My boyfriend is Arabian. He is very focused person. Also he sounds like the 4th type you mentioned. Beyond. He is very attentive and kind but also at times very quiet. When he does open and speak he does make good sense and is very encouraging.
I am European (Romanian) and I married in September a Muslim Arab man from Lebanon, Tripoli after dating for 10 months before. He is in between traditionalist and open minded, but I can talk with him about anything that comes in my mind. I never thought I would ever marry an Arab because of the obvious cultural differences and the prejudices we have here about Arabs (that they treat the women like animals :))). BUT I live the happiest time of my life with him. The love, respect and care that he shares with me are of no comparison with anything that I met in my life both from my experience and from others. I go to Uni although I am in the early 30's and I will work afterwards. His opinion is that a woman should decide for herself about her carreer, education, job and so on. An aspect of his traditional side: he says he will always be the family's provider and my money is only my money, and only in exceptional cases he would ask for help.
This is amazing story! I am so happy you found an Arab man with that characteristic as it's so rare to find an Arab man like that, so he is beyond Arabic man :))) I hope other type of Arab man can watch this video and stop behaving badly and show respect and true love to women of all kinds!!
@@ina-tajwedwab2486 You are right. Before my hubby I used to think lots of bad things about Arabs, but now from my own experience, I have a saying to all who opposed my marriage with him: "I wouldn't give my Arab husband not even on 1000 Romanians or other men from the Western world". Simply as that.
Mine was the third. I'm a 24 year old hispanic woman by the way. He was a Suni Muslim from Yemen, but he grew up in the United States. I met him in college in Florida, where I was born. I assumed he would be traditional, but then he came off as very liberal at first. But within a month he started showing more signs of being sexist. Then he became too controlling for me. He made me feel like my opinion was not important and that he was always right. I felt like an object and that I was only there for his pleasure. I dumped him after a month. I couldn't take it anymore. So, that's my story. Hope it helps.
Thanks Gabrielle for sharing your story. you did the right thing. Someone better waiting for you out there. When one door close, another door will open. stay safe.
Thank you for the video. Among the 4, I prefer Beyond Arab Man. It is good to preserve and proud with our own cultures & at the same time open minded to get to know other cultures. Thats how we live in a multicultural country, Malaysia. How about you @Nassra?
Sadly double standard exists a lot..you need to be careful and put him on a test before you commit to a relationship, when you fall in Love, your heart is week and it will too late to get out of it easily
The two of you were right. It was dangerous.He is a bit nice but controlling and a tad possessive. At first It was cute, but the moment he tried to impose rules to me as if he is my "King". Thats time I realize I'm just wasting my time so I noped out of the relationship. No one has the right to tell me what to do. Luckily, I was raised by my parents to be strong-willed and empowered. I hope someday I will meet The Beyond Arab Guy just like you Omar and Khaled 😊😊😊
@@annemaze7056 well done Anna!! You were able to spot him immediately and realised that it is not cute anymore this controlling behaviour. MR.right is in his way to you :)
Thank you❣ slowly and surely men will come into this realization. We need to talk about the issue with honestly and share our views . The more we do, our message vibrates and spread further & beyond. Are you seeing someone at the moment?
I wish I was lol but Its been almost 4yrs now since I broke up with the father of my child I guess as I grew I learnt that i rather be alone than to be unhappy one day I will get that mr right
@@ntombizonkesamente841 Being a single mum is not easy at all. You are a strong woman. It is time to go back to the dating world now? :) you are ready! You learnt to love being alone and to be independent. so you are ready! Are you surrounded by Arab men in your area ? 🤔 lol
what advice would you give a black girl marrying an Arabian man? we see interracial relationships everywhere but the Arabian interracial relationship is rare
Happy to say I am with a Beyond Arabic man. Like one of the other people who commented below, my Arabic man is focused and quiet at times. He is definitely non-judgmental, inquisitive, highly intelligent and curious about the world and other cultures around him. I am from USA and he is from Syria. I have never met anyone like this person. I am treated as a princess, as he is very attentive to me, checks on me every morning to make sure I am okay and to see if I need anything. He encourages me to express myself and constantly tells me to not be afraid to do so, but that I can be free around him. After seven months together, I can see very clearly all of what he has shown me of himself is true.
Khaled Nassra Traditional one was my first boyfriend in high school. He was Saudi Arabian. He hated Jews, thought that women shouldn’t have same rights as men, hid me from his parents.... you know the usual. 😂 Westernized was Syrian. He barely spoke Arabic. He seemed more Caucasian and was embarrassed of his heritage. Didn’t even want people to know he was Syrian. And the 1% was Lebanese. Omg! I will never forget him. 😍😍😍 All of my 1% were mostly Lebanese. Yo2bornie Allah! Beklak bala7 me7leh! Shou ya ashta! 🤣🤣🤣
I really love the Arabic culture, I like mainly man that takes care of his woman. I hope my next husband will be a arabic man, I am ready to embrace this culture that I adore! 💞
Thank you for this vid! i love it! I love that you call that 1% the Beyond... i feel that applies to all people that assimilates or having to cross cultures or are forced to choose or pick.
I met an Arabic man his from Algeria 🇩🇿, I felt so attracted to him and we are now dating, I don’t know what type he is like but he is so good to me so far we have like this amazing chemistry, we are so attracted to each other so far it’s a very good relationship. We like each other, we have fun together.
Well said. I've experienced all of these, in all cultures. Edward Said is another Beyond Arab. One thing I would add: The beyond category isn't just beyond Arab, it's also beyond male. We all have masculine and feminine energies in us, and these people have learned to integrate the two and are comfortable with both aspects of themselves.
Sara❣❣ so nice to see your comment here. Yes!! For a Male to acknowledge both the feminine and the masculine side equally is something beyond their capacity. They either come across too masculine or too feminine. Balance is needed here. Ps: who is Edward btw? 🤔🤔
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Yup. I went through something intense a few years ago called the 'sacred internal marriage', which was about bringing my masculine and feminine sides into harmony. Edward Said is a famous Palestinian-American writer, professor, and thinker. Probably more famous here than he is in the Arab world. He did a lot of writing about how eastern and Arab cultures are perceived in the West, and how those perceptions enable Western colonialism. Wrote a lot about Palestine. It seem like living in multiple cultures is one of the traits of the 'beyond' people. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_Said
أدورت سعيد!!!!! Yes!! I know him, I used to sell his book " orientalism " in my book shop back in Syria but I never tapped into his work very deeply. Now I am curious 🤔🤔🤔
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Yes! A lot of Western university students interested in the Middle East read his books, because they talk about stereotypes of the the Arab world. This is a good video about his work, with interviews and images: Edward Said On Orientalism ruclips.net/video/fVC8EYd_Z_g/видео.html
I honestly advise against dating Arab men. You don’t know what you’re getting yourself into, unless you are an Arab woman yourself. You need to know the culture and expectations. Very few of them take dating with a foreigner serious, though the ones who don’t, won’t tell you that of course. I’ve dated two who turned out to be the double standard guy, which there seems to be a lot of around. If you’re just looking for fun, then Arabs are good choice. But for more than that, I highly suggest moving on.
Thank you Mostarka for you comment on dating an arab man. You are right there many who are double standards who show you that they are open minded at the start of the relationship then they switch 360 degrees and change completely. Hope you will meet one day the beyond Arabic Man.
I know him since 8 months but mostly from talking on the phone, and we are talking about getting married.we met over friends. He tells me i will not have to work if i dont want, he will be the provider and only for him its important that I take good care of my looks and show kind behaviour and good cooking and not present myself to other men too much, but I can go out with friends,its no problem for him. I am greek by the way, living in greece. He lives in western country. I believe i am very lucky i met him and waiting to see him in july.😊❤
I'm marrying an Arab man he is jealous but so am I lol I'm from the USA he's from Jordan he has respect for others cultures he is actually a very good man I really love him.
@@jordanialee8239 I must say unfortunately I agree... I’m 3 years in marriage with Jordanian than completely become different. Is not just jealousy.. I’m actually more jealous than my husband lol but the fundamental ways we think coming from such a male dominant world. I find that to sympathize w women n to tend to their needs is difficult. In America we say happy wife happy life but in the Arab world mostly is to make the man happy. Which I love n I don’t mind submissive but not at the sacrifice of my whole self... best of luck n have many discussions before marriage bc in beginning we are all mesmerized by chemistry
Well, I’m half Lebanese and Mexican. My husband is full Lebanese Christian. We live in The USA 🇺🇸 at fist he was I’m the man I rule. But now he is like baby what ever you want you rule. Lol. In Lebanon 🇱🇧 there are different religions the Christian are more to the euro side I think and even their names are not Arabic (some)but Christian Lebanon is the most westernized county in the Middle East my husband is the provider and I am too he likes to pay. I let him . But we both work for our goals.
Thank you so much. Your last words really help me, about that Arab men can be judgemental and not open minded. I thought I had a problem, because it was said I can be myself but at certain topics I am not allowed to speak. Aldo escpecially listening to the woman her opinion and communicate about it is a problem. It is a challenge sometimes( mostly he wants to shut me up or change the subject) for me but I keep on communicating before our marriage. Because in the marriage is too late! Progress is on the way...
Thank you so much, Khaled! This was a very interesting video and I find it greatly helpful. And that is of course, because someone caught my eye and I am trying to decipher him/his type vis-a-vis his culture. Thanks a lot! Choukran 🙏
I fell into marrying the 3rd category. I feel most of the time injustice and I am always blamed, he never took responsibility for his actions. It started with him changing me, and then I am trapped whereas he is free to do what he wants. Can you please do a video on this? I do not want a divorce but I would love to get some advice. You explained this category perfectly!
Same here. Married to one for 4 years. I love him but I am loosing my mind. He’s very sensitive and at the same time very crude/rude and aggressive if I speak up mind mind. Full of double standards. Everything is my fault and he acts as if he’s always right, even when he’s not. It’s exhausting.
@@jordanialee8239 I don't know about this but since i'm an Arab i think this act to show you that he love and cares about you. however, if he prevent you to do things but he does them then you need to tell him that. if he a Muslim you can change his behoiver because in Islam you are not Allowed to oppress or controll people. thank you
Wow so i am lucky that my arab boyfriend is beyond arabic and western culture. Actually he is kurdish,this might make the difference. He is very open minded ,not judging others, very intelligent.masallah
I meant my ex husband from Jordan in a nightclub in 1998 and that should've been my warning and after a year found out he was married twice and the marriages were not legal as he was trying to obtain citizenship and then he found me and I stupidly married him and bought a house I put down all the money, left left me over Christmas 2016 and that was the end of it. He was a non practicing muslim and never prayed and said he was going to hell anyway so why should he try. I am now remarried to a wonderful Christian man. Stay with your own kind and be careful of single foreign men and make sure they are either born here or can prove they are a citizen as my ex lied on our first date and told me he was a citizen and never said he was still married to this woman. My regret runs so deep for this "marriage".
What happened to you, it doesn’t surprise me, some Arab men do this! And yes you need to be very careful at the start, and make sure he is truly and genuinely loves you and want to marry for you. Sorry to hear this and I am happy that you found the right man for you.
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod Thank you for your post and kind remark. I never knew anything about immigration and soon learned more than I ever wanted. He claimed the last two marriages really weren't real and he didn't even live wiith those women. I saw the marriage certificates and divorce papers as well. I am truly not sure if he ever really did love me. I heard a voice in me saying that he was desperate to find an American woman to marry and file for a green card. I guess little did he know his case was flagged by INS/FBI as possible fraud so they denied our petition 2x and said the case was rejected and wait for a letter for a court date. That letter never came and I know he's still living here without legal citizenship so I guess he's pretty lucky no one has found him out. In any event I do not wish harm on him but peace and hopefully a better life. Thank you for your support as you are very kind!
I’ll come back to this or I’ll send you a book when I’m done 😂😂😂😂 I literally did a video like this but like I said I could write a book so Don’t want to kill your wall 🥰
I read a really impressive and eye opening sentence from the Palestinian author Sahar Khalifa in one of her books. It says: The Arab man sings about the future, but is tied up in the past. I was in a relationship with a Syrian man for three years and I’m thankful,that I had the chance of learning that much about the Arabic Traditions.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏" The Arab man sings about the future, but is tied up in the past" what is the name of his book? How did your 3 years relationship impact you would you say ? Positive?
Khaled Nassra it’s the book عباد الشمس . The relationship was positive. At the beginning we had some struggles and he treated me like I’m an Arab women ( I had to laugh, when in saw your video about Arab women). For example: I was just looking at a dress and he was like , I’ll buy you this. I don’t matter about material things and this was new for him 😄
@@lalaaa Khaled Nassra شكرا جزيلا لورا !! Did you read it in Arabic? You must be very good? متل البلبل Omg😂😂 the example you mentioned is soooooo Arab 😂😂 Ps: did he buy it for you at the end? 🤔🤔
Khaled Nassra I read the book in German, but I wanted to give you the original title. Reading a whole book in Arabic is a lifetime challenge 😄 And no, he didn’t bought it , but I really had to fight. Of course during the relationship he bought me from time to time clothes and payed my coffee EVERY TIME 😂
An American girl dated an Afghan men ,she thought that she can have girls night out when she came back home she ended up in the hospital with a broken jaw. Muslim men do not change . Even if you think they integrated they not.
Many they won’t change it is true. You need to be able to spot that right from the beginning not after your get married to him and he reveals his true mask
Excellent posting, and thank you for making it. Most of my experiences have been with double-standard Arab men. This is why I will not consider dating them in the future. This is unfortunate as so many Arab men are quite attractive, intelligent, sensitive and are often in touch with their feminine side. All of these traits are so endearing! However, the issues of over-controlling, sexism and extreme jealousy are absolute deal breakers. Some Arab men initially present themselves as open-minded and flexible. In my experience these traits are not genuine, and fall away within a few months. This is a terrible thing to say, but Arab men now scare me. A friend of mine, and also myself have been stalked by an Arab man. But thank you so much for defining the four types you’ve identified, and explaining them so expertly. My hope is that Arab men will see your video and do some deep soul-searching on their way to becoming the “beyond Arab” man. Again, I send you thanks.
I'm in a deep trouble...... I always end up with men who think of me as the top (standard) in the relationship, no matter how much older they're. It has always been like that for much longer I have started being in love. It doesn't bother me much but Is it okay?
Allah Allah Thanks for kindly sharing to you 😊 Yes, some people come to our life where we never wait..never expect..some may come to our life just as a lesson.. Who knows ...maybe will meet later on mine 🤣
I’m dating an Arabic man, during COVID it’s hard to get out and test if he’s the double standard kind? Are there any questions you suggest asking, I afraid I’m missing something.
Khalil Gibran was greatly influenced by the Baha’is Faith. Lot’s of Moroccan/Algerian men have these qualities. Most likely due to their French influences.
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled To me and to most of the Arabs from the Middle East here, you are completely different from the Arabs of the Maghreb. I don't think you can be compared at all.
My husband is double standard man he admired me so much loved every single thing about me accepted me completely loved every single thing about me would compliment non stop he would show me off to everyone he loved everything about me from the beginning never wanted to change not one thing about me but then as soon as I flew over seas to him he married me as soon as possible and straight away he put me in hijab gloves and covered shoes covered clothes and expected me to from then on be a religious submissive covered wife ahh the longer were married the more rules are out upon me
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Being a huge fan of shirts myself, I can only say yes!! It gives a touch of elegance to the person. I want the woman version of it 🥺
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Not at all haha! There is no gender for colours or motifs, you are beautiful in what you want to wear. I love men who dare to wear what other men don't 🙈
Can someone answer me this? I’ve been dating an Algerian man for 6 months now. He says I’m “his girlfriend” but I don’t know much of his life. I asked him why I don’t know any of his friends. He said because they’re Arab man and is a cultural thing that they don’t introduce their girlfriends to each other. Is this true? Sometimes it feels like he’s hiding me from his life. Don’t get me wrong he goes out with me, I spent in his house almost 5 days a week. He met my family and some of my closest friends but it makes me wonder why he’s so secretive. Anyone can help me with this question?
Hi girl... I just found your comment and let me tell you something... Honestly I advice to you dont date any arab man... Becoz after you fall in love with him he will just tell you he must listen to his family and marry a girl they want for him... And he will just dump you like no one else has done before 🙄 peace and love💓✌️
Hi there, girl I’ll tell you my experience with them. I dated an Algerian man for 6 months and since the first day we decided to be in a relationship he introduced me all his friends and that was annoying for me. Because I’m ours dates he always bring some of his friends. Well, I met only one Algerian and that was my experience. He was very nice person but we were not made for each other. Anyway I’m dating now with a man from Jordan and yes, he Also introduced me some of his friends but we never talk about been in a relationship yet. We are just like a month dating and he introduced me already 3 of his friends and 1 brother by phone and his 2 cousin in person. See that Ktyco that’s not a good signal.
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled i read some of them in Arabic. With dictionary of course. Please, remind me the book you suggested for me. I have a basic, maybe more,knowledge of grammar and fusha, reading and writing . But very little ammiyya. You suggested one of your books. Please remind me of its title and maybe send me a link. I need to buy it and hopefully go to some Arabic country. Thank you. By the way, i dont know why people write Kahlil Gibran instead of Khalil ...کهلیل is wrong. Right is خلیلِ Are you based in London?
@@francisorih396 Love his work!! The book I suggested called Colloquial Levantine Arabic, here is the link Colloquial Levantine Arabic on Amazon www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1090461151/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_TfLgEbXHWJ62S Let me know once you buy the book, so I can guide you through it. Yes! I am based in London, what about you?
It’s sad that I dated an Arabic man who uses me for money.. he asked me a lot of times to buy him stuffs online on his PUBG account and he never ever buy things for me.. even not trying to buy anything at all... little things but he asked so much to buy him this that just because he knew I worked in US .. I was so stupid to even care for him.. he was not the provider but me.. he thought I pick up money for free and even if I said I’m too tired from work he kept asking for so many things ..
Sorry to hear your story!! Rule number 1# if a man ask you for money, get out immediately!! Check my new youtube channel: ruclips.net/video/Vr5QrFEARRE/видео.html it might help you to not get into this again
I am a beyond Arabic Man, I had nevertgought about it and had never found a category that close,y fitted to what I represent in this world, I used to Say an Arab World Citizen. In fact I think what I think made Arabs great at what time was this type of thinking , it was forward, Arabs were word travelers they never rested on their laurels they liked to learn from others, they learned from science, math, technology and other things from other nations of the world. Many Arabs mixed with others nations today Arab families get upset if Arab children marry outside of the race. For example when I lived in Kenya the Swahili population in Black and Arab a beautiful mix of culture and tradition, my friend Said, living in Kenya would never be allowed to marry Black, my mother's family stopped my mother from entering my grandparents house because my father is half American Half German. Woth time my father paid the wedding of three of my aunts helped my grandmother 14 years economically, something my uncle would not do. Why be judgemental. My grandmother would say I was the most Arabic of her grandchildren (we are immigrants) the rest of my cousins except 1 were full Arabs, with time they found out that the favorite uncle that married into the family came from a Jewish family, too late that was after 3 children, even after that my father was still judged. My ther always told me he wished he could have learned Arabic when he was young when traveling America he would say this is my wife, she is Arabic and I am proud of her. My mother's family has nevermstopped being ashamed of my father. My father did win the respect of about 70% of the family unfortunately most of the direct family members never came around. I am proud to be like my 2 Arabic teachers in London😉
Well said Anthon!!!! You made a very good point here. If we look back in time. Arab used to be a travellers like #rumi #ibnkhaldoon and #al- khawarizmi. And the silk road made huge impact on our culture at the time. Nowadays, people stopped travelling, borders are being created, traditions becomes our religion rather than the true meaning of The Qur'an. Yes! Now there are 3 of us :) we need more. Please share the video with others so we can move forward with beyondArabman 👊👊
Hi I just met an Arabian Sunni man online. . He's younger than I am. 24 years younger. I'm American. He says he's Sunni. But he's very open in a way to learn about me, and he and me laugh together online about things but says I'm beutiful alot, and says he will have me and I will have him. He is very persistent. But I'm not sure about the serious Ness of his heart. Saying he loves me too soon is a red flag, any info. Will help. Not unless he is just lonely.
That is true! Men in the world have to learn to be fully honest of their intention when it comes to be in relationship and dating women! but the problem they don't have the courage to speak the truth! instead, they lies or create fake identity and all of that comes for the EGO!
Your topic should be the different types of men through out the world ...making Arab as specific not good idea...this is all around the world ...but it's better not to marry in a different cultures...
We need to spread the word and being honest with ourself and courageous, shameless! This is the time for every one of us to express our deep thoughts!
Give me and as advice.. why the one I dated was the one who used me and he was not a provider at all?
@@rollercoasterlife7233 there are exceptions everywhere
My boyfriend is Arabian. He is very focused person. Also he sounds like the 4th type you mentioned. Beyond. He is very attentive and kind but also at times very quiet. When he does open and speak he does make good sense and is very encouraging.
I love Arabic Man, special Beyond Arabic❤️❤️❤️ very respectful and kind❤️😊😊
Arabs are easily most attractive men. 🤩
Super interesting video by the way, you are very smart guy. Keep up the good work 🙂👍
Thank you for your wonderful words ❣ do have any topic you would like me to talk about in the future?
I am European (Romanian) and I married in September a Muslim Arab man from Lebanon, Tripoli after dating for 10 months before. He is in between traditionalist and open minded, but I can talk with him about anything that comes in my mind. I never thought I would ever marry an Arab because of the obvious cultural differences and the prejudices we have here about Arabs (that they treat the women like animals :))).
BUT I live the happiest time of my life with him. The love, respect and care that he shares with me are of no comparison with anything that I met in my life both from my experience and from others. I go to Uni although I am in the early 30's and I will work afterwards. His opinion is that a woman should decide for herself about her carreer, education, job and so on. An aspect of his traditional side: he says he will always be the family's provider and my money is only my money, and only in exceptional cases he would ask for help.
This is amazing story! I am so happy you found an Arab man with that characteristic as it's so rare to find an Arab man like that, so he is beyond Arabic man :))) I hope other type of Arab man can watch this video and stop behaving badly and show respect and true love to women of all kinds!!
That is an amazing story!! Thanks for sharing. That mean there more out there like him. My warm greeting to him. Bless you both
@@ina-tajwedwab2486 your hopes are fulfilled. I keep everything that I said in my previous comment. I am sorry if you had a bad experience with Arabs.
@@ina-tajwedwab2486 You are right. Before my hubby I used to think lots of bad things about Arabs, but now from my own experience, I have a saying to all who opposed my marriage with him: "I wouldn't give my Arab husband not even on 1000 Romanians or other men from the Western world". Simply as that.
I want a man like that!!
Mine was the third. I'm a 24 year old hispanic woman by the way. He was a Suni Muslim from Yemen, but he grew up in the United States. I met him in college in Florida, where I was born. I assumed he would be traditional, but then he came off as very liberal at first. But within a month he started showing more signs of being sexist. Then he became too controlling for me. He made me feel like my opinion was not important and that he was always right. I felt like an object and that I was only there for his pleasure. I dumped him after a month. I couldn't take it anymore. So, that's my story. Hope it helps.
Thanks Gabrielle for sharing your story. you did the right thing. Someone better waiting for you out there. When one door close, another door will open. stay safe.
You are so lucky you ended things right away. I wish I had done the same.
Thank you for the video. Among the 4, I prefer Beyond Arab Man. It is good to preserve and proud with our own cultures & at the same time open minded to get to know other cultures.
Thats how we live in a multicultural country, Malaysia.
How about you @Nassra?
This topic is interesting. I dated an Arab guy before. He is a mixture of traditional, western and mostly double standards.
Sadly double standard exists a lot..you need to be careful and put him on a test before you commit to a relationship, when you fall in Love, your heart is week and it will too late to get out of it easily
Anna! I agree with Omar. Yes !! Test & challenge them before it is too late
The two of you were right. It was dangerous.He is a bit nice but controlling and a tad possessive. At first It was cute, but the moment he tried to impose rules to me as if he is my "King". Thats time I realize I'm just wasting my time so I noped out of the relationship. No one has the right to tell me what to do. Luckily, I was raised by my parents to be strong-willed and empowered. I hope someday I will meet The Beyond Arab Guy just like you Omar and Khaled 😊😊😊
@@annemaze7056 well done Anna!! You were able to spot him immediately and realised that it is not cute anymore this controlling behaviour. MR.right is in his way to you :)
I see u as one of beyond arabic man I would wish that all man will adopt that nature of flexibility and willingness I love yo topic.
Thank you❣ slowly and surely men will come into this realization. We need to talk about the issue with honestly and share our views . The more we do, our message vibrates and spread further & beyond. Are you seeing someone at the moment?
I wish I was lol but Its been almost 4yrs now since I broke up with the father of my child I guess as I grew I learnt that i rather be alone than to be unhappy one day I will get that mr right
That is our mission here to bring awareness to everyone including Arab men, so they can wake up and be beyond Arabic man
@@ntombizonkesamente841 Being a single mum is not easy at all. You are a strong woman. It is time to go back to the dating world now? :) you are ready! You learnt to love being alone and to be independent. so you are ready! Are you surrounded by Arab men in your area ? 🤔 lol
Lol Khaled I'm from South Africa we only see them on tv yes my friends also think that it's time to go back to dating let's see what 2020 holds
My husband is arabic from Yemen i am black completely swahili.
yeah its is!
what advice would you give a black girl marrying an Arabian man? we see interracial relationships everywhere but the Arabian interracial relationship is rare
Me too I'm from Africa, I'm soon marrying an arab man from Syria
Omg khaled, every word you said is so true about #datinganarabman!!!!
Truth must said my friend!! With truth comes transformation!
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@Selma t Hi Selma, which one? I am planning to do more like that this months
LearnArabicWithNassraArabicMethod Arabic men thought on dating Black women
how do you know if arabic is serious about you or in your relationship?? please i wish you will do vlog about it.. thankyou in advance
Do a video of why Arab men are very sensitive. And what not to say to Arab men
Happy to say I am with a Beyond Arabic man. Like one of the other people who commented below, my Arabic man is focused and quiet at times. He is definitely non-judgmental, inquisitive, highly intelligent and curious about the world and other cultures around him. I am from USA and he is from Syria. I have never met anyone like this person. I am treated as a princess, as he is very attentive to me, checks on me every morning to make sure I am okay and to see if I need anything. He encourages me to express myself and constantly tells me to not be afraid to do so, but that I can be free around him. After seven months together, I can see very clearly all of what he has shown me of himself is true.
I would love to hear what you think.
. What is your personal experience of dating an Arab man?
. Do you have another type that I am not aware of?
Experienced 1 (traditional), 2 (westernized) & 4 (1%) 😂
Keep looking for 1% All or Nothing!
@@luga3378 Omg all of them 😂😂😂😂
@@luga3378 what happened? Tell me more 🤔
Khaled Nassra Traditional one was my first boyfriend in high school. He was Saudi Arabian. He hated Jews, thought that women shouldn’t have same rights as men, hid me from his parents.... you know the usual. 😂 Westernized was Syrian. He barely spoke Arabic. He seemed more Caucasian and was embarrassed of his heritage. Didn’t even want people to know he was Syrian. And the 1% was Lebanese. Omg! I will never forget him. 😍😍😍 All of my 1% were mostly Lebanese. Yo2bornie Allah! Beklak bala7 me7leh! Shou ya ashta! 🤣🤣🤣
I really love the Arabic culture, I like mainly man that takes care of his woman. I hope my next husband will be a arabic man, I am ready to embrace this culture that I adore! 💞
Thank you for this vid! i love it! I love that you call that 1% the Beyond... i feel that applies to all people that assimilates or having to cross cultures or are forced to choose or pick.
I met an Arabic man his from Algeria 🇩🇿, I felt so attracted to him and we are now dating, I don’t know what type he is like but he is so good to me so far we have like this amazing chemistry, we are so attracted to each other so far it’s a very good relationship. We like each other, we have fun together.
It seems things are going well. Go for it
Thank you. You are educative and also funny as well. Entertaining!
Well said. I've experienced all of these, in all cultures. Edward Said is another Beyond Arab. One thing I would add: The beyond category isn't just beyond Arab, it's also beyond male. We all have masculine and feminine energies in us, and these people have learned to integrate the two and are comfortable with both aspects of themselves.
Sara❣❣ so nice to see your comment here. Yes!! For a Male to acknowledge both the feminine and the masculine side equally is something beyond their capacity. They either come across too masculine or too feminine. Balance is needed here.
Ps: who is Edward btw? 🤔🤔
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Yup. I went through something intense a few years ago called the 'sacred internal marriage', which was about bringing my masculine and feminine sides into harmony. Edward Said is a famous Palestinian-American writer, professor, and thinker. Probably more famous here than he is in the Arab world. He did a lot of writing about how eastern and Arab cultures are perceived in the West, and how those perceptions enable Western colonialism. Wrote a lot about Palestine. It seem like living in multiple cultures is one of the traits of the 'beyond' people. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_Said
أدورت سعيد!!!!!
Yes!! I know him, I used to sell his book " orientalism " in my book shop back in Syria but I never tapped into his work very deeply. Now I am curious 🤔🤔🤔
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Yes! A lot of Western university students interested in the Middle East read his books, because they talk about stereotypes of the the Arab world. This is a good video about his work, with interviews and images: Edward Said On Orientalism ruclips.net/video/fVC8EYd_Z_g/видео.html
Khaled,this is so interesting and I enjoy very much your podcasts but why in english?.. can you do this in arabic, that would be great!
Thank you) I will make a new podcast soon for the same topic in Arabic:)
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod Shukran zhazilan ya habibi!
Hi Chaled! Very interesting,indeed!
Wouldn't be even more beneficial for us doing it in spoken arabic?
This would be great!!!!
Sure. Next One will only Arabic :)
My fave is the last one lol they are the best, they are sweet
I honestly advise against dating Arab men. You don’t know what you’re getting yourself into, unless you are an Arab woman yourself. You need to know the culture and expectations. Very few of them take dating with a foreigner serious, though the ones who don’t, won’t tell you that of course. I’ve dated two who turned out to be the double standard guy, which there seems to be a lot of around. If you’re just looking for fun, then Arabs are good choice. But for more than that, I highly suggest moving on.
Thank you Mostarka for you comment on dating an arab man. You are right there many who are double standards who show you that they are open minded at the start of the relationship then they switch 360 degrees and change completely. Hope you will meet one day the beyond Arabic Man.
I know him since 8 months but mostly from talking on the phone, and we are talking about getting married.we met over friends. He tells me i will not have to work if i dont want, he will be the provider and only for him its important that I take good care of my looks and show kind behaviour and good cooking and not present myself to other men too much, but I can go out with friends,its no problem for him. I am greek by the way, living in greece. He lives in western country. I believe i am very lucky i met him and waiting to see him in july.😊❤
Love your inspiring story. Bianca
I'm marrying an Arab man he is jealous but so am I lol I'm from the USA he's from Jordan he has respect for others cultures he is actually a very good man I really love him.
That is a good combination then lol
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod absolutely I love him so much.
He will reveal his true face after marriage. Good luck!
@@jordanialee8239 😅😅
@@jordanialee8239 I must say unfortunately I agree... I’m 3 years in marriage with Jordanian than completely become different. Is not just jealousy.. I’m actually more jealous than my husband lol but the fundamental ways we think coming from such a male dominant world. I find that to sympathize w women n to tend to their needs is difficult. In America we say happy wife happy life but in the Arab world mostly is to make the man happy. Which I love n I don’t mind submissive but not at the sacrifice of my whole self... best of luck n have many discussions before marriage bc in beginning we are all mesmerized by chemistry
Thanks brother for sharing!
I want to marry a Arab man but don’t know what to do step to step
I love your views of life - very interesting & inspiring Khaled
Thank you very much 🙏🙏
Tell me more ?
Well, I’m half Lebanese and Mexican. My husband is full Lebanese Christian. We live in The USA 🇺🇸 at fist he was I’m the man I rule. But now he is like baby what ever you want you rule. Lol. In Lebanon 🇱🇧 there are different religions the Christian are more to the euro side I think and even their names are not Arabic (some)but Christian Lebanon is the most westernized county in the Middle East my husband is the provider and I am too he likes to pay. I let him . But we both work for our goals.
That is very inspiring Sylvie!!! Somehow the mixed race ones come with an open mind & flexibility to change.
Oh yeah and he loves Tacos 🌮 too.
@@sylviehaddad2323 tacos is good :)
Thank you so much. Your last words really help me, about that Arab men can be judgemental and not open minded. I thought I had a problem, because it was said I can be myself but at certain topics I am not allowed to speak. Aldo escpecially listening to the woman her opinion and communicate about it is a problem. It is a challenge sometimes( mostly he wants to shut me up or change the subject) for me but I keep on communicating before our marriage. Because in the marriage is too late! Progress is on the way...
Thank you so much, Khaled! This was a very interesting video and I find it greatly helpful. And that is of course, because someone caught my eye and I am trying to decipher him/his type vis-a-vis his culture. Thanks a lot! Choukran 🙏
I fell into marrying the 3rd category. I feel most of the time injustice and I am always blamed, he never took responsibility for his actions. It started with him changing me, and then I am trapped whereas he is free to do what he wants. Can you please do a video on this? I do not want a divorce but I would love to get some advice. You explained this category perfectly!
He is also a 4. He was a 4 with me before but not he is a 3 with me, but 4 with everyone else.
Same here. Married to one for 4 years. I love him but I am loosing my mind. He’s very sensitive and at the same time very crude/rude and aggressive if I speak up mind mind. Full of double standards. Everything is my fault and he acts as if he’s always right, even when he’s not. It’s exhausting.
@@jordanialee8239 I don't know about this but since i'm an Arab i think this act to show you that he love and cares about you. however, if he prevent you to do things but he does them then you need to tell him that. if he a Muslim you can change his behoiver because in Islam you are not Allowed to oppress or controll people. thank you
M_H_D Thank you for your input. However, things have gotten much better since I wrote on here. :)
You are SO NAUGHTY! Loving these chats.
That is true! and I am proud of that side and all my sides ;) how about you?
LearnArabicWithNassraArabicMethod It is so very true! I can personally confirm that you are absolutely correct!
@@ThisIsMeAlexis Thanks! Truth must be said but it takes courage. Courage to change!
This guy is flat yuck
Thank you for this video ,Cleared a lot of things up for me :)
Thanks mate!! I will see you tomorrow? :)
Wow so i am lucky that my arab boyfriend is beyond arabic and western culture. Actually he is kurdish,this might make the difference. He is very open minded ,not judging others, very intelligent.masallah
You are indeed, and May God bless your relationship with him
I meant my ex husband from Jordan in a nightclub in 1998 and that should've been my warning and after a year found out he was married twice and the marriages were not legal as he was trying to obtain citizenship and then he found me and I stupidly married him and bought a house I put down all the money, left left me over Christmas 2016 and that was the end of it. He was a non practicing muslim and never prayed and said he was going to hell anyway so why should he try. I am now remarried to a wonderful Christian man. Stay with your own kind and be careful of single foreign men and make sure they are either born here or can prove they are a citizen as my ex lied on our first date and told me he was a citizen and never said he was still married to this woman. My regret runs so deep for this "marriage".
What happened to you, it doesn’t surprise me, some Arab men do this! And yes you need to be very careful at the start, and make sure he is truly and genuinely loves you and want to marry for you. Sorry to hear this and I am happy that you found the right man for you.
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod Thank you for your post and kind remark. I never knew anything about immigration and soon learned more than I ever wanted. He claimed the last two marriages really weren't real and he didn't even live wiith those women. I saw the marriage certificates and divorce papers as well. I am truly not sure if he ever really did love me. I heard a voice in me saying that he was desperate to find an American woman to marry and file for a green card. I guess little did he know his case was flagged by INS/FBI as possible fraud so they denied our petition 2x and said the case was rejected and wait for a letter for a court date. That letter never came and I know he's still living here without legal citizenship so I guess he's pretty lucky no one has found him out. In any event I do not wish harm on him but peace and hopefully a better life. Thank you for your support as you are very kind!
Excellent advice, please keep making these videos
All men are crazy not just Arab 😂
So true 😂😂
I’ll come back to this or I’ll send you a book when I’m done 😂😂😂😂 I literally did a video like this but like I said I could write a book so Don’t want to kill your wall 🥰
I read a really impressive and eye opening sentence from the Palestinian author Sahar Khalifa in one of her books. It says: The Arab man sings about the future, but is tied up in the past.
I was in a relationship with a Syrian man for three years and I’m thankful,that I had the chance of learning that much about the Arabic Traditions.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏" The Arab man sings about the future, but is tied up in the past" what is the name of his book? How did your 3 years relationship impact you would you say ? Positive?
Khaled Nassra it’s the book عباد الشمس .
The relationship was positive. At the beginning we had some struggles and he treated me like I’m an Arab women ( I had to laugh, when in saw your video about Arab women). For example: I was just looking at a dress and he was like , I’ll buy you this. I don’t matter about material things and this was new for him 😄
@@lalaaa Khaled Nassra شكرا جزيلا لورا !! Did you read it in Arabic? You must be very good? متل البلبل
Omg😂😂 the example you mentioned is soooooo Arab 😂😂
Ps: did he buy it for you at the end? 🤔🤔
Khaled Nassra I read the book in German, but I wanted to give you the original title. Reading a whole book in Arabic is a lifetime challenge 😄
And no, he didn’t bought it , but I really had to fight. Of course during the relationship he bought me from time to time clothes and payed my coffee EVERY TIME 😂
@@lalaaa haha - how is your Arabic from 1 to 10? 🤔
I like the one who belong to "beyond arabic man"
Glad you liked it Judy
A very interesting video. Thank you.
You are very welcome 😊
Wow! This is a lot of information to digest in one day.
An American girl dated an Afghan men ,she thought that she can have girls night out when she came back home she ended up in the hospital with a broken jaw. Muslim men do not change . Even if you think they integrated they not.
Many they won’t change it is true. You need to be able to spot that right from the beginning not after your get married to him and he reveals his true mask
The is the most important Point??
Excellent posting, and thank you for making it.
Most of my experiences have been with double-standard Arab men. This is why I will not consider dating them in the future.
This is unfortunate as so many Arab men are quite attractive, intelligent, sensitive and are often in touch with their feminine side. All of these traits are so endearing!
However, the issues of over-controlling, sexism and extreme jealousy are absolute deal breakers.
Some Arab men initially present themselves as open-minded and flexible. In my experience these traits are not genuine, and fall away within a few months.
This is a terrible thing to say, but Arab men now scare me. A friend of mine, and also myself have been stalked by an Arab man.
But thank you so much for defining the four types you’ve identified, and explaining them so expertly.
My hope is that Arab men will see your video and do some deep soul-searching on their way to becoming the “beyond Arab” man.
Again, I send you thanks.
Thanks for your amazing comment
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod I want to learn Arabic!!!!
Very interesting, i am just chatting with one But have no experience with one.
I'm in a deep trouble...... I always end up with men who think of me as the top (standard) in the relationship, no matter how much older they're. It has always been like that for much longer I have started being in love. It doesn't bother me much but Is it okay?
حبيت افكارك كتير!
شكرا جزيلا ع التعليقك !! خبرني اذا عندك اي سوال؟
You are a good man. Thank you.
Totally awesome advice bravo
I need an Arab man. I’d love to stay home and take care of my husband, children and household.
Where can I meet you in person? You’re such an amazing person just based on what I see here. I’m not an Arab woman.
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod got it. You can delete comment now before you get tons of messages lol message you soon. Shokran jazilaan
Good point:)
Allah Allah
Thanks for kindly sharing to you 😊
Yes, some people come to our life where we never wait..never expect..some may come to our life just as a lesson..
Who knows ...maybe will meet later on mine 🤣
😂 I loved your classification
Good :)
I’m dating an Arabic man, during COVID it’s hard to get out and test if he’s the double standard kind? Are there any questions you suggest asking, I afraid I’m missing something.
I enjoyed this video
You help lot!!i wisy you the best!!
Khalil Gibran was greatly influenced by the Baha’is Faith. Lot’s of Moroccan/Algerian men have these qualities. Most likely due to their French influences.
It's definitely not the case with the ones living in France.
@@divanen what is your thoughts on those who live in France?
Love Khalil Gibran👌👌
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled To me and to most of the Arabs from the Middle East here, you are completely different from the Arabs of the Maghreb. I don't think you can be compared at all.
@@divanen thank you ❤
My husband is double standard man he admired me so much loved every single thing about me accepted me completely loved every single thing about me would compliment non stop he would show me off to everyone he loved everything about me from the beginning never wanted to change not one thing about me but then as soon as I flew over seas to him he married me as soon as possible and straight away he put me in hijab gloves and covered shoes covered clothes and expected me to from then on be a religious submissive covered wife ahh the longer were married the more rules are out upon me
Lovely shirt, it suits you well! 😝
Thank you! I wear it for the second time , should I wear it again ? Haha
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Being a huge fan of shirts myself, I can only say yes!! It gives a touch of elegance to the person. I want the woman version of it 🥺
@@divanen thank you :) are you saying my shirt is a woman shirt? 😝
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled Not at all haha! There is no gender for colours or motifs, you are beautiful in what you want to wear. I love men who dare to wear what other men don't 🙈
@@divanen oooh I love that 😳😂❣
The entire world needs to be like #4. Wars would end.
Yes! So true
My husband is one of the rare 1%😊. He is muslim from Tunisia and I am jewish from Germany😊 I love my Houssem❤.
You are a lucky woman then :)
Which faith your children will be?
Can someone answer me this? I’ve been dating an Algerian man for 6 months now. He says I’m “his girlfriend” but I don’t know much of his life. I asked him why I don’t know any of his friends. He said because they’re Arab man and is a cultural thing that they don’t introduce their girlfriends to each other. Is this true? Sometimes it feels like he’s hiding me from his life. Don’t get me wrong he goes out with me, I spent in his house almost 5 days a week. He met my family and some of my closest friends but it makes me wonder why he’s so secretive. Anyone can help me with this question?
Girl, run.
Hi girl... I just found your comment and let me tell you something... Honestly I advice to you dont date any arab man... Becoz after you fall in love with him he will just tell you he must listen to his family and marry a girl they want for him... And he will just dump you like no one else has done before 🙄 peace and love💓✌️
Hi there, girl I’ll tell you my experience with them. I dated an Algerian man for 6 months and since the first day we decided to be in a relationship he introduced me all his friends and that was annoying for me. Because I’m ours dates he always bring some of his friends. Well, I met only one Algerian and that was my experience. He was very nice person but we were not made for each other. Anyway I’m dating now with a man from Jordan and yes, he Also introduced me some of his friends but we never talk about been in a relationship yet. We are just like a month dating and he introduced me already 3 of his friends and 1 brother by phone and his 2 cousin in person. See that Ktyco that’s not a good signal.
I sent an email to omar about the comment competition to get my log in details but I still haven't had a reply :/
You will have by Friday...we just got busy last week. Don't worry :)
Hi hello thank u for all the tips 😊
You are welcome:)
Experienced no.3 😂😭💔
haha, tell me more? 🤔
My guy is #4 🥰 🇹🇳
Good:)
NassraArabicMethod I’m very lucky ❤️
Qabbani , the poet of women.
Yess!!! Have you read his poem?
@@Learnarabicwithkhaled i read some of them in Arabic. With dictionary of course.
Please, remind me the book you suggested for me. I have a basic, maybe more,knowledge of grammar and fusha, reading and writing . But very little ammiyya. You suggested one of your books. Please remind me of its title and maybe send me a link. I need to buy it and hopefully go to some Arabic country.
Thank you.
By the way, i dont know why people write Kahlil Gibran instead of Khalil ...کهلیل is wrong.
Right is خلیلِ
Are you based in London?
@@francisorih396 Love his work!! The book I suggested called Colloquial Levantine Arabic, here is the link Colloquial Levantine Arabic on Amazon www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1090461151/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_TfLgEbXHWJ62S
Let me know once you buy the book, so I can guide you through it.
Yes! I am based in London, what about you?
Im here because interested 😊
It’s sad that I dated an Arabic man who uses me for money.. he asked me a lot of times to buy him stuffs online on his PUBG account and he never ever buy things for me.. even not trying to buy anything at all... little things but he asked so much to buy him this that just because he knew I worked in US .. I was so stupid to even care for him.. he was not the provider but me.. he thought I pick up money for free and even if I said I’m too tired from work he kept asking for so many things ..
Sorry to hear your story!! Rule number 1# if a man ask you for money, get out immediately!! Check my new youtube channel: ruclips.net/video/Vr5QrFEARRE/видео.html it might help you to not get into this again
Your first mistake was giving a man money. WHY. Are you his mother?
Thank you.
You are welcome Francis, can you relate to the topic ? 🤔
I am a beyond Arabic Man, I had nevertgought about it and had never found a category that close,y fitted to what I represent in this world, I used to Say an Arab World Citizen. In fact I think what I think made Arabs great at what time was this type of thinking , it was forward, Arabs were word travelers they never rested on their laurels they liked to learn from others, they learned from science, math, technology and other things from other nations of the world. Many Arabs mixed with others nations today Arab families get upset if Arab children marry outside of the race. For example when I lived in Kenya the Swahili population in Black and Arab a beautiful mix of culture and tradition, my friend Said, living in Kenya would never be allowed to marry Black, my mother's family stopped my mother from entering my grandparents house because my father is half American Half German. Woth time my father paid the wedding of three of my aunts helped my grandmother 14 years economically, something my uncle would not do. Why be judgemental. My grandmother would say I was the most Arabic of her grandchildren (we are immigrants) the rest of my cousins except 1 were full Arabs, with time they found out that the favorite uncle that married into the family came from a Jewish family, too late that was after 3 children, even after that my father was still judged. My ther always told me he wished he could have learned Arabic when he was young when traveling America he would say this is my wife, she is Arabic and I am proud of her. My mother's family has nevermstopped being ashamed of my father. My father did win the respect of about 70% of the family unfortunately most of the direct family members never came around. I am proud to be like my 2 Arabic teachers in London😉
Well done!! One of the few!! You are a legend my friend!!
Well said Anthon!!!! You made a very good point here. If we look back in time. Arab used to be a travellers like #rumi #ibnkhaldoon and #al- khawarizmi. And the silk road made huge impact on our culture at the time.
Nowadays, people stopped travelling, borders are being created, traditions becomes our religion rather than the true meaning of The Qur'an. Yes! Now there are 3 of us :) we need more.
Please share the video with others so we can move forward with beyondArabman 👊👊
How could you categorized an egyptian man?
Look at their behaviours and then you will see which number
Hi I just met an Arabian Sunni man online. . He's younger than I am. 24 years younger. I'm American. He says he's Sunni. But he's very open in a way to learn about me, and he and me laugh together online about things but says I'm beutiful alot, and says he will have me and I will have him. He is very persistent. But I'm not sure about the serious Ness of his heart. Saying he loves me too soon is a red flag, any info. Will help. Not unless he is just lonely.
Agree with you!! Saying that " he loves you is too soon" try to test him with " what if scenarios..."
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod as in what? What if what? Examples please.. thank you.
Dont get caught up inna whirlwind where u fall too deep and he may or may not be genuine
Wanting a green card...Run
I am loved and accepted for myself. 🦋
🇺🇸🌍🤲🙏🌎❤🌏🕊
Now i think its time for me to let him go 😭
Do it
3!!!!
My syrien man is the third and the same time the fourth. Both.
الى اي صنف من الرجال تنسب بن لادن او البغدادي؟
انت ماذا تعتقد؟
@@learnarabicwithnassramethod
أظن الى مولع بدين الاسلام بشكل مجنون
I prefer a traditional Arab man.
I think Syrians are more open mind.
👍
Yior opinion for tunisian men??
Um, idk about that.
How do i know an arab man is just using me
V nice
Thank you romane! Let me know if you have an question regarding #datingarabman
I think this 4 types are all over the world........
Yes!! Agree with you. It is not only in arabic world. This stage is natural transformation for those who want to evolve. What do you think?
Yes! I think the problem for the human is the ego. We must learn to respect and to love the freedom....we don't belong to anyone! Man or woman
That is true! Men in the world have to learn to be fully honest of their intention when it comes to be in relationship and dating women! but the problem they don't have the courage to speak the truth! instead, they lies or create fake identity and all of that comes for the EGO!
Your topic should be the different types of men through out the world ...making Arab as specific not good idea...
Your topic should be the different types of men through out the world ...making Arab as specific not good idea...this is all around the world ...but it's better not to marry in a different cultures...
Khalid pal check your WhatsApp !
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Wtf?