Hi dear kanwal your RUclips channel is growing fast ma Sha Allah..which is great... I have one complaint I don't know whether you will consider it or not but still I didn't know on which medium I should apraoch you and let you know about this matter... Few days back I joined your page soul sisters and I was so happy to be a part of that group... I participated too by sharing thoughts and giving best advices as much as I could... Then one day... Someone posted... Anonymous post but didn't hide the ID of that person I just noticed and shared my thoughts in comments that not to share the ID of the person if specially someone requested not to show it... And Danggg... Next day your admin or you I don't know removed me from the group... Now I never want to join that group.. Because I felt really bad for the act which was truly justified but still got removed from the group... Just one thing I want to share always use your powers for the justice not to defend yourself even for wrong reasons... That's it..
And that's why parents should trust their children make it easier for them to share something like this. I'm glad she's safe! Something alot worse could've happened in a situation like this. May Allah protect us.
i am a victim of cyber harrasment too. but my family was so supporting in those hard times. they did not doubt on me Alhamdulillah. and my father took a strict action towards that guy.
When she said about that part where he was standing right in front of her in that dark place..my heart literally skipped a beat 😰 Thank God she was able to run away.. Anything could've happened that night!... Stay safe ladies!!
Same thing happened with me. One of my jealous friend gave my number to a lot of boys. Random dirty msgs through out the night. I tried to handle it by myself. Didn't work out. Told my mom. She didn't believe me. My sisters provoked her to stop me from going to university. Spent 4 years like hell during my graduation. I used to pray very hard to get my honor back in front of my family. Ultimately Allah gave me my grace back a year ago. Bhar walo k shar se phr bh bcha ja skta hai Lekin jo apny ghr k dushman hon barbad krny mai ksr nh chorty
@Mahnoor Awan what my friend did to me I accepted it as a fate. But my own sister who was 11 month younger than me made my life hell by making my parents believe that I've become a slut. I didn't believe at first that my sister did this. But, even Quran teaches us to ask Allah's shelter from hasids. I swore to Quran multiple times to prove my innocence. But she convinced everyone at home that I took false oaths. Neither did she respect our relationship as sisters nor the Quran. I'm at peace now but I wonder when Allah will make her go through mukafat e aml.
It's extremely important for a child to have a cordial relationship with his or her parents and I believe that parents should give a sense of confidence to their children from their side, so that when a child shares something with them, they DO NOT blame the child for it ( "Tum ne hi kuch kiya hoga" ). It takes a lot of courage for a child to share what has happened. Listening is as important as taking an action. I'm blessed to have a mother with whom I can speak my heart out! Thank you for sharing this, this makes me appreciate my mother even more.
She's speaking so fast you can see how scared she is. She probably just wants the interview to end as fast as it can. It must be such a scary thing to go through and recollect and narrate the whole thing. But she's such a brave girl to come forward and share her story... going through all that and coming out of the trauma...I admire your spirit girl.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Kudos to you. Kudos to kanwal.
2 years ago my best friend did the same to me , she made a fake id with fake name and put my pictures there to talk to other men . I caught her but she beg for forgiveness so I didn't told my parents she deleted everything and after that day I didn't contact her . This incident made me so frightened that I don't make friends now I literally have trust issues.
I am 17 years old and also a victim of cyber harrasment twice in my life! And i know how it feels to be cyberlly harrassed ! 😔 And i didn't find solution yet ! These type of issues can't be share with anyone because people can"t understand .
First of all i don't know who is the person behind all this ..and i don't doubt any specific person and i share this matter with my parents and family but in the end all they can do is to support me .. they can't do anything like me ! I have been experiencing this from 2016 and now i am so tired ! After every year i got an issue in my social media Id and i make a new accouny but now i am sick of all this
I am a college going student and don't have any personal issues with anyone i don't remember if i have done anything bad to anyone .. whenever i make any new Id wheter its instagram or facebook i started to receive unknown messages and when i ignore them someone starts texting messages from my Id and i became so surprised that how they get my password everytim
Dw girl!!! There are ways u can protect ur accounts so that if someone else tries to open your account somewhere else , you'll be notified. Insta, fb, gmail these apps have two way verification.
It's soo soo important. Generation gap. Shama said right generation gap ki wajah say koi open hi nahi ho pata Apne parents ya siblings k Saath. And that cyber harassment is soo disgusting. Mental health kharaab ho jati hai issay logon ki. Allah talah hadayat day logon ko hasad may aisi aisi harkaten kardetay hain log. Ameen May Allah bless you and protect you shama and all of us too from every evil thing Ameeen sum Ameeen ❤
This situation could've been handled very easily... But her parents made it worse. They're the ones that didnt give their child a safe space and she ended up getting depressed. When will this kind of toxic parenting stop?
For someone who has a way with words- I’m speechless right now. Thank you for raising this important issue. Dear girl, I hope you look at those scars and they remind you of the strength in you ♥️ Much love x
O God. Same story. I was bullied by my room mate and her boy friend. It all started with msgs and pics. He kneq each and every detail of my family. I was living in hostel and i cannot even travel alone. He sent inappropriate messages to my friends and everyone. I almost became pyscho and swear panic attacks. But my family supported me. For almost a year i never go out. I did not travel alone. And quit every social media platform. In this kind of crisis. Family should trust children.cyber harrasment is real.and it can ruin lives of people. Allhmdulilah almighty saved us. He is the greatest.
There's a reason why I dislike taking pics with friends, but people don't understand and think that it's conservative. Even in European countries they don't just take pic of anyone in wedding ceremonies, they have privacy things as societies there know about identity theft and so on. But in Asia specially Indo-Pak, mostly people are illiterate to even understand how dangerous and serious identity theft can be.
1. CYBER LITERACY It has nothing to do with word (or educational) illiteracy! It has to do with CYBER literacy. 2. MENTAL BLOCKAGE OF TECH: And sometimes, even when you become very educated; you face mental blockage to use basic computer; hindering you to be skilful of CYBER protectivity or privacy management; and also managing your informal flow of information from medical and educational INDUSTRY. It happens because from childhood, we (some of us) are taught to keep away from computer or technology. Soul sister wouldn't have taken place; if all of us were wary of conservatism and protecting our identity. 3. INTERNET BLESSING: Internet is a blessing for human kinds, just like SCHOOLS are blessings for GIRLS (and boys).
This was needed, nice topic. I had got cheated and was taken 50k as I trusted that person in name of giving job, later he started talking very rudely with me and started blackmailing me for no reason and I took help of cyber crime and got my money back.
Wow, I randomly discovered your videos because of related topic. I'm extremely proud of you and your work. May Allah reward you for creating awareness about such topics.
The same thing is happening with my friend right now and it is very devastating. I am blown away with each of your new episode. Love the work you are doing ❤️
It also misses out on what happened to the guy who was after her, and how did they finally stop him. And who conducted the investigation on that fake id
It's here.... Yeahh itna wait rheta h yr kb aegi kb aegi apki video. I loveeee how you are putting up stories for the world. Every video of yours give a message that never let anybody Feel that they are less than you or can't do better. Lots of dua from INDIA 😘😘
Omg,she is right and she is really brave masha Allah who express her story with us and she has given us a very best lesson of life for going meaner society and relations which we believe that they r our powers but in reality it ll b so strange and panic for us at some stage of our life.. especially when we r our success time frames in our lives..they harm us like she had been suffered... jazakumullah khair sis..may Allah tah'allah bless u world best successful life wid honours Ameen ya rabul alameen 💐👍
Very nice.i watch all the episodes and they are jst amazing...people are now out spoken about what thay believe and feel atleast there is someone who can listen to.them patiently...keep up the good work..
If she was 16 her parents wasn't they had to take a strict legal action against that girl, how can be they left her without taughting her wht she did. And parents should also provide a positive nd friendly environment to their children so tht they can share whatever they want to without being Hesitant.
First , youth shud be educated about ciber world. Yes I agree open relationship with parents important for any issue in life. A daughter’s best friend shud be her mother.
Sorry this happened to you. I wish you could talk to your family about it (especially because you were innocent!) & let your feelings out that way instead of self-harm. Glad you are doing much better now Alhumdulillaah ❤️
Parents ko agr apni olad ki waqae prwah h to unko lazmi bacho k aysa relation bnana chahye k atleast wo apni problem bta skein ...vedio victim blkul sae khrhi h k hr bndy ko hr situation k ready hona chahye.......Kanwal did really good job
Behtareen 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Is larki ki himmat ko salaam aap ka ma'am bht acha hai Allah ap ko aur taufeeq de k aap larkiyoon main bahaduri paida karen k wo aa k apne masle pe baat Karen aur Baki sab ko aese maslo se bacha saken
The fact that she is the same age as my younger cousin sister just chills me to the core. Truly we need to spread awareness about this and develop strong, healthy and trusting relationships among young and old, her family was at least educated enough warna baaz logon ke ek generation pehle wale logon ko toh ye sb sanajh bhi nahi aata, they just end up blaming the children/victim. I love all these topics you try to bring up in your videos. Love you.
U really appreciate the women show their lives truth how they are suffering and how they are struggling ... U made things happen that even media couldn't do. ..
Amazing yar. And amazing courage you have to speak up. My so called best friend did worse than that. So yes people out their are cruel. May Allah keep our children safe from every kind of shar, hasad, nuksaan. Ameen
Hello you know what i have watched all your episodes you are amazing i love how perfectly you discuss all these issues and its just wounderfull Keep going lots of love😏
Same type of anxiety n suicide tendency happened with me in my teenage I can relate her pain very much.. Very difficult for our parents to accept these type of incidents..
Us ladki ko sabak sikhana chahiye that.aur publicly uska name ,pata open krna chahiye tha.kyon ki vo ladki aave jakar aur kisike sath bhi aisa KR sakti hai.brave lady love from India #VillagelifewithMegha V
Listening her was so informative. Everyone of us must have a PLAN for how to counter-act if such incident happens with us or with our siblings/acquaintance (God Forbid). Good to see her parents believed her but complete silent response from her family members was still NOT OK. Victim is already collapsed in such a situation, our any move may become his/her reason of death. اللہ سب کی عزتوں کی حفاظت فرمائے اور شیطان اور حاسد لوگوں کے شر سے بچائے
Parents should listen and take notes. You are supposed to trust your kid. Don't jump to conclusions. You should be the only person standing by them if the whole world is against them. And if your kid thinks that you are not good enough when it comes to share their problems then believe me you have failed as a parent. My father told me once I was 14 years old that if someone tries to bother you...come straight to me...I will handle everything for you. This made me brave and strong and he proved what he said. I am mother now...I have my own kids and this is the type of confidence I want to instil in my kids. Insha Allah
I kinda had a similar story my class mate who was my frnd for last 7 year tried to cyber harass me.. since then we stopped talking... we cant trust our friends as well
Thats why i never trust so many people and never been on social media and tell everything to my mom and sister ,but i never meet someone like your friend girl have great life ahead Happy ramzan
i can't imagine k esy bacho ka kia hal hota ho ga jin k parents un p he ulta shak krty hain r un ko confidence ni dety Allah hadayat dy mn hmisha Allah ka shukar ada krti hun k us ny mjy dunia k best parents dye jo mry best friends ki trh hain r main her bat un sy kar skti hun chahy kisi b trh ki ho kun k wo mj py pora trust krty hain
I once volunteered for a charity in PK. I was helping two employees setup a blog and learn how to use excel. Both these guys were graduate and I saw both sending friends requests on FB to girls they did not know.
I somehow relate to this story... It's like u r in a box where everyone is pointing on u somehow even though they know u haven't done anything. Bs kch to kya hoga aisy kaisy hosakta hai. Victim is victimized again n again by listening k kch to kya hoga....
a girl had hacked my 5 accounts and created my fake profile. She just suspected me of dating or whatever her boyfriend her boyfriend was the one who had been harassing me by random late night call. I was totally numb. noone tells us what to do and these people get away so easily..with zero conscience
God allways bless you wonderful soul,thank u so much for making parents realise how important it is to trust&accept there children so they don't have to face all this,u really r a strong girl inspite of facing all this trauma u still gathered ur strength&helped others through this vdo,hats off to all ur strength&positivity👌☺👍💖
I blame the society, no matter what happens they blame and indirectly punish the girl. That makes it difficult for them , there isn’t any escape from the stress. Bad name lurks with them, first of all give them power and stop making getting married an epitome of life. Show them other paths of life, career education and traveling. One mishap in life is not the end of life. Stop attaching all your shame and respect with girls.let them live. Additionally, openly talk to your kids about dangers of society and its consequences. Not only cyber but everywhere, tell them results of their bad actions against someone as well . How it can impact others and ruin their lives and can bring bad things back to them as well. Do not shy away or bring shame in between when talking about sex, harassment, crime or marriage issues. Stand with your child tell them you will never leave them alone and will do anything to defend them.
Aoa,,best part is k kanwal bht polite or humble way sy sb suntti hen or bht km interept krti hen,,tb atcha lgta hy k skoon sy sb suna jta hy otherwise dsry shows me anchor kud ho bol bol k agly ko bolny nhi dety or listener ko irritation hoti hy program sy....
Fiz K I agree ... aise jane nahi dena chahiye tha kam se kam us ladki ke parents and us ladke ke parents ko involve karte ... us ladke ke against to cctv footage bhi tha uski to band baj jani thi ... I agree court case and all is too much not at 16 but at any age but family ko involve karte to acha hota future mai kisi aur ke sath ye nahi hota (I hope they have done that already) and that girl should be ashamed who did this ... I pray that this heinous act should haunt her for her entire life !
The same thing was happened to me..! When I was in just 7th standard... I didn't have any cellphone... At that time But one day.. My bestfrnd... Who was not my frnd now... Came to my home and I and she came to my bua home... Mu bua has cellphone... She uses her phone to clir some pics.. After two or three days... My bua came to my house... And said to my mom like..! Aise ldki hai yeh.. Yeh krne jati hai school mai..? Aise bche nhi bn pate doctor! And I was standing numb at that time! Like what has happened!?? My mom face was full of anger as I don't know what has happened and my bua show some messages on her phone to my mom! And that was fake fb id by my name! Yes! Then I thought that i didn't use my bua phone... But my frnd did! My mom called my frnd and questioned her about id... Firstly she refuses to accept but then she accepted! Seriously... That time i was not able to look into my mom and dad eyes! Though it was not my fault! All. I want to say that... Ki ye kisi ke sath b na ho..!
Suicide is not the solution! especially because of others! people love to see others go through such bad situations. Don't let them be happy. Also that so-called friend needs a huge slap! These kinds of people make others life hell.
Parents have to spend quality time with their children.. both parents should have a strong bond with their child so that in future if they are going through a situation such as bullying, teasing, harassment then the child should have the confidence to tell n share with their parents.. but ulta parents starts to smack their child or feel embarrassed by their child.. ya phir yeh kahe ge “ log Kya kahe gai?? Parents should educate their own children on to be safe from social media, they should keep an eye on their children behaviour, who are their friends, should teach them how to keep their bodies safe from strangers.. I don’t understand why parents feel embarrassed to talk about it??? parents should pay attention on their children .. but they are either too busy working or too lazy .. 🤷🏻♀️it breaks my heart and makes me sooo dam angry when I hear stories like this..
Im very sorry n apologies for what i m about to say , every mother says they r the closest to their children n know all about them, well but I say they r the most far away from their kids (as a personal experience) ,this is the most bitter reality of every society, my 16yrs r long gone but my mother still doesn't get anything about me.
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My reaction when I see you uploaded: YAYYY
Love you Kanwal
Hi dear kanwal your RUclips channel is growing fast ma Sha Allah..which is great... I have one complaint I don't know whether you will consider it or not but still I didn't know on which medium I should apraoch you and let you know about this matter... Few days back I joined your page soul sisters and I was so happy to be a part of that group... I participated too by sharing thoughts and giving best advices as much as I could... Then one day... Someone posted... Anonymous post but didn't hide the ID of that person I just noticed and shared my thoughts in comments that not to share the ID of the person if specially someone requested not to show it... And Danggg... Next day your admin or you I don't know removed me from the group... Now I never want to join that group.. Because I felt really bad for the act which was truly justified but still got removed from the group... Just one thing I want to share always use your powers for the justice not to defend yourself even for wrong reasons... That's it..
And that's why parents should trust their children make it easier for them to share something like this.
I'm glad she's safe! Something alot worse could've happened in a situation like this. May Allah protect us.
she's so freaking brave to even talk about it publicly . Hats off
i am a victim of cyber harrasment too. but my family was so supporting in those hard times. they did not doubt on me Alhamdulillah. and my father took a strict action towards that guy.
What is cyber harassment ..?
@@affyakhan2449 harassment or bullying using digital technology and internet.
Problem is parents trust outsider more than own children.
That's why kids lie/ hid to parents.
True
When she said about that part where he was standing right in front of her in that dark place..my heart literally skipped a beat 😰
Thank God she was able to run away.. Anything could've happened that night!... Stay safe ladies!!
Kanwal best thing about you is that you never interrupt the other person inbetween you allow them to speak.
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Exactly I was thinking the same.. Good going gal👍
Yes exactly
Exactly! Other interviewers should learn this from her
Agreed parents should have an open friendly relationship with their children so that the child can communicate with them. Amazing episode.
Same thing happened with me. One of my jealous friend gave my number to a lot of boys. Random dirty msgs through out the night. I tried to handle it by myself. Didn't work out. Told my mom. She didn't believe me. My sisters provoked her to stop me from going to university. Spent 4 years like hell during my graduation. I used to pray very hard to get my honor back in front of my family. Ultimately Allah gave me my grace back a year ago.
Bhar walo k shar se phr bh bcha ja skta hai Lekin jo apny ghr k dushman hon barbad krny mai ksr nh chorty
@Mahnoor Awan what my friend did to me I accepted it as a fate. But my own sister who was 11 month younger than me made my life hell by making my parents believe that I've become a slut. I didn't believe at first that my sister did this. But, even Quran teaches us to ask Allah's shelter from hasids. I swore to Quran multiple times to prove my innocence. But she convinced everyone at home that I took false oaths. Neither did she respect our relationship as sisters nor the Quran. I'm at peace now but I wonder when Allah will make her go through mukafat e aml.
True , my family would do the same.stop me from university and using phones .
@@lifewithAysha are u ayesha zafar?
@@biyyakhan5857 no I am not but I know a Ayesha Zafar from my school lolx
@@lifewithAysha once a lier always a lier 😊
It's extremely important for a child to have a cordial relationship with his or her parents and I believe that parents should give a sense of confidence to their children from their side, so that when a child shares something with them, they DO NOT blame the child for it ( "Tum ne hi kuch kiya hoga" ). It takes a lot of courage for a child to share what has happened. Listening is as important as taking an action.
I'm blessed to have a mother with whom I can speak my heart out! Thank you for sharing this, this makes me appreciate my mother even more.
She's speaking so fast you can see how scared she is. She probably just wants the interview to end as fast as it can. It must be such a scary thing to go through and recollect and narrate the whole thing.
But she's such a brave girl to come forward and share her story... going through all that and coming out of the trauma...I admire your spirit girl.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Kudos to you. Kudos to kanwal.
2 years ago my best friend did the same to me , she made a fake id with fake name and put my pictures there to talk to other men . I caught her but she beg for forgiveness so I didn't told my parents she deleted everything and after that day I didn't contact her . This incident made me so frightened that I don't make friends now I literally have trust issues.
I think you should've had told your parents, because you never know if she will do that again to you or even maybe to someone else.
My classmate did this. Had so many guys after her (using my pictures)
I am 17 years old and also a victim of cyber harrasment twice in my life! And i know how it feels to be cyberlly harrassed ! 😔 And i didn't find solution yet ! These type of issues can't be share with anyone because people can"t understand .
Dont worry... everything will be alright..I will pray for you💞💞
Rida zahra you should share this matter with your parents
First of all i don't know who is the person behind all this ..and i don't doubt any specific person and i share this matter with my parents and family but in the end all they can do is to support me .. they can't do anything like me ! I have been experiencing this from 2016 and now i am so tired ! After every year i got an issue in my social media Id and i make a new accouny but now i am sick of all this
I am a college going student and don't have any personal issues with anyone i don't remember if i have done anything bad to anyone .. whenever i make any new Id wheter its instagram or facebook i started to receive unknown messages and when i ignore them someone starts texting messages from my Id and i became so surprised that how they get my password everytim
Dw girl!!! There are ways u can protect ur accounts so that if someone else tries to open your account somewhere else , you'll be notified. Insta, fb, gmail these apps have two way verification.
no words kanwal. awesome job u did. hats off to the girl, may allah safe all of our children from this evil part of society.
Thanks Kanwal for providing a platform where women can openly express themselves without the fear of being judged. Love you!
It's soo soo important. Generation gap. Shama said right generation gap ki wajah say koi open hi nahi ho pata Apne parents ya siblings k Saath. And that cyber harassment is soo disgusting. Mental health kharaab ho jati hai issay logon ki. Allah talah hadayat day logon ko hasad may aisi aisi harkaten kardetay hain log. Ameen May Allah bless you and protect you shama and all of us too from every evil thing Ameeen sum Ameeen ❤
So proud of her. I feel her pain .💔💔 Sending endless compassion and love 💙❤️❤️
This situation could've been handled very easily... But her parents made it worse. They're the ones that didnt give their child a safe space and she ended up getting depressed. When will this kind of toxic parenting stop?
Aeshahaha :3 exactly
Sahi BAAT Kahi aapne
Inlogo ko pehle parenting seekhni chahiye fir bacche paida karne chahiye
For someone who has a way with words- I’m speechless right now.
Thank you for raising this important issue.
Dear girl, I hope you look at those scars and they remind you of the strength in you ♥️
Much love x
O God. Same story. I was bullied by my room mate and her boy friend. It all started with msgs and pics. He kneq each and every detail of my family. I was living in hostel and i cannot even travel alone. He sent inappropriate messages to my friends and everyone. I almost became pyscho and swear panic attacks. But my family supported me. For almost a year i never go out. I did not travel alone. And quit every social media platform. In this kind of crisis. Family should trust children.cyber harrasment is real.and it can ruin lives of people. Allhmdulilah almighty saved us. He is the greatest.
There's a reason why I dislike taking pics with friends, but people don't understand and think that it's conservative. Even in European countries they don't just take pic of anyone in wedding ceremonies, they have privacy things as societies there know about identity theft and so on. But in Asia specially Indo-Pak, mostly people are illiterate to even understand how dangerous and serious identity theft can be.
Khalid Shaheen agreed
Totally agree. Never take pics with anyone.
1. CYBER LITERACY
It has nothing to do with word (or educational) illiteracy! It has to do with CYBER literacy.
2. MENTAL BLOCKAGE OF TECH:
And sometimes, even when you become very educated; you face mental blockage to use basic computer; hindering you to be skilful of CYBER protectivity or privacy management; and also managing your informal flow of information from medical and educational INDUSTRY.
It happens because from childhood, we (some of us) are taught to keep away from computer or technology.
Soul sister wouldn't have taken place; if all of us were wary of conservatism and protecting our identity.
3. INTERNET BLESSING:
Internet is a blessing for human kinds, just like SCHOOLS are blessings for GIRLS (and boys).
This was needed, nice topic.
I had got cheated and was taken 50k as I trusted that person in name of giving job, later he started talking very rudely with me and started blackmailing me for no reason and I took help of cyber crime and got my money back.
Wow.. This girl is in her merely 20's but the education she gave about awareness to be given to d society and parents that was awsome.. 👏👏👏👏 kudos
Wow, I randomly discovered your videos because of related topic.
I'm extremely proud of you and your work. May Allah reward you for creating awareness about such topics.
I wait for the episodes! Alhamdulillah 😍Touchy and crucial subject 👍🏻
Thank you Shama for sharing such an important issue that is so valid and so needed at this time.Stay strong.
The same thing is happening with my friend right now and it is very devastating. I am blown away with each of your new episode. Love the work you are doing ❤️
Don't wait go to a police station. Blackmailing kbhi khatm nhi hota hai isiliye suru se hi action lo.
@@sugandhasingh2357 her father has reported in the cyber crime department. Hope it gets better.
Why does it look incomplete? Plz show how she came out of this breakdown so that others get the motivation
Agreed, it ended on the note of self harm and the rock bottom but misses out the rising.
It also misses out on what happened to the guy who was after her, and how did they finally stop him. And who conducted the investigation on that fake id
It's here.... Yeahh itna wait rheta h yr kb aegi kb aegi apki video. I loveeee how you are putting up stories for the world. Every video of yours give a message that never let anybody Feel that they are less than you or can't do better. Lots of dua from INDIA 😘😘
Omg,she is right and she is really brave masha Allah who express her story with us and she has given us a very best lesson of life for going meaner society and relations which we believe that they r our powers but in reality it ll b so strange and panic for us at some stage of our life.. especially when we r our success time frames in our lives..they harm us like she had been suffered... jazakumullah khair sis..may Allah tah'allah bless u world best successful life wid honours Ameen ya rabul alameen 💐👍
Well done. You shared your bad experience with public. It will help awareness about social media’s fame ids
Very nice.i watch all the episodes and they are jst amazing...people are now out spoken about what thay believe and feel atleast there is someone who can listen to.them patiently...keep up the good work..
If she was 16 her parents wasn't they had to take a strict legal action against that girl, how can be they left her without taughting her wht she did.
And parents should also provide a positive nd friendly environment to their children so tht they can share whatever they want to without being Hesitant.
Wo bat barhana nai chahtay honge, since society esi hai humari
Love your show so much...great message for all the people, be it teenagers or adults...
First , youth shud be educated about ciber world. Yes I agree open relationship with parents important for any issue in life. A daughter’s best friend shud be her mother.
The mother didn't believe until she saw on CCTV . how sad . how parenting fails
Sorry this happened to you. I wish you could talk to your family about it (especially because you were innocent!) & let your feelings out that way instead of self-harm. Glad you are doing much better now Alhumdulillaah ❤️
Parents ko agr apni olad ki waqae prwah h to unko lazmi bacho k aysa relation bnana chahye k atleast wo apni problem bta skein ...vedio victim blkul sae khrhi h k hr bndy ko hr situation k ready hona chahye.......Kanwal did really good job
Behtareen 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Is larki ki himmat ko salaam aap ka ma'am bht acha hai Allah ap ko aur taufeeq de k aap larkiyoon main bahaduri paida karen k wo aa k apne masle pe baat Karen aur Baki sab ko aese maslo se bacha saken
To everyone out there suffering in silence, May Allah grant you peace of mind and give you the courage to step out of any situation you are facing.❤
The fact that she is the same age as my younger cousin sister just chills me to the core.
Truly we need to spread awareness about this and develop strong, healthy and trusting relationships among young and old, her family was at least educated enough warna baaz logon ke ek generation pehle wale logon ko toh ye sb sanajh bhi nahi aata, they just end up blaming the children/victim.
I love all these topics you try to bring up in your videos.
Love you.
U really appreciate the women show their lives truth how they are suffering and how they are struggling ... U made things happen that even media couldn't do.
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Parental support is much needed in these situations
Amazing yar. And amazing courage you have to speak up. My so called best friend did worse than that. So yes people out their are cruel. May Allah keep our children safe from every kind of shar, hasad, nuksaan. Ameen
Bht zabardast,bht wait rehta he kanwal new conversation ka
Hello you know what i have watched all your episodes you are amazing i love how perfectly you discuss all these issues and its just wounderfull
Keep going lots of love😏
Bundle of prayers your way. 🤲 I can understand what you have gone through. 😢
Such an important issue all parents should be aware of nowadays... hope Shama finds peace and is able to achieve all she wants in her life ☺️
Absolutely right🖒
Parents have to aware about these things and there children's
I have 2 children in their twenties. I'm shock that how on earth parents do not trust their kids.
May Allah keep all of us in His Mercy and Protection. Ameen.. 💔 😞
This isn’t only cyber harassment but betrayal and lie. Can relate to it at so many levels! Sigh
Same type of anxiety n suicide tendency happened with me in my teenage I can relate her pain very much.. Very difficult for our parents to accept these type of incidents..
This episode left me an incomplete feeling. I wanted to see what happened with that friend and that guy.... 😕😕😕😕
ya Allah sub ki izzato ki hifazat ferma.. Aameen ya rabul alaameen ❤
Us ladki ko sabak sikhana chahiye that.aur publicly uska name ,pata open krna chahiye tha.kyon ki vo ladki aave jakar aur kisike sath bhi aisa KR sakti hai.brave lady love from India
#VillagelifewithMegha
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Listening her was so informative. Everyone of us must have a PLAN for how to counter-act if such incident happens with us or with our siblings/acquaintance (God Forbid). Good to see her parents believed her but complete silent response from her family members was still NOT OK. Victim is already collapsed in such a situation, our any move may become his/her reason of death.
اللہ سب کی عزتوں کی حفاظت فرمائے اور شیطان اور حاسد لوگوں کے شر سے بچائے
Parents should listen and take notes. You are supposed to trust your kid. Don't jump to conclusions. You should be the only person standing by them if the whole world is against them. And if your kid thinks that you are not good enough when it comes to share their problems then believe me you have failed as a parent.
My father told me once I was 14 years old that if someone tries to bother you...come straight to me...I will handle everything for you. This made me brave and strong and he proved what he said. I am mother now...I have my own kids and this is the type of confidence I want to instil in my kids. Insha Allah
I kinda had a similar story my class mate who was my frnd for last 7 year tried to cyber harass me.. since then we stopped talking... we cant trust our friends as well
And Kawal ur program is very usefull for everyone. Allah bless u
She is so brave , more power to her.
Thats why i never trust so many people and never been on social media and tell everything to my mom and sister ,but i never meet someone like your friend girl have great life ahead Happy ramzan
i can't imagine k esy bacho ka kia hal hota ho ga jin k parents un p he ulta shak krty hain r un ko confidence ni dety Allah hadayat dy mn hmisha Allah ka shukar ada krti hun k us ny mjy dunia k best parents dye jo mry best friends ki trh hain r main her bat un sy kar skti hun chahy kisi b trh ki ho kun k wo mj py pora trust krty hain
I once volunteered for a charity in PK. I was helping two employees setup a blog and learn how to use excel. Both these guys were graduate and I saw both sending friends requests on FB to girls they did not know.
Absolutely true! Thanku kanwal for bridging the gap through generations with your thoughtful content!!
Obsessed with your show. Love you
Wow her friend screwed her over!
I am addicted to hearing all these interesting stories. Thanks
God bless u shama aap bht himmat rakhti h...khuda apko khush rakhe...😊
I somehow relate to this story... It's like u r in a box where everyone is pointing on u somehow even though they know u haven't done anything. Bs kch to kya hoga aisy kaisy hosakta hai. Victim is victimized again n again by listening k kch to kya hoga....
very scary. May God bless her
No word's for these cyber bullies , they creep into our lives through this invisible internet .
a girl had hacked my 5 accounts and created my fake profile. She just suspected me of dating or whatever her boyfriend
her boyfriend was the one who had been harassing me by random late night call. I was totally numb. noone tells us what to do and these people get away so easily..with zero conscience
Confront her and her bf babe. They won't be able to face you.
Such an eyes opening episode.....
God allways bless you wonderful soul,thank u so much for making parents realise how important it is to trust&accept there children so they don't have to face all this,u really r a strong girl inspite of facing all this trauma u still gathered ur strength&helped others through this vdo,hats off to all ur strength&positivity👌☺👍💖
Such a strong message!! Hats off to her bravery for opening up 👏
A precious and precise msg in a very brief period of time👌👌 Great job!
Your videos give me hope and strength 😊
I blame the society, no matter what happens they blame and indirectly punish the girl. That makes it difficult for them , there isn’t any escape from the stress. Bad name lurks with them, first of all give them power and stop making getting married an epitome of life. Show them other paths of life, career education and traveling. One mishap in life is not the end of life. Stop attaching all your shame and respect with girls.let them live.
Additionally, openly talk to your kids about dangers of society and its consequences.
Not only cyber but everywhere, tell them results of their bad actions against someone as well . How it can impact others and ruin their lives and can bring bad things back to them as well.
Do not shy away or bring shame in between when talking about sex, harassment, crime or marriage issues. Stand with your child tell them you will never leave them alone and will do anything to defend them.
MANY BRAVE WOMEN OUT THERE IN WORLD.... ❤️❤️❤️
Parents Ko apne bache samjhna chahiye...they r the support system for their kids
U handled very intelligently 🙂 bravo Pakistani babe 😅😎😎😎 Zindabaad
Aoa,,best part is k kanwal bht polite or humble way sy sb suntti hen or bht km interept krti hen,,tb atcha lgta hy k skoon sy sb suna jta hy otherwise dsry shows me anchor kud ho bol bol k agly ko bolny nhi dety or listener ko irritation hoti hy program sy....
Is serial ka 3 sessions Kb ayega main wait kr rhi hun
Her parents shd hv done something abt it and tht girl shd hv been exposed!!!
Ar Wo banda tou ulta latka dena chaiye tha k ab batao konsa promise tha!
Fiz K I agree ... aise jane nahi dena chahiye tha kam se kam us ladki ke parents and us ladke ke parents ko involve karte ... us ladke ke against to cctv footage bhi tha uski to band baj jani thi ... I agree court case and all is too much not at 16 but at any age but family ko involve karte to acha hota future mai kisi aur ke sath ye nahi hota (I hope they have done that already)
and that girl should be ashamed who did this ... I pray that this heinous act should haunt her for her entire life !
Veryy nice....
At last bhttt wait k baad next ep a gea...
Awsmm episode..😊
Shama you were my friend when i was small, you were always such a nice person
Its good to create awareness but i wish you did more on this by mentioning the helplines and services/laws around it.
Much needed for now a days.
My frnd is victim of cyber crime😔😔l love the concept of ur show....love fom INDIA 🇮🇳😘😍❤️
The same thing was happened to me..!
When I was in just 7th standard...
I didn't have any cellphone... At that time
But one day.. My bestfrnd... Who was not my frnd now... Came to my home and I and she came to my bua home...
Mu bua has cellphone... She uses her phone to clir some pics..
After two or three days...
My bua came to my house...
And said to my mom like..!
Aise ldki hai yeh.. Yeh krne jati hai school mai..? Aise bche nhi bn pate doctor!
And I was standing numb at that time!
Like what has happened!??
My mom face was full of anger as I don't know what has happened and my bua show some messages on her phone to my mom!
And that was fake fb id by my name! Yes!
Then I thought that i didn't use my bua phone... But my frnd did!
My mom called my frnd and questioned her about id... Firstly she refuses to accept but then she accepted!
Seriously... That time i was not able to look into my mom and dad eyes!
Though it was not my fault!
All. I want to say that... Ki ye kisi ke sath b na ho..!
Uffffff I can exactly relate to this girl and I know how many nights I've spent praying ya nabi ya nabi ya Allah m ne kuch nh kiya mujhe bacha le...
Highly appreciated your show Kanwal🌹
Suicide is not the solution! especially because of others! people love to see others go through such bad situations. Don't let them be happy. Also that so-called friend needs a huge slap! These kinds of people make others life hell.
Parents have to spend quality time with their children.. both parents should have a strong bond with their child so that in future if they are going through a situation such as bullying, teasing, harassment then the child should have the confidence to tell n share with their parents.. but ulta parents starts to smack their child or feel embarrassed by their child.. ya phir yeh kahe ge “ log Kya kahe gai??
Parents should educate their own children on to be safe from social media, they should keep an eye on their children behaviour, who are their friends, should teach them how to keep their bodies safe from strangers.. I don’t understand why parents feel embarrassed to talk about it??? parents should pay attention on their children .. but they are either too busy working or too lazy .. 🤷🏻♀️it breaks my heart and makes me sooo dam angry when I hear stories like this..
Shama always be strong dear. Proud of u that u share ur story 4 others. Allah bless u
Real fact of our society.
You are brave dear. Live with your head high👏👏👏
I agree with her.. Acceptance of this matter is very important to everyone of us nowadays
Loved it. More power to this pretty girl
Im very sorry n apologies for what i m about to say , every mother says they r the closest to their children n know all about them, well but I say they r the most far away from their kids (as a personal experience) ,this is the most bitter reality of every society, my 16yrs r long gone but my mother still doesn't get anything about me.