How Black Nerds Can Cope with Life

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024

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  • @erictbrown1
    @erictbrown1 6 лет назад +45

    When I moved away from the hood and starting hanging out with fellow nerds and I got laid like crazy be around people you have something in common with.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +11

      That's what's up.

  • @JDTR1900
    @JDTR1900 6 лет назад +40

    Exactly. You have to be to yourself, and change for nobody. Only thing I'd recommend my fellow nerds do is make time for the gym. Not only does it make you healthier and make you look better, but it's a big confidence boost.

  • @goku92son4
    @goku92son4 6 лет назад +54

    The whole gest of this video is living your life without fear and not caring what other people think. Great video!!!

  • @memes_for_kings
    @memes_for_kings 6 лет назад +31

    Proud nerd since 92!(thanks Batman The Animated Series). I used to hide my geekiness(try to) growing up. We were like closeted homosexuals but by the time the nerd culture blew up in my early 20s I owned it. Hell I just smashed a girl the other day who is a nerd. We talked about Deep Space 9 before and after the session

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +5

      Deep Space Nine was that show. My favorite Star Trek episode EVER is "In the Pale Moonlight.'

    • @xoacatl
      @xoacatl 6 лет назад +9

      Razz_Al _Ghull ....that's what's up! I've seen quote unquote nerds here in the dirty south get it in! there's somebody for everybody!.... look how Erkel turned Myra on and she was bad!

  • @dwohntanywilder6889
    @dwohntanywilder6889 6 лет назад +22

    This goes back to finding your tribe.

  • @TheAnomaly330
    @TheAnomaly330 6 лет назад +7

    that abundance mind state is key. when your comfortable in your own skin the world is your bitch imo

  • @sniper11n.d.34
    @sniper11n.d.34 6 лет назад +10

    The only advice i can give them is be yourself but stronger. It's not a bad thing to be a nerd but addapt because in this world if you can't do that you will never survive.

    • @mrScififan2
      @mrScififan2 6 лет назад +2

      Excellent advice. Black men are surrounded by enemies. You need to build a persona to survive. Read “Gods in Every Man”; it’s talks about how men can cope.

    • @sniper11n.d.34
      @sniper11n.d.34 6 лет назад

      Thank you and i will read it.

  • @mikensu06
    @mikensu06 6 лет назад +41

    In 2018 I feel we're in the year of the nerd or black nerd. Crazy cuz some of these black nerdy chicks be sexy as hell with dope bodies. Especially with Marvel movies plenty of people have come out the "nerd closet" lol. In the 90s when I was growing up it wasn't acceptable to be a nerd. I'm a lil hood with education but I may be a lil too hood for these women like that lol. But I love intelligence, and in my 30s I love how I don't care what people think of me. I follow my own path of happiness. Being the typical stereotype is boring and played out especially when someone leaves the environment they grew up.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +3

      That's the way to be.

    • @tonysmith8071
      @tonysmith8071 6 лет назад +4

      Mike Harris some of these nerd girls talk well and are interesting

    • @Paaka
      @Paaka 6 лет назад

      I thought this video was pertaining to black nerds and the disadvantages

  • @RobsterCWell
    @RobsterCWell 6 лет назад +15

    In the words of the great Patrice O'Neal "Your happiness is paramount!"

  • @SimeonToko
    @SimeonToko 6 лет назад +12

    My motto since I was 14 was "I am the herb that will hurt you."

  • @Blackout300
    @Blackout300 6 лет назад +15

    Nice one! It’s all about living your truth and not allowing anyone to determine how you live your life! You only get so many days! I’m gonna make sure to live mines to the fullest!!

  • @davewade6712
    @davewade6712 6 лет назад +5

    Yes the intelligent man must pride himself in being above average with other people. He has the right to look down upon others who have no integrity and no respect for him.

  • @GamerGee
    @GamerGee 6 лет назад +9

    College it was much easier. Now in my area it's black professionals but they just rich hood people that's into consumerism so I just stay in my lane locally

  • @gregfoster2305
    @gregfoster2305 6 лет назад +12

    Amen too many in our community have reenslaved themselves by their ignorrance. Most of us just either go to church or the club and the only thing that they have in common is the grocery store. I love to paddle into state parks (photography) in full camouflage from the swamp to rest. The looks I get, even from the rangers when they see that I'm a black man ...hahaha.

  • @legsdiamond6
    @legsdiamond6 6 лет назад +11

    I have a question. When black women say nerd are they thinking of guys that look like steve erkle & like anime or just "normal" guys that just want to persue money through legal means outside of crime and entertainment.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +5

      It can be normal men in some cases.

  • @FGAlele
    @FGAlele 6 лет назад +8

    Needed to Hear this Discussion Big Brotha Rom. Try to remind myself of the purpose of this message on a Daily Basis.

  • @keithsmith8543
    @keithsmith8543 6 лет назад +6

    I went to Wizard World Comic Con in Philadelphia last month. I had a nice time, but while I was there, I seen this well endowed Black female (early to mid 20s). We glanced at each other, but see covered herself QUICK. Ironically, I wore a shirt of a well endowed Black woman wearing a bikini. I usually wear stuff like that at Comic Con or during summer weekends. It's about individuality.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +1

      Truth.

    • @keithsmith8543
      @keithsmith8543 6 лет назад +2

      Baron Olden No Player. I didn't, but that girl jetted real quick! When women usually see me wearing these shirts, they would offended ('that's disgusting, etc'). I would ask them would they say anything to those males (and those females) who walk in the street with their pants hangin' off their ass. Their answers are usually non-verbal (rolling their eyes or sucking their teeth). The arrogance, hypocrisy, and self-righteousness of some people is absolutely mind-boggling...

    • @keithsmith8543
      @keithsmith8543 6 лет назад

      Baron Olden Most definitely!

  • @iamyoungblackman6421
    @iamyoungblackman6421 6 лет назад +1

    The definition of being yourself. Being powerful knowing that you will find peace within your best and true self.

  • @alvinhollingeriii2562
    @alvinhollingeriii2562 6 лет назад +10

    Where is the Goddam Offering Plate!? This is some Fuckin Church!!

  • @victorshaw8619
    @victorshaw8619 6 лет назад +3

    On point as usual Rom! I was just on another youtubers page and for damn near 10 years this cat has been ranting and raving about educated lames this and pookey and ray ray that,black women don't want etc. I'm like f#ck all that sh%t, be beholden to your own truth and path as a man... build your knowledge and skills up and watch the bullsh#t against you becomes less effective. Salute to you Unc for being a figure who doesn't feed into the dredges of the negative things that get put on us... but instead is giving black men the keys and insight to make something shake despite what is projected on us.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +2

      Thank you. Men have to be about themselves.

  • @AndrewJohnson-bj3hp
    @AndrewJohnson-bj3hp 6 лет назад +3

    My advice to black nerds. Don't let the Black Panther fever go to waste. Get that Black Panther T-Shirt and walk with confidence as Rom said. Women will not start a conversation, but they will look at you to start one instead.
    Also I suspect the Anime fan community has a sexual underworld. I haven't been in one, but I notice how men and women interact when they find out they both like anime. They instantly check each other out. I have some personal experience with that as well (few girls who are into Star Wars noticed my tight fitted Star Wars T-Shirt). Thing is, you can be chosen or rejected as a potential date very quickly.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +2

      Now that would be interesting.

  • @underrated7725
    @underrated7725 6 лет назад +1

    Needed this. At times its real easy to get caught up in the hype

  • @davidgrier403
    @davidgrier403 6 лет назад +2

    On again, off again, I know a black woman who grew up in the hood, yet, she's cool with my ways. I grew up in a deeply, naturally diverse area where black, white, Jew/Gentile/Muslims, ... all had fun and enjoyed our differences. She teases me on my 'white ways', yet, she has her 'white' moments too. I am NOT hood at all, I've played hockey, I listen to all music, but, love rock. My nerdy way is that I am a pilot and she loves to fly. Find me a black woman who loves flying in a single engine plane and wants to take trips that way? Sadly, that is just one woman out here who doesn't shun a man because he is not 'black', showing that so many black women are missing out on a lot of fun. I may ask her on a flying vacation. But, then again, a few Beckys has asked me to take them.

  • @hershellumiere
    @hershellumiere 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks Uncle Rom. I really needed that.

  • @TheSaintsKinge
    @TheSaintsKinge 6 лет назад

    This is truly inspirational. Great video bossman. Fuck the mainstream. BE YOU!!!

  • @barackthecomposer6642
    @barackthecomposer6642 3 года назад +2

    “Live long and prosper.”
    Big Star Trek fan!
    Lost in Space
    Babylon 5
    Battlestar Galactica

  • @FlemZ2322
    @FlemZ2322 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks Unk. I needed to hear that bro.

  • @ellisjackson3355
    @ellisjackson3355 6 лет назад +4

    I love star trek: tng. Still have to see that episode where they encountered two dimensional beings.
    8:09-8:40

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +2

      It was great show.

    • @damonm.
      @damonm. 6 лет назад +2

      Ayyyyy!! Deanna Troi and those breastessesses!!👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

    • @nicoleangelina7
      @nicoleangelina7 3 года назад

      I didn’t see that episode, now I have to see it!

  • @dwohntanywilder6889
    @dwohntanywilder6889 6 лет назад +1

    Amen brother...

  • @dionbush5560
    @dionbush5560 6 лет назад +1

    100% on.

  • @preciousaustin9209
    @preciousaustin9209 6 лет назад +2

    Love it!

  • @raiders48gates5
    @raiders48gates5 6 лет назад +1

    Speak on that shit Rom!!!

  • @jeremiahgiles3593
    @jeremiahgiles3593 6 лет назад +3

    I got a question Unc, when you split with a woman, should you be a gentleman and try to still be friends and on good terms, or should you just drop her and stay away altogether?

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  6 лет назад +3

      Only if there was an actual friendship to begin with.

    • @jeremiahgiles3593
      @jeremiahgiles3593 6 лет назад +2

      Rom Wills that's real, I didn't think about that. Words to live by. I guess I'll be friendly when I see her, but let her go otherwise

  • @BigAjia
    @BigAjia 6 лет назад +1

    Good drop sir

  • @RL20233
    @RL20233 6 лет назад +3

    I feel like Biggie Smalls Uncle Rom: HERE'S ANOTHER ONE!! Great Video. I feel that a lot of Men Especially Black Men have Peer Pressure when they are Young and when they are adults. I have no Children and didn't want any until I was Married or in a functional relationship. Most Black People look at you funny if you don't have any Children over 30-40. Also if you are Healthy Eater, don' t drink, you get ostracized! I always say Fuck Peoples Opinion and danced to my own Beat.

  • @FlemZ2322
    @FlemZ2322 6 лет назад +2

    What up Unk

  • @greendelano
    @greendelano 6 лет назад +1

    Amen

  • @munajmursheed1238
    @munajmursheed1238 6 лет назад +4

    SO! what! hahahah unc thats a life philosophy

  • @rudeboiidondada6717
    @rudeboiidondada6717 6 лет назад

    Wish I had some but.. ran all outta fucks 2 give.. down 2 my last and it goes to me.

  • @GamerGee
    @GamerGee 6 лет назад

    1:40 truth. Let me clown you. You ain't broke. They got the real problems.

  • @PutYourselfOn100
    @PutYourselfOn100 4 месяца назад

    💯

  • @monkeymindfrance8356
    @monkeymindfrance8356 6 лет назад +1

    thank you for the great work you do, you are helping many men all aroung the world why you great content... A mgtow brother from France.
    To all my Mgtow brothers, to understand how the game is riggged, it's a loose loose situation for these women out there i find out a channel of a man who spend is time lying to these female to make some money for himself.
    ""Derrick Jaxn"" is the name of is channel i don't want to give this guy view but i think is great for us to know how women think or how people want hem to think, go on is channel if you can click any video listen to the bullshit he says and read the comments of women. I did, and now i know for sure that all those women are deeply fuck up... there is nothing left, nothing, just empty vessels

    • @nicoleangelina7
      @nicoleangelina7 3 года назад

      That’s not true. Your vibe attracts your tribe. If you truly feel this way, that’s who is gonna show up.
      That dude Derrick is a con artist, it’s sad playing on ppl affections like that.

  • @Masterteacherofattraction
    @Masterteacherofattraction 6 лет назад

    Do you at the end of the day

  • @darkchocolate5678
    @darkchocolate5678 6 лет назад +1

    First