Teach People How To Treat You - Lisa Nichols
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
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The Lisa Nichols Show is a place where you can come at any given time to get the step by step tools you need to live the life that you want. In this special episode, Matt asks Lisa questions submitted by the tribe and answers a question about why you need to teach people how to treat you.
Now... This is not just a monologue, it's a dialogue. Make sure to share your thoughts below in the comments and subscribe to this channel and look out for more amazing content every week!
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At age 86, you inspire me TO DO MORE!
♥️♥️♥️♥️your comment inspires me even more
Joe Sabah wow ❤
Joe Sabah Joe you inspire me to want to do more and be more. Wow!
Amen, God Bless!!
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Isn't it funny that when we are treating ourselves real bad,we demand that we be treated well by people🤔😳. Love from Kenya,Lisa. 😍
Wow that's so truee!!
“If you don’t give yourself rest, then the world thinks that you don’t need rest. Your rest has less value if you give it away. Be more comfortable with your nos”
Wow..
That message have so much strength and power behind it gratitude
"If you want your 'yes' to have any value, you have to be comfortable with your 'no'."
That hit me.
Harder than anything I've ever heard in my life. I was sitting at work trying so hard not to cry. They penetrated me at my core. Because I have been living my life having everybody around me making my decisions for me and more than half of those decisions I regret. Because I said yes when I needed to say no. And I've said yes to way too much that has been pulling me down and pushing back away from leaping over that edge. I was inspired by a recent friend who told me about your work and I thought to myself, "I just gotta see what she's about!!"
I am telling you right now... I did not expect you to be this impactful on my life. Watching your videos makes me feel like I need to meet you face to face and soak up all your wisdom! It feels like I'm this small little human who needs help. And a lot of times I don't even want to admit it. But for a split second, I was looking through the lense of the real me and how I see my future. For a split second, all possibilites of being the me I want to become opened up in view. But I'm scared. I'm so scared of making mistakes. I'm so scared of becoming successful. I live in fear and its so hard to leap. Sometimes it feels like theres not enough passion to leap. And sometimes fear is too much that it makes it even harder. However, there is something inside me that keeps pulling me to learn. It keeps urging me to seek out my passion and to fight for what I love. And you have helped made all of this so much easier for me. The more I listen to you, the better it gets. I don't know how you do it! But it's incredible, Lisa.
Thank you!
Beautiful
All of me is glad for you!!
You sound like me boo ❤
Tell me about it! Your thoughts resonate with mine. ❤🙆
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I will replace fear with information. Fear is keeping me from creating, loving, and TRULY living.
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Same, blessings!
" I don't teach from a mountain top, I teach as I am walking up the mountain with you."
Lisa Nichols
This is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard. Sending love, you have my respect and admiration. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
One of my favorite religious leaders once said "a friend is someone who helps you be better" or something like that ... I live in a lonely life at times but desire so badly a tribe of those who encourage me to be the woman I dream of. I've made a habit of calling you, and a handful of others my friends. I listen, I learn, I go and grow... Thanks for being a true friend Lisa!
Julia Cowell
I hear you loudly re how you live n the need for positive connections the encourage the best you to live loud n proud!
Happy days ahead! x
So understand... Yes I need to me my cheer leader but there are days you just need one person in your corner.. Still looking for my tribe through. Keep it pushing you'll get there we all will. Peace 😀
I can truly understand what you mean, to too have quite an isolated life most of the time because I recognise the value of the right tribe. Good luck to you I'm sure you're tribe is on its way 😉
Maybe its time to make your own tribe....only you would know what you need from a tribe....so my initiating one....you will find out that there is more people like you trying to find a tribe...and there YOU WILL BE WITH YOUR TRIBE READY TO WELCOME EVERYONE WITH THE SAME NEEDS!!!
God bless you Julia Cowell one of my millions of friends.I give a friend to you who never leaves nor forsakes and keeps your spirits lifted at all times.Jesus Christ and also the music of Fred Hammond that you can feed your spirit.God bless you always and forever Keep your head up remain encouraged.
Dear Lisa,
I was on the verge of drowning myself in deep sea water. I didnt wanna die but I wanted an escape. My mind was draining the soul out of my body. I felt hopeless and worthless. Despite being on psychology therapy, it didnt help me at all. I was scrolling through Facebook one day and i came across your video "These 3 sentences will change your life". I've watched so many inspiring videos but nothing made any sense to me. At first i watched your video because i really loved your English accent. I'm an admirer of language. But once i watched the video, i felt alive. I felt that im breathing again. I realised that your video actually spoke to my soul. In July last year, i looked at myself in the mirror and i hated the reflection. I realised that i actually hated mirrors since i was very young because i didnt like the way i looked. If i stare long enough into my eyes in the mirror, i tend to cry because i feel sad for myself as im going through so much hardships. Ive always been an ambitious person but all my ambitions drowned coz i cant think clearly. My mind was a mess. On that day, it striked me that if i hate myself, the way i look and my first impression on myself, how would anyone else love me or even want to be a friend of mine. I was such a negative person. I used to be this cheerful girl who made everyone happy but I've lost that girl now. That day, i decide to buy myself a huge mirror and look at myself, look at all my flaws and how can i make them better. But to this day i havent done it because i was afraid of being happy about myself, afraid that it wouldnt last. As the new year begun, i promised myself that im going to give myself the happiness and peace i wanted and to have a great year. Right now i happy that my mirror idea was similar to what you have done to yourself. I know that i have started in the right place in my transformation pathway. I'm glad I came across your video, and i know now that im not alone and there is still hope for me. Just do me a favour and keep doing what you're doing now coz the world needs more love. The world now is dying of depression. Reach out to people they need help. Lisa Nichols, thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart. Love you from all the way here in Malaysia.
Yegeshweriy Karunagaran
You did not lose yourself ...you are this cheerful girl and you deserve love and happiness so be ambitious and shine to let the world to know how great you are.
You're amazing, Lisa! It was amazing to hear you say" go back to the steps you took before, to get to the successful place you're right now, for surely retaking those rightful steps, will surely, take you to another level of glorious success". Keeping shining and blessing your world, Lisa! Thank you and remain blessed always!
I applaud you for what many are too afraid to say... I am here to tell you that you are here for a purpose. Look at yourself every day and tell yourself you are beautiful. When you walk pass a mirror, compliment the woman in that mirror. You are beautiful and you can't wait for someone else to tell you, start telling yourself and soon you will realize that no matter who notices it, you already know that you are beautiful 😍😍😍
Sending you love from my soul to yours. You can do this, one day at a time.
Dear Yegeshwiry, you should write if you aren't writing already. What you wrote really pulled me in. And pace yourself. Perhaps you start with only a 2 second glance and say,"beautiful " . Then you can go from there
Im crying with love from your words. I have been using drugs and alcohol. I have hurt people. I have hurt myself for too long. Smile in front of my tears. Love you Lisa. Thank you
'Fear is a creative conversation about the future'. Hmmmmmm!!!
I heard that Lisa.
Thank you for this
Thank you God for allowing Lisa to be the vessel which to help guide the lost and stuck. Love you Lisa, may God continue to bless and use you.
God brought you into my life exactly when I needed to hear your message the most. I'm terrified for the huge life changes I HAVE to make. But for the first time in too long, I have courage & hope. If you did it, I can do it. Thank you for sharing your experience, strength & hope with this broke, scared single Mama. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you for letting God use you to be the vessel for His message to me.
I'm crying here too Lisa...you truly are a gift to us. I say thank you for giving me the courage to forgive myself and love me. I connect so much with your heart. I love you😘
glad I wasn't the only 1, lol!
Ughhh Me too. Very humbling.
Seriously hits home. Touched my soul!
AH HA! I stopped being a YES girl. And I have seen my value increase. Thank you Lisa!
“I wanted my smile to be true and authentic, and so, I forgave myself. Every day, I forgave myself again for the same thing I forgave myself for the day before.” Got my crying tears. Thank you. I needed to here every single question and answer. Thank you.
"Not to feel guilty to soar even if your family doesn't". Tha's so powerful. Thank you Lisa!
You reminded me that I have a right and responsibility to have my boundaries in place and inform people how they may or may not be able to treat me....
I'm forgiving myself.
"You are a part of my get back up." Thank you...light and love to you.
Going 3 months and still on my exercise program consistently! Thanks Lisa
I came here feeling so much hate towards myself. Learning how to love and forgive myself is the greatest gift. Thank you so much Lisa!
Be easy on yourself... Slow down
Awww... group hug ... I'm crying now too
It's World Gratitude Day today & I'm watching this! Thank you! I am grateful for your lessons & wisdom, Lisa ❤
Thank you brother & sister. You are so special and I love your courage. The world need people like you. People with big hearts who are not afraid to show it. Love is the answer to all our questions. Thank you so much
“Fear is really informing YOU!” You don’t know how helpful that comment was. Thank you 🙏🏿
I saw you when you came to visit Universal Centre of Truth in Jamaica and I was blown away by your energy and love!! Kudos to you and the work you do. Thank you..continue giving us what we all want and need to hear!
"Replace fear for information"
"If you want your yes to have ANY VALUE, you NEED to be more COMFORTABLE with your no"
'Inspiration always fits"
" 7 reasons why you forgive yourself everyday"
this is what spoke to me the most after watching this, thank you.
I take out 15 to 30 min out of my day everyday maybe even 3 times a day when I need that extra push of inspiration/motivation to keep going and not give up, to listen to a speaker or influencer and so far you and David goggins are my daily go to's.
The world is one big community and each person is bigger than themselves our purpose comes down to one thing to make our world a better place.
Thank you again, for reminding me that falling down is not the end, but simply the place where you reassess, make a new plan and hit restart. Thank you Ms. Nichols.
Wish I had heard this years ago ,at 74 I have learned the hard way as a giver pleaser till no man valued me enough to treat me decent. Abuse was familiar. Thanks for your wisdom
Lisa you’re so genuine, inspirational, vulnerable, open minded, supportive, helpful, and kind! Thank you Lisa 😊❤️
January 19 2018 is the first time I'm sitting and listening to u.... God is really using you.... You give me heads up miss Lisa nicolos's
Wow this woman is deep and I Thank God for her. Blessings to you.
I’m a person who can accomplish anything. Therefore friends think I can do anything they need. It’s bothered me that I’ve been a yes person. Now I know I can say no. I need to build my online business and I’ve not had the time. Thank you so much for opening me eyes and heart. I so appreciate you Lisa. I’m also trying to learn your snaap. Blessings
This is absolutely beautiful-your powerful passion and humility is such a role model of who I desire to be!!!!
I am so glad to hear you say, your yes is a valuable answer that should not go out void. And truly our no has the greatest value because saying no gives you control over your life. This why I had to made a turning point in my life after doing the mirror conversation. I love ❤️ myself so much more. I to forgive me for all the hurt and pain that I brought in my life, as well as others. Thanks 🙏 so much Lisa for all that you do and all that you have been through, because it has all worked out for your good.
Magdaline Williams I needed to hear this. Thank you Lisa Nichols
Lisa, you are awesome! You amaze me with how intelligent you answer questions unplanned for. You have such wisdom. Every video I watch with you gets me excited and I walk away with a little more wisdom every time. Thank you!
Chidinma Attah Thanks 🙏 to you my sister!!
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I am crying right now. 😭 I have been struggling with self worth for the longest time. It affects every aspect of my life. When you said look in the mirror and tell yourself why you forgiven yourself. That hit me pretty hard I think that I've tried forgiving everyone else that I forgot to forgive myself. I needed this I was scrolling through all the motivational videos and this one stopped me. You are truly amazing Lisa Nichols I hope I get to meet you soon.😍😍😍
I discovered Lisa some few months ago when I was scrolling my you tube page to know what to watch and I happen to chance on Lisa. I said to my self, let's see what she's got and to my surprise, she blew my mind and my whole being away. Since then, I have been trying to watch all her videos one by one. Am searching also for her books to read because I want to be complete. Thanks Lisa.
Nana kesewaa Yeboah from Ghana
For the first time since I can remember, I'm taking the first full week of the year off from work and family. My employer has consistently solidified their intent to NOT help me move up in the organization. To the point, I'm working in a dead space and have been for SEVEN YEARS. During this time off, my home is getting some much needed attention, I'm doing yoga and nurturing my mind and heart with helpful messages. My expectations by the end of this seven day hiatus are: 1. Write down what I want and need. 2. Assess the tools that are readily available to me now. 3. Find out what is needed for me to fulfill #1. 4. Go get it. Thanks for being part of this process.
To see you two be so real and honest made me feel not alone. Such lovely people. Hope to be as brave as you one day Lisa .x
Ms. Lisa Nichols thank you so much for valuing US ... teaching us LESSONS .. keeping us in touch with what reality is bringing us TODAY, TOMORROW and in the FUTURE . I know your words of inspiration will bring us to something BIGGER.. to the peak of HAPPINESS...Thank you for helping me so much in forgiving myself....Thank you for being the oxygen that we need to STOP and THINK AGAIN when we are in anger...Thank you so much for boosting POSITIVITY in my life.. in our lives.. You are such a great woman..makes me want to leap like the way you do. I LOVE YOU ! I'm PROUD to say to the world I am inspired by LISA NICHOLS.
NOW, I have to learn to value my Yes higher; ESPECIALLY when, as I teach how to treat me, I encounter resistance.
So many people have said at the age of 25 you will discover who you are and you will turn into the woman you are destined to be. That used to frighten me and worry me as I did not know how I would discover myself. Ever since I came across you and your life story and then all these videos, you have helped me through my journey on self discovery and I am well on my way to being the amazing woman I know I am destined to be. Your words and tips and most importantly your kind soul has helped me in many many ways and I truly and firmly believe god sent you my way as guidance. Thank you for sharing your love
Lisa, I’ve been viewing your you tube videos for over two years. When I saw your first video; I think it was a Ted Talk or Wells Fargo or something; it was before your visual transformation; you’re always beautiful then and now, but it woke me up; it was like a shock to my system. I was near dead with the regular life routine and accepting what people and life gave me and you made me realize I matter and it’s okay to feel like I matter. Thank you.
there is a big yes in my belly.. no plans..watching you every morning..and im positive the other YES is on its way
Beyond inspired 🙏🏾 I am so grateful for you Lisa and Matt. We all need a good tribe and this family is GREAT. I needed this message more than anything today. Rewatching 🙏🏾 ❤️ Lisa God Bless You
I havent been a person for a long time. I didnt know that I was me and that I was mistreating myself by not acknowledging me. I let people do things and I let myself do things that make it hard to forgive myself. But when you said I am the example to show the world how to treat me, you brought me to tears. Because I treated myself so bad, giving away my yeses way to easy just to please everyone. Thank you for beeing such a powerfull mind Lisa that can analyze the things and willing to share it with me from the bottom of your heart! I can feel you so much!! I feel you!! I love you for beeing the women that you are. I wish you everything that words cant even describe and money cant buy! You help me so much to grow!! You are like a mother to me that I never had!! I love you from the bottom of my heart!! Keep soaring so I'll always know where to go if I'm lost!!
Chidori Yamamoto It is well with you.
Lisa Because of you I have hope and feel like living Thank you let me knowing who I am
Cut off the guilt, the shame and so on. Love you Lisa
I am one of those people, who has not been able to leave a comment for over year till now cause every time I watched a video of you it blows my mind like WOW. Thank you Lisa, you have taught me so much.
I want to say thank you, You took me from a dark place in my life; to a place of possibilities. I Love you Both!
BOL YES YES......
I TOTALLY agree! Fear is not an enemy. I dare say that none of our emotions are enemies. In the context of self mastery, our emotions always contain information. The key is learning how to read those emotions and what they're telling you. They tell you about things that you're not consciously aware of. "Go get the information that fear is telling you that you need, and fear will be satisfied and go away." Put the plan in place that your fear is telling you that you need. Yes! That's part of the road to living your dreams, I've found. Thanks Lisa!
Nana Anan really really true!!
I pray that God continues to bless you! I'm a wife ,mother of 4 a business owner and a daughter of a sick mother. I'm trying to learn how to love and give to myself. I'm reading No Matter What and listening to you almost everyday.Thank you Lisa!
To forgive my self for allowing dishonor and disrespect mostly because I did not expect much from me. I Thank you Lisa & Matt
Ma'am you had this session like there was a white flag on the horizon! Ohhh I would have STALKED YOU mam! ....what I learned from this show is that your journey is never over. I have been following you for a year now... And I found u when I was searching for change but didn't know where to start. You have helped me to do some things like "renew my mind" and "forgive myself"...my *aha* moment today was seeing Matt there as your support and seeing the intimacy of your truth... That the encourager needs encouragement ....#tribetribetribe! This is a journeynot a destination and who you journey with matters! ... #bol #journey
zeeb116 love those ah ha moments! What a blessing.
Me by the end of this episode: 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!!
My heart has been BLESSED!!!! Soooooooo enriched....
Thank you both and each and everyone else involved in this production for blessing my life!😘
May God bless and enrich you in return❤️.
My best friend told me to watch your videos and I am so glad I did. Thank you and God bless you in all that you do!
Lisa, I am inhaling....I am a part of your mass..I Looove you and your energy to motivate the masses. ..I am releasing my fear of stepping out..., I am getting an intimate tribe and my accountability partner. I first used your terms "teach the world how to treat you" in a training session I had and it was an awesome moment for me and how it let me feel. ....and realize that its better to give an honorable "No" than tyo give an "inauthentic "Yes". Thank you so much Lisa. God bless you.
Lisa, my heart feels like it is coming back together. I love when you said you don't preach from a mountain top but you are with me walking up the mountain. I felt another wind come back into my body. I love you Sister💖🌱🌿🌳
Perfect Timing! Just got to the cafe w/ intent to journal & reflect on my Self work for 2018. A PERFECT way to start.
Cuz last year was a Beat Down. So tired of being a doormat...and tryna recover my Self Esteem. Yes-- Thank you for carrying forward that healing Voice.
U r my sister, my family ❤.I m so lucky to come across u and now get ahead with life with ur views in my mind.love u.
At Joe Sabah! Yes, yes! Same here I will be 62 in 2 weeks..I also needed this!!! Ready to embrace and Do Me and Do More!!!! Teach others who Iam, what I stand for, how I will be treated.I listen to the fear...go around it by using common sense ,wisdom, analytical , critical thinking , strategizing , take action in strong faith overcome Fear!!!! Replacing Fear with Information!!! Hallelujah!!! Thank you so much sister Lisa I love you and do thank God for you from the moment I read The Secret and watched the movie, followed you up to this point and will continue. Thank you for helping me to be more comfortable Saying No, not expecting( needing) to please everyone all the time saying by saying yes to every request!!! Yes!!!Yes, Yes! Yes! Iam putting myself first, forgiving, loving, embracing, accepting me as I am today! Yes, yes!❤😇🙏.
“I was going to sentence myself to a very dark future”
Thank you Lisa! And Matt, for this beautiful episode. I'm grateful to God for you and the powerful message he has placed within you to be given to us, to the world.
Dear Lisa I am Isabelle from Guadeloupe FWI. I am 50. I want to thank you because I don't miss a single show since I suscribed aproximately 2 years ago. I've been through so many difficult times in my life. I still have challenging times but thanks to you I learned how to face them. I learned a lot from you on how to teach people how to treat me. I am learning how to forgive myself for having made bad choices that, just like you, have endangered me and my son who is now 17. You're a shining star a super nova that leads the way to love peace and forgiveness. Keep sharing your gift with us, we desperately need you. Thanks a lot. Isa.
My heart shares the same universal heartbeat as I felt such authenticity while watching this. Lisa, you are such an amazing gift from God and with every video I watch of yours, the divine just keeps pouring more and more gifts ...it's like a never ending unwrapping of pure wisdom! And Matt you are a perfect diamond reflection in action. I loved what you said about confronting fear and asking it for more information. I took your Speak and Inspire course and it has been absolutely life transforming for me. I'm now going through your course a third time! I started doing inner mirror work since 1999, but over the years it dwindled down. You reignited the fire in me and I find myself back in the mirror regularly for more growth. As a visionary artist and spiritual scientist over the past 30 years, I've created a masterpiece self-empowerment program called Reawakening the Soul, A Journey to Discover and Express Your True Nature. It includes an oracle wisdom card deck, books, coloring books, videos, etc. But the craziest thing is that during the entire time of this creation the thought NEVER, EVER occurred to me that I would have to get out, speak and deliver! Creating art is similar to a secret love affair between myself and God, now I have to really tear through the veils and accept vulnerability (which has been tough.) I've been working on this fear for a long time, but you have really pulled me out further than I ever dreamed possible. Keep being REAL Sister, because it is truly heart felt and transformative. Keep Shining!! *
Dear Lisa and dear Team,
Beautiful video. Wisdom nuggets which pump me even more up for seeing you live in SD @mindvalleyreunion in Feb '18. YesYES
Lisa, you are my newest discovery and I am so glad I found your videos ♥
I don't know why but I was teary eyed through most of your talk... thank you for sharing
Thank you Lisa and Matt for a wonderful video. My BOL moment was when Lisa was talking about forgiving herself in front of the mirror and mentioning 7 things she kept forgiving herself for, and after 6 months of repeating that, there was nothing that came up after stating it in front of the mirror. And that's how she knew that she had forgiven herself for whatever held herself back, it just never came up when stating it in front of the mirror! I honestly believe that, it's just a feeling that I get when mentioning something that seems outdated after repeating it in front of the mirror. It's as if my mind and body are tired of hearing it over and over and are telling me that it's time to move on and that there's nothing to forgive myself for anymore.
You could see the deep connection of friendship in both of your eyes that was so heartfelt and genuine. Your wisdom knows no bounds but I loved it when you talked about looking at yourself in the mirror and forgiving yourself. It was my A-ha moment. Thank you x
Thank you very, i needed to here that how to start saying NO part
Hi Liza, 1st of all, I just wanted you to know that I am thankful for sharing your knowledge in this platform. People living on the other side of the world like me get the chance to learn from you. I first saw you in the movie "The Secret" among all the speakers you are one I got captivated into that's why I searched for you 5 years ago and from then on I started to follow you. As a result, I was able to copy your styles and confidence while on the stage. Thank you and I love you!
Love how raw this is- y’all are awesome!!
thanks Lisa and Matt, for giving me this new life! I'm renewed. I feeeeellll soooooo happpppppyyyyyyyy.love u guys
I love you Lisa!!!!
Love and light❤
I swear your show has gotten me out of depression. I watched as much of the videos i could find on youtube, and every time I feel something negative or questioned something. i look for a video when you may have touched on That something that i am feeling. You are indeed oxygen. Thank you for this free session every morning.
For so long I went mute and didn't know how to go about expressing myself and eliminate certain unhealthy circle in my life. This episode became my aha moment! I'm gratified and filled with new energy,may God continue to use you as his gracefully instrument.
YES, YES, YES! The chattering voices. This is right on point, but here's how to focus better: The next time you hear chattering voices in your head and you're trying to mentally shut them up; focus on the sound of the voice. Is it a masculine voice, a feminine voice? Is it a voice of a child? A masculine child? A feminine child? Is it a cartoon character voice or the voice of one of your favorite movie actor or actress? I pay attention to ALL my thoughts and I've found an old commercial that was playing over and over in my head from childhood! Every experience is in you. Without all our experiences who are we? By understanding what voice is speaking to you will help you eventually find YOUR voice and after you learn YOUR voice you'll be able to better understand how to cypher your thought processes and be great!
Good to see Matt again. I remember him from the Jam sessions.
Lisa, in listening, to your talks over the past few days, I realized my fear of being seen is the only thing between me and vibrant health. It’s run my life but I keep showing up again and again and I will finish my story. I was a timid girl who had no voice, I’m a wife, Mama, two time author who’s passionate about emotional wellness. I haven’t arrived but I’m on my way. Thank you, thank you for making young Lisa proud, for showing up for her and all of us, your brothers and sisters. Thank you for giving me breath. 💞
Wow! What a great understanding of what fear is. We run from fear. We hide, bury it, do whatever we can to run away from fear. This was a light bulb moment for me to use my fear to empower myself... use my fear for information.
Thank you very much for this video. I was feeling very depleted today. This made me remember I have value. Thank you for your motivation and kindness. You and your team are saving lives, and I appreciate that greatly. Thank you.❤
Dear Lisa, thank you so much for your work, you are amazing. I love you! Thank you Matt! You guys look terrific together!
What I love about this, Is Fear is needed and has to be addressed, to fuel me, and information is key. Make fear the NOTHINGNESS that it is. I thank God for you Lisa Nichols 🙏🏾
Oh my goodness, Lisa Nichols, you really touch my soul with the things you say and how you say them. You are such a gorgeous person. Thank you for having had the courage and conviction to have left your 'community' so that you could move ahead and be where you are, because now, you are able to transform hundreds of thousands of lives...
Hi Lisa, I try and tell everyone I meet with such enthusiasm that their eyes light up in anticipation of pulling you up on "RUclips" which makes me smile, since I know they will be thoroughly blessed. My takeaways from tonight's episode "Teach People How to Treat You" are many:
It is clear that I must embrace mirror work and forgive myself for a lot of things I have been holding myself hostage over, knowingly and unknowingly. Another profound moment for me is that I am used to "being on" for everyone and everything not realizing that my Yes to everyone was losing its value because at times I did it grudgingly and resentfully, because I was tired at the time they asked although I genuinely meant it when I told them they could call on me, anytime. Again not wanting to displease others, I always acquieced. Also, not getting proper rest was another big one. Awhile back, I started going to bed at 10:00pm to get 8hrs of sleep because deep down I realized thay it was necessary for me in order to function at my optimum level, but then I fell off that wagon and opened myself up once again, to my detriment, which resulted in me not giving myself the first opportunity to care for me. It is so amazing how we blame others for what we really have authority over and have mistakenly given away.
I now understand that there is no guilt in taking care of me; there is no guilt in demanding respect from others who think that it is okay to be disrespectful just because I refuse to respond in kind. It is okay to stand up for myself even if others are taken aback because my new posture is foreign to them because of the way in which I misrepresented myself in the past over things I was well deserving of.
Like so many others who have commented regarding your impact and assistance in transforming their lives, I join them in saying "I love you" and "Thank You" for being so transparent and authentic about your personal journey which teaches us (those who are willing to listen and change) that God can also use us for the good of others as we navigate through our imperfections and frailties and social, physical, environmental, mental, financial, and spiritual woes we encounter in life. I can feel your genuine heart for all of God's people as you effortlessly raise your voice in harmony with ours as one who has been there, at times is still there, and knows how to be abased and abound in bad times and in good times. (Philippians 4:12). Just know that your inner resolve and humility shines brightly for all of us to see!!!
God bless you Lisa Nichols!!!😊😇💯💕
Lisa is so humble and REAL! I love u and I only just met u. Please come to the Caribbean to do a show. I promise u I would attend with all my friends. I don't have a US visa :(
Iv been driving and listening to your videos your voice gives me a warm feeling and the belief of hope.
Lisa, my life has changed since No Matter What! Everyday I work my muscles. Listening to you makes me believe that everything is possible. Thank you. I love you.
Happy New Year! Two words....Thank you.
Just breath in Oxygen, THANKS. Need this You put the AWE in Awesome information and Video. Hugs. Battling homeless and PARKINSON Your part of my favorite PEAPLE. Love it. (Trust and TRUTH, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.)
This just blessed me sooo much!!!!!! & HIS NAME IS IMMANUEL! won't HE do it. I never realized how badly I need to forgive myself. I constantly wonder why it's so hard for me to GENUINELY love others, not from a place of people-pleasing or duty or any of that, but TRUE compassion. God's word tells us to love others as we love ourselves. I know God has been trying to heal me, but I never realized how much I had been holding myself hostage. He brought me here for a reason. Thank you for your wisdom, Lisa! :)
Thank you for affirming my journey and my willingness to stand in my own truth.
YES! YES! sister Lisa. Love it and I love you for keeping your light shinning on. You are just what the doctor recommended me my daily dose of Vitamins.
That's so authentic, emotional and empowering too 😊🙏💚
I love you lisa and you changed my life,
Thank you for being here 🙏.
I needed this today. I do keep score, I am hard on myself and easier on others. I feel guilty when I take care of myself and not everyone else. However, I know now that I am the most valuable person in my life. Without a healthy and happy me, there will be no help for others. Thank you for giving me the strength to focus on ME!
Oh! I forgot I am beginning with my next paycheck which should be in the second week of September 2018. I start work September 4th.
Oxygen...that is true dear...
Thanks Lisa for standing up for me and teaching me how to stand up for myself and my children. I love you and the tribe 😂😂
I only heard your msgs the other day and yes, its still God sent at the right time for me.