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Conversations with Kanwal S1 | Episode 7 | Colorism
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- Опубликовано: 8 июн 2019
- Raised in a society where dark skin is looked down upon, Ainee tells Kanwal how her journey taught her that lovely comes in more shades than just one.
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My baby girl is dark skinned . I have heard 100 comments and suggestions on how to make her fair. And she is just 9 months old. This empowers me to empower her.thanks kanwal
Apni baby ko qabil banana km se km apne nazar me wo uper uthegi...Yhi kamyabi hogi aapki aur uski best of luck
@@jaya_0924 kya baat kahi Apne. Me yaad rakhungy
@rekha dahiya ji Sahi kaha apne
Sharon Sam
I saw your comment your baby will grow and look very different when she grows up with conference.
So create a beautiful thought for her.
She does not grow up without confidence and love she deserves.
I have a daughter who is dark and very confident everyone loves her.
Babies Change colour once she gonnna be young will be beautiful , jwaani husan ke saaath aaaati hai so fikar Mat kro
These few minutes are a slap to Fair and Lovely Creams.
Exactly
Agree
Fairness cream add should b banned..
Haha nice one
Good one 👌
I love how a sweet compliment by her husband changed her entire perception about everything.
Right ✔️
Dave 1977 are you normal?
After she got married to a handsome guy all her relatives, who were pressuring her dad, got a tight slap on their faces for their small thinking
True...😂😂
True
@Sushrita Chakraborty
Yes. You are right. Because handsome looking men think very high of themselves....and will definitely cheat....i have seen this.
Yeah kia bat hui. Larkian yeah chahti hen k Unka rang koi na puche but chahiye unko bhi handsome shohar. This is so unfair. I wonder how her family would have responded to a bald fat boy of short height.
@@maasoomahabdul8872 exactly
I remember when my friends mother got a call from one of the rishta aunty. She asked her the very same question 'Apki beti ka rung kaisa hai?' and her reply was really beautiful 'Bilkul apki beti jaisa'. That's is the right way to deal with such people!
😂👏👏👏
Hahahahaha
👏👏👏👏
What a classy reply!
Wow perfect 😍
Her husband is a gentleman and obviously she's so strong. ❤
Wtf is society upto. She has beautiful skin and glowing face.
I thought it's enactment
The society is upto glow and beauty like you ... Glow doesn't matter and beautiful presence doesn't matter ... Kisi ko glow na bhi ho to kia frq parta hao goray honay say ya kalay honay say kia farq parta hai
The society is now up to fairness injection
👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
You are lucky in your society sab girls Badsurat hoti hain or sab k 5-5 6-6 boyfriend hote hain. Yahan things are different.
She is so beautiful with nice sharp features. I wish I could look like her
Just when she said “ what’s been instilled in you since childhood takes time to go away “ it hit me hard.
maya shoaib same to same behen
:)
Just shows how her husband was beautifully brought up with real values of life
@Dave 1977 here we go again.
Hats off kanwal .... appreciation from India 🇮🇳
I recalled my entire story with u today.... mine was the same case...i m dark skinned..but alhumdulillah i got a handsome hubby who is the best in the entire family
Allahumma barik sister ❤☺
This is why I respect few actresses like Kangna , sai pallavi who refused to endorse fairness creams.
And done their own face whitening treatment..?
@@et1555 it's not about the natural beauty n all. People in India are obsessed with white colour so much that. They can't tolerate a woman colour to be dusky or brown. They just need a white skin.. that's it. You might have idea how many of dusky n dark actresses in India have gone through this skin whitening treatment.. just to look white
Sai pallavi is a doctor
Kangana is a psycho b****!!
@@0oldisbest Kangana is Shadow of Rani Laxmi Bai.
My daughter is wheatish skin tone and my mother in-law just came from Pakistan to visit us and she herself is dark skin tone and what she said to me in front of my daughter left me in shock.. she told me I just use brightening cream on my daughter so she look reasonable.. my husband was there too and he asked me what she said and I told him ... and I’m so proud of my husband he said to his mom my daughter is beautiful the way she is and skin tone doesn’t matter .. what matters is what you are as human ❤️❤️❤️and fell in love with him all over again
The story of almost every girl!😓
It's literally not the story of every girl. Majority of Pakistani people are light skinned.
@@khanmaida ummm..you meant it wrong..I was tryna convey that every other girl is facing rejection.. weather it's on the basis of skin color or physical or facial appearance..
@Dave 1977 haha.. Though I never said that..but now you will judge beauty by skin color?Slow claps! That's what I can expect from people like you!And ya! I didn't ask for an example..or your opinion..you don't have a right to blaspheme our religion..Shame!
Exactly😢
Please interview her husband too...the real hero of the story who brings back the new light in many ones life.
True he must be interviewed
Trueee he should be interviewed too
Absolutely true comment
Hello Annie,
I am also Annie and extremely fair skinned, itna k people around me would make fun of me for being this 'white'. Believe me the moment i saw you (i didn't know what the episode was about) but when i saw you at the start of this video i thought to myself, Wow what even toned skin and what beautiful features. MashaAllah.
Thankyou so much ainee :)
@@aineeshakeel7341 Happy married life Api 😀
@@aineeshakeel7341 you are pretty but your style of thinking and speaking just awesome
@@aineeshakeel7341 Ainee you are so attractive and confident lady.proud of you
We women need to groom our sons to understand whats more important and that’s what lies within a person not the exterior!
Its not just sons, I feel n it's bitter truth that it's mother's and ladies of our society who always wants their daughter in laws very fair slim girls xd.. so yeh it's not just sons..
Exactly that mindset comes from home especially parents
Dave 1977 i don’t find fair people as attractive as dark skinned and its okay to have a personal preference, not okay to standardise beauty with a specific colour
Dave 1977 the colour and contnets of the brain is same regardless of the skin colour, and science today is enough to prove that today, no one is superior in this world, if there was then he’d be still alive! Everyone has tasted death and every one will, that fact is enough to explain no one is superior
In todays time,being a so called"dark skinned girl"myself how much a women degrade nd torment another women is far imagination,i have a bf who is very fair skin comparison to me,he accept me as the way i m ....he says me i m the most beautiful grl fr him😂,nd no matter wht ,he dont give a fuck to people judmentings....bt another phase is tht my so called frnd ,cousin nd yess masi ,she always comment me on my skin tone,nd says tht i should focus more on looking beautiful rather than making my future,otherwise my inlaws nd husband will leave me if i will nt listen them,she even say tht dark skinn grl need to lower her voice as nobody gonna entertain her nd many more rude comments made by so called women nd girls(i m nt refering all women,bt 60% of them are like these,who lives in big castles made by their husband nd watch there indian stupid drama nd build a imagination fr their sanskari bahu who should be gori,lambi,sankari ).....men ,son inherit the qualities frm there family nd parents especially mother,bt if mother itself is retarded,dark soul wht she gonna teach him....its the women who need to beautify her soul coz we women are base in building this world
Yesterday I went into an Indian Beauty salon and I kept getting pressured to use bleach on my face and get an anti-tanning facial. I told her off by saying that I apply tanning lotion 🤷🏽♀️
How beautiful the conversation is....Kindly tell Annie she is very pretty ...beautiful than Life
Yeh
See really is so pretty. God bless her.
@Dave 1977 lol on your whole existence!
@Dave 1977 the same comment everywhere god your vocabulary is zero.
@sher uppal thankyou
Beautiful mind weds a Beautiful Soul . Loved it .😘😘😘
Indeed
Her looks are also beautiful💖
So needed and so relatable. Thank you Ainee ,lots of Duas and bless you Kanwal.
@Dave 1977 God u are so persistent.
I’m 28 fair skinned and still single
It is not about being fair or dark
It is about right person and right time.
Same here and you're right 😊
@Dave 1977 That's nice. Shall we connect on facebook to get to know each other better? We'll see how it goes
@Dave 1977 That's fine I can't meet you
@Dave 1977 hahahahahh milnayy ajao bs , if you want to marry her , take her address and send your parents to her home or at least a phone call , it works alott
@Dave 1977 Then 21st century pseudo American sign up for facebook , whattsapp or any social media handle to properly approach her.😝
I am in tears..... thank you for these interviews. Lots of love and respect from India.
I m also dark and my classmates called me west indies ki chocolate and it hurts and they call me names like kaali masi and kaali kalonji and it goes on and on
And in school there was a skit jis m mjhe Dulhan bn na tha but becoz of my kala rang unho ny mjhe dulhan ki dost bna dea side m
But mere bhen bhai b mjhe kaali bolte the or mera self confidence bilkul khtm hogya tha
Now I am 22 years old and I dont give a shit to people opinion, I know logon ka kam srf bolna he
People throws their words as a red cloth on me as I m a cow who will respond to their bullshits
I m happy now but deep down when ever I think about these nasty words it wrench my heart :) but I m surviving and i know I hv to to deal more of negativity for my rishta too :)
Sister jo koi apkp just complexion ki waja sa reject kare a God forbid aesa na ho tou app aesi cheap aunty ko yeh must bolna k aunty apko gori beti ka naseeb b gora ho ga yeh zaichaaa nikalwa liya app na
Trust me complexion sa shadi ya life successful nahi hoti meri behan fair comlexion ki the she married twice aor dono baar usko useless ghatiya log mila jinho ma life khrab ki uski soo gora rung is not a symbol of successful life its all luck that matters
@@maryamnazir512 thank you so kuch for your words sister , yes I totally believed its luck tht all matters
I dont want to get married at least right now but every morning my mom starts her lecture about jldi shadi krdun tmhari ta k hm log ko life m sukoon aye and when I listen all this it hurts esp when ur mom says all this and when I told mom that colour doesn't matter her reply is "tm kaali ho to accept kro is bt ko or log jo b bolein k kaali etc etc to bolo k han hun mein "
I m totally shattered right now
Not a day pass when I didnt cry
I only hv left 2 years for my graduation and right after graduation I hv to marry anyone chahy koe b ho jo b ghr vly bolein un se krni hogi ta k sb ghr ka bojh km ho :)
@@Dromaimakhan I know it is extremely difficult to live a life with taunts everywhere.and self esteem just becomes zero.but believe me you will definitely live a very happy life.answer them who degrades you and demotivated you! It will guide you the right direction of life🙂🙂😊
so rightly said that THE MOST TOXIC PEOPLE IN LIFE, ARE SOMETIMES DISGUISED AS FAMILY AND FRIENDS
We face the same thing in India, people are obsessed with fair skin
Hangover of the British Raj.
So relatable on so many levels. Color doesn't define a person! We've started considering "white" "fair" as the epitome of beauty!!
@Dave 1977 seriously man
When I was in matric I heard so many words about my complexion from the people around me. When I started my bachelor's life I went to many salons to change myself. I always wanted to change my hair color in to some blonde shade but every time parlour wali aunties started taunting me that your complexion is not fair this hair dye won't suit you. They always suggest me there creams to become fairer. And now I ended up being a beautician and running my own salon. Whenever a girl come in my salon and wanted to look fairer, I suggest them to love their own skin color and tell them that they are beautiful in their own skin color. We can just enhance the beauty nothing else.
Seriously ye meri story hy.mery hubi is soooo handsm nd m dark skin color complextion.but mery hubi ny mjhy dunia c larna usko face krna sikhaya hy.un k liye mai sb c haseen lrki hn.or jb c meri betiyan hoi hn tb c he loves me more cz wo byhad haseen hn mashaAllah.nd he said enka husan maa py hy bilkul.i luv u my dear husband ur my faith bless u.
Finally koi esa show aya hay jismein seekhne ka bohothhhh hay! Thank you kanwal and the creators of the show🙏
She got very crystal clear skin. So beautiful 💖
Reminded me of ninth grade. I went to the academy with my cousin who is Mashallah very very beautiful and I on the other hand am quite average looking. And once our teacher said to my cousin in front of me and everyone else "tum apne sath apna nazar battu bhe laati ho". it's been almost 10 years now but I can still feel the pain and embarrassment I felt that day. keep breaking these stigmas kanwal. May Allah bless you with all that you desire and more. you're truly an inspiration💕
You are beautiful. Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not true. You are NOT average - there is something stunning about your face - maybe your eyes, maybe your nose, maybe your face cut. Look again.
Yeah!!!!
Kanwal is back, thank you for the video....
Again an inspirational one!
And yess such guys exist 😊😍 🤗
And you're so so so beautiful❤❤❤❤
Very nice initiative Kanwal, you're spreading good message through your videos, Love n blessings form India 🇮🇳
Finally yar ! Vo kehte h na sabar ka phal meetha hota h isi tarah aapke encouraging motivating videos 😇 Jazakallah
When we educate our girls, support them to be become financially independent and raise them to feel they are equals in every, we will destroy all these unnecessary pressures and burdens we put on our daughters. Society will change for the better.
@Dave 1977 what is wrong with you? Replying to every positive comment here?
Exactly! Very well said, Sarah!
This channel is worth watching. I won't say these type of stories are only depicted through your platform but the way you portrait the life experiences of the people is so pure, genuine and to the point. KEEP THE WORK UP🍀🙏🏿 and love to you❤️ 🍀
Till the shaadi story came up, I thought she was narrating my story. My Gosh. The pressure of color. For me "saaf" rangat term was also used. K saaf Hai. Saaf is something like somewhere between sanwali and gori.
@Dave 1977 lmao man the fact that u are writing this under every comment is lowkey making me laugh.You really are pathetic and need help asap.
Kanwal you're doing an amazing thing. I swear. These topics have never been talked about in our society. So so proud of you
hats of to these sort of brave ladies who feel completely comfortable in sharing each and every bad part of their life💓
Amazing work! Love for you & your genuine efforts. The people you interview are actually the real pillars of society and humanity.
Stay blessed, much love!
She has a very great life partner after a long tension😍happy ending alhumdulila 👏👏👏
@Dave 1977 yes
Awwww what a great man. All my respect to him. Bless u both
Dave 1977 yeah right but one should stay happy the way God made.
Inspiring story. Thank you Annie for sharing and thumbs up for kanwal. ❤
I got tears after seeing this interview
Zaberdast kanwal..
Kudos to all the brave women who have shared their story in each episode and the amazing team behind this show. Looking forward for more :)
Wow, amazing. After watching these stories you feel something, somewhere they are your own life events. Hats off kanwal
I was so eagerly waiting for this video😊😊
Me too
Such amazing content, and so much of inspiration, may God bless her and her husband ♥️
The story relates my life..I m huge fan of Kanwal conversation..You guys are doing amazing work to sharing this kind of serious matter of women lives..As a woman,I am also facing this problem..Thanks you people..doing appreciating work for society..eager waiting for your next video..My all love and Duas for you guys..
Truly inspiring.....
Seriously dunya ko kahee chain nahi milta...
Be happy with what u are...
U are the best version of urself
This is the video after listening to there conversation soon i got goosebumps ....
Matlab duniya me aise bhi bande hote hain jo hum jaisi ladkiyun ki feelings ko samjh jate hain❤
She's Beautiful, people in west die to get that beautiful colour and with us we have this obsession with Gora rng! Allah help us all!
Every single one of YOU out there are gorgeous MashaAllah Allah made you all differently and unique is Beautiful YOU IS BEAUTIFUL ❤
So sweet
I was bullied for my dark skin in fourth class and it still affects me now. Sometimes I have a wish to bleach my skin
Same with me, My relatives force me a lot for this thing.
Ufff damn the way girl is telling each and everything with such confidence beyond any feelings touched my soul 💖💖💖💖💖💖 more power to u kanwal💖
Yaar i got tears 😭 Salute to your lovely Handsome. Unko bhi dikhaty ❤
This is so true and I just had tears in my eyes.😢
Epic one
😍😍😍
I have found my cup of positivity and inspiration for my day
....i mean your channel.Thank you for such an inspirational content.❤
The way she narrated he story was amazing. Good job kanwal for bringing this into light.
The story is so beautiful.. It made me tear up.. May Allah bless her with lots of happiness and love
i've faced this, thank you so much for this. We need more conversation on this topic:)
Aneeqa don't care abt others ,,, whn thy insult u ,,, u also do 10 times worser thn him,,, thn will not dare again to do tht
@Dave 1977 lol funny you say that because sure I'm dark but literally everywhere I go people tell me I'm very pretty. Also, who are you to comment such shit?
@Dave 1977 excuse me asshole stop spreading hate and please find facts before u comment stuff like this.this story is narrated differently by different scholars since it ia history we don't even know what exactly took place.it's 2019 Dave change your damn mindset. Judging a whole fucking race cuz their muslim is sick.There are good and bad people everywhere in all races.
@Dave 1977 at least he had fun..what r u doin with ur life..tryin to get a girl on comment section of a video on girls problem...lolz..may be u r gay u dnt know yet..come out dear with ur finger in ur ass as u cant find anyone in USA ..calling urself the best catch for innocent girls...hahaha on ur existence u superior aryan from cult culture of inferiors of European residue..🖕this for ass.
@Dave 1977 he had fun n u have none...except ur own hand🤜🤛🖕👌
Bohot wait Kar rahi ti... Finally episd upld hua... 🙏
Color adds soooo much depth to the features. All the best sketches have sooo many different shades of color. I have been soo attracted to dark skin these days and I have pinned it to the fact that darkness adds more beauty to the already beautiful features any human being has. That’s what I see in her. She is soo attractive and her color definitely adds to that.
Remember that everyone is beautiful in their own way..
Absolutely love this interview. It's made me feel better about my own flaws. Ty x
She is so gorgeous..😍
This is worthy to watch...loving it from the core of my heart..great effort by Mam kanwal in bringing such amazing & positive stuff!!!!
Another utterly mind-blowing story highlighting one of the core issues of our society and upbringing. Ma Shaa Allah ur husband!! May Allah bless this pair with utmost love, bliss, peace and ease, and guidance at every step of their beautiful lives, Ameen!
I have faced this issue in my childhood.Every body used to tease me .
But now i have realized that every skin color is beautiful and I am proud of my skin tone🙂..
Thanks for this episode.love from India
Respect ....love ....and bunch of wishes for you kanwal👏👏
This is beautiful! I loved this episode ❤
Zbrdst...i m pathan ye chez yhan zyada hoti even k families mai agr sanwla rang bhe ho to usko humesha kam smjha jata ...jst love ur story...always be happy sistr..nd thankyou so much kanwal...u r love...❤
Actresses like Sajal Ali endorse fair and lovely quite openly and the fact that there is no shame attached to it, speaks volumes about the fixation with fairness that many people have here. It's not dark people who want to be fair themselves. Most of them appreciate their skin tone and rightfully so. It's lighter skinned people who say that they are beautiful while people from darker regions aren't. Not only is that inaccurate, it's demeaning and insensitive as well. Half of my family is extremely light skinned while the other half is dusky. Throughout my school life, my class fellows and even seniors used to ask if I was a Pashtun. They honestly believe that you can't be a dark Pashtun or a light skinned Punjabi or Sindhi. People come in all colors and sizes and we're all beautiful in our own unique way. Don't put someone else down to lift yourself up. There is no singular type of beauty in our world. If you cannot see beauty in anyone based on the color of their skin, then you're not blessed with the eye to appreciate the diversity in beauty that God has blessed us with.
Was waiting for an upload! I recently discovered your channel and I'm in love with it. ❤❤
The only vedio i was waiting for so long ! Best youtube channel ❤️
I'm so happy that you're back!
Can totally relate to you annie.m the eldest among four sisters.i have had so much struggle with my skin tone my entire teenage n childhood.i was depresse n at low at confidence but now i embrace my skin tone
I must say that I wish I had her skin it's beautiful honestly it's glowing and even all over MaShaAllah
There is a saying *Seerat ka to sirf rona rote hein, asal baat to shakal dekh k shuru ki jaati hai*
Wonderful episode..!!
i am also going through all these thing
Like my looks.. my weight.. my complexion...
I am feeling positive right now..
Thank u kanwal
All your episodes are amazing
Love from INDIA.😍💞
This is so beautiful. This is very relatable. I absolutely loves your videos. They are so positive and mind opening. Great work. ❤❤❤
Welcome back
Love from India...
Loved it keep it up kanwal can't wait for the next episode.
Girl you are doing amazing job..! every time your videos just blows my mind.
THANK YOU SIS ❤
Ap bht acha kam kr rhi hn apki videos dekh k 1 inspiration milti h k dunia mn esy log b h jo itna hosla dyny Waly or complex sy nikalny waly hn. Apki hr video sy seekhny ko milta h. Keep it up
Sab m ek acchai hoti hai , jaruri nhi gora hona ,mai bhi sawli hu , logo k comments bhout jhele hai mene but mai khus hu khud m , kbhi kbhi bura lagta hai kuch zyada he khud ko lekar , kuoki ab Meri shadi ki baat ho rhi hai , mai sochti hu koi mujhe ku psnd karega mujhe dekh kar , but mene ye chiz ache se accept ki h ab , koi ho ya na ho mujhe psnd karne Wala but I love myself 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Jo aap k liye bana hoga wo aap ko zarur pasand karay ga.. You are beautiful in your own way girl.. 😍😍😍😘😘
❤️❤️
I am also belong to same society but I got fair skin but I don't feel proud or happy...because most of the people or majority of the people love me just bcz my skin is fair they respect me and my father just bcz fair skin....sometimes my own color depress me and I roam around people but I don't feel happy bcz I know the truth they love me bcz of my fair skin....its heartbreaking sister I know very well
Thankyou for sharing just a video .....ppl really need to understand complexion a gift which every1 should be thankful and at d same time accept it and love as u r ...
I love your videos .....
Look at her flawless skin ❤️stay happy beautiful girl.
Finally you are back didu, 🤩
I do agree, ye false standards se ab aagay barh jana chaiye..
I have learnt from my experience that , 'Love yourself first'.
I don't know how to thank Kanwal for such amazing work.😍😍❤
Amazing! I am happy she found a gud man in her life.. Who knws there is nothing in being gora or kala.. Ye sb khud k bnaye huwey standards hain. & Thank u kanwal for promiting humanity❤. More power to you
Got goosebumps ❤️
she is always deserving nd especially for her husband 😍
Wow that was emotional
Ap ny bht sbr kiya logo ki bty suni tb hi apko apky sbr ka phl mila or logo k mu pr tmacha bja💜
Ahhh Amazing ❤️ 😍 all i have to say is Thank you Kanwal to raise these kind of issues ❣️
What a confident lady.. superb🤗😍 and ms.kanwal how may times I have to say thank you to you.. Every time you come up with such beautiful n inspiring story. 😘😘 Would like to meet you one day.. Lots of love from India🇮🇳😘
Aap bhot achha Kam KR rhi ho.love from India
#VillagelifewithMegha
Thanks alot for making these episodes.. our society needs to learn some basic moral values!!.. hats off to you Kanwal💖
Bahut acha laga ..! Happy afte watching dis video...!