I was raped by my step brother from the age of 5 until my 14th birthday. He was 16 when it started. Almost nightly.. my mom let him do it and told me I better not tell bc I will be the one to jail. He would dress in a clown costume and hide under the bed or in the closet. I'm still screwed up in the head. I have 3 son's now, ages 18,14 and 9. And I've been told I'm too over protective of them.. that may be so, but I can't help it. I'm 36 now, I still hate my mother, who btw, still talks to him and come to find out they've been sleeping around even back then.. I hate them! I'm still scared to use a closet and my mattress is on the floor so nothing can get under there. I know people will laugh, but I tried to open a closet and I've tried having my bed off the floor and still can't do it. Also my middle son was born on my rapist birthday.. My anxiety gets bad and I have nightmares. Sorry I'm just rambling on.. somehow I forgot for a moment I was on RUclips.. hmm, maybe I needed to vent a little and didn't realize it.. thanks to whoever is reading this, that you actually took the time to read the whole thing. Hope everyone is doing great in these times. Love to all and keep safe
May peace, love, comfort and strength fill your body and free you from that of what you face and may you find the strength to fight against this evil that lingers around , good always succeeds 🙏
I was the same way. Years later, my daughter told me about the little girl who 1did things to her... Guess What? You really can't be there 100% of the time but you do your best.
Shelley DeWitt so true bc A little boy the same age as my youngest daughter would come over and play. I had to put a end to that the moment my daughter called me and said the little boy and the girl his cousin had tried to sexually harass her and my step son. I was at work crying bc I never heard such hurt like that from my child and not to mention she was crying when she was telling me how uncomfortable it made her feel. Also being a victim myself of child abuse and rape as an adult it made me feel very angry bc I know the effects that it does to a person. It’s a shame that ppl may not believe it but a lot of kids can also become predators at a young age and then as adults what they turn all the way into.
My father was abused by a Catholic priest, and the circles of pain continue through generations. He used to scream if I entered his bedroom. These abusers are hungry devouring wolves in sheeps clothing.
Pray to Jesus the great deliverer for healing and restoration. He alone has the power to save to heal and restore. Read the Bible and pray and listen to the voice of God and not listen to voice of the pope/priests which believe in seducing spirits and practice doctrine of the devil.
Omg it is disgusting how could they say God told them to do this. It’s more like the devil. These people will rot in hell for doing this to these poor children. It makes me so sad how people take advantage of children.
@@dixersdc3963 then there would be no point in living or anything existing if everything was just perfect. people have free will. i suggest you do more research, look deeper into things and into yourself. there's always more to learn. :)
Dixers DC weird you’d Blame the wrong “ fella” I don’t see you putting the blame where it’s due. Why is that? Do you favor Satan ? Are you afraid to blame Satan for this bc he is 💯 percent behind these sickening unholy things. Satan hates you and every other one of God’s children and will do anything to see you suffer and hurt and parish. God gave everyone free will. And LOOK what ppl are doing with it.... God never promised that we wouldn’t suffer or have suffering in fact he tells us exactly what to expect never said the path to righteousness was going to be easy because it isn’t I feel sorry for you my friend the devil has a grip on you and I don’t want to see you or anyone else go to hell why are you angry at God? God bless anyone reading this and sorry to the people who have been and still are enduring suffering. Please don’t kill yourselves maybe you’re suffering won’t be in vain in you will be able to help other children who have no one to go to may you be a light in this dark dark world.
@@subaru4920 Pedophiles ALWAYS manage to insert themselves ANY and Everywhere Children are present,and Pervert, Pollute, Infiltrate and Destroy ANY and Everything meant for Good and the Betterment of Humanity.
@@TrollBot. I am like 'Why does this priest need a luxury car and a designer watch? Greed is a sin' . People get so offended when I point out the obvious.
It is indeed a problem. But what should happen is compare their actions and sayings to God's words. Not all priests say or do the right thing. They preach wrong stuff and make people believe in things that are untrue. And you need to have a certain knowledge about your religion to point out the flaws of those bad teachings. If you dont have that, you sadly blindly believe them. But people like that are everywhere. The church is divided in all those branches, each one teaching something different. Let's pray for a better world. Idk what else to say...
But thankfully most priests and nuns are incredible loving people. We just mostly hear about the worst cases. But look at any other countries like Brazil, Philippines or Lebanon
Why didn't she stop the nun herself when she was old enough? By then she knew it was wrong but still went along with it. Why no-one helped is because she kept it to herself. If she wasn't able to help herself, why should anyone else be expected to when they didn't know.
@@jimmyavpi likely because she was being groomed. the nun was supposed to be somebody she should’ve been able to trust, and so she might not have thought it was wrong.
@Tamusi don't talk nonsense. They didn't tell anyone about it because they wanted it to happen. Maybe not to begin with but as they reached the age of consent, they were quite happy to be in a relationship with those nuns. What other reason have they got for keeping love letters and gifts from the nuns other than they wanted to be with them. If you hate the person for molesting you, you don't keep love letters and gifts from them for years. As for the comment from one of them, the nun turned me into a lesbian. What a lot of total utter crap. She was born a lesbian, she just didn't know it. No one can make someone change there sexuality. We are born the way we are.
They also take advantage of the fact that they will be given special treatment. That lady was so chill about it that she gave that girl letters, presents, etc. Like she said she had so much evidence and the abuser was the one handing it to her she had no fear of ever getting caught.
This doesn't have anything to do with her being a female though, the church actively tries to hide the sexual abuse in the church, although yes she should she be punished and not given a pass because she's a female
It's even worse than that, childhood damage is *almost never* realized during childhood. Something tells me that the people that wrote the Statute of Limitations laws were the pedophiles.
I was sexually abused by a girl as well. I hate when people say girl on girl crime doesn’t exist or is sexy. What she did to me ruined my life in so many ways and it is just not taken seriously by anyone who should be helping me or who I begged to help me. I’m glad this is being exposed in the media in a real and serious way
That happens, but it’s hard for society to see there are female pedophiles. I just wonder if those mean nuns I had in school if they were not abused or abusers. I always wondered why they were so mean. Maybe some forced to be nuns from strict catholic upbringing, maybe gay, even abused in the home. Maybe combination of everything. Not to say there were not or are not devout sincere kind good nuns , there are. But even in covents you have evil people sometimes.
Also when its a child who SAs another child with the same manipulation tactics, its as destructive but many adults see it as innocent because its a child doing it.
@@venusqueen18 of course it is. But we wouldn't expect it of a woman seeing as most of us have a different relationship to children, especially after having their own.
@@josie955 There are horrible mothers and women in the world ( same for men ). Anyone who has experienced or watched the news or just read things would know mothers or women can be just as cruel because from the women I know or learn about, they are more about messing up your feelings and mental/emotional state than physically harming you. Whenever I see things like this, it doesn't suprise me in the sense that a woman did it but more of what a human did to another human ( which is what people should be suprised about and not that a woman did it because humans hurt other humans and that just reality ). Sorry for the rant and hopefully you get what I was trying to say because I don't think I worded it the best.
@@venusqueen18 I feel like the world is unfairly less harsh on women for these crimes. And also sometimes makes it seem impossible for women to be guilty of this kind of crime.
@@venusqueen18 physical violence committed by women towards children does surprise me. The perpetrators of these kind of crimes are more often than not men so, I don't think it's a far fetched assumption.
A lot is written about the damage done to children who were abused. But it can have a devastating effect on the life of someone falsely accused. I had worked at a school run by Sisters of Mercy nuns. A cover up needed to take place so a false report was placed in my file to transfer blame to me. At a later stage the head nun must have felt guilty that I was damaged by lies so she told me a story about white lies. She did not admit to a lie or say what the story related to but it was obvious to me. She said that if a lie was for the overall good of the community it was called a white lie. (So it was for the good of the community for me to be damaged to protect the nun's holy image) The nuns boast about how Jesus came to earth to get crucified to take the rap for what mankind was said to have done. But the nuns wont even take the rap for what they were responsible for. But they would rather lie about an innocent man and get him to take the rap. If people wished to read my story about that google white lies test blog and google innuendo test blog.
As a child victim of sexual assault by men and women, I applaud you for telling your stories. It is so important to dump the shame back on the abusers and expose them for what they did. Let the healing begin. God Bless🙏❤️🙏
What were the motel workers thinking when they see a nun booking a room alone with a teenager in the middle of the day multiple times?.. that they go there to pray?
lil Gal the death penalty will give them an easy escape. When they are in the hole, they deal with abuse from guards and self neglect to the point of becoming depressed.
This is why I can’t trust people with my children. I couldn’t live with myself for putting them in that situation. My heart goes out to all the victims out there struggling. Be strong, we care❤️
*“God’s love”* Absolutely sickening. These women used God as an excuse to abuse children. There’s no love involved in molestation, especially not God’s love.
@Miss Roberts your joking right? The black community is FULL of girls who have been raped by their uncles or fathers. The difference is the black community keeps it hushed and don't make documentaries about it. Please don't let your pride cloud your judgment.
I would've done more than dance on his grave! ! After relieving oneself, 25 cents worth of gas and a match would have been the way I sent that demon home.
Unbelievable how stupid people are, in 1970 there were over 400,000 priest worldwide (a bit more now), 200 were accuse of sexual misconduct, that is .06% of all the priests, so stop making Catholic church as the bad guys, there is sexual predator everywhere.
This is heartbreaking, these ladies are brave for telling their stories. Seems like clergy always know they can hide behind their religion when they do something horrible.
I grew up in rural Ireland. My grandfather would regularly try get me alone to abuse me when I was 10, I didn’t realize it was wrong until I was 14. Did he ever get in trouble? No. Why? Because no one believes a child.
Jane Smith unfortunately this is very true with a lot of families you’re not alone, I also tried to speak up but no one in my family believe me. And now it just has been left behind like if nothing ever happened.
Blessings to the both of you and may you find healing. No matter how conflicted or confused you may have felt; no matter how many times you went near those who hurt you despite knowing what awaited; no matter how long it took to speak up, only to be let down by those who were supposed to protect you.....you did Nothing wrong - You are innocent - You have purpose - You are valued - You are loved - You are not alone.
I mean it,my best friend has suicide attempts for process and pain and mental problems all legal process has taken for over 10 years than abuse of long time ago...finding out how system prays and makes children suffer is even worst than abuse of family member and having
Im a woman that was sexually physically and emotionally abused by several women starting from the age of 6. I spent my childhood being horrified of women and was only able to trust and feel comfortable around men. It wasnt until recently that ive started seeking help for cptsd and deeply rooted misogyny because nobody took me seriously until now. To think that there are people that believe female predators don't exist because they're not men is disheartening and horrifying for me and many other csa victims
Omg I hope that you are really healed from this trauma💗 I feel like this is the part of internalized misogyny no one talks about. How you can develop that same mentality when you have been abused by your own gender. It makes it hard for some women to stand up for women’s rights when they have too been abused by women. Not negating the experiences women have gone through by men nor excusing misogyny in of itself. Just shedding a light to another side of this issue. Much love
Deep down I hate women too for this reason, but I don’t show it outwardly. I just avoid socializing with them. I’ve been working on it because I know it’s not right/fair/logical. But I especially get pissed off by overly “nice” “feminine” “polite” women who are weak because they are the doormats who let this abuse happen to their children and stay silent (usually done by the husband or boyfriend). I’m a woman but I only have male friends. I also joined the army.
@@ProdavackaDivu Thank you for your honesty I hope you share this with a proper therapist to understand what that interference has done to your sexuality and your social ability to identify with the female gender. When we find out the damage done, we can begin to heal within! Fear sometimes causes people to not want to be who they are because the mold was dropped when they were little and they don't know how to glue it back together!
My mother 😈 was the instigator, and my dad complied. I was constantly agro and my mum threatened to put me in an institution if I didn't go along with what was happening. I was 9 years old when I finally had the courage to say "stop!!! No one is touching me ever again!!!!"😠 I then became the worst child in the world, according to my mother 😈. Special place in hell for her and my dad. 👍🏻
For me its older women(aside from a handful of people like close friends that are around my age)I'm still a minor. Thankfully my groomer is out of my life but I still get groped and cat called my grown women,its horrible.
When I was 11year old a minister saw me translate for 2 persons. It was in a border town,in Northern Mexico. He a asked me if I would be intended in helping him with his ministry, in Guatemala, for the summer. I said I would have to ask my elders for permission. He gave me his businesses card,and said it will pay good wages. I asked my Grandmother what she though. She was frighten about the possibility of being so far away, in a strange country. She worn me of the danger that a person taking advantage of a minor. She believed that,that minister would take advantage and would abuse me. Thank you Grandma you save me from dark outcome.
While that is a very daunting sentence...the truth is, is that we all have hurt The Creator since the fall of Adam and Eve. Sin is essentially not trusting in God. So I'm sure those who have been a victim of abuse, have done their fair share of hurting others too. "Hurt people hurt people."
I grew up Catholic. I didn't suffer any abuse probably because I was a loud mouth trouble maker. These nuns and priests go after the most alienated lonely kids and further weaken the most vulnerable. Absolutely sickening.
You realize the amount of priests and nuns that don’t abuse kids is superiorly higher than the amount of priests and nuns that do? Pretty sure that has something to do with it.....
But this goes on in many religious denominations, boys and girls camps, teachers, neighbours, friends and families........we have to be careful not to place these abusers only in one place......
I’m currently studying for the entry exam for law school and have been feeling really unmotivated today. Watching this video reminded me of what kind of impact I hope to make and that there are people like this who need help. Thank you so much💕
law school ? most the system is occult created and run . why do you think we get summons to court like one summons a demon. Cause we are considered already dead in the eyes of the courts. We "rise" for the judge like the dead rise from the graves after being summons. You and me own nothing , we can't cause we are dead. Everything is owed by our "persona" we are given on our birth certificate. That's why when filling out official papers one signs at the bottom where it's labeled "your persons" . Ones persona is in Caps on your birth certificate as it is registered as a franchise of the corporation of the united states of america. Our persona is not own by us but those who rule over us. However if one is born within the controlling occult ; their name is not in all caps as they are considered alive like the judge and they legally own their property. There is of course soo much more i cant remember off the top, including many terms and procedures within the legal system. There are many judges and DAs in on it and some defence lawyers who regularly have favors which are paid for to let people off. I know most would not believe all this but consider what you may be getting mixed up in as you would always be an outsider and always be at a disadvantage when working cases. but if you do carry on ... good mo fo ing luck.
Not ironic since they wear the mask of "Im religious so Im holier than u. And I cant do no wrong" n in public they are placed higher.. well as long their dirty secret isn't out.
Yes I Am Not Gay This Is The Vatican's Fault I Am Catholic It Doesn't Say In The Bible That Priests Can't Get Married The Vatican Is Disguisting They Ruined The Catholic Religion
Those nuns are expert at spotting the ones who will become their victims. Like predators in the animal kingdom they can tell when a child is vulnerable. And like many predatory animals they act with great efficiency.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 You don't make sense. Explain. Could you be referring to the idea that a woman committed to an illicit sexual relationship with an underage girl so that women would have a good idea of how sexual abuse occurs, know where it happens, how terrible it can feel, so that women everywhere have the tools to recognize sexual abuse in other places (*cough cough* sexual abuse by MALE elders and chauvinism *cough cough*)? That wouldn't make sense because that means sexual abuse has been occurring in other places which is the main reason women commit to walking in the shoes of sexual offenders in the first place. Huh.
It's about control! The nun gave her alcohol and drugs!?! It sucks there is a statute of limitations. They do not have to open their files- the priests/diocese. Grrr!
My mother told me whatever I do dont tell my sister what her husband did 2 me. She was a sweet beautiful mama but was shy and didnt know how to handle it
Linda Arringion Something similar happened to me. My mother and grandma told me to keep my mouth shut when my grandpa sexually assaulted me and told me not to go to pastor or cops.
@@professionalgambling6783The universe didnt come out of nowhere. It makes sense to say it was created - it couldnt have created itself. And if hell didn't exist, that would mean these people would get away with their evil crimes. But God will bring them all to account.
@@sonic4528 Ye, because you are purely ignorant, god can't be created, but everything else HAS to be created, which is bullshit and nonsense. If god wasn't created, but "it always was", why isn't it applicable that the universe as a matter, energy whatever it is idk exactly, always was as well? "God wasn't created because it's a spirit blabmlamla", what if the universe comes from another dimension, that we have no clue at this point? It's just ignorant, that you assume there is no other answer then "it's god". Not to mention, assuming your god is real it's a symbol of insanity, i never talk with people who do it, because they are either possessed by their own irrational brain or insane.
@@sonic4528 "if hell didn't exist, that would mean these people would get away with their evil crimes. But God will bring them all to account." Yea, there you go, you just admitted it, wishfully thinking, oooo my god! WHAT if there's no god! It means that the damn lions will not be judged for all the crimes that they did to the gazella's and other cow's... But wait a moment, if god exist, will they be judged? Of course not! For all the pain they cause they will not be judged, because they are animals, blabla, they kill to survive and crap, and in fact it's our sin that makes them do it. As i see it only applies to humans that they will suffer in your invented hell because they had a bad day, they did a mistake, or they got born at the wrong place, but other shit causing pain for years will not be judged, Not to mention, they can just apologize to jesus and enter his "party", and be forgiven, as criminals. If that's justice, then really, someone should call the hospital, and check if everything is ok with you. Really take this bullshit, and leave this planet, the level of wishful thinking and insane ignorance is out of any range. Seek psycho help, because that's what you all need. Religion is a mind sickness.
That poor woman needs therapy. She needs some money so she can get out and do what brings her joy. She needs to forgive herself and that bad nun. Humans do some amazingly awful things. You must escape them and get far away from them and try to live your life as best you can after such a bad experience. We all have had bad experiences, even horrific ones. Determine to push ahead, gain understanding and wisdom, and fight for a better life for yourself in spite of the past. That said, my heart goes out to all victims of abuse. WARNING TO PREDATORS: If I ever learn you are hurting someone, an adult, a child or even a small creature, may God have mercy on you BECAUSE I WONT!!!!!
Oh leave it out! Loads of ppl have been abused within their own homes. Not all of us feel it's worth giving our future over to the past tho. Unlike the 'victims' on programs like these. Life goes on. And well, if they'd allow it. But they prefer to linger in the past...
@@steenystuff1075 Not everyone's mind is the same or.has the same.strength. Even children have different personalities and strengths and weakness. It's wrong to make people feel bad for having a break down after being raped for 15 years straight. Just get over it? Some people dont have the ability to do that. My brother sodomized and tortured me for 13 years in our home and I was adopted and my mother tried to kill me and hated me and beat me and strangled me and burned me and no one helped me. Not even the police cause she covered it up to protect him. I had lost my mind as a teenager and I'm supposed to feel like I'm wrong for losing my mind? My brother screwed my dog who had worms and gave the worms to me after screwing me and blamed it on me. Stuck sewing pins in my body. Tied me up and tortured me and urinated on me and electrocuted me. For YEARS. Every day of my life was a living hell of fear. If I wouldn't have sex he would put my dog in the dryer and turn it on and because it caused me to have a mental disability and a break down I'm the one that should just get over it ? Really? I dont know what to think about people like you. Maybe you need to get over yourself cause if I kidnapped you and did to you all that was done to me you wouldn't just get over it. Your mind would be screwed up. If only you could experience what I went through for the full 13 years and more. I wanna see how successful your life is after your done being tortured for that long. . It will only be 13 years worth. You can handle it right? No big deal. You can be the poster child of psychology and show us all how to just ignore it and overcome. Children dont get to choose how their mind reacts to abuse. Some kids minds cant take it and their mind fractures. To blame it on them when they didnt choose any of it is sick. You sound like my abusive mom who said my brother wasnt responsible for what he did to me.
Truth_Soldier 91 I’m so sorry this happened to you. It makes my blood boil when I hear of a child suffering or having been suffered and abused. Like your name suggests you’re a soldier keep strong xx
@@steenystuff1075 Wow 🖕 What a horrendously insensitive comment. If you had a shred of intelligence or compassion, you'd know or care enough to find out how abuse affects other people.
I've seriously wondered what happens behind closed doors of churches...that's horrible! And to think a lot of people put these abusers on such high pedestals is alarming!!
Regardless of religion, sexual abuse by women towards other women or girls has been mostly silenced!!! It is terrifying and many girls/women do not have anyone to talk to about it or they feel ashamed, especially if it is a female family member doing the abusing.
Yeah same with woman abusing men, one of my closet friends got sexually abused, I'm not gonna let out the specific details for respect but when he tried talking to someone, they called him a wimp, weakling, etc. it's awful, all types of sexual abuse is horrible, no matter the gender.
"how someone could hurt an innocent child" -> by people without a conscience, without GOD, without morals about what is right and what is wrong, by people who thrash GOD, and DIGNITY over political affiliation, that believe in sexual preference, pedophilia is fine, homosexuality is fine, being lesbian is fine, abortion five stars, is fine, deciding child's sex after birth is fine, or who use religion as a front or excuse to carry out their deeds.
Part of the reason for the statute of limitations in some places is because physical DNA evidence doesn't last, and at some point it boils down to peoples' words against others. Some great men have lost their lives because of false allegations that later came to the surface as lies.
@@AllThePeppermint So you're saying that because "some great men" were falsely accused, we should silence EVERY VICTIM whose time just ran out? Fucking bogus. If those men are actually decent people, they'd be happy to run that risk if it meant that the thousands of victims of sexual abuse have a greater chance of justice.
My kids will not be sleeping over at anyone’s house. They will be educated in self defence and will understand the concept of consent at a very young age.
That's really the only way to save them. teach them about consent and tell them that its okay to attack if someone forces them. Also make sure they are taught and trained enough not to freeze in the moment of crisis coz that can happen and even if that happens let's make sure that the kids know that they can always share everything with their parents so that we can fight their fight for them
Yeah but you can't stop your kids from living just because of a sick ass individual that's not right for your children not to be able to have sleepovers with friends and things like that not everyone is like this but yeah there is definitely some evil people in this world you just have to give your kids that talk
@@MissBezy exactly !! We just have to take whatever precautions we can and then let our kids live their life. Not everything can be controlled or prevented at the parents' level.
@@MissBezy you miss understand me I will not be stopping them from living in any way I will just be preparing them for the worst and hoping for the best.
If whatever said by the alleged victims in the video is true, I think the two main reasons why these cases were ignored were: 1. They were nuns 2. They were women
I was just thinking the same thing. It's crazy how the world understands that priests do abuse boys on a major scale, but for some reason there has still been this image of innocents when it comes to nuns and girls.
@@zephyr056 are you saying that the pain these women have expressed is not real? That somehow, despite the fact that they were children when the "relationships" began that it was okay? They were VICTIMS of women who were in a position of authority over them. They were manipulated and preyed upon. it may have taken years for them to come forward, but do not discount the damage done by the abuse.
Susie Young No I are not saying that the women are not currently feeling pain that is real. What I said is if they had not got it rammed down their throats that they were victims then they probably would not have seen the relationship with the nuns as a problem. If the therapist had told that they were lucky they had received love from the nuns then the women may have went through life with fond memories of the nuns. It seems that Ann's problems could have been linked by her family not approving of the relationship with the nun and trying to put a stop to it. And Trish' said that she thought her problem was caused by being raped by her priest uncle. (The section where the women tell how they defended the nuns starts at 9:00) Sometimes stress and anxiety can develop for no reason at all and then people try to find something to link it to. There are some religious women who are told they must wear a mask over their face and if someone tore the mask off they would feel stress like they had been raped, so it seems those in control tell people what they should be stressed about. Also if you carefully watch this video I do not think the contact went past hugging and kissing in bed. And the mention of kissing in the diary did not mention if the kiss was only on the cheek. The purpose of this video is to make the nuns look evil. And if touching of the girl's breasts or vagina had happened it would have been mentioned.
Oh you sweet young ladies - I am so sorry for everyone that suffered so much evil. FAITH is believing and trusting in what you haven't seen. Place your hurt, anger, rage, tears and yourselves in Jesus' Hands. Put your faith in Him - not in people. In the Holy Bible, Jesus says "you can talk to Me as though I am with you like a friend" Younglings, I've done that - His shoulders are broad and strong enough to cry on, broad enough because a lot of people have and are doing just that. I include myself - I've been talking to Him for many years now and if anyone should hear you talking and they can't see anyone with you and are asked "who are you talking to?" Be bold and tell them "Jesus" - and keep walking and talking - He will help you heal emotionally and spiritually. Trust in HIM.
Definitely not for Violent Rape, and I'm not justifying any sex crimes. They're all bad! But, wouldn't lesser degrees, i.e in statutory rape cases, be difficult to prove, over decades with lost DNA, as memories fade, and ect!!!
They put a statue of limitations because women and children are a low priority in society. Men make these rules. Also the courts would be open 24/7 with these foul cases. It is ongoing.
Statute of limitations is absurd, you get abused, you are told you will get in trouble if you tell, you believe the lies, then when you realise they were all lies...... sorry to late, you should have said something sooner.
A friend of mine who is in her 60s still cannot bear to be under a cover/ duvet because she was sexually abused and threatened as a child. That saddens me so much shes still scared decades later.
My great grandmother- who was a very strong Catholic btw, always used to say "priests take their collar off, they're like everybody else!" In other words, treat nuns and priests like you would your average person, they are NOT God, they do not have magic powers!!
NO kidding...ever hear of that film noir actress, Veronica Lake? She said herself that a priest asked her to sit on his lap so he could tell her a joke. He then put his arm around her waist and grabbed her breast, then put his other hand under his skirt and put his fingers under the strap of her panties...she implied he did something further but she didn't clarify what exactly. (And this was back in the 1930s.)
I once asked my dad why all the kids in the street called the local priest Father , he replied " because there is a good chance he is their father " how sad this world is and it is getting worse.
This is exactly about religion, false religion. These acts and worst acts are done because people don't believe in God. And the ones who do believe in God worship God any kind of way that feels right. We must worship God like He tells us through the Bible. And not by any particular church's doctrine. Virtually every Christian is following the church or their own ideas. We must follow God. GodBlessU!
It can be done under the guise of religion, but others do the same under the cover of health care, teaching, social work, sports coaching, military training ...
Its abuse of power.. and that the individual came into the church for power.. They thought God would impart his power into them.. he didn't, they took it anyway!
@@arnie8604 my male cousin whos actually like a brother to me was abused by a woman when he was 4 yrs old. Hes 40 now and hes totally fucked up, he'll never get over it, it destroyed his life.
Its most often men who are after tweens yes women like mary kay latourno but its also different mind with women as well they think its realationship and they dont hunt victims like the men do so im not saying its ok just they have different mind set and it also usually older teen boys
@@ShadeofmySoul5768 - Yes, satan does have a kingdom. It's called HELL. That's his Kingdom. It's called this earth. This is his kingdom. It's even stated in the Bible.
Jada Palmer Hmm. You are right. Matthew 4:8-9 “ Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9 And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.” Yeah, God let him have authority and power over this world. I’ll be honest I don’t think hell is his kingdom because that is where he is going to die.
@@astrum376 OF COURSE but it is more often than not women that get taken advantage of by men. For a woman to know that and how terrible it is (e.g. being catcalled at the least) and abuse it as well as her position is terrifying to me
As someone who has had a bad experience with nuns. Let me tell you why. When I was younger I was taken to a missionary Baptist church school and I was kinda new and I was young, I had anxiety at a young age so back then before leaving class, everyone was supposed to pray the Lord prayer but I was new so when I saw the person who was supposed to pick me up from school was standing outside, I got up while others were praying because I desperately needed and wanted to go home until a nun pulled me and then went and locked me and herself in a closet and forced me to pray while she held me by my coller and the other hand a candle. Every since then I see nuns as something else than nuns.
@@Lerian_V forgiveness is the heart of God; it is His character. Yes, if she will forgive from the heart then she will definitely heal. I was able to love the man who abused me, when before all I did was hate him and delight in my hatred of him. I justified my hatred because to me, he deserved it, but when Christ chose me for salvation and worked His grace in my heart then, and only then, was I able to forgive. Oh, and what a tremendous blessing to live in peace and joy, my heart cleansed of all anger and hatred, so that whenever I was in the company of the man who abused me nothing - and I mean NOTHING - entered my mind of the abuse! Great is the Lord, and worthy to be praised.
@@david-dj8or have you ever been truly manipulated by a person you trusted when you were a child? You seem to fail to understand how that form of abuse works...
I went to Catholic school until the 5th grade. I begged my parents to take me out, i even had them sign a contract with me at 10 years of age. This was in the 60s. The nuns were sadistic sickos.
There's a Death Cab for Cutie lyric that goes "In Catholic school, as vicious as Roman rule , I got my knuckles bruised by a lady in black, And I held my tongue as she told me, 'Son Fear is the heart of love,' so I never went back. My dad attended Catholic school for a bit in the late 50's/early 60's. The first time he heard this line, his first response was "he's lucky that's all she did to him." He said it so nonchalantly, like it was merely a fact of life that you'd be abused in Catholic school.
@@thereawakener9554 Why I can certainly see and believe many nuns were indeed pedophiles -I knew two good nuns who certainly were NOT. One of them is my great aunt, who often stayed with us when visiting the area.
@ Kelly I hope you find courage and wisdom to overcome this. You had given birth to 3 sons. That is a real blessing. I'm a doctor from Sri Lanka and there are therapy for these. Glad that you came out with this.
Octavia Ortiz how sad it made my skin crawl Must of been scary for her as a child going through that I cannot even fathom what these poor kids went through 😥😢🙏🏻I pray god almighty rids the World of this evil Ameen
@@d72fish you must shout it from the rooftops loud and proud to get that burden they put on you back where it belongs with the perpetrator. Silence is the friend of this crime, there must be nowhere for these vile people to hide.
Exactly!!! Don't bring down my perish ppffff yeh OK! The second I would have seen she wasn't gone,I would have been at the cops! Probably wouldn't have even went to the priest in the first place! Ugh sick. Imagine how many other girls she abused, the priest was probably abusing kids too!
In the 50's....it was a completley different world, than now. It would have been considered rude...the parents would have been trouble makers and the Children..the whole Family would have been treated as though they were the problem.
Majority of childhood sexual abusers is someone the child trust, loves and knows. Parents please pay attention to who you let around your kids. It can be your brother, it can be your sister, it can be your best friend, a cousin etc. Please believe your children, watch for warning signs. I was sexually abused for 4-5 years and it started when I was 4. I was too afraid to tell my mom or anyone else because I was told to keep it a secret and I would get in trouble. Please just watch over your kids.
I don't know how anyone can be religious when the Catholic Church abuse is so rampant. My husband was brainwashed into thinking his RAPE was a part of God's Will. He thought he deserved it. How fucked up is that?!?
Wait, did she say she had VIDEOTAPES ?! Of the abuse? That sick nun videotaped it and gave the tapes to her victim, then later denied it in court and the case was DISMISSED?! I pray all the victims will somehow receive justice for their bravery!🙏💔
@@nevermind6141 correlation doesnt equal causation so in many ways this statement is very incorrect. It's like saying all blacks are dangerous because crimes are high in their community or all Muslims are terrorists because of certain events that have happened in the past. It's just the ppl who are totally bonkers and nitpick from scriptures to fit their needs. I rly hope the nuns and every pedo to walk upon the earths ground go to hell. Ik what its like to be abused and I dont think I'll ever speak out about it but it is what it is. I've learned to move on I guess. Theres no point for me to dig up the past cause it'll just hurt plus no one would beleive me.
@Music Playlist You are being mad disrespectful and blasphemous. Yeah this is horrible but why blame God for this horrible crime? God didnt rape noone and He told Mary she would bare His Son and she was happy to do that. By the way God doesn't have to actually have sex to get someone pregnant, He is God. Your falling for the Devil,s plan.
@Music Playlist As until the 4th century A.D., when the Roman Emperor Constantine converted himself and his empire to Christianity, the Romans were pagan (not Jewish nor Christian), they did not believe in Satan when they crucified Jesus. They did so because Pontius Pilate, unable to think of a valid reason to convict Jesus, turned the decision making over to the Jews present, most of whom chose instead to exculpate Barabbas. Jesus was conceived not by a carnal "rape," but by the Holy Spirit aspect of the God trinity. And from time immemorial before Jesus, nonreligious men raped anyone they could, because they could. Cases in point: the depraved Emperors Tiberius and Caligula.
The " i never hurt anybody " at the end really hurt me and i think this video will really stick with me from now on even if i don't remember the name one day it will still be in there
35 years ago my father told me that he was raped and molested by Nuns and Priests in the Catholic orphanage he was placed in as a child. This was somewhere in Pennsylvania and 3 of his brother's were also there and suffered the same. I can say this knowledge forever changed my feelings about religion, Catholics, Nuns, Priests, the Vatican, the Pope and anyone else in a position of power there. None of them cared then and they certainly don't care now. There should be no such thing as a statute of limitations when it comes to abuse (especially sexual abuse) of a minor. I have 10 years of college in Psychology, Sociology, Social Work w/emphasis on sex abuse and Health Psychology & Spirituality. The amount of time it takes to recover enough from this type of trauma, understand the law, find enough strength to face and accuse your abuser will almost always exceed the statute of limitations. The people who made the laws know this and have deliberately set those statutes to protect themselves and their friends in power from ever having to answer to their crimes.
Exactly! The churches in my opinion were set up to do exactly what it has been doing for years! Take money from the believers and abuse children. They get away with so much! I would never allow my children anywhere near organized churches 🤮
@@Promiseland2024 i have an AWSOME church that i go to. But i have to drive over an hour away to get there. The church i found where ei live is supposed to be great and they let someone who was stripped of their title and kicked out of their own church for traveling around and taking advantage of young women, getting them pregnant and leaving them or having them get abortions. His name is something Jennings maybe jenkins. I think Collin. I'll look it up. He is still doing this currently. The name of the guy is clayton jennings. Please be aware he is a wolf in sheeps clothing.
@@TinaB.elcher That's, PRECISELY, what the Catholic Church has ALWAYS done, for centuries, let alone DECADES: knowingly, "passing the trash," despite it being absolutely inexcusable & EVIL! Most organized religions, TBF, do this type of unconscionable "damage control," to some extent, outrageously, &, unfortunately...
Need to find another religion, they all do that, Mary don’t get you into heaven, only our Lord, Jesus died for all of our sins, not Mary...all that doing about anything you want, than go ask for forgiveness, over ,and over, and over, the whole religion is messed up. The Pope isn’t getting you in heaven!
@@pinkhare4344 I think that if you do whatever you want and ask for forgiveness and then turn this into a habit of yours, you aren't getting repented. Bc you know you're doing this to seemingly deceive your conscience that you've done the part where you pray and play regretful, but in reality, you're not sorry and you haven't cleansed yourself from the sin. Everyone who does this is only deceiving themselves and they are by all means not repented.
I admire both of you for having the courage to tell your story. So many times, the issue is avoided or brush under the carpet. I sincerely hope that you both can heal, and most of all find some peace.
I had an elder friend who is now passed, was raised in Catholic school and stated she was molested by a nun for years as a young girl. She grew up to be a fierce advocate of the opressed.
" I never hurt anybody " Wow that made me cry. I was on the verge the whole time but that did me in. They deserve the world and their abusers deserve the hell they wanted everyone to believe in.
That set me to crying, too. Even if the pedophile goes to prison, they get three hots and a cot when there are many victims who fight addiction, struggle to maintain employment and a family, and who may be homeless.
I disagree with due respect, i never or heard anyone near me experience this awfulness by a priest or other. But i think and sorry if i offend anyone not my intention, i feel stupid coward disgusting ppl use "organizations" like this. i have however know ppl who have been abused by an immediate "family" member and "police officer". These sick minded ppl hide in many different ways. And the church, any denomination for that matter, is no exception. So practicing the faith is based on a relationship through Jesus to God. It is discussing perverse ppl use many ways to abuse children. Makes me sick!
@@Carolinar74 Matthew 7:15,16,17 words of Jesus. If the actions you see of organization are rotten you leave and don't look back. For every good tree produces good fruit and every rotten tree produces rotten fruit.
There is no rehabilitation for perverts and pedophiles they deserve life in prison. The pain and suffering that a victim goes through is horrific. I hope and pray you know you are the victim you did nothing wrong and I hope you're going to counseling to help you through this God bless you stay strong
As we raise the next generation most of humanity will be saved. Our children will be accepting and brave, they will stand up against abuse and they will save the world, one voice at a time.
Very good advice, which I learned too late. I hope people pay attention to it. And, as Maya Angelou wrote: "When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time."
I'm sure they have a psychological reason for keeping it.Something someone who was not sexually abused wouldn't understand. Many wind up on drugs,in abusive relationship, prostitution etc.
Carol Jones I agree that they should throw the necklaces away, what reason would someone try and hold on to them??? Makes no sense to me, I have never been abused but psychologically or not that would make me GET RID of them all the more sooner
You can't preach or worship God and act like an angel, and then you walk around like a Devil seeking thier next victim and doing sinful things to others and get away with it.
There has to be limitations because of lawyers. For every real victim there is also a fake victim where people are falsely accused so lawyers can make money. Sorry but that's reality.
@@karenprescott5518 that's actually not the reality. If you look up the actual statistics, only between 2 and 5% of all reported sexual assaults are false. And only 30% of all total sexual assaults are reported at all. So that's means 70% of rapes and assaults go unreported and the perpetrator gets away with it to go do it to someone else. Plus, when a person press charges against an assailant, it's the prosecutor that represents that case in court and they work for the city or the state. And most criminal defense attorneys are public defenders and there's no money in that at all. So with all that, you'd think the least we could do as a society is not put a time limit on it. We don't put a time limit on murder because a murder ALWAYS MATTERS. Sexual assault should always matter, too.
I get so much the woman of short hair when she said the nun ruined her spirituality, her sexuality her life... I've been abused from men and women, but been abused from the same sex changes you in a different way (at least for me and I could see that for these women too). This kind of abuse from men or woemn always makes you think either it was a relationship or that it was somehow your flat, but abuse from the same sex makes you doubt about your sexuality even when you're just a little girl. I'm chrstian, and sometimes I struggle with my faith and sexuality because of those events, they really took away my innocence and it's been so hard to take it back. Anything wrong, like this, always swists how things should be, me being abused by women, my head tried to convince me I liked women, which is not my case. When I realized this it made me so free, I finally understood why I felt like that and that feeling stopped. A void was truly filled by knowing the truth. If your went through something like this, please, don't give up, I know is the hardest battle, but you can heal, and even forgive. Churches did me wrong, but God didn't, he'll make justice. I hope this can help someone.
I will join you, you get to go first, Roger gets 2nd and I’ll take 3rd, just make sure she is still breathing cause I intend to let her know what’s what. I am sorry you were abused by this Fucking Pig of a woman In my case it was a man who was buddy buddy with a priest and they both intended to switch on and off abusing me. Best.
I was raped by my step brother from the age of 5 until my 14th birthday. He was 16 when it started. Almost nightly.. my mom let him do it and told me I better not tell bc I will be the one to jail. He would dress in a clown costume and hide under the bed or in the closet. I'm still screwed up in the head. I have 3 son's now, ages 18,14 and 9. And I've been told I'm too over protective of them.. that may be so, but I can't help it. I'm 36 now, I still hate my mother, who btw, still talks to him and come to find out they've been sleeping around even back then.. I hate them! I'm still scared to use a closet and my mattress is on the floor so nothing can get under there. I know people will laugh, but I tried to open a closet and I've tried having my bed off the floor and still can't do it. Also my middle son was born on my rapist birthday.. My anxiety gets bad and I have nightmares. Sorry I'm just rambling on.. somehow I forgot for a moment I was on RUclips.. hmm, maybe I needed to vent a little and didn't realize it.. thanks to whoever is reading this, that you actually took the time to read the whole thing. Hope everyone is doing great in these times. Love to all and keep safe
Your so strong, I’m sorry that happened. People truly are evil. I hope you find peace, much love
May peace, love, comfort and strength fill your body and free you from that of what you face and may you find the strength to fight against this evil that lingers around , good always succeeds 🙏
Sowie dear, I pray you find peace of mind Amen! 🙏
Prayers for your peace of mind.
More power to you❤️ you are surely bold that you overcame all those bad things happened to you
To the survivors: Thank you for telling your story. I see you, I hear you, I believe you.
Agreed and very well said!!!
Sometimes all they need are those...victims feel an isolation and it's important for them to be heard
Thank you for believing.
Ah fuken old hagg
Absolutely! Well said!
When the devil approaches you, it won't look like the devil.
Truth!!!!!
Mike T- this has proven to be true in many cases.
It will diffenitly look like.a.priest or a nun
Mike T , it might !!
Devil's spawn
Molesting a child should be punished with a lifetime in prison.
yes! with a daily dose of punishment, same what they did to those poor children.
I would say electric chair
You mean death,right?
Nope, a slow slow death
And castration
I don't trust literally ANYONE with my child some people call me paranoid but I don't care.
Miley Vargas better to be paranoid than sorry. It's fine you are just being a good parent
Miley Vargas I can relate bc I am the same way with my daughters
I was the same way. Years later, my daughter told me about the little girl who 1did things to her... Guess What? You really can't be there 100% of the time but you do your best.
Shelley DeWitt so true bc A little boy the same age as my youngest daughter would come over and play. I had to put a end to that the moment my daughter called me and said the little boy and the girl his cousin had tried to sexually harass her and my step son. I was at work crying bc I never heard such hurt like that from my child and not to mention she was crying when she was telling me how uncomfortable it made her feel.
Also being a victim myself of child abuse and rape as an adult it made me feel very angry bc I know the effects that it does to a person. It’s a shame that ppl may not believe it but a lot of kids can also become predators at a young age and then as adults what they turn all the way into.
@@Sallyn948 you cant molest an adult. You can sexually assult an adult but you cant molest them.
My father was abused by a Catholic priest, and the circles of pain continue through generations. He used to scream if I entered his bedroom. These abusers are hungry devouring wolves in sheeps clothing.
That is really fucking sad he used to scream
Omg I’m so sorry 😞
Heartbreaking
Pray to Jesus the great deliverer for healing and restoration. He alone has the power to save to heal and restore. Read the Bible and pray and listen to the voice of God and not listen to voice of the pope/priests which believe in seducing spirits and practice doctrine of the devil.
Poor guy :( my condolences.
I hate it when people like this use God as a way to hurt and abuse people . Its disgusting.
Yes, it really is. 😩😩😩
Omg it is disgusting how could they say God told them to do this. It’s more like the devil. These people will rot in hell for doing this to these poor children. It makes me so sad how people take advantage of children.
@@dixersdc3963 We can't blame God for the horrible decisions stupid humans make. We have free will. Unfortunately, so do stupid humans.
@@dixersdc3963 then there would be no point in living or anything existing if everything was just perfect. people have free will. i suggest you do more research, look deeper into things and into yourself. there's always more to learn. :)
Dixers DC weird you’d Blame the wrong “ fella”
I don’t see you putting the blame where it’s due. Why is that? Do you favor Satan ? Are you afraid to blame Satan for this bc he is 💯 percent behind these sickening unholy things. Satan hates you and every other one of God’s children and will do anything to see you suffer and hurt and parish. God gave everyone free will. And LOOK what ppl are doing with it.... God never promised that we wouldn’t suffer or have suffering in fact he tells us exactly what to expect never said the path to righteousness was going to be easy because it isn’t I feel sorry for you my friend the devil has a grip on you and I don’t want to see you or anyone else go to hell why are you angry at God? God bless anyone reading this and sorry to the people who have been and still are enduring suffering. Please don’t kill yourselves maybe you’re suffering won’t be in vain in you will be able to help other children who have no one to go to may you be a light in this dark dark world.
The dad failed his daughter by not reporting this to the police.
Their god failed them all
@@justwinfelipe6495 its not the god that's the problem its the nuns and the devil
Both parents failed her.
@@subaru4920
Pedophiles ALWAYS manage to insert themselves ANY and Everywhere Children are present,and Pervert, Pollute, Infiltrate and Destroy ANY and Everything meant for Good and the Betterment of Humanity.
@@justwinfelipe6495 The god isn't real.
This is a problem that people blindly trust nuns and priests.
Khatuna KT
I know!!! Why are people so dam naïve!!!????
@@TrollBot. I am like 'Why does this priest need a luxury car and a designer watch? Greed is a sin' . People get so offended when I point out the obvious.
It is indeed a problem. But what should happen is compare their actions and sayings to God's words. Not all priests say or do the right thing. They preach wrong stuff and make people believe in things that are untrue. And you need to have a certain knowledge about your religion to point out the flaws of those bad teachings. If you dont have that, you sadly blindly believe them. But people like that are everywhere. The church is divided in all those branches, each one teaching something different. Let's pray for a better world. Idk what else to say...
But thankfully most priests and nuns are incredible loving people. We just mostly hear about the worst cases. But look at any other countries like Brazil, Philippines or Lebanon
Khatuna KT that’s true. It’s unlikely that a priest or nun would do that but it does happen
When they turn 19 it stops. Because they are attracted to kids. So sick.
It's a bunch of evil people in this world.
Ronda Picou ..so sick...they shall reap pain and destruction amongst all of themselves & everyone that approves of this sickness..
Urlas Hedout wtf 🤢
@Urlas Hedout are you serious 😢😢😢 where did you hear or see that sick shit.
Damn!
You can hear the anger in her voice when she asked "Why did nobody stop her?" I can't imagine the amount of trauma that woman left behind.
Why didn't she stop the nun herself when she was old enough? By then she knew it was wrong but still went along with it. Why no-one helped is because she kept it to herself. If she wasn't able to help herself, why should anyone else be expected to when they didn't know.
@@jimmyavpi likely because she was being groomed. the nun was supposed to be somebody she should’ve been able to trust, and so she might not have thought it was wrong.
I can
@Tamusi don't talk nonsense. They didn't tell anyone about it because they wanted it to happen. Maybe not to begin with but as they reached the age of consent, they were quite happy to be in a relationship with those nuns. What other reason have they got for keeping love letters and gifts from the nuns other than they wanted to be with them. If you hate the person for molesting you, you don't keep love letters and gifts from them for years. As for the comment from one of them, the nun turned me into a lesbian. What a lot of total utter crap. She was born a lesbian, she just didn't know it. No one can make someone change there sexuality. We are born the way we are.
@@jimmyavpi You need help and education on sexual abuse. I hope you don’t have kids in your care.
Sexual assault shouldn't have ANY statute of limitations.
If it's a sin to God why reap consequence, Let justice prevail
@@SMGAPR8oh shut up
Abuse is abuse. I dont give a damn if its a female, she abuses her power she needs to be held accountable for.
Courtney Sims Women like her should be NAILED.
Right you are! No special treatment because she happens to be a woman.
people need to be punished regardless of their gender
They also take advantage of the fact that they will be given special treatment. That lady was so chill about it that she gave that girl letters, presents, etc. Like she said she had so much evidence and the abuser was the one handing it to her she had no fear of ever getting caught.
This doesn't have anything to do with her being a female though, the church actively tries to hide the sexual abuse in the church, although yes she should she be punished and not given a pass because she's a female
I'm SO glad their faces are shown and their names are published. Stop hiding these freak of nature abusers.
SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT. THANK YOU.
Thank you for saying out my mind!
Thank you.
Especially important to show how ordinary they look.
Childhood damage is often realized during adulthood.
It's even worse than that, childhood damage is *almost never* realized during childhood.
Something tells me that the people that wrote the Statute of Limitations laws were the pedophiles.
Yup
@@juliec5151 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 yesss
True. Bcos adulthood will make u realize that life is not something u thought wen u wer a kid will be.
so so true
I was sexually abused by a girl as well. I hate when people say girl on girl crime doesn’t exist or is sexy. What she did to me ruined my life in so many ways and it is just not taken seriously by anyone who should be helping me or who I begged to help me. I’m glad this is being exposed in the media in a real and serious way
That happens, but it’s hard for society to see there are female pedophiles. I just wonder if those mean nuns I had in school if they were not abused or abusers. I always wondered why they were so mean. Maybe some forced to be nuns from strict catholic upbringing, maybe gay, even abused in the home. Maybe combination of everything. Not to say there were not or are not devout sincere kind good nuns , there are. But even in covents you have evil people sometimes.
😡😡🙏
Also when its a child who SAs another child with the same manipulation tactics, its as destructive but many adults see it as innocent because its a child doing it.
And one might assume that they force their victims into doing favors to them too
Which is even more scandalous
Same by her and her brother I was 6 years old
It’s not only the men abusing kids.This is disgusting.
I thought it was common knowledge that both men and women can abuse children but you're right, this is disgusting.
@@venusqueen18 of course it is.
But we wouldn't expect it of a woman seeing as most of us have a different relationship to children, especially after having their own.
@@josie955 There are horrible mothers and women in the world ( same for men ).
Anyone who has experienced or watched the news or just read things would know mothers or women can be just as cruel because from the women I know or learn about, they are more about messing up your feelings and mental/emotional state than physically harming you.
Whenever I see things like this, it doesn't suprise me in the sense that a woman did it but more of what a human did to another human ( which is what people should be suprised about and not that a woman did it because humans hurt other humans and that just reality ).
Sorry for the rant and hopefully you get what I was trying to say because I don't think I worded it the best.
@@venusqueen18 I feel like the world is unfairly less harsh on women for these crimes. And also sometimes makes it seem impossible for women to be guilty of this kind of crime.
@@venusqueen18 physical violence committed by women towards children does surprise me.
The perpetrators of these kind of crimes are more often than not men so, I don't think it's a far fetched assumption.
“Why does she get to live on the blue sky; the pink cloud, and I live in the dungeon? I never hurt anybody.” wow, truly heartbreaking
Why do they think God doesn't see everything that happens? Every person life is completely open to God.
That last 10 seconds resonated with me the most. How she barely whispers "I never hurt anybody". That just tore me up.
Victims suffer for life. Rapist are life takers murders!!!! May they burn forever.
A lot is written about the damage done to children who were abused. But it can have a devastating effect on the life of someone falsely accused. I had worked at a school run by Sisters of Mercy nuns. A cover up needed to take place so a false report was placed in my file to transfer blame to me. At a later stage the head nun must have felt guilty that I was damaged by lies so she told me a story about white lies. She did not admit to a lie or say what the story related to but it was obvious to me. She said that if a lie was for the overall good of the community it was called a white lie. (So it was for the good of the community for me to be damaged to protect the nun's holy image) The nuns boast about how Jesus came to earth to get crucified to take the rap for what mankind was said to have done. But the nuns wont even take the rap for what they were responsible for. But they would rather lie about an innocent man and get him to take the rap. If people wished to read my story about that google white lies test blog and google innuendo test blog.
SabbyKatt Shimmer yeah - that got me too.
These NUNS groomed these poor girls, so proud they are speaking out.
*real strong , WOMEN💪🖤
They are "SISTERS"!
Not "NUNS"!
Fake
@@shevick3514 no it's not but ok
@Trepa, thanos peppa Pig no it's not
As a child victim of sexual assault by men and women, I applaud you for telling your stories. It is so important to dump the shame back on the abusers and expose them for what they did. Let the healing begin. God Bless🙏❤️🙏
All I can say is if you have children protect and educate them!
nobody is a saint.
No one.
True
Only Jesus 🙌
Fanaticism is one of the worst things ever. It took humanity to a darkness with no return.
what about actual saints?
True, not even your parents
What were the motel workers thinking when they see a nun booking a room alone with a teenager in the middle of the day multiple times?.. that they go there to pray?
Good question.
Exactly! There are so many opportunities for someone to intervene!! Hate this!!
Sadly a lot of motel owners know that rape happens under their building and they just don’t care.
"It was the 70s" is the excuse they always give.
Plus, the nun doesn't usually go out in her whole habit
Yes they don't care😑😑
Sexual abusers should have life sentences, the amount of permanent trauma changes a person completely. Basically killing someone’s life away.
lil Gal AGREED 👏🏻👍🏻
Agreed. the death penalty is to easy they deserve to suffer and rot in a cell.
lil Gal I agree. People do not understand the pain or trauma.
not just sexual. Any abuse, even emotional can cause permanent trauma.
lil Gal the death penalty will give them an easy escape. When they are in the hole, they deal with abuse from guards and self neglect to the point of becoming depressed.
This is why I can’t trust people with my children. I couldn’t live with myself for putting them in that situation. My heart goes out to all the victims out there struggling. Be strong, we care❤️
Amen Amanda. I’m suspicious of everyone. Not sorry!
*“God’s love”*
Absolutely sickening. These women used God as an excuse to abuse children. There’s no love involved in molestation, especially not God’s love.
@Miss Roberts your joking right? The black community is FULL of girls who have been raped by their uncles or fathers. The difference is the black community keeps it hushed and don't make documentaries about it. Please don't let your pride cloud your judgment.
@Miss Roberts mostly white people, not always.
@Nattie bubbles that's a contradiction. And the 10+ people who agreed with your comment are idiots.
Not excuses. Leurre.
Kylie Pretty almost cried reading this you’re absolutely right😖this is sick as hell I cannot stand people like this
My great grandfather abused all 8 of his daughters. When he died, they danced on his grave.
Wooooow 😮
Wtf
Oml, what kind of abuse
I would've done more than dance on his grave! ! After relieving oneself, 25 cents worth of gas and a match would have been the way I sent that demon home.
@@tieshayarborough2926 lmfaoooo "send that demon home"
I am so glad this video came across my feed.The TRUTH is coming out.
tell us your story if you got one
To tell, not to tell, how much or what to tell, remains at the discretion of the individual.
It always does!!
There was NEVER a secret...there was just NO "media coverage"...thank RUclips...or you STILL wouldn't know...
Unbelievable how stupid people are, in 1970 there were over 400,000 priest worldwide (a bit more now), 200 were accuse of sexual misconduct, that is .06% of all the priests, so stop making Catholic church as the bad guys, there is sexual predator everywhere.
This is heartbreaking, these ladies are brave for telling their stories. Seems like clergy always know they can hide behind their religion when they do something horrible.
More like a cult not religion. I'm sure religion does not allow SA
I grew up in rural Ireland.
My grandfather would regularly try get me alone to abuse me when I was 10, I didn’t realize it was wrong until I was 14.
Did he ever get in trouble? No.
Why? Because no one believes a child.
Jane Smith unfortunately this is very true with a lot of families you’re not alone, I also tried to speak up but no one in my family believe me. And now it just has been left behind like if nothing ever happened.
Blessings to the both of you and may you find healing. No matter how conflicted or confused you may have felt; no matter how many times you went near those who hurt you despite knowing what awaited; no matter how long it took to speak up, only to be let down by those who were supposed to protect you.....you did Nothing wrong - You are innocent - You have purpose - You are valued - You are loved - You are not alone.
I mean it,my best friend has suicide attempts for process and pain and mental problems all legal process has taken for over 10 years than abuse of long time ago...finding out how system prays and makes children suffer is even worst than abuse of family member and having
My mother's husband too got abused in Ireland, by a priest... that's really despicable, his family didn't believed him.
Jane Smith
Sad! Not that they don’t believe you but they choose to ignore!
Im a woman that was sexually physically and emotionally abused by several women starting from the age of 6. I spent my childhood being horrified of women and was only able to trust and feel comfortable around men. It wasnt until recently that ive started seeking help for cptsd and deeply rooted misogyny because nobody took me seriously until now. To think that there are people that believe female predators don't exist because they're not men is disheartening and horrifying for me and many other csa victims
Omg I hope that you are really healed from this trauma💗 I feel like this is the part of internalized misogyny no one talks about. How you can develop that same mentality when you have been abused by your own gender. It makes it hard for some women to stand up for women’s rights when they have too been abused by women. Not negating the experiences women have gone through by men nor excusing misogyny in of itself. Just shedding a light to another side of this issue. Much love
Deep down I hate women too for this reason, but I don’t show it outwardly. I just avoid socializing with them. I’ve been working on it because I know it’s not right/fair/logical. But I especially get pissed off by overly “nice” “feminine” “polite” women who are weak because they are the doormats who let this abuse happen to their children and stay silent (usually done by the husband or boyfriend). I’m a woman but I only have male friends. I also joined the army.
@@ProdavackaDivu Thank you for your honesty I hope you share this with a proper therapist to understand what that interference has done to your sexuality and your social ability to identify with the female gender. When we find out the damage done, we can begin to heal within! Fear sometimes causes people to not want to be who they are because the mold was dropped when they were little and they don't know how to glue it back together!
My mother 😈 was the instigator, and my dad complied. I was constantly agro and my mum threatened to put me in an institution if I didn't go along with what was happening.
I was 9 years old when I finally had the courage to say "stop!!! No one is touching me ever again!!!!"😠
I then became the worst child in the world, according to my mother 😈.
Special place in hell for her and my dad. 👍🏻
For me its older women(aside from a handful of people like close friends that are around my age)I'm still a minor. Thankfully my groomer is out of my life but I still get groped and cat called my grown women,its horrible.
When I was 11year old a minister saw me translate for 2 persons. It was in a border town,in Northern Mexico. He a asked me if I would be intended in helping him with his ministry, in Guatemala, for the summer. I said I would have to ask my elders for permission. He gave me his businesses card,and said it will pay good wages. I asked my Grandmother what she though. She was frighten about the possibility of being so far away, in a strange country. She worn me of the danger that a person taking advantage of a minor. She believed that,that minister would take advantage and would abuse me. Thank you Grandma you save me from dark outcome.
Did the minister try to abuse you?
your grandmother is a hero!
I mean maybe it was genuine, but MUCH better safe than sorry!!
Abuelas know!!!
@@maddieerin6520 As Thora said know normal person ask a 11 year old to and work with them in another country.
"why does she get to live on the blue sky, the pink cloud, and i'm in the dungeon? i never hurt anybody." the sadness in her voice.
"Why does she get go live with the blue skies and I'm in the dungeon, I never hurt anybody." That sentence shredded my soul.
Same here
Ditto
That’s why hell is there for the evil
Her therapist needs firing if they allow this woman to believe that. Its a negative way of thinking and of something that isn't true
While that is a very daunting sentence...the truth is, is that we all have hurt The Creator since the fall of Adam and Eve. Sin is essentially not trusting in God. So I'm sure those who have been a victim of abuse, have done their fair share of hurting others too. "Hurt people hurt people."
I grew up Catholic. I didn't suffer any abuse probably because I was a loud mouth trouble maker. These nuns and priests go after the most alienated lonely kids and further weaken the most vulnerable. Absolutely sickening.
Exactly,like the orphans and poor.I witnessed such but they always deny.
These fakes devil priests and nuns should get public castrated so their hand can be clense with their own bloods..
Then they move the SOBs to do it somewhere else 👎
You realize the amount of priests and nuns that don’t abuse kids is superiorly higher than the amount of priests and nuns that do? Pretty sure that has something to do with it.....
But this goes on in many religious denominations, boys and girls camps, teachers, neighbours, friends and families........we have to be careful not to place these abusers only in one place......
"She owned me" this is most painful and heart-wrenching thing one could hear.
I’m currently studying for the entry exam for law school and have been feeling really unmotivated today. Watching this video reminded me of what kind of impact I hope to make and that there are people like this who need help. Thank you so much💕
I know its a year late but how did the exam go?
law school ? most the system is occult created and run . why do you think we get summons to court like one summons a demon. Cause we are considered already dead in the eyes of the courts. We "rise" for the judge like the dead rise from the graves after being summons. You and me own nothing , we can't cause we are dead. Everything is owed by our "persona" we are given on our birth certificate. That's why when filling out official papers one signs at the bottom where it's labeled "your persons" . Ones persona is in Caps on your birth certificate as it is registered as a franchise of the corporation of the united states of america. Our persona is not own by us but those who rule over us. However if one is born within the controlling occult ; their name is not in all caps as they are considered alive like the judge and they legally own their property. There is of course soo much more i cant remember off the top, including many terms and procedures within the legal system. There are many judges and DAs in on it and some defence lawyers who regularly have favors which are paid for to let people off. I know most would not believe all this but consider what you may be getting mixed up in as you would always be an outsider and always be at a disadvantage when working cases. but if you do carry on ... good mo fo ing luck.
might i say most the church is occult as well
❤
Old people crying is one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen😢
Renny Shots don’t you mean elderly
Shanya Seniorine no
Dude ikr...damn..shit as sad..smh
Same 😭
It really is...
now i understand why my parents didnt allow me to stay elsewhere overnight in my high school. i used to be super mad about this.
You better ring them and thank them.
Same here. I wanted to question them but just couldn't that why I wasn't allowed to stay out.
You are not suicidal or addicted to drugs and alcohol because your parents were strict = God bless them
@@kinnish5267 what does having strict parents have to do with being suicidal and addicted ? Huh?
I was only allowed to sleep at two friends place because my mom knew the parents. I would have never let anyone touch me. That’s how I was raised
I love that the same organization has the balls to still tell gay people that they are going to hell...
Pure irony.
Not ironic since they wear the mask of "Im religious so Im holier than u. And I cant do no wrong" n in public they are placed higher.. well as long their dirty secret isn't out.
Yes I Am Not Gay This Is The Vatican's Fault I Am Catholic It Doesn't Say In The Bible That Priests Can't Get Married The Vatican Is Disguisting They Ruined The Catholic Religion
@@lorellasquillaro5954 which version you reading?
@@motelcherries what?
Those nuns are expert at spotting the ones who will become their victims. Like predators in the animal kingdom they can tell when a child is vulnerable. And like many predatory animals they act with great efficiency.
yes, just as the men have done, Pedophilia is pedophilia is pedophilia.
Both women pointed out that that there were problems in their homes. Abusers will target kids who are not adequately parented. Start there.
I agree.... they always look for the weaker and troubled child to prey on.....
They neeeed God in their lives.
@@totodile493 isn't that what started all this??
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 You don't make sense. Explain.
Could you be referring to the idea that a woman committed to an illicit sexual relationship with an underage girl so that women would have a good idea of how sexual abuse occurs, know where it happens, how terrible it can feel, so that women everywhere have the tools to recognize sexual abuse in other places (*cough cough* sexual abuse by MALE elders and chauvinism *cough cough*)? That wouldn't make sense because that means sexual abuse has been occurring in other places which is the main reason women commit to walking in the shoes of sexual offenders in the first place. Huh.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 😌😶🤤
her parents failed her when they decided to stay quiet about it all. makes me so angry!
It shows marriage is essential between a man and a woman. It's wrong not allowing marriage for priests and nuns.
It's about control! The nun gave her alcohol and drugs!?! It sucks there is a statute of limitations. They do not have to open their files- the priests/diocese. Grrr!
My mother told me whatever I do dont tell my sister what her husband did 2 me. She was a sweet beautiful mama but was shy and didnt know how to handle it
Linda Arringion Something similar happened to me. My mother and grandma told me to keep my mouth shut when my grandpa sexually assaulted me and told me not to go to pastor or cops.
Linda Arringion They also told me not to tell my brother because my brother saw my grandpa as a “father figure”.
“Spiritual rape” that’s fkn deep and completely accurate. These monsters have a special place in hell.
there is no hell
@@professionalgambling6783 your opinion.
@@professionalgambling6783The universe didnt come out of nowhere. It makes sense to say it was created - it couldnt have created itself. And if hell didn't exist, that would mean these people would get away with their evil crimes. But God will bring them all to account.
@@sonic4528
Ye, because you are purely ignorant, god can't be created, but everything else HAS to be created, which is bullshit and nonsense.
If god wasn't created, but "it always was", why isn't it applicable that the universe as a matter, energy whatever it is idk exactly, always was as well?
"God wasn't created because it's a spirit blabmlamla", what if the universe comes from another dimension, that we have no clue at this point?
It's just ignorant, that you assume there is no other answer then "it's god". Not to mention, assuming your god is real it's a symbol of insanity, i never talk with people who do it, because they are either possessed by their own irrational brain or insane.
@@sonic4528
"if hell didn't exist, that would mean these people would get away with their evil crimes. But God will bring them all to account."
Yea, there you go, you just admitted it, wishfully thinking, oooo my god!
WHAT if there's no god! It means that the damn lions will not be judged for all the crimes that they did to the gazella's and other cow's...
But wait a moment, if god exist, will they be judged? Of course not!
For all the pain they cause they will not be judged, because they are animals, blabla, they kill to survive and crap, and in fact it's our sin that makes them do it.
As i see it only applies to humans that they will suffer in your invented hell because they had a bad day, they did a mistake, or they got born at the wrong place, but other shit causing pain for years will not be judged, Not to mention, they can just apologize to jesus and enter his "party", and be forgiven, as criminals.
If that's justice, then really, someone should call the hospital, and check if everything is ok with you.
Really take this bullshit, and leave this planet, the level of wishful thinking and insane ignorance is out of any range.
Seek psycho help, because that's what you all need. Religion is a mind sickness.
I love these women so much. The strength, the hard work they've put into themselves to recover. All my best.
“I never hurt anybody..”
The pain in her voice is heartbreaking, all my love to survivors of sexual abuse.
That poor woman needs therapy. She needs some money so she can get out and do what brings her joy. She needs to forgive herself and that bad nun. Humans do some amazingly awful things. You must escape them and get far away from them and try to live your life as best you can after such a bad experience. We all have had bad experiences, even horrific ones. Determine to push ahead, gain understanding and wisdom, and fight for a better life for yourself in spite of the past. That said, my heart goes out to all victims of abuse. WARNING TO PREDATORS: If I ever learn you are hurting someone, an adult, a child or even a small creature, may God have mercy on you BECAUSE I WONT!!!!!
__Mrs. Doubtfire , me too.
Truth
Mrs doubtfire 😂😂😂
@@celticfiddle7605 forgive the nun??
This needs to be a Netflix doc like the Keepers!!
Most definitely
I don't know if it's still on Netflix, but watch Spotlight. A movie about journalists exposing the church.
Spotlight is awesome
Yes
agreed! I wish they would make this as a season 2 since they are related
“She owned me” wow 😯 3 words, soo powerful and painful.
Oh leave it out! Loads of ppl have been abused within their own homes. Not all of us feel it's worth giving our future over to the past tho. Unlike the 'victims' on programs like these. Life goes on. And well, if they'd allow it. But they prefer to linger in the past...
@@steenystuff1075 Not everyone's mind is the same or.has the same.strength. Even children have different personalities and strengths and weakness. It's wrong to make people feel bad for having a break down after being raped for 15 years straight. Just get over it? Some people dont have the ability to do that. My brother sodomized and tortured me for 13 years in our home and I was adopted and my mother tried to kill me and hated me and beat me and strangled me and burned me and no one helped me. Not even the police cause she covered it up to protect him. I had lost my mind as a teenager and I'm supposed to feel like I'm wrong for losing my mind? My brother screwed my dog who had worms and gave the worms to me after screwing me and blamed it on me. Stuck sewing pins in my body. Tied me up and tortured me and urinated on me and electrocuted me. For YEARS. Every day of my life was a living hell of fear. If I wouldn't have sex he would put my dog in the dryer and turn it on and because it caused me to have a mental disability and a break down I'm the one that should just get over it ? Really? I dont know what to think about people like you. Maybe you need to get over yourself cause if I kidnapped you and did to you all that was done to me you wouldn't just get over it. Your mind would be screwed up. If only you could experience what I went through for the full 13 years and more. I wanna see how successful your life is after your done being tortured for that long. . It will only be 13 years worth. You can handle it right? No big deal. You can be the poster child of psychology and show us all how to just ignore it and overcome. Children dont get to choose how their mind reacts to abuse. Some kids minds cant take it and their mind fractures. To blame it on them when they didnt choose any of it is sick. You sound like my abusive mom who said my brother wasnt responsible for what he did to me.
Truth_Soldier 91 I’m so sorry.
Truth_Soldier 91 I’m so sorry this happened to you. It makes my blood boil when I hear of a child suffering or having been suffered and abused. Like your name suggests you’re a soldier keep strong xx
@@steenystuff1075 Wow 🖕
What a horrendously insensitive comment. If you had a shred of intelligence or compassion, you'd know or care enough to find out how abuse affects other people.
When she said "she took my sexuality" I felt that
Even the DEVIL can quote scripture
OoF
That is why they mock the father, son and holy ghosts. Notice scratches and noises always travel in 3's. They mock the holy trinity.
Amen
True..
True, if not more.
I was groomed by a priest. You seriously have no clue to what is happening because of the spiritual authority they possess.
I've seriously wondered what happens behind closed doors of churches...that's horrible! And to think a lot of people put these abusers on such high pedestals is alarming!!
@@naibo8249 It's that pedestal, the clericalism, that enables the abuse.
Regardless of religion, sexual abuse by women towards other women or girls has been mostly silenced!!! It is terrifying and many girls/women do not have anyone to talk to about it or they feel ashamed, especially if it is a female family member doing the abusing.
Yeah same with woman abusing men, one of my closet friends got sexually abused, I'm not gonna let out the specific details for respect but when he tried talking to someone, they called him a wimp, weakling, etc. it's awful, all types of sexual abuse is horrible, no matter the gender.
I will never understand how someone could hurt an innocent child. It takes a special kind of evil.
F
It’s not special
"how someone could hurt an innocent child" -> by people without a conscience, without GOD, without morals about what is right and what is wrong, by people who thrash GOD, and DIGNITY over political affiliation, that believe in sexual preference, pedophilia is fine, homosexuality is fine, being lesbian is fine, abortion five stars, is fine, deciding child's sex after birth is fine, or who use religion as a front or excuse to carry out their deeds.
@@JDMaya you seem biased
@@yeetman4953 ~~~ PLEASE EXPLAIN.
There should be NO statute of limitations. Justice for all survivors!
Part of the reason for the statute of limitations in some places is because physical DNA evidence doesn't last, and at some point it boils down to peoples' words against others.
Some great men have lost their lives because of false allegations that later came to the surface as lies.
VanGogh22 facts
The statute of limitations exists for a reason, you can't just get rid of it.
@@AllThePeppermint So you're saying that because "some great men" were falsely accused, we should silence EVERY VICTIM whose time just ran out? Fucking bogus. If those men are actually decent people, they'd be happy to run that risk if it meant that the thousands of victims of sexual abuse have a greater chance of justice.
It all depends were you live. In Canada there is no statute.
My kids will not be sleeping over at anyone’s house.
They will be educated in self defence and will understand the concept of consent at a very young age.
That's really the only way to save them. teach them about consent and tell them that its okay to attack if someone forces them. Also make sure they are taught and trained enough not to freeze in the moment of crisis coz that can happen and even if that happens let's make sure that the kids know that they can always share everything with their parents so that we can fight their fight for them
Yeah but you can't stop your kids from living just because of a sick ass individual that's not right for your children not to be able to have sleepovers with friends and things like that not everyone is like this but yeah there is definitely some evil people in this world you just have to give your kids that talk
@@MissBezy exactly !! We just have to take whatever precautions we can and then let our kids live their life. Not everything can be controlled or prevented at the parents' level.
@@MissBezy you miss understand me I will not be stopping them from living in any way I will just be preparing them for the worst and hoping for the best.
Amen!
You women are so brave for telling your stories. Thank you. You have helped so many by doing this.
If whatever said by the alleged victims in the video is true, I think the two main reasons why these cases were ignored were:
1. They were nuns
2. They were women
I was just thinking the same thing. It's crazy how the world understands that priests do abuse boys on a major scale, but for some reason there has still been this image of innocents when it comes to nuns and girls.
Swaroop Somanna The women did not even know they were "victims"till they got it rammed down their throats by the lawyers and therapists.
Sadly the Catholic Church has bearly addressed priests (men) doing this things. What makes us think they will address nuns (women) doing this?
@@zephyr056 are you saying that the pain these women have expressed is not real? That somehow, despite the fact that they were children when the "relationships" began that it was okay? They were VICTIMS of women who were in a position of authority over them. They were manipulated and preyed upon. it may have taken years for them to come forward, but do not discount the damage done by the abuse.
Susie Young No I are not saying that the women are not currently feeling pain that is real. What I said is if they had not got it rammed down their throats that they were victims then they probably would not have seen the relationship with the nuns as a problem. If the therapist had told that they were lucky they had received love from the nuns then the women may have went through life with fond memories of the nuns. It seems that Ann's problems could have been linked by her family not approving of the relationship with the nun and trying to put a stop to it. And Trish' said that she thought her problem was caused by being raped by her priest uncle. (The section where the women tell how they defended the nuns starts at 9:00) Sometimes stress and anxiety can develop for no reason at all and then people try to find something to link it to.
There are some religious women who are told they must wear a mask over their face and if someone tore the mask off they would feel stress like they had been raped, so it seems those in control tell people what they should be stressed about.
Also if you carefully watch this video I do not think the contact went past hugging and kissing in bed. And the mention of kissing in the diary did not mention if the kiss was only on the cheek. The purpose of this video is to make the nuns look evil. And if touching of the girl's breasts or vagina had happened it would have been mentioned.
and Anne quote: "It steals your faith, I envy people who have faith". That really hurts so bad.
Oh you sweet young ladies - I am so sorry for everyone that suffered so much evil. FAITH is believing and trusting in what you haven't seen. Place your hurt, anger, rage, tears and yourselves in Jesus' Hands. Put your faith in Him - not in people. In the Holy Bible, Jesus says "you can talk to Me as though I am with you like a friend" Younglings, I've done that - His shoulders are broad and strong enough to cry on, broad enough because a lot of people have and are doing just that. I include myself - I've been talking to Him for many years now and if anyone should hear you talking and they can't see anyone with you and are asked "who are you talking to?" Be bold and tell them "Jesus" - and keep walking and talking - He will help you heal emotionally and spiritually. Trust in HIM.
So messed up . The way people do to harm others mentally or physically
I know, Jennalyn. That broke my heart, too
Faith is worthless. It serves no good and has no value.
@@rommelnavarrette2831
You may think that, but it's not worthless to me.
I think Calliope said it best.
There shouldn’t be ANY statute of limitations on sexual abuse cases. Period.
Totally absolutely agree!!! Most stupid law...like the crime would ever get old for the victim.....
Definitely not for Violent Rape, and I'm not justifying any sex crimes. They're all bad! But, wouldn't lesser degrees, i.e in statutory rape cases, be difficult to prove, over decades with lost DNA, as memories fade, and ect!!!
They put a statue of limitations because women and children are a low priority in society. Men make these rules. Also the courts would be open 24/7 with these foul cases. It is ongoing.
Statute of limitations is absurd, you get abused, you are told you will get in trouble if you tell, you believe the lies, then when you realise they were all lies...... sorry to late, you should have said something sooner.
Agree! Not being able to have closure and justice adds to the trauma.
A friend of mine who is in her 60s still cannot bear to be under a cover/ duvet because she was sexually abused and threatened as a child. That saddens me so much shes still scared decades later.
My great grandmother- who was a very strong Catholic btw, always used to say "priests take their collar off, they're like everybody else!" In other words, treat nuns and priests like you would your average person, they are NOT God, they do not have magic powers!!
Very true indeed. They shouldn't be revered!
So why should they b like hypocrites. If one cant live a celibate life better get married!!
NO kidding...ever hear of that film noir actress, Veronica Lake? She said herself that a priest asked her to sit on his lap so he could tell her a joke. He then put his arm around her waist and grabbed her breast, then put his other hand under his skirt and put his fingers under the strap of her panties...she implied he did something further but she didn't clarify what exactly. (And this was back in the 1930s.)
Let's not just blame Catholics, though. My grandfather was Jewish and he tried to grab my boobs a couple of times.
I once asked my dad why all the kids in the street called the local priest Father , he replied " because there is a good chance he is their father " how sad this world is and it is getting worse.
Disgusting, this isn't about religion or anything this is pure evil.
This is exactly about religion, false religion. These acts and worst acts are done because people don't believe in God. And the ones who do believe in God worship God any kind of way that feels right. We must worship God like He tells us through the Bible. And not by any particular church's doctrine. Virtually every Christian is following the church or their own ideas. We must follow God. GodBlessU!
It can be done under the guise of religion, but others do the same under the cover of health care, teaching, social work, sports coaching, military training ...
They are Revelation 3:9
It is about religion though because that’s the reason they were able to get away with it..
Its abuse of power.. and that the individual came into the church for power.. They thought God would impart his power into them.. he didn't, they took it anyway!
People often think that women can’t sexually abuse children. It’s sick.
This Boi Loves P!nk no one with a rational mind thinks that. It’s just rarer and less frequent than men abusing children.
It's 1 of the last taboo's
@@arnie8604 my male cousin whos actually like a brother to me was abused by a woman when he was 4 yrs old. Hes 40 now and hes totally fucked up, he'll never get over it, it destroyed his life.
Nun Ya That’s the response my dad gave me when I told him about this story. Also most men in my life have said the same thing.
Its most often men who are after tweens yes women like mary kay latourno but its also different mind with women as well they think its realationship and they dont hunt victims like the men do so im not saying its ok just they have different mind set and it also usually older teen boys
When she said “I never hurt anybody“ it really broke my heart
These sickos always manage to single out the most vulnerable and needy children in their care....heartbreaking....
Yes they do
Hallmark of a predator
That's true😧
Ikr?!!!
I dont think i can ever trust my therapist bcos they are frecking christians. I need to change therapist if i wanna move forward....
Well-said.
“Fisher, Judith age 69, entered into God’s kingdom”
No she entered into Satan’s kingdom
JNstuff Satan doesn’t have a kingdom but yeah.
@@ShadeofmySoul5768 - Yes, satan does have a kingdom. It's called HELL. That's his Kingdom. It's called this earth. This is his kingdom. It's even stated in the Bible.
She actually just got buried in the dirt.
Jada Palmer Hmm. You are right. Matthew 4:8-9 “ Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9 And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.” Yeah, God let him have authority and power over this world. I’ll be honest I don’t think hell is his kingdom because that is where he is going to die.
That’s what I said.
It sickens me that women would ever do such thing to other women
Why just women? No one should do that to any one else.
@@astrum376 OF COURSE but it is more often than not women that get taken advantage of by men. For a woman to know that and how terrible it is (e.g. being catcalled at the least) and abuse it as well as her position is terrifying to me
@@iljas1700 She definitely won't be catcalled just saying but I agree.
@@iljas1700 what about all the female teachers that abuse male students
@@iljas1700 what a stupid thing to say lol. Men also get harassed and abused lol its just that it's seen as "weak" if they go against it.
As someone who has had a bad experience with nuns. Let me tell you why. When I was younger I was taken to a missionary Baptist church school and I was kinda new and I was young, I had anxiety at a young age so back then before leaving class, everyone was supposed to pray the Lord prayer but I was new so when I saw the person who was supposed to pick me up from school was standing outside, I got up while others were praying because I desperately needed and wanted to go home until a nun pulled me and then went and locked me and herself in a closet and forced me to pray while she held me by my coller and the other hand a candle. Every since then I see nuns as something else than nuns.
"It steals your faith. I envy people who have faith." That broke my heart.
Me too 😥
Yeah that hurt
I was sexually abused and by God's grace, mercy, and love He saved me in my mid-twenties. Faith is never lost when God places His love in your heart.
@@wk1810 It's hard but I believe if she asks God to give her the strength to forgive her abuser, her healing will start and she will heal fast.
@@Lerian_V forgiveness is the heart of God; it is His character. Yes, if she will forgive from the heart then she will definitely heal. I was able to love the man who abused me, when before all I did was hate him and delight in my hatred of him. I justified my hatred because to me, he deserved it, but when Christ chose me for salvation and worked His grace in my heart then, and only then, was I able to forgive.
Oh, and what a tremendous blessing to live in peace and joy, my heart cleansed of all anger and hatred, so that whenever I was in the company of the man who abused me nothing - and I mean NOTHING - entered my mind of the abuse! Great is the Lord, and worthy to be praised.
There should be no time limit on reporting abuse that’s absolutely insane.
It’s like a video game where if you run from the cops for long enough they can’t arrest you
I agree, wholeheartedly.
The women did not even believe they were victims till the lawyers and the therapists rammed it down their throats that they were victims.
@@david-dj8or have you ever been truly manipulated by a person you trusted when you were a child? You seem to fail to understand how that form of abuse works...
@@Bl4ckChvrch I understand how an adult could manipulate a child. But it is not relevant in this case.
I went to Catholic school until the 5th grade. I begged my parents to take me out, i even had them sign a contract with me at 10 years of age. This was in the 60s. The nuns were sadistic sickos.
I'm yet to meet a nun who is not a sadistic sicko tbh
This.has been an eye opener for me.i have heard of nuns being vicious and bullying towards girls but i had not realised about all this
There's a Death Cab for Cutie lyric that goes "In Catholic school, as vicious as Roman rule
, I got my knuckles bruised by a lady in black, And I held my tongue as she told me, 'Son
Fear is the heart of love,' so I never went back.
My dad attended Catholic school for a bit in the late 50's/early 60's. The first time he heard this line, his first response was "he's lucky that's all she did to him." He said it so nonchalantly, like it was merely a fact of life that you'd be abused in Catholic school.
@@thereawakener9554 Why I can certainly see and believe many nuns were indeed pedophiles -I knew two good nuns who certainly were NOT. One of them is my great aunt, who often stayed with us when visiting the area.
@Peter Pan dude... what?
@ Kelly
I hope you find courage and wisdom to overcome this. You had given birth to 3 sons. That is a real blessing. I'm a doctor from Sri Lanka and there are therapy for these. Glad that you came out with this.
I'm so glad to hear about the therapy.pleae give us some details, It would be benefited bfor many who are still worrying in the dark corners.
It does not matter what gender has done it.
Sexual abuse should not be tolerated.
Yes and there was and is a lot of nuns they have come forward saying they were raped by the priests and forced to have abortions.
J M you’re sick mate
J M
You’re sick.
Yes, THANK YOU!
@J M warped logic
"she owned me"
That sent chills down my spine
What if parents do this to their kids? Because they do.
I agree.... very sad and disturbing... These women used their position to take advantage of vulnerable children.....
I was reading the comments and right when I came to read yours, she read the line. And I've got goosebumps. BYE
Octavia Ortiz how sad it made my skin crawl
Must of been scary for her as a child going through that I cannot even fathom what these poor kids went through
😥😢🙏🏻I pray god almighty rids the World of this evil
Ameen
Same
This is why the people have turned away from the church
Sunshine Komaransky this is also why many victims are hesitant to ever come forward...they won’t be believed or there won’t be any sort of justice 😤
I’m not a victim. But they will never get another cent from me. Ever.
Sunshine Komaransky, one of the many reasons I’m a “recovering catholic”
Good, people should turn to Jesus instead.
I have. I’m meeting with my new pastor to begin conversion to Anglican
"I don't want her prayers" I felt that 💔
"No one would go against her. She owned me..." That line shattered my heart for her and all involved. 😥💔😖😤😡 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Traditional Catholics keep their heads in the sand. Weak brainwashed people who never read the Bible, and have never been filled with the Holy Spirit.
once a child is violated we are never the same, regardless of their ranking or lack of ranking in the community...that secret owns you
@@d72fish you must shout it from the rooftops loud and proud to get that burden they put on you back where it belongs with the perpetrator.
Silence is the friend of this crime, there must be nowhere for these vile people to hide.
@@vanmears7004. Haha not true.
@@hollee5997
you’re literally a living example of this. thanks for proving their comment is true.
When her parents found that calendar they should have went straight to the cops
Exactly!!! Don't bring down my perish ppffff yeh OK! The second I would have seen she wasn't gone,I would have been at the cops! Probably wouldn't have even went to the priest in the first place! Ugh sick. Imagine how many other girls she abused, the priest was probably abusing kids too!
Exactly!!!
No no! That would distort people’s image of the blessed church!
(I’m being highly sarcastic)
In the 50's....it was a completley different world, than now. It would have been considered rude...the parents would have been trouble makers and the Children..the whole Family would have been treated as though they were the problem.
Cops and the press, I would have brought that whole church down to the foundation.
This should be on trending... not freaking beauty drama or diy giant foods/avengers. I pray for healing and peace!
Sam Parker I agree with you 100%. It's really sad that the algorithm enforces people's narcissism.
Sam Parker I couldn’t agree more!!
Not trending...it happened to dozens in1960s.
@Jill Ebeling. It's still happening.
Anne comes across as such a sensitive, intelligent, beautiful person.
Majority of childhood sexual abusers is someone the child trust, loves and knows. Parents please pay attention to who you let around your kids. It can be your brother, it can be your sister, it can be your best friend, a cousin etc. Please believe your children, watch for warning signs. I was sexually abused for 4-5 years and it started when I was 4. I was too afraid to tell my mom or anyone else because I was told to keep it a secret and I would get in trouble. Please just watch over your kids.
i am so sorry you had to go through that.
Even their fathers and mothers
catholic religion is the worst religion.
burn. churches.
This is true. Keep an eye to your children especially your little girls.
my heart ached when she said "I envy people who have faith." :(
I cant stop crying at that
Me too 😥
Michelle Chan 詹郁琪 atheists united
I don't know how anyone can be religious when the Catholic Church abuse is so rampant. My husband was brainwashed into thinking his RAPE was a part of God's Will. He thought he deserved it. How fucked up is that?!?
Michelle Chan 詹郁琪 yes! i heard that too.. it was like an arrow directly to my heart
Wait, did she say she had VIDEOTAPES ?! Of the abuse? That sick nun videotaped it and gave the tapes to her victim, then later denied it in court and the case was DISMISSED?! I pray all the victims will somehow receive justice for their bravery!🙏💔
@@nevermind6141 religion can be good and bring people together but stuff like this is ridiculous
Sad.... The catholic church probably conceals all this things.. And they are a very strong organization.. They would win at a court..
@@nevermind6141 correlation doesnt equal causation so in many ways this statement is very incorrect. It's like saying all blacks are dangerous because crimes are high in their community or all Muslims are terrorists because of certain events that have happened in the past. It's just the ppl who are totally bonkers and nitpick from scriptures to fit their needs.
I rly hope the nuns and every pedo to walk upon the earths ground go to hell. Ik what its like to be abused and I dont think I'll ever speak out about it but it is what it is. I've learned to move on I guess. Theres no point for me to dig up the past cause it'll just hurt plus no one would beleive me.
@Music Playlist You are being mad disrespectful and blasphemous. Yeah this is horrible but why blame God for this horrible crime? God didnt rape noone and He told Mary she would bare His Son and she was happy to do that. By the way God doesn't have to actually have sex to get someone pregnant, He is God. Your falling for the Devil,s plan.
@Music Playlist As until the 4th century A.D., when the Roman Emperor Constantine converted himself and his empire to Christianity, the Romans were pagan (not Jewish nor Christian), they did not believe in Satan when they crucified Jesus. They did so because Pontius Pilate, unable to think of a valid reason to convict Jesus, turned the decision making over to the Jews present, most of whom chose instead to exculpate Barabbas. Jesus was conceived not by a carnal "rape," but by the Holy Spirit aspect of the God trinity. And from time immemorial before Jesus, nonreligious men raped anyone they could, because they could. Cases in point: the depraved Emperors Tiberius and Caligula.
The " i never hurt anybody " at the end really hurt me and i think this video will really stick with me from now on even if i don't remember the name one day it will still be in there
35 years ago my father told me that he was raped and molested by Nuns and Priests in the Catholic orphanage he was placed in as a child. This was somewhere in Pennsylvania and 3 of his brother's were also there and suffered the same. I can say this knowledge forever changed my feelings about religion, Catholics, Nuns, Priests, the Vatican, the Pope and anyone else in a position of power there. None of them cared then and they certainly don't care now. There should be no such thing as a statute of limitations when it comes to abuse (especially sexual abuse) of a minor. I have 10 years of college in Psychology, Sociology, Social Work w/emphasis on sex abuse and Health Psychology & Spirituality. The amount of time it takes to recover enough from this type of trauma, understand the law, find enough strength to face and accuse your abuser will almost always exceed the statute of limitations. The people who made the laws know this and have deliberately set those statutes to protect themselves and their friends in power from ever having to answer to their crimes.
OMG i live in PA 😯😒
Exactly! The churches in my opinion were set up to do exactly what it has been doing for years! Take money from the believers and abuse children. They get away with so much! I would never allow my children anywhere near organized churches 🤮
@@Promiseland2024 i have an AWSOME church that i go to. But i have to drive over an hour away to get there. The church i found where ei live is supposed to be great and they let someone who was stripped of their title and kicked out of their own church for traveling around and taking advantage of young women, getting them pregnant and leaving them or having them get abortions. His name is something Jennings maybe jenkins. I think Collin. I'll look it up. He is still doing this currently. The name of the guy is clayton jennings. Please be aware he is a wolf in sheeps clothing.
It takes a life time! Trust me I know 😭😭😭😭
I wonder if it was in Reading pa. There is a college that was an orphanage. I asked where did all these orphans come from? Never did get an answer.
Instant tears in the end: “why did she get to live up in the blue skies? And I’m in the dungeon? I have never hurt anybody”
:,(
She's facing God's wrath, no escape.
Sabah Amal I hope she is, people who hurt children for their own stupid selfishness deserve to suffer. And I’m not even religious.
Ditto, the way her voice dropped into total sadness shook me to the core
She’s not going to heaven she’s going to hell
"Dont bring a scandal to my perish"
Ugh!
Please listen to your children and have open eyes, people!
That seems like such a selfish thing to say, especially from a priest.
@@TinaB.elcher That's, PRECISELY, what the Catholic Church has ALWAYS done, for centuries, let alone DECADES: knowingly, "passing the trash," despite it being absolutely inexcusable & EVIL! Most organized religions, TBF, do this type of unconscionable "damage control," to some extent, outrageously, &, unfortunately...
Need to find another religion, they all do that, Mary don’t get you into heaven, only our Lord, Jesus died for all of our sins, not Mary...all that doing about anything you want, than go ask for forgiveness, over ,and over, and over, the whole religion is messed up. The Pope isn’t getting you in heaven!
Elizabeth Haro parish*
@@pinkhare4344 I think that if you do whatever you want and ask for forgiveness and then turn this into a habit of yours, you aren't getting repented. Bc you know you're doing this to seemingly deceive your conscience that you've done the part where you pray and play regretful, but in reality, you're not sorry and you haven't cleansed yourself from the sin. Everyone who does this is only deceiving themselves and they are by all means not repented.
I admire both of you for having the courage to tell your story. So many times, the issue is avoided or brush under the carpet. I sincerely hope that you both can heal, and most of all find some peace.
Hello Sonya how are you doing today and how's the weather condition over there?
I had an elder friend who is now passed, was raised in Catholic school and stated she was molested by a nun for years as a young girl. She grew up to be a fierce advocate of the opressed.
It's great that she turned her pain into passion
Yes . Catholic school is sooo bad 🙄
@@frenchtoast7742 heard horror stories about it for years. So sad
I am also a fierce advocate of the oppressed for the same reasons.
Bain?
" I never hurt anybody " Wow that made me cry. I was on the verge the whole time but that did me in. They deserve the world and their abusers deserve the hell they wanted everyone to believe in.
I really agree with you on that!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍
That set me to crying, too. Even if the pedophile goes to prison, they get three hots and a cot when there are many victims who fight addiction, struggle to maintain employment and a family, and who may be homeless.
I like that last sentence.... Sent me chills
Jesus is disgusted by this sham of an organization that uses his name
YES HE IS!
This is why I have zero time for church.
I believe that
I disagree with due respect, i never or heard anyone near me experience this awfulness by a priest or other. But i think and sorry if i offend anyone not my intention, i feel stupid coward disgusting ppl use "organizations" like this. i have however know ppl who have been abused by an immediate "family" member and "police officer". These sick minded ppl hide in many different ways. And the church, any denomination for that matter, is no exception. So practicing the faith is based on a relationship through Jesus to God. It is discussing perverse ppl use many ways to abuse children. Makes me sick!
@@Carolinar74 Matthew 7:15,16,17 words of Jesus. If the actions you see of organization are rotten you leave and don't look back. For every good tree produces good fruit and every rotten tree produces rotten fruit.
There is no rehabilitation for perverts and pedophiles they deserve life in prison. The pain and suffering that a victim goes through is horrific. I hope and pray you know you are the victim you did nothing wrong and I hope you're going to counseling to help you through this God bless you stay strong
As a 14 year old these videos educate me how to raise my future kids to speak out on situations like these
Not to speak out, to stay away from crazy people that are out there
Ye same. I'm 14 as well, it's to not only educate my children but also myself.
@@dewivangreuningen5494 ESPECIALLY speak out on this matter
As we raise the next generation most of humanity will be saved. Our children will be accepting and brave, they will stand up against abuse and they will save the world, one voice at a time.
@@dewivangreuningen5494 you cant guarantee that, unfortunately. children should know when to speak up when something like this happens, regardless
Never trust anyone. Not for their clothes, their hair, or their smile. Trust your gut, stay on your toes and stay 5 steps ahead
When you're a child you can be so scared An they will tell you things that will scare you 😢
Very good advice, which I learned too late. I hope people pay attention to it. And, as Maya Angelou wrote: "When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time."
throw those necklaces away.
Ikr
I'm sure they have a psychological reason for keeping it.Something someone who was not sexually abused wouldn't understand. Many wind up on drugs,in abusive relationship, prostitution etc.
Carol Jones HELL YEAH!
Carol Jones I agree that they should throw the necklaces away, what reason would someone try and hold on to them??? Makes no sense to me, I have never been abused but psychologically or not that would make me GET RID of them all the more sooner
Amen throw them away pawn them anything
You can't preach or worship God and act like an angel, and then you walk around like a Devil seeking thier next victim and doing sinful things to others and get away with it.
The fact that there's a statue of limitations on sexual abuse is absolutely OUTRAGEOUS! That needs to change IMMEDIATELY!
In Canada we don't have one
@@bethbeth4433 just another reason Canada is better.
There has to be limitations because of lawyers. For every real victim there is also a fake victim where people are falsely accused so lawyers can make money. Sorry but that's reality.
@@karenprescott5518 that's actually not the reality. If you look up the actual statistics, only between 2 and 5% of all reported sexual assaults are false. And only 30% of all total sexual assaults are reported at all. So that's means 70% of rapes and assaults go unreported and the perpetrator gets away with it to go do it to someone else. Plus, when a person press charges against an assailant, it's the prosecutor that represents that case in court and they work for the city or the state. And most criminal defense attorneys are public defenders and there's no money in that at all. So with all that, you'd think the least we could do as a society is not put a time limit on it. We don't put a time limit on murder because a murder ALWAYS MATTERS. Sexual assault should always matter, too.
No there shouldn't be a statute of limitations on sexual assault seeing many people don't come forward with it for years afterwards
I must thank youtube, otherwise these news would never appear on Italian television
Sadly not in American news either.
"I never hurt anybody."
She says it so softly, so much like a child who doesn't understand.
Time stamp?
@@alinastarcover5228 it's at the very end at like 19:15
I cried when she said it
My heart shattered at the very end... I cried so much hearing the pain in her voice.
It is gonna be the nun and God at the end…. Lets see if she so big woman now
I get so much the woman of short hair when she said the nun ruined her spirituality, her sexuality her life... I've been abused from men and women, but been abused from the same sex changes you in a different way (at least for me and I could see that for these women too). This kind of abuse from men or woemn always makes you think either it was a relationship or that it was somehow your flat, but abuse from the same sex makes you doubt about your sexuality even when you're just a little girl. I'm chrstian, and sometimes I struggle with my faith and sexuality because of those events, they really took away my innocence and it's been so hard to take it back.
Anything wrong, like this, always swists how things should be, me being abused by women, my head tried to convince me I liked women, which is not my case. When I realized this it made me so free, I finally understood why I felt like that and that feeling stopped. A void was truly filled by knowing the truth.
If your went through something like this, please, don't give up, I know is the hardest battle, but you can heal, and even forgive. Churches did me wrong, but God didn't, he'll make justice.
I hope this can help someone.
My mother was raised in a convent and was abused by these monsters! I’d give everything in this world to have 5 minutes with each of them!
Ditto kiddo 😎
I will join you, you get to go first, Roger gets 2nd and I’ll take 3rd, just make sure she is still breathing cause I intend to let her know what’s what.
I am sorry you were abused by this Fucking Pig of a woman
In my case it was a man who was buddy buddy with a priest and they both intended to switch on and off abusing me.
Best.
Wish I could help you.
I’m sorry Yoshi. I hope your mom has found peace. I know the feelings of wanting revenge trust me.
That is awful 💔💔💔these evil people will burn for eternity