If you really want to make a woman feel and experience true lasting happiness and create great heartwarming memories for her..... Then utilize her for your own personal pleasure and satisfaction.
@@spruce5123 100% of my relationships ended because she was mad that "I was not using her enough" or "being too considerate". Once I started being selfish and not caring about her my relationships improved drastically. It's like casey said, whatever makes logical sense do the opposite lol
The thing is that most physically attractive women do not think quite that way. They don't think "I am better off with him than being alone", they think "I could be better off with someone else".
Most women likely won't respect or honor your rescue..... Because they are inherently savage due to their adversity to logic.... More respect and honor will be given to the men that actually take advantage and exploit her when she is vulnerable..... Unfortunately.
This is absolutely right. We have been conditioned to believe that a man takes care of the woman in his life and if he does she will realize that he is good for her. But as you say it just isn't true.
I'm too "tistic" to understand people like that; this guy helps a fair bit. Women in general always seemed.. weird in that regard. Feelings > Logic when I only function in reverse (too much of either is pretty bad - not a flex) Appreciate this man too much. Whenever I choose to go against his logic it actually slaps me in the face and it almost annoys me.
His advice works 100% men. I applied his technics to my wife and now she is mad for me. She says i don't know why i am so mad for you? I say in my mind but i know baby. 😊
@@user-xz1wy4to4o why in the fuck would I lie about this? idk anybody that reads this comment and neither will i ever meet any of uall. I'm not going to say it came easy but simply tuning in to his videos while my relationship progressed helped me build the right frame not only for her but for me. And before you think I'm just saying this to promote him Iwill gladly and publicly say that I am not part of any of his communities nor have I ever paid casey a dollar, everything I've learned has been from his free yt vids on this channel. I kid you not my current relationship is the healthiest relationship I have ever been in, no I'm not an asshole, no I dont emotionally play her, and no I dont coldly calculate all my moves I simply watched enough of this guys videos to reshape how I think and how I carry myself in and out of my relationship... maybe you should take action and find out for urself bud
@@mo1586 I just watched his yt videos depending on the situation or phase my relationship was in. You will never master dating insideout you just have to approach it as everything else, one day at a time
Right on Casey. That was my comment you read in the begging. GOD works in ways that protects us who put him first. I literally had a question and you release this specific video after she literally called me. Crazy. Spot on.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs this is in the Bible KJV
Crazy thing is, this doesn't just apply to broads, but multiple facets of life. I found out that being too reliable at work, doesn't get appreciated. Unfortunately efficiency isn't appreciated by all.
Yeah literally. I just walked out on my job because they were blaming me for something the management should be doing. If you don't stick up for yourself you just get treated like dirt and same goes with the wage.
Casey is correct about much of what he is saying. Many women do like bad guys. To be quite honest, I believe many of them like narcissistic men. With some women, the more good you treat them, the more they disrespect you. With some women, the more harsh you are with them, the more feminine they behave. It is true. When I was younger I had experience being very selfish. It yielded good results with some women. Be very careful though. Be very careful with being selfish. Being selfish may work with women, but you will also reap what you sow. Some people call it karma. Many bad things happened to me because of my past. It's not bad to respect yourself and focus less on women you are dating. At the same time, you have to be careful on how you treat women.
If you listen to women, female friends, podcasts etc, nearly 100% of the women who talk about exs complain that they were either narcissists or "narcissistic". But what does this tell you? That nearly 100% of men who actually get women/relationships are "narcissistic" to some degree. It's like casey said, do the opposite lol
@@QMS9224I’ve been watching videos on narcissists the past couple of years and in the comments, sometimes the women will complain how their ex was a narcissist, but won’t really explain why. Others will explain about all the abuse and crazy nonsense their narcissist ex has said or done. And sometimes I wonder why they were attracted to him in the first place. I do understand many narcissists will put on a show to get a woman, but they normally show big red flags early in a relationship.
@@QMS9224 That's because of those Guy's demeanor...narcissism and psychopathy... simulate competence which is really what a woman wants, a competent man. At the end she realizes he is not what he appeared to be, he is an empty shell that on the outside signals the correct attitude as a mating strategy without any substantial backup, is like fake gold. Most young women fall for that, and no one teaches them this as kids also, their problem is that by then they are traumatized and the real man is not gonna take her and she will probably use betas and be used by chads for the rest of her lifetime. The real percentage of men who are competent and who you could say in some way deserve the right to reproduce is very little, just as the percentage of valuable women is also very little. What Casey is suggesting is that you aim to become one among those
That's so true. I'm a man on my early 20s and have this girl who i never give any gifts, foods etc, i only went to meet her to have sex and this very girl chases me till this day.
He’s grifting like most of these RUclips red pill, alpha guys. It’s all bs. They’re just regurgitating the same old information just wording it different. And these guys eat it up. It’s all A scam. He’s not saying anything new here.
Its meant as you flexing that your able to buy all that food and even consume it because you can and genuinely being yourself not caring what she thinks about you consuming all the food in front of her. I've been to many restraunts and often order 2 big plates for myself and let her know she can have anything she wants off the .99 menu. Don't be afraid to make them laugh enjoy yourself and your surroundings too, don't let her be your main focus.
Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here.
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
@@WoodnetRonnie yo chill, the guy above just trying to sell you some useless crap. get your sht together, realize SHE IS GONE like fcking dead, and act accordingly.
Its doesnt matter. All women are wired this way. The good girl will punish you to if you come off as weak. When any woman get leverage over a man they will treat him horribly. he is talking about the difference between arousal and comfort. Yes women do want long term value from a man, but that kills desire and arousal. Your hypothetical good girl is wired the same. you have to learn how to dance both lines if you are in a relationship
I've been thinking about how marriage has such a high divorce rate. And that's cause it's flawed. For both sexes, I don't think humans are wired to be with one mate the rest of their life. Also, kudos to the people who actually go through divorces rather than stay and be miserable.
I lost my t shirt giving my ex everything I had thinking I was showing her how much I love her. I was young and inexperienced. Now I'm qualified , built better , wiser , smarter with better options. You can love a women but when u love her more than u love yourself then u have problems .
One girlfriend told me I had the emotional level of a teenager. She smoked cigarettes and I told her she was stuck in the oral phase not that I was complaining but that was the lowest phase.
Being a provider is essential. You can have all the internal value you want, you can have preselection, bedroom performance, looks, confidence, and all that. But without provisioning you will be just a sex toy or a project under construction that she will temporarily enjoy but not fully respect. As a man, you'd better be the complete package.
@@ralphacero2785 it’s about getting a horse before you buy the cart, you gotta be the man she actually desires before you give her what she requires, romance before finance
@@K.Sovereignson You're missing the point. The guy with the horse has to compete against all the other guys who not only got the horse put also the cart.
@@ralphacero2785 the inner guts of the man prevails over the external attributes, this is who she considers long term regardless of what the other guys have, they compete externally when it’s really about what’s internal
@@ralphacero2785 the inner guts of the man prevails over the external attributes, this is who she considers long term regardless of what the other guys have, they compete externally when it’s really about what’s internal
Here , its like a plant , depending on where it was raised , and the conditioning , determines its nature the good women have these negative traits deep down , but its waaaaaaaaaaay more managable and less of a pain in the ass try girls with strict parents , ukrainian , mexican etc strict father / family is needed
As a man, I agree with most of the logic you are using when it comes to upgrading yourself (self-centered). In general, women are alike. But as I travel lots in African countries and when you have a conversation with these women, especially when it comes to tradition, you find out the way they have been raised is totally different from these women here in the western world. When I watch some of your strategies, I do think they would be unnecessary when it comes to marrying, for example, a traditional woman from a Muslim country who is raised to know that there is a possibility of becoming a second wife and that her responsibility is to take care of family homes and children. In return, it is your duty to take care of that woman. Because her life is depending on the husband. A traditional woman from these countries most of the time expects a male to be a masculine man, as you usually say in your videos. It would be interesting to see how your view is when it comes to such women. Probably you can make a video on this subject matter. Looking forward to it. Thank you.
This is crazy how it works, hope it was not true but fortunately it is You are happy when you are selfish and apparently she makes you more happy for that
Damn this guy has everything figured out. This is something all men need to understand. She’ll naturally respect that guy who doesn’t want to invest shit into her than the dude is spending everything on her
Her simp posse providing for her as a 304 frame is supposed to provide for her and you. If you provide her you fall in the simp camp in an emotional stance. It also defeats the purpose of interest and wish to provide, because giving can be arousing, especially for someone dulled with receiving. Being the magnet which attracts all and is all is the focus of erotizing her.
The jokes on you Casey Zander. Can't no man afford to provide for a woman nowadays. It's all we can do to provide, feed, & clothe for ourselves. 😊 I hope she can provide for me. 😆
so confusing, just saw his video where he says never ask to split on first date, paying on first date will show that you have capability to provide and you can provide for the girl and protect her.
It’s not physics! It’s biology & chemistry Bro! It’s all about her basic instincts developed over 10’s of thousands of years. And the chemistry part is the feelings a man gives her in her primitive brain!
This is all true, but try hooking up with a hottie when you are 60, after working your ass off to build all these resources. You will be outcompeted by a guy in his 30s any time of the day. So those guys providing actually DO need to do it. The question then becomes if you are better off just being alone and focusing 100% on yourself.
@@QarloQapo Yep. That is how it goes. Eventually, the sex drive goes away too, and then we are just lonely old men reminiscing of the past. Believe me, I know lots of these super egoist guys, and it is true they get laid a lot when they are young. But over time, the sexual market value dissipates, and the guy is left with nobody feeling any gratitude towards him, no friends and no love. Of course, I am not advocating simping. The key is to only be with women who provide equal value as what you provide.
This is so sad. My sister is married to guy who refuses to get a job and provide for his 3 kids. Well he has fantastical dreams of making money by trading, even though he's not that smart. He thinks it's possible cause of youtube. She's still with him even though a lot of women would've left by now (or would they?) and he treats her like crap dumping his unresolved emotional issues on her, accuses her of cheating and threatening to leave her, if you can believe that. The audacity. He would literally be in a tent without her. I guess this guy is like a master of attraction. Induce Drama and don't be a provider right? He's just a burden and another mouth to feed, another dependent. It's like does he not have shame that he can't provide for his own kids? Like as a man. Jesus. It's not like she's making that much either, but she does do everything while he just sits on the computer or watches. This is such a sad sad message. I would not wish this toxic dynamic on anyone especially with kids.
Your Sister is the Overgiving Codependent childlike adult to an Overly Taking childlike Needy Codependent Adult. Your Sister needs to go to Codependents Anonymous class to break free of the cycle.
@@Chad.Tyrone4UNow yea they have major issues for sure. I feel like this guy is promoting this though. With his message "to keep them attracted induce drama and don't provide". Raising a new crop of man-child. I don't know if healthy people would actually be like this with attraction. This just works for the traumatized and wounded. And having this message just perpetuates the cycle
Its because hes extremely good looking and tall most likely, being detached rebelious bad boy evil type with good looks is the combo that woman cant resist , and its rare , u cant be short and average and ugly doing this it wont work , and if u have good looks without the other u will lose her from boredom and she will drop u for a guy that has the 2 combo , both have to be there , evil detached and tall and hot , nothing gets her emotions more
@@kulentarian55 well he's not. At least I don't think so. He does have dreads he's from Jamaica, guess there's a cool factor. He's like 12 years older and losing his teeth though so....lol. Looks is not a thing for women. It's all emotions
Never provide too much for women in realtionship -seem like you have lower smv beacuse you have to do all things to maintain interest thats why -some guys didn't provide any shit still they attract her ...they have internal high value Attitude strength emotional and physical confidance ..you believe what you say ..charming..skills in bedroom ...if you provide she will think why he is doing this to please me ..why he care too much .. selfish with you're time money she will automatically attracted towards you..its not ment to take care of her ❤❤(but sometimes money will work better ) just say no if she said anything to you ...when women sleep with guy she want his genes ..not what he can do for her ..she also sleep with guy who doesn't provide anything
It's true, they always behave in the opposite way to the rational logic we try to convince ourselves of. Because we are made to analyze everything and find concrete answers, something they never do and are not interested in, as they live in an emotional world. The guys from the red pill say, "they go for the tall, handsome guy with status, lots of money, and skills, a prince charming," yet you find them with the unemployed, short, ugly occasional drug dealer (it happened to a friend of mine who was tall and also a boxer, so not exactly a beta, and could easily beat him up if he wanted to). "I like dark haired exotic guys with a lot of hair, serious, who don’t laugh like idiots, and it's disgusting that you started smoking, you suck, you have this, this, and this that I like", then you find them months later, after breaking up with you, with the guy who smokes weed until his brain is fried, blond, whom she was mocking just a month before, who is the complete opposite of you.
@@Katarzyna-h2z There's nothing wrong with variety, the problem is when you lie, punish people, and then do the exact opposite (I'm referring to the talk about smoking, or the fact that she didn't like blondes, or that she didn't like people with little hair, and the guy she got together with is balding).
And no worries for not sending me 9k for the damages. I was going to put you on the tepaphone but you are much to valuable to society to render ash. So just please be careful: because while you may be helping people you have been unknowingly harming them as well. It's not your fault though. As most people do not even know about them.
While this is correct on a primal level and maybe an early stage dating relationship, it’s not Gods command for a marriage. We’re commanded to provide for our women and take care of them and they will not be in a feminine state if we’re not. The wording is wrong providing is fine but providing from a place of power. Provide from a place of weakness or neediness them yes that’s over compensation
Hey Casey, I have been listening to your videos for about a year now. Sometimes I disagreed but usually I agree and the videos have been very enlightening. One thing I keep noticing though is I don’t always know how to apply strategies to my situation because I’m Living with the mother of my six year old. Would you be willing to expand the scope of your target audience by making more frequent references to how your strategies applies to men who aren’t just free to play the field as they wish? What I’m referring to is when you have a kid involved there’s a whole other set of objectives regarding sacrificing. Thanks for the well-being of your child, and because courts tend to favor with women and because the women know this you lose a lot of leverage . I just feel like I’m playing a totally different ball game. Do you know what I mean? For instance Tonight I’m taking my son and his mom out for Thai food. And I know this will make her more attracted to me but if my goal is just to make her satisfied with the overall bargain. It would be nice if I could control her through attraction but it’s not feasible with this woman. So am I wrong in all worlds to treat her? Maybe this just puts me outside the scope of your videos. Please let me know if you have had other followers say stuff like this
@WisdomIsPrecious I think this video is good, but it's not well matched to your situation. Obviously you're going to provide for them! I don't know you or her, so this might be completely stupid, but how about... (1) take charge: tell her how much you're going to contribute financially and domestically (2) tell her you're going to be taking time to build yourself (3) tell her you're going to be eating better (more wholefood, more protein). You can fry some chicken chunks and noodles as an example to her: with the right spices, it might taste a bit like Thai food (4) tell her you'll be expecting her to wear sexy outfits 3 nights a week. It takes a while to learn how to lead a woman, and there will be setbacks, but it's the best I can come up with for you right now.
You cant make up with external metrics of status for what you fundamentally lack in your core. Some things cannot be bought no matter how much you want to pay for them: patience, self-discipline, confidence. Those can only be cultivated on one's own. How? By putting in conscious effort and drawing constructive conclusions from your failures. It is not unmanly to make mistakes - it is unmanly not to learn from them
No, this actually is logical Pimpin Ken explains there is 3 types of men in women’s eyes Father figure Lover boy Manager Being giving with money disqualifies you as the manager right away ( can’t trust him with money ) Her father would just say “ NO “ So now you are just lover boy simp 🤷🏽♂️
@@thinkingoutthebox7253 lover boy= boy toy, sex machine Father figure=older guy, kinda cold, always setting rules ( boundaries) Manager= Imho almost like a pimp, all about making money, withholding sexual interest, more interested in making money than sex ( at least the bitch believes so ) this guy can never be a “ trick “ he has to get her deep confidence that they are only dealing about money My opinion 🤷🏽♂️ But look up pimpin kens videos, he explains this
@@thinkingoutthebox7253 remember, like her, you are supposed to be completely self absorbed, trying to maximize everything in your favor, if you are giving with the strongest utility how can you be making yourself better ? They can smell when men are trying to buy sexual favor Believe it or not, they respect the no more
A man must provide for his Household ie dedicated wife and children. The Bible did not specify … a man’s girlfriend. A woman must earn a man’s provision’s & security through loyal love, dedication, devotion & exclusive commitment to God & family.
What if you turn into this guy while in a LTR of more years and you were beta all this time? Because I'm trying to do this and she's always bitching and crying. I want to work on my extra projects sometimes not watch Netflix in the evening or go for a stupid walk. Also, helping my parents is more important than going out with our friend couple.
My ex dumped me. I made a fake Instagram profile 2 weeks b4 added her and started up a talk. Im one week time she did more for this fake profile in a week then for me in 2 years. Got her back thou. Got her to send the fake profile 600 euro andhe will also break her heart win win
Because they're running out of time because o their ever decreasing SMV so they then get the nice guy, but will always be bitter and angry because they feel like they "settled" because the guys she used to bang were MUCH higher value. So she will treat him like garbage, he will most likely NOT know how to be a man, fail all her tests, she loses more respect for him, until she cheats on him FIRST either emotionally and or physically s3x, then she divorces and monkey branches to the new guy.
but you even said it, they "settle down" those are the same women who will get divorced after 20 years of extracting resources, and even if they dont the man wont get their raw desire. It's still an L
@@QMS9224 Unfortunately 99% of men don't understand this one HUGE fact when it comes to women... that and women lose respect for theri men because they don't act like a man, so they fail in these two key metrics and eventually she exits or makes your life a living h*ll
@@QMS9224exactly after they sleep their way into that man’s wallet, and the man marries them, they’ll pop out a few kids and starve that man of sex until he cheats and she can divorce him. Its cold
This not spending time together to go to the mall was one of the reasons she broke up with me and she felt like I was cheap with her and she would spend money on me? We were together for 3 years. Monogamous relationship
Thats bs you really think a girl who is 100% attracted to him and desires him would breakup bc he didnt buy what she wanted? She would but him stuff, you just didnt set the frame right or she isnt attracted to you
But what to do if you are in a relationship/marriage am you bank 3-4x more than she is? You should split all equal? Or what if she is a housewife and you bring all the money?
I've been providing some things for over 2 months now, and she returns the kindness I give her. This man preaches about attracting and keeping absolutely broken women who do not live in their divine feminine energy.
Brah this applies to work as well, the more of an ass you are, the more respect you get at work. When you bend over for your managers, you literally signal that you have no options...
I think you're getting a bit carried away Casey... 6 months ago you said you should spend $600 on dinner with a Woman and tip the restaurant at least 50% to run the perfect date and of course she'd want to come back for another date... or you could just go for Coffee...
Yeah and he says to buy 2-3-4 full course meals for him and the girl to split to signal that you can provide resources... so the exact OPPOSITE of what he's saying here. I think this is just his evolution of understanding women. They both work... but this "Do whatever the F you want, when you want will get more girls into your bed for sure".
What he meant providing is sending her money, paying her rent etc. In my country, ive seen lots of guys do that to buy attraction of these women. Ofc theyll stick around, have s3x here and there but theyre attracted to guys that has there masculine frame right, not needing validation (sending money means you need validation and you yourself is not enough to get them without money).
@@TC-yx1qt he's probably just another grifter trying to take advantage of incels and desperate men. He def seems weird and he says he won't debate anyone bc it's a waste of time lmao
you are missing the nuance. He's not explaining what to do, he's explaining the psychology of women. Casey's knowledge is constantly evolving, that's part of what makes him great is he can change his mind unlike more redpill simps who are indoctrinated
Vibe strong with her in the beginning if she’s showing high interest then pull back and bread crumb her yes be a narcissist if you want her her emotionally whipped ,wanna push her away? Just be a stand up guy who communicates and does everything right
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The more I listen to this guy, the more right he is
It's called confirmation bias.
@@Hellohellohello803 Not necessarily.
If you really want to make a woman feel and experience true lasting happiness and create great heartwarming memories for her..... Then utilize her for your own personal pleasure and satisfaction.
@@spruce5123 Tried it, didn't work. Haha!
@@spruce5123 100% of my relationships ended because she was mad that "I was not using her enough" or "being too considerate". Once I started being selfish and not caring about her my relationships improved drastically. It's like casey said, whatever makes logical sense do the opposite lol
That whitebard will develop a consciousness and soul of its own after so much wisdom written on its surface.
Let's hope the whiteboard doesn't betray uncle C if that happens
She can provide for herself. She had to before you came along and you are not there to rescue her
The thing is that most physically attractive women do not think quite that way. They don't think "I am better off with him than being alone", they think "I could be better off with someone else".
@@thomashilmersen711 that's true too
Most women likely won't respect or honor your rescue..... Because they are inherently savage due to their adversity to logic.... More respect and honor will be given to the men that actually take advantage and exploit her when she is vulnerable..... Unfortunately.
Women actually believe that the man is supposed to be the provider.
@@tomkaufman3914 You dont have to encourage or support that belief
This is absolutely right. We have been conditioned to believe that a man takes care of the woman in his life and if he does she will realize that he is good for her. But as you say it just isn't true.
Women’s decisions have an inverse relationship to logic😂💯 Bars! And that’s accurate asf!
I'm too "tistic" to understand people like that; this guy helps a fair bit. Women in general always seemed.. weird in that regard. Feelings > Logic when I only function in reverse (too much of either is pretty bad - not a flex)
Appreciate this man too much. Whenever I choose to go against his logic it actually slaps me in the face and it almost annoys me.
His advice works 100% men. I applied his technics to my wife and now she is mad for me. She says i don't know why i am so mad for you? I say in my mind but i know baby. 😊
lmfao same here, cheers buddy
lying on the internet for like is crazy work
What did you exactly apply?
@@user-xz1wy4to4o why in the fuck would I lie about this? idk anybody that reads this comment and neither will i ever meet any of uall. I'm not going to say it came easy but simply tuning in to his videos while my relationship progressed helped me build the right frame not only for her but for me. And before you think I'm just saying this to promote him Iwill gladly and publicly say that I am not part of any of his communities nor have I ever paid casey a dollar, everything I've learned has been from his free yt vids on this channel. I kid you not my current relationship is the healthiest relationship I have ever been in, no I'm not an asshole, no I dont emotionally play her, and no I dont coldly calculate all my moves I simply watched enough of this guys videos to reshape how I think and how I carry myself in and out of my relationship... maybe you should take action and find out for urself bud
@@mo1586 I just watched his yt videos depending on the situation or phase my relationship was in. You will never master dating insideout you just have to approach it as everything else, one day at a time
I gotta say, this guy is pretty sharp. Wish I’d had this in my 20’s. Learned it all the hard way.
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no one here buys this shit, stupid bots
You WILL be taken advantage of.
100%
this is their design
I wish I had this information 10 years ago. But hey you live and learn. Thank you.
The more I keep watching this man the more I continue to grow and know my internal confidence and self confidence this was an excellent video
Right on Casey. That was my comment you read in the begging. GOD works in ways that protects us who put him first. I literally had a question and you release this specific video after she literally called me. Crazy. Spot on.
If you provide you can't tell if they desire you for you or for what you provide.
You can still tell
lol youre so noble
if you cant provide then you have no business having relationships with women
@@crebspark they can't take your looks in a divorce but they can take you possessions.
@@Brent-z2s let them take your possessions if you truly love them, otherwise why marry or live with them at all
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs this is in the Bible KJV
...and the most commonly read Biblical verse at almost every Christian wedding ceremony
He is not talking about love, but dating.
Crazy thing is, this doesn't just apply to broads, but multiple facets of life.
I found out that being too reliable at work, doesn't get appreciated. Unfortunately efficiency isn't appreciated by all.
Yeah literally. I just walked out on my job because they were blaming me for something the management should be doing. If you don't stick up for yourself you just get treated like dirt and same goes with the wage.
everytime I try to think he’s wrong he’s actually right.
Casey is correct about much of what he is saying.
Many women do like bad guys. To be quite honest, I believe many of them like narcissistic men. With some women, the more good you treat them, the more they disrespect you. With some women, the more harsh you are with them, the more feminine they behave. It is true. When I was younger I had experience being very selfish. It yielded good results with some women.
Be very careful though. Be very careful with being selfish. Being selfish may work with women, but you will also reap what you sow. Some people call it karma. Many bad things happened to me because of my past. It's not bad to respect yourself and focus less on women you are dating. At the same time, you have to be careful on how you treat women.
If you listen to women, female friends, podcasts etc, nearly 100% of the women who talk about exs complain that they were either narcissists or "narcissistic". But what does this tell you? That nearly 100% of men who actually get women/relationships are "narcissistic" to some degree. It's like casey said, do the opposite lol
@@QMS9224I’ve been watching videos on narcissists the past couple of years and in the comments, sometimes the women will complain how their ex was a narcissist, but won’t really explain why. Others will explain about all the abuse and crazy nonsense their narcissist ex has said or done. And sometimes I wonder why they were attracted to him in the first place. I do understand many narcissists will put on a show to get a woman, but they normally show big red flags early in a relationship.
@@QMS9224 That's because of those Guy's demeanor...narcissism and psychopathy... simulate competence which is really what a woman wants, a competent man. At the end she realizes he is not what he appeared to be, he is an empty shell that on the outside signals the correct attitude as a mating strategy without any substantial backup, is like fake gold. Most young women fall for that, and no one teaches them this as kids also, their problem is that by then they are traumatized and the real man is not gonna take her and she will probably use betas and be used by chads for the rest of her lifetime. The real percentage of men who are competent and who you could say in some way deserve the right to reproduce is very little, just as the percentage of valuable women is also very little. What Casey is suggesting is that you aim to become one among those
That's so true. I'm a man on my early 20s and have this girl who i never give any gifts, foods etc, i only went to meet her to have sex and this very girl chases me till this day.
But I’m sure she has another guy who does the total opposite to what u r doing 😂😂😂 which helps to balance the cake
@@1871kwame1who cares as long as u profit 😂 she is not yours, it’s you turn
@@1871kwame1correct 😂😂😂😂😂 and if he not around then she not around bc she needs to balance her life first Bec she selfish
Casey didn’t you suggest paying for lots of food on the first date lmao
He’s grifting like most of these RUclips red pill, alpha guys. It’s all bs. They’re just regurgitating the same old information just wording it different. And these guys eat it up. It’s all
A scam. He’s not saying anything new here.
Its meant as you flexing that your able to buy all that food and even consume it because you can and genuinely being yourself not caring what she thinks about you consuming all the food in front of her.
I've been to many restraunts and often order 2 big plates for myself and let her know she can have anything she wants off the .99 menu. Don't be afraid to make them laugh enjoy yourself and your surroundings too, don't let her be your main focus.
Against all the principles we were taught as kids, but this is accurate 😞
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@@WoodnetRonnie yo chill, the guy above just trying to sell you some useless crap. get your sht together, realize SHE IS GONE like fcking dead, and act accordingly.
The wrong one will punish you.
The ones that are for the street.
If you search for the right woman, don't apply this.
she doesn't exist, you're still socially programmed to serve. They are what they are, make peace with it.
Its doesnt matter. All women are wired this way. The good girl will punish you to if you come off as weak. When any woman get leverage over a man they will treat him horribly. he is talking about the difference between arousal and comfort. Yes women do want long term value from a man, but that kills desire and arousal. Your hypothetical good girl is wired the same. you have to learn how to dance both lines if you are in a relationship
I lost the right woman
@@davidguidolin5818you didnt lose her you lost a problem and gained peace of mind
I've been thinking about how marriage has such a high divorce rate. And that's cause it's flawed. For both sexes, I don't think humans are wired to be with one mate the rest of their life. Also, kudos to the people who actually go through divorces rather than stay and be miserable.
I lost my t shirt giving my ex everything I had thinking I was showing her how much I love her. I was young and inexperienced. Now I'm qualified , built better , wiser , smarter with better options.
You can love a women but when u love her more than u love yourself then u have problems .
I had a girl friend tell me I was selfish. I felt like a A hole. But she was always ready to be together anytime s3x
Same
Wicked . I been caught up with one . After that I hope I learn , she comes knocking , I'm in trouble..God have mercy on are souls .
One girlfriend told me I had the emotional level of a teenager. She smoked cigarettes and I told her she was stuck in the oral phase not that I was complaining but that was the lowest phase.
@@Brent-z2s some of them get off on founding someone they can desecrate. .. .they wanna feel like there boyfriend s.
So what happened between you two m?
Just raw truth
Being a provider is essential. You can have all the internal value you want, you can have preselection, bedroom performance, looks, confidence, and all that. But without provisioning you will be just a sex toy or a project under construction that she will temporarily enjoy but not fully respect. As a man, you'd better be the complete package.
@@ralphacero2785 it’s about getting a horse before you buy the cart, you gotta be the man she actually desires before you give her what she requires, romance before finance
@@K.Sovereignson You're missing the point. The guy with the horse has to compete against all the other guys who not only got the horse put also the cart.
@@ralphacero2785 the inner guts of the man prevails over the external attributes, this is who she considers long term regardless of what the other guys have, they compete externally when it’s really about what’s internal
@@ralphacero2785 the inner guts of the man prevails over the external attributes, this is who she considers long term regardless of what the other guys have, they compete externally when it’s really about what’s internal
Or I can stay single, providing is weak.
Wow, I heard you, big brother, and it makes so much sense
Im europe we share everything, wven on first date.
According to him it is very difficult to have a wife. Everything is difficult.
Marriage is a SCAM!
Here , its like a plant , depending on where it was raised , and the conditioning , determines its nature
the good women have these negative traits deep down , but its waaaaaaaaaaay more managable and less of a pain in the ass
try girls with strict parents , ukrainian , mexican etc strict father / family is needed
As a man, I agree with most of the logic you are using when it comes to upgrading yourself (self-centered). In general, women are alike. But as I travel lots in African countries and when you have a conversation with these women, especially when it comes to tradition, you find out the way they have been raised is totally different from these women here in the western world. When I watch some of your strategies, I do think they would be unnecessary when it comes to marrying, for example, a traditional woman from a Muslim country who is raised to know that there is a possibility of becoming a second wife and that her responsibility is to take care of family homes and children. In return, it is your duty to take care of that woman. Because her life is depending on the husband. A traditional woman from these countries most of the time expects a male to be a masculine man, as you usually say in your videos. It would be interesting to see how your view is when it comes to such women. Probably you can make a video on this subject matter. Looking forward to it. Thank you.
You’re living in a fantasy. Western men aren’t going to Muslim countries to find wives.
He's not wrong!
This is crazy how it works, hope it was not true but fortunately it is
You are happy when you are selfish and apparently she makes you more happy for that
Bro quit tripping men! modern woman has no raw desire for no one they ve insane options simps over empowered them
Kinda true
A woman from the year 1600 and a woman from today, they are, still wired the same way genetically, they still share the same primitive instincts
@@TebohoLetsoaka but trad wifes have different roles then modern day women. Which made them more attractive then modern day women
@@tjfootball1908 nah not kinda it is true
Damn. This is ibcredible knowledge. Salute.
this format really suits me
Shoutout Casey this man knows his shit fr
would love to see this guy and Macken Murphy debating
If you’ve watched my content for any period of time, you will realize I would never even take time out of my day to debate anybody
I like coach Corey, better , he's funny and real like Casey. The other guy , for some reason,,? don't wanna listen to him , right away .
It's better that he doesnt debate and stays lowkey. Let them stay dumb, just means more options for us lol
Damn this guy has everything figured out. This is something all men need to understand. She’ll naturally respect that guy who doesn’t want to invest shit into her than the dude is spending everything on her
This is high level game, very wise
Her simp posse providing for her as a 304 frame is supposed to provide for her and you. If you provide her you fall in the simp camp in an emotional stance. It also defeats the purpose of interest and wish to provide, because giving can be arousing, especially for someone dulled with receiving. Being the magnet which attracts all and is all is the focus of erotizing her.
The jokes on you Casey Zander. Can't no man afford to provide for a woman nowadays. It's all we can do to provide, feed, & clothe for ourselves. 😊 I hope she can provide for me. 😆
You yapping.
so confusing, just saw his video where he says never ask to split on first date, paying on first date will show that you have capability to provide and you can provide for the girl and protect her.
What he means providing is sending her money, paying her rent etc. If its going out for dates, you as a man should pay.
@@misterlova1686Yea as a man I'm not paying, not an ATM.
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio
“What’s missing for her is often stiff”😂
The core of what Casey teaches is actually physics: it's just that most people do not realize how deep the energetic rabbit hole goes.
It’s not physics! It’s biology & chemistry Bro! It’s all about her basic instincts developed over 10’s of thousands of years. And the chemistry part is the feelings a man gives her in her primitive brain!
Sheeeesshhhh save some viewers for the rest of us
This is all true, but try hooking up with a hottie when you are 60, after working your ass off to build all these resources. You will be outcompeted by a guy in his 30s any time of the day. So those guys providing actually DO need to do it. The question then becomes if you are better off just being alone and focusing 100% on yourself.
60s? bruh
Just pay for hookers bro 🤦♂️
escorts
@@QarloQapo Yep. That is how it goes. Eventually, the sex drive goes away too, and then we are just lonely old men reminiscing of the past. Believe me, I know lots of these super egoist guys, and it is true they get laid a lot when they are young. But over time, the sexual market value dissipates, and the guy is left with nobody feeling any gratitude towards him, no friends and no love.
Of course, I am not advocating simping. The key is to only be with women who provide equal value as what you provide.
That's all God . That's what needs to happen to humble them .
you got a new sub!
Bro I've been saying the same since forever, never understood simps who would pay for her
This is so sad. My sister is married to guy who refuses to get a job and provide for his 3 kids. Well he has fantastical dreams of making money by trading, even though he's not that smart. He thinks it's possible cause of youtube. She's still with him even though a lot of women would've left by now (or would they?) and he treats her like crap dumping his unresolved emotional issues on her, accuses her of cheating and threatening to leave her, if you can believe that. The audacity. He would literally be in a tent without her. I guess this guy is like a master of attraction. Induce Drama and don't be a provider right? He's just a burden and another mouth to feed, another dependent. It's like does he not have shame that he can't provide for his own kids? Like as a man. Jesus. It's not like she's making that much either, but she does do everything while he just sits on the computer or watches. This is such a sad sad message. I would not wish this toxic dynamic on anyone especially with kids.
Your Sister is the Overgiving Codependent childlike adult to an Overly Taking childlike Needy Codependent Adult. Your Sister needs to go to Codependents Anonymous class to break free of the cycle.
@@Chad.Tyrone4UNow yea they have major issues for sure. I feel like this guy is promoting this though. With his message "to keep them attracted induce drama and don't provide". Raising a new crop of man-child. I don't know if healthy people would actually be like this with attraction. This just works for the traumatized and wounded. And having this message just perpetuates the cycle
Its because hes extremely good looking and tall most likely, being detached rebelious bad boy evil type with good looks is the combo that woman cant resist , and its rare , u cant be short and average and ugly doing this it wont work , and if u have good looks without the other u will lose her from boredom and she will drop u for a guy that has the 2 combo , both have to be there , evil detached and tall and hot , nothing gets her emotions more
@@kulentarian55 well he's not. At least I don't think so. He does have dreads he's from Jamaica, guess there's a cool factor. He's like 12 years older and losing his teeth though so....lol. Looks is not a thing for women. It's all emotions
@@pinkbug8u is he,tall ? Also its female gaze not male gaze , what men think is attractive is not what woman want
TRUE! Don't do shit for women! Let them pay there own shit!
Facts.
Never provide too much for women in realtionship
-seem like you have lower smv beacuse you have to do all things to maintain interest thats why
-some guys didn't provide any shit still they attract her ...they have internal high value Attitude strength emotional and physical confidance ..you believe what you say ..charming..skills in bedroom ...if you provide she will think why he is doing this to please me ..why he care too much .. selfish with you're time money she will automatically attracted towards you..its not ment to take care of her ❤❤(but sometimes money will work better ) just say no if she said anything to you ...when women sleep with guy she want his genes ..not what he can do for her ..she also sleep with guy who doesn't provide anything
They think azz backwards
Thank you so much, brother!
This has been my biggest problem all my dating life. I wish i learnt this early in life.
Masterpiece 🎉
It's true, they always behave in the opposite way to the rational logic we try to convince ourselves of. Because we are made to analyze everything and find concrete answers, something they never do and are not interested in, as they live in an emotional world. The guys from the red pill say, "they go for the tall, handsome guy with status, lots of money, and skills, a prince charming," yet you find them with the unemployed, short, ugly occasional drug dealer (it happened to a friend of mine who was tall and also a boxer, so not exactly a beta, and could easily beat him up if he wanted to). "I like dark haired exotic guys with a lot of hair, serious, who don’t laugh like idiots, and it's disgusting that you started smoking, you suck, you have this, this, and this that I like", then you find them months later, after breaking up with you, with the guy who smokes weed until his brain is fried, blond, whom she was mocking just a month before, who is the complete opposite of you.
Women also like variety.
@@Katarzyna-h2z There's nothing wrong with variety, the problem is when you lie, punish people, and then do the exact opposite (I'm referring to the talk about smoking, or the fact that she didn't like blondes, or that she didn't like people with little hair, and the guy she got together with is balding).
Where’d you get the jacket brother?
the Gospel of Casey.
really liked this video
And no worries for not sending me 9k for the damages. I was going to put you on the tepaphone but you are much to valuable to society to render ash. So just please be careful: because while you may be helping people you have been unknowingly harming them as well. It's not your fault though. As most people do not even know about them.
All facts here
This is very well said ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
All so true
While this is correct on a primal level and maybe an early stage dating relationship, it’s not Gods command for a marriage. We’re commanded to provide for our women and take care of them and they will not be in a feminine state if we’re not. The wording is wrong providing is fine but providing from a place of power. Provide from a place of weakness or neediness them yes that’s over compensation
I'm good staying single.
Hey Casey, I have been listening to your videos for about a year now. Sometimes I disagreed but usually I agree and the videos have been very enlightening. One thing I keep noticing though is I don’t always know how to apply strategies to my situation because I’m Living with the mother of my six year old. Would you be willing to expand the scope of your target audience by making more frequent references to how your strategies applies to men who aren’t just free to play the field as they wish? What I’m referring to is when you have a kid involved there’s a whole other set of objectives regarding sacrificing. Thanks for the well-being of your child, and because courts tend to favor with women and because the women know this you lose a lot of leverage . I just feel like I’m playing a totally different ball game. Do you know what I mean? For instance Tonight I’m taking my son and his mom out for Thai food. And I know this will make her more attracted to me but if my goal is just to make her satisfied with the overall bargain. It would be nice if I could control her through attraction but it’s not feasible with this woman. So am I wrong in all worlds to treat her? Maybe this just puts me outside the scope of your videos. Please let me know if you have had other followers say stuff like this
@WisdomIsPrecious I think this video is good, but it's not well matched to your situation. Obviously you're going to provide for them! I don't know you or her, so this might be completely stupid, but how about... (1) take charge: tell her how much you're going to contribute financially and domestically (2) tell her you're going to be taking time to build yourself (3) tell her you're going to be eating better (more wholefood, more protein). You can fry some chicken chunks and noodles as an example to her: with the right spices, it might taste a bit like Thai food (4) tell her you'll be expecting her to wear sexy outfits 3 nights a week. It takes a while to learn how to lead a woman, and there will be setbacks, but it's the best I can come up with for you right now.
The ideal man for modern women is a simp that looks good and is controlable.
You cant make up with external metrics of status for what you fundamentally lack in your core. Some things cannot be bought no matter how much you want to pay for them: patience, self-discipline, confidence. Those can only be cultivated on one's own. How? By putting in conscious effort and drawing constructive conclusions from your failures. It is not unmanly to make mistakes - it is unmanly not to learn from them
i can't believe no one on youtube is talking about magnetic aura from Talesio
No, this actually is logical
Pimpin Ken explains there is 3 types of men in women’s eyes
Father figure
Lover boy
Manager
Being giving with money disqualifies you as the manager right away ( can’t trust him with money )
Her father would just say “ NO “
So now you are just lover boy simp 🤷🏽♂️
Wanna explain those 3 in more detail bc that is very vague
@@thinkingoutthebox7253 lover boy= boy toy, sex machine
Father figure=older guy, kinda cold, always setting rules ( boundaries)
Manager= Imho almost like a pimp, all about making money, withholding sexual interest, more interested in making money than sex ( at least the bitch believes so ) this guy can never be a “ trick “ he has to get her deep confidence that they are only dealing about money
My opinion 🤷🏽♂️
But look up pimpin kens videos, he explains this
@@thinkingoutthebox7253 remember, like her, you are supposed to be completely self absorbed, trying to maximize everything in your favor, if you are giving with the strongest utility how can you be making yourself better ? They can smell when men are trying to buy sexual favor
Believe it or not, they respect the no more
What's a Manager?
@@TC-yx1qt exactly what you think it is
A man must provide for his Household ie dedicated wife and children. The Bible did not specify … a man’s girlfriend. A woman must earn a man’s provision’s & security through loyal love, dedication, devotion & exclusive commitment to God & family.
How many relationships fall apart because of lack of money? Money talks, bullshit walks.
What if you turn into this guy while in a LTR of more years and you were beta all this time? Because I'm trying to do this and she's always bitching and crying. I want to work on my extra projects sometimes not watch Netflix in the evening or go for a stupid walk. Also, helping my parents is more important than going out with our friend couple.
My ex dumped me. I made a fake Instagram profile 2 weeks b4 added her and started up a talk. Im one week time she did more for this fake profile in a week then for me in 2 years. Got her back thou. Got her to send the fake profile 600 euro andhe will also break her heart win win
How did you get her to send $600? She sounds delusional and stupiddd. You must of used a fake hot pic for her to be attracted.
Tbh I know a few girls in my surroundings who go for total simps after 28yo. Especially in small cities (
Because they're running out of time because o their ever decreasing SMV so they then get the nice guy, but will always be bitter and angry because they feel like they "settled" because the guys she used to bang were MUCH higher value. So she will treat him like garbage, he will most likely NOT know how to be a man, fail all her tests, she loses more respect for him, until she cheats on him FIRST either emotionally and or physically s3x, then she divorces and monkey branches to the new guy.
but you even said it, they "settle down" those are the same women who will get divorced after 20 years of extracting resources, and even if they dont the man wont get their raw desire. It's still an L
@@QMS9224 Unfortunately 99% of men don't understand this one HUGE fact when it comes to women... that and women lose respect for theri men because they don't act like a man, so they fail in these two key metrics and eventually she exits or makes your life a living h*ll
@@QMS9224exactly after they sleep their way into that man’s wallet, and the man marries them, they’ll pop out a few kids and starve that man of sex until he cheats and she can divorce him. Its cold
💯 sad but true
been saying this. 50/50 if you decide to keep her around.
What if you have a child with a women...in the context of "providing"
He’s talking about leading with providing a lifestyle
4:25 🔥🔥🔥
Very good! Thanks
Yes yes and yes
This not spending time together to go to the mall was one of the reasons she broke up with me and she felt like I was cheap with her and she would spend money on me? We were together for 3 years. Monogamous relationship
Thats bs you really think a girl who is 100% attracted to him and desires him would breakup bc he didnt buy what she wanted? She would but him stuff, you just didnt set the frame right or she isnt attracted to you
Being cheap turned her off.
Casey Zander does headman nation include masculine blueprint?
And your girlfriend
Matthew Hussey: Invest in people the way they invest in you, and not based on how much you love them.
He's a fraud and most of his advice just panders to woman's feelings (actual bad advice that will keep them single) so he can take their MONEY.
low key very wise. very very wise.
best!!!
The whiteboard is back.
What a Genus
@@zealouswater3 genius*
@@SD-mi2vc special Ed kicked in .
But what to do if you are in a relationship/marriage am you bank 3-4x more than she is? You should split all equal? Or what if she is a housewife and you bring all the money?
Good one
I've been providing some things for over 2 months now, and she returns the kindness I give her. This man preaches about attracting and keeping absolutely broken women who do not live in their divine feminine energy.
Brah this applies to work as well, the more of an ass you are, the more respect you get at work. When you bend over for your managers, you literally signal that you have no options...
There's also no incentive to do so
I think you're getting a bit carried away Casey... 6 months ago you said you should spend $600 on dinner with a Woman and tip the restaurant at least 50% to run the perfect date
and of course she'd want to come back for another date...
or you could just go for Coffee...
Yeah and he says to buy 2-3-4 full course meals for him and the girl to split to signal that you can provide resources... so the exact OPPOSITE of what he's saying here.
I think this is just his evolution of understanding women.
They both work... but this "Do whatever the F you want, when you want will get more girls into your bed for sure".
Mostnof the guys on RUclips are just grifting and regurgitating each others information
What he meant providing is sending her money, paying her rent etc. In my country, ive seen lots of guys do that to buy attraction of these women. Ofc theyll stick around, have s3x here and there but theyre attracted to guys that has there masculine frame right, not needing validation (sending money means you need validation and you yourself is not enough to get them without money).
@@TC-yx1qt he's probably just another grifter trying to take advantage of incels and desperate men. He def seems weird and he says he won't debate anyone bc it's a waste of time lmao
you are missing the nuance. He's not explaining what to do, he's explaining the psychology of women. Casey's knowledge is constantly evolving, that's part of what makes him great is he can change his mind unlike more redpill simps who are indoctrinated
Next: DONT breathe around a woman (she’ll lose ATTRACTION for you)
Vibe strong with her in the beginning if she’s showing high interest then pull back and bread crumb her yes be a narcissist if you want her her emotionally whipped ,wanna push her away? Just be a stand up guy who communicates and does everything right
And than you want that woman love you for who you are... Mission impossible.
@@Katarzyna-h2z unconditional love doesnt exist, its all leverage and hormornes
@@ibrahimhassaan6188 it does, but it has nothing with hormones, it is state of mind, not body
@@Katarzyna-h2z deceiving little critters they are
Thank you 🙏🙂
Now, is this applied to marriage also?
Facts
The right woman, do the opposite of what this guy says. I’m doing it now, and no problems.
The "right" women are all taken.
Basically don't be a people plesser
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