You ARE NOT the One For Him

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • You ARE NOT the One for HIM
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    Ever felt like you're stuck in a grey area with someone? 🤔 Here's the hard truth: sometimes, he wants you but doesn't see a future with you. It's a tough pill to swallow. He'll keep you close but at arm's length, emphasizing the 'friend' label and cherishing the friendship while keeping you in a holding pattern. He wants you, but he's not ready to commit. Why? Because he doesn't want anyone else to have you. 💔
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Комментарии • 40

  • @sueboo231
    @sueboo231 5 месяцев назад +62

    These guys will "bread crumb" women while looking for the love of his life.

  • @mspeaches7335
    @mspeaches7335 5 месяцев назад +23

    I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me!😮 It is so selfish to try and stop the woman from dating other men when he knows he will not make her his. 1st choice!

  • @blacktourmaline777
    @blacktourmaline777 5 месяцев назад +38

    He doesn't want anyone to have you but he doesn't want to take you seriously and he thinks that you're not the one for him. What a malignant narcissist move! Deep seated insecurity and selfishness. And he treats you like a dirt!

    • @inuslava
      @inuslava 3 месяца назад

      stop abusing word narcissism. it’s bs. it can be his personal issues with self esteem for example it doesn’t make a person narcissist. you are awful with stigmatizing NPD.

    • @blacktourmaline777
      @blacktourmaline777 2 месяца назад +1

      @@inuslava I think you're the one who's awful with stigmatizing NPD. Why you are the only one who's so negatively affected by my comment? The 34 others like my comment including the author himself who gave the heart reaction. You should go to see a Psychiatrist for your mental health. If your life is broken Put your negativity elsewhere.

  • @CompleteHoneyBee
    @CompleteHoneyBee 5 месяцев назад +21

    This type of man is a time waster.

  • @user-gv4bg3go2e
    @user-gv4bg3go2e 5 месяцев назад +11

    Mixed signals = I’m not interested but I’m selfish and childish. Move on ladies!! We deserve better ❤

  • @iwig2714
    @iwig2714 5 месяцев назад +15

    Oh is that what it was after 10 years smh well I finally left him 3 months ago and he's spinning the block but I am not be bothered I don't feel the same. I been praying to GOD for Discernment and to take this appetite away and he did.❤

    • @MiyahTiashai96
      @MiyahTiashai96 5 месяцев назад +2

      Asking For Discernment Is Always The Answer. God Will Forever Reveal People True Motives. We Can’t See The Unseen But God Can. He Protects Us In Ways We Can’t! Hallelujah. I Love The Lord So Much For His Deliverance And Guidance.

  • @gweneetikibradley3007
    @gweneetikibradley3007 4 месяца назад +3

    Some men don’t want the woman but don’t want anyone else to have her which is very, very selfish.
    I have totally accepted it and am very happily moving on to find the right one, who will reciprocate the love that I offer. Who will treat me right the way that I deserve to be treated, as I will treat him.

    • @shabreidavis7790
      @shabreidavis7790 4 месяца назад

      Can't understand that either!!.... you don't want somebody then let them live!!!.... that must be a deep seated mental disorder thinking!! 🤷‍♀️

  • @darlingdiva479
    @darlingdiva479 5 месяцев назад +11

    What if she's allowing him to hang out in the peripheral until her real man comes along. Playing games is such an immature waste of time.

  • @MissJJoan
    @MissJJoan 5 месяцев назад +3

    If I were a man, I would never do something like this. Honestly, I will never understand why someone would flirt, act interested, pretend to be interested, ask you questions about yourself, show a sincere desire to get to know you better, for months, not just for a couple of weeks, for months - and you flirt back too, but then he goes off to date and commit to someone else. And once they are in a full-on committed relationship- he comes back to you, his “friend” and starts flirting even harder than before! Not bringing her along to these parties of course, and acting like he’s single! Then you just find yourself asking “why?” To this day I have no idea why, and I’ve 100% resigned to the fact that I will never know why. There’s just no logic to it at all. You seemed to like me, then you ruined it. Then you seemed to like her and you’re trying to ruin that as well. So tell me guy, do you like any women? What, is the notion of a nice, stable relationship where nobody is jealous of anybody too “vanilla” for you? *shrug we will never know.

  • @eveaYT2625
    @eveaYT2625 5 месяцев назад +10

    THANKS FOR SHARING HAPPY RESURRECTION DAY #NOT A DAY WITHOUT JESUS 🙏

    • @CoachKenCanion
      @CoachKenCanion  5 месяцев назад +2

      Same to you!

    • @eveaYT2625
      @eveaYT2625 5 месяцев назад

      @@CoachKenCanion THANKS #NOT A DAY WITHOUT JESUS 🙏

  • @MirandalindaL.A
    @MirandalindaL.A 5 месяцев назад +36

    Ladies if he wants you half way do not settle. Guys either like u a lot or not. Is up to you whether u want to stay or not. When u finally start thinking with your head and not your heart you eventually would see the reality. I took my 3 years to realize I was just there to satisfied his needs so I left him. He has been reaching out constantly but I am not taking him back

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 5 месяцев назад +3

    Recognize the signs of a placeholder

  • @kristinastutchman6597
    @kristinastutchman6597 5 месяцев назад +1

    What’s sad is that .. at one point he did. Full on relationship.. engaged and child. But after some falling out.. now he doesn’t want any serious relationship

  • @Itsnurselo2you
    @Itsnurselo2you 5 месяцев назад +3

    This just happened to me again while he telling me all the charming stuff and saying everything I want to hear to tell me screaming “ we are just friends “ but you saying we getting married having kids and building a future and you love me “wtf”🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ so I said I’m good now I’m blocked 😂😂😂

  • @MiyahTiashai96
    @MiyahTiashai96 5 месяцев назад +1

    A Word Right There ! ❤

  • @deanj8870
    @deanj8870 5 месяцев назад +3

    He need to leave her alone. Stop playing with someone's life. That is why there are women will break men's properties up or hurt them physical or destroy them some kind of way📖🙏🏾👑

    • @shabreidavis7790
      @shabreidavis7790 4 месяца назад +1

      I agree!!!... its sad cuz some people's emotions are too deep for those type of play games!!!... people get hurt!!

  • @deestevens2883
    @deestevens2883 5 месяцев назад +2

    Yes and Yes! 👍🏽

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 5 месяцев назад

    Yes true thank you couch Ken👍

  • @Gerealistic
    @Gerealistic 5 месяцев назад +4

    This is so selfish and unfair

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 5 месяцев назад +1

    Even if you are the one for him, he will treat you bad cause thats what most mxn are after the honeymoon phase.

  • @MizzSweetTe
    @MizzSweetTe 4 месяца назад

    Just had to swallow this pill… i dated a guy exclusively ( no title gf/bf) for almost a year. We move like a couple.
    When I ask him after a few months why are we not in a relationship he said he just not there yet. He said he don’t want to hold me hostage or expect me to wait in him
    So he didn’t care if another man intervene

  • @MIMIAk1890
    @MIMIAk1890 3 месяца назад

    😢😢😢this my situation

  • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
    @nicolemartin-pz1wl 4 месяца назад

    That is how my son's father is LoL

  • @sandramirekuayim1161
    @sandramirekuayim1161 5 месяцев назад

    ...and vice versa!

  • @patriciaspeicher6883
    @patriciaspeicher6883 5 месяцев назад +2

    After a 20 year so called dating thing, he still hasn't married this woman. He says she wants to get married, so why doesn't he marry her???

    • @Coachhaileymilan
      @Coachhaileymilan 5 месяцев назад +1

      Let no woman be deceived - that is pure evil. She deserves better. Much better.

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 4 месяца назад

    😂😂😂

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 4 месяца назад

    😂

  • @Rozie32
    @Rozie32 5 месяцев назад +2

    Wtf is that shit

  • @dinakindred
    @dinakindred 5 месяцев назад

    Just acting 😂 huh

  • @phoxy_brown
    @phoxy_brown 5 месяцев назад +1

    I finally said enough is enough.. @coachkencanion said a mouthful.. I know he likes me but I know I'm not the one he wants for the long term