This hits home, strung the few cords but the best part is it gives HOPE too! Thank you, Kanwal for stepping up and bringing the stories of these superwomen to us. It helps to know that we are not alone, that we don't have to settle for less, that we don't have to compromise ourselves for others, and most importantly there is not just light but a full lighthouse at the end of the tunnel. Apart from that the set, the direction and the quality of content are beyond amazing and unparalleled to a lot we see every day. The one thing that makes this show the one that pierces the heart is your empathy and the power of listening you have.
@@Kanwalful sis I've question for u in Pakistan dats a Muslim country as far as I knw and as Muslim da gals were supposed to receive da Dowry as per da holy Quran den y do dey practise da culture of da boy receiving da Dowry
@@warsamefardowso1598 Dowry is not an Islamic obligation but a cultural norm (which is absolutely burdensome & abhorrent). Mainly bcz of subcontinent hangover. In fact it's the duty of bridegroom to take care of his wife but even highly educated families do the opposite out of greed & cultural ritual. But trend is now changing as well. Good stories also need projection
She was smiling but throughout the episode I was like how terrible it would have felt to go through this. Alhumdulillah for the happy ending, now I know what the smile was all about. Lots of duas Kanwal 💗
How I enjoyed her talking. This woman is so adorable cheerful and full of life. Alhamdulillah.... More power to you Sisters... I was scared in the middle of the episode if it did not have happy ending. But Alhamdulillah 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 at the end I was much much relieved 😌... We wait for the episodes. I also keep an eye on the time, if it's long I become happy, that my 20-25 minutes are going to be productive in Sha Allah.... 🎉 🎉 🎉 JazakAllah khair sis for sharing this with us.... More power to you as well from India 🇮🇳
At last she met the right people and not the beggars themselves. Allah has better plans!! She had been so composed throughout the episode and her innocence was truly projected.
My in laws are also greedy people but my husband has been nice in these matters and never pressurised me. My mother in law is the greediest woman i know. Ours was love marriage. Thank god we are away from them now. Ese logo ka peth kabhi nahi bharta, na dahej lo na do. Mera bhi bhai hai hum kuch nahi lene waale na tab lungi jab mera khudka beta shaadi karega
I m soo happy for her that she met the right person, more power to you and your family girl❤️, you are soo lucky to have a sister like her, best of luck for future❤️
seriously! I would literally say it to their face that you people are beggars! Don't ever be afraid to talk crap on such people's face they should know themselves where they belong, always put these TRASH in their place!
They are worse than beggars,beggars boss bankar nahin mangtey.Isi din ke liye aise auraton ko bete chahiye take unkey sapney bahu se puri karayen aur sar par bhi chadhi rahen
That last line she said was so empowering.. it sends chills in your mind and soul. Wow if people will keep this kind of thinking that it would be so great. World worth living. God bless them.. and keep her happy
It's true....daughter themselves start feeling like a burden......and if the girl is chubby or dark skinned dowry just gets doubled.....these filthy traditions make girls feel like a burden to themselves and to their parents also.
You are such a good listener who give others a comfort zone to talk about their bad experiences. And I think in this society it's a most difficult task to listen others. Hats of to you mam.
Literally!!! I binge watched all the episodes from season 1 and I would like to Thank kanwal for bringing such important issues on greater platform and spreading awareness and motivating the victims and making them survivors. I would like you to never end this series. We need this type of content to be made so we can turn to be better. Thanks Again
I agree her politeness n smile is soo charming MashaAllah and her hope n positivity too..honestly we need more ppl like her friends too who help you to grow n make wiser decisions in life..respect for her husband n mother in law..Such well groomed ppl..
Kanwal didi mujhe apki yeh show bohat jyada pasand hai specially jo jo problems larkiyo neh face kia hai n un problems se woh bahar nikalke ayi hai woh dekhke mujhe bohat strength milti hai andar se... Love you so much didi...
Kanwal, thank you as always for conducting every conversation with such dignity, compassion and respect. You are a terrific listener without adding any value judgement. Instead, you acknowledge their experiences as well as provide great support to the survivors. Dowry is manipulative, controlling and abusive in the name of "love" and "relationship ". May we, as a culture evolve and grow stronger. May we REFUSE to participate in dowry- as a boy's parent and even more as a girl's parent.
We are essentially a traditional, conservative & religious family that is strongly tied with cultural norms. I have seen almost all of your episodes, today I told my younger sister about your show, she watched it with Ammi and loved it. Very informative and educating.
@@zunainmoini8134 nii but mere shadi hui thi usi k 3 months baad hi woh bhaag gya..aur dusri shadi kar li us ladke ne.. M ab apne ammi abbu k ghr rehti hu..but yaha pr un logo pr bhoj si hu sb din raat tane dete rehte h... Raat ko chup chup kar rooti hu apne Allah ko yaad karke 😢😭
firstly how cute she is MashaAllah secondly she's a fighter, a strong woman!!! after going through all that crap she's still smiling, May Allah give you dhair sari Khushyan Ameen sum Ameen and may you and ashraf live happilyy hmesha Ameen
Many people who are commenting here will also act like the mother-in-law when their time comes. These people do not come from Mars but they live among us and are our friends, neighbors and relatives.
I congratulate you Miss Kanwal for doing such a great job. The way you are highlighting hiccups of our society through the experiences of general public is tremendous. Keep it up 👍
Highly appreciated.. kudos to Kanwal and team!!!!! We need more such episodes especially on those girls who somehow did get married into such greedy families despite all the red flags and what happened later on . Some shareef families still think such greedy people might change later on but they NEVER do!
My Goodness , what a brave soul she is . This was the most heart felt conversation and she stayed so strong throughout.Who ever watches this episode should bring a positive impact to our society. At least change 1 person , pass the message, oppose the wrong happenings and support the right person . It is 2020 , we better learn what is right from wrong.Thank you Kanwal for bringing positive impact to our society.
Such a cute lady she is, loved the way she was explaining everything with a big smile on her face. ❤ i am glad her sister called off that engagment on time, Alhamdulillah for the happy ending.😭❤❤❤
This is so sad how girls go through all this and it still exists.. I’m glad Amna did right to move on and she is in safe hands. It was a happy ending and a Happy start !!
Assalamualaikum everyone recite this after every prayer 👇👇⬇️⬇️ Take screenshot Subhan Allah 33 times Alhamdulillah 33 times Allaho Akbar 34 times Surah ikhlas 3 times Surah falaq 3 times Surah naas 3 times Surah kafiroon 3 times Ayatul kursi 3 times Surah fatiha 1 time Durood e Ibrahim 3 times It will protect you from evil eye, black magic, anxiety, overthinking and depression انشاللہ May Allah guide all of us Ameen
Thank you for this show, I have seen few shows which made me realise to ask my wife if I am treating her well and respecting her dignity..thank God she is happy, husband hardly understand how much sacrifices his wife do for him 🙏🙏
Through out this interview I was praying k yeh shaadi kahin ho toh nahin gayi, Allah na karey asa ho and when she said behn ne aunty ko mana kerdiya my facial frowns turned into a big smile Do hell with such lalchi log God bless both of you 😁😁❤️
Hello dear . Wanna let you know that I Love, Love your show!!! I am Ethiopian Christian living in the US but I follow your talk show. I learned a lot about you guys culture. This show attracts many people like me who are even different culturally. Even though in my society the guys or the husband family is the one who gives dowry, still women go through a lot of repression too. The husband family thinks since they give dowry, they own the bride and strip her of her entire right. She cannot even go back bc the dowry got to be returned. Thank God, now a days only the rural area is practicing this. We women are Children of God Almighty the Omnipotence and Omnipresent. We should be respected and taken as humans .we must standup for our human right . I love you and continue your show❤🇪🇹
Hi. I worked with an Ethiopian woman 15 years ago and she told me that in Ethiopia when you want to marry someone you first get their dna checked out in case they are your brother. The reason being that men have so many marriages and their children spread out all over the country and nobody knows who their own siblings are. Is that correct?
Kanwal you ae doing such an amazing job. I cry with every episode as you have been highlighting such important issues of our society, deeply seated and embedded in this strange culture of ours that they have become a norm. More power to you and you tribe.
This hits home, strung the few cords but the best part is it gives HOPE too! Thank you, Kanwal for stepping up and bringing the stories of these superwomen to us. It helps to know that we are not alone, that we don't have to settle for less, that we don't have to compromise ourselves for others, and most importantly there is not just light but a full lighthouse at the end of the tunnel.
Apart from that the set, the direction and the quality of content are beyond amazing and unparalleled to a lot we see every day. The one thing that makes this show the one that pierces the heart is your empathy and the power of listening you have.
Thank you sooooo much 💖💖💖
Wow beautiful compliment 💓
@@Kanwalful sis I've question for u in Pakistan dats a Muslim country as far as I knw and as Muslim da gals were supposed to receive da Dowry as per da holy Quran den y do dey practise da culture of da boy receiving da Dowry
I m in love with kanwal
@@warsamefardowso1598 Dowry is not an Islamic obligation but a cultural norm (which is absolutely burdensome & abhorrent). Mainly bcz of subcontinent hangover. In fact it's the duty of bridegroom to take care of his wife but even highly educated families do the opposite out of greed & cultural ritual. But trend is now changing as well. Good stories also need projection
Kanwal thank you for empowering all women all over the world..respect from India 🇮🇳
She is a lucky lady to have a sister that took a stand for her ....
She was smiling but throughout the episode I was like how terrible it would have felt to go through this. Alhumdulillah for the happy ending, now I know what the smile was all about. Lots of duas Kanwal 💗
Dowry is curse ..
Allah har beti k naseeb achy kry ...Ameeen
It really is a curse! Always breaks relationships before it even begins.
Ameen Summa Ameen
Ameeeeen
Ameen
Allah is curse
Your sister took the right decision at right time, and you are saved from greedy family. Wish you a happy life 💕
i love that girl wish she was my friend ,so much smile on her face ,full of postive attitide
hema Verma hey!
@@amnachohan5510 hi dear !!!
@@amnachohan5510 hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Jo jahaiz mange usko zakat do. :) Allah aisw gareebon se sbko mehfooz rkhe Ameen
How I enjoyed her talking. This woman is so adorable cheerful and full of life. Alhamdulillah.... More power to you Sisters... I was scared in the middle of the episode if it did not have happy ending. But Alhamdulillah 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 at the end I was much much relieved 😌... We wait for the episodes. I also keep an eye on the time, if it's long I become happy, that my 20-25 minutes are going to be productive in Sha Allah.... 🎉 🎉 🎉 JazakAllah khair sis for sharing this with us.... More power to you as well from India 🇮🇳
At last she met the right people and not the beggars themselves. Allah has better plans!! She had been so composed throughout the episode and her innocence was truly projected.
Unpopular opinion: people who cater to these demands are part of the problem.
Sahi kaha
Farhat Abbas but she was really young then so shes not to blame but people should take heed from this and not get trapped in these situations.
mariya khan her parents were not young, they should’ve put a stop to this whole ordeal instead of feeding into it further.
Agreed
Unwillingly though and the same people end up doing this to their DILs as soon as they become capable of.
My in laws are also greedy people but my husband has been nice in these matters and never pressurised me. My mother in law is the greediest woman i know. Ours was love marriage. Thank god we are away from them now. Ese logo ka peth kabhi nahi bharta, na dahej lo na do. Mera bhi bhai hai hum kuch nahi lene waale na tab lungi jab mera khudka beta shaadi karega
Nice..par asa sab nai sochte
You could be better than them by not speaking I'll of them.
May ALLAH bless you 🥰
These 5 people who disliked need mental counselling.
More power to you ladies.
Fakiha Ali Ex fiance ki family aur friends hongay aur wo sab jo lalchi hain
They must be the from same jahez demanding family 😂
Such a cute and innocent girl.despite gone through hard times she disclaimed in a very lighter way... may Allah bless her.Aameen
I m soo happy for her that she met the right person, more power to you and your family girl❤️, you are soo lucky to have a sister like her, best of luck for future❤️
👍
Ohh Amna is so cute and cute smile.
Your right
This show gives me hope that their are good people out there. Thank you Kanwal for bringing these stories to us. Bless you and SSP 💓💓
People like this begging from girl's parents are simply beggars
Bilkul meri saas bhi duniyeh ki sub se bari fakeer hai aaj bhi mangtie hai manhoos.
seriously! I would literally say it to their face that you people are beggars! Don't ever be afraid to talk crap on such people's face they should know themselves where they belong, always put these TRASH in their place!
😒
They are worse than beggars,beggars boss bankar nahin mangtey.Isi din ke liye aise auraton ko bete chahiye take unkey sapney bahu se puri karayen aur sar par bhi chadhi rahen
@@whitediamond9771 yeh unko directly bol dena kabhi chahe jo bhi ho akal ayegi
Oh the happy ending, im so relieved ❤
What I love about all these conversations is the happy ending .. n the person is happy 😊 the struggle they did was worth it
That last line she said was so empowering.. it sends chills in your mind and soul. Wow if people will keep this kind of thinking that it would be so great. World worth living. God bless them.. and keep her happy
The 4 people who disliked this video are her Ex-fiance family :-D
It has raised to 16.. Probably the gini people contributing to it.
😂😂😂
Haha true
Yes yaar.
Right 😂😂
The smile on her face after meeting the true partner is marvelous and Kanwal ur job is commendable, love to ur team and participants
Unfortunately this culture is totally a disaster 😣😣 Daughters themselves feel like a burden 💔. Going through the same thing to some extent.
It's true....daughter themselves start feeling like a burden......and if the girl is chubby or dark skinned dowry just gets doubled.....these filthy traditions make girls feel like a burden to themselves and to their parents also.
Rabia Saeed very true
U shud not feel
You are such a good listener who give others a comfort zone to talk about their bad experiences. And I think in this society it's a most difficult task to listen others. Hats of to you mam.
The heartful laugh at the end made my heart melt❤
Aamna ne hasi hasi mei apna dard chhupa di. Shaadi ko leke 🇮🇳 and Pakistan k kuch logo k same haalat hai... May god bless all
Literally!!! I binge watched all the episodes from season 1 and I would like to Thank kanwal for bringing such important issues on greater platform and spreading awareness and motivating the victims and making them survivors. I would like you to never end this series. We need this type of content to be made so we can turn to be better. Thanks Again
Such a cute girl she kept smiling throughout
Stay blessed Amna 💟
Your mother in law is great and your smile is sweet and i appreciate your decision .
mashAllah her continuous smile😍 lots of super women in Pakistan👏👏👏
MashALLAH , she is looking so happy now , her smile tells that she is with right person now ❤️
She is so strong Ma Sha Allah. The way she talked about this all and her smile!
Oh My God. More power to you Amna. Stay blessed💜
I agree her politeness n smile is soo charming MashaAllah and her hope n positivity too..honestly we need more ppl like her friends too who help you to grow n make wiser decisions in life..respect for her husband n mother in law..Such well groomed ppl..
Love how she's smiling and laughing throughout!
Some people have been through so much and they learn to smile through the pain. It's inspirational to me. Since im a fckin crybaby
Kanwal didi mujhe apki yeh show bohat jyada pasand hai specially jo jo problems larkiyo neh face kia hai n un problems se woh bahar nikalke ayi hai woh dekhke mujhe bohat strength milti hai andar se... Love you so much didi...
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Oh wow ...aisi mother in law sbko mile issi soch ka jrurt h pure duniya ko 😘😍... Lv frm india🇮🇳
After marriage also ppl still tont on jahez alhamdulilla u r very lucky amna to have such a wonderful mother in law mashallha stay blessed
Them breaking the engagement was a blessing in disguise for her and her family too 🙏🏻
Wow her parents did that for her how lucky are someone with such amazing parents
Kanwal, thank you as always for conducting every conversation with such dignity, compassion and respect. You are a terrific listener without adding any value judgement. Instead, you acknowledge their experiences as well as provide great support to the survivors. Dowry is manipulative, controlling and abusive in the name of "love" and "relationship ". May we, as a culture evolve and grow stronger. May we REFUSE to participate in dowry- as a boy's parent and even more as a girl's parent.
Thank you so much. I try my best 😃
@@Kanwalful you definitely do with all your heart! Love you😊💛
She seems like such a sweet lady! So glad she had a happy ending! May Allah bless her.
We are essentially a traditional, conservative & religious family that is strongly tied with cultural norms. I have seen almost all of your episodes, today I told my younger sister about your show, she watched it with Ammi and loved it. Very informative and educating.
Those people who asked you for dowry were beggars.Amna you have a beautiful smile❤️
Only thing i wait for on Sundays all day
😍
Minahil Shujah Same
@@Kanwalful plzz mam 2 nd marriage pr story layii 😢😭
@@tehreemarshad2676 apki second marriage hui hai?
@@zunainmoini8134 nii but mere shadi hui thi usi k 3 months baad hi woh bhaag gya..aur dusri shadi kar li us ladke ne.. M ab apne ammi abbu k ghr rehti hu..but yaha pr un logo pr bhoj si hu sb din raat tane dete rehte h... Raat ko chup chup kar rooti hu apne Allah ko yaad karke 😢😭
firstly how cute she is MashaAllah
secondly she's a fighter, a strong woman!!! after going through all that crap she's still smiling, May Allah give you dhair sari Khushyan Ameen sum Ameen and may you and ashraf live happilyy hmesha Ameen
Many people who are commenting here will also act like the mother-in-law when their time comes. These people do not come from Mars but they live among us and are our friends, neighbors and relatives.
Omg so nice..
I have a respect for her mother in law, the guy who approach her..
His upbringing was amazing !!
Loved her smile at the end!!! Stay smiling Amna
I congratulate you Miss Kanwal for doing such a great job. The way you are highlighting hiccups of our society through the experiences of general public is tremendous. Keep it up 👍
I salute the girl for coming forward with her story. I pray that one day our society is freed from the shackles and burdens of dowry.
Alhumduliah she has saved from faqeer log🥰🥰🥰
Lucky to b liked by someone who treats the way she is.
Even that time passed but still i can see pain in her eyes. 😥
How hard it is to hear such things.
So sweet the one whom to you married, really every girl need such family
Highly appreciated.. kudos to Kanwal and team!!!!! We need more such episodes especially on those girls who somehow did get married into such greedy families despite all the red flags and what happened later on . Some shareef families still think such greedy people might change later on but they NEVER do!
Thank God she dodged that bullet and thanks to her sister. She is so adorable, May Allah always keep her happy, Amen :)
The way she smiled at the end when she spoke of her now mom in law refusing the dowry was so wonderful
When she laughed in end I laughed with happiness too Allah give you more happiness in your life Ameen
Great work Pakistan, and amazing women coming up with courage 👍 love from India 🇮🇳
No dowry and wedding expenses split between both the families, that's the only way we can actually get any equality in this society
My Goodness , what a brave soul she is . This was the most heart felt conversation and she stayed so strong throughout.Who ever watches this episode should bring a positive impact to our society. At least change 1 person , pass the message, oppose the wrong happenings and support the right person . It is 2020 , we better learn what is right from wrong.Thank you Kanwal for bringing positive impact to our society.
That smile 😊, MashaAllah stay strong.
Such a cute lady she is, loved the way she was explaining everything with a big smile on her face. ❤ i am glad her sister called off that engagment on time, Alhamdulillah for the happy ending.😭❤❤❤
Such a kind hearted soul. She deserves to be happy. May Allah always keep her happy.
Aww, the ending made me cry in relief and happiness ❤️
This is so sad how girls go through all this and it still exists.. I’m glad Amna did right to move on and she is in safe hands. It was a happy ending and a Happy start !!
She is so adorable ma sha Allah, Acha hwa gandey logon se jan choot gai and ab bht khush hai ♥️♥️♥️
Wow the end was so amazing I loved it... May God always keep her smiling....
Wahh allah pak sub Betiyo ky esa susral de jo khy serf Apni Bate de Nice
She got her smile back.... zabardast
All women need is a back up from their family with this she can fight the world 😊
Thanks to the new mother in law for being such a great human. Aaj kal achai insaan ki hi kami hogayi hai
Alhamdulillah it was a happy ending and so glad she found a gentleman like Ashraf 🙂
She is so cute n cheerful girl.. Allah bless her.. Ameen
Sooo happy she met Ashraf and her mom..Alhamdulillah ♥
I just love your show ❤❤❤
Assalamualaikum everyone recite this after every prayer
👇👇⬇️⬇️
Take screenshot
Subhan Allah 33 times
Alhamdulillah 33 times
Allaho Akbar 34 times
Surah ikhlas 3 times
Surah falaq 3 times
Surah naas 3 times
Surah kafiroon 3 times
Ayatul kursi 3 times
Surah fatiha 1 time
Durood e Ibrahim 3 times
It will protect you from evil eye, black magic, anxiety, overthinking and depression
انشاللہ
May Allah guide all of us Ameen
Thank you for this show, I have seen few shows which made me realise to ask my wife if I am treating her well and respecting her dignity..thank God she is happy, husband hardly understand how much sacrifices his wife do for him 🙏🙏
she is such a sweet heart i must say her smile is Masha Allah. may Allah keep u happy always. amen
Surprised to hear all this happens in a Muslims society?? Where is Islam?? May Allah guide all.
Islam is always there but people let their greed take over.
Allahu Akbar Alhamdulillah so happy with your happy ending ma shaa Allah Allahumma baarik fikum aameen.
Kanwal is really pretty mashallah❤
I love the way, she is telling her story 😻
U r really lucky . Allah Pak ne sabke lie intezam Kiya hai...b happy always
Main sunti ja rhi hoon or mjhy apna sb remind hota ja raha hy
Through out this interview I was praying k yeh shaadi kahin ho toh nahin gayi, Allah na karey asa ho and when she said behn ne aunty ko mana kerdiya my facial frowns turned into a big smile
Do hell with such lalchi log
God bless both of you 😁😁❤️
We need to bring changes in our thought process to make a difference in the bigger picture!
یا اللہ ہمیں ہندؤ مت کے اثرات سے جلد از جلد آزاد کروا دے۔ آمین
It’s all because of bringing up of their children. Varies from generation to generation. Aesi jahil maayen jahil maaon ki hi aulad hoti hain.
Throughout smiling😍 mashallah
Woww. I am so glad you made the right decision and am sure you are happy in life. God bless❤❤
mashaAllah !! God has helped her by giving her a good person. May God bless the couple!
She looks so calm , she is very beautifull person inside😘 , God Bless U
Every word completed relate with me I faced this situation I relate everything
What a brave women lots of love and courage to dis beautiful lady lots of love to u kanwal for empowering women from india
Hello dear . Wanna let you know that I Love, Love your show!!! I am Ethiopian Christian living in the US but I follow your talk show. I learned a lot about you guys culture. This show attracts many people like me who are even different culturally. Even though in my society the guys or the husband family is the one who gives dowry, still women go through a lot of repression too. The husband family thinks since they give dowry, they own the bride and strip her of her entire right. She cannot even go back bc the dowry got to be returned. Thank God, now a days only the rural area is practicing this. We women are Children of God Almighty the Omnipotence and Omnipresent. We should be respected and taken as humans .we must standup for our human right . I love you and continue your show❤🇪🇹
Hi. I worked with an Ethiopian woman 15 years ago and she told me that in Ethiopia when you want to marry someone you first get their dna checked out in case they are your brother. The reason being that men have so many marriages and their children spread out all over the country and nobody knows who their own siblings are. Is that correct?
Oh wow.... Allah har beti kay naseeb buland karay... (Ameen)….. you can't imagine how i waited for next episode... You are doing an amazing job...
So happy to hear that there are still such amazing people in our society like her husband and his family ❤
Kanwal you ae doing such an amazing job. I cry with every episode as you have been highlighting such important issues of our society, deeply seated and embedded in this strange culture of ours that they have become a norm.
More power to you and you tribe.
What a nice lady yar. So. Simple and so easy. She is too good