What People Get Wrong About Stoicism

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @MeeCee5204
    @MeeCee5204 2 дня назад +41

    Stoicism has taught me to feel my emotions and understand why I feel the way I feel rather than acting on my emotions in the moment. This has made my life 1000% better.

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +3

      You did that. Because you found the wisdom. That’s what the world needs, not more information

  • @janfeinberg3825
    @janfeinberg3825 День назад +6

    I've never been as self-regulated and felt such joy. Thank you!

  • @maybeflixx
    @maybeflixx 2 дня назад +33

    I am grateful that i found your channel

    • @DesertflowerUSA
      @DesertflowerUSA 2 дня назад +2

      Yes, I’m grateful too. Thank you!

    • @grannysweet
      @grannysweet 2 дня назад

      @@DesertflowerUSA 👍🏻 yep

    • @grannysweet
      @grannysweet 2 дня назад +1

      @@maybeflixx
      I've shared it with friends. We love it too.

  • @ManchesterSloth
    @ManchesterSloth 18 часов назад +1

    I met a girl who disagrees w me on something bigly political, and in the past I would've said so long. But practicing the Stoicism has helped me push that aside and focus on what's really there, and what would've have been an issue, when it finally arose, went completely smooth, I said 'ok' and moved on. I have the tools to handle conflict in the future... Thank you, at 40 yrs I'm finally feeling like I am who I'm meant to be. I like myself. And it's cuz of your books and all the examples/knowledge you've put forth. You've been a huge inspiration and great teacher Ryan ❤

  • @deveshgupta8655
    @deveshgupta8655 День назад +6

    Thank you for introducing me to 'Meditations', the most truly genuine self-help book ever

  • @jessiebeniansalcedo8564
    @jessiebeniansalcedo8564 2 дня назад +8

    I'm ever more thankful that I was given a lot of time to study this philosophy. 🙏

  • @Andrew-dg7qm
    @Andrew-dg7qm 14 часов назад +1

    There’s one more that I would add to the list of what people get wrong:
    That if you have a tantrum or a tirade or get triggered by something or even if you go on a rant, that you are not a stoic or you don’t get stoicism.
    Stoics were human. They let their emotions get the better of them. They let negative thoughts dwell in their heads too long and then had to shake them off. This is exactly the message of Meditations. MA was talking some sense into himself because he got it wrong and was trying to get it right.
    Marcus lost his temper sometimes. This is the meaning of The Ego Is The Enemy. When we become trapped in our thoughts and get stuck in the thought emotion loop we become a slave to our ego. And we need stillness to get out of it. That doesn’t make them “not stoic”, it makes them human.
    I’m saying this because this is a pattern I see over and over. It is a very common criticism of Ryan in the comments from obvious Trump supporters.
    Those who have been reading stoicism will have already figured out that this is the same as his last point: The stoics weren’t perfect. They were practicing this philosophy. They weren’t perfectionistic, they weren’t giving up completely because they got it wrong once, they weren’t throwing out the baby with the bath water like we see so many doing right now. They recognized their wrong and they made it right.

  • @Davidca12
    @Davidca12 20 часов назад

    For far too long I've been asleep, I stopped studying the philosophy & feelings hurt me and dictate what I do more than ever. This is the reminder I needed, making this video into an everyday reminder about how beautiful we can make life be, just because it comes all from within.

  • @steveneagan3953
    @steveneagan3953 День назад +1

    Nice shirt! I love Megadeth! Especially the stuff from Peace Sells and Rust in Peace. Their music is so unique bc Mustiane dominately follows an innovative and aggressive power chord pattern he created and dubbed the "spider walk." It's super tedious to learn and takes a lot of time and dedication but it's so useful if you like playing power chords...and it's the only way you can play Megadeth songs the same way he does.

  • @StoicWithYou
    @StoicWithYou 2 дня назад +23

    Marcus Aurelius journaling about annoying people feels like the ancient equivalent of a Facebook rant. The man was ahead of his time!

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +3

      That doesn’t make sense. Journaling is private. Social media is public

    • @michaelchristy967
      @michaelchristy967 День назад

      Let’s hear your stoic response to come up losing you liberal loser

    • @michaelchristy967
      @michaelchristy967 День назад

      Was Kamala’s cackling incoherence More Seneca or Marcus Aurelius?

    • @SilverSurfer1966
      @SilverSurfer1966 День назад

      Stop driding

  • @fabescolmsinc1200
    @fabescolmsinc1200 2 дня назад +9

    Here to boost the engagement 🗿

  • @jenniferbaker4508
    @jenniferbaker4508 12 часов назад

    So grateful as usual for these videos--- such important points about ethics, put so perfectly.

  • @NeoSoulquarian
    @NeoSoulquarian День назад +1

    This video and audio production is great! 🤘🏼😎

  • @ragragrec1
    @ragragrec1 2 дня назад +1

    Always a good reminder

  • @jimkon1479
    @jimkon1479 2 дня назад +6

    Even Spock has a dry sense of humor. Anyway, I've heard the Christian expression, "turn the other cheek" but I didn't understand it until I red "Ego is the Enemy" and heard Jackie Robinson's struggle to control himself around racists. When you allow somebody the opportunity to strike your cheek, you allow him to reveal himself. And when he does, believe him.

  • @jamescorden6856
    @jamescorden6856 День назад +2

    Would love to see you on Bluesky Ryan, X has become unusable

  • @Lupostehgreat
    @Lupostehgreat 11 часов назад

    I remember my Educational Psychology professor telling our class that Stoicism was embodied by The Spartan Ideal, and used the example of a student in class in Ancient Sparta allowing himself to die because a snake had bit him, and rather than seeking medical attention he went to his lecture because that was his primary duty. This was almost 20 years ago, now, so my professor probably approximated his understanding of Stoicism as best as he could.
    This is a critical misunderstanding of Stoicism as a philosophy. A Stoic should not go to class after being bitten by a snake. He would go see the doctor. If a Stoic was told by said doctor that he was going to die by the snake bite, that student would only go to class if it made him feel some kind of peace.
    Getting bitten by a snake and then ignoring it is ignorance and foolishness. A Stoic would not condone such an action.

  • @sujay488
    @sujay488 День назад +1

    appreciated the content 👍

  • @adamcunningham6596
    @adamcunningham6596 День назад +1

    I recognize similar sentiment and misunderstanding to how some view Buddhism.

  • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
    @TheStoicBeacon-TGG 15 часов назад

    This was insightful! Could you compare Stoicism with existentialism in a future video?

  • @Jacob-jg6cd
    @Jacob-jg6cd День назад +1

    Did Seneca say the opening quote or did Antoninus Pius say it? “No amount of philosophy takes away natural feeling?”

  • @Okami404
    @Okami404 2 дня назад +3

    2:27 It only hurts when I laugh 😎🤯⚰️

  • @My_Self_Improvement_Channel
    @My_Self_Improvement_Channel День назад

    Last words of Chrysippus: "And the, and the donkey ate the fig 🤣💀"

  • @michaelshelton5488
    @michaelshelton5488 2 дня назад +3

    Jedis are stereotypical "stoics" and Sith are stereotypical "Epicureans" and they're both wrong.

  • @scoon2117
    @scoon2117 2 дня назад +1

    They got their sense of humor from the ancient cynics.

  • @EclecticEngineer604
    @EclecticEngineer604 22 часа назад

    ❤️🙏🏼

  • @ceeemm1901
    @ceeemm1901 2 дня назад +2

    People have an automatic misunderstanding of Anarchy too.

    • @Drluciferwoo
      @Drluciferwoo 2 дня назад +1

      Absolutely. I can't tell you how many times ppl look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them I think government is immoral. Anarchism is a legit political philosophy.

  • @christophermyslicki3526
    @christophermyslicki3526 2 дня назад +1

    If your recent videos are any reflection of stoicism, I would say it is certainly lacking in humour or fun, only virtue signaling and lecturing "losers" for wrongthink.

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +4

      I don’t think you meant what you said. His videos are a reflection of stoicism

  • @fx4147
    @fx4147 10 часов назад

    Political nonsense during live shows 👎🏻

  • @delawarepro3539
    @delawarepro3539 2 дня назад +2

    Who gives a 💩 what people think…

    • @grannysweet
      @grannysweet 2 дня назад +1

      @@delawarepro3539
      Well there's that. 🤣

  • @thetruthrenegade
    @thetruthrenegade 2 дня назад +2

    Stoic, hmm, This is such a terrible word, it's terrible because it isn't obvious what it means, Here is an easier way to be stoic, realize it's not your problem, let it go and enjoy your day.
    Realize you don't need all this personal development crap. Just realize 99.9% of what happens in the world is not your problem.
    Have A great day.

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +4

      What you’re saying doesn’t make very much sense. Not taking responsibility for your actions isn’t any kind of philosophy at all

  • @Squeej-w2p
    @Squeej-w2p День назад

    Sure people might get these things wrong but you’re pushing self censorship more than actual stoicism. Who’s really buying your books and finding your channel? I WONDER.

  • @brindlebucker4741
    @brindlebucker4741 2 дня назад +1

    Hey, you're the guy who's getting rich off stoicism. I've heard about you. You're selling people coins and selling them advice they could get for free simply by reading Marcus Aurelisus's works. How does it feel to be a millionaire? Spout off a bit about stoicism and make a lot of money. Marcus Aurelius would be very proud of you /s

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 2 дня назад +3

      "Stoicism is when not make money, I am very smart"
      🤦‍♂️

    • @PaperbackJourneys
      @PaperbackJourneys 2 дня назад +5

      It sounds like you've got a lot of emotions invested in someone you don't know. I recommend reading a book called The Obstacle is the Way. It might help you with these strange impulses to needlessly lash out?

    • @davidzack8735
      @davidzack8735 День назад +3

      Jealousy will get you nowhere, bro. Ryan's book 'The Daily Stoic' has brought Stoic wisdom to millions of grateful people. Marcus Aurelius's Meditations are jottings and thoughts that need a good deal of background knowledge to understand.

    • @adamcunningham6596
      @adamcunningham6596 День назад +1

      You don’t have to buy anything from Ryan and the Daily Stoic nor his book store. In fact you don’t need to watch his videos or even pay any ounce of attention to him. What is your point exactly? He’s promoting stoicism and yes, is selling and running a business. Doesn’t make his content wrong and doesn’t mean you need to buy into it. Enjoy stoicism how you want and let others do the same.

  • @pentreifan3905
    @pentreifan3905 2 дня назад +2

    Party political activist. Shame

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +4

      There’s nothing shameful about discussing current events. You have to put down the book, get outside and engage in the discussion. Otherwise you’re not living your life and you’ll have nothing to offer

    • @pentreifan3905
      @pentreifan3905 2 дня назад

      @Andrew-dg7qm listen to his activism my friend. I'm in no way partisan. But, he was utterly tribal. Not very stoic

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад +3

      @@pentreifan3905 I fail to see how he should be politically neutral. Perhaps you can reference a spot in the vid?
      It’s also lost on me why people are afraid of discourse. Maybe they’re afraid of being shut down because there’s been so much friction between people of differing opinions in the last several years in this country. I’ve not found this abroad
      Discourse is normal and healthy. Shutting people down is not
      FOLLOW-UP
      I just finished the vid and didn’t hear a single political reference. Pls prove me wrong

    • @Stretesky
      @Stretesky 2 дня назад

      @@Andrew-dg7qmA lot of it has to do with feelings of inadequacy, and fear of being incorrect or not enough, then having to address that, and all of their dysfunction if they feel wrong in any way. It’s easier to be tribal, dismissive, make up fiction narratives, utilize cognitive dissonance, blame everyone else, and continue no growth.

    • @Andrew-dg7qm
      @Andrew-dg7qm 2 дня назад

      @@Stretesky thanks for clarifying. That seems to be the case. What a waste of my time. Lesson learned, I suppose. Why do I give people the benefit of the doubt? Silly me

  • @Mongoose-ct6us
    @Mongoose-ct6us 2 дня назад +11

    Donald Trump is the ultimate stoic. He's been through hell and back and prevailed.

    • @grannysweet
      @grannysweet 2 дня назад +16

      He's a narcissist not a stoic.

    • @joshsetzer8786
      @joshsetzer8786 2 дня назад +2

      ​@@grannysweetYou voted for Joe Biden who said " you ain't black if you don't vote Democrat. "
      And for Kamala Harris who said " If men don't vote for me, it's because they are misogynistic. "
      That's narcissism!

    • @ottohowe3021
      @ottohowe3021 2 дня назад +9

      "Nero is the ultimate stoic because he went through hell and back to become emperor"

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 2 дня назад +8

      Someone who whines 24/7 is the ultimate Stoic?

    • @aberjack92
      @aberjack92 2 дня назад +5

      He’s a student of Clownism

  • @michaelchristy967
    @michaelchristy967 День назад

    This dude is a Kamala Harris supporting non-stoic don’t forget that Ryan Holiday is a Kamala Harris supporter and that is literally the exact opposite of stoicism

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 День назад +2

      It's not, but go off.

    • @joriusmagnus6425
      @joriusmagnus6425 День назад +1

      How is that the opposite of Stoicism?

    • @alireza-h4z
      @alireza-h4z День назад +2

      I shall never be ashamed of citing a bad author if the line is good. - Seneca

    • @kombinatsiya6000
      @kombinatsiya6000 День назад +2

      You Trumps fans are falling apart fast.

    • @adamcunningham6596
      @adamcunningham6596 День назад

      Supporting Kamala Harris equates to the opposite of stoicism. Interesting, why? Would you state that supporting Trump or any other politician not Harris equates to stoicism? What is the opposite of stoicism exactly?

  • @xiaoguan1143
    @xiaoguan1143 2 дня назад +1

    TRUMP!!!!!

  • @michaelchristy967
    @michaelchristy967 День назад

    This dude is a Kamala Harris supporting non-stoic don’t forget that Ryan Holiday is a Kamala Harris supporter and that is literally the exact opposite of stoicism

    • @frajudo
      @frajudo День назад +2

      Politics are not about a school of though. You can support someone based on your political views while holding other values up, too.
      You are an unjust troll.

    • @michaelchristy967
      @michaelchristy967 День назад

      A school of though!? well then why does he proselytize?

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 День назад +3

      The opposite of stoicism is trumpism.