Escaping from a toxic marriage | Conversations with Kanwal S3 | Episode 05

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @eshashoaib8418
    @eshashoaib8418 3 года назад +111

    Most composed host ever 🙌🏿♥️

    • @Kanwalful
      @Kanwalful  3 года назад +4

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @qiratdiaries
      @qiratdiaries 3 года назад +2

      Exactly really appreciated

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 3 года назад +3

      Literally so soothing to hear her

    • @fauziaarif1404
      @fauziaarif1404 3 года назад +1

      @@misbahkhalid2365 what is the truth?

    • @Nidz2426
      @Nidz2426 3 года назад

      💯

  • @saadiairshad7734
    @saadiairshad7734 3 года назад +180

    So so proud of her, she was my son's teacher, when many of his teachers were criticisizing him and were saying he needs a counseler for his behaviour, it was her who made me realize that its actually the school teachers and parents who need the counseling for dealing with such an intelligent kid, that comment was simply a silver lining in the dark from her, guess what? She was the counseler appointed from school for my son, very authentic person, I love how economically independent she is in her personality, few women possess such traits, chahay kitni bhi parhi likhi hon, she is an inspiration for our daughters, and her story shows the sensitivity of how much the financial independence of women holds its importance in our male dominating society!! More power to u Sabah Suleman....keep shining...keep smiling, duas for your kids❤

    • @fauziaarif1404
      @fauziaarif1404 3 года назад

      @@ayeshasajjad9850 so out of well into the fire!
      Jo aik biwi k say aisa ker sakta hai wo kal ko doosri biwi k saath kia kare ga. This lady must have thought about it.

    • @muhammadismailsheikh3790
      @muhammadismailsheikh3790 Год назад

      Raipye ker haramzade ka

    • @AlishbaAli-hm5ym
      @AlishbaAli-hm5ym 7 месяцев назад

      Lg x

  • @farheenbilal5132
    @farheenbilal5132 3 года назад +222

    Big round of applause for Kanwal Ahmed for showing this issue .Kudos to this girl and her mother who are brave enough to discuss about it

  • @shafaqaftab8874
    @shafaqaftab8874 3 года назад +213

    The thing about toxic home environment is that it is not visible to people outside your house and nobody takes it that serious. But it eats you up deep inside. Kudos for bringing this topic to light

  • @aqsaarif7729
    @aqsaarif7729 3 года назад +113

    I am feeling like laraib is speaking about my mental State.. every single word... every single momment...

  • @Gdhdkdgsu
    @Gdhdkdgsu 3 года назад +114

    The main thing with many episodes is that there are supporting men too that we can really call man in actual sense. an applause for all those men too👏👏👏.

    • @syedamaryam9222
      @syedamaryam9222 3 года назад +2

      Exactlyyyy. The brighter side

    • @SafwanHashmi
      @SafwanHashmi 3 года назад +3

      It was in season one but in season two it is different.
      The story has two phases. I feel like keh only bad phase is focused and the good phase is neglected.
      What I liked about the first season was both phases of life were given equal importance but in this season we are only watching bad phases.
      I am still very fond of Season one. I shared all the episodes on my wall but this season I watched all but didn't share them in my circle.

  • @zarishmalik2614
    @zarishmalik2614 3 года назад +119

    It made me recall my story that how my mother went out from toxic relationship. It wasn't just my father who were abusive but his whole family who used to come to fight with my mother and ask my father k "Aur maroo isay". But such people forget that Allah is the biggest of all. They all have gotten lessons of doing evil things to us. Those were horrible memories but it's been 13 years now we are living the best life.

    • @dlosha
      @dlosha 3 года назад +4

      Alhamdulilah.May Allah help us all heal from all traumas

    • @eshashoaib8418
      @eshashoaib8418 3 года назад +4

      May Allah protect you and whole family

    • @uzmasaqib4028
      @uzmasaqib4028 3 года назад +3

      Masha ALLAH.May you always live the best life. Amen

    • @farhata1800
      @farhata1800 3 года назад +3

      mental torture is also one the worst form of the tourture.

  • @munazzakhan3527
    @munazzakhan3527 3 года назад +62

    It took a financially independent woman 15 years to leave an abusive relationship. Her story is straight out of a thriller. Alhamdulillah she has a happy ending but it's also depressing since she didn't had to go through all this if her family had supported her from the start. We talk at length about how we should raise our sons but it's equally important to support our daughters.

  • @laraibhassan8076
    @laraibhassan8076 3 года назад +50

    Thankyou to all my soulies for their love, prayers and kind comments. 😘😘😘
    #sspsquad

    • @saratariq5418
      @saratariq5418 3 года назад +2

      More power to you laraib I strong women

    • @sumanreactions
      @sumanreactions 3 года назад +1

      Hi Laraib Can i talk to you? Can you text me on Instagram @suman.mumtaz

    • @sundaskhalid125
      @sundaskhalid125 3 года назад

      More power to you guys 🙏🙌

    • @aminaz4756
      @aminaz4756 3 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

    • @sumanreactions
      @sumanreactions 3 года назад

      @@ayeshasajjad9850 ap suleman ki.wife hain?😤😤😤

  • @aishdubey3683
    @aishdubey3683 3 года назад +67

    Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
    - Shannon L. Alder

    • @KANCHAN_111
      @KANCHAN_111 9 месяцев назад

      Beautifully ,boldly ..told

  • @sprinkles_and_splash
    @sprinkles_and_splash 3 года назад +67

    It's always important to make our girls financially independent. We dont know what situation she might have to face in future. But that will always act as her strength.

  • @TehreemsHomebakes
    @TehreemsHomebakes 3 года назад +72

    The best part of this story is THE STRONGEST WOMAN who took a step for herself and for her children instead of crying.

  • @Blue-iv5fv
    @Blue-iv5fv 3 года назад +156

    can you also make a video about abuse that comes from our own parents? emotional manipulation, control over every aspect of life, not letting the child pursue their dreams or forcing them to get married by blackmailing them, verbally and physically abusing one's own children and making them feel alone by taking away their social life and support system to name a few things. it hurts a bit different when the people who are supposed to be your family and your support system are the ones who kill you everyday.

    • @Notthefounderofbhslogistics
      @Notthefounderofbhslogistics 3 года назад +4

      this is such a fragile subject, specially for us muslim, because we are just brought up with what ever parents do is legal, parents are parents. in our culture, parents thinks that they own their children, and they have given birth to kids, so they can support them in every way when they grow up. but unfortunatly this is culture, not religion. We as parents only have a responibility to raise our kids to firstly be a good human beeing and then muslim so they can live in this world and then get their own kids and again fulfill their responsibilities. My prayers to my self is that I suceed in raising my kids, so they can take stand to everything that is wrong and stand by everything which is right, even though if they are alone about it.
      @kanwal network

    • @maryamnazir512
      @maryamnazir512 3 года назад

      @@ayeshasajjad9850 really but this lady says k bachelor tha second husband.i m now in doubt about this kanwal show coz pehla b ek young age marriage case mai larki na jo b kaha shohar k liye usi shohar k relative na kafi detail bta di k yeh jhoota ilzam laga rahe he.

    • @fatimahussain6547
      @fatimahussain6547 3 года назад

      Yes. I'm going through it.

  • @TOWTRL
    @TOWTRL 3 года назад +58

    The answer of your first question is Finances. Women can't leave when they are economically dependant.

    • @KetowithSarah
      @KetowithSarah 3 года назад +2

      So they have to figure out a way of becoming financially independent.

    • @habibababar3477
      @habibababar3477 3 года назад +2

      @@KetowithSarah n the way to that is to educate ur daughters n have them take on a degree before marriage (they can decide not to work but the back of a degree in ur hands helps a lot)

  • @abeerabsa
    @abeerabsa 3 года назад +123

    She is giving strength to so many women and wiping their tears through her story. It took her so long, but eventually everything worked in her favor. This episode is like a steroid to increase the strength of women in these kind of situations.

  • @itsamnanotamina
    @itsamnanotamina 3 года назад +84

    Laraib is a great friend of mine and I've always seen her staying strongggg & speaking on women rights. She inspires me so sooo much. She is achieving so soo muchhh MashaAllah and I am extremely proud of her! Thaankyou Kanwal for bringing these powerful women on this platform. 💕

    • @anilsood6252
      @anilsood6252 3 года назад +1

      What is current marital status of first husband? His current wife, I hope she is not facing a difficult situation.

  • @hudaanjum2264
    @hudaanjum2264 3 года назад +9

    I LOVED it when she said "Islamabad mei pair rakho mei Adday se uthwao gi" more power to you!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pakizafatima1411
    @pakizafatima1411 3 года назад +25

    The mental health of laraib is totally relatable. But her mother is such a strong women. I wish every women to have guts like her.

  • @afiafatima9165
    @afiafatima9165 3 года назад +36

    I left my toxic house with my mother in april 2020 and this video has strengthened my resolve. I could relate with everything in this video. May God bless you. Love and prayers 💜

  • @hamnashahid8370
    @hamnashahid8370 3 года назад +22

    When she said “ You dare step a single foot in isl“ mannnnnnn 💥💥 literllay i replayed it back for the second time 🔥🔥ufffhhhhh
    Maza agaya qasam se #hatsoff

  • @tazeenerum203
    @tazeenerum203 3 года назад +148

    #SSPSquad
    Thank you for enabling all of these people to raise their voices. You're the best ❣️

  • @uglyduckling1838
    @uglyduckling1838 3 года назад +7

    I want to hug her and whisper in her ear "I'm proud of you, you're a braveheart".

  • @zainabismail3281
    @zainabismail3281 3 года назад +59

    I lived through this for 17 years until my husband gave me talak when I found out he was chatting to a female... He said he gave it in anger but ALLAH saved me i probably would have been dead now... Had that not happened... Fast foward today i am an independent women who even left my country and started a new life... I am single but in sukoon now.

    • @saamiaharoon2098
      @saamiaharoon2098 2 года назад +1

      Stay blessed

    • @Alex-ok6pj
      @Alex-ok6pj 7 месяцев назад

      WhyImHere-xd7qcare you okay?

    • @Alex-ok6pj
      @Alex-ok6pj 7 месяцев назад

      WhyImHere-xd7qc honestly if u need help i can call the police for u but our country has the worst police system ever

    • @Alex-ok6pj
      @Alex-ok6pj 7 месяцев назад

      @WhyImHere-xd7qc my advice is to be strong and prepare urself to get out if ur suffering okay? Dont stay u only live once and u aren’t born to suffer all the time

    • @Alex-ok6pj
      @Alex-ok6pj 7 месяцев назад

      WhyImHere-xd7qc u dont have to even show ur face for online tutoring but u need to have a laptop to teach or get a smart pen to use ur phone to write

  • @Iconoclastrak
    @Iconoclastrak 3 года назад +19

    Simply beautiful.... i was touched and impressed by her courage and perseverance. I only wished that she should not have waited for 15 years in the abusive relationship. My sister was also in a similar relationship... we got her out. And now she is happy as ever.

  • @MrProsPlaying
    @MrProsPlaying 3 года назад +54

    Her father being short tempered also explains why she also ended up in an abusive marriage.

    • @Golgappi89
      @Golgappi89 3 года назад +3

      Wse b maine suna hai k baap ka kiya beti k aagay ata hai

    • @aminaz4756
      @aminaz4756 3 года назад +5

      Mother not supporting her own daughter is why this problem goes unchecked. Our society needs to encourage women to get out of abusive relationships

    • @maryamnazir512
      @maryamnazir512 3 года назад +4

      @@Golgappi89 bakwas batein hoti han yeh admi apna kiya ka kud bhugatta he .

    • @maryamnazir512
      @maryamnazir512 3 года назад

      @@aminaz4756 mothers kia karen sister meri sis jub pregnant the uska husband usko marta tha choti choti baat par k yeh muj sa dar k raha meri mother na uska husband k baap ko btaya sab baap na phr beta ko phr khub zaleel kiya .uska husband ki sis usko kehti he k kia hua jo mara uss na itni koi bari baat tou nahi jo tum maa baap ko le ai.till today wo banda meri sis ko pareshan karta he mera parents siway usko samjhana k kuch nahi kar sakte k baccha phr barbaad hun ga end mai maa ko hi blame karen ga society k tanay sun k.

    • @aminaz4756
      @aminaz4756 3 года назад

      @@maryamnazir512 so sorry to hear that story. Unfortunately women have to tolerate all this because they’re financially dependent on their husbands. No one should tolerate abuse of any form but it’s very hard for women to walk out of their marriage too. I wish our society was more supportive of single mothers.

  • @aries783
    @aries783 2 года назад +1

    She was my class teacher in 5th, she helped me when I was getting bullied by another teacher and supported me, still is one of my favourite teacher ❤

  • @megaxtremetv772
    @megaxtremetv772 3 года назад +6

    I just saw this...oh my God....I have tears in my eyes and a smile on my face. This is exactly what our deen teaches us too, zulm sehna the zulm ka saath deney jesa hey aur Tawakkul Allah per ho tou bhalay koi insan sath na dey , rastay asaan hojatay hein... MashaAllah

  • @fahadtiwana9226
    @fahadtiwana9226 3 года назад +79

    Please talk about toxic parents .

    • @alikhansahab8356
      @alikhansahab8356 3 года назад +6

      Yesssss plzzz about toxic mother....

    • @hibamazhar7473
      @hibamazhar7473 3 года назад

      Yes please

    • @jeeyaa3311
      @jeeyaa3311 3 года назад +1

      Yes

    • @haleemamoin7868
      @haleemamoin7868 3 года назад +2

      About time someone does! Too much hadeeths and quotes on disobedience by children no mention of parents or parents in law that have made life tormented for their offspring

    • @haleemamoin7868
      @haleemamoin7868 3 года назад +3

      And for all those who are about to slam me for disobedience of parents I m not an atheist but parents should behave like what the title suggests," parents "should be just that gentle kind and loving not people with two sided serpent tongues that are ungrateful to family that does everything for them .Bring the hadeeths that quote the children are Allah SWT s and to love and nurture them .Especially the husband's mother who thinks she can go to jannah after making someone's life hell

  • @zarrishzia7271
    @zarrishzia7271 3 года назад +75

    Sometimes it seems like men like suleman don’t exist but this gives me hope.

    • @SafwanHashmi
      @SafwanHashmi 3 года назад +3

      Sulaiman story should be given sometime

    • @zarrishzia7271
      @zarrishzia7271 3 года назад

      @@misbahkhalid2365 ???

    • @storyteller2104
      @storyteller2104 3 года назад +1

      @@misbahkhalid2365 agar aisa ha to sach samne ana chahiye, aadha nahi poora sach.

    • @SafwanHashmi
      @SafwanHashmi 3 года назад +1

      @@misbahkhalid2365 Oops. Getting married twice is OK but leaving the first wife and kids like this is a great sin. I've a lot of things going on my mind but woh kehtay hain na keh Guman acha rakhan chahiye.

    • @SafwanHashmi
      @SafwanHashmi 3 года назад +2

      @@misbahkhalid2365 I saved the screenshots of these comments for sake of evidence. If the admin removes your comments.

  • @hinaatif5339
    @hinaatif5339 3 года назад +12

    The best thing about these episodes is that we can see that all men are not same, good men also do exist in this world. A big round of applause to kanwal and her team !!

  • @yourdietplans
    @yourdietplans 3 года назад +40

    Okay let me appreciate the fact that Kanwal you have come up with so many important topics in this season.
    Was always a fan of your conversations but this season has just broken the stereotypes.
    More power to you ❤

  • @Victoria-fd6mu
    @Victoria-fd6mu 3 года назад +22

    There is not a single episode of this channel which doesn't make my inner heart cry. And the best part is that the tears roll down with joy in the end. I am glad I found this amazing platform.

    • @anilsood6252
      @anilsood6252 3 года назад

      I agree in toto. If you come across good content elsewhere also, please let me know.

  • @quratulainfarooqui1968
    @quratulainfarooqui1968 3 года назад +20

    When she said that she can't handle people yelling at her and it gives her shivers, I experience the same thing I just can't handle people screaming at me it scares me. I've come to realisation that I'm going through same thing.

  • @moltyfoam89
    @moltyfoam89 3 года назад +4

    After watching the whole episode realized something that Maa se behtar fighter n supporter koi ho he nhi sakta but har mard bhi ek jaisa nhi hota.. Fathers are also a big support for their kids.. 😍
    Salute to this lady who took such risky steps for the betterment of her kids..
    And Kanwal Ahmed lots of love to u..
    Stay blessed always.. ❤

  • @Carzforevers
    @Carzforevers 3 года назад +4

    I know someone who is dealing with such situations on daily basis.
    Her husband coming home is exactly the same as of Laraibs father coming home. She gets abused on daily basis, but does not have heart to step out and leave. I am sure this episode when i am going to share with her will giver her some sort of courage and she can find some hope from it.
    Thankyou kanwal ans team.

  • @misjaffry8384
    @misjaffry8384 3 года назад +3

    Suleiman gave the whole tragic story a very happy ending indeed❤️❤️ The impact abuse both emotional and physical have on you stays with you for years I am glad she was able to find courage amidst all, A very very very brave move,sounds unbelievable to come out this strong,I am in awe.
    May she stay happy with her family.

  • @binteamjad637
    @binteamjad637 3 года назад +9

    Hats off to this mom.... Real hero....

  • @mehriqbal4944
    @mehriqbal4944 3 года назад +11

    Thank you for bringing up this topic. Have known Laraib since childhood, in fact she was my first best friend. So glad to hear her story, Laraib, you and aunty are so so brave mashaAllah. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @FulltimeProcastinator
    @FulltimeProcastinator 3 года назад +10

    I am feeling that Laraib is talking about my life n my mental state which i went through till the age of 21. My father was the villain of my life who supressed me to that extent by which i have lost my confidence n self esteem. Khuda aisa baap kisi dushman ko bhi na de.

  • @uzoobahchishti2516
    @uzoobahchishti2516 3 года назад +50

    Kanwal I really want to cry but can't this story seems like mineeeeee we are still suffering. Just waiting for Akhirat for justice

    • @tabinda5251
      @tabinda5251 3 года назад +6

      Have courage ist step is always hard but Allah madad zrur krta if we are willing to

    • @tubatariq8376
      @tubatariq8376 3 года назад +6

      Be brave stand up for yourself you deserve to be happy you are important. I hope and pray that you find the courage. It will be the best decision you could ever make!

    • @tabinda460
      @tabinda460 3 года назад +10

      I really dont know why people says this ....Allah allows you to fight for urself ,dont get opress...

    • @ingenioussterling9106
      @ingenioussterling9106 3 года назад +10

      Thats what this episode is all about.
      Strategize...make plans...
      get informed...keep the most imp emergency numbers of all the Edhi, Zia Awan or any other organization that can provide shelter.
      Start thinking Now....you might be able to execute your plans in 6 months.
      Freedom is the best thing ever

    • @fareehazubair8624
      @fareehazubair8624 3 года назад +5

      Just plan sooooo well.. And when you step out first then Allah will help you. You have to plan n come out of that place.

  • @arusaharis
    @arusaharis 3 года назад +4

    The mother is really a very strong woman but I feel Laraib is still somehow is not being able to forget what has happened ! May Allah keep them all happy always 🥰🥰🥰

  • @zuhataj7460
    @zuhataj7460 3 года назад +2

    So glad she came out of that relationship and is now free! Alhamdullillah. More power to her.

  • @fauziaarif1404
    @fauziaarif1404 3 года назад +1

    Kanwal you are creating an awareness amongst oppressed men & women to deal with a situation that is painful for them. They must come out of such a situation. Life is granted for once and one should not ruin it in the name of so called "forced sacrifices" which are in fact torturing one ownself.
    This woman was brave enough to get rid of toxic relationship. It is very sad and upsetting regarding the part of society and families of the women who force them to stay in such a toxic relationship, for whatever the reason. Always looking for helping hands for ourselves, we never support such women.
    A positive aspect is that there are good people around who can support/ guide you. One has just to look for them.

  • @amarakhan7912
    @amarakhan7912 3 года назад +2

    Hats off to the mom daughter duo...sitaron se agay jahan aur bhi hai ❤️

  • @ayeshaatif9990
    @ayeshaatif9990 3 года назад +8

    Hatts off to these women for speaking up on such an important issue. And thankyou kanwal for always opening up about such sensitive topics! ❤

  • @soobikafawad9333
    @soobikafawad9333 3 года назад +2

    I am speechless. Not every person is this gutsy to talk about this very issue. More power to you 💕💕

  • @bscs10102
    @bscs10102 3 года назад +2

    Brave women hats off to her courage. I hope she and her family lives a long happy healthy life.

  • @babelynrainbow3203
    @babelynrainbow3203 3 года назад +2

    Tears in my eyes .so much love .what a powerful woman .hugs to Laraib

  • @atikasyed3233
    @atikasyed3233 3 года назад +3

    Alhamdulliah she re married and is happy. May Allah Grant good spouses to all of ameen

  • @aneelaabbas4632
    @aneelaabbas4632 3 года назад +2

    Brave woman. Happy to see strong and positive Laraib in the form of an independent woman. Hats off to you Xx

  • @SeekingSoul12
    @SeekingSoul12 3 года назад +5

    Love you Kanwal to show this side to the world, Selecting Story is also very important and it shows your contribution to society. Allah Bless you

  • @scorplon6926
    @scorplon6926 3 года назад +2

    Hats off to this brave woman... We need such stories .. This is actual women empowerment

  • @vardabilal1199
    @vardabilal1199 3 года назад +4

    You blow me away everytime.. I have someone I know going through this and I think this is something that would encourage woman to get out of the bad because something always works out if you count on Allah.❤️

  • @sum_saifainna
    @sum_saifainna 3 года назад +12

    I knew so many families growing up around me. My freinds, usuallyfathers use to hit thier mothers. If farhers use to come from work it would a tense environment at homeas if a monster came from home. This women is courageous to take those steps, otherwise the kids grow up with these memories.

  • @aliakhan4524
    @aliakhan4524 3 года назад +2

    It is better to grow up in a broken home than two parents fighting all the time. Domestic violence has long-lasting impact on children's personalities and everything. I say the hell with male dominant society where women's every movement dictated and defined by males. I left my abusive marriage when I had two small children. Today, they are excelling in the world.

  • @anamsaif
    @anamsaif 3 года назад +7

    OMG.What a brave and smart woman.I was smiling at the end seeing them so happy.MashAllah.Thank you Kanwal

  • @mohanasen2126
    @mohanasen2126 3 года назад +5

    This topic touched my heart. Toxic marriages break people from inside, I could relate to every emotion... Proud of these women and infact all women who shows power and comes out this toxicity. It shows that it is possible. Yet another story of women empowerment... Keep up the good work... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kaneezkassim8037
    @kaneezkassim8037 3 года назад +2

    So happy for this brave woman. May she and her family be blessed forever.

  • @0gsd0
    @0gsd0 3 года назад +3

    Courageous you are and what an example you've set for your children too. Love your Bahaduri and faith girl! keep rocking you all ✨

  • @nadiabilals
    @nadiabilals 3 года назад +2

    The first half of every episode shows a bleak dark aspect of our society and the second half gives hope. Every episode is a glimpse of hope for people (specifically women) going through hardship, that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
    Thank you for sharing your story if survival

  • @asmi5947
    @asmi5947 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for talking about the effects of a toxic marriage on the children. It ruins generations. 💔

  • @tehreemfatima5389
    @tehreemfatima5389 3 года назад

    Thankyou so soooooo much kanwal for bringing it out trust me this is the issue of 70% of the Pakistani households... this gives sooo muchh hopeee

  • @fauziaarif1404
    @fauziaarif1404 3 года назад +3

    Kanwal you are doing a great job. You are showing how to survive in this society after having bad experiences and this gives other women a courage to break taboos.
    I'll suggest you to show episodes about dowry and how women tackle this problem.
    Another topic is finding a suitable rishta for a daughter and a son. People do face difficulties in this regard as well.

  • @Saira.Sidd25
    @Saira.Sidd25 3 года назад +2

    She is such a strong woman MashaAllah!! Thank you Kanwal for bringing these stories to light. I hope and pray that all women stuck in such situations can gather some strength through stories like this one.

  • @Gdhdkdgsu
    @Gdhdkdgsu 3 года назад +3

    Yeah Kanwal Ma'am you were Right. Really not weak people come to your show. They are in real sense strong.❤

  • @mariamyasmin7092
    @mariamyasmin7092 3 года назад +4

    This is something I can relate and I am feeling my story is being spoken by Laraib. Thank you Kanwal for highlighting this topic that covers many lives and many unspoken hearts can relate.

  • @ekaurat8199
    @ekaurat8199 3 года назад +14

    #SSPSquad
    Soo happy to see how this badass woman was able to take charge of her life and create a new reality for herself and her family away from that abusive asshole!

  • @bismajamil3676
    @bismajamil3676 3 года назад +4

    So proud of the two strongest women I know. They not only found a way out for themselves, which is already very admirable, they (especially laraib) also inspire others to not settle for what is normalized but is actually not normal. Their story shows that life doesn't end when you end up in a terrible situation, you just have to find a way out and everything will get better somehow. They give people tons and tons of courage! Marriage scares me but thanks to them I feel that one day if, God forbid, I end up in a similar situation, I won't give up and accept things as they are but will find a way out. ✊🏼
    Love them both❤️❤️❤️
    Sitaaro sy agay jahan or bhi hain 🔥🔥 🔥
    Also, Laraib has grown into a woman worthy of everyone's admiration. She's always striving to make other women aware of their rights. So proud of her!!! ❤️

  • @aasiatabassum5416
    @aasiatabassum5416 3 года назад +4

    Saba you are very brave woman as I know you from day first till now. More power to you and my daughter laraib. Proud of you 👍

  • @Ismaeel-d6m
    @Ismaeel-d6m 3 года назад +3

    Brought tears to my eyes.
    Best wishes all the way to Laraib and her family.

  • @noorulain86
    @noorulain86 3 года назад +2

    Such a brave lady mashAllah,,, i love her for being so brave and strong,, being a victim of toxic marriage and later on divorced,, i cn understand her pain and relief as well

  • @mehweshahsan7000
    @mehweshahsan7000 3 года назад

    Not just another story but a lesson in financial independence, educating yourself enough to work, working hard, making decisions, trusting Allah completely and yourself enough to walk out of a terrible situation! Here is hoping we hear more of such stories in future

  • @narutojapan11
    @narutojapan11 3 года назад +2

    I wanted to cry, I wanted to hug both of them. This resonates with me and my mom way too much. Thank you so much for sharing your strength, thank you for sharing your story

  • @ranihehe790
    @ranihehe790 3 года назад +2

    What a brave woman and mother. May Allah bless you in all and every possible way.

  • @nailaaziz5313
    @nailaaziz5313 3 года назад

    She is a role model for many other women. Too much courageous.. hat's off to kanwal for raised awareness about all what we all want

  • @hirahassan6492
    @hirahassan6492 3 года назад +1

    An amazing episode again.
    Nobody realises what damage we do to the children when they asked the mother or father to stay in an abusive marriage. The trauma stays forever.

  • @yasirkhanniazi4462
    @yasirkhanniazi4462 3 года назад +5

    Its really heart wrenching to hear such inhumane n abusive domestic voilence. Hatts off to courageous #Mam_Sabeen n her strong daughter Laraib🌹🎉
    It highlights how indifferent our society behaves when it comes to others n dont try to stop n help.
    This story demands strict laws n legislations against domestic voilence n abusers.
    Full marks to #CWK of taking initiative of discussing n highlighting taboo topics of our inhumane society.. Dont know how many distressed women will take courage to stand against this abuse..
    #MorePower_to_unprivileged_ladies🌹🌹

  • @umairakashaf1129
    @umairakashaf1129 3 года назад +2

    I literally have goosebumps! May Allah shower all his blessings on upon this family! Ameen

  • @ahs4099
    @ahs4099 3 года назад +3

    This episode was very emotional! Both of these strong women went through so much and alas our society was no where to support! This log kia kahen ge thought has ruined so many lives! Kudos to these women for being so brave.
    Well done Kanwal! You are creating a history of letting women speak up. ❤️

  • @peaceful7579
    @peaceful7579 3 года назад +2

    The thing I love about these series is there is always a happy ending❤
    This gives us hope that problems can be solved and there are so many amazing people in this world!

  • @mareeak
    @mareeak 3 года назад +2

    Amazing!
    The smile on her face when she says 'after fifteen years'❤
    And the end..as always...heart touching!

  • @sumanreactions
    @sumanreactions 3 года назад +7

    Same case with me, i never understand but today i got to know why i have so much anxiety in me,_ if someone shout over me, i start shivering , its bcz of my father behaviour with me that i feel so.panic, i cant talk and fight back with other people, thats why i avoide negative jhagralo people around me, i cant do all that😥,_

  • @sameennavaidhassan6518
    @sameennavaidhassan6518 3 года назад +2

    Such inspiring and strong mother daughter duo ❤️
    These stories not only empower my belief in the strength women posses but also restore my faith in the fact that the right kind of men have also been raised.

  • @sarwatsiddiqui7860
    @sarwatsiddiqui7860 3 года назад +1

    I love seeing people recover from messed up situations to end up getting the success,love and bliss they deserve.

  • @MrProsPlaying
    @MrProsPlaying 3 года назад +2

    So happy for her and her children to be free from the hellhole of that abusive relationship 💕 I pray all women in such abusive homes are able to get the courage to step up and leave.

  • @sumanreactions
    @sumanreactions 3 года назад +2

    I am watching this video second time for getting some courage😥,

  • @hanisafiuddin4643
    @hanisafiuddin4643 3 года назад

    Time for people to understand the real issues in our society. Well done Kanwal, well done Laraib and mum for speaking up. Someone needs to speak up.

  • @shamailakamran4748
    @shamailakamran4748 3 года назад +2

    I awe of Aunty and her courage!

  • @FNIAZ
    @FNIAZ 3 года назад +2

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    The best part of this show was talking to Laraib - that how did she feel in the situation.

  • @samkubla5745
    @samkubla5745 3 года назад

    Hats off to this very brave lady . She really has the guts to take such a big step in that society and end up leading a normal life . The young daughter is a very polished and mature young lady . Wish this brave lady and her family the very best for the future !

  • @ridaasghar3079
    @ridaasghar3079 3 года назад +9

    Never saw a woman as strong as her ! 😍 Waqye mai "Sitaroon se agay jahan aur bhi hain"

  • @choceam
    @choceam 3 года назад +2

    I am so happy for this lady mashaAllah. Woman has to be strong to move on rather sit and cry

  • @chauhdryfarhan3740
    @chauhdryfarhan3740 3 года назад +4

    I got religiously goosebumps when her mom told about her freedom and kanwal mam said MASHA"ALLAH
    Shine of your smile makes my eye's wet
    So nice of you mam

  • @anniebasit5220
    @anniebasit5220 3 года назад +2

    From my personal experience not from my husband from my in laws. You need to take that first step. The day you take that step everything will start getting back to normal. Stay strong man and woman both whoever stuck with a toxic relationship

  • @fatimajaved8144
    @fatimajaved8144 3 года назад +1

    Appreciated her struggle ..Brave Woman❤

  • @AN-rs2qw
    @AN-rs2qw 3 года назад +3

    The best part of every story is happy ending ... showing that all mards are not same .. Masha Allah such positiveness ...good job kanwel..keep going girl 💓💓💓

  • @amberjiwani3885
    @amberjiwani3885 3 года назад +2

    thank you so much for sharing this and i loved the fact that the women remarried and give marriage a second chance

  • @May_3005
    @May_3005 3 года назад +2

    Hats off to you for talking abt these issues
    I know many ppl who spent their entire lives in toxic relationships. This woman is very brave
    I’m very inspired by her

  • @naziaahmed3641
    @naziaahmed3641 3 года назад +2

    Amazing mother and daughter so much inspiration.May Allah swt bless u always

  • @aryamahima3
    @aryamahima3 3 года назад +1

    and here I am, as usual, crying happy tears..hey bhagwan... we women are so emotional but once we are determined to do something, nobody can stop us