Dear men, please be respectful. If you are going to leave stupid and disrespectful comments about my child or trying to rate me, then you can move along. Mean and disrespectful comments will be deleted. If you feel the need to put someone down or if this video triggers you, then the issue is within YOU. Also, this video was for women, but I am glad to see so many guys watching it and giving their take. 👍❤
Oh no. I disagree. When rejected a few times I said okay and walked away. Don't believe everything you see in videos. It depends on the woman. Guys and girls handle rejection differently. It's very limiting to place ALL women into a box.
I disagree with you for the most part. Most men are extremely flattered if women ask them out. They may still reject you if they don't feel compatibility.
As a 60 year old single man I think women should ask men out. If he isn’t interested he will let you down easily. He won’t cry rape or ghost you. He won’t call the police on you. I had a 35 year old woman ask me out. I wasn’t interested but I was really nice about it. Women don’t care about being nice they seem to like ripping the man’s heart out. Men get rejected all the time and we are used to it.
Your assessment is incorrect. Are you speaking from personal experience? You have had women cry rape and call the police on you? Ghost you? What I have seen is that men can be dangerous and don't accept the word "no" regardless of how nicely they are told. It's easy to prove: just take a look at the statistics on violence and homicide in society. Women are abused, raped, and murdered when they go on dates, when they walk in an alley, when they are at home, or at work, and so on. Are you afraid of being attacked or raped by women? I asked men out in the past, no problem. Was never rejected, because I knew already that those guys were interested, and it was safe. But right now, I worry about women. I think they have to be very careful and discriminatory.
My wife approached me first, and we've been married for 20 years. Women need to be more proactive about approaching the type of man they want rather than just passively waiting for men to approach them.
that was 20 years ago, and back then, women did ask men out, and men were still appreciative of that. Nowadays, they are feminine, and they expect women to put in all the effort. Ridiculous. I asked my boss out, and we ended up getting married. Not only was I totally comfortable asking him out, but he was also super grateful that I did. He was the right type of guy for me to ask. But now, I would not recommend women to ask men out unless they know the guy is worthy of it. I know of men who turn down women just to "humble" women and to humiliate them. It's a game. It's spiteful. I'd say ladies now should exercise caution and be ready to be either rejected or ghosted. It's a dating jungle out there.
@@joanofarcxxi I agree w you. There is that too for sure. I mean the anger is real as there are many websites made for men to take their anger out on women. Like humiliating them, humbling them, showing females getting rejected. It's painful to see. Males need to get real w themselves and heal. Otherwise women will suffer. With that said, same applies to females.
It doesn't matter. In today's society, I would be wondering what she was looking for in a possible divorce settlement. Does she want the house, alimony, more? The answer isn't no, but hell no.
Don't give up. There are good women out there. However, to be able to access them you have got to ask yourself this - are you a decent man yourself? Heal, work on your self, and then you will very quickly spot the narcs that are after your resources. And unless you do that, you will keep on attracting the demon in female form.
No such thing as a good woman - only one who has yet to pull the trigger on her chosen victim! Society and family law has been poisoned against men. Nothing in a relationship for him!
@@jonahtwhale1779 I am a good woman. Not a perfect woman, but a decent person coming from a good place. You are wrong and coming from a place of hurt. I wish you healing.
Really? You claim to be a good woman? How is your campaign to stop discrimination against men in family court going? Same question for Paternity fraud to be criminalized? Got much support in the media, legislature and prosecutors office for that one? How about equal reproductive rights for men? How much support are you getting from good women for that one? When will men get equality in alimoney? I am sure you are upset about the 30,000+ men in jail for their inability to p ay child support and the zero women in jail for refusing visitation rights! When will good women give men protection equality in that regard? Same with family violence shelters - thousands for women, a small handful for men! But good women just want equality, don'tvtgey! When will we see the good women if Ukraine return to their country and put their lives on the line, allowing the men to flee to safety abroad- I will not hold my breath for that one, or any if these injustices good women have foisted upon men! Sorry men will judge women by their actions, not their words!
@@theconsciousearthangel There are also drops of water in a dessert. Throw in the #metoo movement and "family court" and relationships between men and women are completely broken. If you want to judge me, go through 6 1/2 years of nearly continuous litigation and 17 court hearings. (Many of these hearings were before a 3rd wave feminist female judge.) Then get back to me to judge me. Western society is going to collapse because of this crap. Maybe you are a good woman. Maybe not. If you were to approach me, I would consider losing what little I have left to be not worth the risk. Only when enough women are willing to sit down and have an honest conversation about what is wrong, accept the what has happened, and actually fix the problem will things change for the better.
To be fair, you can have your social or professional life destroyed for expressing interest to the wrong woman in the "wrong way" and it can escalate to legal consequences for you depending on region. So it isn't that she has more "courage" than you.
Yes women should ask out men and do anyway with highly attractive men that other women also want. Equality is not a buffet where women should pick and choose when she wants it to apply.
Men are hesitant about approaching women for a reason. Part of the problem is , if a guy approaches a woman and is visibly nervous, most women interpret nervousness as "weakness" or insecurity. It's a turn off. But if a woman approaches a man and is visibly nervous most men, myself included, would be flattered! If a nervous woman approached me and asked me out, I'd take her out and pay for the entire thing to honor her for having the courage.
Bingo. Arrogant men attract women like bees to honey for reasons I've never been able to understand. Women need to take more initiative in approaching the kind of men they want to be with.
well if feminism is to do with women power why not ? why does it have to be a big deal? Seperate subject but where are the feminists defending women against all the men in womens sport nonsense?
As a man it would be wise of you to learn body language. It's not just looking for two seconds. It's a combination of body signs. Things like starring, dilated pupils, facing you and especially the legs being pointed towards you, a smile but we don't always smile when we like someone as it's vulnerable, and if she continues to give you glances. Women like men will usually make it pretty obvious. You might also receive these when she is interested but maybe doesn't want to proceed further for various reasons.
@@theconsciousearthangel If hints are so subtle they're mistaken for literally anything that a basic stranger would do then how can men tell them apart and not catch a charge? Womens succesrate is a multitude times higher if she initiates it, if shes interested. I have tried taking a hints before turns out it wasn't a hint at all. If women want something then why the hell not communicate it and stop playing mind games.
@@steen275 Because of conditioning. Males and females have been conditioned to accept certain things. That's why we feel a certain way about asking out and being asked out. With toddlers, it's the girls that do the chasing and even kissing strangely. Like I said, starring is a huge giveaway, even if she is not smiling. Smiling is also big, but I would also say to look for a genuine and a wide smile. One that comes from the heart. If she likes you and wants you to approach, she will point her feet towards you depending on where you guys are at. Or she will be closer to you or want to be closer to you. Of course, some women are harder to read because they don't want to be read for their own reasons. Maybe she isn't sure about you and wants to observe more. If there are mixed signals, then she isn't entirely sure. Maybe you are too young or older, maybe she is involved with someone, maybe she doesn't like your behavior, maybe she has a lot going on and a relationship is not for her now, or it could be anything really.
@@theconsciousearthangel As a woman, it would be wise for you to learn the social and legal consequences men face for even expressing interesting or positively interacting with women where on accusation alone (via social media... not even a court case) his life can be destroyed. This isn't about simple rejection. It's pure Risk Management now for men.
@@theconsciousearthangel Those signs you mention could mean anything. As a woman, it would be wise of you to learn this: Men. Cannot. Read. Minds. Learn to use words.
I don’t want to be asked out by a woman for a very simple reason. I don’t want her to interfere while I’m in a war, fighting dragons. I might get distracted, knowing she’s too close to the battlefield where she’s in danger. What I do want from her is to clean and bandage my wounds, and kiss me in appreciation for my struggle. And this is only the beginning... Before I can put a ring on her finger, one last battle must be won. Only the survivors of the final battle in Narnia can imagine what lies ahead. This battle is both spiritual and very real. It’s about the preservation of masculinity and manliness.
As a normal guy, I just don't feel attractive enough to ask women out, I don't really think of myself as anything special. I probably would be struck dumb, in a good way, if a woman asked me out!
I would say the initial dance of flirting to go from strangers to dates need to become better. Or more vids like this over the "how to get his money" or "how to get her to Netflix and chill". I would say both genders can start conversations plus body language for that dance of flirting.
Yes! I can only recall by name about a 150 beautiful women I dated and about half of them came up out of the blue and tapped me on the back. I didn't turn any of them down. I figured if they had the nerve to ask me they deserved my friendship. Did I have sex with most of them? No. Did I have a continuous relationship with most of them? No, but they were all welcome to be my friend and many remain today after all these years, decades. Why does all relationships require sex and marriage? If something clicks then that's great. A lot of people get turned down because they pursue it too hard and seem desperate. For guys, the best way to get a lady on your side is get them to laugh. A good sense of humor gets them every time. I never had any trouble getting women, my problem was keeping them. After a year or so they would accuse me of ignoring them. I do have other interest than listening to problems. I like a woman to tell me about her, her family and friends but sometimes I just want to talk about me.
The mother of my children asked me out I’m not good at it, and today 😮 that was a different time, i was not told woman had to be a specific way and she is not very masculine but feminine and a traditional woman, but it’s not like if you are not attractive to a man he will not reject you. If you try find someone one your own attractive level you will not find it hard to find a man, just remember it’s attractive seen from the perspective of a man and a you not what some western woman think men want 😂 men normally don’t care very much if you are highly educated or rich, but feminine sweet beautiful women 😍 then most men will be happy
Given men face social censure and potential legal consequences for expressing interest in women (Nottinghamshire becoming a template for other jurisdictions using the framework of The Common Law_, it falls on women to initiate with men.
It's very stupid in the West. I hear you. With that said - I still got hit on plenty in the USA and in the UK. :) of course a lot of women react in a very negative way and start shaming the man, etc....which is terrible. Go with your gut. If you feel like a female is warm, loving, etc then you will be fine. Asking a guy out makes me feel like a man and I don't want to feel like I am in charge. As doing that is pretty dominant and sets the wrong pace. I am still a woman and will give you plenty of signs. You just have to learn to read them. I don't think you will attract a feminine female if you wait for them to ask you out. They won't.
@@theconsciousearthangel congrats on you being hit on while in the USA and kudos to you for not escalating rejection of them to the point of accusation of predation. It has been my experience after several relationships (including attempts at) a "feeling" of warmth and loving is transient. I'm also biased as I worked for a woman divorce attorney for years; I've seen "love" become hate and a desire to turn men into indentured servants so many times I've lost count. Again... I own that bias. That said, be it true women are men's equal and if you are interested in a man, go with your gut. Asking him out doesn't make you a man. It doesn't even mean you're in charge. It means you expressed your interest in him. So then the question becomes this: Who wants relationships more? Men or women? Given men's happiness has remained relatively level across 50-60 years, including as marriage rates declined year over year by 60% since 1975 (at least in the US, Canada, and UK) and women's relative happiness has been declining over that time, it would seem women want relationships more than men. Waiting for men to ask women out when men face risks women do not consider as legitimate concerns (to those men) will not result in men changing their mind. Feminism and its ideologically driven misandry has done significant damage across generations. So the social contract between men and women warrants renegotiation. The difference is, as noted (for example) by forensic Psychologist Dr. Helen Smith, a growing number of men have little to no interest in initiating that re-negotiation.
Simple - just be better than 99% of the men she is has ever met! Be better looking than Peter, taller than Mark, Richer than Paul, higher status than Steve, better in bed than Jason, have brighter prospects than Andrew and be kibder tgan that giy whose name she can't quite recall but is always there when she needs help! All rolled up 8n one guy! What could be easier than that!
I would but I don't like the feeling that it gives me. I want a masculine guy who shows drive and initiative. A guy who is courageous and a guy who goes for what he wants. That's a turn on for me personally.
@@psyclotronxx3083 grow up? You're the one that looks very mature and taking out your anger on a stranger on the internet. Go heal. That's part of growing up Mr. Grown up. Lol I just gave you my honest thoughts and I guess that triggered you bc you are lacking in those qualities?
I definitely agree women shouldn't ask men out. Its only the undesirable men that claim they want to be asked out by women. I can tell you that any girl that has asked me out, was immediately unattractive to me. It just seems desperate for a woman to ask me out.
Yes. I agree w you. My ex girl friends always got shut down when they asked guys out. Always. But I also think that any man can become desirable by the right woman for him.
You can be engaging and that will invite reciprocation... Like "have you seen x movie yet? I hope to go this wknd" and soon enough he'll ask if theres interest
Dear men, please be respectful. If you are going to leave stupid and disrespectful comments about my child or trying to rate me, then you can move along. Mean and disrespectful comments will be deleted. If you feel the need to put someone down or if this video triggers you, then the issue is within YOU.
Also, this video was for women, but I am glad to see so many guys watching it and giving their take. 👍❤
Let us be honest here. Women can't take the rejection.
Oh no. I disagree. When rejected a few times I said okay and walked away. Don't believe everything you see in videos. It depends on the woman. Guys and girls handle rejection differently. It's very limiting to place ALL women into a box.
@@theconsciousearthangel Players have no problem with rejection. So have fun with that.
Please do. In UK if we mess it up we end up on a terror watchlist.
I'm not joking.
Short answer is yes, women should ask women out. I am a male and admire the woman who is so self confident she asks that question.
I disagree with you for the most part. Most men are extremely flattered if women ask them out. They may still reject you if they don't feel compatibility.
As a 60 year old single man I think women should ask men out. If he isn’t interested he will let you down easily. He won’t cry rape or ghost you. He won’t call the police on you.
I had a 35 year old woman ask me out. I wasn’t interested but I was really nice about it. Women don’t care about being nice they seem to like ripping the man’s heart out. Men get rejected all the time and we are used to it.
Your assessment is incorrect. Are you speaking from personal experience? You have had women cry rape and call the police on you? Ghost you? What I have seen is that men can be dangerous and don't accept the word "no" regardless of how nicely they are told. It's easy to prove: just take a look at the statistics on violence and homicide in society. Women are abused, raped, and murdered when they go on dates, when they walk in an alley, when they are at home, or at work, and so on. Are you afraid of being attacked or raped by women? I asked men out in the past, no problem. Was never rejected, because I knew already that those guys were interested, and it was safe. But right now, I worry about women. I think they have to be very careful and discriminatory.
My wife approached me first, and we've been married for 20 years. Women need to be more proactive about approaching the type of man they want rather than just passively waiting for men to approach them.
Maybe it depends. Depends on the person.
that was 20 years ago, and back then, women did ask men out, and men were still appreciative of that. Nowadays, they are feminine, and they expect women to put in all the effort. Ridiculous. I asked my boss out, and we ended up getting married. Not only was I totally comfortable asking him out, but he was also super grateful that I did. He was the right type of guy for me to ask. But now, I would not recommend women to ask men out unless they know the guy is worthy of it. I know of men who turn down women just to "humble" women and to humiliate them. It's a game. It's spiteful. I'd say ladies now should exercise caution and be ready to be either rejected or ghosted. It's a dating jungle out there.
@@joanofarcxxi I agree w you. There is that too for sure. I mean the anger is real as there are many websites made for men to take their anger out on women. Like humiliating them, humbling them, showing females getting rejected. It's painful to see. Males need to get real w themselves and heal. Otherwise women will suffer. With that said, same applies to females.
Females getting rejected? Is that supposed to make me cry? Women have been rejecting men for eons. Doesn't feel good, huh?
Women asking men out has NEVER been the standard! Not even close.
Absolutely women should ask me out.
I've only ever dated women who asked me out.
men get rejected thats why they dont chase women, also ruining your reputation is also
It doesn't matter. In today's society, I would be wondering what she was looking for in a possible divorce settlement. Does she want the house, alimony, more? The answer isn't no, but hell no.
Don't give up. There are good women out there. However, to be able to access them you have got to ask yourself this - are you a decent man yourself? Heal, work on your self, and then you will very quickly spot the narcs that are after your resources. And unless you do that, you will keep on attracting the demon in female form.
No such thing as a good woman - only one who has yet to pull the trigger on her chosen victim!
Society and family law has been poisoned against men.
Nothing in a relationship for him!
@@jonahtwhale1779 I am a good woman. Not a perfect woman, but a decent person coming from a good place. You are wrong and coming from a place of hurt. I wish you healing.
Really? You claim to be a good woman?
How is your campaign to stop discrimination against men in family court going?
Same question for Paternity fraud to be criminalized? Got much support in the media, legislature and prosecutors office for that one?
How about equal reproductive rights for men? How much support are you getting from good women for that one?
When will men get equality in alimoney?
I am sure you are upset about the 30,000+ men in jail for their inability to p ay child support and the zero women in jail for refusing visitation rights! When will good women give men protection equality in that regard?
Same with family violence shelters - thousands for women, a small handful for men! But good women just want equality, don'tvtgey!
When will we see the good women if Ukraine return to their country and put their lives on the line, allowing the men to flee to safety abroad- I will not hold my breath for that one, or any if these injustices good women have foisted upon men!
Sorry men will judge women by their actions, not their words!
@@theconsciousearthangel There are also drops of water in a dessert. Throw in the #metoo movement and "family court" and relationships between men and women are completely broken. If you want to judge me, go through 6 1/2 years of nearly continuous litigation and 17 court hearings. (Many of these hearings were before a 3rd wave feminist female judge.) Then get back to me to judge me. Western society is going to collapse because of this crap. Maybe you are a good woman. Maybe not. If you were to approach me, I would consider losing what little I have left to be not worth the risk. Only when enough women are willing to sit down and have an honest conversation about what is wrong, accept the what has happened, and actually fix the problem will things change for the better.
If a woman asks me to go out with her or to go with her for a coffee that tells me one thing about her:
She has more courage than I have.
To be fair, you can have your social or professional life destroyed for expressing interest to the wrong woman in the "wrong way" and it can escalate to legal consequences for you depending on region.
So it isn't that she has more "courage" than you.
Yes women should ask out men and do anyway with highly attractive men that other women also want. Equality is not a buffet where women should pick and choose when she wants it to apply.
Men are hesitant about approaching women for a reason. Part of the problem is , if a guy approaches a woman and is visibly nervous, most women interpret nervousness as "weakness" or insecurity. It's a turn off. But if a woman approaches a man and is visibly nervous most men, myself included, would be flattered! If a nervous woman approached me and asked me out, I'd take her out and pay for the entire thing to honor her for having the courage.
The problem is the nice guys the would be respectful if it's a no but there not the guy women want to ask
Bingo. Arrogant men attract women like bees to honey for reasons I've never been able to understand. Women need to take more initiative in approaching the kind of men they want to be with.
Yep, so we can start rejecting them if they are not perfect 10's 🤣
well if feminism is to do with women power why not ? why does it have to be a big deal? Seperate subject but where are the feminists defending women against all the men in womens sport nonsense?
They never will, especially if they pay for the date 🤣😂🤣
If they want that man they do it. Men can't tell you like them by simply looking at them for 2 seconds as a hint.
As a man it would be wise of you to learn body language. It's not just looking for two seconds. It's a combination of body signs. Things like starring, dilated pupils, facing you and especially the legs being pointed towards you, a smile but we don't always smile when we like someone as it's vulnerable, and if she continues to give you glances. Women like men will usually make it pretty obvious. You might also receive these when she is interested but maybe doesn't want to proceed further for various reasons.
@@theconsciousearthangel If hints are so subtle they're mistaken for literally anything that a basic stranger would do then how can men tell them apart and not catch a charge?
Womens succesrate is a multitude times higher if she initiates it, if shes interested.
I have tried taking a hints before turns out it wasn't a hint at all.
If women want something then why the hell not communicate it and stop playing mind games.
@@steen275 Because of conditioning. Males and females have been conditioned to accept certain things. That's why we feel a certain way about asking out and being asked out. With toddlers, it's the girls that do the chasing and even kissing strangely. Like I said, starring is a huge giveaway, even if she is not smiling. Smiling is also big, but I would also say to look for a genuine and a wide smile. One that comes from the heart. If she likes you and wants you to approach, she will point her feet towards you depending on where you guys are at. Or she will be closer to you or want to be closer to you. Of course, some women are harder to read because they don't want to be read for their own reasons. Maybe she isn't sure about you and wants to observe more. If there are mixed signals, then she isn't entirely sure. Maybe you are too young or older, maybe she is involved with someone, maybe she doesn't like your behavior, maybe she has a lot going on and a relationship is not for her now, or it could be anything really.
@@theconsciousearthangel As a woman, it would be wise for you to learn the social and legal consequences men face for even expressing interesting or positively interacting with women where on accusation alone (via social media... not even a court case) his life can be destroyed.
This isn't about simple rejection. It's pure Risk Management now for men.
@@theconsciousearthangel Those signs you mention could mean anything.
As a woman, it would be wise of you to learn this: Men. Cannot. Read. Minds.
Learn to use words.
I don’t want to be asked out by a woman for a very simple reason. I don’t want her to interfere while I’m in a war, fighting dragons. I might get distracted, knowing she’s too close to the battlefield where she’s in danger.
What I do want from her is to clean and bandage my wounds, and kiss me in appreciation for my struggle.
And this is only the beginning...
Before I can put a ring on her finger, one last battle must be won. Only the survivors of the final battle in Narnia can imagine what lies ahead.
This battle is both spiritual and very real. It’s about the preservation of masculinity and manliness.
Ahhhh, finally a real man. A breath of fresh air. You said this so well. ❤
@@theconsciousearthangel
Check your revolut. I hope you will accept my offer.
As a normal guy, I just don't feel attractive enough to ask women out, I don't really think of myself as anything special. I probably would be struck dumb, in a good way, if a woman asked me out!
Thanks for the honesty.
I would say the initial dance of flirting to go from strangers to dates need to become better. Or more vids like this over the "how to get his money" or "how to get her to Netflix and chill". I would say both genders can start conversations plus body language for that dance of flirting.
Yes! I can only recall by name about a 150 beautiful women I dated and about half of them came up out of the blue and tapped me on the back. I didn't turn any of them down. I figured if they had the nerve to ask me they deserved my friendship. Did I have sex with most of them? No. Did I have a continuous relationship with most of them? No, but they were all welcome to be my friend and many remain today after all these years, decades. Why does all relationships require sex and marriage? If something clicks then that's great. A lot of people get turned down because they pursue it too hard and seem desperate. For guys, the best way to get a lady on your side is get them to laugh. A good sense of humor gets them every time. I never had any trouble getting women, my problem was keeping them. After a year or so they would accuse me of ignoring them. I do have other interest than listening to problems. I like a woman to tell me about her, her family and friends but sometimes I just want to talk about me.
The mother of my children asked me out I’m not good at it, and today 😮 that was a different time, i was not told woman had to be a specific way and she is not very masculine but feminine and a traditional woman, but it’s not like if you are not attractive to a man he will not reject you.
If you try find someone one your own attractive level you will not find it hard to find a man, just remember it’s attractive seen from the perspective of a man and a you not what some western woman think men want 😂 men normally don’t care very much if you are highly educated or rich, but feminine sweet beautiful women 😍 then most men will be happy
Personally it doesn't matter i will reject them. I'm done with relationships, staying single is the best decision i ever did.
Given men face social censure and potential legal consequences for expressing interest in women (Nottinghamshire becoming a template for other jurisdictions using the framework of The Common Law_, it falls on women to initiate with men.
It's very stupid in the West. I hear you. With that said - I still got hit on plenty in the USA and in the UK. :) of course a lot of women react in a very negative way and start shaming the man, etc....which is terrible. Go with your gut. If you feel like a female is warm, loving, etc then you will be fine. Asking a guy out makes me feel like a man and I don't want to feel like I am in charge. As doing that is pretty dominant and sets the wrong pace. I am still a woman and will give you plenty of signs. You just have to learn to read them. I don't think you will attract a feminine female if you wait for them to ask you out. They won't.
@@theconsciousearthangel congrats on you being hit on while in the USA and kudos to you for not escalating rejection of them to the point of accusation of predation.
It has been my experience after several relationships (including attempts at) a "feeling" of warmth and loving is transient.
I'm also biased as I worked for a woman divorce attorney for years; I've seen "love" become hate and a desire to turn men into indentured servants so many times I've lost count. Again... I own that bias.
That said, be it true women are men's equal and if you are interested in a man,
go with your gut.
Asking him out doesn't make you a man. It doesn't even mean you're in charge. It means you expressed your interest in him.
So then the question becomes this:
Who wants relationships more?
Men or women?
Given men's happiness has remained relatively level across 50-60 years, including as marriage rates declined year over year by 60% since 1975 (at least in the US, Canada, and UK) and women's relative happiness has been declining over that time, it would seem women want relationships more than men.
Waiting for men to ask women out when men face risks women do not consider as legitimate concerns (to those men) will not result in men changing their mind.
Feminism and its ideologically driven misandry has done significant damage across generations. So the social contract between men and women warrants renegotiation. The difference is, as noted (for example) by forensic Psychologist Dr. Helen Smith, a growing number of men have little to no interest in initiating that re-negotiation.
I disagree. I would love for women to ask me out.
Simple - just be better than 99% of the men she is has ever met!
Be better looking than Peter, taller than Mark, Richer than Paul, higher status than Steve, better in bed than Jason, have brighter prospects than Andrew and be kibder tgan that giy whose name she can't quite recall but is always there when she needs help!
All rolled up 8n one guy!
What could be easier than that!
Go ahead. Ask a guy out. You couldn't be more wrong. She doesn't know what she's talking about
I would but I don't like the feeling that it gives me. I want a masculine guy who shows drive and initiative. A guy who is courageous and a guy who goes for what he wants. That's a turn on for me personally.
@@theconsciousearthangel and more often than not, a turn off for a man when he gets rejected. Gag me and grow up
@@psyclotronxx3083 grow up? You're the one that looks very mature and taking out your anger on a stranger on the internet. Go heal. That's part of growing up Mr. Grown up. Lol
I just gave you my honest thoughts and I guess that triggered you bc you are lacking in those qualities?
@@psyclotronxx3083 You seem to have underdeveloped interpersonal skills. What an incredibly rude way to talk to a lady.
@@joanofarcxxi you want equality? That's what it looks like.
If men arnt asking women out anymore then I think you have your answer.
I already gave my answer to other ladies. But thank you for sharing your opinion.
dont be to direct, just be chill about it.
it makes you seem desperate so we kinda dont like it, even though we should
I thought so, yes. But based on the comments from guys here - it depends on the guy.
just be cute
I definitely agree women shouldn't ask men out. Its only the undesirable men that claim they want to be asked out by women. I can tell you that any girl that has asked me out, was immediately unattractive to me. It just seems desperate for a woman to ask me out.
Yes. I agree w you. My ex girl friends always got shut down when they asked guys out. Always. But I also think that any man can become desirable by the right woman for him.
Bull$hit.
@@Matthew-pq4sy Am with you on this one
@@theconsciousearthangel have you ever thought that she just might be shit at it or is giving of desperate vibes lol
Don’t do it.
Are you Dutch or something?
Russian born in Latvia but grew up in America.
You can be engaging and that will invite reciprocation... Like "have you seen x movie yet? I hope to go this wknd" and soon enough he'll ask if theres interest
That is a good idea too.