Damn, grateful ako na nahanap ko 'tong channel na to. Finally may ganito na rin kind of channel for pinoys, just like cut, fbe, jubilee, etc. for western countries, kasi I don't usually watch filipino videos here in youtube kasi eh, halos lahat about vlogging na lang, happy to have found creator/s na ganito yung shinoshowcase na content. I'm kinda jealous sa mga ininterview nyo, gusto ko kasi maging member din hahahaha beke nemen HAHAHA one more thing, pwede ba kame magsuggest ng mga ideas for the future videos? I think it would be nice kung may interaction din sa fans, like something like a poll or anything. I'm telling you na lalaki yung community nitong channel, great content talaga 👏👏 thank you po.
My take on "who's paying on the first date" is the one who initiated it first. if the guy ask you on a date he should be the one to pay, but on the succeeding dates you can compromise on splitting the bill. On my part, if my wife insisted on paying I would acknowledge it no question ask.
We have to acknowledge that gender roles still exist and at some point still works, probably for most pa rin, but I feel like the current social sentiments are directed toward making strides in woman empowerment. So I think mileage in reaching a gender-blind society is being made. Amazing video and super fun!! 🙌
THAT'S true. Women are inclined more on child rearing, nurturing and foreging while men are more apt to hunting and strategic games. But it shouldn't be rigid. Let others who can't conform to do their things like LGBT people. Like 90% of people are right handed yet they have no issues about 10% as long as they can do their roles. I wish dapat ganon din ang views ng society sa lgbt when it comes to gender expectations.
Guys paying on the first date gives the impression of him being financially capable because usually most guys/fathers are loved depending on what or how much he can provide for his family. That's what the culture told us and must be changed.
At the end of the day, may kanya kanya talaga tayong preferences sa dating rules. Kung gusto mo ng partner na "split the bill" mahahanap mo rin yan, first dates are meant for getting to know each other. Kung hindi siya pasok sa expectations mo, okay lang yon. Don't judge too much. Respect each other's preferences nalang siguro :)
As soon as I have discovered this page, I am delighted and convinced more that it is so amazing to hear other's perspectives that's different from yours. If I would be given a chance to be interviewed by this page, I probably won't hesitate haha.
Nakakatuwa kasi may channel na ganto at hindi puro tungkol sa araw-araw na ginagawa nila. Ung content ng mga videos ay usually na nagyayari sa society 👍.
I got stressed while watching this hahahaahhaah i am bombarded with different insights and irdk what to and not to do hahahaahahahahaahha love this channel!
Generation ng mom ko, she would always tell me na ," dapat guy may sagot nun" . I grew with that concept tapos narealize ko na lang may pera naman akong pambayad at ako naman nakinabang sa kinain/pinanood/etcna trip namin so bakit si guy lang magbabayad. Ano baaaaaaa
or maybe, you could pay for what you ate and your “datee” could pay theirs. hindi na need ng hatian. it’s like when you’re eating out with your friends, sama-sama bayad niyo. imagine if you’re the one eating a LOT, do you think it’s fair kung 50/50 pa rin ang pagpay ng bill? it’s kind of unfair, if you tell me.
"Filipinos tayo di uso mag bago" well di talaga uso if you're not doing something for the change that you wanted. Change is the only thing permanent in this world that's why we have to keep on talking and educating people
Whoever asks the other out should be the one to pay. Not really required pero as much as possible. Since ikaw naman yung naginitiate and ikaw may gusto. Not always the guy. Women, hindi dapat palaging ineexpect natin na yung guy ay iiimpress tayo, we have to make efforts too.
guy in black = yes! ayaw ng babae na itreat sila na weak but when its beneficial for them, ok lang. girls if we wanna be treated as guy's equal, we should start by breaking stereotypes like this. EQUAL dapat. pay when you can. split when you can. give more when you can.
As a woman, I feel like it is not a man's responsibility to pay on your first date. First date nga eh, what is your goal ba doon? To get to know the person better. Mutual decision ninyo naman yan I guess, so dapat parehas magbayad. And I don't know kung ako lang ba, pero as a woman, gusto ko magsplit ng bill because gusto ko na agad i-establish na agad at magsend ng message na hindi ako yung tipo ng babaeng aasa lang sa asawa balang araw. Na I am able to do decisions on my own and I can handle myself. If doon pa lang, may problema na yung lalaki for his own reasons, then that goes to show na hindi kami compatible. Simple as that.
in my personal opinion, i feel like both guy and girl should do their part. like it’s unfair for girls to be treated like queens while the men aren’t. both should pay, both should pick the place, both should do romantic gestures etc. a relationship isn’t something that’s just one sided, both should take part in it.
I've seen video contents like this but in an international version like the US or UK. So glad that we have our own version of it. Seeing and hearing our kababayan's thoughts and expressing what they really feel towards a certain topic in our society is very eye opening especially to us Young adults out here. Please do more contents like this.
just set aside the gender, if you wish to pay the bill then go but you have to also know that it’s a give and take situation when in a relationship or dating👌
For me, when you're having a date with your partner even its still 90's or 2000's. You should be fair in anything else. Like on who will pay the bill, who will open the door, who will carry your stuffs, and most of all on who will decide where are you wanted to go. Kahit alam nating mga Filipino tayo yung iba dyan iisipin nila na di dapat ganon pero dapat tayong maging fair sa lahat ng bagay EQUALITY! 🙃
More on gender roles please. But please about naman po Sa "Guys expected manner and responsibility". Like gender equality but only girl benefits diba LoL. Wish you had read this and to be featured soon......
When I ask my boyfriend for a dinner, I pay for it. But when he does, he pays it. Otherwise, if we are into it together, we split the bill. Not all the time we take the entire tab :-)
daming red flags ugh, siguro it's about time to clarify everything even before the date started. doesn't mean that whoever asked you should pay for the bill. kumain ka? edi magbayad ka. unless nalang the other party really insisted, or gave you the expectations right from the start like "hey wanna go out? i-treat kita" or something like that. fuck gender roles yes pero fuck din not giving clarity from the get go people really think treating somebody out is sort of a "peacocking" move but tbh it really isn't.
Gender roles are important for the basic structure and generalization of relationship, parang guidelines lang ba, then adapt as what is fit for the situation. And yes chivalry is not dead, basic for guys yun. But must know when to use it. Power Tool yun para satin from basic techniques to advance😏
This video need to be more recognize, Especially this topic is not openly discussed. As well as Majority here in PH, More videos like this please. I'm learning both side of the Gender and why they don't Agree one another Rules.
I agree kung sino nag ask dapat sya mag treat kung gusto ng ka date mo mag split or share ok lang yan .. nag ask ka to spend quality time .. same happen to ask your best friend or someone that you like nasamahan ka sa ganito sa ganyan tas sasabihin mo KKB your asking a favor and borrowing they're time ..i believe they're will share willingly kung gusto nila to give and take..but don't expect it back ..
Guysss, if the girl gets disappointed that you want to split the bill on the first date, then yes, hindi talaga magiging ready ang society. We both have earning power and we both accepted to go on a date. Why should a guy pay alone? Also, do you know that most of the time, if girls do want to pay but you don’t let them, it obligates them to go out with you again even if the date didn’t go well. I guess it’s ok if wala talaga pera si girl and you want to treat her, pero di sya dapat rule sa first dates. If you want to help us achieve equality, let us split the bill with you. 😊 and once naging serious na kayo, then maybe kung sino nag aya yun magbayad or take turns.😊 Also, I don’t agree with the ligaw phase. Girls will always expect na you’ll be consistent, and we all know that once you feel comfortable, things will change. If you need to impress somebody, impress them with your personality and principles, not with money. Same goes for girls.
Ok pa yung nanliligaw guys magbabayad .ang problem is kht kyo na yung girl gusto guys parin magbayad ng laht..ginawang financer hehe.. yung ang badtrip
I would probably feel more comfortable splitting the bill or taking turns to treat the meals/dates😁 because I don't really like depending to other people financially and at the same time I don't want to be the only one spending always (sugah momma lang ang labas) hahaha😅. Lastly, its not about who spends more in the relationship, quality time is the key😁
my first date with my guy, we both treated each other. he bought us some pizza and i got us milkteas. 😶 fuck gender roles. but then kapag lumalabas na kami after that, he always insist na siya magbabayad. then i'll give some part of the bill. he's honest tho pagwala siyang pera then i'll take the turn. it was no one's role. it is a matter of fairness. 😅
Kung sinong nag aya, siya ang taya. I mean why ask to date if you're not willing to spend anyway and expecting the other people to pay eh baka napilitan nga lang siyang makipag-date to be polite tapos pagbabayarin mo pa 😂
Part of "peacocking" for men is showing the lady that they can provide. I think that's where all this preconditioning is coming from. If a guy pays on the first date, society takes that as "Oh this man is a potential good provider." Pero siguro para safe lang, never ever ever assume that the other person is paying. Be ready always to do it the Dutch way.
Sa unang date ng boyfriend ko, kanya kanyang bayad kami. Hindi ako naturn off since students pa lang kami. Same lang kaming humihingi ng pera sa mga magulang namin. Pero since magwowork na kami nyan, kung sino ang magyayaya siya na ang magbabayad or kanya kanya pa din. It was never became a problem since we eat each other's food everytime. 😆
Dapat kung sino ang nag-ask out sa first date, siya ang manlibre. Kung babae ang nagyaya makipag-date (sa first date), siya ang manlibre. Kung lalaki ang nagyaya makipag-date (also sa first date), siya ang manlibre. kung nag-alok naman yung other party na ambagan kayo sa first date, e di g. Kung matagal na kayong nasa relationship, ambagan.
The expectations of labels, especially the fckin' ignorance side of society if u dont take it they will feel bad at you and the impression came out na ur not gentleman to take it, kasi guys are meant to take it all or lets say half or more But anyways its good to hear that this ages, gals and guys and working to change the mindset of closed minded society that guys are not necessarilly to take the 1st move.
first time ko makipagdate ulet this 2019.. since i been single for two years and it felt awkward. hahaha i even offer to pay the bill. hahaha twing magbabayad nguunahan kami sa pagbayad ng bill.
Most of the time she pay for the bills. kuripot ako even first date namin siya ang nagbabayad kase estudyante palang ako that time, pero yun nga kung sino ang nagtawag ussually siya yung magbabayad. kung ako ang magtatawag minsan moviedate tapos ipupunta ko siya sa medyo pricey na resto ayaw niya gusto turo turo lang pero kung siya nag-aya dinadala niya ako sa medyo pricey, samgyeopsal ganun.
Who cares who pays on the first date.....my rule is...who has more money should pay...and that goes to not only dates but when I go out with my family and friends too.
i don't do an actual split like for example siguro in a movie date i pay for the tickets then she'd offer so i'd just say sige bawi ka na lang with snacks. hehe .something like that.
The problem is that society always views man as more capable, strong and will always do anything for girls. It's not always guys are the ones that have to this and that. I think the one who asks to go out should pay specially kung parehas naman kayong kumikita na and since you're the one who's asking favor to go out with you, then you must be willing enough to pay the bill. Like what the guy on black shirt said, society is still not ready for this kind of conversation.
For me, it's no longer the case. Most women I know like my Mom, sister, my girl friends (I'm gay), or even just my girl acquaintances have decent work with decent pay. Minsan sila nanlilibre sakin or ako nanlilibre sa kanila or split the bill and they do it with their boyfriends. I think there is no need to enforce such idea na dapat lalake ang magbabayad kasi kung ako tatanungin mo about sa mga babaeng nakikilala at nagiging friends, marami na silang pera ngayon.
Hindi ko na maintindihan. Siguro mas magandang tanong is, "Tatayo ka ba para paupuin yung babaeng nakatayo sa bus?" Ako kasi sagot ko jan depende sa situation and age bracketing. Tapos pag may babaeng magsasabi na "wala nang gentleman" sasabihin ko, "gender equality, equal responsibility"! Lahat sila sa interview mukhang mayaman kaya kaya nilang magbayad. 😂😂😂
May mga babae kasi gusto nila gender equality kuno pero pag mga ganyan usapan.balik n sa gender role..like king sino magbabayad..mostly kasi sa pinay gusto nila lalake lagi nagbabayad ng date gift etc..
I'm Filipino, never had a Filipino boyfriend. I dated white guys before, they always pay for everything even going out on a date at a gourmet restaurant. I told them that I'll pay next time, they would always resist. Filipino guys, not really.
I actually like paying for the first dates pero i make it a point to know if she'd like to split the bill or she's fine with me making libre pero usually naman we just end up taking turns sa pag pay haha.
Sa kultura kasi natin lalaki dapat ang magbibigay kasi siya ang bumubuhay sa pamilya. Dapat kung nag-aaya ka siguraduhin mo na marami kang pera, kapag ikaw naman ang inaya magdala ka rin ng pera para makasigurado di lahat libre. Ayos lang naman sa'kin na parehas magbayad.
chivalry: carrying the girl's bag. really? tangina! ang gaang ng bag.. ok lng sana if 5 kg yung bigat, maraming dala or PWD.. halos lahat ng babae able to carry their shoulder bag..
this is the first reason why i dont date girls now a days. they think na the guy should pay the bills. kase naiisip ko na dito palang sa pag iisip ng ganto ng babae na dapat yung guy mag babayad lage eh ampangit na ng tingin mo sa babae (para saken lol).
I remember a guy na lagi ko kasama to go out, everytime we eat he always pay the bills--actually nahihiya ako. I initiate naman to share pero usually ayaw nya. 😪
In today's society gender rule should not exist anymore, because he or she could earn more than the other, can know more than the other, can be more skilled than the other. but somehow on the back of my mind, the guy should initiate first. but it's the chivalry the continuous chivalry that makes romance still alive. just my opinion
Gender roles? No. Kasi, look, nowadays most ofw's are women, mother or single mom theyre letting their husband to stay at home and take care of their kids. It just proves that gender roles is di na existing sa Philippines
Chivalry is dead because it doesn't matter anymore. Chivalry or respect doesn't matter to women, all that matters to them now is a guy's looks and or if he makes a shit load of money.
Lmao to those guys who don't want to pay for the first date. Guys don't really have to. Correction, you don't need to. Pero bawas pogi points. Unless the date sucked. Then kkb. 🤣🤣🤣
wag na lang tayo kumain para ala magbayad
true
Tubig nalang
Tampo agad??😆
Lol Lt
“Filipinos tayo. Di usong mag bago dito” lol this is so accurate
Damn, grateful ako na nahanap ko 'tong channel na to. Finally may ganito na rin kind of channel for pinoys, just like cut, fbe, jubilee, etc. for western countries, kasi I don't usually watch filipino videos here in youtube kasi eh, halos lahat about vlogging na lang, happy to have found creator/s na ganito yung shinoshowcase na content. I'm kinda jealous sa mga ininterview nyo, gusto ko kasi maging member din hahahaha beke nemen HAHAHA one more thing, pwede ba kame magsuggest ng mga ideas for the future videos? I think it would be nice kung may interaction din sa fans, like something like a poll or anything. I'm telling you na lalaki yung community nitong channel, great content talaga 👏👏 thank you po.
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Yuck
The guy wearing the stripe shirt, he's so fine. I'm weak to his chiseled jawline. 😳
Same
lol ahlie the mandem also knows his fashion - thats an A$AP Rocky x Guess shirt too.
The only comment I payed attention, hahaha.
Same his so handsome
Name please
The key is to never assume that your date will pay for everything. Always insist on paying whatever you had and be genuine about it!
When ate wearing blue said, "Parang boys I've met recently...boys are shit."
Haha i felt that
the same girl who thinks guys should pay on the first date? parang di siya yung dapat kampihan mo gorl, baka siya yung toxic
"People wants change but they dont want to do something about it"
Agree sa kung sino nag aya siya magbayad 😂.
Kaya never ako nagaya eh. HAHAHAHA
My take on "who's paying on the first date" is the one who initiated it first. if the guy ask you on a date he should be the one to pay, but on the succeeding dates you can compromise on splitting the bill. On my part, if my wife insisted on paying I would acknowledge it no question ask.
I love the mentally of the cutie girl in black. Sana lahat ng girls matuto sakanya haha
I agree with the girl wearing a black top. There are times that its me who wanted to go out on dates and I always make sure that I will treat my guy.
We have to acknowledge that gender roles still exist and at some point still works, probably for most pa rin, but I feel like the current social sentiments are directed toward making strides in woman empowerment. So I think mileage in reaching a gender-blind society is being made. Amazing video and super fun!! 🙌
THAT'S true. Women are inclined more on child rearing, nurturing and foreging while men are more apt to hunting and strategic games. But it shouldn't be rigid. Let others who can't conform to do their things like LGBT people.
Like 90% of people are right handed yet they have no issues about 10% as long as they can do their roles. I wish dapat ganon din ang views ng society sa lgbt when it comes to gender expectations.
Guys paying on the first date gives the impression of him being financially capable because usually most guys/fathers are loved depending on what or how much he can provide for his family. That's what the culture told us and must be changed.
"PEOPLE WANT CHANGE BUT THEY DON'T WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT"
yes naman
At the end of the day, may kanya kanya talaga tayong preferences sa dating rules.
Kung gusto mo ng partner na "split the bill" mahahanap mo rin yan, first dates are meant for getting to know each other. Kung hindi siya pasok sa expectations mo, okay lang yon. Don't judge too much. Respect each other's preferences nalang siguro :)
I always feel kilig whenever I see Adam HAHAHAHA. I dunno why
As soon as I have discovered this page, I am delighted and convinced more that it is so amazing to hear other's perspectives that's different from yours. If I would be given a chance to be interviewed by this page, I probably won't hesitate haha.
"Filipinos tayo. Di uso magbago dito." Big oof but big truth
yung babaeng naka blue halatang ang daming struggles sa "boys".
HAHAHAHAHAHA KUYA NAMAN EH HAHAHA
Nakakatuwa kasi may channel na ganto at hindi puro tungkol sa araw-araw na ginagawa nila. Ung content ng mga videos ay usually na nagyayari sa society 👍.
"Di uso mag bago dito HAHA"
Lol the guy knew whats up
Ako nga nanligaw sa boyfriend ko eee... kaso ayaw niang ulit ulitin ung usaping yun kasi naapakan ung ego nia 😔 i guess..
I got stressed while watching this hahahaahhaah i am bombarded with different insights and irdk what to and not to do hahahaahahahahaahha love this channel!
Generation ng mom ko, she would always tell me na ," dapat guy may sagot nun" . I grew with that concept tapos narealize ko na lang may pera naman akong pambayad at ako naman nakinabang sa kinain/pinanood/etcna trip namin so bakit si guy lang magbabayad. Ano baaaaaaa
Admiration to how the guy in gray w/ glasses, and to the girl in blue and the adoranle girl in black 😍 Love their perceptions.
This channel really deserves more than a million subscribers since it really educates EVERYONE literally EVERYONE! KUDUS RECREATE!
or maybe, you could pay for what you ate and your “datee” could pay theirs. hindi na need ng hatian.
it’s like when you’re eating out with your friends, sama-sama bayad niyo.
imagine if you’re the one eating a LOT, do you think it’s fair kung 50/50 pa rin ang pagpay ng bill? it’s kind of unfair, if you tell me.
"Filipinos tayo di uso mag bago" well di talaga uso if you're not doing something for the change that you wanted. Change is the only thing permanent in this world that's why we have to keep on talking and educating people
Golden rule. Kung sino nag-aya sya magbabayad.
Whoever asks the other out should be the one to pay. Not really required pero as much as possible. Since ikaw naman yung naginitiate and ikaw may gusto. Not always the guy. Women, hindi dapat palaging ineexpect natin na yung guy ay iiimpress tayo, we have to make efforts too.
guy in black = yes! ayaw ng babae na itreat sila na weak but when its beneficial for them, ok lang. girls if we wanna be treated as guy's equal, we should start by breaking stereotypes like this. EQUAL dapat. pay when you can. split when you can. give more when you can.
kaya nga hahahhaa kalokohan ng mga babae yang treated equally
As a woman, I feel like it is not a man's responsibility to pay on your first date. First date nga eh, what is your goal ba doon? To get to know the person better. Mutual decision ninyo naman yan I guess, so dapat parehas magbayad. And I don't know kung ako lang ba, pero as a woman, gusto ko magsplit ng bill because gusto ko na agad i-establish na agad at magsend ng message na hindi ako yung tipo ng babaeng aasa lang sa asawa balang araw. Na I am able to do decisions on my own and I can handle myself. If doon pa lang, may problema na yung lalaki for his own reasons, then that goes to show na hindi kami compatible. Simple as that.
Sana all ganyan magisip ang mga babae
in my personal opinion, i feel like both guy and girl should do their part. like it’s unfair for girls to be treated like queens while the men aren’t. both should pay, both should pick the place, both should do romantic gestures etc. a relationship isn’t something that’s just one sided, both should take part in it.
I've seen video contents like this but in an international version like the US or UK. So glad that we have our own version of it. Seeing and hearing our kababayan's thoughts and expressing what they really feel towards a certain topic in our society is very eye opening especially to us Young adults out here. Please do more contents like this.
just set aside the gender, if you wish to pay the bill then go but you have to also know that it’s a give and take situation when in a relationship or dating👌
For me, when you're having a date with your partner even its still 90's or 2000's. You should be fair in anything else. Like on who will pay the bill, who will open the door, who will carry your stuffs, and most of all on who will decide where are you wanted to go. Kahit alam nating mga Filipino tayo yung iba dyan iisipin nila na di dapat ganon pero dapat tayong maging fair sa lahat ng bagay EQUALITY! 🙃
In my opinion, equal dapat ang magdate to pay even on first date.
I love how the guy with purple polo has also the same thoughts as I have. Kudos brother 👏🏻
Equality for me is what matter's the most.⚖️💗
equality of opportunity or equality of outcome?
More on gender roles please. But please about naman po Sa "Guys expected manner and responsibility". Like gender equality but only girl benefits diba LoL. Wish you had read this and to be featured soon......
When I ask my boyfriend for a dinner, I pay for it. But when he does, he pays it. Otherwise, if we are into it together, we split the bill. Not all the time we take the entire tab :-)
daming red flags ugh, siguro it's about time to clarify everything even before the date started. doesn't mean that whoever asked you should pay for the bill. kumain ka? edi magbayad ka. unless nalang the other party really insisted, or gave you the expectations right from the start like "hey wanna go out? i-treat kita" or something like that. fuck gender roles yes pero fuck din not giving clarity from the get go
people really think treating somebody out is sort of a "peacocking" move but tbh it really isn't.
Gender roles are important for the basic structure and generalization of relationship, parang guidelines lang ba, then adapt as what is fit for the situation.
And yes chivalry is not dead, basic for guys yun. But must know when to use it. Power Tool yun para satin from basic techniques to advance😏
This video need to be more recognize, Especially this topic is not openly discussed. As well as Majority here in PH, More videos like this please. I'm learning both side of the Gender and why they don't Agree one another Rules.
The girl in black, guy in stripes and guy in white sweatshirt have the most insights. Great job
To the lady wearing black in the video, we have the same principles in life. Apir!!!!
I paid for our (now my husband for 8 years)very first date. Not because he doesn't have money nor he doesn't want to. But beacuse I simply CAN.
1:23 ano pong name ni ate? ang ganda ng mga sagot nya I agree to her insights.
I agree kung sino nag ask dapat sya mag treat kung gusto ng ka date mo mag split or share ok lang yan .. nag ask ka to spend quality time .. same happen to ask your best friend or someone that you like nasamahan ka sa ganito sa ganyan tas sasabihin mo KKB your asking a favor and borrowing they're time ..i believe they're will share willingly kung gusto nila to give and take..but don't expect it back ..
Guysss, if the girl gets disappointed that you want to split the bill on the first date, then yes, hindi talaga magiging ready ang society. We both have earning power and we both accepted to go on a date. Why should a guy pay alone?
Also, do you know that most of the time, if girls do want to pay but you don’t let them, it obligates them to go out with you again even if the date didn’t go well.
I guess it’s ok if wala talaga pera si girl and you want to treat her, pero di sya dapat rule sa first dates.
If you want to help us achieve equality, let us split the bill with you. 😊 and once naging serious na kayo, then maybe kung sino nag aya yun magbayad or take turns.😊
Also, I don’t agree with the ligaw phase. Girls will always expect na you’ll be consistent, and we all know that once you feel comfortable, things will change. If you need to impress somebody, impress them with your personality and principles, not with money. Same goes for girls.
Ok pa yung nanliligaw guys magbabayad .ang problem is kht kyo na yung girl gusto guys parin magbayad ng laht..ginawang financer hehe.. yung ang badtrip
I would probably feel more comfortable splitting the bill or taking turns to treat the meals/dates😁 because I don't really like depending to other people financially and at the same time I don't want to be the only one spending always (sugah momma lang ang labas) hahaha😅. Lastly, its not about who spends more in the relationship, quality time is the key😁
' 1:42 SO ACCURATE!!! Kung sino nag-ask out, sya manlibre
The answers of the 2 guys wearing maroon polo shirt and black shirt are so damn attractive 😍💖
Me either is a yes. The one who asl for a date or to go out he or she will pay for it.
KKB nalang muna.. It's a practical way😄 pero Kung ma ego Yung guy then why not be it 😂
Theo is right! Bakit di na lang kayo maghati, parehas naman kayo kumikita eh. 🙂
Same, if the guy made the first move then siya magbayad if yung girl then yung girl...
I like how the the girl in the gorgeous blue dress said "boys are shit" so easily. love her
I agree on splitting the bill, if the person you are with agree's to it. Practical lang. At the end of the day. Di rin naman magiging kayo. Quits lang
my first date with my guy, we both treated each other. he bought us some pizza and i got us milkteas. 😶 fuck gender roles. but then kapag lumalabas na kami after that, he always insist na siya magbabayad. then i'll give some part of the bill. he's honest tho pagwala siyang pera then i'll take the turn. it was no one's role. it is a matter of fairness. 😅
Kung sinong nag aya, siya ang taya. I mean why ask to date if you're not willing to spend anyway and expecting the other people to pay eh baka napilitan nga lang siyang makipag-date to be polite tapos pagbabayarin mo pa 😂
Part of "peacocking" for men is showing the lady that they can provide. I think that's where all this preconditioning is coming from. If a guy pays on the first date, society takes that as "Oh this man is a potential good provider." Pero siguro para safe lang, never ever ever assume that the other person is paying. Be ready always to do it the Dutch way.
Depends on who invited, if I'm the one who invites for the date then I'll pay for it, if not then we should split the bill.
Sa unang date ng boyfriend ko, kanya kanyang bayad kami. Hindi ako naturn off since students pa lang kami. Same lang kaming humihingi ng pera sa mga magulang namin. Pero since magwowork na kami nyan, kung sino ang magyayaya siya na ang magbabayad or kanya kanya pa din. It was never became a problem since we eat each other's food everytime. 😆
It still matters to a lot of people especially the close mìnded ones.
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drop their ig accounts please hahaha jk
My first date with my hubby, he paid even I am insisting of paying him the half. I just feel like it's should not be weird to split bills on dates.
Dapat kung sino ang nag-ask out sa first date, siya ang manlibre.
Kung babae ang nagyaya makipag-date (sa first date), siya ang manlibre.
Kung lalaki ang nagyaya makipag-date (also sa first date), siya ang manlibre.
kung nag-alok naman yung other party na ambagan kayo sa first date, e di g.
Kung matagal na kayong nasa relationship, ambagan.
Tama!
Why can't we just be nice to each other?
The expectations of labels, especially the fckin' ignorance side of society if u dont take it they will feel bad at you and the impression came out na ur not gentleman to take it, kasi guys are meant to take it all or lets say half or more But anyways its good to hear that this ages, gals and guys and working to change the mindset of closed minded society that guys are not necessarilly to take the 1st move.
first time ko makipagdate ulet this 2019.. since i been single for two years and it felt awkward. hahaha i even offer to pay the bill. hahaha twing magbabayad nguunahan kami sa pagbayad ng bill.
Most of the time she pay for the bills. kuripot ako even first date namin siya ang nagbabayad kase estudyante palang ako that time, pero yun nga kung sino ang nagtawag ussually siya yung magbabayad. kung ako ang magtatawag minsan moviedate tapos ipupunta ko siya sa medyo pricey na resto ayaw niya gusto turo turo lang pero kung siya nag-aya dinadala niya ako sa medyo pricey, samgyeopsal ganun.
Who cares who pays on the first date.....my rule is...who has more money should pay...and that goes to not only dates but when I go out with my family and friends too.
Equity > Equality. Nice 👌
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Sino ung guy na naka stripe? for research purposes lang. Salamat!
Wag magyaya kung walang pambayad sa meal nung niyaya sa date. Unless its just a friendly date no romantic goal whatsoever.
i don't do an actual split like for example siguro in a movie date i pay for the tickets then she'd offer so i'd just say sige bawi ka na lang with snacks. hehe .something like that.
Since I started watching your videos, I got really hooked na. Keep it up!
What's the name of that girl in stripes? Oh g, I suddenly fell inlove.
sino yung nakastripez na guy hahaha
Haha. Yan din gusto ko malaman
The problem is that society always views man as more capable, strong and will always do anything for girls. It's not always guys are the ones that have to this and that. I think the one who asks to go out should pay specially kung parehas naman kayong kumikita na and since you're the one who's asking favor to go out with you, then you must be willing enough to pay the bill. Like what the guy on black shirt said, society is still not ready for this kind of conversation.
For me, it's no longer the case. Most women I know like my Mom, sister, my girl friends (I'm gay), or even just my girl acquaintances have decent work with decent pay. Minsan sila nanlilibre sakin or ako nanlilibre sa kanila or split the bill and they do it with their boyfriends. I think there is no need to enforce such idea na dapat lalake ang magbabayad kasi kung ako tatanungin mo about sa mga babaeng nakikilala at nagiging friends, marami na silang pera ngayon.
Hindi ko na maintindihan. Siguro mas magandang tanong is, "Tatayo ka ba para paupuin yung babaeng nakatayo sa bus?" Ako kasi sagot ko jan depende sa situation and age bracketing.
Tapos pag may babaeng magsasabi na "wala nang gentleman" sasabihin ko, "gender equality, equal responsibility"!
Lahat sila sa interview mukhang mayaman kaya kaya nilang magbayad. 😂😂😂
May mga babae kasi gusto nila gender equality kuno pero pag mga ganyan usapan.balik n sa gender role..like king sino magbabayad..mostly kasi sa pinay gusto nila lalake lagi nagbabayad ng date gift etc..
aminin nyo na, pag hindi nagbayad ang mga lalake sa una may masasabi kayo. hehe pero you ask for equality.
Masculinity =Femininity
Equality for Feminism just saying
I'm Filipino, never had a Filipino boyfriend. I dated white guys before, they always pay for everything even going out on a date at a gourmet restaurant. I told them that I'll pay next time, they would always resist. Filipino guys, not really.
I actually like paying for the first dates pero i make it a point to know if she'd like to split the bill or she's fine with me making libre pero usually naman we just end up taking turns sa pag pay haha.
Sa kultura kasi natin lalaki dapat ang magbibigay kasi siya ang bumubuhay sa pamilya. Dapat kung nag-aaya ka siguraduhin mo na marami kang pera, kapag ikaw naman ang inaya magdala ka rin ng pera para makasigurado di lahat libre. Ayos lang naman sa'kin na parehas magbayad.
Sino ba yang naka guess stripe shirt!!! Droop niyo na ig niya hahahahah
chivalry: carrying the girl's bag. really?
tangina! ang gaang ng bag.. ok lng sana if 5 kg yung bigat, maraming dala or PWD.. halos lahat ng babae able to carry their shoulder bag..
this is the first reason why i dont date girls now a days. they think na the guy should pay the bills. kase naiisip ko na dito palang sa pag iisip ng ganto ng babae na dapat yung guy mag babayad lage eh ampangit na ng tingin mo sa babae (para saken lol).
I remember a guy na lagi ko kasama to go out, everytime we eat he always pay the bills--actually nahihiya ako. I initiate naman to share pero usually ayaw nya. 😪
ganto na lang, wag magjowa pag walang areps hahaha
Who’s here because of tiktok?
Gender role ng society lalaki talaga ang manliligaw, pero ngayon pwede manligaw babae, kung sino mag aya ng date siya dapat mag bayad.
Sobrang gusto ko mga sagot ni girl na naka itim na ni guy na naka stripes na green and white!
In today's society gender rule should not exist anymore, because he or she could earn more than the other, can know more than the other, can be more skilled than the other. but somehow on the back of my mind, the guy should initiate first. but it's the chivalry the continuous chivalry that makes romance still alive.
just my opinion
Cute tlga nung guy na naka white long sleeves 😅
Ang gaganda ng diction nilaa I can't--
Gender roles? No. Kasi, look, nowadays most ofw's are women, mother or single mom theyre letting their husband to stay at home and take care of their kids. It just proves that gender roles is di na existing sa Philippines
Chivalry is dead because it doesn't matter anymore. Chivalry or respect doesn't matter to women, all that matters to them now is a guy's looks and or if he makes a shit load of money.
The girl wearing glasses na may bangs and striped shirt, ang ganda niya😳
Ano name niya char
Girls wearing glasses r my weakness po
Lmao to those guys who don't want to pay for the first date. Guys don't really have to. Correction, you don't need to. Pero bawas pogi points. Unless the date sucked. Then kkb. 🤣🤣🤣