You should make a seperate video about what you say in the ''badboy/asshole can lead'' section. please go deeper into that, especially about the beginning stages like approaching a girl when she doesn't know you. How can you display that indifference and make her feel that so she is invested.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh, but I see those women with 30 year-plus marriages complaining about inconsequential traits of their husbands, maybe because they are predictable…
Non-attachment is the key to everything. Giving zero fucks what women think of you is the ultimate proof to them that you live in your own frame of reality, and there is nothing more attractive.
I have 8 children, been with my wife for 11 years. This is so true. She pulls back, i match it, then some. I show indifference. I dont text her, call her, give her any attention. After a few days she starts squirming. Indifference drives them batshit. In beginning i went 26 days not talking to her. They break. Women dont love you, they love how you make them feel, rollercoaster of love. I get sex whenever i want, she is more than happy to accommodate, NEVER rejects.
It's not an argument if you just ignore her... go out with another chick. Call 🤙 em even right in front of the wife. I use to do that and believe it or not till she died My wife chased me
@@MysticSheppard Are you a man or woman? Your profile says Amy-Jones yet you are commenting as a guy from a man's point of view? Also your comments seem like parodies and misrepresentation of us guys here on the channel. What am I missing here?
I started doing this after getting out of a 9 year relationship. Now I have 6 women on rotation and I also understand why she left. Being nice will get you nowhere, just be yourself and focus on yourself and your desires and they love it 😂😂😂 I ran across this video and he nails it perfectly!
Happy 4 u mate. Question though, isnt the beauty of any relationship, to show and receive affection? Isnt that the whole point? To feel love and to love someone else...? Hes saying never show u care wtf
@@edulasprilla3020you want love you ain't going too find that in the USA 🇺🇸 as it's all an illusion and all modern day western women are highly manipulative and MOST of those women are only good for recreational use anyway!!! F#ck being nice and MOST nice guys are fake AF and only put on a false facade pretending to be good men! Wanna be nice? Be nice too your Grandma and Mama! F#CK being nice too these trashy AF amercian 🇺🇲 women!!!!
Not only u need to be fit, successful, rich, confident, attractive you also need to know and apply a 100 levels of these mind games. And still they will give u shit. Bruh
You have missed the point of this video and all the others which Casey has made: Your attractiveness and the qualities that can keep a woman are down to your "attitude, wisdom and maturity". This is what Casey constantly concentrates on.
Lol try playing the game first then reassess. Honestly wouldn’t blame anybody that wants to stay single given the divorce rates and female nature in today’s world.
Don't you see it? Your whole mistake is being "needy"! Casey has successfully demonstrated time and time again, that the moment a woman knows you are needy - she will immediately cast you aside. As he said in this video, you "have to break eggs". In other words, you have to go out to overcome "your issues". The moment you begin to see his principles consistently at work, then you will understand properly and clearly your role as a "man" and hopefully, you will gain self-mastery over your "manhood" (- yourself), so that you do not give it away. The moment you can get yourself into a position of "not caring" or giving a damn, you will immediately become attractive, and you will put yourself in a position where you cannot be "manipulated" out of your relationship.
Years ago I was in an abusive relationship with a girl, as the abuser. I'd get drunk and demean her and push her around almost every night. She never left, I ended up breaking things off with her. Fast forward a few years, I sobered up, got into AA, and reached out to her to make amends for the way I treated her. Her response, I shit you not, was "You don't have to apologize, how fucked up you were was why I liked you so much" lmao. Just one more event in a long chain of redpilling events.
@@jeansollot6419 the guy sobered up, turned his life around, apologised to his ex even though he didn't have to. Thanks for letting him know it's not cool to abuse women. he hadn't realised until you just reminded him. smh
@@jeansollot6419You say that but watch how to emotionally manipulate women to be more attracted to you, also by using abuser-tactics like acting like you don't care about her, ignoring her and toy with her emotions just to keep her engaged.
@@feuerbrenntgutbro the key is to actually not feel attached, not to play it 😅. Like it or not, but the world has changed since the days woman were dependend on men. Offering security is not enough nowadays.
@@Showdownxlmyup they need emotional turmoil. It’s a drug to them. They love men who don’t love them back. All of them (even the fat bad ugly ones) want a guy who is out of their league. Rejection is a woman’s love language. Period.
Good question. The issue is sex is the most attractive, most enjoyable thing a person can do. Sex runs deep, very deep. Celibacy is the answer, but not many can hack it.
You are absolutely correct that we are victims of our culture that has made us "weak". For the Romans a man who was in love was a joke, but of course they lived much more physical and brutal lives, they had more important things to worry about and do than pursuing love.
I read a book by a Roman poet Ovidius called Court of Love, and the advice there is simping at its finest. Like, if she laughs you laugh too, if she cries you cry too, if she tells you to go away, just be patient and keep simping as if you were her slave until she changes her mind. And it goes on and on like this. Maybe slaves and plebeians had difficult and brutal lives, but the aristocracy were truly simp kings, you wouldn't find such simps in the modern world. Simps nowadays are amateurs, but the Romans really took this 'art' to a whole new level.
@@andreydzyuba9122even the great emperor, Marcus Aurelius, could not control his woman. At least he was steadfast in his beliefs and it's paid off, but it would be hard to respect him otherwise.
@@andreydzyuba9122 From Wikipedia: "According to Seneca the Elder, Ovid tended to the emotional, not the argumentative pole of rhetoric." "He married three times and had divorced twice by the time he was thirty." Enough said.
@@blastermaster7261I’ll give him benefit of the doubt considering he was off in literal battles and she cheated with a gladiator who was probably way more attractive than him, but still I agree it makes him hard to respect
the key is to have other girls, once you have other girls, even if she stops seeing you to get into a committed relationship with another guy, once that fails she will usually be back. thats why not caring is so powerful because she wants to come back when you are fine with letting her go
Translation: she wants drama So you don’t answer your phone, your ignore her, you don’t let her move in, and you focus on your grind. And when you’re actually have time then you text her “I’ll see you this Friday”
I knew all this shit when I was 18-25 years old and didn’t give af. Women went crazy for me. Then, you get this ideal of what the woman wants you to be in every f’n relationship. I can see now that I was 100 percent right! Their narrative changes us, and their goddam nagging after the honeymoon phase. And you’re so right about programming. It turned all males into simps, and we let the woman lead. F that. You’re the best Casey!!!
Its not about tips or advice, its a state of mind about not giving a F about anything. That is something deep in the recesses of the mind. Either you have it or you dont.
WOW! where have you been?! You single handedly saved my marriage 👍 So hard at first, it goes against my logical brain, yet after just 3 of your videos, I have regained her desire. Thank you!
This is so real, we need to learn to "let go" in a society that has programmed us to think that we need someone to be happy and that we need a family. This content is coming right in the moment when am adding stoicism in my life.
id hate to say it but he's right. the shitty thing is men, is when you come across the one who actually is nice and genuine and is a sweet heart remember to not play these games. its a plus to have them dark tactics, but don't do innocent souls dirty. it is a intergalactic crime.
the sweet and genuine act is just a ploy to get you to drop your guard and make mistakes. Expert daters use it on strong men. You get the chariot to soften you up for the stick. Its funny how the switch up happens.
I married my first ever girlfriend and we are still together, this is our 3rd decade together. We have the same hobbies, same profession, same workplace, same interests. She is gorgeous, beyond intelligent, education off the charts, extremely hard working at very high level position and brings home even more than I do. Being together all the time, me being focused on her and on no other girl stifled intimacy completely. ALL the intimacy has long GONE, replaced by frustration, simmering anger and quiet despair. We are best friends, astonishing partners who can finish each others sentences even after the other said only the first word.... but sex, even intimacy NOPE. She does not even touch me, and cringed when I touched her. Not even a kind word from her part, not a single expression of approval or gratitude. It all started with passionate love, and weathering incredible challenges of life together, and getting stronger every time. Yet, while all aspects have improved, intimacy gradually faded to shadow. What Casey says in his videos (I have been binge-watching him) applied to us 100% accurately, every single video! Following his advice I leave her more space and turned off the affection completely. This feels to me as if I'm totally neglecting her and not caring and being heartless. Not even starting communication unless she starts talking to me. I treat her 100% as a business partner, do not give her any comments on her femininity. Flirt with our female friends when she is around. She is now incomparably happier than before, the icy intolerable cage has mellowed into a pleasant life with genuine content, happiness and quiet respect on both sides. No intimacy yet, but the prevalent simmering disgust from her part and the constant anger and frustration from my part is ALL GONE. Total life-changer already, for both me and her. Are we getting back to intimacy? At this point I do not care, all I want is to build myself up to an emotionally strong man. I have not even realized how emotionally unstable I became after focusing on her alone - I forgot how to be myself, trying to read her every thought. I got messed up by our societal teaching that your wife will love and support you emotionally, and you will be like to halves of a single beating heart. GUYS, THAT IS PURE POISON! You, the MAN has to have a FULL STRONG HEART, be the SUN so she can be your MOON. If you expect to bask in her radiance, ask her to be the other half of your shared sun, your relationship will end up in the gutters. Women are turned on by chaos and adventure, and in a stable loving life all the chaos and novelty is long, long gone.
1. Never marry 2. never let them move in 3. never get them knocked up, 4. never get a joint bank account, 5. never pay off her debts. 6. don't be a foodie call. 7. always spin plates.
Everything this man says reminds me of my grandpa and grandma relationship. He never was all lovey dovey. He was hella critical and it made the small gestures seem astronomical
My favorite part of Fight Club is when Tyler steals lipo-suction waste from that women's clinic and turns it into soap then Tyler says "we're selling women's fat arses back to them". I laughed till I cried when that scene played out.
What’s crazy about this is I got my heart broken about 6 years ago and it turned me into a savage that same year I got into something serious with a girl and was never fully invested always had her mind going crazy because she never knew what I was up to and I barely entertained her arguments, she stayed with me for 5 years until I decided to end it but the whole time the ball was in my court😅. I couldn’t get my head round why she stayed with me as I didn’t give her too much attention and I was always fucking around but after watching this it make so much sense I was doing everything right without knowing loool😂
VALUABLE advice for younger men who haven't had their hearts ripped out of their chest yet. Gotta take some losses. Once you stop givin' a damn, they come flockin' they find you irresistible.
I get it now. That's why many women say he is good man though after leaving a guy. Most women mistreat and destroy nice guys because they look weak to them.
Why you think before you get a relationship she ask to see your phone or stop talking to yo hoes it's bout control I been peep this cuh if she know she the only hoe that will let you fuck she play not let ya fuck but if she know you got hoes and u havin motion she in her mind don't want to lose that and will want to be better then all the other hoes hence why she gonna be more freaky then usual I been figured this naturally fr married women love to cheat and have affairs also it gives them a escape in way.
To become a black belt in shutting a girl down when she gets out of line you need to master three things. 1) Correctly identify when she is indeed doing something wrong that needs addressed. (its a little tricky at first but with practice gets easier) 2) immediately clarify to her in the moment what boundary she is breaking and let her know that you don't date women who behave in that manner (you absolutely need the ability to replace her fairly quickly and she needs to know you absolutely can and will) 3) If she refuses to treat you with respect after steps 1 and 2 you calmy state that you don't allow women around you that don't respect you and create distance between yourself and her. If she comes to her senses later, and doesn't repeat the behavior, then you have succeeded in teaching her how to treat you. If she disrespects you again you remove her from your life completely and move on to a girl who can be taught. Both the girls who can and cannot be taught find men who do this well very attractive.
What if I just dislike her tone of voice, without her saying anything 'wrong'? You know, shes all feminine sounding in the beginning, but over time her voice gets lower. You don't notice until it becomes obvious or until you hear her talk to another attractive guy and suddenly her voice gets super high.
@@Bryan1312a Thats actually a great question and is at the heart of step 1. If her tone of voice indicates a lack of respect and it is starting to happen on a repeated basis, then I recommend very calmy telling her that you've noticed some changes in the relationship and you are going to take a day or two away from her to think about it and get back to her. Tell her you are doing this so that you can assess the situation calmy and clearly because you will be alone. Then you temporarily take a day or two to yourself so you can really think about whether or not she actually is dis-respecting with her tone of voice and in other small nuanced ways. More than likely the answer will be yes but be open to being wrong. During that time really focus on what it is that is bothering you then write it down until its concise and to the point. After you spent a day or two thinking about it then set up a phone call or plan a casual private get together. You might say something like..... "Hey I've noticed some small changes lately in your behavior. They are little changes however they are not behaviors a woman who respects and loves her man would do. I only date women who treat me with respect. Especially since I try my best to treat the women I date with respect. (You actually have to treat women with respect without being a simp about it in order for this to work so be on your best behavior and don't be a dick but be stern as hell) After you calmy state everything I just said tell her that you'd like to give her some time to think about it and leave. Check back with her the next day. If she apologize s and falls into frame then awesome. If not walk away. You deserve better. Keep in mind a large percentage of women will get pissed and you will have to walk away so don't be surprised and be prepared for it. But when you find a woman who complies and corrects her behavior you will often find the make up sex is amazing and her bond to you will be stronger than before the whole ordeal. Give it a try and let me know how things go. edit: one last important thing. 99% of women who do comply won't actually apologize. They typically just correct the behavior and feel a new attraction to you and become more femine with you etc..
@@rm6857 How old are you if you don't mind me Asking? I had to use different techniques under the age of 30 than I did over the age of 30. Also are you in shape? Own a business? How about your wardrobe and overall looks/height? Cool hobbies? All these things play a role. You don't need to be a stud in every category but when you get enough of these traits in place then you should have some success.
A guy told me one time, 'Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner'.
It's movie quote, but applied to general life makes you bulletproof. Many men have fell for what they call in economics 'the sunken cost fallecy' in their lives.
You dropped some GEMS in this one. A LOT of this rings true with my experiences and observations as well. Keep it up man. You are digging deep into the intersection of masculine and feminine psyches… deeper than a lot of these other channels out there
THIS IS GOLD.....RIGHT NOW - this is in motion...... I havent worked for 12 weeks (my industry has been on strike for 3 months), I started complaining and my girl left (my fault) three weeks ago. We saw each other once afterwards five days ago....I haven't contacted her since.....( it does feel a bit nasty), now today she's freaking out and sending messages. Crazy but so true, CHAOS and TURMOIL.
I subscribed, because you have high value content that resonates with my experiences. I've been telling other men and women for years that men's ability to keep the emotional leverage is the key to maintaining a relationship, but they either think I'm a jaded cold hearted guy or they think I'm a narcissistic control freak. The first is ignorance and the second is projection, but whatever. It is what it is.
CZ!! GREAT WORK. You're not just wise: you're organized! Your point at the end about "it's not weakness" illuminates how our intelligence gets hijacked.
Casey, gotta say you’re the best in RUclips. It’s grounded on understanding the female fundamentals without getting personal against them, like “it is what it is”. You give a stoic perspective that motivates without anger or hatred, just stoicism and letting go of the baggage, moving forward and not looking back except to heed lessons. Have been binge watching your episodes and can’t stop, since they are so accurate to my exes minus the rage against the past. You really nail all the points. My kudos to you.
You're seriously teaching me me ish on every video, it is so interesting how you mentioned that some of us are angry with themselves for how they handled past situations in relationships, I'm one of those because I didn't understand this yet when you break it down the way you do, I'm sure women do not like hearing it because you are seriously breaking it down to a level where you make it impossible not to understand.
I’ve watched dozens of hours of Casey’s videos, and they keep me in a state of fury at myself for all the easily avoidable mistakes I made in my most recent relationship.
This one is so amazing it the best video yet it is good for single to married men. You spoke so much truth, you spend so much to put it all together and present it so well. There is a huge market for this advice for us married guys who got dull in these skills. All the bitching, nagging and pull is exactly what happens in the rut of the marriage. I have ADD and I would love to hear you talk about how this is an advantage and a disadvantage all in one to lead her emotional frame. Mine is deep in the pull away and I keep trying to be the bad boy but it's hard since I Want or be a great husband but I'm learning that routine=divorce.
It is true. When you cannot create or invent anything constructive and positive you create problems and discord because it is the only thing you can create. It is the only way they can exist, it gives them a sense of purpose in life. The Drake example was brilliant.
Bro you just describe my entire relationship with my ex, for a years when I was a player and didn’t care she was a servant to me, but when I lost my business and tried to focus on being back to my feet again and forget about other women, she started to change and acted different, the moment I started playing again her femininity came back again
My ex left me, a 22 year old clean record man who has already built his own house. She then got together with a sex offender she met at the restaurant she worked at. He waited a couple months to tell her he's a sex offender, and she let it slide. He then downloaded bumble and likely cheated on her, and she let it slide. Fucking crazy dude. I gave her everything and she threw me away and went straight to a guy like that. They literally moved in together 6 months after our 3 year relationship ended. Eye opening.
Words of wisdom brother… I would consider myself a strong dude. I will put my foot down in a lot of issues. Unfortunately, I still ended up getting a divorce. Unfortunately women do thrive in chaos.
Yo your videos are sick and have benefitted my life tremendously. I remember what you said about having a higher production quality for your videos, but for this type of information I think the stripped down, raw approach is the way to go. No bullshit, it's awesome. Excellent videos, thank you for the work you put in.
This is accurate. I must add that there are rp aware men with great relationships and monogamous one too. it does require understanding the dynamics at play though. Frame control isn't all that difficult when it becomes who you are. maintaining a certain level of attraction isn't hard when you're a natural adventurer. there's one key you can't fall, you have to stand in such dynamics, only then you can detach if you need to. but it must be who you are and not who you pretend to be (women sniff out weakness)
NO ITS CALLED AN ABUSER AND HE GIVES LESSONS, WHAT A GAMER MASTER AND LIAR. ANY WOMAN WITH SELF ESTEEM RUNS FROM BOYS GAMES LIKE THIS. HAHAHAH FOOOOOOLS
This has been the Best video i have watch form you Casey. Thank's for shearing the knowledge. For Real brother... i have the sense that this information is going to determine a BIG part of my peace of mind and well being, also for all the men willing to change their understanding about female psicology... and theiselfs.I am a young mexican guy (27), who strugled the past 4 years dwe to a brake up with "the love of my life"... i now see what happened clearly and feel the realife i needed. I don't feel gulty anymore, i feel free to recognice my needs with detatchment. THANK YOU MAN.
I feel like I’m being reborn into another man watching your videos thank you Casey for showing us how to be better men. You’re doing what god called you to do.
So glad I found this channel. I can’t begin to express how refreshing it is to hear these concepts explained in a manner that me as a man can actually understand.
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How do i forward and rewind on your mbt i cant finish it.
You should make a seperate video about what you say in the ''badboy/asshole can lead'' section. please go deeper into that, especially about the beginning stages like approaching a girl when she doesn't know you. How can you display that indifference and make her feel that so she is invested.
Congrats on the 400k subz 😎👍
Thanks for pointing out the mistakes I made. I have to accept the failures and learn.
Casey, could you make a video on how to convince women to be a part of a harem / polygynous relationship?
Every man lives 2 lives. The first, before he gets his heart stomped on by a woman. The second, after watching the savage video by Casey.
So you're living a life of instablilty and constant chaos? Doesn't that get exhausting
@@Jeremy-wp4yhwhat are you talking about?
@@rayawake some people are happily married and don't participate in this chaos.
FACTS
@@Jeremy-wp4yh, but I see those women with 30 year-plus marriages complaining about inconsequential traits of their husbands, maybe because they are predictable…
No music in the background, no long silly intros, straight to the point and no bs. Love it
ikr... that's why I stopped listening to Coach EO
@@kamauosborne3705 coach EO wayy too pretentious for me
Precise summary
not THAT good,come on!
Hate music and silly intros
I love how brutal and savage this guys new content is. He was already red pilled but its like now the content is double red pill
Put some respect on my dude Casey’s name
On a different level.
Bruh he’s like Red pill washed down with some pre workout! 😂
He’s beyond red pill takes. He’s on a level that red pill simply doesn’t understand, that’s why he’s upped his game.
He definitely upped his game
FORGET ABOUT PULLING BACK OR PULLING FORWARD, JUST MAKE SURE YOU PULL OUT.
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or have a plane ticket
😂💀😂 @ pull out lmaooooo
😅😅😅
Creampies FTW
This shit is extremely hard to accept as a man,but extremely necessary
I know right
Feel like such a pansy just wanting a "normal" loving relationship
Non-attachment is the key to everything. Giving zero fucks what women think of you is the ultimate proof to them that you live in your own frame of reality, and there is nothing more attractive.
I have 8 children, been with my wife for 11 years. This is so true. She pulls back, i match it, then some. I show indifference. I dont text her, call her, give her any attention. After a few days she starts squirming. Indifference drives them batshit. In beginning i went 26 days not talking to her. They break. Women dont love you, they love how you make them feel, rollercoaster of love. I get sex whenever i want, she is more than happy to accommodate, NEVER rejects.
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When you said "She pulls back, I match it" I absolutely agree with this because it works really well.
You are a wizard of poon my friend
She knows you can ignore her without breaking and she never wants that again.
@@MysticSheppard Lige magic i smash it!
I realize that Casey is speaking the truth, but all I hear is an argument that the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Bro the dating scene in modern day first world countries is a cesspool. The game is completely different.
Same
It's not an argument if you just ignore her... go out with another chick. Call 🤙 em even right in front of the wife. I use to do that and believe it or not till she died My wife chased me
@@MysticSheppard Are you a man or woman? Your profile says Amy-Jones yet you are commenting as a guy from a man's point of view? Also your comments seem like parodies and misrepresentation of us guys here on the channel. What am I missing here?
It’s not
Just pay for 🐱and live in peace
I started doing this after getting out of a 9 year relationship. Now I have 6 women on rotation and I also understand why she left. Being nice will get you nowhere, just be yourself and focus on yourself and your desires and they love it 😂😂😂 I ran across this video and he nails it perfectly!
Happy 4 u mate. Question though, isnt the beauty of any relationship, to show and receive affection? Isnt that the whole point? To feel love and to love someone else...? Hes saying never show u care wtf
@@edulasprilla3020She’ll show you affection, regardless. There’s no need to worry about affection.
Yeh sure I believe you
Amen 👍💯💪🇮🇪
@@edulasprilla3020you want love you ain't going too find that in the USA 🇺🇸 as it's all an illusion and all modern day western women are highly manipulative and MOST of those women are only good for recreational use anyway!!! F#ck being nice and MOST nice guys are fake
AF and only put on a false facade pretending to be good men! Wanna be nice? Be nice too your Grandma and Mama! F#CK being nice too these trashy AF amercian 🇺🇲 women!!!!
Happily divorced and every time I think about dating I watch these videos to remind myself that I love me more.
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@@jeansollot6419 tf you mean, everyone’s got issues, seems like you def do too
@@jeansollot6419 not sure if you’re trying to attack me or support me… but thanks either way. 💯
Amen brother
Lol you happy being all by yourself?
"Being a man is fortifying yourself through wisdom" - Casey Zander
Not only u need to be fit, successful, rich, confident, attractive you also need to know and apply a 100 levels of these mind games. And still they will give u shit. Bruh
Their reindeer games are lethal
Welcome to reality G
Which is why you just let go and don't care, focus on what you want, only.
You have missed the point of this video and all the others which Casey has made: Your attractiveness and the qualities that can keep a woman are down to your "attitude, wisdom and maturity". This is what Casey constantly concentrates on.
@@memekenya1139 it doesn't matter if you low status and poor. We're talking long term relationships.
I agree. Women get bored eventually and are never satisfied. They're always looking for that next thrill. And of course, she's not funding any of it.
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natural space cadets. natural addictive personality. don’t give them anything or minimal. silence is golden.
"Here I am... now entertain me !!!! But don't be BORING!"
The more I see these videos the more I believe I'll be single forever.
Lol try playing the game first then reassess. Honestly wouldn’t blame anybody that wants to stay single given the divorce rates and female nature in today’s world.
Don't you see it? Your whole mistake is being "needy"! Casey has successfully demonstrated time and time again, that the moment a woman knows you are needy - she will immediately cast you aside. As he said in this video, you "have to break eggs". In other words, you have to go out to overcome "your issues". The moment you begin to see his principles consistently at work, then you will understand properly and clearly your role as a "man" and hopefully, you will gain self-mastery over your "manhood" (- yourself), so that you do not give it away. The moment you can get yourself into a position of "not caring" or giving a damn, you will immediately become attractive, and you will put yourself in a position where you cannot be "manipulated" out of your relationship.
@memekenya1139 Yes, I have to just do what I want and not give a f.
@memekenya1139 I bought MBT but haven't gone through it yet.
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The crazy part is he is not wrong!
THATS STUOID PROJECTION, NOT SCIENCE
He holds back because of YT.
@@BEYOUTOTHEFULHahaha typical. Emotional, the truth is what it is you either bend to it's will or live a lie.
Real life is diverse and complex, but this does not nullify that there are the basics and defaults of things. That is why men watch this channel.
Years ago I was in an abusive relationship with a girl, as the abuser. I'd get drunk and demean her and push her around almost every night. She never left, I ended up breaking things off with her. Fast forward a few years, I sobered up, got into AA, and reached out to her to make amends for the way I treated her. Her response, I shit you not, was
"You don't have to apologize, how fucked up you were was why I liked you so much"
lmao. Just one more event in a long chain of redpilling events.
@@jeansollot6419 the guy sobered up, turned his life around, apologised to his ex even though he didn't have to.
Thanks for letting him know it's not cool to abuse women. he hadn't realised until you just reminded him. smh
@@jeansollot6419You say that but watch how to emotionally manipulate women to be more attracted to you, also by using abuser-tactics like acting like you don't care about her, ignoring her and toy with her emotions just to keep her engaged.
Now i have an excuse to be a violent, drug addled alcoholic. Thanks man.
@@feuerbrenntgutbro the key is to actually not feel attached, not to play it 😅. Like it or not, but the world has changed since the days woman were dependend on men. Offering security is not enough nowadays.
@@Showdownxlmyup they need emotional turmoil. It’s a drug to them. They love men who don’t love them back. All of them (even the fat bad ugly ones) want a guy who is out of their league. Rejection is a woman’s love language. Period.
Casey is the therapist I never knew I needed
I really..REALLY..needed him years ago!!!!!!!
The real question is:
Is that hole worth all these hassle
Not at all 😂
Nope, which is why you should in the end just not care. Be ready and prepared to replace her the moment she acts up.
Good question.
The issue is sex is the most
attractive, most enjoyable thing
a person can do.
Sex runs deep, very deep.
Celibacy is the answer, but not
many can hack it.
replace the 'h' with 'r'
Death hole
You are absolutely correct that we are victims of our culture that has made us "weak". For the Romans a man who was in love was a joke, but of course they lived much more physical and brutal lives, they had more important things to worry about and do than pursuing love.
I read a book by a Roman poet Ovidius called Court of Love, and the advice there is simping at its finest. Like, if she laughs you laugh too, if she cries you cry too, if she tells you to go away, just be patient and keep simping as if you were her slave until she changes her mind. And it goes on and on like this.
Maybe slaves and plebeians had difficult and brutal lives, but the aristocracy were truly simp kings, you wouldn't find such simps in the modern world. Simps nowadays are amateurs, but the Romans really took this 'art' to a whole new level.
@@andreydzyuba9122even the great emperor, Marcus Aurelius, could not control his woman. At least he was steadfast in his beliefs and it's paid off, but it would be hard to respect him otherwise.
@@andreydzyuba9122 From Wikipedia: "According to Seneca the Elder, Ovid tended to the emotional, not the argumentative pole of rhetoric." "He married three times and had divorced twice by the time he was thirty." Enough said.
@@blastermaster7261I’ll give him benefit of the doubt considering he was off in literal battles and she cheated with a gladiator who was probably way more attractive than him, but still I agree it makes him hard to respect
Hard times create hard men sir.
Letting go of fear and control is huge
Including insecurities
Great comment
the key is to have other girls, once you have other girls, even if she stops seeing you to get into a committed relationship with another guy, once that fails she will usually be back. thats why not caring is so powerful because she wants to come back when you are fine with letting her go
Translation: she wants drama
So you don’t answer your phone, your ignore her, you don’t let her move in, and you focus on your grind. And when you’re actually have time then you text her “I’ll see you this Friday”
🤝
I knew all this shit when I was 18-25 years old and didn’t give af. Women went crazy for me. Then, you get this ideal of what the woman wants you to be in every f’n relationship. I can see now that I was 100 percent right! Their narrative changes us, and their goddam nagging after the honeymoon phase. And you’re so right about programming. It turned all males into simps, and we let the woman lead. F that. You’re the best Casey!!!
I would like to hear tips and advice from you, from your experiences
Its not about tips or advice, its a state of mind about not giving a F about anything. That is something deep in the recesses of the mind. Either you have it or you dont.
Not all simps 😂
Facts. They hound you when you know how to play their tricks on them.
WOW! where have you been?! You single handedly saved my marriage 👍 So hard at first, it goes against my logical brain, yet after just 3 of your videos, I have regained her desire. Thank you!
Forget red pill, this guy is giving us invaluable information about women psychology 👏💯
This is so real, we need to learn to "let go" in a society that has programmed us to think that we need someone to be happy and that we need a family. This content is coming right in the moment when am adding stoicism in my life.
on point
@victorq5309
Oh hell naw😂😂
Do you hear yourself
Echoes the sentiments in my recent comment perfectly.
Be consistently INCONSISTENT! ⭐
id hate to say it but he's right. the shitty thing is men, is when you come across the one who actually is nice and genuine and is a sweet heart remember to not play these games. its a plus to have them dark tactics, but don't do innocent souls dirty. it is a intergalactic crime.
So glad you said this!
@@zoiepage6201maybe 1 in 100,000 woman...IMHO..but their out there
the sweet and genuine act is just a ploy to get you to drop your guard and make mistakes. Expert daters use it on strong men. You get the chariot to soften you up for the stick. Its funny how the switch up happens.
I married my first ever girlfriend and we are still together, this is our 3rd decade together. We have the same hobbies, same profession, same workplace, same interests. She is gorgeous, beyond intelligent, education off the charts, extremely hard working at very high level position and brings home even more than I do. Being together all the time, me being focused on her and on no other girl stifled intimacy completely. ALL the intimacy has long GONE, replaced by frustration, simmering anger and quiet despair. We are best friends, astonishing partners who can finish each others sentences even after the other said only the first word.... but sex, even intimacy NOPE. She does not even touch me, and cringed when I touched her. Not even a kind word from her part, not a single expression of approval or gratitude. It all started with passionate love, and weathering incredible challenges of life together, and getting stronger every time. Yet, while all aspects have improved, intimacy gradually faded to shadow. What Casey says in his videos (I have been binge-watching him) applied to us 100% accurately, every single video! Following his advice I leave her more space and turned off the affection completely. This feels to me as if I'm totally neglecting her and not caring and being heartless. Not even starting communication unless she starts talking to me. I treat her 100% as a business partner, do not give her any comments on her femininity. Flirt with our female friends when she is around. She is now incomparably happier than before, the icy intolerable cage has mellowed into a pleasant life with genuine content, happiness and quiet respect on both sides. No intimacy yet, but the prevalent simmering disgust from her part and the constant anger and frustration from my part is ALL GONE. Total life-changer already, for both me and her. Are we getting back to intimacy? At this point I do not care, all I want is to build myself up to an emotionally strong man. I have not even realized how emotionally unstable I became after focusing on her alone - I forgot how to be myself, trying to read her every thought. I got messed up by our societal teaching that your wife will love and support you emotionally, and you will be like to halves of a single beating heart. GUYS, THAT IS PURE POISON! You, the MAN has to have a FULL STRONG HEART, be the SUN so she can be your MOON. If you expect to bask in her radiance, ask her to be the other half of your shared sun, your relationship will end up in the gutters. Women are turned on by chaos and adventure, and in a stable loving life all the chaos and novelty is long, long gone.
True ,I don’t think all women are immature and toxic. There are normal ones out there
1. Never marry 2. never let them move in 3. never get them knocked up, 4. never get a joint bank account, 5. never pay off her debts. 6. don't be a foodie call. 7. always spin plates.
I bet you dont follow any of that
@@hiramrodriguez4323😂
What does spin plates mean?
@@nathanielmoten8722date multiple women
@@hiramrodriguez4323it’s really not hard lol
Everything this man says reminds me of my grandpa and grandma relationship. He never was all lovey dovey. He was hella critical and it made the small gestures seem astronomical
That's how it was throughout history.
Basically, ignore her once you get what you want. If it's sex, be careful of a future lawsuit from her. Good luck guys! LOL
lmfao
😂😂😂😂😂
Heard a great saying once that's always stuck with me. " What men need is rejection in order to build their bravery and redirect them".
My favorite part of Fight Club is when Tyler steals lipo-suction waste from that women's clinic and turns it into soap then Tyler says "we're selling women's fat arses back to them". I laughed till I cried when that scene played out.
What’s crazy about this is I got my heart broken about 6 years ago and it turned me into a savage that same year I got into something serious with a girl and was never fully invested always had her mind going crazy because she never knew what I was up to and I barely entertained her arguments, she stayed with me for 5 years until I decided to end it but the whole time the ball was in my court😅. I couldn’t get my head round why she stayed with me as I didn’t give her too much attention and I was always fucking around but after watching this it make so much sense I was doing everything right without knowing loool😂
VALUABLE advice for younger men who haven't had their hearts ripped out of their chest yet. Gotta take some losses. Once you stop givin' a damn, they come flockin' they find you irresistible.
All of these principles apply in marriage as well
For anyone with doubts... Just look at Will Smith....
I get it now. That's why many women say he is good man though after leaving a guy.
Most women mistreat and destroy nice guys because they look weak to them.
Why you think before you get a relationship she ask to see your phone or stop talking to yo hoes it's bout control I been peep this cuh if she know she the only hoe that will let you fuck she play not let ya fuck but if she know you got hoes and u havin motion she in her mind don't want to lose that and will want to be better then all the other hoes hence why she gonna be more freaky then usual I been figured this naturally fr married women love to cheat and have affairs also it gives them a escape in way.
Shame , guilt and anger is what Casey Zander makes any man feel that listens to his wisdom. Good insight and foresight. This man playing chess.
To become a black belt in shutting a girl down when she gets out of line you need to master three things.
1) Correctly identify when she is indeed doing something wrong that needs addressed. (its a little tricky at first but with practice gets easier)
2) immediately clarify to her in the moment what boundary she is breaking and let her know that you don't date women who behave in that manner (you absolutely need the ability to replace her fairly quickly and she needs to know you absolutely can and will)
3) If she refuses to treat you with respect after steps 1 and 2 you calmy state that you don't allow women around you that don't respect you and create distance between yourself and her. If she comes to her senses later, and doesn't repeat the behavior, then you have succeeded in teaching her how to treat you. If she disrespects you again you remove her from your life completely and move on to a girl who can be taught.
Both the girls who can and cannot be taught find men who do this well very attractive.
What if I just dislike her tone of voice, without her saying anything 'wrong'?
You know, shes all feminine sounding in the beginning, but over time her voice gets lower. You don't notice until it becomes obvious or until you hear her talk to another attractive guy and suddenly her voice gets super high.
@@Bryan1312a Thats actually a great question and is at the heart of step 1. If her tone of voice indicates a lack of respect and it is starting to happen on a repeated basis, then I recommend very calmy telling her that you've noticed some changes in the relationship and you are going to take a day or two away from her to think about it and get back to her. Tell her you are doing this so that you can assess the situation calmy and clearly because you will be alone. Then you temporarily take a day or two to yourself so you can really think about whether or not she actually is dis-respecting with her tone of voice and in other small nuanced ways. More than likely the answer will be yes but be open to being wrong. During that time really focus on what it is that is bothering you then write it down until its concise and to the point. After you spent a day or two thinking about it then set up a phone call or plan a casual private get together.
You might say something like..... "Hey I've noticed some small changes lately in your behavior. They are little changes however they are not behaviors a woman who respects and loves her man would do. I only date women who treat me with respect. Especially since I try my best to treat the women I date with respect. (You actually have to treat women with respect without being a simp about it in order for this to work so be on your best behavior and don't be a dick but be stern as hell)
After you calmy state everything I just said tell her that you'd like to give her some time to think about it and leave. Check back with her the next day. If she apologize s and falls into frame then awesome. If not walk away. You deserve better.
Keep in mind a large percentage of women will get pissed and you will have to walk away so don't be surprised and be prepared for it. But when you find a woman who complies and corrects her behavior you will often find the make up sex is amazing and her bond to you will be stronger than before the whole ordeal.
Give it a try and let me know how things go.
edit: one last important thing. 99% of women who do comply won't actually apologize. They typically just correct the behavior and feel a new attraction to you and become more femine with you etc..
Women are literally children lol
I do this all the time, but it leads to be single...
@@rm6857 How old are you if you don't mind me Asking? I had to use different techniques under the age of 30 than I did over the age of 30. Also are you in shape? Own a business? How about your wardrobe and overall looks/height? Cool hobbies? All these things play a role. You don't need to be a stud in every category but when you get enough of these traits in place then you should have some success.
Absolutely 1000% correct !!! ALL of it Casey !!! Dead on accurate.
I know a lot of this subconsciously but love how you solidify it bro. Keep the vids coming
A guy told me one time,
'Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner'.
No guy told you that you dweeb. That’s a quote from the actor Robert De Niro in the crime movie HEAT.
That's from the movie Heat but okay 😂
The Best
That's a line from robert deniro in the movei "HEAT". Great movie btw.
It's movie quote, but applied to general life makes you bulletproof.
Many men have fell for what they call in economics 'the sunken cost fallecy' in their lives.
You dropped some GEMS in this one. A LOT of this rings true with my experiences and observations as well. Keep it up man. You are digging deep into the intersection of masculine and feminine psyches… deeper than a lot of these other channels out there
Your content is fire bro keep it coming. Definitely speaking truth on female nature and saving men lives 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you casey . You have helped me many times in my darkest hours and have given men like myself and others hope :).
Well done. You werent kidding when you said this was one of your best.
Casey really upped his game lately brutal honesty rise up guys
THIS IS GOLD.....RIGHT NOW - this is in motion...... I havent worked for 12 weeks (my industry has been on strike for 3 months), I started complaining and my girl left (my fault) three weeks ago. We saw each other once afterwards five days ago....I haven't contacted her since.....( it does feel a bit nasty), now today she's freaking out and sending messages. Crazy but so true, CHAOS and TURMOIL.
Money, looks, status will get your foot in the door but at the end of the day the type of man you are is what counts!
And all that doesn’t change the quality of the women…
Casy, bless you bro. This is the most powerful thing I have ever heard.
This is gold Casey. My initial reaction is sadness that no one can be transparent but it is neither good or bad, it is what it is.
Be stoic brother lol
Great video Casey. Well put, logical and lot of passion from you here.
My journey has reached it's end !!! Thank you so much ❤
Jahahahahahah
By far one of the best casey videos if not the best and for sure the best video on women seduction on the internet ever.
You’re on another level with this content. The way you present and articulate yourself, plus the crazy high level info make this insanely valuable.
Love your work Casey. Congrats on hitting that 400k subs mark. Keep on making men great
I subscribed, because you have high value content that resonates with my experiences. I've been telling other men and women for years that men's ability to keep the emotional leverage is the key to maintaining a relationship, but they either think I'm a jaded cold hearted guy or they think I'm a narcissistic control freak. The first is ignorance and the second is projection, but whatever. It is what it is.
CZ!! GREAT WORK. You're not just wise: you're organized! Your point at the end about "it's not weakness" illuminates how our intelligence gets hijacked.
Casey, gotta say you’re the best in RUclips. It’s grounded on understanding the female fundamentals without getting personal against them, like “it is what it is”. You give a stoic perspective that motivates without anger or hatred, just stoicism and letting go of the baggage, moving forward and not looking back except to heed lessons. Have been binge watching your episodes and can’t stop, since they are so accurate to my exes minus the rage against the past. You really nail all the points. My kudos to you.
Celebrate the losses without dwelling in them! Excellent video!
This was a full masterclass and is going straight to my favs. Thanks, professor.
You're seriously teaching me me ish on every video, it is so interesting how you mentioned that some of us are angry with themselves for how they handled past situations in relationships, I'm one of those because I didn't understand this yet when you break it down the way you do, I'm sure women do not like hearing it because you are seriously breaking it down to a level where you make it impossible not to understand.
I’ve watched dozens of hours of Casey’s videos, and they keep me in a state of fury at myself for all the easily avoidable mistakes I made in my most recent relationship.
Casey you been KILLIN IT🎉
These days you’re making fire videos that 1000% resonate with me. Thanks a lot brother
Yup..fire
This one is so amazing it the best video yet it is good for single to married men. You spoke so much truth, you spend so much to put it all together and present it so well.
There is a huge market for this advice for us married guys who got dull in these skills. All the bitching, nagging and pull is exactly what happens in the rut of the marriage. I have ADD and I would love to hear you talk about how this is an advantage and a disadvantage all in one to lead her emotional frame. Mine is deep in the pull away and I keep trying to be the bad boy but it's hard since I Want or be a great husband but I'm learning that routine=divorce.
Congratulations on this articulation of Truth. It takes a lot of work to get this level of pure truth bro.
This dude is straight preaching👍🔥
It is true. When you cannot create or invent anything constructive and positive you create problems and discord because it is the only thing you can create. It is the only way they can exist, it gives them a sense of purpose in life. The Drake example was brilliant.
Bro you just describe my entire relationship with my ex, for a years when I was a player and didn’t care she was a servant to me, but when I lost my business and tried to focus on being back to my feet again and forget about other women, she started to change and acted different, the moment I started playing again her femininity came back again
She just lost respect of you. Saw you as a loser
It’s true …I was a player for 5 years. The one year I try to be faithful she left my ass😂😂😂 moral of the story= cheat and don’t give a fuck
SUCH a good video. One of the most real and dynamic advice givers out there. Well done sir!
Yup, lost count how many women I know left a good man for a bad one because the good one didn't give them the drama and tears they desired
My ex left me, a 22 year old clean record man who has already built his own house. She then got together with a sex offender she met at the restaurant she worked at. He waited a couple months to tell her he's a sex offender, and she let it slide. He then downloaded bumble and likely cheated on her, and she let it slide. Fucking crazy dude. I gave her everything and she threw me away and went straight to a guy like that. They literally moved in together 6 months after our 3 year relationship ended. Eye opening.
@@ethanieldude1 Yes bro, even the women in my family have done this, mostly they are all the same.
Words of wisdom brother… I would consider myself a strong dude. I will put my foot down in a lot of issues. Unfortunately, I still ended up getting a divorce. Unfortunately women do thrive in chaos.
Keep this shit up! Best ever, changed my perception, answered all my mistakes thru life
Thank you so much for this video bro changed my life
I can’t tell you how right this guy is. Being home with a woman 24/7 was a killer
I agree I rather go to a shooting range box or sky dive
Yo your videos are sick and have benefitted my life tremendously. I remember what you said about having a higher production quality for your videos, but for this type of information I think the stripped down, raw approach is the way to go. No bullshit, it's awesome. Excellent videos, thank you for the work you put in.
Dropped some real power. Thanks man I needed the wisdom
One of the best videos you've ever done. Thank you so much for this wisdom, it came at a much needed time.
I like what you said about experience. I'm 62 years old, and have a lot of life experience. I made so many mistakes, and I learned from all of them.
This should be a stand up comedy set. It’s so true it’s hilarious
The best content and honesty I can find on youtube
can confirm, it is the best one so far. Eye-opening
They can be perfectly normal for a year!
Its soo very true that it isn't based on feelings or emotions, but something much deeper in them.
1-2 years at most.
This is accurate. I must add that there are rp aware men with great relationships and monogamous one too. it does require understanding the dynamics at play though. Frame control isn't all that difficult when it becomes who you are. maintaining a certain level of attraction isn't hard when you're a natural adventurer. there's one key you can't fall, you have to stand in such dynamics, only then you can detach if you need to. but it must be who you are and not who you pretend to be (women sniff out weakness)
The boss. Love you Casey, speaking facts 🔥
The world needs more people like u bro, no joke😕🙁🔥💯
This is an A++ video, despite that it’s too long and seems to contradict his past work. WATCH THIS UNTIL YOU MEMORIZE THE MAIN POINTS!
NO ITS CALLED AN ABUSER AND HE GIVES LESSONS, WHAT A GAMER MASTER AND LIAR. ANY WOMAN WITH SELF ESTEEM RUNS FROM BOYS GAMES LIKE THIS. HAHAHAH FOOOOOOLS
Casey is wise beyond his his years. Red pill badass
This has been the Best video i have watch form you Casey. Thank's for shearing the knowledge. For Real brother... i have the sense that this information is going to determine a BIG part of my peace of mind and well being, also for all the men willing to change their understanding about female psicology... and theiselfs.I am a young mexican guy (27), who strugled the past 4 years dwe to a brake up with "the love of my life"... i now see what happened clearly and feel the realife i needed. I don't feel gulty anymore, i feel free to recognice my needs with detatchment. THANK YOU MAN.
Man you hit the note , it makes me feel better listening to these stuff . finally answering my questions during my younger years. 💯🤙
This man has it down to a science
ye Casey is the best in the manosphere
Nah I’m in tears at the Drakes woman impression. Thought I was listening to Patrice o Neal for a second
You the man my god. Keep this shit up. I listen to ur stuff all the time to stay sharp.
That was amazing. I am going to watch it 10 times!
This is, point for point, the script for every Hollywood bad boy/heartthrob flick ever made.
I feel like I’m being reborn into another man watching your videos thank you Casey for showing us how to be better men. You’re doing what god called you to do.
Subscribers are flying up!
So glad I found this channel. I can’t begin to express how refreshing it is to hear these concepts explained in a manner that me as a man can actually understand.