My husband's INTENSE, life-long battle with OCD & ANXIETY
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I wish more people talked about the intrusive thoughts of OCD
I have known I had OCD since I was 8 because I have some compulsions but I didn’t know about intrusive thoughts until I got diagnosed (finally) this year. I went to the doctor because I was getting snappy at my coworkers, which is not normal for me. I also noticed at the same time that my compulsions got worse and so started to research OCD more and realized I definitely needed to do something about it. So glad I did! I actually felt relieved when I got a diagnosis and started therapy and meds.
Me Too
I have that, intrusive thoughts come into my mind from the moment I wake up to the point I go to sleep it doesn't stop no matter how hard I try and the anxiety it gives makes is unbearable.
@Himanshu Singh keep working through it, it’ll be ok
Me too! Hopefully we see more of it in the future🙏
Thank you for sharing with us. I always just shut myself down when things scared me. I wanted someone to hold me and tell me that everything was going to be alright, even if He didn't know. My husband ask me what can I do, to make you feel safer. We have been married almost 35 years and he has always been good to me. He hugs me quite often and makes sure I don't need him to say everything is alright. He is 73 and still acts like my hero. God's been good to us.
God bless you and your family ❤️ that's amazing you have a supportive husband that makes a huge difference especially with anxiety.
Thank you for sharing that. It’s a sweet story and I appreciate hearing that there are still couples that truly love and have respect for each other.
Rebecca, my hubby and I follow in your footsteps. I’m so happy for you that you have such an amazing partner. We’ve been married for 37 years, dated for 2. He’s my hero and my best friend. We hold each other when we’re scared, we giggle a lot, we do nice things for each other, and put each other and ourselves first in life. We’re both very blessed!!!
I strongly suggest that he has Asperger’s.
So, sorry for what you went thru. Your not along, I have something similar. Mine use to help me, but after 28 year's it started to affect our marriage, and he find someone else. Sad part is I just gave him 2 of the best, special, and blessed kid's after not being able to have children for 17 years. I am so thankful to GOD for my children
It’s totally understandable why you have over a million followers. You’re both so refreshing in your openness with each other and with us. By allowing us to see how life-changing it’s been for you, you’ve helped others see there’s hope and healing without the stigma. You may have left Honduras early, but I believe you’re fulfilling your mission in other ways 👨👩👦💕
Praise the Lord and those who give you the support and understanding you need.
You’re so brave to talk about this. I have OCD, Anxiety and Depression and without my supportive husband, meds and the right doctors I don’t know where I’d be. Good luck on your journey. God bless both of you.
So many people have OCD and anxiety and it’s great to hear people talking about it so openly and frankly. Thank you guys 😊❤
I think this is so good to share how marriage isn’t easy at first for a lot of people. I’m glad you guys have worked through it and chose to stick together even through the hard times 😊
For sure. I’ve been married 25 years now, I definitely can recall especially the first year being rough. It’s still not always easy but there’s less episodes. Picking your battles is definitely good advice.
As a mental health therapist, I appreciate you sharing your experience. So happy you are in a better space. Love your story of healing. Blessings.
Also a mental health therapist in great support of your disclosure and how that sets you free!
@@nancysakmar2092 Excuse me for asking, but I am not from US and English is not my first nor second language, so I don't understand that one specific thing - when you are saying that you are "mental health therapist", what exactly is that means? In my country, that would mean you graduated from medical school (University, 6 years) where you decided to take direction to Psychiatry. So in my country that means you're a Doctor psychiatrist and psychotherapist. Is it the same in America? I apologize for my ignorance, but that's why I ask and that's why I hope to finally understand if there are any differences. Also sorry for my English! Greetings from Amsterdam 🌷
@@JuditaHoffman. In USA those who go to medical school and specialize become psychiatrists. Their roll is to determine the most effective medication. 95% of time they do not provide therapy. That is done by Mental Heath Therapists that are PHD, Clinical Counselors or Social Workers. Hope that helped.
Ocd and anxiety are hard as if life. Your vunerability and sharing will help so many. Many suffer in silence
And do not get the help
It was horrible for me & much of our marriage until I gave up trying to 'fix' every little thing for him. It took me moving out for his wake-up call.
I chose to not put him always first. For ONCE! I couldn't tolerate the verbal abuse. It had become my nightmare also which was unfair to me & our kids. I truly thank God that we finally made it through.
(34 years)
Thanks for sharing, your not along. Saying prayers for the. MAY GOD BLESS YALL 🙏
@Tomsic Maria I am so, so sorry for everything. I am the one with it, I take rx's it take the edge off, that is it. Mine stayed with me for about 25 years. I finally had his kids and a couple of years after that he found other people. We had to divorce, I didn't want to. It came down to being scared for my and my kids life so, I left. I pray everything works out for yall. MAY GOD BLESS YALL 🙏
My son fell 30 feet rock climbing at age 18. He too is a miracle. He broke his back and has 7 fused vertebrae with rods and screws. His occupation? A rock climber/ route setter. So thankful for miracles❤️
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U are truly a miracle don't ever forget that Derrick and Sarah is ur blessing;!
It’s so difficult to open up about mental illnesses there is often so much stigma. Thank you for letting us see your journey and give others hope
I’m bipolar went through many drugs nothing worked and I was in such a dark place that would rather put myself out of my misery . It wasn’t until I changed my lifestyle diet exercise and self care plus I’m on the perfect medication regiment. It took me two years but I’ve been stable for almost 2 years and I finally love myself and I can now enjoy my family. Thanks for sharing. And yes medication isn’t always the best answer.
I am in awe of Derrick being so open honest and raw about his health. I was raised in the 80’s and back then mental health was not a subject people talked about. It was a hush hush situation. I struggled my whole entire life with OCD, Panic and anxiety attacks. I have seen many therapists and have tried many medications. He mentioned a brain camp. Curious as to what they do and where one may be located on the East coast. Having mental health issues is a real thing. I am so happy that it’s no longer a taboo conversation. I am happy you both work together and have come a long way together. Having a partner who supports and understands is huge. When you battle these alone it is scary. Thank you so much for sharing this. I now hope I can find some help for myself. I am horrible at communication, which effects my relationship daily. Now knowing I am not alone brightens my day. Thank you once again.
Everything happens for a reason, and clearly you two finding each other was divine providence. Thanks so much for sharing!!
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I have severe anxiety, depression,OCD & ptsd. I think for me it’s just hard to talk about or say I have this. I’m so proud of you for telling your story & so Thankful you met Sarah. Y’all are a beautiful couple & Jack is absolutely adorable. My husband is also my rock. We’ve been married for 27 years. I know I wouldn’t be writing this if it wasn’t for him. We met & became inseparable in Jr.High. Enough about me. I enjoy y’all’s videos & I’ll pray for y’all. Much love
I hear you, and even through a forum where you are unknown, it's not something people want to actually read, talk and FEEL about, they don't know how to process the hellish nightmare you speak of, if they cannot listen, dear Lord, they will NEVER understand or relate, even if they say they do. When someone relates to your conversation, you damn well know, you feel it, it's not an uncomfortable feeling. Where there is NO concern, you will feel the resistance, too.
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Same except that my partner refuses to acknowledge that these are actually issues not some bizarre creation of mine.
@@justkeepswimming8335 I’m so sorry to hear that. Having support makes it easier. Maybe a councilor, sister, friend, parents. Take your partner along. Give him/her the info needed to educate themselves . I pray you get support. I understand it can be a lot for a partner but it’s also a lot for the one trying to live life with the debilitating mental health issues. It’s even harder feeling alone. I’m so grateful that mental health has been brought to light but there is so much more ppl can learn about it. The stigma it’s had over our lifetime has completely shut down the way ppl see it. I certainly hope & continue to educate & help all that I can. It’s definitely has made me see so many things differently & I believe in a positive way.
Hi, Mandy. Plz see my comments to Derrick, as it may hold some options for you to consider, that could really help the issues you're facing. God bless you, dear one. 🙏🙌🤲💞
I can not believe this video. A blessing! My son is 12 and we are literally going through this right now. He has always shown symptoms, quirks, but couldnt put our finger on it. Literally everything you described from the light switch, intrusive thoughts fit him to a t. We just got him into therapy. Also, how uou have to put your clothes in a certain place or the car window. My son couldnt get inti the car until he type some “code” on the side of the car. Or if he didnt do s certain thing he thought i may die in a car accident. Its so hard seeing him go through this. It rips my heart out that i cant just fix it. I am going to show him this video i think as an encouragement showing him hes not the only one and the words you say are so encouraging. Ive watched yall for a while but im a first time commenter.
Thanks for sharing. I am 76 yo and it has taken almost a life time to get to where you are now. Things are different in 2023 than when my problems started in 1957. For one thing discussing mental health was a no-no. Medicines, doctor's and the public are on the band wagon now and recognizing that mental health is important for healing the whole body and soul. Keep the faith .
@@elsiedawson81 It is so important that all people accept that mental health is the same as physical health, it's just a little different because mental health is not so visible and the patient has to explain for himself how he feels. I hope that the stigma around people's mental health problems will finally disappear completely and that people will pay more attention to this aspect of their general health.
This video is so special and so important for people to hear. People think everyone has a perfect life because of what the outside looks like. You two have given others hope. So grateful. ❤️🌈🌺
Oh you two! Just when I’m thinking “ how much more can I love these two?”- you come out with this. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, heart and soul, I truly appreciate your candor and for allowing us to see your process as you progress along your path. So grateful ♥️
Ahhh you're amazing! Thanks so much Samantha❤️
Hang on in there Derek your total breakthrough is coming. Once you started opening up about your life you are on the path to success.Your truth will help so many people.I love your family. KEEP growing and enjoy your blessings.
Thanks for sharing. There are so many people reading this that you can help. Sending you my best wishes for the future. Please keep reaching out to help others.
Truly raw, honest and mature. Grateful for your honesty from every perspective. This is a core value that every couple needs to understand. The enduring love and support that you both clearly have for each other, and your family is so amazing. ❤️
Thankyou🥺 Means so much to hear this!
I have always struggled with anxiety and go to therapy on a regular basis. Talk to someone, anyone. It’s okay to not be okay. ❤️
As a mom of 4, my heart breaks for you and all the suffering you went through. It’s a blessing you met Sarah and thank you for bringing out in the open. You may be saving someone’s life. God Bless you. I’ll be praying for you. ✝️🙏📿
So brave for you to tell such a personal story and try to help maybe someone who’s going through it. You two are amazing! Much love and many blessings
You husband is strong! Sending love and hugs from Scotland! Also jack is the cutest little munchkin!!
This is such a genuine video! Your message shows that mental health issues should be addressed and people don't need to feel embarrassed or ashamed. You also brought awareness to the fact that sometimes practitioners and patients don't work together as well as others and changes need to be made. Very sweet to acknowledge the support you receive from Sarah. God bless you both! PJ.
Thank you both for being so open about your struggles, battles, and all you have gone through to get to where you are now. You are an encouragement to all of us. I wish you even greater success and more abundant peace and joy.
I admire the fact that you opened up about something so personal. The two of you are perfect for each other. I’m so glad you’ve found a medication that works. I wish you and your entire family all the best.
As a member myself of the latter-day saints I am very glad that you're speaking about this because when my children were growing up we lost a lot of well they lost a lot of friends to suicide because it just wasn't something spoken about, and you being a young latter Day Saint and talking about this gives other young people like yourself someone to look up to so I really appreciate what you are doing Derek it helps more than what you think.
Sorry for your familys losses. Wish people could be more open with their own feelings without so much judgment from others. Too many lives are affected because mental issues are not addressed as much as physical issues. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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It would help if instead of it being categorized as "mental health issues", it was changed to "brain health issues". And honestly, that's really what it really is anyway.
@@CherylBerryl sorry if I offended you with the word "issues". I meant no disrespect, just gets categorized that way so often. You are so right, it all relates to how our brain works. Would love to know more about the "Brain Camp" as it could probably be good for many people. Emotional feelings can get even the best of us into a personal whirlwind with ourselves. I think sometimes that I'm never going to get my life right. I have to remind myself often that "My Right" is totally different than "Another Person's Right". GOD BLESS YOU. 💓🙏💓🙏
Thanks so much! Super grateful that I was able to help even a little!
@@crystalerdmann2517
Hey, Crystal. I didn't take any offense, dear one. I was only bringing to light how society in general needs to change the verbage in regards to mental health.
It's not cheap by Any means, but if you can find a way to swing it, consider contacting Dr. AMEN. His state of the art professional brain diagnostic services are #1 in the country, & has helped so many find balanced brain health. Also research about the Vagus Nerve it has all to do w/ proper gut/brain health, as they're both intrinsically interconnected. Also look into the Fisher Wallace device. It helps with depression, anxiety, PTSD, CPTSD, sleep issues, & pain.
Be well, & God bless you! 🙏🙌🤲💞
I’m glad you guys spoke about this! It is so rare that people who suffer from OCD talk about it due to all the shame and guilt that come along with it. The mind can be such a dangerous place. It’s hard to identify the thoughts aren’t yours at first , because so many of us are not comfortable talking about our intrusive thoughts. So thank you for bringing more awareness! I hope this helps someone .
Derik you’re such a beautiful soul!! You were brave to share your story and it will help others identify and deal with their mental health concerns! I also appreciate your positive attitude and love that you can see how bright your life is! Keep up the good fight Derik!
i’ve suffered anxiety for some months, but i’m getting better now, even though thanks for sharing your experience because it’s so inspiring and i feel it’s the kind of thing people need to know while are going through smth similar. People crave for someone with the same experience and to know they are better. Remind that we are always here for you and you’re amazing!❤️
Thank you for sharing. Mental health is such a big deal that is often overlooked. I'm sure it took a lot of courage to share this. God bless you!
It honestly means so much that there's people out there willing to share their story to help people. It's such an alienating feeling having to go through this kind of thing and to have someone to work through it with you must be amazing. Thank you for sharing and making so many of us out there feel less alone. After trying medication after medication and therapies with no end in sight you start to lose hope. This makes me feel like there could be hope to have yet
Thank you for sharing sure intimate and personal information! There is nothing more powerful than knowing you are not alone and other people have had similar experiences. You're a blessing!!
I’m so glad that you have found a way to help yourself out. This is something so many deal with and never discuss. Thank you for sharing!
missions are the perfect storm for any mental health struggles. i came home early as well and is such a hard thing to experience when health things compromise us from serving the "full" time. You are awesome for sharing your story!!
This is soooooo important for people to hear! It's really easy to watch people like you on You Tube or any social media, & think their lives are perfect & compare ourselves to them, which in turn(at times) can lower our self esteem & have us thinking something is wrong with us if we have any issues or our life isn't perfect. Thank you for sharing such a private issue, I promise you are helping lots of people in doing so! 🥰
Thank you for sharing! I struggled w undiagnosed ocd too through high school and knowing you’re not alone is so good
This was such an amazing video, I've gone through depression and anxiety, and it can feel alienating. Thanks for sharing your experience, I think it's awesome and so important to share and let others going through the same thing that it can get better and that it's a stage that you can get thru with the right help 🤗💜🌸
This was so wonderful to hear, anxiety is a beast; I know from personal experience, and finding the right medication is so hard but like some illnesses medication is a necessity.
Cannot thank you enough!! ✨ Your story is familiar to me and your explanation of the journey to find balance is very inspiring!! I think there aren't many ppl, especially men, that speak of this subject in such a clear and helpful way as you did. Well done.
I'm so grateful for this video, thank you so much for sharing. I'm dealing with the same issues right now and sometimes I feel so alone and the overwhelming feeling of guilt just takes over. I've dealt with ocd and anxiety/ depression my whole life and it was very hard for me to open up about it because I started to feel like a terrible person for thinking these awful thoughts, as well as having strange habits that I feel like I have to do, and if I don't do them I can't relax. It's good to know I'm not alone in this, and I'm not the only one who is dealing with the same issues. So again thank you so much for sharing, this helped me so much. Praying for you and your family ❤️
Having suffered panic attacks/anxiety it’s so helpful to talk about it. You should be so proud f how far you have come, it’s not easy.
Thank you so much for talking about this. There are so many people that suffer horribly because of terrible intrusive thoughts- they cause so much intense pain and shame… people talking about it brings understanding and helps people feel relief- they aren’t monsters because of their thoughts. This video is a blessing bc it’s incredible to see you so happy. It gives so much hope. Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️
This was such an inspirational video. I appreciate you sharing this story. It's extremely difficult to accept anyone into your life after experiencing trauma. You may realize that it could be beneficial for you, but also worry that you may not be good enough & don't want to bring someone else down. It's a challenging struggle to overcome.
I'm a Baptist, but my boss and her family are all LDS (they are like my second family). And literally everyone I am drawn to in life (online, brands, in real life) happens to be LDS! How funny you both are too!
It really seems like a huuuge portion of LDS men and women are just so sweet, genuine, and spirited people.
Prozac saved me years ago! Long story but it was at the time when there was so much bad press on it. I got off it twice and just went back to panic! I have been on it for years and it works! Whatever works for you my friend!!! People need to know that the brain is an organ just like kidneys etc and if something is wrong and a medication can fix it then you take it! Love to all of you!!! ❤️
Power to ya! ❣️
Wow. You are so incredibly brave for coming on here and sharing your story with us. I’m so happy for you, and so glad things have turned around for you. And what an amazing wife you have. You two are such positive role models to your generation . I can’t even imagine how much this video has helped so many people. Thank you for your honesty and courage. Sending your family lots of prayers and love from Colorado!
I appreciate how raw and real y’all are! I too struggle with OCD which causes me anxiety and depression and I understand your struggle deeply. Thank you for shedding light on your struggles and that things do get better! 🥰
I am so glad you are sharing this. RUclipsrs always look and show only the perfect life and it makes those watching feel so much worse when they are struggling. So this is awesome!!! Keep at it!!
I LOVE that you’re talking about this! I think more people have similar stories and struggles ✨
Thus was so special. Thank you for sharing. My son is 50 and has suffered with anxiety for ever. Even to the point of not being able to work. He is on disability witch is very hard to take as he has been a successful person in his career. He is getting better but as you said it comes and goes. Take your time and enjoy your life and Sara and Jack. Don't feel rushed into another baby. Jack is just a baby himself. And you will see unfortunately anxiety is passed on and Jack will feel some of this too. Love you guys you both are so sweet and beautiful. He is too.
You two and just wonderful together. Sharing your experiences with OCD and anxiety is really brave. But its so helpful to others who may be experiencing trouble and don't know who to see for help. You are both so helpful to other people!! Keep on going, don't stop growing and loving your lives. Those two kids are lucky to have you as their parents!
I'm so thankful that you shared your story. I have bad mental health issues, and it feels like there's still such a stigma about talking about it. Especially about men, it's so important to get them talking!! So, thank you!! 💛you 3.. amazing family!!
I really hope that he gets better praying for the whole family God bless y'all always
It’s absolutely beautiful that your talking about it.
I also wanted to note: Sarah, for being there for him! Good on you! It’s hard no two ways about it. But both of you are willing to talk communicate and learn and that’s the way to do it! Good for you both!
And yes if more people had the support they needed maybe we could all share with others what we go through, why not help out people! Thank you B fam!
Derik, THANK YOU for being so honest about your journey with anxiety disease and OCD. It's so hard when you have these negative and intrusive thoughts in your mind and don't know how to deal with that. They make you suffer and feel sad, I literally felt that I was going crazy and I panicked multiple times. Thank God there are good professionals out there who can understand you and give you an effective solution, wheter it's therapy or pharmacs. I'm so glad you are feeling so much better and I wish to you all the happiest moments ever! Blessings to you and your family. Greetings from Barcelona!:)
Thank you for being so transparent! I've had several people in my life that suffered from various types of mental illness. You guys have a huge following, and i know that you have helped others feel like they aren't alone!! Kudos!!💙💜💙💜
Bless your precious hearts!! It is so easy to look at young, beautiful people and think their lives are easy. To think at such young ages you were able to work together to confront and deal with these trials is inspiring!! You gave your all for Deriks well being and therefore, your life together with Jack. You are amazing!!!❤
Love, from Maine!
There is no shame in mental health issues. I’m happy that you shared your story. Thank you!
Hey BFF, just wanted to tell you I have suffered a long time as well. Since I was 10 and I just turned 59 and Finally just started Therapy last week! I have no family or friends and isolated myself as that's my comfort zone. I hope and pray therapy will help us!
I hope you're doing well Beth🥰
You got this Beth! Good luck ❤️
I too have done that and now at 70 years old find myself so lonely! But I just always isolated and do not know anyone.
You will see a hugh difference in the months to come. Good luck
Beth I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Therapy really does help and sometimes medicine is necessary. Don't be ashamed to take it if you need it. I suffer from the same thing.
Hope you start feeling better soon. God bless you.
I so love you guys’ sharing. Thank you for this. I’ve been through similar. I was married to two men who adamantly refused to admit any need. Watching you do this is very healing for me. Thank you. This is how it’s done. 😊
Respect! I’m touched by your journey and the openness you show by sharing it. The trust you show by inviting us all in. The troublesome and complicated illness that is one jigsaw piece in life next to all the others, and you telling how you try to make them all fit. Told in a low-key way, in a car in the rain next to your wife. Lovely! I’m hopeful for the impact this will have.
Oh Sweetie, I’m a Pastor’s daughter and I’m glad you got therapy and that you met Sarah. Sometimes that just what we need. 😊🙏🏼 God blessed you both.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. You may not have completed your missionary service but you are serving in your own personal way by speaking of your own experience. You will help so many people thru your voice. And it will help loosen the stigma of mental and emotional problems. This and being a husband and father are your greatest area of service. God Bless you and your family💚
Thank you for opening up and sharing this video.I believe it shall inspire many people,give strength,hope and faith to many and save a few lives,too.
You are being lighthouses and people who are being lighthouses,light for others in the darkness, to find their way,are my favourite sort of people.
Courageous.
I’m so thankful you both decided to share! I have dealt with things from about age 7 that I always thought I didn’t belong, several suicidal attempts, etc. it has only been about four years since I finally got the right doctor and psychiatrist to get me on my way. I go to counseling every week and I write a lot about what my thoughts are, anyway thank you for sharing your experience with brain trauma and things! God bless you and keep you heads up and keep it real! I love your families even though I’m in my fifties it’s so nice to see the young getting grips on life🎉❤
I am so happy that I saw this today.
I love that your wife saved you.
I love that you understand how to manage your brain.
Trauma is so life altering and I'm currently working through some of my own. Prozac has saved my life.
I tell people all the time. I'm not ashamed of needing it, I realize that some of my wires are frayed after all that I've been through and that some people just need medication and therapy to function properly.
I'm so happy for you guys💕🙏
just want you to know you are not alone! I have battled ocd and anxiety my whole life and I totally feel you! It is hard but you can get through it! My sister and I came up with this little song, " no no ocd you dont have a hole on me"! remember that ocd is a liar! Sending lots of love and peace to you and your family! you got this and so does God!
It was incredibly brave of you to talk about this so openly and honestly. You're amazing and I'm so happy you have each other. My son who is on the Autism spectrum deals with a lot of anxiety and it really helped to hear how you got through this.
I randomly came across you guys on social media and at first I couldn’t deal with how ‘perfect’ your life looked. I’m glad you posted this because it made you so much more real to me. So relatable. I’m now a fan xx
Thank you for sharing this! A family member is suffering with something very similar so its really helpful to hear your story xx
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You don’t know how many people you may have helped by telling your story. Thank you for sharing.
I'm sooooo proud of Both of You 💕. Open Conversation about this subject is so important!!! I'm also diagnosed with OCD, Anxiety and Depression. I'm also on medication and not ashamed about it. I'm 59 and have been on my medication since my 20's. Great Job You Two 💕🙌. Keep Up The Great Work and EVERYONE out there Never Be Ashamed Of Having A Therapist Who Knows Your Story. Love and Hugs from A Western Upstate NY Nurse here 💚
I have always found you to be very open and courageous in the way you share. Thanks Derick❤
Thank you guys for being so honest. You guys are awesome! Love each day
that you are here. 🙏❤
Sending prayers to you and your family ♥️ I have OCD and I know how hard it is, just keep being you!
Wow thank you so much for sharing. I have battled with OCD and anxiety for years now and have just started trying to work through. Thank you for sharing your story and giving hope and encouragement for people that are going through this!
Thank you so much for having the courage to talk about this subject, I'm happy for you and Sarah and the progress you have made, it is definitely a life changer. Thank you for the resource you have provided, God bless you and your family Derek!!
I followed you guys because you're the cutest couple and the cutest family! I never expected it, but I'm so happy that you shared your experience with OCD with us.
I struggled with undiagnosed OCD until I was 26 and it was hell. It was terrifying not to know what was happening to me. OCD can latch onto any kind of thought, not just washing hands and checking stoves, and it never occurred to me that my relationship with my thoughts and fears were a psychological disorder until more than a decade suffering from it. I talk about my experience pretty openly because I don't want other people to have to spend years suffering when there is help out there, especially medication, ERP, and ACT.
When you talked about feeling like you should be solid when you were struggling that really hit home. It was very painful for me to admit that I needed psychological help. It felt like admitting I was broken. Well, maybe I am a little bit, but at least I've got a few patches and splints in the right places so I can walk, run, and thrive.
Here's to a fulfilling life with OCD!
🕊💕 Very happy you have sponsors, thank you for sharing your experiences with us. The brain camp sounds amazing. We love and adore you, thank you for sharing your struggles and wanting to help those who share the same difficulties. Service to self or service to others. You have answered the call, your beautiful inside and out. Many cures, 6000, are going to be released over the next few years, some reverse the damage caused by products to our brains as children.
Thank you for sharing your story Derrick! You’re such an amazing young man!
I’ve also had the same issues and it started when I was very young like 3-4 years old. I was put in an institution because no one knew what to do with me. That institution added so much more trauma to my life. I was 5 when I was put in there and I was there for 6 months.
You’re bringing so much help to everyone who is listening to your story! It’s so awesome to know we aren’t alone and that a lot of people are going through the same thing! I love the 3 of you so much 🤍🤍🤍
Thanks so much for sharing. It takes a lot of strength to share, that's amazing. It's going to help so many people.
My husband suffers from severe anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation. He has tried so many different medications as well and is on prozac now. I am really glad you found a medication that really helps you. I understand how hard it is to find the right one. As a wife who's married to someone with mental health struggles it's nice to know that I am not alone (and I struggle with my own anxiety and OCD). Thanks for talking about this.
I am in the same situation as you. It's not fun.
Hello. Have him engage in constant conversation with THE LORD. That’s how I overcame my battles. JESUS is the answer. HE will divert his attention so that the problems are not fed into.
Thanks so much for sharing this🙏 It can get so freaking hard at times, but patience/love will always make things better :)
Please don't have children. It is highly heritable and the kids will suffer.
@@sanaibn8409 too late!
Thank you so much for sharing and trusting us with your story. I have struggled with ADHD/OCD for over a decade (I’m 21) and it’s such a scary journey and one can feel so alone, I know I did. One of my biggest fears is that my anxiety will affect my future romantic relationships and it is so amazingly reassuring to see so much love even within your mental health struggles.
You're amazing! Totally get how you would be nervous about that. It definitely is something that can get so much better when working with your partner and trusting each other! You got it 👊
Thank you for your courage and honesty. Being transparent about mental health issues is a gift to so many…and helps erase the stigma around therapies and treatments. There is no “quick fix”. It’s a process. Searching for the best fit therapies and medications is a lifelong commitment to yourself and the people who love & support you. Being diligent in this process of deep self care is a SUPER POWER. Being a support partner is also a SUPER POWER.
As a parent of an adult child with bi-polar disorder, I know about this journey. I’m sending you my gratitude for being willing to share your story. Stories of authentic life are gold to me.❤
Love how open you guys are, especially with such vulnerable topics. So glad you have found what works for you!
Thank you so much for sharing about this. The fear and shame connected to the disease can prevent one from seeking help. It helps to see that one is not alone in this. And, by the way, Prozac saved my life from a severe, life ending depression.
Thank you so much for sharing your struggles! I have even more respect and admiration for you guys, especially you Derik, for helping show the world that it's okay to be vulnerable and need help.
So many people think that it's a weakness and it's shameful to need help let alone ask for help.
Hats off to you!! 😊
P.S. This is the first comment on any social media that I've ever made.
Wow, thank you for this share. I can't tell you how much it means right now. While I'm seemingly controlling my evil thoughts right now I also seem to be coming up again things telling me to deal with it. Like having really bad violent thoughts but then thinking 'why did i just think that? I dont want that/ id never do that, thats not me.' I've always been too scared to talk to anyone about it. Scared they would do something like take my babies away. All these messages seem to be telling me now is the time to confront it. I wasn't going to watch any videos tonight, just find my sleep meditation and settle down but this was top of my list waiting for me. A message I really needed. Thank you so much beautiful man x 😘
Thank you for making this video. My 21 year old son is dealing with this right now. It's always helpful to know others have dealt with this and have come out better on the other side of it. I will show him this video and I'm sure it will help him.
Derik - This video is such a service to so many. That was so kind of you to open up and share your story. Good for you to keep trying different Dr.s and treatments to find out what works for you. Also, it helps to know that your health needs can change over time. You two are such a lovely couple and such a blessing. Have a lovely evening. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭
Also when my anxiety gets out of control, I find something to focus on like a painting or a tree, the ocean in your case..... And I tell myself... Through him all things are possible, you got this, believe in yourself and things will change.
That’s great advice!
Sometimes I do try and focus on something else. I get out a book or listen to music to help calm myself but making myself stop crying long enough to focus on those is where I have the most problem.
@@crystalerdmann2517 I hear you Crystal. Don't give up. There is hope for all of us, no matter what we struggle with.And God sees your tears. And they are each precious to Him
You blessed so many with the sharing of this - Thank you for your sincerity!
My appreciation for your family grows all the more
It's good to know that you have been honest and open! Thank you.
my daughter has serious mental health issues! I get what your going through!
It’s so crazy how everyone is different. Because in the past 4 years i have taken Prozac and zoloft but Prozac didn’t help me with my OCD but it helped with my anxiety and then eventually I went to Zoloft and that helped with both. Now I’m doing great so it’s crazy to see how everyone’s journey is different but you can be experiencing the same things. That’s why you need to do what’s best for you because what other people are doing might not always work for yourself. as a teenager who’s experiencing this currently it was helpful to watch this video because I can see how there is a light at the end of the tunnel and fortunately i have already started to see progress in my life. Thank you for sharing your experience I love you guys.
There is a light👍, great post btw
Thank you!
Makes me so happy to hear this! You totally got this 👊 ❤️
I feel with you guys. I'm suffering from OCD and anxiety since I was a little girl. It's Jesus who is helping me through the day and my husband his present for me. I can't even imagine how great it must be to have such a wonderful wife supporting you. Thanks for sharing. This made me realize that I'm not alone or crazy. God bless you.
I applaud you for sharing. I know so many people with anxiety and at least two with crippling anxiety. So happy for you both. You’re such good people
Ty for sharing ppl on social media look like they have perfect lives this is a good reminder that u struggle like everybody else!
I've also had an odd anxiety issue. I know how hard it is. You have a great support system, and I'm sure it's part your life that also helps a lot. I have very little for support from my family, they get more angry and mean rather than accepting this as part of me. You're a lucky guy.
I feel this. I cycled through several meds before finding one that worked for my debilitating anxiety, but so worth it. Really considering therapy, thank you for this ❤
You both are such an inspiration. I'm 65 and had never suffered from depression and anxiety till I was 53, and learned how difficult it was to experience those things. So happy to know you found your balance Derek, and I think God put Sarah in your path.
I am so PROUD of you, both!!! I just wrote a comment on another video about how great it is to see such honesty on social media and now I watch this video!!!
I'm sure just this *one* video has saved someone's life! God bless your beautiful family! Remember... The Joy is in the Journey! 💖
This is me right now. It's been my whole life but it's worse now. Thanks for the advice. Much love to you all. 🙏💞