Stalker Psychology

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

Комментарии • 206

  • @heelscommando
    @heelscommando 11 лет назад +76

    "They are, therefore, impossible to get rid of. Many of them are narcissists and, thus, lack empathy, feel omnipotent and immune to the consequences of their actions." Yes. This would be mine...

  • @stardustsparkles22
    @stardustsparkles22 Год назад +22

    How anyone can literally terrorize and try to kill their target , and then honestly feel like a victim while attempting to have target murdered is beyond me. Sigh 🥺

  • @fojiganfojigane9016
    @fojiganfojigane9016 6 лет назад +49

    i hate stalkers they are out there like the pedos i truely hate them disgusting why would someone waste their time followig someone 24 hours like the one who hacks me and stalks me

  • @ladylove1335
    @ladylove1335 5 лет назад +39

    Tell me about it. It's been 6 years and he is still stalking me. What a nut job.

    • @JoeBuck207
      @JoeBuck207 5 лет назад +2

      Stop leading him on and speaking to him.

    • @june-df8ol
      @june-df8ol 4 года назад +4

      Same. This year is the 7th year. I have been ignoring him for years but he has been bothering my friends and ask them about me now

    • @justamereperson
      @justamereperson 3 года назад +5

      @@JoeBuck207 shut it tony- no one needs your shite rn

    • @VasilikiJohnny
      @VasilikiJohnny 3 года назад +4

      My beast for 8 years. Completely no contact since i left him. We were dating for about 2 months. Creepy sick monster.

    • @ruthchristos7174
      @ruthchristos7174 3 года назад

      Is he from Egypt???

  • @bambishiraeth318
    @bambishiraeth318 8 лет назад +39

    Yes, so true about their denial and dehumanizing behavior. They suffer inexorably from racial and cultural barriers, while having no empathy, yet entitled enough to feel omnipotence. How could people be so ignorant and not realize that people who stalk have deep psychological problems?

    • @ladylovesherlord
      @ladylovesherlord 4 года назад

      Right

    • @elisamasilvaalmeida8798
      @elisamasilvaalmeida8798 2 года назад

      Verdade

    • @macnchessplz
      @macnchessplz 2 года назад

      Bc they don’t think they have psychological problems. They feel entitled to do it and are most likely vindictive to their core. Vaknin is right, it’s just a step away from a physical act of violence. If there wasn’t a psychological problem? They would be stalking to begin with.

    • @lisapulleng3701
      @lisapulleng3701 Год назад +1

      Exactly

  • @bambishiraeth318
    @bambishiraeth318 8 лет назад +58

    The rejected are obsessed with stalking me. Gosh, they are so deluded that they think we're "friends", when really they are so repulsive and have no clue about boundaries. They seriously need to seek psychological help. Sam, please help them.

    • @SEAGOIL
      @SEAGOIL 5 лет назад +6

      Bambi's Hiraeth lol you talk about them like they’re creatures below humanity.

    • @mazeemadaline3091
      @mazeemadaline3091 5 лет назад +2

      @@SEAGOIL ikr. You need to understand and help them.

    • @Flatleava
      @Flatleava 5 лет назад +2

      They mind is not learning like others....

    • @joannedavis1991
      @joannedavis1991 4 года назад +2

      Caleb K they are!

  • @markferris4998
    @markferris4998 8 лет назад +38

    I was stalked for from 2008-2015,they sabotaged my relationships they made up stories and told people to stay away from me.,hacked into my computer,put spy ware on my cell phone,got my fired from 2 jobs,got me kicked out of school,bankrupted me.
    They seem to get everyone around you to go along with their games and harassed you they followed me from California and chased me all the way to Texas and the harassment continued,they try to communicate with you through other people saying thing like "Were not going to let you start a new life" and other terrifying comments like "If you keep talking Sh..t about people were going to come get you and f,,k your shit up>
    They get people to pose as romantic interests and come on to you at work and tried to turn it around saying that i was the one who come on to them and tried to get me fired at 4 of my jobs in a row.I went through 7 jobs trying to evade them but they seem to track me down and start the harassment over again. they followed me back to California and they found me and started the harassment again, The books are rite "they will never stop:.
    The Police thought that I was the crazy one and that I am just being paranoid and should see a shrink and offered no help at all.
    You cannot run, you cannot hide,they will track you down pretending that they are so worried about you and all of the things you are going through and just want help, that is they want to find you and continue doing what they have been doing "Terrorize and harass you " sabotage your relationships,your jobs ect.. what ever they can do to keep you terrorized..
    Still being stalked

    • @markferris4998
      @markferris4998 8 лет назад +2

      I don't know who is doing it

    • @riskingeuphoria
      @riskingeuphoria 8 лет назад +1

      +Mark Ferris I'm kinda interested, to me, it seems like you should have proof you can give to the police.
      the idea of people actually being influenced by this person seems to me like you could have either become paranoid through the stalking or are paranoid. no offence, but if you have tried in any way to convince these people or insinuate that they should try and find out for themselves what this person is like, I would at least advise something like that
      (I have no experience in this area I'm just doing it for a part of my psychology degree)
      but if it is this bad I don't think you should ever consider running away, thinking about confrontation and trying to sort that out, even outside of the police through legal means cameras, showing the spyware and involving a psychological assessment of yourself would all probably be helpful

    • @markferris4998
      @markferris4998 8 лет назад +6

      im working with ronda sanders with the STAT unit here in los angeles,i have filed complaints with the labor board and haad any property damage as of yet but im afraid that it will esculate i have witnesses but is is going slow because i haven't been assaulted or had property damage im affraid that whey will blow up my car or try to kill me. Im not paranoid but this may start making me paranoid with is an actual symptom from being stalked along with depression.I already hired some one Privately,,he says that i am the bait

    • @riskingeuphoria
      @riskingeuphoria 8 лет назад +4

      Mark Ferris yeah you can get serious ptsd from this, i'm only just covering it in my education but good luck man i hope things go alright.
      What i'm partially interested in though is how they get people against you, It seems like the main problem is a battle of prejudice, so if they exist, a general psychological assessment would be useful, because that way you can show either the prejudicial police, or some random person influenced by the stalkers lies that you are not the bad guy, if they have been coerced.

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад +2

      Andreea Damask I got stalked by 3 gay men. Now I have ptsd. Sometimes life just sucks for certain people. While others have a good time like models or Hooters calendar girls.

  • @VividYouth
    @VividYouth 6 лет назад +21

    For me i know I'm being watched and followed without the stalker breaking the law by approaching me. Nothing I can do leagally in my home country. Very creepy. It's been going on for a decade with this junkie who is a narcissist

    • @tessalogan586
      @tessalogan586 5 лет назад +2

      OmG me too i been stalked 10 years by drug addicts

  • @marti-greciaodalyz5785
    @marti-greciaodalyz5785 10 лет назад +50

    this has just proven to me-what i had recognized was this kind of psychological stalker.
    since this has occurred to me, i'd like to raise awareness that these types of creatures-who i believe are cowardly as well-will stop at nothing to prove that they have a reason to harass you in all ways possible-they respect no boundaries, AT ALL!. strange thing though, it is not even the person they want-it is more their fear of losing at their game.
    i'd say, they can spot the vulnerable, as a Lioness can spot a wounded gazelle. however, if they err, for so monumental is their arrogance-that they will not recognize someone who is strong AND WILL GIVE THEM BACK THE PSYCHOLOGICAL LICKING THEY HAVE ALWAYS DESERVED! unfortunately, they choose to "ASSUME" - which means making the mistake of making "an arse of you and me" though unrealized in their minds.
    the Internet, which I BELIEVE IS SO POORLY REGULATED is a hunting ground for these perverts. Or the proverbial barrel so full of fish-such a creature cannot help but hook as many as he'd want.
    one saving grace: because of the assumption these practiced know-it-all so generally make-should they meet a truly strong person, it infuriates them, that someone dared win over their game. their anger turns into a malignant and manipulative, destructive rage.
    if you have come across one of these abominations/human mutation-get the heck away from that..ah.."person"? because there is no truth to them, at all. these are mountains of deception, though fortunately they are as well; shallow and hollow inside...believe me no one needs to even acknowledge at all-something SO INFERIOR AND INSIGNIFICANT.
    MOVE ON!

    • @marti-greciaodalyz5785
      @marti-greciaodalyz5785 10 лет назад +7

      LOOK AT IT-BE INFORMED AS TO WHO THE ENEMY IS-EVEN IF AND WHEN DISGUISED!
      JUST WATCH THE DAMNED VIDEO-YOU'LL SEE FOR YOURSELVES.

    • @andreeadamask6585
      @andreeadamask6585 6 лет назад +6

      I was always Outspoken, Brave and ”these cockroaches” choosed me and constantly are in some sor of ”competition” with me in my own life! Its Ridiculous”! but try to tell them that.
      Its MENTAL ILLNESS
      I was chose as a ”Challenge” because of their mental illness man.
      I have boundaries, strong ones, THEY are the ones who dont utter LOSERS and FAILURES in life

    • @ladylovesherlord
      @ladylovesherlord 4 года назад +1

      @@andreeadamask6585 I agree

    • @josuemc93
      @josuemc93 4 года назад +1

      I thought I was alone. Blessings sisters.

    • @elisamasilvaalmeida8798
      @elisamasilvaalmeida8798 2 года назад

      Pior é ter o celular hackeado e ser perseguido pelos narcisistas, e de repente até psicopatas por ele...
      Eu vivo isso em vida!

  • @gigi9301
    @gigi9301 3 года назад +10

    Thank You for this concise review of Stalking Behaviors. I was trying to figure out when you define the line of "bothering me", to "stalking behavior". With my case, I believe it's in the gray area right now, but I want to be ready in case the situation is escalated. A male friend and I went out on a handful of dates a year ago and the last time we spoke, he wanted to take me out to dinner THAT NIIGHT; when I declined and said I cannot this very evening and I feel that is giving me the "bum rush/being pushy". Then we stopped communication; then fast forward to this year, I put one of my houses up for sale and the very next day he texted about seeing the house was on the market because he drove by that road. I had never personally shown him this house that I own, and I don't remember mentioning it to him. I did not live there last year, and I don't live there now. I ignored this text, and then two more, then his third text he said Well, I guess you are ignoring me...Good Luck. I did not respond to any of it. Then yesterday, he attempted to call me on the phone. I ignored the call and he did not leave a message, so I am feeling this is an escalation, and hoping if I continue to ignore he will get tired and stop. He owns his own business and has a lot of things to do besides give me unwanted attention; nevertheless, his tone seems to have changed over the course of just the three texts. I''m keeping them just in case he escalates, so I will have proof in the future, but I really just want to delete the whole thing.

    • @icyfire6879
      @icyfire6879 3 года назад +3

      Better keep those texts! Watch for any other texts or calls from strange new numbers too. Creepers like to switch up numbers. I only have 8 from my stalker atm

    • @musicandeye
      @musicandeye 2 года назад +1

      Best advice to continue not answering.

  • @jason8445
    @jason8445 4 года назад +22

    How common is same-gender stalking? I'm being stalked by a guy at my gym. He follows me throughout the gym, stares at me, looks at me when he thinks I'm not paying attention, walks into my field of vision, works out right next to me, and parks near me. Last Memorial Day he followed my wife to Meijer's. It's very unsettling.

    • @ericarice4588
      @ericarice4588 2 года назад +5

      Please consider a protection order?

    • @jason8445
      @jason8445 2 года назад +10

      @@ericarice4588 We changed gyms. Problem solved.

    • @ericarice4588
      @ericarice4588 2 года назад +4

      @@jason8445 good! 😅

  • @LauraArendt
    @LauraArendt 11 лет назад +25

    I have a female envious stalker. I don't know how to deal with her: she has significant inferiority issues and insecurities and she wants to imitate me. I don't mind being people's role model, but this one wants to imitate me in order to replace me and push me aside. I never did anything to her, only protect her when everybody ostracized her. I wonder what kind of disorder she has.

  • @sledge6693
    @sledge6693 8 лет назад +39

    As an individual who has shamefully done this to an ex-girlfriend & come out the other side, I'd like to give my perspective. In my mind it was all about possession of (what I deemed at the time) as my 'only' source of happiness. I have OCD & there is an element which makes you feel 110% COMPELLED to seek forgiveness, even for the most trivial of things (even 'thoughts'). This with a relationship which stressed honesty at all costs was really the perfect storm. It was never about hurting this person, It was about rejection by a person I saw as 'Perfect' or 'Godly' & looking for this person to constantly validate me...

    • @ysabellabravetalk
      @ysabellabravetalk 7 лет назад +17

      Do you recognise yet that you were probably hurting her and other people, regardless of your feelings, your 'perspective? If not - you haven't 'come out' the other side, mate.

    • @sledge6693
      @sledge6693 7 лет назад +15

      Yes, I do realize that. This was in no way a justification of these past acts, but an effort to explain to others the delusional/irrational thought process involved. There is no excuse, I was wrong & have moved forward.

    • @ЧёрныйСнег-х3ш
      @ЧёрныйСнег-х3ш 7 лет назад +8

      Ysabella Brave Yeah but what he's trying to say is he didn't mean to hurt anybody. I'm getting stalked by a neighbour at the moment. I'm a guy and it's annoying the fuck out of me.

    • @shawnaj8394
      @shawnaj8394 7 лет назад +3

      Question..did you just spy on her or do other things? My stalker hacks my phones, edits my pics on my phone to look worse, blocks calls and texts from friends and family by putting them on a block List, blocks social media access and notifications.. just horribly malicious, nasty stalker.

    • @shawnaj8394
      @shawnaj8394 6 лет назад +2

      Sledge No you have not Michael. You're still doing the same thing

  • @carolinak8300
    @carolinak8300 8 лет назад +13

    Thank you for your video. Ive had the last mentioned type of stalker for over a decade. It was more bizarre because he was just an acquaintance. Recently in his last episode of unrelenting harassment the police were able to arrest him and he was charged with felony stalking & harassment. Im trying to understand the psychological aspect of it because its never made any sense to me as i only interacted with him to reiterate " leave me alone..dont contact me" etc yet he continued to find elaborate ways to bother and threaten me.

    • @ЧёрныйСнег-х3ш
      @ЧёрныйСнег-х3ш 7 лет назад +1

      Carolina K My stalker just peeps at me all the time. I'm a guy and he's a guy. We're both married and I only spoke to him once. I ignore him completely because he's really weird and arrogant. For 8 months now he's been peeping into my windows. WTF

  • @ava198
    @ava198 4 года назад +16

    I dont get it stalking takes way too much energy

  • @emilybourie443
    @emilybourie443 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you! This is the video where Sam mentions stalkers typically have high IQs and advanced degrees. I have had 2 in the past year and this is the profile. One, very malevolent, I got to stop by inducing paranoia, but the other is too smart and I've arrived at the point of accepting this as my new normal: my emails are being read and he's even, repeatedly, deleted my Google favorite places he didn't approve of. At least he doesn't try to frighten and has never been malevolent. Nosey, I guess? I think he sees himself as "looking out for and guiding me".

  • @shaunm1314
    @shaunm1314 7 лет назад +6

    Why would a middle age man stalk me? This is absolutely crazy and it is so annoying. The cocaine abuse just makes it so much easier to bother me. The guy is nuts!

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад +1

      Shaun M I was 19 but got stalked by a 40 year old gay guy. Some people never develop adult brains no matter how old they are.

  • @sula9190
    @sula9190 2 года назад +5

    they are obsessed and deranged ! the stalker who is harassing me is self absorbed and does not think at all she is a stalker !! so in her mind hacking all my cell phones , making fake accounts to join same groups i am in , sending texts at 3:am and sitting outside my house is not stalking!! twisted snake !

  • @lynncraig6151
    @lynncraig6151 6 лет назад +7

    I've been stalked ever since I got on a chatline (owned by the stalkers) who also work for a phone company. It's a family of sadistic siblings and cousins who work together .At first it was sending me pornography on my cell phone , threatening to come to my home and rape me....saying they knew where I was at, that moment....in the basement. One , Randy jumped my fence and I found him prowling around my place in the daytime less than two weeks after I got on that chatline of theirs. They needed to make sure I lived alone and was easily victimized. They didn't want to run into a husband or boyfriend defending my interests. He came again at night ,knocking on my window .... watching me. His brother lives a few blocks away. They are greedy and need money. They found out I owned my property and now it is willed to them to keep them happy and at Bay. One offered to pay my $54.00 homeowners insurance a few years back in exchange for the title to my place. I pay much more now but I would never be stupid enough to give the title over in exchange for paying a monthly bill less than $100 . That was really going for the "gold" on his part . I thought he was caring but he just wanted control of the place sooner than later....not wanting to wait till I died. They only come around when I tell them I'm in the hospital and need my pets taken care of. That will change ....my dog cries now and whines around him. I caught one putting up a camera on a pole on my property. I'm sure they have put cameras up in my house too while I was gone. One has taunted me ,letting me know when I was eating or taking a bath....She bragged that after I'm dead they will build a nice house here and put up a nice new fence . This will change. My property is worth a lot of money and with an increased income .....I will hire a caretaker , hopefully that I can trust ...who is not waiting for me to die and get everything. One has bugged my phone and lets me know that they are aware of everything I do or where I go. I 've caught them following me into stores ,to Dr. Appointments and to the library to hack on computers to watch my activities. They hacked into my medical records .The hospital warned me that my records were compromised .When one came to the ER....the Dr. Asked him if he was a relative or friend sitting there. He said no to relative but the Dr. asked 3 times , not letting up before he barely acknowledged ,in a whisper, begrudgingly he was a "friend".The Dr. didn't want to talk about my medical condition in front of him if , he was a stranger. But "D" really didn't care one way or another ...he could hack into my records later and find out what the diagnosis was. Once a stalker or stalkers zero in on you ,you live and die in their presence ......unless someone comes to the rescue....or you can afford to rescue yourself .BTW....If even one of them admitted to stalking me, stealing my privacy and hopefully gaining my property.....I , pathetically would forgive them. But they can't admit to doing it because they are racking up felonies in their behaviors. The man protects his brother and sister and cousin.They have each other's back . It's all about themselves ,protecting themselves while preying on someone , they think is alone and vulnerable . The sadistic ,thief can't admit to stealing ,in this case my privacy .If they gave me the Honesty they crudely demand out of me .....I would let it go as the seedy side of Human behavior . I have a Diary too. I've recorded everything. It will live on. I'm very forgiving....but they have to admit to their stalking for me to forgive them. BTW everything that you said in describing them is uncannily correct from middle age to some educated , to feeling entitled to invade my privacy. The only thing they haven't done is become violent . I'm sorry this is so long....

    • @elisamasilvaalmeida8798
      @elisamasilvaalmeida8798 2 года назад

      Eu vivo o mesmo, e até agora não usaram a violência ou tentaram tirar minha vida, mas sou perseguida também

  • @Ace-kt2dv
    @Ace-kt2dv 6 лет назад +6

    Ive been stalked by some guy who also molested me.....i WAS friends with this creep but i just gave up on the friendship by ignoring him.
    ..since then.....he stalks me by purposely walking in front of my classroom just to have a look....once he spotted me glaring at him and he ran away gleefully.....what a sicko

  • @အနာဂတ္ျမန္မာ
    @အနာဂတ္ျမန္မာ 5 лет назад +47

    when people stalked by men they get help but stalker woman no one want to help the victim

    • @lovelyrose6817
      @lovelyrose6817 3 года назад +13

      အနာဂတ္ ျမန္မာ it’s because unfortunately women are seen as less of a threat to society, therefore nobody really pays any mind until it’s too late

    • @valerieickstadt4044
      @valerieickstadt4044 3 года назад +14

      I am beeing stalked by my ex boyfriend since almost 10 years, I moved 3 times. I am getting emails with death threats, violent fantasies and insults mixed with declarations of his love. He was at my job and defamed me, so much that I lost my job. He harassed my neighbors and threatened them to stop having contact with me. He insulted and harassed my parents. He once befriended with and school friend of mine and instructed him to make contact with me to get informations for him.
      The Police is doing nothing, because "nothing" has happend. But the saddest part about this is that most people don't take that serious. "just ignore it" or "don't take that serious" are phrases I heard like a thousand times.
      With stalking noone, besides celebrities, gets help.

    • @jini08taeki
      @jini08taeki 3 года назад +5

      When women stalk they get away with it. When men stalk they get jailed, called monster and a huge criminal record and employers won't accept with a stalking record. Women are treated with high class in our society today and it's fucked up. Men get all the abuse enough already we fight wars and for our countries yet we still get penalised for stalking women and hurting them and they think it's okay for the women stalkers to not inflict the same pain on the male victims like we enjoy that. Double standards

    • @JulyManon
      @JulyManon 2 года назад

      @@valerieickstadt4044 let me know if you need someone to talk to, moments like these you need people to talk to.

    • @nv_chino
      @nv_chino 9 месяцев назад

      Yea

  • @ReturnOfTheJ.D.
    @ReturnOfTheJ.D. 13 лет назад +7

    You know that scene in Taxi Driver where the black man is walking aggressively through the streets at night screaming "I'll kill her"? I know a well-known narcissist who started laughing when he saw that. He clearly didn't "feel his pain" in any ways at all, and that scene was an obvious example of extreme anger and hurt. No-one else I know would react like that to that scene.

  • @kellyroberts2243
    @kellyroberts2243 7 лет назад +5

    I have been stalked by a Narc for 5 years. I have never met him but he involves so many others in his delusions about what I am meant to be saying or doing , either positive or negative. I now have complete strangers who think I have a bond with this stranger and am upsetting him or being cruel to him as he says and they stalk me to and harass me. They refuse to admit I do not know him as he has made things up for 5 years! In his smears, I have abused him, stalked him etc, all of the things he has done to me! I ignore him and ignore others but his fantasy still goes on to this day with new people all off the time being asked to watch me and telling me so

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад +1

      Kelly Roberts I'm a male but I got stalked by gay guys so I know your pain. One of them was a 40 year old man! He was a loser though. They all were

    • @donnakordestanchi313
      @donnakordestanchi313 6 лет назад

      Danielle Nogales ya

    • @tessalogan586
      @tessalogan586 5 лет назад

      How do you cope??

    • @tessalogan586
      @tessalogan586 5 лет назад +1

      I am being stalked too 10 years now and i don't know them personally.

    • @elisamasilvaalmeida8798
      @elisamasilvaalmeida8798 2 года назад

      @@tessalogan586 sou perseguida também por pessoas que não conheço, não conheço pessoalmente também, e fui hackeada, meu psicológico é prejudicado

  • @ladyoftheveil8342
    @ladyoftheveil8342 2 года назад +3

    My ex dated a woman that after he stopped seeing her , she started to stalk us yelling in public. I left him almost two years ago and just happened to see that the female stalker had been arrested for disturbing the peace

  • @samvaknin
    @samvaknin  12 лет назад +6

    Search my channel for the video about Erotomaniac stalker.

  • @bah4006
    @bah4006 4 года назад +3

    It is very true about dehumanising the victim...

  • @-kingloud-6522
    @-kingloud-6522 4 года назад +4

    Its crazy. Im afraid to do anything. Im afraid these people trying to get infos of me. They dont stop. Im afraid to be myself. I always gotta do the opposite. Im tired of it.

  • @emuriddle9364
    @emuriddle9364 5 лет назад +5

    This is why Psych Wards exist.
    But the "professionals" would rather lock up the victims.
    Why?
    Because they're dumb enough to fall for the Stalker's excuses.
    I should know. I got family members who act just like this.

  • @allycatt6243
    @allycatt6243 4 года назад +8

    For my stalker, this is mostly true. Mine is in his mid 20s. He is above average in intelligence, but only has a ninth grade education. This was because he was "too smart for school." But yes, what you are saying about his emotional state and narcissism is very true. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @rossrays695
    @rossrays695 7 лет назад +7

    this happend to me I get stalked this people who stalk someone are losers usually no job addicted alcohol or drugs or sometimes just low lifes don't feel sorry for them cut them off your lifes...I did still stalk me though what a sick losers

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад +2

      ross rays yes stalkers are losers without goals or jobs. They have way too much free time on their hands. I got stalked by gay guys 3 of them.
      They stalked me at their place of work. The only reason they held their jobs down for so long and showed up to work everyday was to STALK ME! Pathetic low lifes. I can't believe people dedicate there whole lifes to stalking complete strangers.

  • @dalemaynor3540
    @dalemaynor3540 8 лет назад +11

    thanks! I'm being stalked by a woman I hardly know and never had any relationship with.
    I'm trying to understand what to do and why this is happening. thanks!
    any resources or recommendations will help!

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  8 лет назад

      +Dale Maynor How to Cope with Stalkers and Paranoids
      vaksam.tripod.com/abuse21b.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abuse21a.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abuse18.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abuse15.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abuse16.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abusefamily14.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abusefamily16.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abusefamily17.html
      vaksam.tripod.com/abusefamily18.html

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 7 лет назад +2

      ignore her don't give her mix signals don't smile

    • @dalemaynor3540
      @dalemaynor3540 7 лет назад +4

      She gone, thanks

  • @ninadthorat7005
    @ninadthorat7005 6 лет назад +7

    is stalking is a disorder like paranoid schizophrenia

  • @newportz06
    @newportz06 7 лет назад +10

    I've come across a stalker before. He would stalk my gf at the time (His Ex) every now and then. It was weird... fortunately with my own research, i was able to find out where he resides and where his family lived. I started to stalk him and vice versa. There were some nights we would stalk each other simultaneously and just gaze at each other from a distance for hours.

  • @itstudent4406
    @itstudent4406 5 лет назад +4

    Very informative !

  • @DizzedMonkey
    @DizzedMonkey 7 лет назад +3

    My grandmas boyfriend stalks me just because im moved out and likes to start drama.
    Im still trying to figure out how to get rid of him. He tries to catch me doing something (im 25 and live alone and my grandmas house is 5 blocks away and I can't afford to move out where she put me atm but plan too asap) So he can tell my grandma to get her all pissed. Kind of want to smack him but he's too disgusting to even look at so- I'm at loss

  • @80AnnaJo
    @80AnnaJo 12 лет назад +3

    Thank you for this video.

  • @ReturnOfTheJ.D.
    @ReturnOfTheJ.D. 12 лет назад +5

    I would have thought Sam was making up a fictitious person a few years ago but I swear, there's people like this, and they are totally driven and defined by it. Also, they never admit it, but everyone knows something is hugely wrong, even people who've known them well for decades. They just can't stop pursuing the supply they can't get for themselves (as in, without outside help from others through their interest in the N). I have no idea if you are one but I suspect you might be cagier if so.

  • @TheCameron9785Instagram
    @TheCameron9785Instagram 8 лет назад +3

    I accidentally stalk a girl at work and scared her how sad:(

  • @ImperfectVegetarian
    @ImperfectVegetarian 6 месяцев назад

    My partner and I have been obsessively stalked and harassed for over 5 years by his ex girlfriend who he left many years back because of her infidelity and controlling behaviours. She’s been in various other relationships since but this does not deter her from continually stalking us. We now feel anxious all the time, not knowing what’s she’s going to do next. It’s beyond scary 😟

  • @Whey2lovely
    @Whey2lovely 9 лет назад +4

    very informative thanks

  • @syrra_pyrr.r3521
    @syrra_pyrr.r3521 2 года назад +2

    How do borderlines react to stalking while being in the relationship, and after leaving her partner (if he continues to stalk her)

  • @StephRobert-sb1dc
    @StephRobert-sb1dc Год назад

    Thank you, Sam.

  • @tc7547
    @tc7547 4 года назад +5

    In some countries... Literally... Everyone is a stalker in some sense or the other simply because they were born male. Harassing unknown women apparently becomes their right & prerogative. And gives their insecure baby sense of self a boost. No wonder such countries top the charts when it comes to crimes against women safety.

  • @AndreaVolkkana
    @AndreaVolkkana 7 лет назад +2

    thank you ! very informative .

  • @Notme811_you
    @Notme811_you 2 года назад +2

    What if you were never in a relationship with them?

  • @Vilissa0
    @Vilissa0 3 месяца назад

    I'm currently being groupstalked, The main narc handler has developed a fixation and dependence on bullying and stalking me, he seems to get a high from playing the “cat-and-mouse” game. Despite moving three times in varying attempts to outdistance him, he has continued to have me surveilled and relentlessly pursued. He wins because it's impossible for me to prove any of this

  • @godlyconsumingfire2526
    @godlyconsumingfire2526 5 лет назад +7

    Instead of hate them please pray for them. They need help.

    • @justamereperson
      @justamereperson 3 года назад +1

      no

    • @jini08taeki
      @jini08taeki 3 года назад +2

      @@justamereperson I hope someone stalks you and you'll see how you feel. I'd pray for them too and wish them to get the help they need

  • @sandrajunghall9725
    @sandrajunghall9725 8 месяцев назад

    My family's stalker is a middle aged female former medical provider that moved to us from three years away and masquerades as an altruistic yogi. Stalkers can take on many personas other than the stereotypes with which we're familiar through fictional horror movies.

  • @marcusturner6361
    @marcusturner6361 Год назад +1

    So true 😢

  • @nikilite7166
    @nikilite7166 7 лет назад +2

    It is what it is..he's stalking me..every minute of every day..he's hacked into my phone..for over a year now..but..I have people he doesn't know about..watching him too..my family and friends won't stop till they see him go to jail .where he belongs..we get closer every day..my sister hired a P.I...I'm done playing ..I been done..my neighbor is a state trooper I been spending time with, and he is " Very Aware" of my situation..I tried to tell him, but he won't listen..so .guess we are just gonna have to Show him .Ahh, Randy...you brought this on yourself..and your gonna pay for it.. hope u enjoy ur little Cell ..💯💯😎

  • @seamusconlan9673
    @seamusconlan9673 Год назад

    You sound like another expert.

  • @annjones5201
    @annjones5201 Год назад +1

    saw larry the lurker today, it had been 4months! i hoped he was dead, but feared he was still watching, i just wasn't seeing him.
    He has a car now, & he keep driving around the block as i walked 4x before i fully noticed, then he rolled down the window & showed himself, he has a beard now & yeah he had that crazy laffing look on his face, as if to say caught you! Stopped telling people about it, they think im delusional, cant blame them, i would too.
    Dont know what his name is, dont know why he does it, but since nov/2020...he has been following me, at least 50% of the time i leave home, which he knows where it is. Once he stood out front dressed kinda like a ninja or some sorta black op soldier wearing what looked like a flack jacket with a water blader & tube that came around so he could drink, or was that a madonna style microphone? Anyways that was last fathers day weekend i actually lost my temper that time & chased him (walked quickly towards him) he left.
    Now i guess he's been trailing me in car, once i caught him videoing me on his phone.
    sound like a nut dont i?
    thats what he wants i think, he just gets off on it.
    Just saying

  • @sashasg11
    @sashasg11 7 лет назад

    very good video thank u

  • @eyeamphree3337
    @eyeamphree3337 9 месяцев назад

    It's all about the chase y'all! Children always want what they can't have 😂😂 keep the game going for as long as you can & never let up. They will move on or crash out so either way they lose 🙃

  • @crystalbratcher30ify
    @crystalbratcher30ify 13 лет назад +1

    @TruTV mine isnt cause he is good at getting away with it .he mostly watches me when i sleep or undress and when i go outside.

  • @ebonysb84
    @ebonysb84 8 лет назад +1

    Can I contact you privately about my situation?

    • @TheBethoc
      @TheBethoc 8 лет назад +1

      he has a website. Just search it.

  • @SherryLaneify
    @SherryLaneify 12 лет назад +2

    yea surely. did you ever visit a university and meet up with really intelligent people? Playing unfair and being so chaotic one doesn't even understand oneself doesn't make one a genius.

  • @battle-angel2027
    @battle-angel2027 5 лет назад +4

    Government stalking?

  • @fckinasshoe17
    @fckinasshoe17 2 года назад +2

    My god.

  • @Sacs.thepsychologynexus
    @Sacs.thepsychologynexus Год назад

    Interesting. Thank you for sharing. I hope you do not mind... we have a psychology channel where we discuss issues such as stalking narcissism psychopathy etc. Any support is greatly appreciated.

  • @ReturnOfTheJ.D.
    @ReturnOfTheJ.D. 12 лет назад +2

    I don't envy you for being one, if you in fact are, because they are addicted to narcissistic supply like heroin, as Sam Vaknin says in other videos. I'd hate to be that dependent on something, especially something as ridiculous as token attention, admiration and adulation from people who I don't even know over the net. I actually know an N who literally bases his life on this foolishness and he's over 50 years old (haas been doing it since the net was invented). Mostly he's hated too, openly.

  • @salvatorem9414
    @salvatorem9414 8 лет назад

    My friend is a girl and she follows me all the time

  • @shalondajackson5216
    @shalondajackson5216 11 лет назад

    mine stalks every night he comes to my house chating i seen him many times but when i wanted to get the cops involved family said if we never seen him before the cops will need some proff i tried hard to catch him i bought an camara i thought yess im gonna get him night came he began talking by my window people think im nuts i also wanted to proff my sanity wasnt gone i ran out there i saw him runing fast and sreaming a strange sound out his mouth haa i was so creeped out my fingers wouldnt move! they swift and scary haa i ll try again these people are nuts !

  • @ninadthorat7005
    @ninadthorat7005 6 лет назад

    are there medicine for such regular stalker without any reason or with reason

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад

      ninad thorat crazy, mentally ill people stalk dude. It's usually a possession thing. I got stalked by 3 gay guys in my life. They for some reason acted like they couldn't be rejected. They acted like REJECTION DIDN'T EXSIST. There heads are like little kids believing In Santa clause and unicorns.

    • @ninadthorat7005
      @ninadthorat7005 6 лет назад

      is there any solution

    • @daniellenogales5452
      @daniellenogales5452 6 лет назад

      ninad thorat there is no solution or cure for insanity Some are born that way.

    • @ninadthorat7005
      @ninadthorat7005 6 лет назад

      thank you for answer but I can say because of these innocent people suffer and they have every right to breathe in an society they live

  • @dswanteck
    @dswanteck 2 года назад

    Bardo no genius. These are the intelligent ones.

  • @Trippydrip246
    @Trippydrip246 6 лет назад +7

    When u have a female stalker and there’s no help lmaooo Jesus Christ

    • @mr.k9735
      @mr.k9735 5 лет назад +1

      I know, it's literally hell on earth.

    • @danielagreen1799
      @danielagreen1799 4 года назад

      You're right.smh.Its wrong to be biased.period.The female thugette is just as dangerous as a a male thug.Look at Jodi Arias.They will kill too.

    • @levimahaffey2608
      @levimahaffey2608 4 года назад +2

      Most don't know it but female stalking is actually very high with women. Women just are not as ballsy as their male counter parts. They use social media friends family an manipulate others into keeping eyes on you. An they will stalk you for decades unaware.

  • @5nereus
    @5nereus 12 лет назад +1

    i would also laugh at a scene like that, i think im a bit narccist but my friend is probobly more narcicistic, i think narccist are the best people because we are smart, even though im probobly not a narcicist i feel like it a bit, but with realisticism. Its just funny that people show empathy to something like a movie, a movie is not real no matter how you see it, therefore its not reality. If anyone sees a movie as reality then they are living in disneyland

  • @LesleyWeatherill
    @LesleyWeatherill 8 месяцев назад

    Well it's fuckin sick show attention to me I will go other way 😷

  • @5nereus
    @5nereus 12 лет назад +1

    I dont think im a narccist im just the most badass most intelligent most intresting person in the world

    • @nv_chino
      @nv_chino Год назад

      Listen to yourself

  • @5nereus
    @5nereus 12 лет назад

    Im like a narccist but the opposite, in a good way. Like if narccist were villains and the civilians in the world were evil. Im the beacon of light in this shit town, and i have ADHD attention deficiancy hyperactive disorder. but its not as good as you might think to be the hero because people are after you, because villains see themself as normal, but only the heroes are normal

  • @tehallanaz
    @tehallanaz Год назад

    Half the girls i ever met become stalkers

  • @sweetapplepie70
    @sweetapplepie70 6 лет назад +6

    THANK U SIR I APPRECIATE U VERY MUCH! 🍎🍎🍎

  • @sweetapplepie70
    @sweetapplepie70 7 лет назад +1

    thank u❤❤❤