. As a man I can confirm that it was always seen as cool if an attractive female teacher showed interest in you. As a kid you had no idea of what it really meant.
It irritates me when parents play stupid when situations like this arise.
i remember all too well when one of the younger teachers used to come into the Boys locker rooms both before and after PE and Swimming classes, and she would always touch our nether regions and comment on the "Potential" of them. i was one of the boys at school that was abused the most, as i was the "Mentally Unstable Outcast" that everyone bullied, and my words were never taken seriously, and she knew it. to this day, nothing has been done about it, and i am forever haunted by the experience as well as the pain of never being heard or believed...
I was SA'd from 4-15 by my school teacher father I was about 40 when my childhood began to come forward. My mother knew but I was invisible to her. She told me to do what he wanted and be a "good girl" I was horrified when the memories came forward. When I watched this it brought to light that women can be groomers and molesters as well. I am completely horrified by my naive nature. 😱😱😱😱😱 it is difficult enough for women to speak up. I cannot imagine the pain of these men. I am heartbroken 💔😞 all over agian. In my early 60s the person I was furious with was not the molester but my mother and my family knew and nobody reached out to me. My father came from a family of molesters. I have distanced myself from all my family because I knew that not only was I not protected or taught right from wrong. I've spent my life not trusting males or females. My heart goes out to anybody that has experienced thes things. May we all find peace. 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
Sometimes, women scare me more than men. I come from a family of six females out of 9 people. I’ve seen woman do terrible things. But I’ve also seen men do horrible things.
It’s just harder to accept terrible things can come from females than it is to accept men doing horrible things.
Some women exploit that fact. Unfortunately.
Let me add that I feel incredible pain for what these men have been put through. 💔
I still think it's funny how people call women females but men, men.
@@user-ooop semantics. 🤷🏼♀️
@@donnapavina8803 Words can tell a story, so considering how women have been treated through history I'm not shocked tht it's common.
@@user-ooop you can call men as males. Literally no big deal.
@@zingyburger tht wasnt rly my point.
Just as victims have no stereotype, abusers have no stereotype. The very idea that abusers fit on type is the most damaging perception to have.
They do, according to published research.
@@kezzokav5905 Published research based on reported cases. More female abusers go unreported until much later.
That female “teacher” is extremely dangerous! She’s sees nothing wrong with what she has done, but feels sorry for HERSELF! She finds it an inconvenience to have to go to classes etc! Sick person
Typical pedofile mentality, Man or woman they all pretty much think that
it was only a crime due to age of consent in Canada being 18
@@noklarokthats definitely not the “only” reason it was a crime. He was a child and children cannot give consent. your comment is very fkd up and your are seriously misinformed on this topic