Gonna get deep for a sec: As someone who's dad left them @ 8 y/o and has started a new family, and has ignored my existence ever since (I'm turning 30 in 8 days). Watching Ryan gush over Mabel and show off her art makes me sob torrential tears. Thank you for restoring my faith in dad one sweet mention of Mabel at a time. We need more dads like you in this world and watching you heals a little bit of dad trauma each time. Ya love to bloody see that.
Oh that’s deep 🌸 sending love to you My daughter’s father left us and has had no contact since she was 12 weeks old (she’s 8 now). I think it will be easier for her than it was for you because she never got to know him. But it’s just crap.
Coming in 2 months late - as a dad, I'd like to apologize for your dad. That was a shitty thing to do and little you and grown up you didn't deserve that. His bad decisions don't say anything about you or what you worth. Little you shouldn't have had to go through that. I hope that you can take care of grown up you to prove to little you that she deserved better. Your birthday's over but I hope you have a great year.
I love that you have started posting the podcast to RUclips. As someone with hearing loss I prefer if I have to read captions to be able to see you or read your lips. It’s hard for me to listen to a podcast without anything to look at when I just have to read along with it.
My concern about ashes being exploded in the sky in fireworks is the thought of everyone looking up at the fireworks with all the "Ooohs" & "Aaahs" then feeling the ashes of their loved ones scattering over their upturned faces...maybe into their open mouths !! 🎆😲🎇
that did in fact actually happen to my friends and i while we scattered our friends ashes off a cliff...the truly strange part is we all were worried it would happen....and it did
@@cherylbrown-m4i It's like people haven't even seen that harrowing documentary about this very issue... it's called The Big Lebowski, and it should be shown in every classroom!
Okay, as someone who was part of a pro fireworks crew, it's very rare for any cremains to be of any significant size. Anything that would be sizable would likely be strained out because you only have so much room inside the fireworks themselves. There's a lot to be packed inside each shell to get it to work. You have so many components, there's only going to be enough room for a teaspoon or so of ashes, I'm guessing. That would require a lot of fireworks to get an entire 4-7 pounds of person's ashes up in the air. Unless! Unless you somehow find a company that will make larger shells for you, but usually the larger the shells, the more likely it'll require a licensed professional to handle the display. In addition to the other concerns below, there should be a healthy safety/buffer zone that would reduce the likelihood of ash exposure. **This is the part where I feel compelled to urge everyone considering fireworks for a celebration of life to have a professional crew handle the setup, the deployment, and cleanup, so you don't compound tragedy. Plus, professional pyrotechnic crews can deal with the appropriate bureaucracies needed for permits for the quantity and size of fireworks involved. It's not just because of the bang bang powder involved (significant), the potential for severe injuries (significant-to-fatal), the potential for proximity/environment damage (minor to significant), as well as the potential risk to safety of human and animal (biohazardous waste risk would be very low simply because ashes are uh...ashes, albeit human). There are also cleanup and disposal considerations after. Everything from accounting for all fragments of dispersed debris to the safe retrieval of any fireworks that did not go off. There's no way to know if the fireworks are duds or if they're still considered live. Either way, they still contain materials that fall under possible biohazardous waste. Every location has their regulations and having professionals deal with all those details is ideal. The places offering funeral fireworks appear to be limited. In the US, only one state allows them??? The UK offers them, apparently. I'm guessing none of the better quality are inexpensive.
Toni’s sweet 6 year old self going to the wedding is the sweetest thing. And honestly, something that is so relatable! We all had these grand ideas when we were little. It’s so sweet!
I love alternatives for ashes! A few years ago I heard that you can get your ashes put into the soil of a little tree sapling. So my partner and I decided that’s what we’d like to do when we pass. Add a little bench and a plaque instead of a traditional gravestone. I just love the image of two trees providing a shady spot with a bench to take a little rest, and my partner and I can be with each other as trees!
A coworker of mine once said that were his wife to die before him, he would have her skull boiled and cleaned and place it above the fireplace so he could continue to argue with her beyond the grave. I, being an equally f'ed up type of person, mentioned that there are places where you could be cremated and have the ashes turned into different types of gems...so I said he could have that done to the rest of the body and place the gems in the eye socket of the skull. My coworkers response: send me that link.
This is creepy considering a recent Crime Junkie episode I listened to where a man “found” a skull then proceeded to scrub it clean and place it on his mantelpiece before his gf was like “that’s weird don’t you think you should take it to the police??” And he waited THREE DAYS to do so. Prime suspect in my opinion, or at the very least PRIME weirdo.
My mum has always openly wanted to be a firework, I don't remember not knowing. She has mentioned it at least 3 times every month since I could understand, like we talk about it all the time everyone who knows her on a personal level knows this. It's safe to say we all know what she wants, and naturally I developed an outrageous fear of fireworks at a very young age.
WAIT The fireworks... I'm a huge LOTR fan. What if they put my ashes on fireworks and a dude dressed like Gandalf sets the fireworks on. Then the loved ones have a banquet in a field. Omg. That's the one!
Yeh my uncle wanted his ashes put in a firework , which we did earlier this year. Honestly it’s great (he did sort it to be done when he was terminally ill) he was always the fun and great uncle Also my uncle didn’t want a funeral ,so when he was ready my cousin picked him. And when we were having the fireworks my cousin set them off x
I feel like kids get a pass at weddings sometimes cause often the only fancy dress they might have is like a christening or 1st communion or flower girl kind of dress and those tend to be white
Yeah, my niece is 5, and she alternates between wearing pajamas or princess dresses, so if I saw a little kid in a wedding dress at a wedding I'd just assume that she loves pretty dresses, not that she's desperately in love with the groom! 😄
Oh man, the era when the photo store guy could get you in trouble. Just imagine all the shit they saw day in, day out. There's stories of professional photographers getting in trouble because of that. It always boiled down to the photo store not understanding what they were looking at.
So know I’m thinking about my funeral arrangements & I’ve figured it out. I’ll change my will to say that everyone attending my funeral must meet for drinks around 7-7:30 then head outside for my fireworks show!! That way everyone is relaxed & enjoying themselves & telling all the great stories about my life!! ❤❤❤ Thanks 😊
My friend's family were organizing a day to go scatter their grandad's ashes at a seaside cliff and they realized it could be disastrous with the ocean breezes. So an aunt had the great idea to tie up little bundles in biodegradable dog bags, so day of, it looked like they were hucking dog turds off a cliff 🤦
Whenever I watch funny content when I'm alone I never laugh out loud. It's an internal chuckle. But you Toni made me burst out laughing proper loud multiple times. You are hillarious, thank you for that ❤
My auntie passed while she was in my care in So Cal but she had lived in No Cal 4 hours away. I received her ashes at my house but needed to get them back to her home town. My daughter was available to take her. Here's the problem. She was going to put the box in the trunk, but had second thoughts because it felt like kidnapping to her. So, she strapped the box into the front seat of her car and drove the 4 hours to her home town. Yes, she did talk to her all the way there. My auntie was a hoot in life and would have appreciated the dilemma.
It's not something I've ever had to consider, but yes, putting your Great Aunt in the trunk would feel like kidnapping! Your daughter made a good call.
I love you guys so much! Listening to you guys makes me feel like I’m just having a talk with some old friends 🩵 I’m from the US and it honestly bums me out that you are on the other side of the world 😢
I'm watching this before the very final exam of my medicine degree. Kind of crapping my pants. Let us hope I can pass and finally be a doctor just like Tony!
I'm actually taking my mum to Japan in two weeks...I mean she died 20 years ago but she's still coming with 😊 Who am I to deny her a holiday of a life... sorry, death-time 😆🖤 This is a big trip for me (for many reasons) so having a piece of her with me makes me feel a bit better. It's silly, I know, but it just does ❤
A family member of mine took his deceased dog's ashes and had them put into a tattoo dedicated to his dog. Now, I'm a HUGE dog person, no kids thank you, and am totally obsessed with one of my dogs which sounds mean but if you knew me you'd know how much I adore my other one, too. However, having their ashes in my skin it's a bit too much for me. Plus, I'd likely have a bad reaction and die. Which wouldn't be too bad bc I wouldn't have to live life without them. Well, this took a turn.
Sophie chortling in the background as Ryan embarrassed Toni over her wedding dress just made my day 😅 How can that be such a wholesome statement, sounds terrible, but the crush is adorable 💜
UK here. Father in law passed away last year. My husband has used some of his ashes mixed in with ground bait to fish with. I've also looked at options myself and you can send some of your ashes into space/edge of space and either release them over the earth or have them return to earth so you can collect them. Fireworks are also an option. I do like the look of being mixed with sand and made into an hourglass or a coloured glass paperweight etc.
OMG, when my father passed, he wanted his ashes put in the Atlantic Ocean near where he lived and where he put my Mother's ashes. Despite Dad's wishes, one of my sisters is uber-Catholic and said that Catholics must be interned so we had his ashes split in half. I put his ashes where he wanted and we bought a crypt condo to put his ashes. Actually, it was pretty nice since my Dad had been a US Marine, the Marines came and did a lovely flag service. They did not do then when I surreptitiously scattered his ashes in the water at a beach.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t quite understand this… surely that means half his soul is missing? I’m religious myself and googling isn’t very helpful re religious differences unless a specific website is mentioned due to the google misinformation. I’d love to have a better understanding if you understand how that works?
@@softscribbles The Bible doesn't say much about your body after death especially about cremation I could be wrong I just went to church a lot growing up but i know it does say your body is just a vessel for your soul. so I think once your body can no longer be a vessel your soul leaves it behind no matter what condition it was in or what happened to it and it just goes where it belongs. That's just my opinion.
@@softscribbles No, because souls aren't real. The cremains are just the deceased's body. The person is gone completely, as they were before they existed. Death is the end. Anything else is imaginary.
Omg this whole time whenever they said TARPers I thought they were saying TARPAs and I was like were maybe it stander for toni and ryan podcast audience? Until it was on the bottom of the screen and I was like …oh that makes way more sense 😂❤
love how genuine this podcast is, like not giving a single f about the background or the coffee cup on the table and wearing oodies, sending love from QLD
I got a little necklace with some of my mom's ashes, and at the time I thought it was too spooky, but I'm very grateful for it now. Her ashes ended up being scattered so I'm glad to have a tiny urn for her. Also definitely don't worry about being buried alive! We have good medicine and also embalming so it's just not possible.
Childhood crush? Alan Rickman. I fell in love with him as colonel Brandon in Sense and Sensibilities. I have no count for how many times I saw that movie.
Toni had her Veda Sultanfuss moment, on steroids. All that was missing from the story was her saying, "I love you the way my dad loves Shelley!" in her little wedding dress. ...at the teacher's wedding. Just picture that. 😂
I've been scrolling the comments, hoping to come across one from her teacher. Everyone has a dreaded embarrassing memory from childhood, and when it comes to mind, you get that rush of embarrassment that you can't do anything about, only laugh and try not to think about it.
Someone I know whose husband was an organizer of large events (that often included fireworks) had her husband’s ashes added to fireworks for the last night of a huge week-long festival. I live in the American South. I happened to be driving to visit my mom in the hospital when the fireworks went off. I pulled over, cried for her, then cried knowing I’d be losing my mom soon.
Ryan! You have to note the date and Mable and YaYa (so you know who helped her make it) because there will 1,000,000 more pieces-sometimes in a day lol- and if you are going to frame it, take a pic of Mable and YaYa and slip it in the frame.
13:43 when Ryan asked what song should play for the Fireworks, I instantly said “Proud to be an American.” ☠️☠️☠️ the confusion would make everything so much better
9:08 Now imagine your off somewhere eating your dinner or having a nice cold bev to finish the day. You see the fireworks and think “oh that’s nice” - not knowing that some random dudes ashes are now falling into your drink 🍷
Just wanted to mention about yesterdays pod with showing Pippas face, was more so about hiding her as people have been known to steal French Bulldogs, coming from a frenchie owner herself. Love the pod guys❤️🫶🏼
After traveling for a months aboard, I found myself listening to ppl speak with a 3 sec delay😂 I then binged all 3 years worth of contents in 3 months hahaha now I'm teaching my boss's boss what a Carla Conty is and in exchange he taught me the word Dicklan 😂😂
Don't talk to me about geometry. 🤣
I hated geometry. So glad it wasn't a course in college.
Geography wasnt much better 😉
Was going to post this comment exactly but you've already done it!
That totally sent me 😂
Hahhaha literally was thinking that
Gonna get deep for a sec: As someone who's dad left them @ 8 y/o and has started a new family, and has ignored my existence ever since (I'm turning 30 in 8 days). Watching Ryan gush over Mabel and show off her art makes me sob torrential tears. Thank you for restoring my faith in dad one sweet mention of Mabel at a time. We need more dads like you in this world and watching you heals a little bit of dad trauma each time. Ya love to bloody see that.
Oh that’s deep 🌸 sending love to you
My daughter’s father left us and has had no contact since she was 12 weeks old (she’s 8 now). I think it will be easier for her than it was for you because she never got to know him. But it’s just crap.
Oh you poor girl. Those abandonment feelings don’t always go away ever…
Happy birthday in advance ❤
Happy early birthday girlie!
Coming in 2 months late - as a dad, I'd like to apologize for your dad. That was a shitty thing to do and little you and grown up you didn't deserve that. His bad decisions don't say anything about you or what you worth. Little you shouldn't have had to go through that. I hope that you can take care of grown up you to prove to little you that she deserved better. Your birthday's over but I hope you have a great year.
I love that you have started posting the podcast to RUclips. As someone with hearing loss I prefer if I have to read captions to be able to see you or read your lips. It’s hard for me to listen to a podcast without anything to look at when I just have to read along with it.
Yes !
YES YES YES 🙌🏻 ❤❤❤
Agreed!
This!
I also am hard of hearing and totally agree with this. Love it!
Toni’s face when she realised where Ryan was going with the wedding chat story 😂 hahahahahaha
My concern about ashes being exploded in the sky in fireworks is the thought of everyone looking up at the fireworks with all the "Ooohs" & "Aaahs" then feeling the ashes of their loved ones scattering over their upturned faces...maybe into their open mouths !! 🎆😲🎇
that did in fact actually happen to my friends and i while we scattered our friends ashes off a cliff...the truly strange part is we all were worried it would happen....and it did
@@cherylbrown-m4i It's like people haven't even seen that harrowing documentary about this very issue... it's called The Big Lebowski, and it should be shown in every classroom!
Okay, as someone who was part of a pro fireworks crew, it's very rare for any cremains to be of any significant size. Anything that would be sizable would likely be strained out because you only have so much room inside the fireworks themselves. There's a lot to be packed inside each shell to get it to work. You have so many components, there's only going to be enough room for a teaspoon or so of ashes, I'm guessing. That would require a lot of fireworks to get an entire 4-7 pounds of person's ashes up in the air. Unless! Unless you somehow find a company that will make larger shells for you, but usually the larger the shells, the more likely it'll require a licensed professional to handle the display.
In addition to the other concerns below, there should be a healthy safety/buffer zone that would reduce the likelihood of ash exposure.
**This is the part where I feel compelled to urge everyone considering fireworks for a celebration of life to have a professional crew handle the setup, the deployment, and cleanup, so you don't compound tragedy. Plus, professional pyrotechnic crews can deal with the appropriate bureaucracies needed for permits for the quantity and size of fireworks involved. It's not just because of the bang bang powder involved (significant), the potential for severe injuries (significant-to-fatal), the potential for proximity/environment damage (minor to significant), as well as the potential risk to safety of human and animal (biohazardous waste risk would be very low simply because ashes are uh...ashes, albeit human). There are also cleanup and disposal considerations after. Everything from accounting for all fragments of dispersed debris to the safe retrieval of any fireworks that did not go off. There's no way to know if the fireworks are duds or if they're still considered live. Either way, they still contain materials that fall under possible biohazardous waste. Every location has their regulations and having professionals deal with all those details is ideal.
The places offering funeral fireworks appear to be limited. In the US, only one state allows them??? The UK offers them, apparently. I'm guessing none of the better quality are inexpensive.
First thought...that was my first thought. ASHES IN MY MOUTH!?!?!? Absolutely not
Whose ever done fireworks up that close. 🤔
Toni’s sweet 6 year old self going to the wedding is the sweetest thing. And honestly, something that is so relatable! We all had these grand ideas when we were little. It’s so sweet!
Having my morning coffee and listening to you talk about death "we'll just curdle her" made me almost spit all my coffee out to my laptop keyboard 😅
The word "curdle" makes my skin crawl 😭😭🤣
I love alternatives for ashes! A few years ago I heard that you can get your ashes put into the soil of a little tree sapling. So my partner and I decided that’s what we’d like to do when we pass. Add a little bench and a plaque instead of a traditional gravestone. I just love the image of two trees providing a shady spot with a bench to take a little rest, and my partner and I can be with each other as trees!
A coworker of mine once said that were his wife to die before him, he would have her skull boiled and cleaned and place it above the fireplace so he could continue to argue with her beyond the grave.
I, being an equally f'ed up type of person, mentioned that there are places where you could be cremated and have the ashes turned into different types of gems...so I said he could have that done to the rest of the body and place the gems in the eye socket of the skull.
My coworkers response: send me that link.
:D
This is creepy considering a recent Crime Junkie episode I listened to where a man “found” a skull then proceeded to scrub it clean and place it on his mantelpiece before his gf was like “that’s weird don’t you think you should take it to the police??” And he waited THREE DAYS to do so. Prime suspect in my opinion, or at the very least PRIME weirdo.
My kind of conversation 😂 Love it.
That's a pretty awesome idea tbh.
sounds gruesome but sweet at the same time... i never thought it would be possible
The fireworks thing is giving Guardians of the Galaxy for some reason 😂
My mum has always openly wanted to be a firework, I don't remember not knowing. She has mentioned it at least 3 times every month since I could understand, like we talk about it all the time everyone who knows her on a personal level knows this. It's safe to say we all know what she wants, and naturally I developed an outrageous fear of fireworks at a very young age.
OMG. Baby Toni in the wedding outfit. I can't! 😂
WAIT
The fireworks... I'm a huge LOTR fan. What if they put my ashes on fireworks and a dude dressed like Gandalf sets the fireworks on. Then the loved ones have a banquet in a field. Omg. That's the one!
Yeh my uncle wanted his ashes put in a firework , which we did earlier this year. Honestly it’s great (he did sort it to be done when he was terminally ill) he was always the fun and great uncle
Also my uncle didn’t want a funeral ,so when he was ready my cousin picked him. And when we were having the fireworks my cousin set them off x
I feel like kids get a pass at weddings sometimes cause often the only fancy dress they might have is like a christening or 1st communion or flower girl kind of dress and those tend to be white
Yeah, my niece is 5, and she alternates between wearing pajamas or princess dresses, so if I saw a little kid in a wedding dress at a wedding I'd just assume that she loves pretty dresses, not that she's desperately in love with the groom! 😄
Yes. That was probably a christening or 1st communion or flower girl dress but since she's a kid no one would think she's a bride.
I just imagine the guy who developed that photo being like: "Is that a child bride? Do I have to call someone?!" 😂
Oh man, the era when the photo store guy could get you in trouble. Just imagine all the shit they saw day in, day out.
There's stories of professional photographers getting in trouble because of that. It always boiled down to the photo store not understanding what they were looking at.
So know I’m thinking about my funeral arrangements & I’ve figured it out. I’ll change my will to say that everyone attending my funeral must meet for drinks around 7-7:30 then head outside for my fireworks show!! That way everyone is relaxed & enjoying themselves & telling all the great stories about my life!! ❤❤❤ Thanks 😊
A big thank you from Switzerland for sharing your podcasts on yt now 💙
I was listening on Spotify and immediately came to find the video show when Ryan said he had a photo 😂 I knew that it would be on the screen
Me too 😂
Just what I needed for a mood boost to this day. Love to see this. Thanks, yall!!
My friend's family were organizing a day to go scatter their grandad's ashes at a seaside cliff and they realized it could be disastrous with the ocean breezes. So an aunt had the great idea to tie up little bundles in biodegradable dog bags, so day of, it looked like they were hucking dog turds off a cliff 🤦
😂😂😂
Love the dignity.
i clicked on this video faster than a prime day sale.... love ya both!
Whenever I watch funny content when I'm alone I never laugh out loud. It's an internal chuckle. But you Toni made me burst out laughing proper loud multiple times. You are hillarious, thank you for that ❤
My auntie passed while she was in my care in So Cal but she had lived in No Cal 4 hours away. I received her ashes at my house but needed to get them back to her home town. My daughter was available to take her. Here's the problem. She was going to put the box in the trunk, but had second thoughts because it felt like kidnapping to her. So, she strapped the box into the front seat of her car and drove the 4 hours to her home town. Yes, she did talk to her all the way there. My auntie was a hoot in life and would have appreciated the dilemma.
It's not something I've ever had to consider, but yes, putting your Great Aunt in the trunk would feel like kidnapping! Your daughter made a good call.
Fireworks: Your smiling until the dust settles and you have a moutful of Gary.
1:30 it makes my whole week hearing their synchronous laugh 😂😂
I love you guys so much! Listening to you guys makes me feel like I’m just having a talk with some old friends 🩵 I’m from the US and it honestly bums me out that you are on the other side of the world 😢
Toni was a really good sport about the wedding! :)
I'm watching this before the very final exam of my medicine degree. Kind of crapping my pants. Let us hope I can pass and finally be a doctor just like Tony!
Did you pass?
@@rram422 Thanks for asking! I did end up passing, I am SO excited :)))
@@randomname6599 Congratulations!!🎉🎉 I hope your new chapter takes you to places you've always dreamed of!!
@@randomname6599congrats!! Medicine is no easy feat, goodonya!
@@randomname6599 CONGRATULATIONS!!
Ryan grilling Toni on the wedding then Toni saying ‘I’d wear what any bride would wear to a wedding’😂😂😂
Thank you for this great podcast Toni and Ryan, getting me pumped for my nightshift tonight. Keep up the good work guys.❤❤
The wedding story had me in stitches. 🤣
I'm actually taking my mum to Japan in two weeks...I mean she died 20 years ago but she's still coming with 😊 Who am I to deny her a holiday of a life... sorry, death-time 😆🖤 This is a big trip for me (for many reasons) so having a piece of her with me makes me feel a bit better. It's silly, I know, but it just does ❤
13:30 my brain: “baby you’re a fiiiirework”
OMGay! I made it within an hour!!! 🎉🎉
You have no idea how this show has helped my mental health ❤
The little cartoon twerking 😅😅😅
A family member of mine took his deceased dog's ashes and had them put into a tattoo dedicated to his dog.
Now, I'm a HUGE dog person, no kids thank you, and am totally obsessed with one of my dogs which sounds mean but if you knew me you'd know how much I adore my other one, too. However, having their ashes in my skin it's a bit too much for me. Plus, I'd likely have a bad reaction and die. Which wouldn't be too bad bc I wouldn't have to live life without them.
Well, this took a turn.
That sounds very unsanitary
@@colleenmoriarty9775 I agree.
Sophie chortling in the background as Ryan embarrassed Toni over her wedding dress just made my day 😅 How can that be such a wholesome statement, sounds terrible, but the crush is adorable 💜
That's just gross.
Love the artwork done by Ryan's daughter. The colours are fantastic!
I honestly think I am loving this just as much as Ryan is.... Im dying
Omg I love watching this on RUclips! Loving the animations and the new title screen!
UK here. Father in law passed away last year. My husband has used some of his ashes mixed in with ground bait to fish with.
I've also looked at options myself and you can send some of your ashes into space/edge of space and either release them over the earth or have them return to earth so you can collect them. Fireworks are also an option. I do like the look of being mixed with sand and made into an hourglass or a coloured glass paperweight etc.
As a saxophone player, I absolutely love the cartoon opening with Ryan playing the sax!!!
I’ve never thought of fireworks but man am I going to put it in my will
The sax tune always makes me sing "bubble butt bubble bubble butt" 😂
OMG, when my father passed, he wanted his ashes put in the Atlantic Ocean near where he lived and where he put my Mother's ashes. Despite Dad's wishes, one of my sisters is uber-Catholic and said that Catholics must be interned so we had his ashes split in half. I put his ashes where he wanted and we bought a crypt condo to put his ashes. Actually, it was pretty nice since my Dad had been a US Marine, the Marines came and did a lovely flag service. They did not do then when I surreptitiously scattered his ashes in the water at a beach.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t quite understand this… surely that means half his soul is missing? I’m religious myself and googling isn’t very helpful re religious differences unless a specific website is mentioned due to the google misinformation. I’d love to have a better understanding if you understand how that works?
@@softscribbles The Bible doesn't say much about your body after death especially about cremation I could be wrong I just went to church a lot growing up but i know it does say your body is just a vessel for your soul. so I think once your body can no longer be a vessel your soul leaves it behind no matter what condition it was in or what happened to it and it just goes where it belongs. That's just my opinion.
@@softscribbles No, because souls aren't real. The cremains are just the deceased's body. The person is gone completely, as they were before they existed. Death is the end. Anything else is imaginary.
@@catlinkilgore4011 It's a Catholic superstition. Just follow the money.
Toni just looked like a flower girl! So innocent ❤
Katie Perry's "Firework" obviously! 🤣
Omg this whole time whenever they said TARPers I thought they were saying TARPAs and I was like were maybe it stander for toni and ryan podcast audience? Until it was on the bottom of the screen and I was like …oh that makes way more sense 😂❤
Being in the fireworks during your funeral is the literal definition of Pop Off Sis
I totally thought that Toni was going all King Solomon with burying half and burning half as well LOL
love how genuine this podcast is, like not giving a single f about the background or the coffee cup on the table and wearing oodies, sending love from QLD
I was listening to this on Spotify until I heard about the wedding and rushed here to see the dress 😂😅❤
LOL when Ryan asked "would you rather be cremated or buried" i started answering out loud to myself and went "crematedd......" exactly how Toni did xd
Write it down and tell family your wishes.
I notice myself smiling and laughing the most while watching them!!
why did I tear up at mabel's first ART?!!!
I got a little necklace with some of my mom's ashes, and at the time I thought it was too spooky, but I'm very grateful for it now. Her ashes ended up being scattered so I'm glad to have a tiny urn for her.
Also definitely don't worry about being buried alive! We have good medicine and also embalming so it's just not possible.
OMG 0:44 in & Toni doesn’t want talk geometry (I think she meant geography) 😂🤣😂❤❤❤
Ryan is a Beast! That wedding bit had me dying with laughter! 🤣🤣🤣
Childhood crush? Alan Rickman. I fell in love with him as colonel Brandon in Sense and Sensibilities. I have no count for how many times I saw that movie.
Toni had her Veda Sultanfuss moment, on steroids. All that was missing from the story was her saying, "I love you the way my dad loves Shelley!" in her little wedding dress. ...at the teacher's wedding. Just picture that. 😂
I came here for this!
Glad somebody understood! 😭
aww Toni was like Vada Sultenfuss in the 1991 film My Girl! So wholesome. Kids are so funny!
I've been scrolling the comments, hoping to come across one from her teacher. Everyone has a dreaded embarrassing memory from childhood, and when it comes to mind, you get that rush of embarrassment that you can't do anything about, only laugh and try not to think about it.
Someone I know whose husband was an organizer of large events (that often included fireworks) had her husband’s ashes added to fireworks for the last night of a huge week-long festival. I live in the American South. I happened to be driving to visit my mom in the hospital when the fireworks went off. I pulled over, cried for her, then cried knowing I’d be losing my mom soon.
Toni: aww, mate don't talk to me about geometry.
Me: GEOMETRY! 🤣🤣🤣💀
I love you guys!😂😂❤
"Fireworks are fun"
Pippa does NOT approve this podcast. 😅
Every once in a while Ryan's hair & outfit are 1 nose ring & some eyeliner away from a horrible Blink 182 reunion no one wants 😃
I forget I have my playback speed at 1.25 on Spotify and when the sax intro starts playing, it’s SO SLOOOOOW. It’s sounds better at 1.25 speed ha
My dad always said he wanted to be put in fireworks 😂😂 he put on a lot of fireworks shows when he was younger so it means a lot to him
9:30 the French bulldogs of entertainment... that was good gear Ryan! 😂🎉
My mom used to say: " Never assume, you'll look like an ass" best advice she's ever given me lol 😂
I like the saying “never assume, you’ll make an ass out of you and me (ass+u+me spells assume)”
@@kianawilcox253 that's hilarious 😂
@@kianawilcox253this is what I came to say
Ice cube, put your back into it.... that is Toni's funeral song.
Ryan! You have to note the date and Mable and YaYa (so you know who helped her make it) because there will 1,000,000 more pieces-sometimes in a day lol- and if you are going to frame it, take a pic of Mable and YaYa and slip it in the frame.
opposite of funeral is a christening surely?! Bloody love you guys xxx
If I was shot up into the air with fireworks I would definitely choose Katy Perry’s “Firework” to play along. I mean, you have to, right?
And that's when Toni killed her first person... the bride. 😅
13:43 when Ryan asked what song should play for the Fireworks, I instantly said “Proud to be an American.” ☠️☠️☠️ the confusion would make everything so much better
One of the worst songs to ever exist. As an American, I refuse to claim this abomination.
I don't know what was funnier. Toni's reaction to Ryan saying they probably still talk about her or them cackling at the end. 😂
Looks more like a communion dress to me. ❤
my dad always makes the joke that he wants his ashes put into all the salt and pepper shakers in the world
that way everyone gets a lil taste of him 💀
I am Greek and it was so heartwarming to hear Γιαγιά (Yiayia)
My mom survived "terminal" brain cancer. You got this Bec. You are way too cool :)
9:08 Now imagine your off somewhere eating your dinner or having a nice cold bev to finish the day. You see the fireworks and think “oh that’s nice” - not knowing that some random dudes ashes are now falling into your drink 🍷
I'd love my ashes to go in my plants. Then, when my friends smoke it, I could reappear as a stoner ghost & go BOOOO to scare the shit outta them 😊
“I wore what any bride would wear” took me out
Sad that Tarps have lost their child-like wonder at fireworks😢. Still ❤ them though😊.
Oh no. A wedding dress... Hahahaha it must have been like a communion dress or something.
Probably. But still. Poor girl.
Just wanted to mention about yesterdays pod with showing Pippas face, was more so about hiding her as people have been known to steal French Bulldogs, coming from a frenchie owner herself.
Love the pod guys❤️🫶🏼
The animation was so cute 🥺❤️
This got to be my favorite podcast of all time. I pissed myself listening to Ryan question Toni about the wedding. 😂😂😂😂
Not Ryan's face when he confirmed the Toni Bingo success 😏
After traveling for a months aboard, I found myself listening to ppl speak with a 3 sec delay😂 I then binged all 3 years worth of contents in 3 months hahaha now I'm teaching my boss's boss what a Carla Conty is and in exchange he taught me the word Dicklan 😂😂
Wooow, looks like we have a little artist in the tarp family! I love to see that
That’s a great idea going out with fireworks 🎆💥 (Katy Perry) playing in background
Mabel.... Mothers Always Bring Extra love
Heard 30 years ago and can never forget it
My mum requested for her ashes to be shot out of fireworks with Bonkers by Dizzie Rascal playing 😅
Love your animation
I would be honored if Toni showed up to my wedding in a wedding dress 😂
I love a good 30 min firework spectacular.🎉
“Oh! There was some off-milk in the fridge, so…”
🎸 TURN MY LIFE INTO CHEESES! SERVE ME UP WITH SOME PORT! 🤘