MY REACTION TO HAYMER'S BOOK " JUKED " PART 2 : WATCH UNTIL THE END !
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- Опубликовано: 14 мар 2024
- MY REACTION TO HAYMER'S BOOK " JUKED " PART 2 : WATCH UNTIL THE END ! #bookclub
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Thank you, Melody, for your thorough and insightful review of my book, "Juked". I appreciate the time and effort you put into analyzing the events I documented. Your charisma in front of the camera is truly remarkable.
While I may not agree with all of your assessments, I value your perspective and your skill in breaking down complex topics for your audience. I've noticed some comments that are “out the box”. Allow me to clarify that the aim of "Juked" extends beyond simply presenting my perspective; it also aims to shed light on the common challenges faced by leaders across various spheres of life.
The overarching purpose of "Juked" is to provide insight into my decisions, thought processes, and the accusations leveled against me. As the head of the SU Department of Bands during that period, I bore responsibility for all decisions, including those in which I may not have been directly involved. I do not seek to justify my actions or assign blame elsewhere. Instead, the underlying message of the book emphasizes my commitment to taking full accountability for my decisions/actions and their consequences.
-Nathan B. Haymer
This needs to be a TV show. Different World but focused on the band.
Sir you and Mel let your light shine
@Mr.Haymer Thank you for sharing your story you didn't have to do that but you did. I wish you many blessings in the next chapter of your life. Don't worry all those that wronged will be dealt with from God that's for sure. And as for you you, you will receive many a reward.
@nathan hamer you did just that . The truth always comes out. You brought what was needed to young men and young women. Continue to greatness
I have a whole new appreciation for Jordan. She stood up for Maya and Alyx
After hearing & reading all of this drama from Gabby’s & Haymer’s books, all of y’all were professional & presented a united front- the staff, band & dolls. From a fan’s perspective you couldn’t tell there was chaos behind the scenes. It seems like everyone performed well under pressure, so let the chaos continue!!! 😂
Let’s go back to 2008. I was confused when the 2007 captain didn’t make the the team in 2008. How do you go from up front to not good enough . But hey what’s done in the dark comes to the light .
THANK YOU MR HAYMER FOR THE GREAT MEMORIES THAT YOU GAVE THE JAGUAR NATION! BEST OF LUCK WITH YOUR FUTURE ENDEAVORS, GOD BLESS 🙏🙏🙏
Awwww #HBCULOVE you can tell he was loved & cherished and that he really cares for the students...a rare breed 💙❤️💙💛
Airee was cut in 2008.
Glad you confirmed that Alyx was cut over some BS.
And that the Maya/Alyx/Brendon aftermath didnt go exactly like that, but they did see their scores.
This shit is riveting 🍿 and im about to order the book! Big ups to you, Mel for retelling this story so well.
Also, its interesting to hear these perspectives about Taylor because as a viewer from far away, something about him has always rubbed me the wrong way when I see him in videos. Get him and DT GONE
Looove it.
I agree. I don't know why they hired Taylor . He just bringing the band down.
Omg, Mel!!! Thank you so much for BRILLIANTLY breaking the book down in your “unbiased” recollection. I really enjoyed watching this and I just want to say you are STILL that girl!!!!!!! Keep going up!!!💕
Kudos to you, Melody! This was great! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
They definitely could’ve had maya on the team still and had dani do captain. It’s crazy that all this drama was going on and us fans didn’t even know because 2017 is my favorite year because of all the amazing stands and field shows.
The fact that Dr. Smith came on as a sponsor makes so much sense now. Personally, I know she stands on a no-nonsense platform
Thank you Mel 🙌🏼
It all makes sense .
Amazing job Melody. You made me want to go and get the book to read. You should do more book reactions. I enjoy your commentary!!!!
I would love to ! What books would you like me to read/review ? ⬇️
Yesss get a stand so you don't always have to hold it ❤
This needs to be the new series on Zeus. This would be so good
THANK GOD FOR QUEEN CONNOR ELIZABETH MCGRAW SHE SAVED SEASON 15 🔥🔥🔥
Das a baddd girl 💃
She was a fill in but not a filler. Still has some of the most iconic stands in the 2010s.
@@Ashley-cc7wo and let's talk about the stunning beauty ...and bawdy baybee!
@@CM_CALI yessssssss filled out those doll outfits in a different type of way and the hair was laid.
FILL OR FILLER I ❤ HER BRAND......SHE'S STILL THAT GIRL! 🔥🔥🔥🎉🎉👑
This was really interesting and well formulated, thanks Mel! 🔥
1:00:11 also why you gotta cut Gabby out the picture like that 😂
Hey Mel I'm sharing your video because I'm a fan of Southern University marching band and Dancing Dolls. I love this backstory ❤️
Great read and thanks for the review Mel!! I want to buy this book just to support Haymer!! Its crazy how people will mistreat the next person for selfish unreasons smh
Now this a review! It ate!!!
Receipts! Yasss
MELLLL!!!! 💙❤️💙💛 loveeee what ur doing in #Compton ! Thank youuuu!!! 💃👍🏾👍🏾
Bringing Danielle Stamper back as captain in 2017 has to be a top 3 best decision made in recent Doll history. 2017 was a phenomenal year for the dolls from a performance standpoint and gave a much needed facelift to an already iconic organization. I know you love Maya, but i just dont think she would've fit that season like the dancers who performed that year, and i like Maya
It seems like 2015 was happy with Dannie in 2017, but something must've changed after Jordan didn't make captain. Dannie has outwardly supported 2015 even to the point of not supporting her own crab getting captain in 2018 but it feels like 2015 doesnt outwardly support her the same. Jordan expressed that the dolls got too far from the 'doll style' in 2017, and here, you seem to make faces when stating Dannie was coming back.
I get feeling a way that your sister/friend didn't make the team, but you can't deny the impact 2017 made on the Dolls and it wouldn't have happened without Dannie Stamper
I don’t think the problem was ever about them bringing Dani back, the BIGGER issue is the sneaky way they went about it. Dani is an amazing dancer in her own right and that’s not debatable. But purposely knocking Maya down to hand the position to Dani, was definitely abuse of power and favoritism. We all been knew that. Again, not saying Dani didn’t deserve it because she’s a beast, but the shady tactics to insure she got it, is the problem at hand. 🤍
This!!
And for the record, I do think Maya could've done it too! She and 14 created some of the best Doll counts we know. Let's be clear. @@louisianagirl7430
They really did not like Haymer. How was he the ONLY person that faced consequences for anything. Hazing is illegal. Many other things that were swept under the rug was illegal. I’m glad he is as to finally move past it all.
A Banger Indeed...im going back pt 1...so i can righteously get mad allll over again 🤷♀️👍🏾
That jacket is DOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I miss Haymer being band director of SU human jukebox the band sounded so much better.Now under Taylor it’s a mess they play too much rap 🙄haymer kept it old school r&b
Can students advocate for change in the band? ❤️
@@CM_CALII don’t think so it’s up to the administration
Do you all have a STUDENT trustee?? @@jayytheedancer
@jayytheedancer ur student trustees are considered administration...at Howard they are!!! And they work in admin on BEHALF of the students. Go find him/her/them...
@@CM_CALIgurl if you listened to the video you’d know that the students tried really hard to rally behind Haymer including during the hearings but it all fell on deaf ears.
💛Will be ordering this book💛
Thank you 😊
It’s good and he goes into detail
I’m already rubbed the wrong way by him admitting that he ONLY wanted to suspend them for two weeks, but then turned around and acted like he didn’t want them back.
🤔😒
But he did soo much for y'all. Humble goes a long way .
FINALLY !
My fav doll
I really enjoyed these reactions! You definitely kept me captivated throughout--great job!
I love this series
WHY DIDN'T KAYLA PITTMAN ASK FOR NEW UNIFORMS DURING HER 1 ON 1 WITH MR HAYMER WITH ALL THAT MONEY FLOATING AROUND?
Bc if you read the book, it was no money!
Mel he reminds me of Hancock the superhero 😊
Dtara needs to apologize to Maya not Haymer
Maya wouldn’t have got captain anyway if Danielle was coming back. They still could have let her on the team
Period!!!!!!
But yeah!!!!!! Go ladies
Great review, we need your review of Gabbys book now. That would be Tea
She did already when it came out.
@@aliveandwell3958 not like this one. I mean chapter by chapter review
The Down Low (DL) community in Baton Rouge is incredibly dynamic and intersects within state/municipal governments, non-profits, and public education sectors.
DT FOUL AND JEALOUS! She was never that girl as a doll!
Juicyy👀
Ms Jessica Rabbit herself. I live
Awwww. You cut the 18’ story time 😭. Can we get the raw footage?
I was only 10 years old when I had watched the Human Jukebox on Fox 44 news one night when my Big Brother had went on a Band Trip but I knew that Mr. Haymer was Fired from being the Director of Bands until I was 15 years old a Freshman while in High School and that's when I was making plans to become a Future Director of Bands but with me being 19 years old and never Marched in a Band but every time I make plans to become a Future Director of Bands I end up balling up the paper and throw it in the Trash so whenever I get accepted into Southern University to March in the Human Jukebox Marching Band but I might quit the Band my Junior Year in college.
Never give up ur dreams! 👍🏾💪🏾😊
GO LIVE YOUR DREAMS !! Don’t let anything stop you !
@ Thanks Melody I really appreciate it I hope that I get accepted into Southern University and March with the Human Jukebox Marching Band but when I become a Band Director I was wondering if we can play your favorite song and I would say the Spring 2021 season was okay but I always think about becoming the Drum Major.
Dtara and Akai ain’t shit
Mel I love you but we need more consistent uploads 😭 we could’ve been at 20k by now
I been consistent babyyy!! I just haven’t been posting doll content but I been veryyy consistent 😝
❤❤❤
💙💙💙
But Mel when i look back at last season. Taylor did the DOLLS DIRTY. And stff , music was meh . I remember saying in squad buddies and SU platforms like give the girls something to croon to. Just my opinion
It's like they weren't freeeee to dawls!
@@CM_CALI exactly
And. !!!!! Mel please correct me if I’m wrong. I’m paraphrasing what the founder said about him wanting a group of pretty elegant etc women to lead his band of men ,onto the field . Dolls are first ones you . Letting you know SU is here . Much ❤️
Taylor was always reserved when it came to his arrangements and song choice. He was the same way as a high school director.
@@ej2010 I’m gagging right now!!! Facts always played it safe like it’s orchestra .I’m like even an orchestra has some upbeat bops and goes out of their bubble. Certain arrangements were so elaborate that even the band itself messed up. The pressure not ,taking away from the talent and measure of skill you have to have. But come now. !!!!Even in just band reviews there was devaluation on what he tried to do.
The level of petty on mission impossible
It seem like soooo much hard work to be soooo shady to ONE man. Damn!
@@CM_CALI If it wasn't for him there would be nothing.
@@SIRCITYART bless him and shame on the devils smh
The James Bond’s of petty.
WHO WAS THE 7TH BOSS AND THE OTHER BOSSES 😢😢😢
Hey hun 🎉
I'm going back to see who was a State legislature or Government Official in 2017 to see if I can deduce who was texting our Fav. Band Director.
🧐
Ok Mel first I’m going to send you a mic stand. I’m for real.
No cap
So sweet! 🎤 🎙
I’m going to hit you on ig
Can't point to one person, there's enough blame to go around with the problems Haymer had to deal with.
Wow
The president has no cahonaz.
But this video was everything melody love u 😘 😊
So clearly DT was the issue back then and I wonder how she is now with the new girls...
SHE'S STILL STANDING SHINNING BRIGHT AS EVER AND WILL ALWAYS GLOW .......DT IS A BAD ASS AND I ❤ HER! 🔥🔥🔥
@@creoleking7216 ok!!! Support ya girls!
This is juicy 😮😅
💡 have ur line sisters chime in with their perspectives on a chapter that they have a distinct part they played in... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🔔🔔🔔
A whole series! Come onnnnn 💙❤️💙💛
They are over talking about this lol , we have already talked about this In previous interviews
@ hahaha totally understand! I'm gonna wait til Dec to ask again for a Christmas special 🎁 lol💙❤️
Maybe put the mic down so it can pick up the noise or wrap it. You might need to experiment with it.
It’s not unbearable, but I prefer the other audio.
And also in Gabby’s book, Haymer was questioning her about making RUclips channels and acting bigger than the band, and he confirmed it too, so all this BS in his book about him being flabbergasted by the Alyx and Maya cuts is a boldfaced lie tbh.
It’s not ALL on DT. He let it get to this because a student was working for his nemesis, and he felt like getting rid of her would get rid of his problem.
I absolutely agree that he owes Maya and Brendon a sincere apology as well as KP and Linkford.
What if he not sorry??? Cuz I don't accept fake apologies 😌
@@CM_CALI
He’s probably not. He seemed more upset about the backlash than the students he hurt.
I hope he’s able to do some reflection and see how messed up his actions were and not just try to say that it was over SM when it was more to it than that.
@IssaPartay honestly, I'm just a viewer and an hbcu alum...I know how bs go so I make my own opinions and decisions. Be well! 💙
@@aaronbrown8671So many assumptions and absolutely no proof of this.
@@aaronbrown8671if you REAL, reveal urself....we're type sicka you....online nuisance
Shit i still want to know what happened to Sharon, with crazy self😂😂😂😂😂😂
Learning about all this, I know now they must have served the same bullshit to Lindsey in 2021. It is sad for the organization. Style, grace, maturity .. is it just a facade for drama behind closed doors? That is very disappointing.
I love Lindsey but she didn’t look good in auditions. I saw that with my own eyes . If a fan fav gets cut now then it’s automatically going to be bs behind it. I don’t know that’s unreasonable.
@@Kb-bv6zw from the documentary? I didn’t get a chance to see it unfortunately. It is the organization to decide if a two year vet is no longer worthy of being on the team and for us to respect it. However, if, as you say, she did bad that one day and they decided to cut her off it is not necessarily better. She was an experienced doll, passed the auditions twice and all off a sudden she is no longer able… ? Hmm … ok. Not to mention dolls really needed experience in 2021 after COVID. She was a fan favorite for a reason.
@@Kb-bv6zwwhere’d you see the audition video?
Why when any of the dolls talk about 2017 it seems as though there is bit of bitterness toward Stamper. In a live Haymer said HE wanted Danielle back.
She is so special...we all saw it 🌟
@@CM_CALIEXACTLY!!!!!!
Nobody ever wants to talk on 2016 or 2017 DOLL SEASONS! Danielle brought 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Haymer knew he needed her for HIS VISION! Especially going into 17.
They did not like her personality and communication style. She was rough. Taneria said in high school Danielle was her captain and she was the same way then.
@@Ashley-cc7wo tough love, great results! 💃 💙❤️💙💛
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Who's the band director now?
Taylor 😂
Sound about right 😂
Taylor SMH, 😮 even now really bro!!!
I hope they sound better this year
I don’t think you ever told us the story of you falling out with your crab sisters.
She did. It’s on a podcast episode or a visit with Alyx coming to LA.
Never knew that.
@@IssaPartay thank you!
When they fall out? I need to go listen to that podcast
Who is Sharron?
A character, a mess...allegedly 🤷♀️
@@CM_CALIMaranda white. You can find the actual lawsuit if you google Haymer lawsuits from that year.
@@IssaPartay oh cool!Thank you!!
Was she STINGING pretty 😂😂😂
I.thought so too
Also from 7:10!! I love how you kept your composure and went on about your binness. I would've died inside lol
WHAT'S THE BEEF ABOUT YOU WITH GABBY AND DANNIE DO TELL 🎉🎉🎉MEL
There’s no beef with DANNIE , and the beef with gabby is old so there is no beef really in this part. I’m just reciting haymers perspective
@ GREAT! YAWL SHOULD ALWAYS BE 1 UNITED FRONT AND FOREVER DOLLS PERIOD 🔥
I'm not loving the new mic.
I can respect that 😭 I tried something new didn’t work lol
Melody I love you but the way you shade gabby 8 years later is kinda wack to me
Gabby wasn’t mentioned
@@dclee4 she was, go to hell
She was
@@jarvisjohnson7798no tf she didn’t. She didn’t shade her at all.
@@Powerpuff772 look bytch this gon be my last time saying this. When She shows the pics of 2017 band banquet the caption says “Jordan was named captain but once Haymer got fired it was given to gabby out of spite “ now go to h*ll
Brian definitely slept band members
I feel like all the band members need to leave and dolls and join TSU
Slim shady....lol
@@CM_CALI 😎😎😎
I’m sorry but that uniform DID NOT look better imo. Lol
DT, is that you, sis?👀
@@Iwantcandy871 No, I’ve been following the dolls since like 2006 when Brittany Beal was captain. I just don’t think the remake of the uniform was better than the original. Not DT. Lol
@@Iwantcandy871 ooohhh
@EvilGeniusLaugh whew! Thank God cuz the world needs just a Lil piece of peace. We're all here for Mel! 💙💛
And besides, why would you “remake” a uniform when you could just buy another one. I’m sorry the whole idea was just stupid. And I’m DT, I’m just thinking about this rationally. I think they deserve a lil 2 week suspension. Lol