S2 EP 7: It's not them.. it's you (commitment issues, singleness & more)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • It's not them.. it's you. In this episode we are talking about commitment issues, singleness, reading the room, self love & more!
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  • @vikkifromthesouthside
    @vikkifromthesouthside 9 месяцев назад +48

    You guys are real life❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @bijoualiza2105
    @bijoualiza2105 9 месяцев назад +38

    welcome back to another episode of ✨heavenly boooOoOoNnnndDdDd✨

  • @eghosa.xv_yt
    @eghosa.xv_yt 9 месяцев назад +27

    If we all live by biblical values our society will be thriving! - THAT HITS HARD🔥

  • @Naomi-kf5mk
    @Naomi-kf5mk 9 месяцев назад +43

    Heavenly bondddddd 🎉

  • @RealCorban.
    @RealCorban. 9 месяцев назад +6

    But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
    Matthew 6:33

  • @nicolechimanikire2040
    @nicolechimanikire2040 9 месяцев назад +7

    I'm feel the urge to like the video, every 5 minutes. I needed this. God bless you both ❤

  • @xiomararivera1740
    @xiomararivera1740 9 месяцев назад +13

    HeavenlyBondPod gone hit every time! I just started listening not too long ago and when I saw this video's title, it was an answered prayer. God is using you guys and I pray he continues to strengthen you both in what you do, love the energy and vibes you guys are hilarious and also so well spoken and have great gifts🤍

  • @Vic_Johnson
    @Vic_Johnson 9 месяцев назад +8

    57:49 I am walking through this right now. My husband wouldn’t mind if I stayed home to take of our kids and the houses it’s truly an honor to work a 9-5. But I’m currently in that season where I want to stay at home and create my household and family dynamic. And start my own business which I will launch in Aug 2024

    • @MJJ352
      @MJJ352 9 месяцев назад +2

      Praying for the future success of your business, may God continue to watch over you and your family!!! 🙏🏾

  • @arielnariah1246
    @arielnariah1246 9 месяцев назад +12

    the way i was meditating earlier trying to get in the presence of God and was internally talking to him and expressing the things that i deal with and think about daily and asked for guidance about all of these topics you guys talked about in this just shows how intentionally God is and him allowing me to find this video

  • @hanajahslens
    @hanajahslens 9 месяцев назад +11

    naww but y'all are so goofy😂that's what I love about y'all, just so genuine and relatable!! I loved the part about guarding your heart going back to Proverbs 4:23, and how what we say yes and no can determine how much the wisdom and discernment you have or If you have it at all! Having the wisdom and discernment is truly something that is from the Holy Spirit yesss

  • @akpejiprincesseneni2872
    @akpejiprincesseneni2872 9 месяцев назад +6

    I want to get married to a Godly man like you honestly. I’d wash, clean and do all that stuff. I’ve grown to learn to care for my children. I want to be a stay at home mum honestly

  • @amb4368
    @amb4368 9 месяцев назад +15

    Yall are funny i swear! Thank yall for being a light showing me how to be a loving christian ✝️❤

  • @abrilrivera1628
    @abrilrivera1628 9 месяцев назад +2

    my respect for the realness, cooking is necessary beautiful ladies. Be patient with yourself as you learn and we will grow into home makers for the right mannnn . Thats just where we naturally thrive , it's a vibe

  • @dedrickconnell
    @dedrickconnell 9 месяцев назад +12

    “go deepaaaa” 😂

  • @alaula_sabia624
    @alaula_sabia624 9 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you Jesus 🤌🏽

  • @FaithnChrist
    @FaithnChrist 9 месяцев назад +2

    Yeah it’s true. Sometimes when it comes to a relationship, you might not be ready or it’s probably just not the right time yet. People are always asking me why I’m not in one and I explain this to them every time.

  • @valerielopez5640
    @valerielopez5640 9 месяцев назад +5

    Both men and women should be able to do basic things such as know how to cook and clean period

  • @Themanz642
    @Themanz642 9 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for the adviceeeee! I really love you guys. I pray for her definitely and I wish I was closer to love on her MORE. I really appreciate you guys responding to my Apple comment💓💓💓 praying for yall continuous success !

    • @thase4
      @thase4 9 месяцев назад +1

      We love you!! 💙

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am late but so happy God led me to this podcast channel! 😭🫶🏻 Love you guys, thank you for sharing your wisdom & insight from the Lord 🙏🏼💗

  • @Heavenlytruths.
    @Heavenlytruths. 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is so powerful honestly my life has been changing since i have started watching this podcast i would like to make a request if you could make a video about speaking in tongues as christian cause i am curious about this topic as a new believer

  • @shantynaeatwater6303
    @shantynaeatwater6303 9 месяцев назад +1

    Melody! Your clarity and passion 🔥🤍 so pure and realllll! E.. it’d be crazy to shoot my shot in the comments lollll no but your wisdom!! The way your mind operates! Whew hard to find a man of God with these kind of traits and spiritual awakening these days! I LOVE YOU GUYS! Keep it up🫶🏾✝️

  • @busisiwexaba8044
    @busisiwexaba8044 8 месяцев назад

    I just started listening to your podcast, and your topic is what I'm preying for to change on. I have always pushed people way and thinking there where the issue I have never, self reflect but yesterday I was preying about it holy spirit told me It was me and I took time to self reflect. Thank you for this I need it

  • @keraalyssa1475
    @keraalyssa1475 6 месяцев назад

    This is one of those pod cast that I needed to hear you guys speak so much wisdom. Thank you

  • @seleneh3264
    @seleneh3264 9 месяцев назад +1

    Glory to God! You two are sharing in order to advance the Kingdom of God thorough true wisdom. I know you've been praying for this! Its so wonderful that God hears us and he answers... We love you Jesus!!!

  • @Mr.conserv
    @Mr.conserv 7 месяцев назад

    idk how you guys never came across my timeline until yesterday! God bless yall

  • @Aristydanisha
    @Aristydanisha 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love y’all fr 😂😂 I hope to meet y’all one day. Both your mindsets are so fire, it’s that Godly wisdom fr 🔥 & I love how strong E stands on what he says no matter what 😭

  • @NasheaClark
    @NasheaClark 9 месяцев назад +3

    Bible is how we change the world.

  • @yalimarmercedes6179
    @yalimarmercedes6179 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love your podcast guys❤!!!! I just pray for more Bible verses 😪🥲 the first verse that came to my mind from the title was Matt 7:3-5

  • @Silvi757
    @Silvi757 9 месяцев назад

    We are the light of Christ. More and more we are turning on in their awakening. We are the second coming. We are here. We are not motivated politically, dogmatically, socially, financially, or by oppression. We are motivated by Love, freedom, and acceptance. The more light, the less darkness. We are the Light of Christ

  • @adornjamani
    @adornjamani 9 месяцев назад +1

    1:01:53 The truth needs no company 💯 agree. We definitely have to bring that back ;especially with how the world is now we need to grow our kids .

  • @kamogelontuli3888
    @kamogelontuli3888 7 месяцев назад

    I love this podcast and the real talk ❤ shout out from south Africa 🙏✌️

  • @loubennecarde3573
    @loubennecarde3573 9 месяцев назад

    All facts! E is spot on every man of God should know these roles. This was as great episode✨

  • @AbigailGodsgirl27
    @AbigailGodsgirl27 9 месяцев назад +2

    My fav Christian pod let’s go 🤪🤪

  • @BriiiskiBeats
    @BriiiskiBeats 9 месяцев назад

    🥰 Loved this ❤ Thank You! Praise God 🙏🏽 for this Podcast and these beautiful souls 🙌🏽

  • @AmiyahhAnnette
    @AmiyahhAnnette 9 месяцев назад +4

    This was sooo juicy lol and definitely spot on! I could even see a part 2 of this! It would be nice to see the traditional way of having a household with Biblical principles! thank you guys for this video!🤍

  • @adornjamani
    @adornjamani 9 месяцев назад +2

    25:39 Heavy on the “Man of God”

  • @Vanessa-km9mf
    @Vanessa-km9mf 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love this podcast , honestly!!! I find myself saying out of the blue …..🗣️HEAVENLY BONDDDDD!!! Haha, love it. God bless you both , abundantly 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mercedes6396
    @mercedes6396 9 месяцев назад

    I found you guys a week ago and I binge watch every episode. I love it hereeeeeee❤🎉

  • @alannamateo3958
    @alannamateo3958 6 месяцев назад

    I love you guys going deeper 😁❤ keep it up!

  • @500john
    @500john 9 месяцев назад

    We all growing from something and I do my best to always help and guide those around me and like ya say it’s not them it’s you and that goes both ways 😂 you can be the good person and the wrong one I pray for everyone that is still in need for the lord god I love you and always will follow him only he can show you and bring you where you need to be

  • @alondrareyes_
    @alondrareyes_ 9 месяцев назад +3

    love this podcast! 💖💖

  • @shawnsaligan8745
    @shawnsaligan8745 9 месяцев назад +3

    Heavennnnnlyyyyy bonddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd 🎉📖👏✨️💯

  • @JadBeinJad
    @JadBeinJad 9 месяцев назад

    Melody: Heavenly bonnneeeed. E: Go deeper! Go deeper!! Lol, i loved this and God truly spoke to me through you guys, you guys have so much wisdom from God, thank you for the discernment Jesus. Holy spirit, please help everyone have discernment. In Jesus name, I pray Amen 🙏🏾

  • @ollii5771
    @ollii5771 9 месяцев назад

    Yea nah this is definitely for me 😭at least I have the knowledge now to help me realise I'm the problem and how I can fix that🤞🏽God bless you guys 🙏🏽

  • @uazuri
    @uazuri 9 месяцев назад

    BEST podcast episode I’ve watched thus far!! Bravo

  • @samiiboo1
    @samiiboo1 9 месяцев назад

    Yall are HILARIOUS and amazing!! I recently started watching yall, and I've enjoyed every econs

  • @FavourLucky-wq3qy
    @FavourLucky-wq3qy 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm always excited for heavenly bondddddd.I love u guys so much❤❤❤

  • @alisabee3
    @alisabee3 9 месяцев назад

    I love it. I think if the man and women want there roles that’s great but the provider should still be an active participant when raising the kids. And yes marriage provides stability!!!

  • @Kat_Apiata
    @Kat_Apiata 6 месяцев назад

    So good ❤🙏

  • @VanessaMwololo8
    @VanessaMwololo8 4 дня назад

    I love your content so much

  • @itsallaboutjesus.4906
    @itsallaboutjesus.4906 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ i definitely loooveeed this episode too as you did..🤗 blessings to you guys...😘😘😘 keep it up in Jesus' mighty name!!!

  • @luelenidramirez3272
    @luelenidramirez3272 9 месяцев назад +1

    Go deeeepaaahhhh

  • @PhoebeKimM
    @PhoebeKimM 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love your videos so much hope I'll get to meet you guys🤗

  • @ryley7123
    @ryley7123 7 месяцев назад

    Loved this episode 🩷🙏

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis4 9 месяцев назад

    This blessed me. Thank you Guys ❤ *kisses* I love you Jesus!!!

  • @YoMikeSZN
    @YoMikeSZN 9 месяцев назад

    E was PASSIONATE this episode bro was cookin

  • @xkendlex3475
    @xkendlex3475 9 месяцев назад

    this was really good! thank youu and God bless💞

  • @YeilinGomezB
    @YeilinGomezB 9 месяцев назад

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️‍🔥 excelente EP! Thank u guys, thank u Lordddd

  • @elizabethmichael1392
    @elizabethmichael1392 9 месяцев назад

    I was listening on Apple Pod but I wanted to see how you caught the bottle😂going back to Apple now🥰

  • @Jessstaysfresh1
    @Jessstaysfresh1 9 месяцев назад

    It feels genuine keep it up

  • @QuinElla-f9x
    @QuinElla-f9x 9 месяцев назад

    Happy to be back❤️

  • @sandramks3876
    @sandramks3876 9 месяцев назад

    You guys went deeper🔥

  • @maryannenayebare8813
    @maryannenayebare8813 9 месяцев назад +2

    Heavenlyyy bOoOoooOnddd🤣🤣🔥

  • @giavonnalove1743
    @giavonnalove1743 9 месяцев назад

    We gon need E to hold a master class for the men of God

  • @ManagerMabalane
    @ManagerMabalane 2 месяца назад

    Hiiiiiiiiiii heavenly bondssss🎉

  • @777coexist
    @777coexist 9 месяцев назад

    love this.

  • @VanessaMwololo8
    @VanessaMwololo8 4 дня назад

    I feel like when it comes to cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids.. it is not a gender role, Both Man and woman should be able to those (learn if you can't) but obviously one gender will often be doing more of those than the other. But both genders SHOULD know how to do so. especially when your other half is sick or unavailable you are able to help.

  • @numb4882
    @numb4882 6 месяцев назад

    I think melody may want a nanny😂😂

  • @thehoratiojay
    @thehoratiojay 9 месяцев назад

    Heavenly Boooooooooonnnnnnnndddd

  • @kaylanisalgado7798
    @kaylanisalgado7798 9 месяцев назад

    Heavenly boooonnnd✨🫶🏾

  • @bigyoung_sa
    @bigyoung_sa 9 месяцев назад

    Not Imano snitching on the mercy 😂😂😂

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis4 9 месяцев назад +1

    55:01 😅 Men provide . Women nurture.

  • @AudaL
    @AudaL 9 месяцев назад

    0:36 okay alright 😂😂be cracking me up

  • @FaithnChrist
    @FaithnChrist 9 месяцев назад

    GO DEEPUH! 👏🏽 😂😂

  • @zyatta
    @zyatta 9 месяцев назад +2

    Shoot i would love to be a house wife, who signed us up to work???😭

  • @eboniewirrer9127
    @eboniewirrer9127 9 месяцев назад

    My brain is glitching so much at that ‘play fighting isn’t normal.’ What you mean?

  • @emma_kmn3795
    @emma_kmn3795 9 месяцев назад

    Heavenlybonnnd😊

  • @emilyharuperi6614
    @emilyharuperi6614 9 месяцев назад

    7:01 really is crazy🤣

  • @deborahseegobin6004
    @deborahseegobin6004 9 месяцев назад

    another great episode! can yall touch on 1 Corinthians 11:1-16 in an upcoming episode?

  • @Willem_J
    @Willem_J 9 месяцев назад

    Completely agree i would want to raise my own kids not have someone else raise my kid

  • @Michael-gc9dc
    @Michael-gc9dc 7 месяцев назад

    They didn’t do the boys perspective

  • @Wheelztotheworld
    @Wheelztotheworld 9 месяцев назад

  • @_mamamoo
    @_mamamoo 9 месяцев назад +3

    I’m new are you brother and sister?

    • @thase4
      @thase4 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah we’re siblings

    • @_mamamoo
      @_mamamoo 9 месяцев назад +9

      That is so cool, I love both of your perspectives! Sometimes it seems as though your sister is so excited and has so many good, well spoken words to say that you don’t get a chance to finish your ideas. I wanted to hear how you elaborated on reassuring an insecure woman and helping her to get to the root of her insecurities as you guys were explaining helping a man get to the root of his lust 13:32

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis4 9 месяцев назад

    1:03:57 THATS A P31!!!!!!

  • @RealCorban.
    @RealCorban. 9 месяцев назад

    1:10:03 Bronem always snitching

  • @makeritamamea9474
    @makeritamamea9474 9 месяцев назад

    Great conversation and topics!🔥 My favorite episode thus far🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Damnayo
    @Damnayo 8 месяцев назад

    The heavenly rizz from E 🫦🤣