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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2024

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  • @franciscagarcia8671
    @franciscagarcia8671 6 лет назад +27

    Melissa, I’m sorry for everything that’s going on. Changes can be overwhelming; whether it’s the loss of a loved one, change of a relationship status, etc. If you’re feeling sad, it’s okay to feel that way. You’re human and it’s important that you’re in touch with your feelings. So cry if you need to. Feel angry if you need to. Talk to someone if you need to. Be honest with yourself. I know right now it’s easier said than done but what you’re going through, you will GROW through. ♥️

  • @ohdestinyx
    @ohdestinyx 6 лет назад +12

    This video makes me so sad. You deserve happiness and you’re definitely going to get it. Change is hard but it’s for the better 💓

  • @brookenunez8003
    @brookenunez8003 6 лет назад +4

    Girl it's literally a roller coaster. One minute you're like I'm good, I can do this. The next you feel so empty, and sad and lost. We've all been there. And it sucks. And guys are so different, like they're totally fine at first, and then it slowly starts to effect them, like opposite of us.. it's crazy. Which doesn't help when we're upset and we think they're just okay, moving on with their life. But it truly does get better, especially if you let it out, and talk about it, write your feelings down. You got this girl. We love you! And I'm soooo happy that the vlogs are back. I missed them!

  • @sharonsantana7583
    @sharonsantana7583 6 лет назад +2

    Melissa, thank you for being honest. It's refreshing to see honest emotions. It hurts to break up, even if that's what you wanted. It's helpful to see that it's ok and normal to have ups and downs. People usually only show the highs, and that makes you feel like you are the only one dealing with lows. It's brave and I thank you.

  • @Eeemp
    @Eeemp 6 лет назад +5

    Girl we have all been through it !! Stay positive and do what makes you happy . You will get through this ❤️

  • @dianasj
    @dianasj 6 лет назад +9

    Sorry for how you’ve been feeling but trust it will get better. I am also single now (since October) and have just decided to date again and it has been so draining and difficult to be a single introverted 29 year old sometimes. I am trying my best to focus on Law of Attraction and manifesting happiness into my life, in all areas, and I know someday in the future i will be in a much better place.

  • @ChinkyEyes_86
    @ChinkyEyes_86 6 лет назад +7

    Thank you for sharing! I’m so happy your finding things to keep yourself positive and keeping your head high! Love watching you!

  • @bookishgworl
    @bookishgworl 6 лет назад

    Time heals everything 💕💕 you’ll feel better soon! Working out helps me when I’m feeling sad!

  • @brwnskngem_1725
    @brwnskngem_1725 6 лет назад +3

    So glad your back! It's crazy how life works! I've been where u are a few years ago, it was the toughest thing I've been through but with time, prayer, trying to stay busy and being positive, I did get though it and so will you!! Your a beautiful independent woman. You'll get through this. And don't be afraid to admit your sad or not wanting to cry. It's all a part of the healing process!! I'll keep you in my prayers that you get through this ASAP! Just know that everything happens for a reason!! You might not understand why right now but believe me, down the road you will!! Much LOVE MELISSA!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ Continue to be strong and keep your head held high!

  • @Bchavez004
    @Bchavez004 6 лет назад +1

    Melissa! I love you so much! It’s ok to feel sad. You’re not alone. You have a lot of subbies who love you and support you ❤️

  • @SunkissedKuri
    @SunkissedKuri 6 лет назад +17

    It's funny how life works out, but things get better. ♥️

  • @roneeshadudley8
    @roneeshadudley8 6 лет назад

    Hey Melissa, I was in the same boat as you last year. I was feeling how you was feeling overwhelmed Didn’t have nobody to talk to about my feelings. Also lost my grandpa after the relationship with somebody. So became a huge weight of emotions. But what I have learned it’s okay to feel sad and even cry sometimes. Because god has put people in our life for a reason. What helps me get through tough time is I write poetry, read a bible, and a book. Watch RUclips videos sometimes. Anything that helps you or anything you passion about. Get you through the hard times.

  • @lornabrooks4484
    @lornabrooks4484 6 лет назад

    Girl that’s what we are here for lol Vent away, that’s the best way to push through, in my opinion, doesn’t matter who or what you vent to just get it out don’t ball it in because in my experience I’ve kept things bottled up and then when I wanted to vent smhh I’d break down !! And it hurt more !! So vent away vent to us vent to max !! Vent to a higher power if you believe girl lol love you 😍!!!

  • @msasican2805
    @msasican2805 6 лет назад

    I came across your channel about a month or so ago. Now I am binge watching all your videos from yearsss back. I can’t stop watching 🤗🤗 I love your relationship with your cousin, reminds me of my relationship with my 12 yr old niece. Keep up your beautiful channel girl 😘😘😘

  • @Luckyasmr5
    @Luckyasmr5 6 лет назад

    You can talk about it, it is best to let things out of your chest and plus we are your friends 💕 love you girl ♥️

  • @123kimera
    @123kimera 6 лет назад +7

    Helping me through my hard time as well.. you can do it girl, keep fighting ❤️ I love you ! Xoxo

    • @itsmelissaflores
      @itsmelissaflores  6 лет назад

      You can get through it also ❤️ wishing the best for you

    • @itsmelissaflores
      @itsmelissaflores  6 лет назад

      You can get through it also ❤️ wishing the best for you

  • @AshleyGaita
    @AshleyGaita 6 лет назад +3

    You are doing so great!!! Such an inspiration!

  • @jesseyname4533
    @jesseyname4533 6 лет назад

    I am feeling the exact way you are and struggling to stay motivated and focused but after watching you get up and go to the gym and continue to work on yourself, it has helped motivate me to do the same. Sending you lots of positive energy and positive thoughts, thank you for continuing to share your story we all love you!! Xxxx

  • @jennifermaisonet4182
    @jennifermaisonet4182 6 лет назад +6

    Embrace this time in your life Melissa, you might not see it yet, but when you look back on this challenging time in your life you will realize how much it shaped you to be the woman you are. This situation I promise you, will make you a stronger and more confident woman, it will enable you to overcome so many of life's obstacles. To be honest, when I finally had the courage to end a relationship/situation I wasn't happy in, it felt like the sky was bluer, I could hear the birds chipping, I felt alive and free. This may not be the way you are feeling, however, what most of us have in common is the fear of change, the heartache that comes along with hurting someone you care about. When you're with someone for so long they become your comfort zone, the person you turn to for emotional support when you're having a bad day or faced with a problem, not having that anymore can be an overwhelming feeling. Putting your happiness first is one of the most empowering feelings. What people fail to realize is a relationship is always over way before it's officially over. I know that you have already dealt with many emotions before making your final decision to move back to Jersey. I just want you to know, it's okay to be /feel happy during this time, you don't have to make yourself feel sad, or take time off from anything, do what makes you feel happy. You will go through many ups and downs before that one day you feel whole again. One day it will all make sense and you will understand why everything happens for a reason. You gotta go through it to grow from it. God bless Xo

  • @leehernz
    @leehernz 6 лет назад

    With everything going on - I really recommend kickboxing. It helps not only physically but mentally and emotionally.
    Also, what’s meant for you will never leave you

  • @leslierochin3042
    @leslierochin3042 6 лет назад

    That's exactly how I feel, I get anxiety/panic attacks sometimes. I feel like I'm stuck doing the same thing everyday so today I got my gym membership again, I haven't been to the gym ever since I had my son. I try to keep myself busy so I'm not feeling any anxiety. Definitely want to start my RUclips channel soon, I know that'll help me a lot!

  • @annabellejames7534
    @annabellejames7534 6 лет назад +5

    Oh Melissa. I can see how much your still hurting. Cry when you need to laugh when you need to there's no rule to this.. keep strong and keep busy. You will get there gorgeous girl x

  • @ChambersJane
    @ChambersJane 6 лет назад

    It’s ok to feel sad Melissa, it’s better that you go through the motions and feel what you need to feel - rather than suppress your feelings, that’s so unhealthy. In my opinion, you are doing the right thing. You’re trying to keep yourself busy & push forward. As I said in your previous video, I truly commend you. I’ve been in your shoes & I just couldn’t bring myself to do even half of what you’ve been able to do. It’s understandable that once you’re alone with your thoughts, you’re sad & overwhelmed - I know it isn’t easy working through this. One day at a time and I promise - YOU WILL BE FINE! Sometimes it’s impossible to see it in the moment but you will be and I think a part of you knows that. Lots of love from NC.

  • @yoliv2946
    @yoliv2946 6 лет назад

    Stay strong girl! Everything happens for a reason. Take one day at a time!! Love your vlogs!! You got this! 💪🏻♥️

  • @Itskrys222
    @Itskrys222 6 лет назад

    Time is everything girl..hope things start looking better for you❤️

  • @rrrositasvlogs
    @rrrositasvlogs 6 лет назад

    You are a strong woman you will pull through and you know it. Let yourself feel all the emotions you need to feel so you can heal and move on

  • @stephanielov3347
    @stephanielov3347 6 лет назад

    Feel better love you got this. Dont worry you’re strong and you will get thru this

  • @biancalogrono
    @biancalogrono 6 лет назад

    Best way to feel better is to get back to your routines! We’re here for you girl

  • @Queenbee62403
    @Queenbee62403 6 лет назад

    It's ok to be sad, you have made a big life change. That is going to be an adjustment. It will get better! Stay blessed!

  • @kristalstone801
    @kristalstone801 6 лет назад

    You are going through life changes, it’s going to be hard, I’m glad you are talking through this! Take your time, have good supports around you, and take care of yourself...💚 hang in there girl! 😘

  • @10338cjones
    @10338cjones 6 лет назад +8

    Love the video. You are inspirations. Thanks for sharing and your makeup always looks bomb! ❤️

  • @adara_2835
    @adara_2835 6 лет назад

    Stay strong, you are amazing and I love the Jacket on you. 💗 Btw your vlogs helped me get through my break up two years ago.

  • @sharelleburwell6452
    @sharelleburwell6452 6 лет назад +2

    Just think of it as an exciting new journey. It won’t be easy at first but everyday is a new page to a new book. Good luck girl. Btw your make up is fabulous!

  • @Gery
    @Gery 6 лет назад

    Yess you're back! ❤ you're so strong and absolutely gorgeous 😊 And the teddy bear coat is super cute and trendy, I love it 😍

  • @luxestyledecorjessy6082
    @luxestyledecorjessy6082 6 лет назад

    Take your time! We love your videos & we will be right here waiting for the next one! Sending you great vibes & lots of love ❤️

  • @SephoraForLunch
    @SephoraForLunch 6 лет назад +3

    Oh melissa, take your sweet time! do things each day that warms your soul...believe me its the little things that make each day worth it (take a trip to barnes and noble! haha). Good to get a vlog from you. We love you!

  • @amandaluh1052
    @amandaluh1052 6 лет назад +5

    Girl your make up, gosh your so gorgeous 😍 glad to see you vlogging again ❤️

  • @alyssab1338
    @alyssab1338 6 лет назад

    time heals all wounds💞

  • @nadineadam4285
    @nadineadam4285 6 лет назад +1

    I am such a huge believer in fate!!!! What is meant to be will be. This is where you are supposed to be now. I told you girl wonderful things await you. Sending you lots of love and Big XOXO Nadine

  • @ADayWithShay
    @ADayWithShay 6 лет назад

    Just discovered your channel. Girl you’re so pretty lol 😍

  • @marlapips
    @marlapips 6 лет назад

    Listen take it one day at a time. You will be ok. Try to not ignore your thoughts because the will overwhelm you so let them in slowly. But at the same time don’t dwell in it. It’s ok to feel sad sometimes, but it will pass it’ll take some time. You will be ok 😘

  • @cryjoy9388
    @cryjoy9388 6 лет назад

    I love ur videos there so realistic and laid back

  • @alexandracostas9753
    @alexandracostas9753 6 лет назад +16

    Girl, try meditations, they may help dealing with emotions❤

  • @AmaniSams
    @AmaniSams 6 лет назад

    You have my support Melissa! I'm going through the same thing but you are inspiring me to keep being a boss babe. XOXO

  • @patin319
    @patin319 6 лет назад +1

    It will get better for you .....trust me! 💕💕💕

  • @brookestacia1561
    @brookestacia1561 6 лет назад

    Time & healing is going to be your best friend during this stage in your life 💕Stay Strong M

  • @lewissolution7376
    @lewissolution7376 6 лет назад

    Love the jacket I wanted one so bad but it’s about to be spring soon

  • @amalichka
    @amalichka 6 лет назад +1

    Every time when you are little bit depressed with your thoughts, read a good books it will help 🤗🤗🤗 (Colin Tipping " Radical forgiveness", Louise L. Hay " You can heal your life") I wish I find this books earlier. Melissa every thing gonna be fine you'll see! Hugs from Ukraine 🤗😘😉

  • @bereciareyes138
    @bereciareyes138 6 лет назад

    💜 the jacket! and you’re so pretty!!

  • @tarnishathomas2021
    @tarnishathomas2021 6 лет назад

    Praying for your strength ❤️

  • @MakebyJen
    @MakebyJen 6 лет назад

    From watching your channel for years I always noticed that you were the one that was constantly having to uproot your life for him especially since y'all aren't married. But I wish the both of you the best as someone who also got out of a long term relationship you'll be fine.

  • @camillerosario7643
    @camillerosario7643 6 лет назад +1

    Girl Cava has saved my life !! So many gluten free options there and dairy free !! I literally eat there like 3x a week !

  • @MichelleDominguez
    @MichelleDominguez 6 лет назад +4

    Hey Melissa!!! I’m a new subbie! I love your vlogs. I’m was also born in jersey. I just wanted to tell you, that if me writing great and happy thoughts, will help you everyday I will. Hahaha I feel from watching your videos this whole pass week, you are a genuine, smart, and strong woman. You will get through this. Remember everything happens for a reason. You also are kinda lucky for those subscribe who actually care, your not alone. And all though you don’t see it now, you might be helping someone out that is going through the same situation. Keep your head up, and remember god is great and is always on time. And if you don’t Believe in god, I’m sorry I didn’t mean to offend you. So I’ll leave with trust your timing and trust your gut always. Love you much sweet heart. 💕

    • @itsmelissaflores
      @itsmelissaflores  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing those beautiful words and for taking the time to write to me. It means a lot 💓

    • @MichelleDominguez
      @MichelleDominguez 6 лет назад

      itsmelissaflores no thank you for recommending the amazon tape in Extensions. Hahaha Plus for making me stick to making more videos. Oh and putting the KONG in the freezer. Haha

  • @browngirl5905
    @browngirl5905 6 лет назад

    We are here for you Melissa.🙏🏽💕💕💕The jacket is cute and it’s supposed to have that oversized look.

  • @pamrodr
    @pamrodr 6 лет назад

    Hey i promise it will get better just take it a day at a time remember that God dont give you anything you cant handle... this shall pass

  • @mrsg7865
    @mrsg7865 6 лет назад +3

    Lots of love sent your way babygirl you will be ok!

  • @ellymadrid1
    @ellymadrid1 6 лет назад

    Girl surround yourself with your girlfriends and family and keep busy and things will be better little by little it’s crazy all the twists and turns our lives make but everything is for a reason stay positive and I’m sending my positive thoughts and love ❤️

  • @Natali-kk3wq
    @Natali-kk3wq 6 лет назад

    Missed the vlogs girl. Things will get better 😘❤️ Everything happens for a reason

  • @briannacolombo79
    @briannacolombo79 6 лет назад

    You are absolutely breathtaking beautiful.. 10:17
    Just stumbled upon your page today and have been binge watching and I just finally wanted to share that.. Beautiful inside and out 💗

  • @smiles6389
    @smiles6389 6 лет назад

    Girl that jacket IS CUTE!!

  • @_allthingsmommy
    @_allthingsmommy 6 лет назад

    Okay she slayed your hair 😍

  • @daniellecampbell4470
    @daniellecampbell4470 6 лет назад +4

    I am going through the same thing!! Just use the power of mediation girl!! Everything seems easier said than done but time will pass and then later on you'll think wow what was I thinking ??

  • @MissStalina
    @MissStalina 6 лет назад

    I need to try that salon! Your hair is so beautiful and shiny 💜. Side note...where did you get that marble cell phone case and pop socket? You have the best accessories!

  • @evitahouston6348
    @evitahouston6348 6 лет назад +2

    Take it on day at a time . 💋💋♥️💋♥️ your videos help me get through my own journey. Also I do agree with you being a introvert is hard sometimes especially being at events and crowds . I to find myself drained really fast. #thelifeofaloner 😘

  • @karenuquillas3316
    @karenuquillas3316 6 лет назад

    Hi Melissa ! Take your time with the vlogs ❤️Stay busy like you said and treat yourself because you deserve it! We're humans and it's ok to be sad, angry and hurt. Cry as much as you need to. Believe me it def helps!!!Stay busy and stay positive. Change is always good Melissa. You will see it ❤️🌹

  • @ChociMilki
    @ChociMilki 6 лет назад +3

    Stay strong mel

  • @diosesfiel7777
    @diosesfiel7777 6 лет назад

    NEW SUBSCRIBER HERE 😃 i am binge watching your videos you are an amazing person! since you live in jersey can you tell some good areas where i could move with my two daughters i feel lost as to where we should move 😬😬

  • @minniemonroe7081
    @minniemonroe7081 6 лет назад

    AT 6:23 MAXI TOTALLY LOOKS LIKE HE WAS ON YOUR LAPTOP WATCHING SOMETHING COOL LOL!!! STAY UP BABYGIRL THE BEST IS YET TO COME 😚😍

  • @Diana-jh7rp
    @Diana-jh7rp 6 лет назад

    Wow I love your whole look Melissa super cute ❤

  • @OhSheKnowsKeto
    @OhSheKnowsKeto 6 лет назад

    I am so sorry That you are going through this! If you ever need to talk... You can always reach out I offer a lending ear. and lastly remember everything happens for a reason.

  • @lornabrooks4484
    @lornabrooks4484 6 лет назад

    I know I’m late I finally got a break from school I get to catch up !!! Ugghh missed you !! The life of a nursing student lol

  • @daisygirrl1234
    @daisygirrl1234 6 лет назад +1

    Girl! Stop saying overwhelming!! Your sad! You can say I'm sad! You can cry!!!! I've been through times in my life where I needed to spend the day in bed and hold my dog and just CRY. You're a human, give yourself credit for being a loyal loving woman to someone for so long and take it as a lesson. One day, before you find your other half you're going to feel whole. Everything is going to be just fine. For now count your blessings, your healthy pup, your parents who love you and your good friends and sunbird who adore you. Remember it's ok to cry when your feeling sad ❤

  • @morganchapman3553
    @morganchapman3553 6 лет назад

    Try Orangetheory! They just opened one in Hackensack.

  • @wendycarolina3002
    @wendycarolina3002 6 лет назад

    everything is going to be okay

  • @wrightljac
    @wrightljac 6 лет назад

    Hair was amazing

  • @gabriellasegura2522
    @gabriellasegura2522 6 лет назад

    Love you! Where are your shoes from??

  • @usmarinewannab
    @usmarinewannab 6 лет назад

    Hey just a suggestion. I’m a dog handler and to keep your doggie healthy always help him on/off the bed. It puts a lot of strain on he’s joints and if he gets arthritis (very common) it’s painful to him and your pocket. He may be crying for help because he’s in pain. Love your videos and you are a strong person. Believe in yourself.

  • @LAboud423
    @LAboud423 6 лет назад

    What lipstick are you wearing on your way to the event?

  • @FamilySens
    @FamilySens 6 лет назад

    Hey. Where did you get your car mount for your camera?

  • @jennjenn5709
    @jennjenn5709 6 лет назад

    Where is your marble phone case from?

  • @jennafrushon94
    @jennafrushon94 6 лет назад +2

    Missed your vlogs! 💕

  • @soniad1275
    @soniad1275 6 лет назад

    Your makeup at 2:16 😍😍😍😍 what lippie you have on??

  • @lavanity7
    @lavanity7 6 лет назад

    Loving the eye look (shadow). What is it?

    • @itsmelissaflores
      @itsmelissaflores  6 лет назад

      The nude palette by Models Own

    • @lavanity7
      @lavanity7 6 лет назад

      Thanx! Hope ur feeling a little better xo

  • @waleskacappas4825
    @waleskacappas4825 6 лет назад +2

    That jacket looks cute on you. Rock the jacket girl

  • @charlenem7390
    @charlenem7390 6 лет назад

    Feeling sad is normal. You have to give yourself time.

  • @YoShiCrazii
    @YoShiCrazii 6 лет назад +2

    Love ya girl!! ❤️🤗

  • @mariasantiago4978
    @mariasantiago4978 6 лет назад

    Love the jacket

  • @mitzirich8526
    @mitzirich8526 6 лет назад

    Please tell me where you got those shoes!

  • @marvela485
    @marvela485 6 лет назад

    Girl where are those loafers from ?

  • @dianasj
    @dianasj 6 лет назад

    Yay, vlogs are back! 💕💕💕

  • @starchild7777
    @starchild7777 6 лет назад

    I’m sorry melissa when you were in the car with the coat you looked so funny 😆 I don’t like the coat so much but love you 😍

  • @jacquelinetvvlogs
    @jacquelinetvvlogs 6 лет назад

    Love your vlogs ☺️

  • @cnicroute
    @cnicroute 6 лет назад +2

    Yeah, it sucks and hurts but you have to let yourself just feel what your feeling. As women we don't really allow ourselves time to feel sad because a lot of things fall on us to do.

  • @shelissamedina6361
    @shelissamedina6361 6 лет назад +1

    It's hard , I know but things will get better . Stay positive and try to keep busy it will help time go by faster . Also , if your looking for something to do in the evenings look into vixen workout NYC. It's super fun while still being a fitness based workout with a strong focus on empowerment.

  • @soniad1275
    @soniad1275 6 лет назад

    Girl Ik what you mean bout everything hitting you all at once 😩 I just lift it all up to God and look at the good that will come out of it.

  • @reeree8760
    @reeree8760 6 лет назад

    Lol cute ugly has me cracking up idk why 😆 Mel I hope that we ur supporters can bring u as much joy u bring us 😘 Your an amazing light and so genuine ✨✨✨. I pray for your strength, wisdom & knowledge to increase in this time, what's meant to be will be. In the mean time as u go through this I just wanna thank you for being awesome and sharing with us. We Love You 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @JessicaTellian
    @JessicaTellian 6 лет назад +1

    So I watched your snap that you found a new trick on Final Cut Pro I’m trying to figure it out 😅 is it the slow mo of your hair flip after the blow out ?! Or the slow montages 🤔

  • @mayrag8566
    @mayrag8566 6 лет назад

    Love watching your vlogs but take as much time as you need. I know it’s hard right now but you are strong independent woman, you will be just fine lovely

  • @Beautymarie93
    @Beautymarie93 6 лет назад

    Missed you

  • @taymelanin717
    @taymelanin717 6 лет назад

    Notification gang Happy sunday💕