This topic was literally on my mind. People will be super persistent to be with you, but the moment they get it, they don’t know what to do with it. Damn.
This hit me and it’s exactly why my ex left me. He said it himself, “I deserve better”. Despite his issues, I was willing to stick by him (I’m not perfect either). It’s sad cos it was the best relationship both of us had but I’ve had to accept it, deal with the heartbreak and gradually move on. It could have been avoided if he was honest with himself about being ready for a high value relationship. Wheww chileee!
That is so true. .. and when I was younger they just wasted my time. And so I stopped giving chance to guys.. and then my husband approached me and I was impressed that he could handle all of me and encourage me shining bright.. so grateful.
Thank you for helping me see what happened to my marriage.... I've fought too hard to overcome so much in my life to be my true and authentic self. I'M NOT DIMMING MY LIGHT FOR ANYONE!
That’s why it’s important to have a conversation beforehand! We let our heart get in the way because we love them but, we are not responsible for our partner’s happiness!
This is clarity of what I've experienced, and all of US can be light. If folk used their gifts for the benefits and not to harm others, no one would be out of anyone's league...we all would thrive.✊🏿✨ I don't regret being vulnerable, activating my light, & the beauty of my truth. I just had to learn that everyone is attracted to your light does not deserve to stand in your light.💯 Billy Chapata said, "Your authentic self will scare many, confuse others, and intimidate some, but it's not up to you to dull your essence & dim your light so you can be less visible to those that are unwilling to look at themselves."
The moment a person has to downplay themselves to make others feel secure is the moment they loose a part of who they are. People love to hide, and downplay another they feel threatened or intimidated by or do not know too much about. I say be you and continue letting the light shine regardless who it makes uncomfortable and especially if the person not doing anything wrong to another but living their life while trying to be a better version of self. It’s always going to be that one, two hell group of people talking negative so let them and keep going. That’s why partnerships be so shaky as it is nowadays due to counterparts being in competition with them on some weirdo stuff and really for what? Level me up or vice versa and I’m going to do the same for him. I’m not going to sleep with one 👁 opened wondering when the 🤡 ready to 🐍 me and especially the one who I call my partner or husband due to his own inner demons battling jealousy or trying to sabotage me to soothe his own deep rooted mess lies they tell. He can keep it moving up until his bare feet rock like canoes we are not the same on no levels and especially if he has a 🐍 like over domineering, insecure mindset. I’m not her to even play the game with. My 👻 game and I no longer see you is 💪🏽 facts! 😄🤣😀 🔥 read. 👍🏽👍🏽
Always walking on eggshells …. he is so right It’s not a good way to live it’s a major tear down it’s not worth it This was a great post thank you for sharing your views ❤
BAAAAABBBBYYYYY…I passed on a record deal. My ex-husband would come to the studio showing his ENTIRE ass…mofos ain’t wanna work with me…🤦🏾♀️. You can’t love someone who don’t love themselves…SMDH.
I studied a second language from since I was in 7th grade all the way to a language degree and living abroad. When I speak the language, some people say, i'm showing off.😢
So TRUE** This coming from a Female..... I lost a GOOD ONE because I wasn't on his level... I HATE how I was raised without street smarts/wittiness/sharp = Iron Sharpen Iron..... MANN
Im so more in peace without Tyrone in my life. Ive been mistreated. He despised me being positive and carry myself as a lady. I called police to get him out of my apartment three days ago. I packed his things and set it outside. He had is babymama came to picked up his things from outside. Both of them been my enemies. He have been sleeping her. He talked bad about me, lied on me and everything going on in my apartment. He never cared about me in the beginning. He was narcissist, the devil. I would rather have peace of mind. I know my worth. They can have each other🙏🏾📖👑
Idgaf for real...im not all that but attract ppl that have no business talking to me it seems like. Im strong n independent n feel like my ❤ is a privilege to hold...but ik it sounds borderline conceited but hey if im confident n proud then don't look at me look over there n move around. He folded n cheated n i blame myself for not being thick enough but thats not who i am anymore. Ive been 120 lbs to 220 lbs but im doing me now n what makes me comfortable even if its not what he or anyone wants. Im happy a little lonely sexually but its ok im here n that's what matters. 💯
Wish I heard this 10years ago. My fat ex always had problems with my female friends. Led me to cutting off everyone over a course of 10years then I gained weight just watching Netflix and eating with her. So much people showed me she was the problem and I didn’t listen cuz she could cook good
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This topic was literally on my mind. People will be super persistent to be with you, but the moment they get it, they don’t know what to do with it. Damn.
This hit me and it’s exactly why my ex left me. He said it himself, “I deserve better”. Despite his issues, I was willing to stick by him (I’m not perfect either). It’s sad cos it was the best relationship both of us had but I’ve had to accept it, deal with the heartbreak and gradually move on. It could have been avoided if he was honest with himself about being ready for a high value relationship. Wheww chileee!
That is so true. .. and when I was younger they just wasted my time. And so I stopped giving chance to guys.. and then my husband approached me and I was impressed that he could handle all of me and encourage me shining bright.. so grateful.
Thank you for helping me see what happened to my marriage.... I've fought too hard to overcome so much in my life to be my true and authentic self. I'M NOT DIMMING MY LIGHT FOR ANYONE!
Preach!!! It’s not my fault you’re not comfortable. So, move around, I’m not dimming my light. TY!❤
That’s why it’s important to have a conversation beforehand! We let our heart get in the way because we love them but, we are not responsible for our partner’s happiness!
Amen sir! I needed to hear this.. the chase was smooth sailing & as soon as I'm all in They switch up !!! Smh #lovinglife #Lovelove
Such great points. Facts.
Thanks for helping me to grow 🪴🪴🪴 this video is so informative.
This is clarity of what I've experienced, and all of US can be light. If folk used their gifts for the benefits and not to harm others, no one would be out of anyone's league...we all would thrive.✊🏿✨
I don't regret being vulnerable, activating my light, & the beauty of my truth.
I just had to learn that everyone is attracted to your light does not deserve to stand in your light.💯
Billy Chapata said,
"Your authentic self will scare many, confuse others, and intimidate some, but it's not up to you to dull your essence & dim your light so you can be less visible to those that are unwilling to look at themselves."
The moment a person has to downplay themselves to make others feel secure is the moment they loose a part of who they are. People love to hide, and downplay another they feel threatened or intimidated by or do not know too much about. I say be you and continue letting the light shine regardless who it makes uncomfortable and especially if the person not doing anything wrong to another but living their life while trying to be a better version of self. It’s always going to be that one, two hell group of people talking negative so let them and keep going. That’s why partnerships be so shaky as it is nowadays due to counterparts being in competition with them on some weirdo stuff and really for what? Level me up or vice versa and I’m going to do the same for him. I’m not going to sleep with one 👁 opened wondering when the 🤡 ready to 🐍 me and especially the one who I call my partner or husband due to his own inner demons battling jealousy or trying to sabotage me to soothe his own deep rooted mess lies they tell. He can keep it moving up until his bare feet rock like canoes we are not the same on no levels and especially if he has a 🐍 like over domineering, insecure mindset. I’m not her to even play the game with. My 👻 game and I no longer see you is 💪🏽 facts! 😄🤣😀
🔥 read. 👍🏽👍🏽
Right on time!!! 🙌 I agree!!
You’re 💯 ✅ correct!!
❤ True facts.
So true 💯💯
Always walking on eggshells ….
he is so right
It’s not a good way to live it’s a major tear down it’s not worth it
This was a great post thank you for sharing your views
❤
BAAAAABBBBYYYYY…I passed on a record deal. My ex-husband would come to the studio showing his ENTIRE ass…mofos ain’t wanna work with me…🤦🏾♀️. You can’t love someone who don’t love themselves…SMDH.
I studied a second language from since I was in 7th grade all the way to a language degree and living abroad. When I speak the language, some people say, i'm showing off.😢
They just jealous of you, don't pay it no attention, we will always have haters
Show off then . That's a they problem not a you problem.
You Are Speaking Facts…. ❤
It’s your responsibility to see when someone is on a lower frequency and dismiss them, immediately, with respect though.
So true
So TRUE** This coming from a Female..... I lost a GOOD ONE because I wasn't on his level... I HATE how I was raised without street smarts/wittiness/sharp = Iron Sharpen Iron..... MANN
💯💯💯❤❤❤🤍🤍🤍Amen. Preach!!!
That is so true
I have had consoling for 7 yrs.and learnt how to change myself for me.
God gave me gifts and I'm taking time for me things I had to put on hold now I'm doing me,and someone wants to come in my life we will make it work.
No lies told. Get yo confidence up To my trade I will always be me…that’s why you couldn’t handle it
Im so more in peace without Tyrone in my life. Ive been mistreated. He despised me being positive and carry myself as a lady. I called police to get him out of my apartment three days ago. I packed his things and set it outside. He had is babymama came to picked up his things from outside. Both of them been my enemies. He have been sleeping her. He talked bad about me, lied on me and everything going on in my apartment. He never cared about me in the beginning. He was narcissist, the devil. I would rather have peace of mind. I know my worth. They can have each other🙏🏾📖👑
I definitely wont... things get old after a certain season in life.
Idgaf for real...im not all that but attract ppl that have no business talking to me it seems like. Im strong n independent n feel like my ❤ is a privilege to hold...but ik it sounds borderline conceited but hey if im confident n proud then don't look at me look over there n move around. He folded n cheated n i blame myself for not being thick enough but thats not who i am anymore. Ive been 120 lbs to 220 lbs but im doing me now n what makes me comfortable even if its not what he or anyone wants. Im happy a little lonely sexually but its ok im here n that's what matters. 💯
True
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Wish I heard this 10years ago. My fat ex always had problems with my female friends. Led me to cutting off everyone over a course of 10years then I gained weight just watching Netflix and eating with her. So much people showed me she was the problem and I didn’t listen cuz she could cook good
Sound like you the fat ex now
😂 yo fat ex it don’t matter if she was sexy,she still would have a problem with yo female friends. Man and woman truly don’t need to be friends.
Not one lie was said
Sounds like you're venting! Lol!
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I learned the hard way about the whole popular guy concept and it's not even about self esteem a lot of times that type isn't faithful.
My uncle always told me to don't dabble with the limelighters and let them stay in the streets because they will come with a bunch of drama.
Chile..I've been there...waste Of time! Kills your vibe!
I do believe I was first.🎉🎉🎉
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I want to say so much on this , but you’re right.