Never went to a gay BH due to poor body image and legal blindness including extreme night blindness so the thought of dim lights prevented me. That eye condition prob saved my life because I was 'of age' during the AIDS crisis. All of my friends that did go are all now long dead. But I found a straight bathhouse - good lighting, no frills, a diner in it, and guys of all shapes and sizes, mostly straight so I didn't feel intimidated. Always made out like a bandit. Very fond memories.
Thanks for this video man. You keep it real about the ups & downs of gay bath houses. I share the same opinions and same love for being completely naked the whole time I'm there....whether it's a few hours or a few days! Like you said "we're there for one reason". Plus I like being watched and showing it all off too.
I used to go to people watch, relax and chill in the hot tub only once was I “approached” in a disrespectful manner. Otherwise, it’s very inclusive, non-judgmental and I’ve met some really decent guys that were cool just to talk to.
@@Dadazoid It was heated and a big clear plastic wall came down to within a few inches of the water, separating the shallow end from the deep end. I was in it during one of the few times it snowed in Atlanta. Pitch black sky with the air full of snowflakes. Memories.
chickenfarm09 bathhouses are awesome, it fills the need, u can just chill by using the facilities like a jacuzzi or a steam room or really do the nasty.
I have been to some places that WERE dirty and dumpy. One, Vesuvio's in Windsor ONT was an old worn out place tha had rooms with windows and curtains. It was clean enough. It was also a place where people were overwhelmingly friendly and tolerant and inclusive.
Don't worry you can stay near a glory hole and enjoy doing what feels natural to you. Later you can live out your fantasies as you become more aware of what you really want 👅
SeedsofJoy I felt like that too and actually went today, literally go it’s so much fun, and where I went it was chill if you just wanted to relax with no sex
The first time you can just watch, while there use the swimming pool, jacuzzi, steam room or sauna, watch tv at a common area or work out, some have barbecues and pitch datk nights, each time afterwards gets easier.
This is on my bucket list. But as nervous as hell. My bucket list consists of being with two guys. But really not sure how to approach the game. I have always been with one usually at my home or hotel. So I comfortable with that. But a bath house? I think I have more of a chance finding two tops.
Great video. Very honest and to the point. The only thing I hated about bathhouses were the thirsty bitches who had no boundaries. Otherwise, I loved the no nonsense, straight to the point aura of it.
Describing "Asian orientated" bathhouses as a theme is really an issue - that is the fetishization of people. Watersports is a theme, Asian people cannot be a theme. But such places do exists, even here in Sydney, it is well known there are saunas where Asians receive the left swipe and others where they are honey to bees.
I would love to be able to chat with them about the duality of crystal meth addiction, anything else. I could do a live q&a with the class. I'm not shy.
Don't forget swimming pools Update comment: I miss the ones that you can stay up to 24 hours and able to leave for about an hour or two then come back.
The first time I went was with a group of guys and I was totally drunk. I would have preferred not to be there but the group ruled and we were out of town. I spent the night watching and learning and was glad I went. You can do what you want with whom you want. Go, you'll enjoy!
Adult theaters are not the same, they have their own specific clientele. Also, the cops haven't raised these places in years. They are run as private clubs, and do not merit a raid.
NO ! Many are sealing up the glory hols and putting employees standing in the dark watching to keep things under control. And yes cops have raided these types of places but usually it's cool and fun to hookup and play. But nothing like a fun house of bathing bodies
@@Helpfulsuggestions AND A-I-D-S.....GLORY HOLES ARE ALWAYS BERNIE OR OBAMA......THEME IS USUALLY STICKY WALLS FROM SPUNK BEING SHOT INDISCRIMINATELY ALL OVER......TO MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT SPUNKEATERS....
It's fascinating to me that someone's paradise can be my own nightmare. To me it's like a torture, AIDS ridden, death trap that I would pay anything to never set foot inside. To each their own.
Just an FYI, AIDS really is not much of a thing anymore, HIV still is. However yes, there is plenty of unprotected sex and drugs use that fuel the possibility of acquiring an infection of some sort.
@@Dadazoid I second Eric's motion. I would need 10 firetrucks worth of ammonia sparayed for 50 days to even come within 10 feet of one of those places. The germs alone, like a horror movie.
Gloryholes are awesome at service stations. Never done one before would like to. Thanks for video your a goodlooking guy bet you get some sexy offers. Xx
@@Dadazoid so you assume that all queer people are "one way" and have to "group think" ??? One can't dissent simply because they're gay??? And what does a bathhouse even have to do with being gay in the first place?? Are there not straight sex clubs? I am against BOTH straight and gay sex clubs alike, so absolutely no "self-loathing" here. You misunderstand what it means to be gay and wrongly conflate these two separate topics ! - Are you and others not as bad as the anit-vaxxers and anti-maskers. Just as there was a mask mandate imposed, should there not also be a condom mandate imposed on bathhouses? I find this to be a very moderate position, middle of the road. Would YOU support a condom mandate in these establishments ???
@Dadazoid Wow, what a debater Lol 😆 Guess you've never heard of Randy Shilts either huh. R u going to call him "self-loathing" too? He championed the closure of bathhouses at the height of HIV crisis during late 80s & early 90s. People in the Castro literally spit on him, called him a "traitor". How many countless lives I wonder, did he save? Look up Randy Shilts learn your History. No Hate. No Blame. None of that. Simply trying to educate ppl on dangers. And you won't even agree to a Moderate, Reasonable Compromise....i.e. Condom Mandate foe Bathhouses ? Wow !
@@Dadazoid how did you like running 100m and 200m dash? did much weightlifting to build sprinting speed? used creatine for more muscle gains?? I love pulling up the legs on my speed suit to show off my quads and hamstrings at track meets. I love how tightly it fits. shows my build off very nicely. people comment on my muscular rear and on my abs and chest shoulders arms and thighs too.
I've always wanted to go And someday I will but I love the video it makes me wish more that I did go long ago. Lol. Hold my hand and tell me what to do. 😘
Go, you'll have fun!! No one makes you do anything you don't want to do and you have total control over what you do and don't do. My fav is the not tub.
So strange to me he says all this as if it's fucking normal lmao. In an era where we are well educated about HIV/AIDS and other stds is is beyond me why people would still put their health and lives at risk to get off. Sad
What's "NORMAL" anyway?? Bathhouses have been around for thousands of years, since the Roman empire. I've been frequenting them for years without incident. Condoms work! They only "break" if used improperly. You don't have a clue about the male libido.
Some people enjoy motorcycles, rock climbing, skiing, hunting, ice fishing, scuba diving, sky diving, etc. We each decide for ourselves our risk tolerance and what we enjoy. Bathhouses obviously aren't for you. Rather than look at someone enjoying himself and pointing out the risk he's exposing himself to that you wouldn't, why not just say to yourself "I'm glad he's having fun" and go about your business and enjoy whatever it is you like to do and perhaps he'll leave you to it and say the same thing.
Finally someone that is an adult when talking about sex.
Never went to a gay BH due to poor body image and legal blindness including extreme night blindness so the thought of dim lights prevented me. That eye condition prob saved my life because I was 'of age' during the AIDS crisis. All of my friends that did go are all now long dead. But I found a straight bathhouse - good lighting, no frills, a diner in it, and guys of all shapes and sizes, mostly straight so I didn't feel intimidated. Always made out like a bandit. Very fond memories.
Thank you for sharing. 🥰
Thanks for this video man. You keep it real about the ups & downs of gay bath houses. I share the same opinions and same love for being completely naked the whole time I'm there....whether it's a few hours or a few days! Like you said "we're there for one reason". Plus I like being watched and showing it all off too.
Go git some boy!
I totally loved this, i think i could talk and listen to him all day :)
He look so bored for me. I can’t see that shiet for 1 second more
I used to go to people watch, relax and chill in the hot tub only once was I “approached” in a disrespectful manner. Otherwise, it’s very inclusive, non-judgmental and I’ve met some really decent guys that were cool just to talk to.
The Atlanta Club Baths had a half-indoor half-outdoor swimming pool.
@@DavidLS1 oooh. That would be lovely.
@@Dadazoid It was heated and a big clear plastic wall came down to within a few inches of the water, separating the shallow end from the deep end. I was in it during one of the few times it snowed in Atlanta. Pitch black sky with the air full of snowflakes. Memories.
I would love to go but I’m overweight and I’m not gifted as other people. That makes me super embarrassed to be around other people in that setting.
I can accept that. I wish people wouldn't be so judgemental about that stuff as well. We all got what we got and can't do much about it. 🤗
Sometimes monkey pox, sometimes STDs, sometimes poop. Yeah...
8 HOURS!! You go to a bath house that allows you to be in there for 8 HOURS?! Crew Club in DC is only for six and it's barely worth that.
I wish people would stop portraying bathhouses as a place that is dirty and dumpy. It implies negativity and degrades it.
chickenfarm09 bathhouses are awesome, it fills the need, u can just chill by using the facilities like a jacuzzi or a steam room or really do the nasty.
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I have been to some places that WERE dirty and dumpy. One, Vesuvio's in Windsor ONT was an old worn out place tha had rooms with windows and curtains. It was clean enough. It was also a place where people were overwhelmingly friendly and tolerant and inclusive.
I’ve never been to one. I’ve always wanted to go, but keep an open mind and keep it safe.
I'd love to go to one, but I'm far too shy and nervous about it.
It's a pretty safe space inside where no one judges.
Go ,be shy AND have fun!
Don't worry you can stay near a glory hole and enjoy doing what feels natural to you.
Later you can live out your fantasies as you become more aware of what you really want 👅
SeedsofJoy I felt like that too and actually went today, literally go it’s so much fun, and where I went it was chill if you just wanted to relax with no sex
The first time you can just watch, while there use the swimming pool, jacuzzi, steam room or sauna, watch tv at a common area or work out, some have barbecues and pitch datk nights, each time afterwards gets easier.
it sounds very interesting. I dont mind being naked. naked a lot in the locker room for varsity football wrestling and track anyway.
I love the honesty here
Please, please, please rotate your camera 90° for landscape
Sorry, I make some for instagram reels so it depends on where the video starts.
Be aware, you cannot touch some goodlooking guys bec.they were for money talks.
There's a well-reviewed restaurant in the building that houses the local bathhouse in my town. It's completely irrational but I won't eat there.
Is it the Deutche's Eiche?
Flush hard....it's a long way to the kitchen...…..
What does your completely irrational opinion have to do with thus video?
This is on my bucket list. But as nervous as hell. My bucket list consists of being with two guys. But really not sure how to approach the game. I have always been with one usually at my home or hotel. So I comfortable with that. But a bath house? I think I have more of a chance finding two tops.
I don't know how things are today, but back in the seventies, the bathhouse orgy rooms were great fun. Lots of tops and lots of bottoms.
Great video. Very honest and to the point. The only thing I hated about bathhouses were the thirsty bitches who had no boundaries. Otherwise, I loved the no nonsense, straight to the point aura of it.
I’ve only been to bath houses a few times but it’s basically gay Disney land and better than social ap hook ups
Where have you been miss seeing your vids
Hiding basically. Lol. Got busy again. Maybe one day again.
Describing "Asian orientated" bathhouses as a theme is really an issue - that is the fetishization of people. Watersports is a theme, Asian people cannot be a theme. But such places do exists, even here in Sydney, it is well known there are saunas where Asians receive the left swipe and others where they are honey to bees.
*oriental
This video was assigned for homework by my professor at Yale, just thought you might want to know lol ! Ivy League impact 🌈
Are you for real? Tell them to get a hold of me if they want to chat. I'm super happy to share. Thanks for that! 🥰
What class? This intrigues me to no end.
Dadazoid Haha yes the best part was telling my classmates about how I had already watched this and was already subscribed to you! Lol
Dadazoid The Science and Politics of HIV/AIDS, it’s taught by Robert Bazell who was the former chief science and health correspondent for NBC !
I would love to be able to chat with them about the duality of crystal meth addiction, anything else. I could do a live q&a with the class. I'm not shy.
extracurricular?
Telling it like it is.
Don't forget swimming pools
Update comment: I miss the ones that you can stay up to 24 hours and able to leave for about an hour or two then come back.
Love your video! Like the way you just tell it the way it is but very funny with it!
I am curious wondering why men go there for that one thing and why hoping to get a reply
The first time I went was with a group of guys and I was totally drunk. I would have preferred not to be there but the group ruled and we were out of town. I spent the night watching and learning and was glad I went.
You can do what you want with whom you want. Go, you'll enjoy!
Be PrEPared... 😃
I lived in the bathhouses through my 30's & 40's. It was GREAT!!!🎉
Thanks for that! I feel better about going now 😁
Have fun, stay safe. 🥰
Are adult theatres now taking the place of bath houses ?...i don't think we have those...And don't the cops raid these places?
Adult theaters are not the same, they have their own specific clientele. Also, the cops haven't raised these places in years. They are run as private clubs, and do not merit a raid.
NO !
Many are sealing up the glory hols and putting employees standing in the dark watching to keep things under control.
And yes cops have raided these types of places but usually it's cool and fun to hookup and play.
But nothing like a fun house of bathing bodies
@@Helpfulsuggestions AND A-I-D-S.....GLORY HOLES ARE ALWAYS BERNIE OR OBAMA......THEME IS USUALLY STICKY WALLS FROM SPUNK BEING SHOT INDISCRIMINATELY ALL OVER......TO MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT SPUNKEATERS....
When i lived in L.A. there were 2 adult moviehouses on santa monica blvd, tomkat is bigger with 5 screens so attracts more patrons.
Which one do you go to hot stuff?
It's fascinating to me that someone's paradise can be my own nightmare. To me it's like a torture, AIDS ridden, death trap that I would pay anything to never set foot inside. To each their own.
Just an FYI, AIDS really is not much of a thing anymore, HIV still is. However yes, there is plenty of unprotected sex and drugs use that fuel the possibility of acquiring an infection of some sort.
@@Dadazoid I second Eric's motion. I would need 10 firetrucks worth of ammonia sparayed for 50 days to even come within 10 feet of one of those places. The germs alone, like a horror movie.
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Eric Joseph Yep. Straight man’s hell. I just celebrated my birthday in a hot tub at a bathhouse. It was great
@@daddyaf945 Same here...I let 5 dudes drop loads in me for my birthday at a bathouse here in New York. It felt great.
I am here my kitchen cooking while watching this video.
I’ve always wanted to go to a glory hole lol but idk where they are located at
You're gorgeous 😍 💗
I really love bath house
Hey dadzoid
Hey!
Gloryholes are awesome at service stations. Never done one before would like to. Thanks for video your a goodlooking guy bet you get some sexy offers. Xx
btw this isn't "culture" at all. more of a blight
Are you a self-loathing queen or something?
@@Dadazoid
so you assume that all queer people are "one way" and have to "group think" ???
One can't dissent simply because they're gay??? And what does a bathhouse even have to do with being gay in the first place?? Are there not straight sex clubs?
I am against BOTH straight and gay sex clubs alike, so absolutely no "self-loathing" here. You misunderstand what it means to be gay and wrongly conflate these two separate topics !
- Are you and others not as bad as the anit-vaxxers and anti-maskers. Just as there was a mask mandate imposed, should there not also be a condom mandate imposed on bathhouses? I find this to be a very moderate position, middle of the road.
Would YOU support a condom mandate in these establishments ???
@@TwinFalls88 so that's a yes.
@Dadazoid
Wow, what a debater Lol 😆
Guess you've never heard of Randy Shilts either huh. R u going to call him "self-loathing" too?
He championed the closure of bathhouses at the height of HIV crisis during late 80s & early 90s. People in the Castro literally spit on him, called him a "traitor". How many countless lives I wonder, did he save?
Look up Randy Shilts learn your History.
No Hate. No Blame. None of that. Simply trying to educate ppl on dangers.
And you won't even agree to a Moderate, Reasonable Compromise....i.e. Condom Mandate foe Bathhouses ?
Wow !
@Dadazoid
So don't require Condoms in Bathhouses ?
@ least be consistent and admit you were an anti-masker too during covid lol
awesome you like my comment. muscular here. 100m 200m sprint. 110m high hurdles in track.
Sweet! I used to do 100 and 200. Years ago.
@@Dadazoid how did you like running 100m and 200m dash? did much weightlifting to build sprinting speed? used creatine for more muscle gains?? I love pulling up the legs on my speed suit to show off my quads and hamstrings at track meets. I love how tightly it fits. shows my build off very nicely. people comment on my muscular rear and on my abs and chest shoulders arms and thighs too.
Ahhh... It was always a good time for me
Very informative
I've always wanted to go
And someday I will but I love the video it makes me wish more that I did go long ago. Lol.
Hold my hand and tell me what to do. 😘
Go, you'll have fun!! No one makes you do anything you don't want to do and you have total control over what you do and don't do. My fav is the not tub.
Good stuff
So strange to me he says all this as if it's fucking normal lmao. In an era where we are well educated about HIV/AIDS and other stds is is beyond me why people would still put their health and lives at risk to get off. Sad
What's "NORMAL" anyway?? Bathhouses have been around for thousands of years, since the Roman empire. I've been frequenting them for years without incident. Condoms work! They only "break" if used improperly. You don't have a clue about the male libido.
Tjere is no Safe Sex, only Safer Sex that is undertaken with the awareness of risk and intention to reduce the likelihood of negative outcomes.
Some people enjoy motorcycles, rock climbing, skiing, hunting, ice fishing, scuba diving, sky diving, etc. We each decide for ourselves our risk tolerance and what we enjoy. Bathhouses obviously aren't for you. Rather than look at someone enjoying himself and pointing out the risk he's exposing himself to that you wouldn't, why not just say to yourself "I'm glad he's having fun" and go about your business and enjoy whatever it is you like to do and perhaps he'll leave you to it and say the same thing.
There are hundreds of condoms at 99% of bathhouses!
Love the tubs. Miss going to one. Covid and anon sex aren't mixing for me
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