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Made me cry. I have lived an adult life of chronic physical pain, which I’m sure is from repressed anger. Finally learning the tools I need to change that. ❤️
Hi Diane Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! Please check out our Inner Child video playlist as we have lots more helpful teachings on there: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RUclips Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ruclips.net/user/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
Im going through this right now. Broke me and my boyfriend up because my PTSD/inner child came out due to childhood trauma and mental abuse and was lashing out to him with anger and disrepect. I'm seeing a therapist to help me build skills and connect to my inner child. I am the mother to the child and talking to it that I tell it everything is going to be okay. It's not others who can help you through these attacks, it's me.
I'd like to share something here, regarding allowing the inner child to rage. I've done a lot of inner work and have grown a lot over the years, but last week I felt compelled to allow my inner child to finally rage as much as she wanted - in my mind, as I watched quietly and non-judgmentally. She hit "me" over the head with pots & pans, stabbed me, gouged out my eyes, beat me in an absolute livid rage over and over again, and I watched quietly and let her do it. She killed "me". I came back, she killed "me" again. I let her kill "me" again and again until she got it out. I did not judge, I watched and waited and supported and loved her. When she was done, I searched for what remained, as "I" was now annihilated. What was left? I asked. It felt like a kernel of light, a point of untouchable energy, a calm, loving point of light. We are most often taught that it's bad to "hurt yourself" and so I questioned the logic of allowing this to unfold as I did, but I feel that ends up making it continue unresolved, making the anger even worse as it's being pushed down and not allowed to express. Festering, if you like. I will make it clear here that I only mean in your mind to do this, as I have in my past actually self-harmed. This was done entirely in my mind while I sat calmly on the couch, and after many years of trying to "be kind" to myself by pushing away the rage and not allowing the inner child to express herself, I finally let her do what she wanted - in a safe way. The next day, I felt an entirely new sense of calm, of something falling off, the "me" that was killed was only the defensive exterior, not the real me. The real me is that kernel of light that I sensed, which cannot be harmed. I hope this is helpful for someone out there. All the love to you, you are awesome, it is true, and you also are the kernel of light that can't be extinguished or hurt. It is the center, what remains when the hurt and anger is cut away.
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This is beautiful. pure and raw, your words are poetry. a truly artistic expression of a very real and under represented human experience. Thank you for sharing. I believe that knowing of your experience will help me as I continue on and venture deeper into the dark and unknown corners of my inner realms where little me resides and hides and sabotages the present by starting fights and letting everybody know just how much I think I'm right.... Today was the first time I remember ever really wondering"why exactly am I so angry? Why have I always felt anger as a predominate emotion in my life and my go-to in so many situations that don't really call for it? I am ready to follow the line of questioning back through the branches and trunk of my rage down into the roots and face the truth of it. I am ready to be uncomfortable and let the pain's source come up and have its due expression and deserved attention so that all the repressed and lost fragments of my soul can come back home to reintegrate as gorgeous wisdom and strength and compassion which never could have been without their lesson. I especially appreciate you sharing your thought process and critical thinking in the resistance to "allowing" this very intense symbolic expression to continue because I think you have highlighted the very personal and intuitive nature of personal discovery and inner healing....so thank you. I am also glad to hear of your technique of visualization in a safe and comfortable place as I am seeing this as one of my greatest opportunities for an "interactive" healing session with my inner child and she has shown herself through a vision of a sort where I actually imagined her spontaneously appearing in my space and we both "ran into each other" and with some shocking delight shared our first encounter. Wow what a trip! But anyways. LOVE TO ALL OF THE CHILDREN IN THE WORLD AND IN OUR INNER WORLDS. They most closely reflect the divinity and purity and infinite potential of our humanity. When we heal our inner and outer children we will have reached our made it to our own heaven on earth.
@@grettamaeB You're so very welcome. I'm glad my story of this experience helped, that was my intention. You are the kernel of light. All the love to you!
I CRIED.... my inner child came out of hiding she stepped out of the corner when she heard you speaking, she felt so heard..& I cried for her and with her.....I am so affected...so emotional...& I THANK YOU ...G-d bless you
Again another superb teaching, I have witnessed so many abused children go out into adulthood so angry and tormented that they create an even bigger tornado and the cycle of trauma continues down the line until they decide to face the truth. It is such a huge life lesson, but as you say you can get through it and shine your true light x with love and gratitude to you both for sharing your wisdom with the world 💜🙏💜
After surviving two suicidal parents and other life changing traumatic situations this really helped me to try and get some of my life back together for myself. Thank you
I cried with this video so much. Especially in the part when you guys mention of the kid is giving you a tantrum you observe him and his energy eventually is going to ease down , and you keep saying “ I love you I love you” words that never came from my mother when I was upset. Beautiful teaching. Beautiful words. Thank you immensely for this wonderful teaching that have been life changing for me and many.
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Since ive discovered your channel, I started to imagine myself walking along a path that doesnt look too lovely. In fact its looking gloomy, muddy and brown. And I look to my right and tell myself, "observe your emotions, Abby". Observe the feeling of regret, of loss, of pain, of anger, disbelief, a person acting in a way I dont like. And then I look back at myself, slowly walking my path, telling myself that those emotions are not me. That I am filled with peace and love from God. And then I pray for surrender, acceptance and trust while imagining a greener, more beautiful place ahead. And im my morning routine, aside from writing down my fears and angers, I take moments to talk to my inner child and address specific fear or anger that I have written. I cried most times when I tell my inner child to trust me this time.. Your channel have helped me in leaps and bounds in understanding how to approach my healing. Thank you very much and God bless!
Awesome , I established my highly renowned international engineering career despite extreme bleeding almost each moments since my teen days.. Hope I would watch this 20 years back...Hope of ray to get and give more in rest of live..
We need more of this type of teaching in the world. The current trend is to put responsibility for our emotions on external things. "They triggered me, the invalidated me" etc. I wonder if this is part of the reason that depression and anxiety rates are increasing.
Hello, Great point! It's important to balance understanding external influences on our emotions with taking personal responsibility for our reactions. This self-awareness could indeed play a role in mental health trends. Let's keep the conversation going and encourage emotional growth and understanding. Thank you for your insightful comment! Kind regards, David.
This is an AMAZING teaching!!! It hit home to what I just watched my daughter go through. Absolutely AMAZING Teaching David n Alex!!! Thank you ever so much!!!
Hi @MarionFraser-de9dv, Thank you so much for your enthusiastic feedback! I'm thrilled to hear that the teaching resonated with you and was timely for what your daughter is experiencing. It's always our hope that our teachings can provide meaningful insights and practical guidance. Your words truly uplift and inspire us to keep sharing. Kind Regards, David
Hi @MarionFraser-de9dv, It's wonderful to hear that both you and your daughter find value in our teachings! Thank you for being part of our community and for your support. May you both continue to find guidance and strength in the wisdom shared. Kind Regards, David
I didn't realize how angry my inner child was. Because girls are not supposed to be angry. Girls are supposed to be sweet and quiet. I have no idea how to reparent my inner child on this
Thank you for this video, it explains so much and i’ve recently began my journey to breaking my self destructive patterns. My inner child is extremely angry and hurt and I am going to work through helping her release her anger and frustration at the world :)
You're so welcome! Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
If you don’t mind could you please answer these questions. 1. How do you know if the inner child is actually healed and that you didn’t escape feeling those feelings? 2. How do you know if the inner child is completely healed? 3. Do you need to feel rage, anger or guilty or tears rolling down, in order for the healing to happen/complete? 4. How do you emotionally support and shower the inner child with love & affection?
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Hello if I may ask some more questions. 1. Do you need to feel all those feelings in Question three in order to heal or can you heal without any of that? 2. Can you please share the information in RUclips? For those who don’t or use facebook or just have RUclips as the only social platform that they only use. If not, why does it have to be on that particular platform? Thanks for your reply by the way.
I related to this video a LOT, thank you! A question: How to create a suitable environment to talk with the inner child about this stuff? Cz emotionally it is really intense...
Hi Omar, This is a great question! (we will do a video on this :) ) First, remember that, you create the 'intense' emotion. We suggest a good time is when you would do a quiet meditation - so a time that is peaceful when you won't be interrupted. Also, you need to do this practice regularly - daily if you can as creating an 'environment' of consistency/continuity is important. We hope this helps! x
I am so sad and regretful about a decision I made when I was young concerning breaking up with a young man who loved me. For decades I have been denying and suppressing this regret and now it overwhelms me. I have had sleep problems for decades and I finally realize why. We both went our separate ways and my path involved many difficulties brought on by my own self will. I am trying to work with my inner child, to try to forgive myself, but I cannot seem to separate myself from the inner child, who is sad also, but very angry and unable to accept that the situation cannot be changed. I am 72 and would at least like to feel at peace with myself in the time I have left. I tried saying that I don’t know what would have happened if I had made a different decision, but that is not working. I feel like I’m stuck in a trap.
Hello Maureen, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Just what I need with the threat of quarantine I am soooooo angry, because I know I've already had it. But I feel the child dating someine to try and control me. I know that's where the work needs to be done. But I also think I'm entitled to e angry. ❤
Thank you so much I covered it till now I 've cried all the pains out and bring the baby girl to light to choose love companion and gratitude happiness 💖
i’m trying to process the anger. but its very difficult. there’s like a cage around it that my inner child wants nobody to get close to, not even myself. it just feels like a dull ache in my chest. i dont trust anybody n im always scared someone will hurt me. i’m trying to free myself from all of this, but the grudges i have against the world n some ppl drag me into a very negative space sometimes. this video is very helpful. the part about making sure they understand they’re the creator of their own emotions is so useful for me. i hadn’t considered that yet. because i know i understand that, but that version of me didn’t.
Thanks for your share. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. Love and work with you little girl she needs support and guidance. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
Hi Anthres Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! You may also find our other Inner Child videos helpful: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RUclips Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ruclips.net/user/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
I was only allowed to have one emotion. Please others only if I had any anger, I'd be called a name and given the silent treatment. I learned to shut up always and take care of My mothers needs in order to stay safe. And even then it didn't work. Now at 34 years old. I have so much hate and rage, sometimes I stay home because I'm scared of myself
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. Now you are beginning to understand you can start to make authentic changes to your life. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
There have been wonderful videos on anger, but I'm wondering about the manifestation of what can be called 'passive aggression'. Its quite subtle and seems a hidden anger , warped into seeming to be nice...but actually there is anger beneath, its not rage but also very destructive. Could you speak about that one day?
For my own reference, 24:10. OMG, Alex is describing me and my inner child..... why was this never taught to me in all my many, many years of psychotherapy?
Hi, It's incredible how these insights can resonate so deeply. Often, traditional approaches may not fully address the root causes or provide the clarity we need to understand our Shen spirit and inner child. It’s wonderful that you’re connecting with this wisdom now. If you’d like to explore this further with like-minded individuals, consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
I keep snapping at my 2year old, I hate myself for it. I don't want her to feel how I felt as a child, I was also shouted at, and it made me feel like rubbish. Unloved etc. I've grown up with mental health and addiction because of this. Why can't I stop shouting? X
Hi Marie I relate to your question completely. I have lived with mental health and addiction probs for decades due to my needs as a HSP not being met in childhood and a series of traumatic events which resulted. I had a lot of therapy, different meds, self-medication as an adult but it isn’t until now when my daughter is growing up (11 yrs old) that I have found wu wei and so much is starting to make sense about why I behave the way I do even though I sincerely and genuinely do not want to behave that way. I am just at the beginning of exploring golden threads and identifying the false thoughts and beliefs generated from certain events, that I have been living with for so long. But I feel a sense of revelation and hope in using this wu wei approach that I have not experienced with any other treatment I’ve received. So, I just wanted to encourage you to persist with thinking about why you can’t stop shouting and use the resources and life lessons that David and Alex have available to explore and help you understand what is happening and how you can resolve the turmoil and guilt you feel when you behave in ways that you know you don’t want to behave, whether it be using substances, shouting at your child or anything else. I feel like I knew how you felt when you wrote your comment/question and I just wanted to reply because you and your little one both deserve to find the answers and live lives of flow, contentedness and peace. Best of luck 💕
I love to hear you want to save your daughter💖You both deserve that, don’t let your past steal both your future.Educate her about your trauma, explain to her there is nothing wrong with her and that you are learning to gravitate on your love and not in your anger.In a way I did this with my daughter. There are more resources on INstagram that have helped me check the.holistic.psycologist dr.carolineleaf Ernestoparisi Createthelove and hope you don’t get your daughter meanwhile a step father.
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There are many ways of achieving this, shown in other comments. But the most important takeaway is that it must be an inwards approach! This reminds me of a wonderful personalized book i bought for one of of my children, the name is “How are you today?” From LionStory. The book explores the different new emotions w child might go through and help them handle them. It was created in collaboration with a child psychologist because raising emotionally intelligent children is one of the best things you can do as a parent. ❤️
GPT Hi @taniakee4219, You're welcome! I'm glad you found it grounding. Yes, we have guided meditations available that align with Wu Wei Wisdom's teachings. They are designed to support your Shen spirit and bring clarity and calm to your daily practice. Please check out our RUclips channel and website for these resources. If you have any specific needs, feel free to reach out. Kind Regards, David
Oh my goodness ❤I wish my siblings would give it a chance to hear it ❤but most of us not in speaking terms and few of them are resisting it ! All of us have a lot of anger issues and more than that we are not talking oh well I need a lot of help ❤
I kind of disagree. I totally stuffed my emotions and didn't accept my inner child. I locked her away. I was living for everyone else. I didn't exist as a person. So for me it is important to accept how my inner child feels. My parents growing up didn't validated me or allowe me to Express my emotions. So now if I am triggered they can be explosive. Since reparenting my inner child things have gotten better.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Yes, it does seem as though we have a different viewpoint. I would encourage you to ask your inner child what she thinks and believes rather than the feelings and emotions that she is creating. Thank you very much for considering the teachings. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
What if you can't remember what happened when you were aged 6-9? I'm 60. I can remember broad strokes but not specific incidents. Is it possible, or even necessary, to retrieve those memories without resorting to psychotherapy?
Thanks, this is a question I often get asked. You don't have to remember every incident at the start, when you start using the Golden Thread Process your inner child will reveal more. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
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Made me cry. I have lived an adult life of chronic physical pain, which I’m sure is from repressed anger. Finally learning the tools I need to change that. ❤️
Hi Diane
Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you!
Please check out our Inner Child video playlist as we have lots more helpful teachings on there: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq
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Try it dear the healing is amazing
Im going through this right now. Broke me and my boyfriend up because my PTSD/inner child came out due to childhood trauma and mental abuse and was lashing out to him with anger and disrepect. I'm seeing a therapist to help me build skills and connect to my inner child. I am the mother to the child and talking to it that I tell it everything is going to be okay. It's not others who can help you through these attacks, it's me.
I'd like to share something here, regarding allowing the inner child to rage. I've done a lot of inner work and have grown a lot over the years, but last week I felt compelled to allow my inner child to finally rage as much as she wanted - in my mind, as I watched quietly and non-judgmentally. She hit "me" over the head with pots & pans, stabbed me, gouged out my eyes, beat me in an absolute livid rage over and over again, and I watched quietly and let her do it. She killed "me". I came back, she killed "me" again. I let her kill "me" again and again until she got it out. I did not judge, I watched and waited and supported and loved her. When she was done, I searched for what remained, as "I" was now annihilated. What was left? I asked. It felt like a kernel of light, a point of untouchable energy, a calm, loving point of light. We are most often taught that it's bad to "hurt yourself" and so I questioned the logic of allowing this to unfold as I did, but I feel that ends up making it continue unresolved, making the anger even worse as it's being pushed down and not allowed to express. Festering, if you like. I will make it clear here that I only mean in your mind to do this, as I have in my past actually self-harmed. This was done entirely in my mind while I sat calmly on the couch, and after many years of trying to "be kind" to myself by pushing away the rage and not allowing the inner child to express herself, I finally let her do what she wanted - in a safe way. The next day, I felt an entirely new sense of calm, of something falling off, the "me" that was killed was only the defensive exterior, not the real me. The real me is that kernel of light that I sensed, which cannot be harmed. I hope this is helpful for someone out there. All the love to you, you are awesome, it is true, and you also are the kernel of light that can't be extinguished or hurt. It is the center, what remains when the hurt and anger is cut away.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest . As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Kind regards, David.
This is beautiful. pure and raw, your words are poetry. a truly artistic expression of a very real and under represented human experience. Thank you for sharing.
I believe that knowing of your experience will help me as I continue on and venture deeper into the dark and unknown corners of my inner realms where little me resides and hides and sabotages the present by starting fights and letting everybody know just how much I think I'm right.... Today was the first time I remember ever really wondering"why exactly am I so angry? Why have I always felt anger as a predominate emotion in my life and my go-to in so many situations that don't really call for it? I am ready to follow the line of questioning back through the branches and trunk of my rage down into the roots and face the truth of it. I am ready to be uncomfortable and let the pain's source come up and have its due expression and deserved attention so that all the repressed and lost fragments of my soul can come back home to reintegrate as gorgeous wisdom and strength and compassion which never could have been without their lesson.
I especially appreciate you sharing your thought process and critical thinking in the resistance to "allowing" this very intense symbolic expression to continue because I think you have highlighted the very personal and intuitive nature of personal discovery and inner healing....so thank you. I am also glad to hear of your technique of visualization in a safe and comfortable place as I am seeing this as one of my greatest opportunities for an "interactive" healing session with my inner child and she has shown herself through a vision of a sort where I actually imagined her spontaneously appearing in my space and we both "ran into each other" and with some shocking delight shared our first encounter. Wow what a trip!
But anyways. LOVE TO ALL OF THE CHILDREN IN THE WORLD AND IN OUR INNER WORLDS. They most closely reflect the divinity and purity and infinite potential of our humanity. When we heal our inner and outer children we will have reached our made it to our own heaven on earth.
@@grettamaeB You're so very welcome. I'm glad my story of this experience helped, that was my intention. You are the kernel of light. All the love to you!
I CRIED.... my inner child came out of hiding she stepped out of the corner when she heard you speaking, she felt so heard..& I cried for her and with her.....I am so affected...so emotional...& I THANK YOU ...G-d bless you
Again another superb teaching, I have witnessed so many abused children go out into adulthood so angry and tormented that they create an even bigger tornado and the cycle of trauma continues down the line until they decide to face the truth. It is such a huge life lesson, but as you say you can get through it and shine your true light x with love and gratitude to you both for sharing your wisdom with the world 💜🙏💜
Thank you for your heartfelt share and kind words Jacqui. We appreciate you. x
I guess that is what creates violence and murders, the anger going to far
After surviving two suicidal parents and other life changing traumatic situations this really helped me to try and get some of my life back together for myself. Thank you
Pleased it helped
I cried with this video so much. Especially in the part when you guys mention of the kid is giving you a tantrum you observe him and his energy eventually is going to ease down , and you keep saying “ I love you I love you” words that never came from my mother when I was upset. Beautiful teaching. Beautiful words. Thank you immensely for this wonderful teaching that have been life changing for me and many.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Since ive discovered your channel, I started to imagine myself walking along a path that doesnt look too lovely. In fact its looking gloomy, muddy and brown. And I look to my right and tell myself, "observe your emotions, Abby". Observe the feeling of regret, of loss, of pain, of anger, disbelief, a person acting in a way I dont like. And then I look back at myself, slowly walking my path, telling myself that those emotions are not me. That I am filled with peace and love from God. And then I pray for surrender, acceptance and trust while imagining a greener, more beautiful place ahead.
And im my morning routine, aside from writing down my fears and angers, I take moments to talk to my inner child and address specific fear or anger that I have written. I cried most times when I tell my inner child to trust me this time..
Your channel have helped me in leaps and bounds in understanding how to approach my healing. Thank you very much and God bless!
Awesome , I established my highly renowned international engineering career despite extreme bleeding almost each moments since my teen days.. Hope I would watch this 20 years back...Hope of ray to get and give more in rest of live..
We need more of this type of teaching in the world. The current trend is to put responsibility for our emotions on external things. "They triggered me, the invalidated me" etc. I wonder if this is part of the reason that depression and anxiety rates are increasing.
Hello, Great point! It's important to balance understanding external influences on our emotions with taking personal responsibility for our reactions. This self-awareness could indeed play a role in mental health trends. Let's keep the conversation going and encourage emotional growth and understanding. Thank you for your insightful comment! Kind regards, David.
This is an AMAZING teaching!!! It hit home to what I just watched my daughter go through.
Absolutely AMAZING Teaching David n Alex!!!
Thank you ever so much!!!
Hi @MarionFraser-de9dv,
Thank you so much for your enthusiastic feedback! I'm thrilled to hear that the teaching resonated with you and was timely for what your daughter is experiencing. It's always our hope that our teachings can provide meaningful insights and practical guidance. Your words truly uplift and inspire us to keep sharing.
Kind Regards,
David
A very powerful and profound explanation of the connection between psychological and spiritual self. You two are amazing!🌹
We're glad you enjoyed the video Terasa! Wishing you a beautiful week :) x
Happy 0202 2020! 💖
I cherish my Sunday mornings with Wu Wei Wisdom.
Wishing you an abundant week ahead Judith! x
My daughter also listens to you. So thankful!!!
Hi @MarionFraser-de9dv,
It's wonderful to hear that both you and your daughter find value in our teachings! Thank you for being part of our community and for your support. May you both continue to find guidance and strength in the wisdom shared.
Kind Regards,
David
I didn't realize how angry my inner child was. Because girls are not supposed to be angry. Girls are supposed to be sweet and quiet. I have no idea how to reparent my inner child on this
Thank you guys but more importantly I thank myself for giving myself this time
Thank you! #selfloverulestheday x
This helped me a lot thank you. I’ve always been told that I’m too sensitive like it’s a weakness.
Thank you for this video, it explains so much and i’ve recently began my journey to breaking my self destructive patterns. My inner child is extremely angry and hurt and I am going to work through helping her release her anger and frustration at the world :)
You're so welcome! Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Spirituality is my connecting to my savior Jesus Christ. He is the truth and the light and the only way. ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Happy good Sunday morning to you Wu Wei.
Excellent!
Thank you
Wishing you a peaceful week ahead! x
If you don’t mind could you please answer these questions.
1. How do you know if the inner child is actually healed and that you didn’t escape feeling those feelings?
2. How do you know if the inner child is completely healed?
3. Do you need to feel rage, anger or guilty or tears rolling down, in order for the healing to happen/complete?
4. How do you emotionally support and shower the inner child with love & affection?
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Hello if I may ask some more questions.
1. Do you need to feel all those feelings in Question three in order to heal or can you heal without any of that?
2. Can you please share the information in RUclips? For those who don’t or use facebook or just have RUclips as the only social platform that they only use. If not, why does it have to be on that particular platform? Thanks for your reply by the way.
I related to this video a LOT, thank you!
A question: How to create a suitable environment to talk with the inner child about this stuff? Cz emotionally it is really intense...
Hi Omar,
This is a great question! (we will do a video on this :) ) First, remember that, you create the 'intense' emotion. We suggest a good time is when you would do a quiet meditation - so a time that is peaceful when you won't be interrupted. Also, you need to do this practice regularly - daily if you can as creating an 'environment' of consistency/continuity is important. We hope this helps! x
I am so sad and regretful about a decision I made when I was young concerning breaking up with a young man who loved me. For decades I have been denying and suppressing this regret and now it overwhelms me. I have had sleep problems for decades and I finally realize why. We both went our separate ways and my path involved many difficulties brought on by my own self will. I am trying to work with my inner child, to try to forgive myself, but I cannot seem to separate myself from the inner child, who is sad also, but very angry and unable to accept that the situation cannot be changed. I am 72 and would at least like to feel at peace with myself in the time I have left. I tried saying that I don’t know what would have happened if I had made a different decision, but that is not working. I feel like I’m stuck in a trap.
Hello Maureen, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thankyou David and Alex , for this wonderful life lesson.. Very informative and helpful...xx ♥️
We're pleased to hear you enjoyed the video Denise! x
Just what I need with the threat of quarantine I am soooooo angry, because I know I've already had it. But I feel the child dating someine to try and control me. I know that's where the work needs to be done. But I also think I'm entitled to e angry. ❤
Thank you 💕
Great insight on our inner conflicts, I was about to give up; but you help me a lot to pursue my true identity.
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this is super brilliant stuff. many thanks.
Thank you so much I covered it till now I 've cried all the pains out and bring the baby girl to light to choose love companion and gratitude happiness 💖
i’m trying to process the anger. but its very difficult. there’s like a cage around it that my inner child wants nobody to get close to, not even myself. it just feels like a dull ache in my chest. i dont trust anybody n im always scared someone will hurt me. i’m trying to free myself from all of this, but the grudges i have against the world n some ppl drag me into a very negative space sometimes. this video is very helpful. the part about making sure they understand they’re the creator of their own emotions is so useful for me. i hadn’t considered that yet. because i know i understand that, but that version of me didn’t.
Thanks for your share. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. Love and work with you little girl she needs support and guidance. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
Amazing Video Really Wonderful that I Got You Guys Thank Your For Being there On RUclips 👍
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Alex + David x
I was only allowed to have one emotion. Please others only if I had any anger, I'd be called a name and given the silent treatment. I learned to shut up always and take care of My mothers needs in order to stay safe. And even then it didn't work. Now at 34 years old. I have so much hate and rage, sometimes I stay home because I'm scared of myself
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. Now you are beginning to understand you can start to make authentic changes to your life. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Yes please keep the 30minutes format 💝💫
There have been wonderful videos on anger, but I'm wondering about the manifestation of what can be called 'passive aggression'. Its quite subtle and seems a hidden anger , warped into seeming to be nice...but actually there is anger beneath, its not rage but also very destructive. Could you speak about that one day?
For my own reference, 24:10. OMG, Alex is describing me and my inner child..... why was this never taught to me in all my many, many years of psychotherapy?
Hi,
It's incredible how these insights can resonate so deeply. Often, traditional approaches may not fully address the root causes or provide the clarity we need to understand our Shen spirit and inner child. It’s wonderful that you’re connecting with this wisdom now.
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Kind Regards,
David
Thank you once again. Powerful!
I keep snapping at my 2year old, I hate myself for it. I don't want her to feel how I felt as a child, I was also shouted at, and it made me feel like rubbish. Unloved etc. I've grown up with mental health and addiction because of this. Why can't I stop shouting? X
Hi Marie I relate to your question completely. I have lived with mental health and addiction probs for decades due to my needs as a HSP not being met in childhood and a series of traumatic events which resulted. I had a lot of therapy, different meds, self-medication as an adult but it isn’t until now when my daughter is growing up (11 yrs old) that I have found wu wei and so much is starting to make sense about why I behave the way I do even though I sincerely and genuinely do not want to behave that way. I am just at the beginning of exploring golden threads and identifying the false thoughts and beliefs generated from certain events, that I have been living with for so long. But I feel a sense of revelation and hope in using this wu wei approach that I have not experienced with any other treatment I’ve received. So, I just wanted to encourage you to persist with thinking about why you can’t stop shouting and use the resources and life lessons that David and Alex have available to explore and help you understand what is happening and how you can resolve the turmoil and guilt you feel when you behave in ways that you know you don’t want to behave, whether it be using substances, shouting at your child or anything else. I feel like I knew how you felt when you wrote your comment/question and I just wanted to reply because you and your little one both deserve to find the answers and live lives of flow, contentedness and peace. Best of luck 💕
I love to hear you want to save your daughter💖You both deserve that, don’t let your past steal both your future.Educate her about your trauma, explain to her there is nothing wrong with her and that you are learning to gravitate on your love and not in your anger.In a way I did this with my daughter. There are more resources on INstagram that have helped me check the.holistic.psycologist dr.carolineleaf Ernestoparisi Createthelove and hope you don’t get your daughter meanwhile a step father.
Thank you David it helped me
Hello Zahra, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
There are many ways of achieving this, shown in other comments. But the most important takeaway is that it must be an inwards approach! This reminds me of a wonderful personalized book i bought for one of of my children, the name is “How are you today?” From LionStory. The book explores the different new emotions w child might go through and help them handle them. It was created in collaboration with a child psychologist because raising emotionally intelligent children is one of the best things you can do as a parent. ❤️
okay I will start following the golden thread when my anger issues come up. Thank You!
Thanks very grounding! Do you guys have meditations ?
GPT
Hi @taniakee4219,
You're welcome! I'm glad you found it grounding. Yes, we have guided meditations available that align with Wu Wei Wisdom's teachings. They are designed to support your Shen spirit and bring clarity and calm to your daily practice. Please check out our RUclips channel and website for these resources. If you have any specific needs, feel free to reach out.
Kind Regards,
David
Love this discussion!
Thank you kindly.
Oh my goodness ❤I wish my siblings would give it a chance to hear it ❤but most of us not in speaking terms and few of them are resisting it ! All of us have a lot of anger issues and more than that we are not talking oh well I need a lot of help ❤
Thanks again Meaza, Kind regards, David.
I kind of disagree. I totally stuffed my emotions and didn't accept my inner child. I locked her away. I was living for everyone else. I didn't exist as a person. So for me it is important to accept how my inner child feels. My parents growing up didn't validated me or allowe me to Express my emotions. So now if I am triggered they can be explosive. Since reparenting my inner child things have gotten better.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Yes, it does seem as though we have a different viewpoint. I would encourage you to ask your inner child what she thinks and believes rather than the feelings and emotions that she is creating. Thank you very much for considering the teachings. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I HATE MY FATHER VERY MUCH
What if you can't remember what happened when you were aged 6-9? I'm 60. I can remember broad strokes but not specific incidents. Is it possible, or even necessary, to retrieve those memories without resorting to psychotherapy?
Thanks, this is a question I often get asked. You don't have to remember every incident at the start, when you start using the Golden Thread Process your inner child will reveal more. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
Thank you 🥺🥺🖤
You’re welcome 😊 Kind regards, David.
Thank you
You're welcome. Kind regards, David.
33:31 video timing
Yep. Have a birth defect and people do stare and treat you crap.
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