8 Ways To Deal With A Stalker
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- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- Ways To Deal With A Stalker
Stalking is one of the most sadistic forms of abuse. It leaves the victim with no rest as they don’t know when the stalker is going to act next. It is also an action that is difficult to deal with as in many cases even after the victim changed their place of work or residence, the stalker managed to find them and continued the stalking. And in some instances, harmed the victim. This video explores ways you can deal with a stalker.
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Have you been stalked? How did you deal with it? What worked and did not work for you?
No however it does not hurt to know what to do if it does ever happen. My friend was stalked by her ex and he was ruthless. I had to teach her self defence just in case he tried attacking her. She has been seen him around since she is with another man, but she is still filled with anxiety. I have sent this video to her this video to help. Thank you for this video!
nothing is helping! she keeps hacking my phones and uses my accounts to pretend to me all day and texting people to call me all the time and she is now trying to turn this on me and smearing me all over!! she is extremely obsessed with me and my kids. and no one will help or believe me! this is daily !!
@@susiesa8295 hi. How exactly is she jacking your phone? Because to hack your phone she would need access to it or you would need to click on a link send to you that downloads a hacking app. Or is she using an online texting account where she spoofs your phone number? I would suggest wiping your phone and reinstalling all the apps manually to make sure there is no tracker app on. Then make sure she has no access to it. Also change your phone number and do not let her find out the new number.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing i have no idea how she is able to do it for so long. she must have someone helping her. i know who it is and she makes no attempt to hide it. i am crying all day cause it is a living nightmare . i actually did change my number yesterday and it is making me very nervous to be even on a phone
@@susiesa8295 hi. From your comment you mention that you know who the person is who is helping her. I would suggest that you make sure this person does not have access to your phone. If she is making accounts in your name then it is fraud and you will need to file a criminal case against her.
Also, be careful who you confined including your close circle. i recommend only those who have experience with stalking and are empathetic bc if not, ppl will often invalidate or downplay your experience making things worse for you.
Very true!!!! I made that mistake! Some of these scums, are on our my, personal info!! There are truly sick!!
Excellent point- a lot more people listen to judge than understand so it's imperative you share information with those who are not only open minded but can relate to your story to a degree.
Yes. I had a situation for example, where I was leaving an abusive relationship, and unfortunately, my immediate family, had a narcissist in it, and they actually made my case WORSE. They not only weren't supportive, they actually helped my abuser.
@@Corina-dq2my I understand I believe it
@@Corina-dq2myI know how you feel. I’ve learnt to just stick up for myself because no one cares.
I'm being stalked. Going to have to sell my house and start over (again)
I'm so sorry! Are you on SAFE AT HOME? In my state there is a SAFE AT HOME program. All your mail goes to the secretary of state. Then it is mailed to you from there. I am 71 and was introduced to the program through a local woman's shelter where I had gone to be safe from abuse.
No fight
I’m praying for you
@@SherryBeasley-ct5qu Your comment was so helpful for me! I've filed 3 police reports now and not a single time did anyone mention this program to me, I've already called them and will be meeting up with them this week. thank you so much for sharing this information
@@SherryBeasley-ct5quI wish that happened here I've had so much milk stolen held ECT.ect.
Do Not be afraid to ask for help from others around you!
@@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 bs we're all alone
All excellent information! Videotape everything. For me, I bought a gun. I polished it up and dry fired it. I made sure my bigmouth kids saw it. On their next visit, they told Daddy all about it. Two years of stalking ended immediately.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Glad that getting a gun deterred the person and that you did not have to use it. All the best.
The lawyer explained to me that restraining orders are meant for people who obey the law. A narcissist does not obey it. I am dealing with a brother and mother N’s right now. They are never wrong even if caught in the act. It’s always someone else’s fault, usually mine. Mom refuses to wear her glasses even though she’s blind as a bat. It’s like a mortal sin if they are somehow “defective.” The narcissist is perfect and there’s nothing wrong with them. You’re the crazy one. I’ve learned to deal with it by saying No and not arguing. You cant reason with a four year old. That’s about the age they are, they never grew up.
Wow~ you are bad ass. 💜
I'm going to try that too! Thank you!😊
Jealous yall can have a gun there. ❤from Poland, after all the abuse, it's insane that I can't feel safe and protect myself
Once I found out a certain person just wasn't right, I disappeared from their life and anyone connected to them. It's been 5 yrs and she still tries to text/call from different numbers. Recently she drove over an hour away to my house and knocked on my door. She's done this 3-4 times. The last time, she left a note on my car saying "she was in the neighborhood"....yeah right. She has a personality disorder so I appreciate the info given in this video. Thank you!
Stay safe and don't let this into your house. I am not a lawyer so I can't give advice that way, but I suggest contacting a dv organization on advice on what to do to proceed and any attorney who is familiar with dv and stalking. I have heard that it's best to try to resolve with a lawyer sending a letter to stop, or police telling that person to stop and making a record of this. Ask the lawyer or dv advocate about these potential options and maybe consult a experienced officer on what they advise. Maybe a Sheriff's deputy actually.
It's been 6 years now of dealing with a stalker. they first threw rocks threw my bedroom window in 2019 while I was in the room writing a few feet away. They continued to stalk me during COVID-19, when I even leaving my home, wasn't an option. They repeatedly smash in my windshield, side doors, and mirrors and left me a note saying "4 Days" in dripping font. I have obviously relocated several times. I have worked hard to keep my address secret, but was recently found again. Someone threw rocks through my windows again a few weeks ago, and it's been really rough. I don't know how far they plan on taking it, and though I have a suspect in mind, I have no definitive proof that it's him. This has been such a nightmare and I miss the times before 2019 when I could walk in public in peace. Not sure why I'm posting this, other than feeling alone and afraid. Thank you for your video, I am hopeful that there's something in it that can help.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Sorry that you are experiencing this horrific stalking. It helps others in realizing that they are not alone. And that it is not something they did. But because of a mentally ill person who has no regard for other people’s feelings. It is hard when they keep finding you even when you move and take effort to keep your address secret. That they leave a message saying 4 days seems that they want to terrorize you and have you living in fear. Unfortunately, with people like this. The only way they often stop is when they are caught and forced to stop. If you can. Try installing motion cameras around the house or a 360 dash cam in your car to try to get proof of them vandalizing your car. Or then throwing rocks through your windows. You will most likely need to hide the cameras well and tell no one, as people like this are often, but not always, very good and evading being caught. Consider asking advice from security shops on what cameras may work and how to use them. You don’t need to spend a lot. I used a small spy camera hidden inside a clock once. It had an SD card that could record 24 hours of video. And when something happed I downloaded that day’s video. After several incidents I managed to make a 11 min video showing several incidents that was later used in court to prove guilt. It was not for stalking but abuse, however. The principal is the same. You need proof. And video with audio evidence is best.
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Thats someone that knows you well and can access information on you. Jesus said that your enemies will be they of your own house... which is a member of your blood family. Alot of times, it is someone you least expect...like someone you think is a "dear friend." Someone you work with. I wouldnt let this go...its gone on too long! Get those cameras up around the property and be safe. Change your phone...social media...etc
Have a dash cam to record the front and rear or car in addition to home cameras.
Extremely abusive. Stalkers are the worst criminals.
They are seriously obsessed & delusional. Ever had someone try to find people who look similar to all the men you ever dated to approach you as if you will date everyone who looks like someone you dated. They are complete brain dead losers who never grow up or move on in life that’s why every tactic they have is from an outdated timeline that nobody gives af about
Yes. Stalkers can make life hell for a victim. To the point that they are afraid to leave their house.
In Slovakia 🇸🇰 police doesn't know to even investigate stalking!!!!
I've been stalked for years which led to being shot in the head. Now the police need proof but I'm sleep.deprived. they pop out like we are imaginary friends. I'm exhausted.
Just rest ❤❤
Im so glad you’re still here. ❤
So unfortunate your situation, it sucks when the people you rely on for help doesn't take you and your complaints seriously as a matter of fact, it only gives the abuser the upper hand to continue with their abuse. Praying for a speedy recovery, you got this beautiful 🙏
@@haitiqueen0119 lol I just said someone I don't feel very well I need sleep etc, and replied with smiley face "so it's normal for you"
I'm sorry for your struggles. I think it's past time to get laws changed regarding stalking and harassment. I hope you are doing ok, and I will pray your situation improves. I have been through stalking and can empathize, at least a little, with you on that. Get the support that you need at this time. Much love and blessings.
This was very helpful thank you 😊
Great law enforcement training very good!😊
Hi. Thank you.
So not fair i have to flip my life upside down because of him!! I want to take a STAND! SICK OF THIS
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Sorry that you are experiencing the stalking and abuse you are. Yes, it is not fair. And stalkers and abusers often know how to slip between the cracks in the law or be on the edge between legal and illegal. Mentally they are children who are throwing tantrums because they did not get their way. You cannot reason with them and they don’t care who they hurt and how. Words do not work with them. The only thing that stops them is consequences for their actions. Which may take a lot of effort on your part and time.
Great list of things to do. Unfortunately my stalker got mad bc I had to throw him out of my home, he refused to leave when I asked him to. It all escalated after that. Destroyed my things, vandalized my car, threatened me, accused me of seeing someone. The protective order only pissed him off more. He said I should not of contacted police when he stabbed my tires 2 separate times. More and more threats, broke in my house, then a different day came to my house and beat me up and threatened me with knife. Fortunately, at that very second my phone rang. I told caller he was here now. It was police. He ran off w my phone and returned the next day to b arrested. Some people think they are above the law, have no care only care about how they can't have what they want. Controlling bully.
@@dlight2669 hi. Thank you for sharing. Yes, it is common for stalkers and abusers to get angry when you take action against them. And although most will ignore a protection order. It is the first step into taking legal action against them. If you can, install security cameras or try to record them damaging your property if he comes back. So you can lay chargers against him and use it as evidence to help show that he is a danger to you and should be locked up for longer.
Thank you for sharing this information. I feel if everyone completes these steps including taking this seriously ~ you will have protected every part of your body and spirit. Excellent advice that serves much like a SuperPower ~ being equipped against those that get a devious and oftentimes hidden or secret enjoyment from crossing your boundaries.
Your welcome. I also think that laws need to change to better protect victims against stalking.
Check out Directed Energy weapons or DEWs to better understand how technology used by NPDS or narcissists to stalk victims or targets innocent.
Check out DEWS DIRECTED ENERGY WEAPONS and DIRECTED PULSE RADIO FREQUENCY ENERGY
This may sound incredible, ...but the 8 yr. X military gay Director of Nurses at my dads nursing home was my stalker. Why? Because I was complaining to government agencies about things that were going on in that nursing home. I became incredibly frustrated because none of these government agencies came to help. I called the police as well. In confidence the officer warned me NOT to do anything! He told me it would do nothing but add to worse problems for myself and my dad. Just as I was talking to him, a nurse manager poked his head around the door and told him _________ (the Director of Nurses STALKER) wants to talk to him after he was done talking to me..... The nurse manager said "____." (her name), so this police man knows this DON on a FIRST NAME BASIS. I found all of this horrifying, and it just added to more of my trauma.
Hi. Thank you for commenting. This sounds like a very complicated situation. From my experience, many narcissists plan ahead for when you want to expose them. Many smear your name long in advance. But also become good friends with people in power or status who will protect them. This is often police, ministers or pastors, local community leaders, a manager or boss, and so on.
I been begging NYPD for help, Now I have a stalker telling me how she's gonna kill me for my own husband, Then telling me how she's gonna kick in our door I hear this everyday.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Sorry that you are experiencing being stalked. If you can. Record the person when they are making threats against you. Especially if threatening to kill you. As police can often not do much unless you have evidence that you can show them. If they phone you. You can get recording apps for you phone that can record the conversation. Save and make screenshots of all text messages, emails, and social media posts or comments of threats against you. If they threaten you in persons try to have a hidden camera such as a dash cam or have your phone on record in your pocket. Know that the police may require you to show that the person is making threats on more than one occasion. I know it is not fair. But it is often how the law works. Due to so many false accusations. Police now often don’t respond unless you can show proof of your claims and that the person is repeatedly threatening you.
@ Yvette, your comment hits home. I've been harassed for 4 years never has my complaints been taken seriously whether or not that had anything to do with me being a minority. Well, after 3 years I've been granted an order of protection however it took a lot of recordings in between and trying out different police officers in addition to talking to a Sargent for my complaints to be taken seriously. With that said, I suggest you record as many incidents revolving harassment as much possible maybe try explaining your situation to a Sargent at your local police. They're going to need consistent as many footages possible and that should be a help to your situation. Best of luck!
Yes, I have heard that actually making a threat or threats is when the police can do something.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing I agree 💯 percent.
Just make sure to test out the app before hand, and know how to use it when time comes, and that it's actually recording and saved. Then back up the recording by saving it and sending that file to other drives that can store audio and visual recordings files. And document it. Also reinforcement for the door.
Thank you
I've been kidnapped 3 times in one year. Let me tell you. Don't fall for the guilt trips. Take action IMMEDIATELY! I'm lucky to be alive and don't tolerate any creepy behavior whatsoever these days.
Umkay so be a stalker 🤷🏾♀️ stalking is not a power move & it's shameful regardless. Fulfill your purpose of stalking & stop trying to taunt people about their personal business that you discover from invading their privacy. Your stalking trumps whatever you attempt to shame them about. Duh.
Someone got called out for harassing me & still trying to make it seem normal by gathering a gang of accomplices to help. It's weird & embarrassing behavior. Get over it. Nobody in my life will ever keep my interest if they participate in violating my privacy. You shouldn't want to know what I'm doing 24/7 & I shouldn't have to defend myself in arguments that spawn from a stalker being in their feelings about things they shouldn't even know about.
Stalkers have way too much audacity. I can't imagine being one yet trying to make their target feel guilty for not accepting their distorted reality. Go take care of your families & stop trying to justify harassing me since 2010 because you thought you would reap the benefits of being a weirdo.
Do what you got to & take your L 🤷🏾♀️ stalking is nothing to boast about. It's disgusting & childish behavior from a bunch of wannabe bullies who can't even help themselves.
Stalking is degrading & I would only expect it from an enemy. Anybody expecting any other reactions from me need to take medication & be secluded from society.
I said what I said ✌🏽Now go back into hiding & stop competing for brownie points
I’ve been cyberstalked for almost a year
Hi. Cyberstalking is often very difficult to deal with. Depending on how they do it, it may help if you put email filters up to block them and make all your social media accounts private. Interesting RUclips handle you have. Is that related to the stalking?
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing absolutely it is.
Have you ever heard of DEWs or Directed Energy Weapons? This is a way narcissists use technology to stalk targets/ victims
Research Directed Energy Weapons or DEWs
Same it’s been 6 years for me
Thank you my friend
So my cousin is very beautiful and she has a stalker now as in very recently 2 weeks. She got a restraining order but he said, "why are you not wearing the ring I bought you" in a text. They dated a year. Anyways, I'm worried about her safety. I live like 300 miles away. So, I physically can't be there and her new bf is always on business trips. I want to go kick his ass or something but that's really not an option.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. It can be frustrating when you are far away and cannot physically help. Restraining orders are a start and do help with lesser abusers. But they are not a bullet proof vest. I would suggest your cousin to install good security locks, strengthen the doors and frames so they cannot easily be kicked in, install lights outside the property if possible, install security camera, as well as look at her own personal safety. She can maybe consult with a security expert to help her lessen her risk of being attacked. Also look at online security such as change bank card pins, online passwords especially for your email and banking login, and make social media profiles private. It will help to record and report all violations of the restraining order to the police, as it can be used in the future if she wants to take more legal actions.
Thankyou for your video ❤ very informative 😊
You’re welcome.
Thank you for the information
You're welcome.
It is of my pure opinion, that lodges are tools that are being used to further stalking activities. They need to be investigated by the department of justice.
Bring stalked for asking a question on someones video! Its so weird how delusional some people can be! Got advice, but looking to take more active action!
You did a Great Job, I learned all of this the hard way! Thank You.
Thank you. I hope this will help others not to need to learn it the hard way.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing Amen!!!
This is excellent video. Most videos aren't this good
Thank you.
Ive been being stalked for ever a year now. Every time i leave my house I'm followed they work at my new job and my last job and it started at my house. Its a police officer multiple actually. And their extended ramily and friends. Im too smart to run to the cops without evidence since it is a cop. They know i know and i know they know. Since ive never broke any laws to warrant this. ever especially at my new house. In my home town a block from my moms. where i grew up. Not a felon or anything of any kind. Im followed EVERYWHERE! Im not scared anymore aside to not knowing the extent of this qnd being followed every timeni leave my house. I know at thus point multiple cops live in my neighborhood and i can id what is prolly their kids and what not. Started trying to get pics of licence plated and they noticed and changed how they follow because they would be waiting for me to get out of work. I have so much to say i cant write it all. I told my family they don't take me seriously except my sister. Yet what can i do when its cops? Excuse me pigs. Not real cops.
Hi. Sorry that you are experiencing this kind of stalking. As a norm. Stalking is difficult to prove because stalkers have so many rights. And when it is a police officer it is often harder because they know the law better and have even more rights to follow you. Not trying to scare you. But if you do want to take action. It may be best to go to a police station in another town or city. As cops often are reluctant to prosecute their own and are more likely not to believe you or just bury the report or evidence. Not saying they are corrupt. But they know there may come nothing of it. While they still have to work with that officer and rely on that officer to have their back and possibly save their life one day. The rules totally changes when the stalker is a police officer. If you can. Speak to a competent lawyer who can help you in what evidence you need and what actions you can take.
If you aren't 100% sure that a family member will respect your privacy then don't give them information either.
Hi. Yes. Unfortunately family members are often the people who hurt you the most. Some will on purpose give your information out, while others do it because they just don’t care to keep your information private. However, even if you trust your family. Some are careless and talk too much or share information you give them without even thinking.
Thank you so much mate
You’re welcome
i am begging for help i have tried all resources and this hacker stalker is so unhinged !! i bought new phones and changed my number and she somehow gets in them!! she is now using my number to make accounts pretending to be me all over and she says i am the cause!!'!! she does not think she is the stalker at all! she has been smearing me all over and now she goes and plays the victim while SHE is the criminal !! it makes me not want to live i don't know what to do as she will not stop !!
Hi. I am not sure I understand how she can make accounts using only your phone number. Do you not need like an id or social security check to open accounts? How do the people at the store verify they have the right person? Making accounts in someone else’s name is fraud. You will need to file criminal charges of identity theft against her as well as fraud. I would suggest you get legal help here.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing i can see i am not believed. as i expected
Hi, I do believe you. And am trying to help. But i am in South Africa and do not know how your laws work that allow a person to make accounts with only your phone number. I have only the information you provide and am trying to understand your situation better.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing thank you and i am sorry i ranted . it has gotten me emotionally drained
No worries. I understand it would be stressful for you. Can you tell me a bit more about the accounts they create. Are they like online forms you fill in? Because if so it may be that these accounts send a code to your phone number. If they have access to your phone to see the code or had access and was able to install a spyware app or cloned your SIM card it would be easy for them to get the activation codes send by the websites.
Stalkers are now being caught, and turning in other Community Stalkers Anonymously.
Thanks this video was very helpful violent ex is a stalker and stalks my family and even my psychologist very distressed. I wont attend my lgbt group as im afraid i will put them in danger. I wake in panic despite living in care home thats hidden he turns up at my parents randomly. He hasnt done it since we broke up but have recieved phone calls.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Sorry that you are experiencing being stalked. Glad that you found the video helpful. Hope that it can be resolved quickly so you can enjoy your life again.
@NarcissisticAbuseHealing fortunately it turned out to be a scam call and false alarm when me and counsellor looked at records. Everything OK thankfully 😊.
There's a few possibly was family I think as well, they despised any goals, and intentionally uses anyone anything that was important to me to ruin, they also using " friend cop's in my case no hopes they wouldn't do nothing, eight years later, the rotten work together for wickedness together
I don't need to think I'm smarter than everyone else... I just need to know I'm right! Fortunately, I'm not in a position where I'm terribly needy.
How to deal with strangers gang stalking over more than 10 towns and cities. How about when you go to a certain place almost everyday, and everyday there are 3 people coming from 3 directions every day when you go there. WHOEVER IS BEHIND IT IS VERY CLEVER, BECAUSE THEY SEND TOTALLY DIFFERENT PEOPLE AS GROUP OF 3 EVERYDAY, SO YOU WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO DETECT IT EXCEOT THAT THEY COME FROM THE 3 DIRECTIONS EVERYDAY.
Is this for the Uk or USA cause it’s ridiculous to get help in the UK and not all stalkers want a romantic relationship sometimes it’s control or revenge
And I mean get police to help. Plus lawyers are expensive
I been stalked online and in my private life...I now show how poor I am just in case my bank info is the target!😂 And transfer place to place I mean ugly places so they gets tired following me to all the yucky places I've been to.there is nothing here from me. Am poor and ugly. I'm not yet taking a proper action,maybe I should now so they leave me alone.
Thank you :)
You're welcome.
Not all stalking victims know their stalkers! And not all cases are domestic. Neighbors, and coworkers are common too. Women also stalk just as much as men but it's under reported. Women who stalk other women also and its often driven by envy
I think that the reason why it's usually women who are the focal point as victims is because unfortunately women are often the victims of intimate relationship violence and are statistically at higher risk of serious harm when leaving their abusers. Women are generally the most common targets of stalkers, usually by a man. Not always, but often. But yes, a stalker can absolutely be a neighbor, a co worker or just someone who the victim dated briefly.
She’s desperate for street cred
Police in my area ARE in with criminals.
Hi. Unfortunately police are not perfect and it can happen that they do not do they job. Or are corrupt. A police station’s professionalism relies a lot on the station commander. It can also happen that in small communities the police know and may be friends with the perpetrators and do not want to arrest them. It may be necessary to go to a police station in a different town or state to get help. In that case you may need to have proof that the local police station is reluctant to act. It is not fair. But it is unfortunately how things sometimes are.
I was stalked and brutally assaulted by a woman who looked like a clerk at the police station who verbally harassed me several years ago, when I went there to ask questions about filing a restraining order. She was verbally abusive several years ago. Then 2 1/2 years later, lady is casing my vehicle & home. She attacked me filming me calling me a Karen and assaulted me. I walked away. She chased me 40+ feet grabbed me from behind and smashed my head into the pavement multiple times. I bled out losing about 2 liters of blood.
The dispatcher was immediately disrespectful to the business owner who phoned 911 on my behalf.
40 minutes on scene the police refused to take my statement. But delayed the ambulance from taking me to the hospital by over ten minutes.
Some in dispatch and in the police in Palo Alto are criminals. This was a hit on my life by a police clerk.
They routinely commit 136.1 infractions to intimidate and dissuade victim/ witness from making police reports on criminal activity.
Someone who is on payroll at the Palo Alto police department pay other people to harass and spray toxic chemicals on my vehicle. I don’t bother to report it because the police are behind it and 136.1.
The b & e my vehicle, frequently. And do cosmetic damage daily to harass me.
I have been sexually assaulted and the police harassed me for 9 hours at the hospital.
I BLOCKED HIM ON MY PHONE ! Than he calls and leaves voicemails from other random numbers its been going on for months..( help
@@user-bw1ij2tm5f hi. Sorry that you are experiencing being staked. It is unfortunately difficult to get a stalker to stop. You will have to save those voice messages and take them to the police when you have enough and get a restraining order against him. Which he will probably ignore. Then you need to report that to the police with proof so they can take action. Often it is easier to change your phone number and do not give it out to people you do not trust.
I did get a solicitor to start the process of an injunction as the police did nothing! I gave the solicitor all the video evidence of verbal abuse, threats to me and my pets, damage to my house, directing cameras into my home, following me seconds after I leave the house and assault. The police contacted my solicitor and told him that they would arrest him as they say he was harassing my stalker!!! Am left with a shell of a life, where every time I leave my house is a military exercise. I've made sure that I never reacted to my stalker, never responded when he yelled at me. The police are beyond useless, they are criminals themselves.
Idk what a solicitor is. But yes, disengage from communication of any kind without a lawyer or law enforcement. Stay safe! 🙏
Police didn't help me.😮
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Sorry that you could not find help from the police. Unfortunately that does happen. It can be hard to prove stalking at times and get help.
Same here. I had to be very, very persistent calling and reaching out to different staff members at the police station to finally be taken seriously.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing Thank you.
All my exes are stalkers but my ex husband yes I had to get cops involved. It is crazy he had a Judge and cops involved in his abuse was really sick 😪.They all abused me even a place I had lived at for twelve years called Faimeadoe Townhome hope no one never go through what is really called Sedition 🙏🙏🙏
Gee I'm really really sorry. That's awful. 😞. You have us on your side. Keep talking. Talk to anyone who'll listen. Go to the papers, document document document. Be suspicious,but not too suspicious. I'll pray for you for real. God bless you, and I hope that your stalker meets justice fast,with a heavy dose of karma.
Tired of this madness this person are doing to me and my family.
Hi. Sorry about the abuse you are experiencing due to a stalker. It’s unfortunately often hard to get them to stop as they often have more rights than you. And some don’t care about the police or consequences.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing Hi. Why is a person stalking me and my family, why me? I have been burned out.
@@ellenberg7961 hi. I would only be guessing why given the limited information. Have they not made direct contact with you? Or in any way made their intentions known? Stalkers are often placed into one of several groups. This video may be of some help in what group they may fit and what their possible intentions are. The 5 Types Of Stalkers And Why They Do It
ruclips.net/video/jSbCP1MzUZs/видео.html
Have talking with the police today and the police station.
They are broke & lazy
I was stalked that it started a few days ago
I got a picture and that's it
😮th as nk you gracias😮
I do not even know their real names for oop (order of protection) now they have a badge so I'm lost.
Dude, my stalker loves me
Hi. If your stalker really loved you. They would allow you to live your life the way you want. And without them interfering in it.
Who cares?
What if you don't know where the stalker live??
Hi. That is a very good question. And is often the case, especially if it is an online stalker. If the person stalks you in person, then you can document when and where they often appear. And then report it to police and try to get them to investigate. You can also try to get video footage by setting up cameras, asking neighbors who have security cameras, or even talking to shop owners if their security cameras cover the parking area so you can find a car license plate that you can give to police. Online is even harder. There you may need to get a specialist involved to backtrack I.P. addresses in emails. For social media you can try contacting the platform, such as Facebook and report the person. And then block them. A recent feature i saw on some platforms is that you can block the person with an option to also block any future accounts they make with a new email address.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing thanks so much for your response. I really appreciate it. I'm dealing with a ghost app and a hidden admin on all my devices. It tracking my location,then he finds out my new place and harrassers and vandalized the place. It's crazy. I can't afford a new phone either. Sigh. But thanks.
Am being stalked by my dad he is obsessed with My poo its the Strangest thing ever he say he want 2 know am safe courses he will say that
You could tell them that you love them ? 👍
@@noveltycrusade I suspect that would make them stalk you more instead of less. Unless reverse psychology works on them.
They’re not stalking you for the mean things you said about them in the 1st place. They only stalk people out of romanticism & rejection while their real enemies are relieved
@@vodkavuitton What an interesting perspective
stalking is not illegal in Philippines, generally
Actually stalking is illegal in the Philippines. The Anti-Stalking Law (Republic Act No. 9262) is a legislation that aims to protect individuals from being followed, harassed, or monitored by another person. It makes stalking a criminal offense punishable by law. When found guilty punishment can range from 100K pesos to 500K pesos as well as jail time.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealingthey might mean its functionally legal, I.e no one ever gets in trouble for it
@@RandomName-my2uo people do get sentenced. A quick google search shows the following report. “Between 2011 and 2020, police recorded 25,130 stalking offences (about 2,500 per year), and courts sentenced offenders for 6,832 stalking offences (about 680 per year).” The number of convictions may be low to those reported. But it is a pattern all over as unfortunately many victims report stalking without adequate evidence. A problem that have victims believe nothing gets done to stalkers. The comment stated that stalking is not illegal. That is factually incorrect and may affect victim’s into not trying to report a stalker. Reporting a stalker even if not convicted, do scare some stalker into stopping. Police and courts also in some cases give warnings and not a conviction. Which do deter some stalkers.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing fair enough, I'm not an expert, I've just come across people saying things are legal online when they mean things are functionally legal 👍🏻
Use DuckDuckGo browser. Use VPN and password generator..
my stalker has gotten through all of those! if they are desperate to get what they want they will do it