To the “lady” with the eleven children, I have heard of you here in Canada..you talk about abortion, but what you are doing is having children so your benefits will increase…here is a suggestion,birth control or tubal ligation..you are a leech who is sucking the blood out of taxpayers…the money you get doesn’t come directly from the government..it comes from people who WORK a word that isn’t in your heart…stop breeding, your children learn from you and you are teaching them not to work because you know how to work the system, and therefore they have picked this up from you…🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
It’s the Entitlement that astounds me. I own my own house and am on a 6 figure salary. My neighbour rented their house out to a family on benefits. They kept knocking on my door asking for food and money and whilst at the beginning I helped out it got out of hand. I told them enough is enough and do you know what I was told “why should we watch you driving a big car and doing huge shopping and we have to go without” BECAUSE I WORK 48 HOURS A WEEK AND AM SELF SUFFICIENT. Now we suffer abuse and rubbish thrown over the fence and stolen Amazon packages while I’m at work. Even pot plants get stolen. Needless to say my house is now on the market.
Wow that’s terrible! 😡 it’s amazing how people think they are entitled to the same things as people who go out and work for/earn what they have rather than getting it handed to them 🤦🏽♀️
Probably you should report to the authority in concern, the purpose of handout is to assist their lives, to not gone begging, thievery or anything in sort. Concerning their attitude, I'm afraid...they might turn their house to brothel, stolen warehouse or anything bad..?
@@ellenicoletv4095 indeed... A good lesson for us to, attitude is important and everything has a limit... Perhaps a rottweiler might be helpful here..? 😀
Good for you! I always have a lot of respect for anyone that hustles and figures it out. Very little respect for people that act like they're too good to work fast food, and rely on handouts from others.
This mom telling her daughter it's no use to work, is ratchet. I mean, seriously, putting her down, because she wants to work? And make her cry in the process.. Good going, stupid! You go girl, be independent and work.
Yep. Her mother's words said it all really. "Face reality...mum had to!" Really means "I don't think I'm capable of anything, and therefore I think you're not capable of anything, and you need to understand that!"
There was a time when our kids were Littles that my husband was was out of work due to injuries attained at work, and I was severely ill do to a genetic illness. We could have signed up for benefits, but we just couldn't. Both of us had at one point been on welfare as children, because both of our dads NEVER paid child support, even though they were both well off. This was in the 60's and 70's before the government really did anything. We did everything that we could to make sure that at least our children had enough to eat, and were well taken care of. I remember our leanest Christmas we had twenty dollars each to buy gifts. I got a few things at the local resell shop, and my husban made a "Dolly House" for our daughter (then 3) out of an Ikea cabinet he had found on Craigslist for free. Now here we are empty nesters, the two oldest have graduated Uni and the youngest is a Sophomore at UC Berkeley. They have all traveled to different countries, the oldest literally lives in a penthouse (works for Google), the middle one is a Scientist, and our youngest is living on her own. That mom is doing such an incredible disservice to her daughter who is try to break the cycle of generational poverty. I just hope that the daughter succeeds.
Yeah that lady is a pathetic excuse for a mum and a human doesnt deserve anything but thinks the world owes her has an excuse for everything wat a joke
I feel morally compelled to warn everyone. - if you feel sick after the first five minutes, find something else to watch, because this just goes from bad to worse to utterly despicable.
before watching this, I saw a documentary about British children caring for their sick or disabled parents. Their homes were tidy, they were cooking their own meals and they didn't take anything for granted, like these people.
It’s not anyones business how many kids she’s got but, it’s everyone’s business when you keep having kids to avoid going to work. When I was getting benefits a long time ago, I didn’t go get my nails done I took the time to learn to do my own nails. These women are beyond spoiled because they get benefits.
The fact that you think taking care of your own nail is admirable is shocking to me. I never had my nails done at the salon, always took care of mine, it’s just like taking a shower.
Makes me sick to see this when people that actually need help cant get it. And these guys are "proud" of what they're doing. Try working for your own money then they can be proud!
I don't understand why they can't work with kids. I had an unplanned pregnancy when I was 20, it never occurred to me to not keep working and studying to improve our situation (despite my mother insisting I would be on benefits for the rest of my life...). You find a way to get suitable working hours and childcare. We're in a good situation now and own a home.
You know what ? A solution that would help is one that really helped when mine were young and I was in college & working was they gave me daycare for 1/2 price . I couldn't have gone to school and worked without that help . Why not open daycare centers or give the lady with all those children free daycare while she goes to school ? Then she can have the security of a career . I'm not against getting help when your family needs it but they could be enrolled in college classes or vocational training if they have daycare assistance till they graduate.
It's absolutely disgusting how these people can complain about receiving everything for free. Most of these people have no excuse as to why they can't work
Me living in a 3rd world country watching this in utter shock and disbelief. The lowlives and scum of the UK feel entitled to live in big houses and get paid to exist. Unbelievable.
that's also stupid argument you can even go on holiday with money of benefits if you time it right. the argument that people cant pay things with benefits is so dumb. here it's usual that old people for example live on benefits and they (i know some) having 300 each months max. and? they have tidy homes, they can even buy what they want, they can eat good and they even can go on holiday if they save up.
These people have no idea how lucky they are. If they were in the United States, they would be living in a ripped up tent with 15 people on the side of a road.
In Canada it’s getting better. I know people they finally cut off and made them work. They sent them to school re-educated them. Once they started getting bigger pay checks and were able to buy property they never looked back. Not all end up like this but it’s a positive step forward
I’m in Ontario and it is absolutely NOT getting better. My SIL owns a cleaning company and gets OW (welfare). I know so many people working for cash and receiving OW and they’ve been on it for over 20 years
It's the fact they say. They don't want to pay anything. They don't realise it's literally people who do work that pay for them. Some people do really need benefits. But it is the entitlement here that is just outrageous.
Exactly! It breaks my heart that other people are paying because they dont want to work. If they couldnt work, thats okay. But just dont want to work is not :(
11 kids "I don't believe in abortions, never have" You're entitled to your opinion, but why do I have to pay for your kids? It's like I'm being punished for being responsible for only having two.
Right ! Like good for you if you don't want to have an abortion but to go on and have 11 KIDS ! none of the fathers are helping or involved either. Like I hope she believed in The IUD , Condoms or Getting her tube's tided
I'm 7 and a half months pregnant, raising a 9 month old working as a assistant manager for a local retail store full time. In tired. Sore. But every cent I spend, I earn.
@Bethlehem Eisenhour you’re so smart 🙄 it isn’t about bragging. It’s to be able to take care of our children, pay our bills and keep a roof over our heads. Stop trying to down on people that do what they can for theirs. You could learn from it.
Wait but if you're working full time, you're not raising your own kid most of the time. Ive worked all my life, but I'd be happy to accept help from the government if it means I can nurse my own baby and spend more time with them. You will never get that time back
@bethlehemeisenhour8352you act like we wanna work to the bone, you act like we wanna work 60 hours a week. WE HAVE TO! She should be proud of herself because it's very easy to give up here. Instead of giving up she's pushing yourself to continue to provide for her family. It's not bragging. You don't think that some of us would love to only work 20 hours a week and have money left over to enjoy ourselves and have time to spend with our families? Some states a 1 bedroom apt is over 2000 dollars. Don't down this woman. She doing what she has to, to make sure her children are taken care of.
For most benefits are a short term solution not a lifestyle. I cannot imagine using it as a lifestyle, governments change, policies change, you aren't really in control.
Because immigrants work harder than anyone who ever works that’s why the people that don’t wanna work and they want to live on the government. That’s why they are threatened by immigrants because immigrants do work.
@@marimattas2781In the USA, obviously we have an immigration issue but what makes it even tougher is citizens are getting bided out of proper wages. Employers often will pay immigrants lower wages to not pay citizens fair wages. That’s the issue.
They made several documentaries about big families, but all of them had two working parents who support their kids. She’s clearly having more kids for benefits.
I'm not from the UK and never been on benefits but we have a similar situation in Canada. The more kids you have, the more your benefits are. However, here, the govt keeps a tight leash on those who get benefits and everything is electronic so there's always a paper trail. Over here, caucasians have the same complaint that immigrants are taking their jobs but fact of the matter is, they don't want to do those jobs in the first place.
I try my best to keep from being a nasty person, but she's infuriating! She just has eleven kids with no problems with fertility. We work and have savings. We prepared for a big family. Out of all of my pregnancies, I've only been able to get two living children into this world. I'm thankful for them. I just hate seeing people who just have kids for benefits. We have the same problems here in the States. It also becomes a generational problem. Most people who are raised on welfare, go on to live off of welfare.
That's so true! However, I have a friend raised on Welfare and refused to live that life style. Went to college, has a bachelor's degree and makes 6 figures.
As someone who doesn't have and doesn't even want kids, this is infuriating as well. As someone who chooses to be childless, our tax money is still raising other people's children.
You don't need TV. I have been without one since November. Nails don't need to be done, decoration can wait, don't need to drink, smoke, or have animals. If you spend more on your TV package than food, SHAME
I agree with all u said, except for animals .... animals can be a source of affection , also protection ....very good for people with depression and other disorders
All of that is choices you chose to make just like they chose to be lazy & not work! Stop comparing your life to bums that makes you look bad not them! RESPECTFULLY 🙏🏾
Those of us that work wanted more children. However, those of you who lay on your back and make all the children you want because we pay for it! Doesn't seem fair somehow😭😭
Most people want to thrive in their lives but not everyone has the same talents and abilities. Until society can make room for the outsiders who don't fit in, there will be issues with people living on welfare. A living wage for menial jobs is a start in the right direction...
In my country is impossible live only on benefits. You have to work. If you don't you will be homeless. You can have some benefits if you have children - in my country you can get money but if you have 3 and more children you will get same money as if you have just 3 children. And it's not much money anyway.
Yeah, I laugh at the people who claim that anyone who gets welfare in the USA gets enough for a life of luxury! I used to work at a homeless shelter and would help residents with paperwork. Never saw any amount that made up for not working! The sad part is the majority of employees at Walmart, are dependent upon government programs to survive. The company has been caught teaching employees how to apply for it.
@@sarcasticallyrearranged it's not too bad in my country. I earn about the same as when I worked 40 hours a week. It's definitely enough to afford food and rent if you don't live anywhere near thr cities.
Benefits for kids should be reserved for cases where a child or a parent is suddenly ill or dead. Not for people who just have kids for benefits. Even if you separate, you have to first prove that you didn’t plan on it. There shouldn’t be an indent I’ve for parents to split up for no reason. You had 10 kids, you don’t get to get a divorce from the state unless you can prove the state won’t have to support your kids.
It's amazing how the situation in the UK is similar to here in Brazil, I myself have cousins who have 4+ kids in order to get handouts from the government, try to exploit the government at every opportunity, and all of that in order to spend money on booze, clothes, etc.. disgusting
I'm 35 and become disabled. After working 6 days a week for myself, as a massage therapist. A si gle girl no kids and bought my own farm. Now struggle to get any disability
Well there's the problem, you tried to make a better life for yourself, you only get benefits by being a perpetual victim and complaining about it lol.
Why do these people think people who work should cover their costs? When they decide to have child after child with no plan to provide for them why is it the responsibility of people who have jobs? In the US people lived on public aid for generations. When President Clinton overhauled the assistance program he faced lots of criticism - people were screaming babies would be dying in the streets. Ha! That didn't happen. The system changed so instead of no end to public aid, people had a 5 year lifetime total. After that amount of government funding people would be on their own. During those 5 years massive amounts of services were available so recipients could become financially independent. Welfare was NEVER designed to be lived on forever. It's always been something to help during a crisis. Britain needs to consider such a change. Yes, some people will be very upset but it will create a positive change. Once recipients are working they may have a different perspective about funding the children of irresponsible parents.
Not a single one tried to help themselves. No thrift shopping, nobody growing their own food (and you can grow a huge amount in recycled tubs, bins etc.) no classes or anything useful!
Right they wanted the most expensive most new material things . 🤦♀️ Nothing wrong with 2nd hand items . Only thing I invest is the obvious bed , sofa , under wears , towels ( things that can hold potential bed bugs , lice, Roaches etc ) But other items are worth the 2nd Hand especially when some items are nearly brand new.
You have to be a shameless person to demand alot of money without providing any substance, talent or skills to any employer! We call these kinds of people cockroaches!
Ok if you know you can not even support yourself then why bring children into your life that's absurd ok have some kids but this amount is ridiculous!!!! And then live on government benifits makes the tax payers angry ofcourse she is gonna defend all of this but this ya ok
@Bethlehem Eisenhour jealous ???? Ur joking right obviously u didn't read I said it's ok to have kids but come on I liked this lady she was super down to earth and loved her kids so read properly
I'm 2 seconds in and already nauseated......I can't do it. Got here looking for education on the welfare system in the UK but I can't watch this. But I support what you do. ❤️ from 🇺🇸
@@ontoyoualways9183 At another's expense? How about the fact that most people in the US who receive benefits actually work- which, if you can't work it out for yourself, means they pay into benefits. And have had family who have worked for decades and never collected any benefits, yet they pay into them. By allowing companies to pay poverty level wages so that workers have to apply for benefits to be able to live, you- yes, you- are allowing those companies to get away with abusing the welfare system by getting g the government to make up the difference in their worker's pay. If it makes you feel better, you can just say that "your" tax dollars go towards paying legal fees for the politicians who get caught having affairs and using your tax money to fund their getaways. "My" tax dollars can be the ones that go towards helping folks who need it have food and housing and whatnot so they and their children aren't homeless or starving. Feel better now?
Yes. My grandparents raised 7 kids (had 11, but 4 died), but a) my grandfather worked and financed the family by himself, and b) they had a huge vegetatble garden that was one of their main sources of food. It's not a shame to have many kids, but how you do it is another matter...
This woman is absolutely disgraceful. I had been working since I was 16 yrs old until I became physically disabled and now on SSDI. From Medicare I receive $1,400 a month, $23 a month in food stamps. I pay full rent and have been on a waiting list for housing for close to 5 yrs now. Once a month I get paid and the next day it's gone. Our government would rather help illegal aliens and immigrants rather than take care of our homeless people and disabled people. But at least I have some dignity left, I can still say to myself I work so many years and was never lazy like this women. I cannot believe how much they are paid over in the United Kingdom, crazy!
Instead of being bitter and hateful and direct your hate to irrelevant people, be grateful and if you feel frustrated point it towards your government.
Guess they don't know what birth control is... Not to generalize, these people need to stop spending money on piercings, tattoo's, cigarettes, and multiple dog's / cat's. The Mum accepting stolen good's, just wonderful
In my country the benefit cuts off after four kids anymore kids then it’s your own responsibility! Still get the benefit but cap at four kids… Be greatful U.K are willing to pay and support big familiy! Like winning the lotto..
They can all afford cigarettes, tattoos, piercings, fake nails and kid after kid after kid. They best thing the UK can dole out is birth control. Do men in the UK not have to pay child support???
It makes me so sad to people feeling entitled to government benefits when some familes genuinely need help to get themselves out of a bad place. It makes everyone who asks for help look like a douchebag.
"I'm an independent lady, can't rely on nobody." Depends on the British government for literally everything...
No...she relies on the British people for everything. Governments don't have their own money...its taxpayers money.
I think calling her “lady” is a bigger overstatement.
Not independent..what can I get for nothing.
To the “lady” with the eleven children, I have heard of you here in Canada..you talk about abortion, but what you are doing is having children so your benefits will increase…here is a suggestion,birth control or tubal ligation..you are a leech who is sucking the blood out of taxpayers…the money you get doesn’t come directly from the government..it comes from people who WORK a word that isn’t in your heart…stop breeding, your children learn from you and you are teaching them not to work because you know how to work the system, and therefore they have picked this up from you…🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@shannonmiller9548 Get off ya high horse. Everyone pays taxes .
It’s the Entitlement that astounds me. I own my own house and am on a 6 figure salary. My neighbour rented their house out to a family on benefits. They kept knocking on my door asking for food and money and whilst at the beginning I helped out it got out of hand. I told them enough is enough and do you know what I was told “why should we watch you driving a big car and doing huge shopping and we have to go without” BECAUSE I WORK 48 HOURS A WEEK AND AM SELF SUFFICIENT. Now we suffer abuse and rubbish thrown over the fence and stolen Amazon packages while I’m at work. Even pot plants get stolen. Needless to say my house is now on the market.
Wow that’s terrible! 😡 it’s amazing how people think they are entitled to the same things as people who go out and work for/earn what they have rather than getting it handed to them 🤦🏽♀️
While your house is up for sale I recommend getting a camera on your doorstep to catch them stealing the packages.
Probably you should report to the authority in concern, the purpose of handout is to assist their lives, to not gone begging, thievery or anything in sort. Concerning their attitude, I'm afraid...they might turn their house to brothel, stolen warehouse or anything bad..?
@@ellenicoletv4095 indeed... A good lesson for us to, attitude is important and everything has a limit... Perhaps a rottweiler might be helpful here..? 😀
i hope you can get away from those ungrateful parasites, ASAP
I worked at McDonald's for 8 years to help me out in high school. There is nothing wrong with working at a fast food restaurant
@Annie Amith what I meant to say was I was in school for four years and still worked at McDonald's for three years after graduation 🎓
Damn, it took you 8 years to finish high school? 😂
@@susannahdyro9518q
Good for you! I always have a lot of respect for anyone that hustles and figures it out. Very little respect for people that act like they're too good to work fast food, and rely on handouts from others.
@@susannahdyro9518it is honest work
This mom telling her daughter it's no use to work, is ratchet. I mean, seriously, putting her down, because she wants to work? And make her cry in the process.. Good going, stupid!
You go girl, be independent and work.
Yep. Her mother's words said it all really. "Face reality...mum had to!" Really means "I don't think I'm capable of anything, and therefore I think you're not capable of anything, and you need to understand that!"
Absolutely disgusting instead of motivating her and being positive sadly this is what the world is turning into
There was a time when our kids were Littles that my husband was was out of work due to injuries attained at work, and I was severely ill do to a genetic illness. We could have signed up for benefits, but we just couldn't. Both of us had at one point been on welfare as children, because both of our dads NEVER paid child support, even though they were both well off. This was in the 60's and 70's before the government really did anything. We did everything that we could to make sure that at least our children had enough to eat, and were well taken care of. I remember our leanest Christmas we had twenty dollars each to buy gifts. I got a few things at the local resell shop, and my husban made a "Dolly House" for our daughter (then 3) out of an Ikea cabinet he had found on Craigslist for free. Now here we are empty nesters, the two oldest have graduated Uni and the youngest is a Sophomore at UC Berkeley. They have all traveled to different countries, the oldest literally lives in a penthouse (works for Google), the middle one is a Scientist, and our youngest is living on her own. That mom is doing such an incredible disservice to her daughter who is try to break the cycle of generational poverty. I just hope that the daughter succeeds.
This mentality and benefits chain of families gonna put uk in financial crisis sooner
Yeah that lady is a pathetic excuse for a mum and a human doesnt deserve anything but thinks the world owes her has an excuse for everything wat a joke
I feel morally compelled to warn everyone. - if you feel sick after the first five minutes, find something else to watch, because this just goes from bad to worse to utterly despicable.
I should have listened to you- I’m nauseous!
I’m ten minutes in and fuming
Maybe if people watched this til the end they would stop voting Labour. 🤷♀️
Then you pay for them
Indeed🎉🎉🎉🎉
before watching this, I saw a documentary about British children caring for their sick or disabled parents. Their homes were tidy, they were cooking their own meals and they didn't take anything for granted, like these people.
Right ! Which is wild how Children have more sense and gratitude than these so called " Adults "
I feel so so sorry for the neighbours, having to look at the mess & listen to that awful noise 24/7..
I would hate to live next door to them.
That’s what I kept thinking about. I would be institutionalised if I was forced to listen to them for 5 minutes.
$900 quid is $1120 in US dollars. She is making almost $5k a month! There is helping and there is enabling, this is enabling.
Yes
Yes ! Eldery people don't even get that much for Social Security
It’s not anyones business how many kids she’s got but, it’s everyone’s business when you keep having kids to avoid going to work. When I was getting benefits a long time ago, I didn’t go get my nails done I took the time to learn to do my own nails. These women are beyond spoiled because they get benefits.
exactly
The fact that you think taking care of your own nail is admirable is shocking to me. I never had my nails done at the salon, always took care of mine, it’s just like taking a shower.
11 kids is work!
why were you on benefits?
I was 15 when I had my daughter ,,, I was on benifits, I went to college while on benefits and had no more children.. This is just not right
Makes me sick to see this when people that actually need help cant get it. And these guys are "proud" of what they're doing. Try working for your own money then they can be proud!
I don't understand why they can't work with kids. I had an unplanned pregnancy when I was 20, it never occurred to me to not keep working and studying to improve our situation (despite my mother insisting I would be on benefits for the rest of my life...). You find a way to get suitable working hours and childcare. We're in a good situation now and own a home.
You know what ? A solution that would help is one that really helped when mine were young and I was in college & working was they gave me daycare for 1/2 price . I couldn't have gone to school and worked without that help . Why not open daycare centers or give the lady with all those children free daycare while she goes to school ? Then she can have the security of a career . I'm not against getting help when your family needs it but they could be enrolled in college classes or vocational training if they have daycare assistance till they graduate.
Exactly
Also she should of stopped having kids by the first kid . !
Not keep having like 10 more
I have no words to describe what I viewed
I have a few choice words that might help. How about : disgusting, stupefying, astounding, offensive, atrocious, frustrating, maddening....
I Have Words But They're Not Printable. But You Can Use Your Imagination Y'all.
"I want 500 quid a week after my bills"😬 don't we all??
@@kaileygiles7486 YESSS, please!
@@ronderulijkummar7453 I would have some words if I could just close my mouth!
It's absolutely disgusting how these people can complain about receiving everything for free. Most of these people have no excuse as to why they can't work
Exactly even the grown up young kids y not work or go to school
Unbelievable how these people think everyone needs to support them!! Government needs to put a stop to this!!
Me living in a 3rd world country watching this in utter shock and disbelief. The lowlives and scum of the UK feel entitled to live in big houses and get paid to exist. Unbelievable.
Then they will vote for other bigots who will give them tax payers money.
The government is literally enabling them.
3 kid cap! It's easy to stop this game. No more benefit increases after 3rd child is born.
Yes and people would either get the IUD or get their tube's tied if that was the rule
You can't go to holiday 😕 because YOU DON'T WORK .. the entitlement of this women
I want $500 after I pay my bills🙄 also holiday is cheaper with less people going😬
that's also stupid argument you can even go on holiday with money of benefits if you time it right. the argument that people cant pay things with benefits is so dumb. here it's usual that old people for example live on benefits and they (i know some) having 300 each months max. and? they have tidy homes, they can even buy what they want, they can eat good and they even can go on holiday if they save up.
I'm sorry but what does holiday mean?
@@childofthemosthighyah8145 means vacation
@@childofthemosthighyah8145 ..vacation
These people have no idea how lucky they are. If they were in the United States, they would be living in a ripped up tent with 15 people on the side of a road.
South Africa 🇿🇦 they would be devastated
In Canada it’s getting better. I know people they finally cut off and made them work. They sent them to school re-educated them. Once they started getting bigger pay checks and were able to buy property they never looked back. Not all end up like this but it’s a positive step forward
i live in canada and still too many know how to "rip off " the system, billions each year. but i agree not as awful as that
Here in Nova Scotia its brutal.
And the worst ones of all are the politicians, they take more money than these guys.
I’m in Ontario and it is absolutely NOT getting better.
My SIL owns a cleaning company and gets OW (welfare). I know so many people working for cash and receiving OW and they’ve been on it for over 20 years
Yeah then we elected Justine Blaqfase and lost 10 years of progress lol fml.
That pool water looks gross….
Everything looks gross.
Wow where do they get this entitled attitude...it's not free, someone has to pay
It's the fact they say. They don't want to pay anything. They don't realise it's literally people who do work that pay for them. Some people do really need benefits. But it is the entitlement here that is just outrageous.
Exactly! It breaks my heart that other people are paying because they dont want to work. If they couldnt work, thats okay. But just dont want to work is not :(
I always hate when I see the children wanting to do better and get work and the parents are stifling them
“Tight-fisted bastards”
Really??????
They are providing your living.
Yes, and she says for money we 'earned.' You didn't earn anything, that's the point!
11 kids "I don't believe in abortions, never have" You're entitled to your opinion, but why do I have to pay for your kids? It's like I'm being punished for being responsible for only having two.
This is a question for the government, not for her.
@MrEric2cu. You said the right word, "punished".
And that is why Muslims will subjugate you and outbreed you because you only have 2.
Right ! Like good for you if you don't want to have an abortion but to go on and have 11 KIDS ! none of the fathers are helping or involved either.
Like I hope she believed in The IUD , Condoms or Getting her tube's tided
“I think they’re jealous”
I can smell your house from here, ma’am. I’m not jealous.
I'm 7 and a half months pregnant, raising a 9 month old working as a assistant manager for a local retail store full time. In tired. Sore. But every cent I spend, I earn.
@Bethlehem Eisenhour seriously? hmmm
You should’ve been able to rest, especially when you have a young child to care for.
Working to the bone isn’t anything to brag about.
@Bethlehem Eisenhour you’re so smart 🙄 it isn’t about bragging. It’s to be able to take care of our children, pay our bills and keep a roof over our heads. Stop trying to down on people that do what they can for theirs. You could learn from it.
Wait but if you're working full time, you're not raising your own kid most of the time. Ive worked all my life, but I'd be happy to accept help from the government if it means I can nurse my own baby and spend more time with them. You will never get that time back
@bethlehemeisenhour8352you act like we wanna work to the bone, you act like we wanna work 60 hours a week. WE HAVE TO! She should be proud of herself because it's very easy to give up here. Instead of giving up she's pushing yourself to continue to provide for her family. It's not bragging. You don't think that some of us would love to only work 20 hours a week and have money left over to enjoy ourselves and have time to spend with our families? Some states a 1 bedroom apt is over 2000 dollars. Don't down this woman. She doing what she has to, to make sure her children are taken care of.
my family was on benefits for 4 years. we never acted like this.
For most benefits are a short term solution not a lifestyle. I cannot imagine using it as a lifestyle, governments change, policies change, you aren't really in control.
Why are acrylic nails, alcohol and fast food more important than going to the dentist? 🧐🤔
Let me guess you're American, where teeth have to be artificially straightened and bleached to be acceptable.
Yes true
She looks older than she is. Her teeth her skin her hair . Poor woman
Going to the dentist hurts. Maybe going to the benefits office should hurt.
If he doesn't like how the house looks, he may just put a bit of work into it? He has a lot of time ...
This just caused me so much aggravation and anxiety!!!
Ok, so…?
Funny how all these people always blame immigrants.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Because immigrants work harder than anyone who ever works that’s why the people that don’t wanna work and they want to live on the government. That’s why they are threatened by immigrants because immigrants do work.
@@marimattas2781 not illegal immigrants work their kept by the tax payers
@@marimattas2781In the USA, obviously we have an immigration issue but what makes it even tougher is citizens are getting bided out of proper wages. Employers often will pay immigrants lower wages to not pay citizens fair wages. That’s the issue.
Woman with 11 kids not happy to be in the newspapers seen by everyone but okay with being in a documentary seen by everyone.
The docco paid lol.
They made several documentaries about big families, but all of them had two working parents who support their kids.
She’s clearly having more kids for benefits.
She also could have just stopped having kids so she could be able to work at one point .
Kids can be put into school as early as 3 or 4
This show should be called "Ignorance, Laziness and Stupidity in the UK".
"what am I supposed to do? Work at macdonalds?"
Tou can also call it "why American poverty is not rassist" it's the same values except their trash are the same color lol.
"I am an independent young lady"
Still rather work than have 11 freakin kids! 🤦🏻♀️
Agreed
Well she not parenting them. U know she has the 2 oldest taking care of the kids
Right !!
I'm not from the UK and never been on benefits but we have a similar situation in Canada. The more kids you have, the more your benefits are. However, here, the govt keeps a tight leash on those who get benefits and everything is electronic so there's always a paper trail. Over here, caucasians have the same complaint that immigrants are taking their jobs but fact of the matter is, they don't want to do those jobs in the first place.
Immigrants also lower the working conditions
An I'm sure the natives thing the same of the white Canadians lol
She peeled third of that potato away!
Right? I was taught to peel vegetables with a nickel $0.05, then I would get to keep the nickel after I was done!
As long as OTHER PEOPLE are paying for my 11 children…
37 years old, but looks 50 and has apparently never seen a tooth brush?
That's what smoking a pack a day will do to ya
@@gwendolyn0515Rubbish
With so many people in that house why can’t them clean up?
How independent can she be if she in depending on benefits???
Would it be any better if she divorced for his house and car and income tho, this is almost more honest lol.
I try my best to keep from being a nasty person, but she's infuriating! She just has eleven kids with no problems with fertility. We work and have savings. We prepared for a big family. Out of all of my pregnancies, I've only been able to get two living children into this world. I'm thankful for them. I just hate seeing people who just have kids for benefits. We have the same problems here in the States. It also becomes a generational problem. Most people who are raised on welfare, go on to live off of welfare.
The poorest are always some of the most fertile.😂 I thought I wasn't the only 1 that noticed.
That's so true! However, I have a friend raised on Welfare and refused to live that life style. Went to college, has a bachelor's degree and makes 6 figures.
@@kimberlyruttenberg9567 good for her!!!
As someone who doesn't have and doesn't even want kids, this is infuriating as well. As someone who chooses to be childless, our tax money is still raising other people's children.
I'm sorry. I was only able to have one myself. It's difficult to see people who aren't well equipped be able to pop out child after child
You don't need TV. I have been without one since November. Nails don't need to be done, decoration can wait, don't need to drink, smoke, or have animals. If you spend more on your TV package than food, SHAME
I agree with all u said, except for animals .... animals can be a source of affection , also protection ....very good for people with depression and other disorders
@@IwasBlueb4 I agree with you.🌹🐾
Have never had a TV since I moved out of my parents house at 18. I'm 34. This is TV -
All of that is choices you chose to make just like they chose to be lazy & not work! Stop comparing your life to bums that makes you look bad not them! RESPECTFULLY 🙏🏾
@@mysterygirl30011same I don't have a TV and use my phone or laptop for entertainment.
“The problem with socialism is that you eventually run out of other people's money.”
― Margaret Thatcher
Just because you are on a benefit doesn’t mean you can’t have a wash!!
Is the government watching this?
Those of us that work wanted more children. However, those of you who lay on your back and make all the children you want because we pay for it! Doesn't seem fair somehow😭😭
We had two kiddos, and we both worked until retirement. We thought two were all were could afford.
31:28 'I'm an independent person' Oh luv.....lololol
Most people want to thrive in their lives but not everyone has the same talents and abilities. Until society can make room for the outsiders who don't fit in, there will be issues with people living on welfare. A living wage for menial jobs is a start in the right direction...
In my country is impossible live only on benefits. You have to work. If you don't you will be homeless. You can have some benefits if you have children - in my country you can get money but if you have 3 and more children you will get same money as if you have just 3 children. And it's not much money anyway.
Yeah, I laugh at the people who claim that anyone who gets welfare in the USA gets enough for a life of luxury!
I used to work at a homeless shelter and would help residents with paperwork. Never saw any amount that made up for not working!
The sad part is the majority of employees at Walmart, are dependent upon government programs to survive. The company has been caught teaching employees how to apply for it.
@@sarcasticallyrearranged it's not too bad in my country. I earn about the same as when I worked 40 hours a week. It's definitely enough to afford food and rent if you don't live anywhere near thr cities.
she said it was ridiculous she had to pay rent and bills when she was working?! wtf! what mentality is that?!?!?!?!?!
Benefits for kids should be reserved for cases where a child or a parent is suddenly ill or dead.
Not for people who just have kids for benefits.
Even if you separate, you have to first prove that you didn’t plan on it.
There shouldn’t be an indent I’ve for parents to split up for no reason.
You had 10 kids, you don’t get to get a divorce from the state unless you can prove the state won’t have to support your kids.
Prove you didn't plan on separating? Stay married? What will that solve ? 🤔
So basically heaps of kids will be homeless and without food?
It's amazing how the situation in the UK is similar to here in Brazil, I myself have cousins who have 4+ kids in order to get handouts from the government, try to exploit the government at every opportunity, and all of that in order to spend money on booze, clothes, etc.. disgusting
I'm 35 and become disabled. After working 6 days a week for myself, as a massage therapist. A si gle girl no kids and bought my own farm.
Now struggle to get any disability
Which country
Well there's the problem, you tried to make a better life for yourself, you only get benefits by being a perpetual victim and complaining about it lol.
I swear I feel people who are eldery or disabled deserve benefits than people who are lazy and don't want to work
Arrested development? Do all these recipients realize just how spoiled and immature they sound? “Give me” “I want” is all they say.
The welfare system needs overhauled. There needs to be a time limit
The kids are the ones making money..🙄🙄🙄
Why do these people think people who work should cover their costs? When they decide to have child after child with no plan to provide for them why is it the responsibility of people who have jobs?
In the US people lived on public aid for generations. When President Clinton overhauled the assistance program he faced lots of criticism - people were screaming babies would be dying in the streets.
Ha! That didn't happen.
The system changed so instead of no end to public aid, people had a 5 year lifetime total. After that amount of government funding people would be on their own. During those 5 years massive amounts of services were available so recipients could become financially independent.
Welfare was NEVER designed to be lived on forever. It's always been something to help during a crisis.
Britain needs to consider such a change. Yes, some people will be very upset but it will create a positive change.
Once recipients are working they may have a different perspective about funding the children of irresponsible parents.
Independent lady means not being dependent on anyone or anything, like the welfare system! Just stating the facts of what independence means
It’s how they’re taught to be socialist-independent.
“I’m a feminist, pay me government money”.
Their poor dog must be a nervous wreck!
True Enough! Although,
the 🐕 is the most intelligent one of all.
Why is the house so dirty. I grew up poor . We had to clean up
I'm curious about how the kids are now that all of them are mostly grown. When I saw this a while back, it was already old.
Why don't they fix the system?
11 kids and several pets...
I would HATE to have someone else decide where and what type of housing I lived in!
Yes, but if they’re paying for your car, you don’t get to request a BMW. 🤷♀️
@@marialiyubman😅😅 facts
Oh sure its your decision to have as many kids as you want. But then, try bringing them up on your own dime.
Not a single one tried to help themselves. No thrift shopping, nobody growing their own food (and you can grow a huge amount in recycled tubs, bins etc.) no classes or anything useful!
Yeeh😮
Right they wanted the most expensive
most new material things . 🤦♀️
Nothing wrong with 2nd hand items .
Only thing I invest is the obvious bed , sofa , under wears , towels ( things that can hold potential bed bugs , lice, Roaches etc )
But other items are worth the 2nd Hand especially when some items are nearly brand new.
And to think I thought what America gives it's people was a lot. The UK is far more 'generous.'
Our government is very generous here in Australia
I'll start moralising about these people once the UK eliminates all it's tax havens and cracks down big time on money laundering et al.
Damn 37 looking 87. I guess being pregnant for like a decade and a half will do that.
I'm obsessed with these shows.
Dying to have 11 kids too? 🤪
My daughter keeps telling me to change but I’m stuck watching LIFE ON THE DOLE!!
As frustrating as it is . 😂 it's very interesting
Disgusting
Thank you for the upload!
Whatever mom cooked we had to eat or go hungry. We also had assigned seats at the table, no fighting.
Ok! Good for you That's how your parents raised you. What does that have to do with the price of tea in china?🤔
Doesnt work is home all day house still a mess
Yeh
If they only gave them benefits for one child regardless of how many they had after that, this would stop.
Yes😮
But the gov wants ppl to have more kids .
FYI You're not independent if you depend on government assistance. You would think these people who don't work would have spotless houses.
You have to be a shameless person to demand alot of money without providing any substance, talent or skills to any employer! We call these kinds of people cockroaches!
Ok if you know you can not even support yourself then why bring children into your life that's absurd ok have some kids but this amount is ridiculous!!!! And then live on government benifits makes the tax payers angry ofcourse she is gonna defend all of this but this ya ok
@Bethlehem Eisenhour Yes, it's been a burning desire of mine to live on the dole, I'm absolutely GREEN with envy👽
@Bethlehem Eisenhour jealous ???? Ur joking right obviously u didn't read I said it's ok to have kids but come on I liked this lady she was super down to earth and loved her kids so read properly
@@elainepavek3156 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Bethlehem Eisenhour must be a buddy of ur cause ur sure flapping about it
@bethlehemeisenhour8352Everyone pays for these wasters.
It would probably be wiser for the government to give free birth control before they have all these kids.
As long as they're getting benefits per child, why would they use birth control? Every kid is a paycheck.
Not only free but mandatory
Durex...please sponsor them.
She’s doing it by choice, not by accident.
19:05 🤣🤣🤣. The entitlement while flashing her benefit paid nails. 🤣🤣🤣
Julie is 44?
plus twenty
I'm 2 seconds in and already nauseated......I can't do it. Got here looking for education on the welfare system in the UK but I can't watch this. But I support what you do. ❤️ from 🇺🇸
Here in the USA in NJ. It's not that easy to get help
@Bethlehem Eisenhour The selfish party is anyone who takes advantage of the handouts at anothers expense.
@@ontoyoualways9183 At another's expense? How about the fact that most people in the US who receive benefits actually work- which, if you can't work it out for yourself, means they pay into benefits. And have had family who have worked for decades and never collected any benefits, yet they pay into them. By allowing companies to pay poverty level wages so that workers have to apply for benefits to be able to live, you- yes, you- are allowing those companies to get away with abusing the welfare system by getting g the government to make up the difference in their worker's pay.
If it makes you feel better, you can just say that "your" tax dollars go towards paying legal fees for the politicians who get caught having affairs and using your tax money to fund their getaways. "My" tax dollars can be the ones that go towards helping folks who need it have food and housing and whatnot so they and their children aren't homeless or starving. Feel better now?
Same with Michigan.
Less tattoos, more dental work!
Right
😁😁😁
This made me sick to my stomach. The entitlement of these disgusting humans
It’s called socialism.
Keep voting Labour.. 🤷♀️
@@marialiyubmangirl this is the third comment I see from you saying the same thing. We get it, you don't like the labour party.
27:00 did I hear wrong???
She buys stuff from SHOPLIFTERS????
it comes down to what the government allows. the fish rots from the head down.
So many mouths to feed, such garbage food to feed the family. That is the pity 😱
Yes. My grandparents raised 7 kids (had 11, but 4 died), but a) my grandfather worked and financed the family by himself, and b) they had a huge vegetatble garden that was one of their main sources of food. It's not a shame to have many kids, but how you do it is another matter...
Well I mean someone’s gotta work at macdonalds and kfc and subway lol
This woman is absolutely disgraceful. I had been working since I was 16 yrs old until I became physically disabled and now on SSDI. From Medicare I receive $1,400 a month, $23 a month in food stamps. I pay full rent and have been on a waiting list for housing for close to 5 yrs now. Once a month I get paid and the next day it's gone. Our government would rather help illegal aliens and immigrants rather than take care of our homeless people and disabled people. But at least I have some dignity left, I can still say to myself I work so many years and was never lazy like this women. I cannot believe how much they are paid over in the United Kingdom, crazy!
Instead of being bitter and hateful and direct your hate to irrelevant people, be grateful and if you feel frustrated point it towards your government.
Doesn't the UK go after the fathers or non-custodial parent for some of or all of the benefits money. We do it in the US.
Same in Aus
Probably alot of the dads are on benefits too, or aren't earning much.
41:52 she has a partner who is the father of sixth of the youngest kids.
This makes me sick. How can they look their selfs.?? & their children are going to be just like their parents.
If you know you can't afford them quit having them. Tax payers are tired of raising families like you
Guess they don't know what birth control is... Not to generalize, these people need to stop spending money on piercings, tattoo's, cigarettes, and multiple dog's / cat's. The Mum accepting stolen good's, just wonderful
In my country the benefit cuts off after four kids anymore kids then it’s your own responsibility! Still get the benefit but cap at four kids…
Be greatful U.K are willing to pay and support big familiy! Like winning the lotto..
They can all afford cigarettes, tattoos, piercings, fake nails and kid after kid after kid. They best thing the UK can dole out is birth control. Do men in the UK not have to pay child support???
It makes me so sad to people feeling entitled to government benefits when some familes genuinely need help to get themselves out of a bad place. It makes everyone who asks for help look like a douchebag.
It looks to me that Vinny and Julie could work running around when the cable man was there how is she disabled?
She has a severe allergic reaction to work. Tragic, really.
yeah shes fine to work, shes been on jeremy kyle as well, proper wrongun
The total absence of reality with most of these people makes me shake my head. And check yourself people, you are not ENTITLED to anything!