"IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!" | Solving Muslim Reddit dilemmas Ft

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  • Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
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    You may have seen some hilarious Reddit dilemmas floating around on the internet. Some funny, some concerning and some just mind boggling. Haider sits down with duo Hodo & Kally from ‪@oversharerspodcast‬ to dissect some of these dilemmas from Muslim Reddit. You're in for a treat!
    00:00 - Intro & chit chat
    24:52 - “I hate living with my in-laws”
    40:29 - “I don’t feel a spark with my fiancé”
    49:26 - “HELP! How do I have Intimacy after my Nikkah?!”
    1:05:42 - “My husband is still in a group chat with other Women”
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Комментарии • 24

  • @supernovaspinach
    @supernovaspinach 7 месяцев назад +66

    Better help is in complicit agreement with Israel and the IDF in offering trauma based services for injured, scared and or stress felt combatants. So it would be great if there was an evaluation of sponsors going forward. (FREE FILLISTINE)

    • @noblindspotspod
      @noblindspotspod  7 месяцев назад +32

      My contract with them was signed earlier this year but I will look into this. Thank you for flagging it brother

  • @naylorahmad8774
    @naylorahmad8774 7 месяцев назад +8

    My sister is a single mum, she would never expect her daughter in law to look after her. Also if I was sick, I would never expect my daughter in laws to wipe or feed me. She's not my maid. I want my children to do what they can out of love, to help. When did it become the spouse's, responsibility. May Allah keep us healthy and independent till the end.

  • @iNikkah
    @iNikkah 7 месяцев назад +4

    The sister getting married to someone she can’t speak needs a dedicated person to speak to- all our coaches have been married more than 20 years

    • @noblindspotspod
      @noblindspotspod  7 месяцев назад

      I think she meant not knowing how to speak to her future husband due to language barriers

  • @iNikkah
    @iNikkah 7 месяцев назад +9

    Making sure the couple have shared goals and values is the most important aspect of marriage, the couple need to be entered around Allah and salah without that the relationship is fruitless

    • @berkamp9832
      @berkamp9832 5 месяцев назад

      But there's no spark, he's thinking /dreaming of other women.

    • @iNikkah
      @iNikkah 5 месяцев назад

      @@berkamp9832 this is where he is going wrong- he shouldn’t centre himself with chasing women, did Allah put him on earth for this reason? Find a higher purpose, your wife is there to support you getting into Jannah, anything else is a bonus

  • @nas19281
    @nas19281 Месяц назад +1

    I listen to the oversharers podcast every week but didn’t realise they would also collaborate with the other gender. I know RUclipsrs collaborate eventually and free mix but I thought they wouldn’t :(

  • @aryangoyat152
    @aryangoyat152 7 месяцев назад

    How are you guys are from the same community? I'm confused here?

    • @naviifra2374
      @naviifra2374 7 месяцев назад +21

      Ever heard of Islam? We put that above culture

  • @yolandahc7477
    @yolandahc7477 5 месяцев назад

    Whats a gosol? @55:40

    • @nk7274
      @nk7274 5 месяцев назад

      Ghusul. Is like a ritual bath/shower a muslim needs to take after they have sex or menstruate or ejaculated before they can pray again

    • @mizzyuk8697
      @mizzyuk8697 4 месяца назад +1

      Compulsory religious bath that involves thoroughly washing the full body including the hair, gargling the throat and cleaning the nostrils. This is done after sexual intimacy.

  • @NaimaMJ
    @NaimaMJ 7 месяцев назад +2

    You basically called them to lecture them, they barely spoke
    I wonder what they came for to talk because it's you enticing them

    • @noblindspotspod
      @noblindspotspod  7 месяцев назад +21

      Enticing? Is everything okay at home sister? It’s a podcast, we’re all having a conversation 😂

  • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
    @GokuBlack-sn5dr 7 месяцев назад +1

    the sister who wants to "unalive" herself is in a better situation than some sister who is committing zina, in the eyes of allah.

    • @naviifra2374
      @naviifra2374 7 месяцев назад +3

      Doesn’t matter in her mind her situation is hell. He needs to be a man and provide a home

    • @noblindspotspod
      @noblindspotspod  7 месяцев назад +11

      Not sure if this is the approach we should have about someone who is having suicidal thoughts

    • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
      @GokuBlack-sn5dr 7 месяцев назад

      people in palestine have lost their entire families yet some how they remain strong. lets face it people in the west are just too weak when it comes challenges in life@@noblindspotspod

  • @zink4625
    @zink4625 7 месяцев назад

    Are you feeling ok bro? Why are you bringing on some malis and discussing topics within the south asian community with outsiders are they doing this the other way around? Have some honour about your community, its always you punjabis letting down the rest of the nation alhamdulilah us pakhtuns baloch sindhis paharis etc are free from you people, pattern up

    • @sabrinaraasin8543
      @sabrinaraasin8543 Месяц назад +6

      Bro what is going on with the Muslims in this world. No tribe or nation or ethnicity is better than any other tribe or nation or ethnicity . Fear Allah (SWT) and be careful of what you say