I am suffering from this, I am happy to finally know what it is and now I will seek help, I will make my prefrontal cortex stronger with meditation, exercise and discipline, this is something I need to do for my future and the future of those around me. I will overcome these demons.
I admire the people who have posted in this thread. Recognizing you have a problem & trying to understand why is the first step of managing any addiction. Best of 🤞
I finally figured out what's been going on with me all this years. I'm so tired. I feel so irresponsible. I feel so selfish. I finally figured out what's going on. There is hope.
Wish you the best... I'm struggling for almost 15 years now and things got pretty bad in the last years, but I won't stop fighting to finally have a peaceful life one day
@@madmaximum875 keep fighting. I've been fighting for about 15 years as well. I have had successful periods of time for 1 year, 2 years, 1 year, 9 months, and 5 months. Other than that, I haven't been doing well.
@@hekutoru_2131 Love the name btw, I truly believe their much in being silent. Also. I don't know if I'm an addict but I battle these demons too. Everybody's is human. Some obviously have diff struggle than other but we all want love and happiness
In same situations yes for me but I put the mindset of it's ok to look but now I'm in highschool and there all younger then me and I feel that's so wrong for me to be doing that
Until the general public stops stigmatizing this with shame l see this rapidly growing more prevalent and soon becoming an addiction that far exceeds all other addictions combined
Its that daunting feeling,that nagging incessant dishonest distraction...until youre no longer in control, and you just want to get it over with, and it takes longer and longer and weirder snd more shocking....Its like trying to fill emptyness, with emptyness. While everything you love gets further and furrher away from you
Me too man, me too. We tried being friends for a while but because I still held onto my feelings for her we can’t be friends anymore, and I don’t know if this woman will ever be in my life again, I feel completely broken and all I have left is the memory of my mistakes and judging myself
Yes most men or ashamed or scared for their life to get ruined because of this disorder. We are mostly scared to admit that we did wrong when our parents should’ve not gave us access/freedom to view this as much as we did
it’s not in the DSM5 for mental health Illnesses so this is still not a recognised mental disorder. But is quite interesting to hear about…for anyone wondering
@@bus30056 thanks for letting me know, from my understanding they are used differently- the ICD is like a collection of records of diseases whereas the DSM5 is considered to be the go to for psychological professionals to use when doing diagnosis due to the DSM5 having concrete evidence for diagnosing patients…though of course both are still very much valid and useful.
i think that brain is far more mysterious than we think there are many things that science did not recognise yet but it happens ,we r not beyond the god's creation
Curable? Maybe, maybe not. But it's definitely treatable. It just takes A LOT of hard work, therapy, and leaning on the support of people who actually understand you.
lot Impact suffering related comments ,but no solution comment , how I did it my csbd problem is now 10to5 % what it was early when I visited this video.if you want I can explain if asked...here
@@MichaelEdwardWilliamson Can a man and a woman be just friends? || Acharya Prashant, with Delhi University-it explain the best possible way-if it work contact them.
“he slaps you til you stop bothering his girlfriend alone.” (scattered-but-noticeable laughter from the audience) “I’m sure none of you check your phone every five minutes for no particular reason…” (audience remains silent) huh. humans are so interesting
I am suffering from this, I am happy to finally know what it is and now I will seek help, I will make my prefrontal cortex stronger with meditation, exercise and discipline, this is something I need to do for my future and the future of those around me. I will overcome these demons.
Try the 12 steps of SAA
I am. Also in same situation. Feeling helpless
Same
I admire the people who have posted in this thread. Recognizing you have a problem & trying to understand why is the first step of managing any addiction. Best of 🤞
How is your journey so far ?
I finally figured out what's been going on with me all this years. I'm so tired. I feel so irresponsible. I feel so selfish. I finally figured out what's going on. There is hope.
You got this!
I have this and regularly combat this with meditation, proper diet and exercise.
Wish you the best... I'm struggling for almost 15 years now and things got pretty bad in the last years, but I won't stop fighting to finally have a peaceful life one day
@@madmaximum875 keep fighting. I've been fighting for about 15 years as well. I have had successful periods of time for 1 year, 2 years, 1 year, 9 months, and 5 months. Other than that, I haven't been doing well.
im in tears right now
I'm happy that someone understands
It's not easy to fight off these demons.
You're not alone. Fighting off some major urges at the moment. I just wish I had more help from others around me.
@@hekutoru_2131 Love the name btw, I truly believe their much in being silent. Also. I don't know if I'm an addict but I battle these demons too. Everybody's is human. Some obviously have diff struggle than other but we all want love and happiness
Getting rid of shame and guilt is important
In same situations yes for me but I put the mindset of it's ok to look but now I'm in highschool and there all younger then me and I feel that's so wrong for me to be doing that
@@Hamandeggs24I can't help it it's so hard
This needs to be taken more seriously in the western world
amen.
The entire world*
Absolutely.
the whole planet
Whatever the most rapes are in those Arab and Indian countries
Until the general public stops stigmatizing this with shame l see this rapidly growing more prevalent and soon becoming an addiction that far exceeds all other addictions combined
Sadly, it is now worse than it was when you posted this comment.
Its that daunting feeling,that nagging incessant dishonest distraction...until youre no longer in control, and you just want to get it over with, and it takes longer and longer and weirder snd more shocking....Its like trying to fill emptyness, with emptyness. While everything you love gets further and furrher away from you
in and out of jail, losing eveything i love. just want my compulsions to stop and move on.
CSBD took my life. My biggest dream from 10 year old girl till now is to get out off it.
I sadly relate
Have you talked to a doctor. They may be able to dull your libido and give you room for behavioral intervention
How is ur progress
This is excellent, very informative. Knowledge is power
I have it with OCD as well
So sad is very damaging for a woman to go through this for years with a man
My husband has this older he gets more awful he is
I lost the best girl I could ever have . Same time lost the opportunity to be a father
Me too man, me too. We tried being friends for a while but because I still held onto my feelings for her we can’t be friends anymore, and I don’t know if this woman will ever be in my life again, I feel completely broken and all I have left is the memory of my mistakes and judging myself
@@revengeofthenerds4415 in here with you man
@@nightstudio67 going through exactly the same thing........I am gutted right now
@@victorleon1563im sorry dude.
Now on to better life !!!
The monster finally has a name. Now i can fight it
🔥
I am tired of fighting this out, it occupies most of my mind space. Hope I will figure it out.
Struggling a lot. Hoping the exercise routine will help me more
keep fighting. have somebody to be accountable to.
Children below 12 year old? That is frightening
I got it at the age of like 11
I hate articles and humanity for writing in article that masturbation causes no harm! B..ch , it ruins our lifes! it causes more harm then cigarette!
I'm not sure it causes cancer.
When it is compulsive yes but if not then no it isn’t
Let’s go guys we can do it!
Thank you for this lightning lecture
The scientific knowledge is very good
I feel terirble, my self esteem went down and under achieved because of this compulsion.
Nice to hear this brought up but it was quite cursory.
Also search for Pure OCD in regards to this issue.
Tell me more
How are those talks getting so few views? This channel has 23 million subs :O
because they afraid of diagnose it .
They upload so many videos a day.
Fake subs
I wonder how many men have this that are getting labeled Narcissist
Lotsa men do not want to admit it, and, keep hurting their partners!
Yes most men or ashamed or scared for their life to get ruined because of this disorder. We are mostly scared to admit that we did wrong when our parents should’ve not gave us access/freedom to view this as much as we did
@@bobbyc5102 you serious? -JACK
I’m struggling with this.
Me too
best wishes, solidarity
Its not east to fight this
I have been suffering from it for the past 9 years
The real problem happens in the relapse 😢
I just downloaded the app Migiri to help me reverse my CSBD🥰
Great content
that's what is happening to me, at the first part he did a Little history of the bar, and I experienced things like that, I identify myself
This exact scene Was in SHAME.
This is an actual serious problem! Hypersexuality must be respected and celebrated more.
celebrated ?? you mean helped with and prevented.. I know what you tried to say but your choice of words is very wrong
@@MedinipuriTuka036 Do you often treat winning the lotto? O.o just find that the weirdest thing you'd want to "treat".
@@slitaitana6212 its not like winning lottery.. imao
Celebrated no
it’s not in the DSM5 for mental health Illnesses so this is still not a recognised mental disorder. But is quite interesting to hear about…for anyone wondering
It's in ICD-11 but not in DSM-5 yet
@@bus30056 thanks for letting me know, from my understanding they are used differently- the ICD is like a collection of records of diseases whereas the DSM5 is considered to be the go to for psychological professionals to use when doing diagnosis due to the DSM5 having concrete evidence for diagnosing patients…though of course both are still very much valid and useful.
It was in DSM4, thus it has been recognised.
It is a recognized mental disorder in Europe, in the UK only the ICD tends to be used as opposed to the DSM
i think that brain is far more mysterious than we think there are many things that science did not recognise yet but it happens ,we r not beyond the god's creation
Is it curable?
yes, it just takes a lot of work, and support. I have had some success. And some set-backs. I'd be happy to share my story.
Curable? Maybe, maybe not. But it's definitely treatable. It just takes A LOT of hard work, therapy, and leaning on the support of people who actually understand you.
@@Ether-pb5gb it’s been 2 months, but I wanna hear your story.
@@dustinpowell6507 2 months what?
@@justwantedtochangemyname I am not sure what you are asking.
How do you help your patients?
lot Impact suffering related comments
,but no solution comment , how I did it
my csbd problem is now 10to5 % what it was early when I visited this video.if you want I can explain if asked...here
Please do! I’m begging!
@@MichaelEdwardWilliamson Can a man and a woman be just friends? || Acharya Prashant, with Delhi University-it explain the best possible way-if it work contact them.
I need help
crying
“he slaps you til you stop bothering his girlfriend alone.” (scattered-but-noticeable laughter from the audience)
“I’m sure none of you check your phone every five minutes for no particular reason…” (audience remains silent)
huh. humans are so interesting
Cud this happen to women too ? does the intensity of the disorder Change at different stages in life?
Heya! From what I know, yes. it can happen to anyone from any walk of life, specifically because of trauma like S.A.
I need help😢
I need help I’m fully straight but I have thoughts saying I like men and stuff when I don’t
look HOCD up... the same happened to me 4 years ago, and then i discovered i suffered from Ocd. Dont give up! There is hope
That is OCD my guy. I had the same thing a little in middle school, and this past summer it came back in horrific fashion.
God bless.
Solution?
All of the demons in the front row are laughing!
?
Facts
Demons?
Nervous laughter because they know the truth.
My amygdala is huuuge
All of the ones laughing have the disorder!
Nice.
Took the words right out of my mouth.
It's not easy to fight these demons.
To GOD nothing is impossible. You (we ) can be healed of the said disorder, in JESUS NAME. ( ISAIAH 53:1-3).
I swear my boyfriend has this-
how do you control him?
It's more common than most think.
Pls talk to him abt it. These things are very hard to go through.
i bet he does.
Not only him
who or what is "M" he mentions?
It is a reference to a patient. To protect their identity, Casper uses 'Mr M'.
Meth
@@FirewindAstrology 😂😂😂 I love your humor
This world needs Jesus
I blame our freaking parents.
They might be to blame, but nobody can solve anything internal but ourselves.
Plot twist he’s M
Wow
there are many things to recognise by science just wait 50 more years, brain is a mystery
This guy is cute af… 😅 Oh… oh damn, I’m the problem…
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Had to be a German lol
😂😂😂
I came second ;)
story of my life
@@cerenb7909 lmao bruh
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