How forgiving my father liberated me | Agon Hare | TEDxNTU

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @ProjectNightfallSTORIES
    @ProjectNightfallSTORIES 2 года назад +136

    Wow watching it after two years, this truly was one of the most important moments of my life. The journey of forgiveness changed everything. I hope you find strength to be on your own journey. You deserve it!

    • @fonsie_games
      @fonsie_games 2 года назад +2

      Oh hi!

    • @fordee.alternative
      @fordee.alternative 2 года назад +1

      you are one of my favourites!

    • @ZuroPL
      @ZuroPL 2 года назад +1

      Wstrząsające. Szczególnie końcówka. Jesteś postacią strasznie inspirującą. I pomyśleć że człowiek z zapyziałej mieściny w jakiejś Polsce, mógł zrobić naprawdę wielką karierę w anglojęzycznym internecie, będąc jednocześnie anonimowy w swoim kraju, wow.

    • @imberrysandy
      @imberrysandy Год назад

      love project nightfall :) thanks for being an inspiration and a messenger for ethical beliefs

    • @sandraburgos5590
      @sandraburgos5590 Год назад +1

      I am so proud of you! Life is so hard I lost my dad to covid and my health but I am in recovery and falling in love with myself. Thank you so much!

  • @StanzinPadmaSelakui
    @StanzinPadmaSelakui 4 года назад +611

    He has deep emotions in his voice 😭

  • @MangiferaIndica918
    @MangiferaIndica918 4 года назад +1008

    Agon is really underrated.

  • @isqueakifyousqueeze4714
    @isqueakifyousqueeze4714 3 года назад +232

    I forgave my parents not for their sake but for my own, so that I could move forward with my own life. And I understand now more than ever that they were just people who were abused too.

    • @ablan8801
      @ablan8801 3 года назад +3

      God Bless You Brother ♥️♥️

    • @tochie-ugorji2021
      @tochie-ugorji2021 3 года назад +2

      That's true. Forgiving actually says and does more about you than the person who wronged you.

    • @joannasun9921
      @joannasun9921 2 года назад +2

      im happy for you but them being abused doesn't excuse abusing their own child

  • @AKILABOSE
    @AKILABOSE 4 года назад +348

    In my case my parents don't talk to each other since my birth and now I'm 22, still I haven't seen my parents talking to each other by living in same house. This hurts a lot. They have ruined my happy childhood n teen also. But Agon ur video changed my perspective towards them. It's hard feeling, that having parents and feeling like an orphan. Proud of you and hats off Agon.

    • @herbertant4096
      @herbertant4096 3 года назад +3

      God Bless you and your family 😇

    • @ViktorCaine
      @ViktorCaine 3 года назад +1

      They haven't talked even once!? How do they even do the groceries??

    • @Trisin-m3i
      @Trisin-m3i 3 года назад

      @@ViktorCaine yeah ikr

    • @tanishqsuryawanshi1276
      @tanishqsuryawanshi1276 3 года назад +1

      @@ViktorCaine and you thought about making a joke on this😑

    • @ilove6x673
      @ilove6x673 3 года назад +2

      I really good know how it fells.Just stay strong.

  • @joshua_dlima
    @joshua_dlima 3 года назад +112

    He deserves some more attention on RUclips

    • @joshua_dlima
      @joshua_dlima 3 года назад +4

      @Carlos Basulto he had like 150k that time... he deserves much more popularity on this platform... and he's growing exponentially too

    • @f1ybo1
      @f1ybo1 2 года назад +2

      He reached 2M+

  • @udas_aayush_
    @udas_aayush_ 3 года назад +65

    "Everything changes the moment when you start seeing forgiveness as not just something for the other person, but also something for you"
    -Agon Hare

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 года назад +101

    I cried a lot of reflecting your words. Your truly an amazing...with a pure heart. Same here. I was so cruel and hard headed child...but when I realized that I have to use my intellect and compassion I was changed of it...itself....

  • @murderthemassacre
    @murderthemassacre 2 года назад +14

    I was drowned,beaten,severely abused and maltreated by my father. Physical child abuse really hits different to be honest,it ruins you but im glad you had your grandparents.

  • @ulooketmeh9961
    @ulooketmeh9961 3 года назад +43

    the man who made Project Nightfall.

  • @sonalpatel7741
    @sonalpatel7741 3 года назад +17

    Yes forgiveness is the hardest thing to give

  • @ttttttttttttttt5525
    @ttttttttttttttt5525 4 года назад +380

    Agon! U r really an amazing person...I love ur accent...I learned a lot from ur video... those videos are very inspiring...may Allah bless u

  • @eanwood
    @eanwood 2 года назад +3

    "Forgiveness is something I deserved." GOLD. Great talk.

  • @timothybanks7689
    @timothybanks7689 3 года назад +14

    This message helped me call my father and forgive him. Man keep doing this. I don’t know your beliefs bro, but you are doing Godly work. Christ preached forgiveness, because it’s so important to moving forward in a healthy way. I pray God continues to shower you with blessings.
    Thank you,

  • @brentcenencalong1165
    @brentcenencalong1165 3 года назад +8

    "If you want to forgive somebody the best way of doing that is understanding them"

  • @cartman7570
    @cartman7570 3 года назад +2

    Forgive people not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.

  • @UlmOst92
    @UlmOst92 4 года назад +40

    I wished I could forgive father, but he died in 2010 😔
    So please, forgive your parents no matter what you experienced. Even if they will not accept it. Just for your inner peace. May god bless you all. And thanks to Agon for the words, which touched me deeply.

    • @RiyaArtZone
      @RiyaArtZone 2 года назад +2

      NO! Im not forgiving my mother for abusing me since age 7!

    • @karl817
      @karl817 2 года назад

      Condolence

    • @tanvikittur7352
      @tanvikittur7352 2 года назад

      @@RiyaArtZone Exactly

    • @Jay-pc2fp
      @Jay-pc2fp 9 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry you've gone through that pain. but you're only hurting yourself by holding onto that.@@tanvikittur7352

  • @dvnajoy
    @dvnajoy 3 года назад +18

    I feel like crying while watching him. Not because I feel bad about what happened to him but because of happiness. He found the courage to forgive and now he is free from the baggage that he was carrying from his childhood. I hope that someday I will have the heart to be as forgiving as Agon. 💙

    • @CedricKarlFonk
      @CedricKarlFonk 3 года назад

      Me too. I agree with you. I'm not that forgiving. I'm struggling to find it in me to forgive those who hurt me both mentally, emotionally and physically.

  • @ErenYeager-vk1hz
    @ErenYeager-vk1hz 3 года назад +2

    His mom will be proud of him, seeing him from heaven. Even his father.

  • @atiyamina1922
    @atiyamina1922 3 года назад +20

    How is it POSSIBLE for a person to be this much inspiring to you even though you're only hearing his beautiful words through a screen!
    I mean this is the definition of Legendary to me! ❤️

  • @diaaa1309
    @diaaa1309 3 года назад +9

    this guy is a legend

  • @judedevera5137
    @judedevera5137 4 года назад +45

    Agon is indeed an inspiration to out generation. All of his videos are worthy to get viewed and shared.😘😘😘❤❤❤

  • @kat9587
    @kat9587 2 года назад +3

    You have truly taken your power back 🙏🏻

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 года назад +21

    When you Forgive, First you Forgive and liberate yourself....then, things around changes into positive..clear understanding and wisdom goes into your inner dept..and change the way who you are.

  • @roseh1132
    @roseh1132 3 года назад +8

    The wisdom & kindness you have at such a young age is other-worldly. 💓 expanding!

  • @cg.man_aka_kevin
    @cg.man_aka_kevin 2 года назад +2

    He has a lot of pearls of wisdom... Love from Indonesia!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩

  • @rier7998
    @rier7998 4 года назад +7

    Agon's story is so inspiring. It can touch many hearts and enlighten lots of people about making yourself free from all the heartaches and pain because you forgive.

  • @CedricKarlFonk
    @CedricKarlFonk 3 года назад +4

    What an amazingly powerful and beautiful speech! He touches millions. Agon, you are a hero!

  • @cookingworldworld3405
    @cookingworldworld3405 4 года назад +34

    This was hard to watch 😢.I had to pause a couple of times to cry my eyes out.But I am glad I watched it.

  • @yabourtaipodiatatin9724
    @yabourtaipodiatatin9724 3 года назад +3

    Lotus bloomed amongst dirt.beautiful man 👍❤️

  • @jubaerahmed1992
    @jubaerahmed1992 3 года назад +11

    Agon, you're an icon ❤️

  • @farismohamed7897
    @farismohamed7897 3 года назад +2

    Agon ....you are so great.....forgiven to a person who spoiled your beautiful childhood....you are a little batman❤️

  • @EnglisholicExpressions
    @EnglisholicExpressions 3 года назад +4

    He gives me good vibes nice kind hearted guy God bless him..

  • @ayanakhtar5226
    @ayanakhtar5226 4 года назад +5

    @Project Nightfall ❣️❣️❣️

  • @stellamaryjose5794
    @stellamaryjose5794 4 года назад +30

    My dad left me wen i was 5 he was lyk a nightmare in my lyf a person tortured me nd my mom later he married another women he never tried to contact us never helped us other side he took care of his new family well my mom raised me alone later I fell in love my luvlyf turns to be another nightmare in my lyf I
    left everything now happy being myself I never heard sorry from both of them not even once they never felt sorry fr der actions my forgiveness doesn't matter fr them maybe I will be able to forgive my dad nd my ex in future whatever lyf goes on

  • @borsharahman6879
    @borsharahman6879 4 года назад +4

    Agon you are amazing. You have a pure beautiful heart...!! I love your videos it has change many peoples life's.. you are a real superhero...!!

  • @shahdaniel741
    @shahdaniel741 4 года назад +7

    Agon is a very great person. I love how he could forgive himself. Now it changed my point of view to this world, Im happy to see the outside world, people smiling. And that could make me even happier than what I would have now. Thanks Argon, thanks people. 😊 love from Malaysia

  • @starclone4
    @starclone4 4 года назад +7

    Your words... Truly must come from God, speaking to your heart !!!! You're a wonderful young man, thank you
    .

  • @riceball4047
    @riceball4047 4 года назад +11

    This lesson going to my mind forever,AGON.

  • @kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505
    @kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505 Год назад

    "❤BEST WAY TO FORGIVE SOMEONE IS TO UNDERSTAND THEM!❤ Thank you Agon. I needed to hear this because I need to be truly free! I have been binge watching many videos today trying to understand myself, my family, the dysfunction, the pain and then I thought to myself, why not start searching for videos on "Forgiveness". This touched me, THANK YOU!🙏

  • @sprakleec5404
    @sprakleec5404 4 года назад +4

    The story is so touching and sad. I can feel you.

  • @MuhammadAli-jd2ut
    @MuhammadAli-jd2ut 2 года назад

    I didn't know these things about him. He has such a strong personality. More people should watch this.

  • @riamichellequiliope3725
    @riamichellequiliope3725 4 года назад +3

    I've already watch this video but I'm watching it again, he's accent and the way he tells story has always amaze me.

  • @Gyanwdshorts
    @Gyanwdshorts 4 года назад +8

    Life teaches us everything and you carried it really well. Proud of you

  • @justbluemartin9346
    @justbluemartin9346 3 года назад

    The world needs more Agons😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾✌🏾

  • @highagain4278
    @highagain4278 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much Agon♥️♥️

  • @Bhavya_2000
    @Bhavya_2000 2 года назад +3

    You're such an amazing person Agon❤️you never fail to inspire me⭐

  • @kahinaharrache5026
    @kahinaharrache5026 3 года назад +3

    Hi cracked voice made me cry from the beginning till the end and i'm quite surprised because my tears don't flow easily ..

  • @virginiacajano1507
    @virginiacajano1507 4 года назад +30

    I love you Agon! ❤ I'm inspired by your story and I love all your videos on Project Nightfall..👍
    Your power of forgiveness will take you to much brighter future and Godbless you Agon.. 😊❤❤❤👐

  • @sonyrhr
    @sonyrhr 3 года назад

    every human should hear this. he will help a lot of people and get them out of their hardest times. he should be more recognized in the eyes of the world.

  • @NOT_EZEKI
    @NOT_EZEKI 3 года назад +1

    Project nightfall!!!

  • @galaxystudios5822
    @galaxystudios5822 2 года назад +2

    Watching this as part of the nightfam, I'm so proud

  • @enno927
    @enno927 2 года назад

    Ayyyy Project nightfall

  • @manuelraposo1405
    @manuelraposo1405 4 года назад +4

    Agon you are a true kind human being,you changing so many peoples lives and making a world a better place, love your videos,keep up with your great deeds in serving the world community...❤️😊🌏

  • @boosuartistry4080
    @boosuartistry4080 3 года назад +1

    His accent make him and his works unique and more intriguing i love it.😊

  • @RandomPerson-hd6wr
    @RandomPerson-hd6wr 2 года назад

    You know what they say... "The people with the biggest smiles have the biggest struggles"

  • @slzvq
    @slzvq 2 года назад +1

    I love how Agon talks!

  • @telgend
    @telgend 3 года назад +1

    *Project Nightfall* ❤️

  • @pennibarnett1222
    @pennibarnett1222 4 года назад +3

    Beautiful and full of truth.

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 2 года назад

    That is a supernatural work of God.

  • @JB-pk4ck
    @JB-pk4ck 8 месяцев назад

    People who have hurt you either dont know or they dont care. They don;t care about yoru forgiveness. That is why enlightened forgiveness to release yourself from bitterness or anger is so important. Believe me. i had so much anger in me towards someone i had loved and who betrayed me. it gave me a hiatus hernia. The solar plexus is where you feel it. This guy is very wise.

  • @muhammedalsabith6030
    @muhammedalsabith6030 4 года назад +3

    We appreciate you Agon! You have set a beautiful example for every one of us! God willing, you will get more recognition worldwide and God Willing, You will become a very busy man, May God Help you through this journey
    You have been a very inspiring person always, May God lighten your path to success,
    With so much love,
    Your Biggest Fan

  • @sanjidameem2737
    @sanjidameem2737 3 года назад +1

    Agon your voice almost made my cry!

  • @illeyan8098
    @illeyan8098 3 года назад +1

    NIGHTFAM STAND UP

  • @mhk9734
    @mhk9734 4 года назад +1

    Forgiveness is very important.. To forgive yourself is the first step and then it carries on

  • @itzme.7389
    @itzme.7389 3 года назад +1

    Love you project nightfall

  • @Michael01OnRBLXmore
    @Michael01OnRBLXmore 3 года назад +1

    Its project nightfall!!

  • @tanishaafneen3233
    @tanishaafneen3233 4 года назад +2

    Love you Agon, more power to you

  • @mariafilipinawrites4384
    @mariafilipinawrites4384 4 года назад +4

    Agon, you’re really a blessing ❤️

  • @okedoom7158
    @okedoom7158 2 года назад

    Its project nightfall!!!

  • @utuberhere
    @utuberhere 4 года назад +2

    Wow! You are the real deal, Agon!

  • @shinihahaha4142
    @shinihahaha4142 2 года назад

    He's literally impacting the world ToT so lovely

  • @dianamalfoy4173
    @dianamalfoy4173 3 года назад +2

    Agon is super underrated how is he not on like 10 million????

  • @edteddysheerios8051
    @edteddysheerios8051 4 года назад +2

    I am a big fan of Agon Hare💜

  • @juneboysen9021
    @juneboysen9021 2 года назад

    Thanks!

  • @anthonysturdivant2971
    @anthonysturdivant2971 2 года назад

    Mr. Hare, your videos are making a huge difference. Wishing you prosperous success & happiness.

  • @farisanafisah9949
    @farisanafisah9949 3 года назад +1

    Agon❤️

  • @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045
    @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045 2 года назад

    just recently discovered this guy. now i’m addicted to his videos

  • @finmat95
    @finmat95 3 года назад +1

    To all people i CANNOT forgive for what they've done: "May God forgive you but i won't"
    I have been, am and always will be faithful to justice

  • @omega_6926
    @omega_6926 3 года назад

    Let's goooo project night fall

  • @Zotal-xc8vd
    @Zotal-xc8vd Год назад

    You're my inspirational Agon 🔥💪♥️

  • @VarshaSharma-nn7sq
    @VarshaSharma-nn7sq 4 года назад +2

    You're truly amazing, Agon....Love from India

  • @everdesera2007
    @everdesera2007 3 года назад +1

    He is very Natural

  • @sherryhtoon
    @sherryhtoon 3 года назад +1

    I love you so much Agon (in an admiring way) and I'm only youthful so I don't know how it feels to hate yet but I am certain that I will always be reminded of your words... You deserve the world.

  • @yusvarietytv6876
    @yusvarietytv6876 3 года назад +1

    Agon you really made my day and change my whole life, you are truly an example and inspiration of young people.! keep up a good work...! love

  • @samvadivelu4316
    @samvadivelu4316 3 года назад

    ITS PROJECT NIGHTFALL!

  • @anusharanjana
    @anusharanjana 4 года назад +15

    He is such an amazing person omg i want to be like him man its so damn amazing agon u r a hero❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @someever
    @someever 2 года назад

    PROJECT NIGHTFALL😱😱😱

  • @elliotglickman4599
    @elliotglickman4599 4 года назад +1

    Once you forgive yourself, you are feel free to accept yourself. And once you forgive another, you are free to accept them.

  • @uswahefatima104
    @uswahefatima104 3 года назад +1

    Here for agon 🌻

  • @anitaramchandani7838
    @anitaramchandani7838 4 года назад +2

    You are amazing!

  • @DitechGaming
    @DitechGaming 4 года назад +4

    Nightfam here

  • @pasqualepalena2556
    @pasqualepalena2556 Год назад

    I left home mainly because of the fights between my parents. Insulting each other, never a smile, they hated each other. I hoped that the arrival of my daughter would change them but nothing happened. In my hearth I forgave them both but I know that we cannot recover our relationship (if one ever existed). I would go and hug them both but I know that it's a version of them that exist only inside my head, better than the real one.

  • @foneden8574
    @foneden8574 4 года назад +1

    your the best agon

  • @jyotiyadav-rx5wd
    @jyotiyadav-rx5wd 3 года назад

    not now but maybe don't know but your words make me strong. thank you

  • @mscarolynnigro
    @mscarolynnigro 11 месяцев назад

    This really touched me ... very inspirational

  • @crazyfunlife2753
    @crazyfunlife2753 4 года назад +5

    Agon love you

  • @SabrinaWazien
    @SabrinaWazien 2 года назад +1

    I love Agon so much! thanks for sharing this!!!

  • @cheriomerun
    @cheriomerun 3 года назад

    This guy deserves everything

  • @hmmm4758
    @hmmm4758 3 года назад

    OMG project nightfall!!