Signs Of A Toxic Relationship (Part -1) | Eram Saeed

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
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    There's always hope in a relationship if both of the partners are ready to work on it with commitment. One of the basic needs in a relationship is a sense of peace, love and balance. But in some cases partners feel depressed enough that marriage becomes a source of chaos and misery. Yet they can’t figure out the source of how to fix it.
    Eram Saeed explains some of the signs of a toxic relationship that you should be aware of.
    1. Lack of support
    2. Toxic communication
    3. Controlling behavior
    4. Holding on to grudges.
    Watch the video 👇 to get to know how men and women both can be toxic for their partners unintentionally.
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Комментарии • 28

  • @khaulahjawed337
    @khaulahjawed337 2 года назад +3

    Aoa madam i always love your words of wisdom..May Allah always bless you
    Ameen

  • @azfarsyed7082
    @azfarsyed7082 2 года назад +1

    "Toxic" Relations have very side affects, effects.You are right its true.Hope Society to learn things at the beginning.We pray Good Matches for all. Thanks.

  • @princessisha5205
    @princessisha5205 2 года назад +4

    Thankyou, I had a forced arranged marriage at 17 to a narcissist, he abused me in all ways possible for 30 years of my life. For the past 7 years I was left with Agoraphobia, debilitating anxiety my body was in fight/flight mode 24/7.
    I had no quality of life I wouldn't want to do anything and up until then I was doing far too much, My husband never accepted our 3 beautiful daughters as he wanted sons,so I was left to bring them up alone. I left my husband over a year ago and my whole family disowned me , so I had no family and no friends as my husband drove all my close friends away. I was always told by my family that I had to stay in that relationship till the day I died..
    It's been a very long journey to look within to heal my childhood wounds as I was never wanted by my parents, I was the black sheep of the family.
    It was a very lonely journey where the 7 years I truly felt so lonely and suicidal .
    This is because I wasn't there for myself I didn't know what self love was.

  • @Wo.Main_Character_Energy
    @Wo.Main_Character_Energy 2 года назад +6

    I went through something very similar. I was about to get married to the guy. My friends and family kept on telling me this is not right, you are not getting the respect you deserve. This can become physically abusive. He had thrown things in anger, intimidated me by yelling, and pressed my hand in anger. His parents used to tell that he's impulsive and has anger issues but he loves you dearly. So you need to know how to handle him so you don't trigger his anger and keep him calm. When you stop provoking him he will not use abusive words. I had started doubting myself. I thought me and my parents are too demanding. Just because I earn well we are not able to compromise and act as per the expectations of the ladkewalas. They wanted to dominate everything in the wedding preparation as they were paying for half of the wedding and were not ready to accommodate any needs of my parents. The guy told me that my father is an arrogant man and he will take revenge from my father when time comes. I was so scared and i had no idea what's my responsibility and what's not. What's my fault and what's not. Finally the guy was not allowing me to choose my wedding dress. He said i was too stubborn to think of choosing ny dress on my own (that too after his mom had already given approval to me but she might have denied that to her son). I felt I have had enough. I'm sacrificing a lot by getting married and moving city, job everything for a guy who can't understand me or stand up for me. He was financially dependent on his parent's business. His parents had refused to let him draw any salary on request of my parents and they wanted to control financial decisions. I brokr off the engagement and didn't get married.
    I still think about the good parts sometimes and I'm finding it hard to move on. The guy tried to apologize and suddenly he was realizing all his mistakes and said that he was unable to see all the issues and will make changes. But this time I was unable to trust him and was really scared of living with his manipulative and controlling mother (who he used to think as a very wise and sensitive lady).
    3 months after apologizing to me and saying that he still loves me, he got engaged to another girl and posted romantic videos on Instagram.
    I've lost a lot. Lost my self esteem. Started feeling that I'm not good at choosing clothes, or not good enough in speaking, talking to people and what not. I still get nightmares about things his mother told me, things like I'm not mature enough and I'm not prepared to live in sasural as my mother has not been able to teach me. It's an ongoing PTSD and I just hope to recover.

    • @kulsumkhalid6071
      @kulsumkhalid6071 2 года назад

      Hi, dont be sad , disheartened, don't think bad about yourself, be confident what ever is happened or vl happen happens for best, trust in GOD, move forward , its not end of the world, busy your self in productive work, all the best takecare

  • @marjukrusselhera8143
    @marjukrusselhera8143 8 месяцев назад

    I love to listen you Ma'am from Bangladesh. Good wishes from BD❤️

  • @a3minutevideo737
    @a3minutevideo737 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤️

  • @vistrology6827
    @vistrology6827 2 года назад +1

    She is to the point 👍🏻

  • @willislewis1088
    @willislewis1088 2 года назад +1

    I have things I want to accomplish I'm not worried about the analyzing a realationship I'm in I have things I want to accomplish with or without someone..but supporting my woman is one of the main things.. that's my woman is absolutely important..

  • @shehwar4230
    @shehwar4230 2 года назад +1

    best lecture... 1000 percent true.

  • @linajamal8743
    @linajamal8743 2 года назад +2

    Asalamalakum
    How to deal with toxic People?
    Thankyou

  • @SanaKhan-ru6pe
    @SanaKhan-ru6pe 2 года назад

    Thanks ma'am!!
    You hv explained this essential topic very beautifully👍👍

  • @sadiakhan4923
    @sadiakhan4923 2 года назад

    Plz tell me how to get rid of this toxic relationship im sick now.. i need help 😭😭

  • @khaulahjawed337
    @khaulahjawed337 2 года назад

    I have learned a lot from you..

  • @sarwatsheikh8278
    @sarwatsheikh8278 2 года назад +8

    Problem with our culture is that, we dont emotionally educate our children, and once the time of marriage comes up, children dont have clear mindset that what they actually want....cause they usually dont even know themselves at this point in time. Like..when I was getting married at the age of 25, my mother gave me the phone to talk to him and I asked a very silly question..."What is your Zodiac sign" :))))) Was THAT something I really wanted to know??? :)))) Of course NOW I know....but Alhamdulillah by Allah's Meharbaani its not a toxic combination but..see, we need to emotionally educate our kids so that they can have a clear mindset. We need to show them a way to explore their VALUES, before getting married.

  • @erumbaloch5999
    @erumbaloch5999 Год назад

    Mam i need your help mein kesay ap sy rabta karon and apni problem depression share karon batau

  • @rahilakiran5048
    @rahilakiran5048 2 года назад

    Love ur words....

  • @rabiarauf5841
    @rabiarauf5841 2 года назад

    Wonderful ❤❤

  • @JayashreeSreedharan
    @JayashreeSreedharan 8 месяцев назад

    Never get stuck in a toxic relationship when u are not a priority abuse of any form infidelity as soon as u find out. Run😂

  • @motivationalspeech2627
    @motivationalspeech2627 2 года назад

    ❤ Beautiful ❤️🌹🌹

  • @AishaKhawaja0077
    @AishaKhawaja0077 2 года назад

    aoa eram appi i wana talk to you on this topic how can i contect you plz reply

  • @asifal-mashriqi7025
    @asifal-mashriqi7025 2 года назад

    Thumbnail Urdu mein bunaayen. Tab views aayen gy.

  • @reactionpk7462
    @reactionpk7462 2 года назад

    So basically you are saying your words by the name of islam.