One thing I can say about this is, Asthma is no joke. No matter how severe it is, asthma attacks is deadly when it isn't maintained. The father shouldn't neglected his own son and make up some lie just because he was sleeping with some woman🙄. I don't blame Op's mother beating the father and his AP up.
Story 3: Wait the sister sucker punched OP for not wanting the sister’s abusive boyfriend around OP’s kids in front of said kids? And she’s sucker punched OP in front of OP’s kids multiple times??? This is insane.
At this point i would remind them every chance i get how "well, I may be the worst, but i wasn't the one who punched my sister in the face!" Seriously, what would have happened if it was the other way around? They would scorch the earth
Last story: Pull the kids from the wedding. Little sister has punched you in front of your little kids. No. End that now. Tell the older sister the kids will not be at the wedding for their safety. And if she's that upset, consider not attending as well. She's just like the parents in that she wants you to get over the abuse and gaslighting.
Story three why did she keep letting her parents back in hers and her kids lives? Why are people are having issues with others in the family why they agreeing to attend family events if there is an opportunity for someone you have an issue with may attend, stop leaving what may need to do in the hands of others until the last minute.
Yeah the father threatening the son of this military bad ass lady is wild. He got his ass beaten once, if she finds out what he's been saying to their son I'm sure she wouldn't hesitate to bring back memories
Especially if what the sister said about Mark being a toxic spouse is true--why would you want to STAY in that family and deal with your garbage ex for the rest of your lives??
3rd story: OP, you should have fed sister her own teeth. parents have shown they don't care what she does wrong so teach her a lesson about real world consequences before someone not related to her does it. also tell your parents to either choose her or the grandkids because I doubt any sane man would want kids with her being a psycho
Sad how cheating splits families up and pit the members against each other. That's one thing. But when family members screw their relatives' partners, that's just a really low level of low😡.
I have had those thoughts about my mom & her husband (they died of cancer and a heart attack). I also feel these feelings towards my dad and his wife. I’ll never do it but sometimes those thoughts helps me feel better. All four of them hated me and abused me. I’ll be elated if all 4 rot in hell.
3rd OP: it’s tough to hold the line with a sibling who is acting supportive, but for the sake of the kids, OP really needs to draw a hard boundary between their lives and the lives of OP’s family. No contact means no contact. No presents from the grandparents. No discussion of attending the wedding. Oldest sis is being a peacemaker, which is a sweet short-term fix and a shitty long-term bomb waiting to go off. OP tells oldest sis kindly but firmly that no more presents from grandparents will be allowed, and that they need to go fully no contact, including attending events like weddings, and that it is for the sake of the kids to give them lives free from ambiguity. Kids can choose to reach out to their extended family when they are older and able to discern toxic behavior, but keeping everyone in this strange limbo is not helping anyone. And if oldest sis flips and starts calling OP selfish instead of respecting OP’s boundaries, that’s just further evidence that the system is fucked and OP needs to get completely out of it. Sucker punching someone’s mother in front of their kids is really red flag behavior. As a farther step, OP should seek out a chosen family for the kids - grandparents that don’t suck, friends that can be surrogate aunts and uncles - so the kids can have the experience of being loved by healthy adults, which will incidentally set them up even more to recognize toxic bs when it presents itself.
You can't fix other people, only yourself. So if other people are toxic and abusive to you and your loved ones, you have no choice but to go no contact.
Thoughts are fine. As for OP, if Dad does get a hold of him. It's perfectly fine for him to put those thoughts into action. Dad starts it. Game on for OP.
@@sierrastanley3109 humans are born with sinful nature. This "as long as you don't act on it" is false. You let evil thoughts rule your emotions it will lead to you acting on it. I understand the anger, but OP in first story is just as evil as the father is. No sin will ever be justified by another sin.
One thing I can say about this is, Asthma is no joke. No matter how severe it is, asthma attacks is deadly when it isn't maintained. The father shouldn't neglected his own son and make up some lie just because he was sleeping with some woman🙄. I don't blame Op's mother beating the father and his AP up.
Story 3: Wait the sister sucker punched OP for not wanting the sister’s abusive boyfriend around OP’s kids in front of said kids? And she’s sucker punched OP in front of OP’s kids multiple times??? This is insane.
Yes, plus evidently OP never pressed charges against her sister.
OP is just weak and pathetic.
If OP had a middle name it would be “Welcome”.
At this point i would remind them every chance i get how "well, I may be the worst, but i wasn't the one who punched my sister in the face!"
Seriously, what would have happened if it was the other way around? They would scorch the earth
Last story: Pull the kids from the wedding. Little sister has punched you in front of your little kids. No. End that now. Tell the older sister the kids will not be at the wedding for their safety. And if she's that upset, consider not attending as well. She's just like the parents in that she wants you to get over the abuse and gaslighting.
Nope, I disagree with you.
She sides with the dad that cheated with his mom with a girl who is only 4 to 5 years older than you. The sister doesn't like the mom
Yes everyone in that family sucks except for op it seems. Maybe the mom too, but she seemed to defend the eldest brothers creepiness
2nd story:so mark is a perv? father is a cheater and the sis is just fucked up?
Story three why did she keep letting her parents back in hers and her kids lives? Why are people are having issues with others in the family why they agreeing to attend family events if there is an opportunity for someone you have an issue with may attend, stop leaving what may need to do in the hands of others until the last minute.
If the truth can destroy a man, then let it.
YOU DO NOT MESS WITH A MILITARY SPOUSE!!! this made me laugh out loud with satisfaction.
Yeah the father threatening the son of this military bad ass lady is wild. He got his ass beaten once, if she finds out what he's been saying to their son I'm sure she wouldn't hesitate to bring back memories
Story 2 is trash. Everyone is bad but to leave your partner for his dad is absolutely disgusting and beyond degenerate. You could've been with anyone.
Especially if what the sister said about Mark being a toxic spouse is true--why would you want to STAY in that family and deal with your garbage ex for the rest of your lives??
Geez, this whole episode is about f’d up families! Who needs enemies when you have siblings and spouses who treat you like sh*t? 🤦🏼♀️
S2:
Damn I feel sorry for mark.
After update: INTO THE WOODCHIPPER HE GOES!
Story 2 the whole family messed up
Op seems alright
Op and mom are not messed up
@@thousandyardgavri2785 Mom defends Mark's creepiness
3rd story: OP, you should have fed sister her own teeth. parents have shown they don't care what she does wrong so teach her a lesson about real world consequences before someone not related to her does it. also tell your parents to either choose her or the grandkids because I doubt any sane man would want kids with her being a psycho
Story 2: Wtf did I just listen to?
I was thinking the same thing 😂
I just read it yesterday. The family is playing let's get along bs.
I listened to it twice. I'm still at the WTF stage.
I feel sorry for OP in the 3rd story
Story 1: Dyaum!! Hell hath no fury like a eoman scorned.
OP mom is a savage!!
Story 1: op....let your mother do the dirty work....she was also affected....more than you....after all....she is military....
The first story just screams I'm 14 and I want to write an edgy fanfic story
I think it is ops future plans
i don't get how this is a edgy fanfic? you wouldn't have those thoughts after finding out your father murdered your kid?
@@HeoBaby24
I'll take every Reddit story with a grain of salt but this story seem even faker than usual
@@cameron765 I honestly don't think its faker than usual. It could happen irl.. I mean Id turn edgy too if I have a father like that
Sad how cheating splits families up and pit the members against each other. That's one thing. But when family members screw their relatives' partners, that's just a really low level of low😡.
1st story: what a woman
I have had those thoughts about my mom & her husband (they died of cancer and a heart attack). I also feel these feelings towards my dad and his wife. I’ll never do it but sometimes those thoughts helps me feel better. All four of them hated me and abused me. I’ll be elated if all 4 rot in hell.
3rd OP: it’s tough to hold the line with a sibling who is acting supportive, but for the sake of the kids, OP really needs to draw a hard boundary between their lives and the lives of OP’s family. No contact means no contact. No presents from the grandparents. No discussion of attending the wedding. Oldest sis is being a peacemaker, which is a sweet short-term fix and a shitty long-term bomb waiting to go off. OP tells oldest sis kindly but firmly that no more presents from grandparents will be allowed, and that they need to go fully no contact, including attending events like weddings, and that it is for the sake of the kids to give them lives free from ambiguity. Kids can choose to reach out to their extended family when they are older and able to discern toxic behavior, but keeping everyone in this strange limbo is not helping anyone. And if oldest sis flips and starts calling OP selfish instead of respecting OP’s boundaries, that’s just further evidence that the system is fucked and OP needs to get completely out of it. Sucker punching someone’s mother in front of their kids is really red flag behavior. As a farther step, OP should seek out a chosen family for the kids - grandparents that don’t suck, friends that can be surrogate aunts and uncles - so the kids can have the experience of being loved by healthy adults, which will incidentally set them up even more to recognize toxic bs when it presents itself.
Try to bully me and you're tasting fists. Try to bully me in front of my kids and they'll never find your body.
You can't fix other people, only yourself. So if other people are toxic and abusive to you and your loved ones, you have no choice but to go no contact.
Wooow after an hour😈💪🏼✊🏼💯🎯🫶🏼OPS MOM 😎
Last story is clearly a black family
Weak people are a headache.
Too much doormats
1.- OP really is dad's child, making sure it's not traced back and making herself the victim while "confessing" when it was convenient.
Urr.....while the first OP anger and hate is understandable, I hope therapy helps cause having such violent thoughts are never good for anyone...
It's only unhealthy if you keep in bottled in
So long as you never act on said thoughts and never speak them aloud I don't think it really matters
Thoughts are fine. As for OP, if Dad does get a hold of him. It's perfectly fine for him to put those thoughts into action. Dad starts it. Game on for OP.
@@sierrastanley3109 humans are born with sinful nature. This "as long as you don't act on it" is false. You let evil thoughts rule your emotions it will lead to you acting on it. I understand the anger, but OP in first story is just as evil as the father is. No sin will ever be justified by another sin.
Story 2: OP needs to stop being a doormat and keep them out of her life.
Story 1, 2 & 3 :
*_"People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones."_*
Story 1:
Kudos to OP’s MVP!CHAD Uncle & Grandpa !!!