5 habits I wish I had at 20 - now that I'm turning 30

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @DanielTitchener
    @DanielTitchener  3 года назад +40

    The first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: skl.sh/danieltitchener05211
    In all seriousness, my knees really do crunch when I get up now. However, my ankles have been clicking ever since I can remember. Anyone else have this problem?

    • @PGBlanks
      @PGBlanks 3 года назад +1

      Same exact thing for me as I entered my late 20s! Whenever I bend down, multiple joints that I never realised could crack, would crack.

    • @crusader0204
      @crusader0204 3 года назад

      Happy birthday. I'm 1 yr older and my knees used to sound like unlubricated door hinges

    • @Beaut_Beau
      @Beaut_Beau 3 года назад

      Exact same my man, and at 35 it aint getting any better!

    • @ajmalrasak4641
      @ajmalrasak4641 3 года назад +1

      I would suggest you to read The Quran as you practice gratitude and focus on death during your life.

    • @k17daica
      @k17daica 3 года назад

      I thought I was the only 30-year old who’s got knees that crunched when getting up.
      Love how this video somehow gives book recommendations. I adore Brené Brown.

  • @slvcons7745
    @slvcons7745 3 года назад +168

    I'd add: don't blame your younger self for not realizing all of this earlier. We need to be gentle to ourselves too, it's ok to not know everything when younger.

    • @ProfessorTurnipAlpha
      @ProfessorTurnipAlpha 3 года назад +3

      If you're ever in a rough patch, imagine yourself from five years in the future telling your present self that everything is going to be okay. It doesn't make much sense, but it works for me.

  • @jayiwa
    @jayiwa 3 года назад +157

    These days 30 is the new 20. It’s never too late to re-live your life.

    • @tdot5847
      @tdot5847 3 года назад +8

      They've been saying that for the past 30 years

    • @cactus3796
      @cactus3796 3 года назад +7

      yeah most people in their 30s are more free than their 20s because of studying, student debt etc

    • @jayiwa
      @jayiwa 3 года назад +3

      @@cactus3796 exactly. Most likely you’re more stable financially in your 30s, whilst unlikely being significantly less healthy. I enjoyed my 30s but wish I could maintain the youthful look of 20s 😅

  • @ayushk9710
    @ayushk9710 3 года назад +236

    The habits are
    1.care less
    2.start working out
    3.have fun
    4.dont run after status symbols
    5.practise gratitude

    • @dianikaya
      @dianikaya 3 года назад +1

      thank you

    • @dimi3815
      @dimi3815 3 года назад +1

      Thanks

    • @jcquilala3071
      @jcquilala3071 3 года назад +2

      Why I hate this kind of comment? Huhu my apologies.

    • @wtrmrkph
      @wtrmrkph 3 года назад +3

      @@jcquilala3071 Well for one Daniel already timestamped his video and he put already wrote same thing in the description.

    • @cadaghenneryrose7893
      @cadaghenneryrose7893 3 года назад

      Careless is the only i need to apply into my life as an 22

  • @george_1380
    @george_1380 3 года назад +56

    I’m 33 years old now and since Turning 30 I have cared less and less about what people think of me, I’m more confident in myself than ever before. Doing things that I want to do! As I was very shy in school right up into my 20s.

    • @aval6601
      @aval6601 3 года назад +2

      My experience has been exactly the same

    • @unlivedredeemer
      @unlivedredeemer 2 года назад

      @@aval6601 mine as well!

  • @MarielaMerino
    @MarielaMerino 3 года назад +26

    I just turned 29 and I can relate to these. I’m kinda scared going into my 30s but at least I’m going in wiser and more financially stable

    • @phoophookaren
      @phoophookaren 3 года назад +1

      it's okay. i was sacred of turning 30 before. but once i turned 30, it's nothing but your mind to stay youthful.

    • @MarielaMerino
      @MarielaMerino 3 года назад

      @@phoophookaren thanks for sharing :)

  • @Ragd0ll1337
    @Ragd0ll1337 3 года назад +31

    I see being handsome was always a habit - stay dapper friend!

  • @ceejayez
    @ceejayez 3 года назад +27

    Yung DT looks like he's about to embark his new found rap career. Album name - Less is more.

  • @AndysTechLife
    @AndysTechLife 3 года назад +16

    I'm approaching 40 and still haven't figured most of this out. ;) I know I should care less, but its still hard not to fall back into the habit of worrying what other people think. I wish I had listened to this advice in my 20s and then again in my early 30s when I was supposedly wiser. Thanks for sharing Daniel.

  • @francoisvillanueva6153
    @francoisvillanueva6153 3 года назад +25

    Hey Daniel, I'm 19 and turning 20. This video will extensively help me on my journey to becoming a young adult/architect in the future. Gonna use this as one of my blueprints in life😊.
    Greetings from the Philippines 🇵🇭

    • @StephenPaulDeita
      @StephenPaulDeita 3 года назад +2

      Yep, you’ll surely apply a lot of Dan’s learnings in your life especially in our industry 😀 Being 25 now, I learned during my college years to never compare my accomplishments to others, and it made free from too much anxiety, tho to this day, I try to enjoy what I have and acknowledge that everything that happens has a purpose ♥️

  • @joosteillebrecht1823
    @joosteillebrecht1823 3 года назад +45

    As a teenager, the second one really helps me feeling better about myself. Keep up the good vids :)

  • @JasonPolkovitz
    @JasonPolkovitz 3 года назад +10

    "... started taking better care of my eating..." he said, as I looked over at the crumbs left over from the cookie I just ate.

  • @yellit1975
    @yellit1975 3 года назад +74

    “I am officially old, I'm turning 30 this month”. I have some stuff that's older than you. 😂😂😂

  • @TP-ij8vb
    @TP-ij8vb 3 года назад +5

    Honestly this just reminded me of this verse. Jesus said it first! “If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but are yourself lost or destroyed?”
    Luke 9:24-25 - Thanks for these great videos Daniel, they always hit home!

  • @cjblah123
    @cjblah123 3 года назад +3

    I'm 26 now and have found this very helpful and eye opening. Thanks Daniel!

  • @nichellehealy752
    @nichellehealy752 3 года назад +6

    So enjoy your videos Dan. I always thought you did a great job at speaking in front of people, so you sure fooled me 😉

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 3 года назад +6

    I can relate to all of these at 27! It's all a journey guys! Enjoy the ride! 🙏🏻✨

  • @huburgalula4031
    @huburgalula4031 3 года назад +10

    As a Gen Z, seeing you search for Fleek on urban dictionary is hilarious! But I have to say, even I sometimes can hardly keep up with the neologisms. They seem to make something up everyday 😂

  • @wai_designs
    @wai_designs 2 года назад +1

    i keep rewatching this monthly

  • @ProfessorTurnipAlpha
    @ProfessorTurnipAlpha 3 года назад +1

    'Compound interest' has changed my life. The way I see it, nothing is too small, because it'll pay off eventually.

  • @detailedemoji4615
    @detailedemoji4615 3 года назад +3

    ⏱ Timestamps:
    0:00 Intro
    0:28 Habit 1 - Care Less
    3:12 Habit 2 - Start Working Out
    5:23 Habit 3 - Have (productive) Fun
    7:03 Habit 4 - Ignore Status Symbols
    9:34 Habit 5 - Practice Gratitude
    12:00 Conclusion
    12:32 Skillshare
    13:48 Outro
    Credit: Daniel himself (check description lol)

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 Год назад

      Thank you, helpful person.

  • @number1bettyboop
    @number1bettyboop 7 месяцев назад

    I am a 61 year old Apartment manager. I just found your channel. I am so grateful I have.

  • @MexicanoAlegre_
    @MexicanoAlegre_ 3 года назад +5

    Greetings from Mexico, Daniel.
    Love you.

  • @patriciaa4451
    @patriciaa4451 2 года назад +1

    "Comparison is the thief of joy" is a quote that has literally changed my life. It's an important skill to balance contentment and ambition

  • @lenmartinez
    @lenmartinez 3 года назад +1

    Instant gratification is what made me start living a zero waste life. I used to think I wasn't making a difference because I wasn't 100% zero waste but after reading Atomic Habits I realized that I actually AM making small differences every day.
    I LOVE Brene Brown. All her books are just so life changing. She has a podcast now which I highly recommend. 👌

  • @pandaxxgamming2761
    @pandaxxgamming2761 2 года назад

    I be 25 in 7 days , this video is great ! I from America btw ! Your content is beautiful and well put together , keep up the good work

  • @scottcombs3882
    @scottcombs3882 2 года назад +1

    Awesome tips! I'd also add that it can be extremely easy to diminish your own accomplishments when you constantly compare them to the accomplishments of others. People you follow aren't posting about every struggle or failure they have, and when you ONLY see their successes it can start to feel like you aren't keeping up. Focus on recognizing your own improvements because they're easier to see than you might think, and they serve as great motivators :)

  • @sushruttalekar
    @sushruttalekar 3 года назад +1

    Each sentence is to the point, makes perfect sense and saves watch time.... I love the way you script it.
    It makes the content truly valuable!
    Keep going!

  • @AdrianLucidoMiranda
    @AdrianLucidoMiranda 3 года назад +5

    I wish I knew these habits in my early 20s as well! Nice video Daniel! 👏🏽

  • @kenn1936
    @kenn1936 3 года назад

    YOU HAVE A LOT TO OFFER DANIEL!!!! You are OUR GURU!!!! We love you x. Look at the thousands of people that tune into what you have to say!! 171 K subscribers and counting!! Your channel is taking off now!!

  • @sunitthakare4212
    @sunitthakare4212 3 года назад +3

    Please don't stop making video your my favorite RUclipsr inspire me a lot.
    Love from india

  • @charmedcharmed3511
    @charmedcharmed3511 2 года назад

    You're so handsome at 20 or turning 30, dear! I came across your video this morning and have subscribed. Keep up the good work! Can't wait to hear how you and your wife are going to deal with toy demands in a few years!

  • @missosapir
    @missosapir 3 года назад +6

    Serious glow up.

  • @ernestosabatercalvet
    @ernestosabatercalvet Год назад

    I am 47 bro and feel like a teen. I like your work, I must say it inspired me to start a simpler lifestyle.

  • @PLuMUK54
    @PLuMUK54 Год назад

    Well, I learned one thing from that. I am so grateful that I am autistic. I've never been through the angst described in this video.
    I am almost 70 years old, and I am extremely happy with my life. I have simple needs and wants. My house is small and the address is unfashionable. My car is small, and it is a cheap second-hand one. I do not seek status symbols because my attitude is, if it does what I want, why pay for a name? I have enough to pay my bills, to be able to afford my cat and my dog, and to have occasional but low-priced treats, largely because I do not chase after status.
    None of this had to be learned. It came as part of the autistic package. I've never cared what others think of me. I've always focused on what I believe to be important. I've always been grateful for what I've achieved and am satisfied with what that has brought. me.
    I've always been happy with my character traits, even before I knew that they were the result of autism. After this video, I'm thankful for my autism.

  • @junehulton8320
    @junehulton8320 3 года назад

    The details are so true. My daughter and son. Just don't take after me.... My mum had a place for everything. ...and if not. And you haven't used with 6 months it goes....!! Well done

  • @Fausto_moh
    @Fausto_moh 3 года назад +1

    It's a good day when Daniel posts a vid

  • @aval6601
    @aval6601 3 года назад +1

    It is pointless looking back and wishing we did things differently...and when i was 20 i heard all this advice but it had no effect as these things have to be learned for ourselves.

  • @scdobserver835
    @scdobserver835 3 года назад +6

    The content of this video is fleek! ;)

  • @pinefilms3141
    @pinefilms3141 3 года назад +1

    this is crazy, I'm about to turn 21! thanks for the tips, if anyone has anymore tips for life, feel free to lmk!

  • @AmitPandey-wv7jh
    @AmitPandey-wv7jh 3 года назад +1

    Very beautifully scripted and presented.
    Thank you Daniel.

  • @Lucy-ss2tz
    @Lucy-ss2tz 2 года назад

    You’re so right! Thanks for sharing your words.

  • @danlytechture
    @danlytechture 3 года назад

    One of the most underrated content creators out here on RUclips deffo -- Thank you for all these content! 💛💛💛

  • @able8803
    @able8803 Год назад

    Shared this to my son. Thank u

  • @jerrytom9846
    @jerrytom9846 3 года назад

    Thanks Danny! Last night I watched Matt A’Dvella’s video where he shared a similar concept-“Start it before you think you are ready”. You two are my enlighteners of Minimalism. Earlier this year I had started selling unnecessary stuffs and reduce my exposure to phone and social media. Finally I can sit down on a clean room and focus on something that wouldn’t make me feel my day is empty. Can you please share some of you cooking receipts? Would love to see you cooking!

  • @DanielDrejerDK
    @DanielDrejerDK 2 года назад

    I discovered your channel recently by coincidence... RUclips has since been suggesting your channel a lot to me.
    Your content is very inspirational, motivational, and well constructed. Keep up the good job! :)

  • @samarneson9475
    @samarneson9475 3 года назад

    I’m 20 and needed to hear each of these. Thanks Daniel!

  • @FIFII
    @FIFII 3 года назад

    the care less is a big one! So glad I realised this in my early 20s!!

  • @jayjords
    @jayjords 3 года назад

    it's never to late to start, your never to young to be succesful. See I'm doing this to break the chain of financial struggle that's plagued my family for generational eons. Hope y'all feel the same!

  • @kenn1936
    @kenn1936 3 года назад

    I have absolutely no debt whatsoever, I gave up on buying 'STUFF" a long time ago, I also have autism, so not too interested in what other are doing or buying. I reckon I am one of the lucky ones - that have turned that corner. I am busy now giving things away, clearing out, becoming minimal - I hate clutter and want it all gone !! Its not worth hanging onto just because you once spent a lot of money buying it!! It is taking up room in your home for no reason whatsoever, you will never get around to using it. Swedish Death Cleansing - clearing out everything you will never use, and save someone else the job of clearing out your stuff, when you die. (You don't need to be ill or old to do this, I am in my 50's now, and don't need half the stuff I have accumulated. We need to be comfortable in our own skin!!!

  • @Sowar
    @Sowar 3 года назад +1

    Great video. All things I wish I knew at 20 and sometimes still struggle with at 36!

  • @yngsheikh
    @yngsheikh 2 года назад

    Tnx For Sharing your Habits as smooth as posible💯

  • @betelgeuse68
    @betelgeuse68 3 года назад +1

    30 is not old, but I know you don't know that yet. It's around 47 that your body starts to really go south... unless you work out regularly and mind what you eat. Success, i.e., warding off "old age," comes in the form of a permanent lifestyle. Many people underestimate the way food, particularly processed foods, accelerate aging. The metabolic aging effect of fructose is 7x that of glucose. In the United States practically all processed food is sweetened with High FRUCTOSE Corn Syrup. I've been low carbohydrate for almost a decade, most people peg me at 10 years younger than what I am.

  • @vedanshchn
    @vedanshchn 3 года назад

    We spend 25+ years in school, university and looking for work and when we turn 30, we're already old. Life is so short man...
    I don't even wish to be alive in 50s and 60s.... Life would just be a struggle in those years. I just wish our bodies could stay young at least until 40s... (Yeah Yeah I know, people can stay healthy and fit even in 40s but I mean at least we feel old and physically mature right since 30s right)...

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 3 года назад

    I love making videos as well, I do it in my off time from work. It’s inspiring to see that you get to do what you love as a job, it’s so awesome!

  • @cecilliorelucio6695
    @cecilliorelucio6695 2 года назад

    Thank you for those messages!

  • @RainMaker0602
    @RainMaker0602 3 года назад

    Inspiring. Happy Birthday, Daniel! CHEERS!
    I'm turning 31 this coming Wednesday btw

  • @aiangalang8452
    @aiangalang8452 3 года назад +2

    Wish i knew these sooner, too! Thank you for sharing these mindsets to us! 🙌🏻

  • @erickdabandan76
    @erickdabandan76 3 года назад

    I do all these things except I have no friends. But I’m a lot happier now than when I had 50+ people I talk to on a daily basis. I love being alone accomplishing things I love and doing things for myself rather than conforming to everyone.

  • @sandileshongwe4750
    @sandileshongwe4750 3 года назад +1

    Great insight. The production value on your videos is truly admirable.

  • @yugeneral
    @yugeneral 3 года назад

    most helpful that i never had on my mindset , thank you for sharing your positivity and inspiring thoughts

  • @JJogii
    @JJogii 3 года назад

    Yesss, thanks for the video, Daniel. Extremely grateful for the content as I'm turning 30th next week too!

  • @m0eho919
    @m0eho919 3 года назад +27

    ✨GLOW UP✨

  • @boysetsfire01
    @boysetsfire01 3 года назад

    Fab video definitely can relate and I'm 50+

  • @earl.cuevas
    @earl.cuevas 3 года назад

    These are really nice lessons. Thanks Daniel! Happy birthday!

  • @Sonofadcuk
    @Sonofadcuk 3 года назад

    Turning 30 this month too! Great reflexion, thanks for sharing :)

  • @stephaniegauthier7805
    @stephaniegauthier7805 3 года назад

    Thank you, that was an excellent video. It really resonated with me.

  • @xtricksterx___1764
    @xtricksterx___1764 3 года назад

    I too sweat a lot when I communicate with strangers

  • @oursimplestory
    @oursimplestory 3 года назад

    Another great video!! I find being a full time stay at home mom, RUclips allows me to be creative when my kids nap!! Hopefully my home tour will hit the algorithm like your home tour!!

  • @abhiroopdas3232
    @abhiroopdas3232 3 года назад

    Hey man! can u do a mini-video on hair-care? Your hair looks so on-point and cool, and I like to think it's like that even when you are not shooting a youtube video. But it is generally believed that using products frequently is bad for the hair, so it would be great to know what you do with ur hair!

  • @SaadAKhan
    @SaadAKhan 3 года назад +4

    I have a really weird question. Where do you get your shirts? The fit and minimal no-logo look is really nice

  • @naya4607
    @naya4607 7 месяцев назад

    love this, thank you

  • @gracec3418
    @gracec3418 2 года назад

    Great stuff, Daniel. Really helpful guidance / synopsis of what you have gleaned from your experience and reading. Very many thanks for making the effort to put this out there. 🙏

  • @Bankolemusic
    @Bankolemusic 3 года назад +1

    such useful videos! happy birthday whenever it is!

  • @simantakeot
    @simantakeot 3 года назад

    I enjoy each and every video you make. Thank you for changing my life

  • @mido4339
    @mido4339 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this useful information

  • @evantan8266
    @evantan8266 3 года назад

    Thanks Daniel.. keep up the good work, great message my dude👌

  • @johnespino886
    @johnespino886 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday Daniel! Turning the same age sometime soon too!

  • @behnamanisi1
    @behnamanisi1 Год назад

    Dude i am just came across your Channel and i love it! i am new sub now! I am loving how you just say it how it is and very nice :) keep it up

  • @velicedesignstudio4420
    @velicedesignstudio4420 3 года назад

    Absolutely needed this, thanks for sharing this Daniel!

  • @Peter7269i
    @Peter7269i 3 года назад

    I'm a 23 year old training to be an architect, great video, Agree with everything you said

  • @vhinndelacruz
    @vhinndelacruz 3 года назад

    I need this right now! Thank you Daniel!

  • @arvindhr.a2315
    @arvindhr.a2315 3 года назад

    Loved this video mate 👌🏾Thanks for sharing !

  • @jorgleiger
    @jorgleiger 3 года назад

    Such great and important reminders, thank you!

  • @Antphoneigh
    @Antphoneigh Год назад

    Looking sharp!

  • @widewheel9239
    @widewheel9239 3 года назад

    Loving your videos!

  • @LouieFajardo1989
    @LouieFajardo1989 4 месяца назад

    Very nice insights

  • @bestycheung7532
    @bestycheung7532 2 года назад

    Well said!

  • @ptx1025
    @ptx1025 3 года назад

    Best video I have watched in a while.

  • @jambi1527
    @jambi1527 3 года назад

    Happy birthday fellow May 91 baby!

  • @Ddreinthebay
    @Ddreinthebay 3 года назад

    Love these videos dude!

  • @medusa29897
    @medusa29897 3 года назад

    I love your videos. I hope your child is doing well.

  • @jimmystewartuk
    @jimmystewartuk 3 года назад

    Great inspiration mate, so motivated now!

  • @Aeropher
    @Aeropher 3 года назад

    You cited student debt at something looming over you. I think it's important to note that if you got one of the government student loans in the UK then it is more like a tax that you pay when you earn above a certain amount and after 30 years the debt gets wiped. There's a lot to be said on the subject but I think people shouldn't think of this specific type of student loan (UK government scheme only) as a crushing weight on their shoulders.

  • @JonathanDoku
    @JonathanDoku 3 года назад

    Very good video 👊🏾.

  • @spacepanda000
    @spacepanda000 3 года назад

    These are great! Definitely going to give them my best try.

  • @linaesque
    @linaesque 3 года назад

    Thank you for these reminders! Needed to hear this lol

  • @Bijits2510
    @Bijits2510 3 года назад

    Brilliant video… one of your best ones

  • @annb1265
    @annb1265 3 года назад

    I'm 38. For about the past 10 years I have said that old is 104. Not 103. At 104. It gave my 88-year-old neighbor a good chuckle the other day. 👍

    • @minamaletti6909
      @minamaletti6909 3 года назад

      That's a good one :) I really like it. I am over 40 and since I was 20 I have been saying that life starts when you turn 60 and I just can't wait to become 60 :)

  • @cecilliorelucio6695
    @cecilliorelucio6695 3 года назад

    Thank you!