Welcome to today's video. We hope you had a great weekend! We encourage you to watch the video all the way through. Definitely some hills and valleys in this one. Thanks for spending your time with us. ❤️
Ugh!!! I've been praying for you so hard lately. I was ligit crying with happiness when you tested positive and so heartbroken at the end. I'll continue to pray for you. 🙏
It really is something special to be able to witness how Jared just gives his all to you. Physically and mentally and spiritually always by your side. Not just throughout your guys hardships with pregnancies but throughout your marriage. Ellie, don’t ever feel like you have to explain why you do things this way. I think I would be just as excited to take tests and hang onto the “maybes” or “what ifs”. Its just another piece of of puzzle. A really freaking hard puzzle ha! .Although I’m sure Jared you know this, you’re willingness to just be is so special to watch. I’m not married and I don’t see kids in my future but you have no idea the impact you’ve made as a “father, brother” figure in my life. The excitement you have for Ellie and the way you constantly are there to lift her up and catch her when she falls make me so excited to find my person one day. The two of you really have something special. Thank you for sharing such vulnerable intimate moments💕Sending all the baby prayers and dust your way!! Xox
This! Ellie you are so lucky to have him! I have an amazing husband but he is not where near this degree encourage and supportive! I felt so lonely though my 9 iuis and ivf! But he an amazing father.. not all men can be Jared lol
Don’t give up. You have every right to feel all the feels and your feelings are very valid. The anger, the sadness, and yes the excitement to take those tests too. Keep your heads up- you have a family people dream about having. And I know you will expand your family. It will happen. I think it’s time to go back to square one and go from there. You are stronger than you think- both of you. You can handle this. And if it’s gonna be your last baby- might as well give it all you’ve got. Right? We are all here supporting you in whatever decisions you make moving forward and during this journey. 💕💕
I am currently going through a chemical pregnancy/early miscarriage. I am here with you. I know the devastation you feel. Thank you for your vulnerability. Sending love and baby dust.
Rooting for you guys! I’ve been watching since before Jackson. Thank you for being so open and honest with us throughout the years. You’ve helped me come to terms with my own fertility struggles and allow myself to enjoy the little things. Thank you.
If you feel the tug in your heart for another baby, there’s a reason. There’s a little soul out there just waiting for the right time. I can feel it 💕 Prayers from Tennessee
I know exactly how you feel. I have had two very early misses in the past year and just that excitement, that joy, that hope and expectation that comes in the few days of getting the faintest line, it is a gift and something I treasure. I would also rather have those moments, those special happy secret times, to hold onto forever, and to know that there was a moment when I was pregnant and all the sweet possibility that brings. Last month my Dad passed away and at the same exact time, early morning, I got a faint line of hope and it honestly carried me through those next few days in such a lighter and brighter way, sadly it got fainter and a few days later I got my cycle, and yet I was still so comforted by the thought that my Dad was in heaven taking care of that little baby "girl" and they were together until (and if) she is meant to come back down to me. If the tests make you happy, take them, there is so much heartache in this world and testing IS fun, and it is exciting, and something I look forward to even if it doesn't stick. I know you have a rainbow baby out there just waiting to come home, and it's so beautiful and loving the way Jared is right there with you in the emotions, you are so blessed.
Fertility treatments are so emotionally exhausting - I remember feeling *exactly* how you describe yourself after doing 6 months of letrozole and never seeing a super strong positive - mad, sad, and just so dang discouraged. I'm so hoping a baby is coming your way soon!!!!
I can’t imagine how hard this is. But you guys have 3 kids and you will have your 4th miracle! I know it doesn’t make it easier and you want it now- sending you guys all the love and fertile power!
I love you guys… your journey with pregnancies is unreal… the amount of hope and love and desiring and pain and loss and sorrow. Such strength, such heart. I’m so sorry, your babes are so adorable and I know the Father has a great plan in all of this. Your rawness is what makes you so wonderful to watch in all of this. May God hold you in His loving arms and just pour in joy of the spirit and just peace and grace and rest. Peace and Ellie, these mamma hormones are no joke…. your system if you tracked emotions and hormones for the past decade… girl, you’ve been through it and are so strong. Just love just sending a bubble of love for you both.
I’m praying for you guys!! I’m doing my first transfer next month! I’ve started watching you guys before I found out I’d ever have to do IVF! I pray no one ever has to go through this but I’m hopeful to know people out there are going through the same thing. Sending all the love and good vibes!
One thing I’m so grateful to this channel for is the example you set for healthy and strong relationships. Both as spouses and with your children. Your impact is so great and will go to such good. Thanks from a longtime follower!
Last year I did 6 rounds of clomid with 2 failed IUI’s, gave up and got pregnant naturally and had a miscarriage by Christmas. So I totally get how you’re feeling. Were you told that your trigger shot will cause you to have a positive pregnancy test? The HCG in the shot causes positive tests up to 10DPIUI, it really sucks and makes you hopeful. I’m holding onto hope for you guys though, we are now just saving up for IVF at this point in hopes I naturally get pregnant again and it sticks somehow lol. Thank you for sharing your ttc journey with us, it’s nice to be able to relate with you through all the highs and lows. 💕
This is definitely a thought that we had and we even discussed it in our next video. I’m so sorry about your experience. Hope all goes well with you and we’d love to hear about it more! ❤️❤️
Glad you asked this, as I didn’t want to hurt feelings by asking, but so many women aren’t told to test out their trigger and it can end in heartbreak. Praying we all get our rainbows soon. 🥺
I can not imagine what your going through but how positive u are and ur still smiling which I feel like its bc you've been through this before and it is what it is but it probably still hurts.... my heart goes out to you guys. I think about Ellie all the time and I always say a prayer for her. 💖 you guys are the sweetest couple.
All the emotions with this video❤️ so many ups and downs.. What are you doing? "I'm sad." why? "I don't know"... So relatable 🙈 Thank you for sharing! Keeping you in my thoughts
I found our ivf journey more enjoyable than rounds and rounds of medicated cycles and iuis. It was more hopeful and busy and actually more economical then to keep trying. Sending love and prayers
My hubby & I get to start mini IVF in 8 more days. We've been trying for almost 20 years. We finally saved up enough for mini ivf, I had my tubes removed bc they were so damaged. So getting pregnant naturally isn't in the cards for us. We may be broke now bc we had to pay in full but I have highHope that this is going to work for us. That after 20 years I'll finally get to bring a baby home from the hospital 💜
If you did a trigger shot of HCG it will stay in your system for up to 12 days after the IUI. So you will test positive until then. If you’re truly pregnant it will get lighter, possibly even turn negative, but it will come back.
I'm really touched everytime I see you Ellie and jared in the Journey and struggles that it has been to conceive , of course never the less you have 3 beautiful little ángel miracles and I feel every single bit of your pain ,anxiety I have struggled with infertility I am 30 and have 1 healthly boy that is 11 now and it really takes a toll mentally and physically but I really try to look at you Ellie and keep having hope some days it's easier to get out of the funk and others it's hard. I hope with all my heart you get to have many more babies as you desire. Love your raw and realness in a time like this.
Found you guys while searching for info while we were doing fertility treatment years ago. You had Jackson, after a while I got pregnant with my daughter. I feel those feelings again watching you all in this video and my heart is with you. Praying for you❤️
Our order kiddos are the same age! I watched you and Missy and Katie when we were all pregnant together and had our babies in 2014! (can you believe they are 8 now! 😢) I personally have not had to go through what you ladies have but you inspired me so much I became a surrogate. I had my first Surro babe in 2019 and I’m so ready to do it again!! Rooting for you both!!! 🤞🤞🤞
I watched a lot of IUI RUclips videos of other women and IUI never worked with them. It wasn't until they went and did IVF they got pregnant. I wish you the best !!
I cried watching this, I was very hopeful for a positive and thought it be totally cool you and Missy being pregnant together. I hope and pray for the best of you 2. Love you guys! I’ve been watching since Calvin was born.
Don't give up i am so glad Jared is there for you that helps so much in a situation like this! I am sending you good vibes and baby dust your way! BTW never use a blue dye sometimes they give you a evap line quicker. Hugs to you! ♥️
I’m so sorry you guys are here yet again. I’ve followed along with you from struggling to fall pregnant with my first (I found your videos of when you found out you were pregnant with Calvin). I’ve since had 3 boys also and contrary to what some people think, it doesn’t get any easier, even though you already have beautiful children. The negative tests that you shine every way in the light with so much hope, the disappointment, the limbo of not knowing, the stress of next steps. We are all here with you with fingers and toes crossed for a positive outcome for you soon! I share your story so often (people think you’re our closest friends! - and you are but one sided 😂) I’m glad you both have each other to share this journey with 💕
I have 2 kids and we tried for 6 months for our 3rd. I thought there was something wrong with me. I had been stressing so much and testing for my ovulation, it was stressful plus life issues. Eventually I calmed myself and we tried February and thankfully im pregnant. Its the worst seeing those negative tests. It’s heartbreaking. I pray for yall. Hugs. The tears you have and heartbreak hits me in my stomach. I so want you to have that positive. Hugs guys Also DO NOT take Walmart 5 days early equate test, i had a negative positive result and it was heartbreaking. With this pregnancy I almost couldn’t believe when I saw the 2nd line, i went crazy and took tests over and over, like crazy. U want that reassurance.
Feeling waves of emotion for you both I was really hoping for good news I was pregnant with my first daughter when you were pregnant with Tommy and this week I've been going through miscarriage with my second pregnancy lost at 10 weeks whatever stage of the journey you are at there is a grief beyond words when things are uncertain I hope we get our little miracles together again soon ❤️ sending you all the love in the world to help you through this.
Sending all the love and good vibes! I know I’m going to need help getting pregnant when the time comes and I hope to find someone as special and loving as Jared! Love from Buffalo ny!
Ellie and Jared you are so strong. Me and my husband have gone through these roller coaster of emotions twice, it never gets easier and you just don’t know how to feel, you have my full support I love you guys🤍
We’re currently trying for #3 and it’s taken longer than the other 2 so I’ve been finding comfort in rewatching your videos. I’ve been following you guys since 2015, you’re amazing! I love you guys and your family 💕✝️
I will pray for your family as you go through this journey. I can understand your pain - my husband and I tried to get pregnant for almost 15 years, and negative tests never get easier. I hope a miracle happens and you can get pregnant again naturally.
I’ve been watching you guys forever. I feel so hopeful for you both. Keeping you in my prayers. Thank you for sharing and for being so vulnerable xo! ❤️
If our infertility thaught us anything it is to be good at fighting. Fighting for that glimmer of hope. Fighting for a baby in our arms, for babies in our arms, fighting through hormones and medication. Because we know it will be worth it in the end, especially when it’s a second, third, fourth etc. Sending so much love and strength but most of all hope. ❤️
My heart hurts for you both. I too have had an extensive fertility journey. I have had 4 ivf cycles. 3 were successful. I would recommend looking into maca root. I took it after my last ivf pregnancy to stabilize pcos hormones and got pregnant. It is a miracle.
I hope you guys get pregnant soon and then you and Missy could share your pregnancies together and you guys end up both having the most beautiful little girls and then being the best of friends Ally you have made me and become the best mom that I can and I cannot look up to a better role model I am praying for you Ellie and Jared thank you guys for being so open and honest this is one of the best things to watch as your guises progress with all three of your kids
Poor sweet Ellie, I feel for you I had infertility problems. And I know how heartbreaking and frustrating it can be. Your a strong women and I know god has wonderful plans for you two.
I've been here since Jackson was a baby!! And I had no kids lol got married 8 years later 3 kids and currently pregnant with baby #4 thank u for a happy memories and praying for your family
Hey Ellie and Jared ! Try day 11 ! DPO 11 ! I got a faint line that day and now 19wks pregnant 🤰 😘. God bless you both ! It will happen love ❤️ I just KNOW it !
My sister went through the same thing she tried for 2 years with everything and did ivf and she go pregnant ❤ you got this don't give up your so so close ❤❤❤
I'm so very sorry. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I know you are beyond happy for Missy and Bryan but I also know how much that's got to hurt too. Sending love, hugs and prayers from this grandma in Wilsonville Oregon.
I just love you guys. I’ve been watching since the beginning when we first started trying too- we have three beautiful boys too! I’m staying hopeful for you. It’s so unfair and frustrating and I really hope this has an upswing ❤️❤️❤️
Don't be discouraged I did 7 rounds of clomid 3of letrozole 1round of iui with just letrozole and trigger and my successful round I did menopur letrozole and trigger after almost 4 years of infertility I had truly gotten to the point of giving up and my successful cycle I refused to test at homebecause I was so sure I wasn't pregnant so I only did the blood test with the thought of getting ready for a new cycle and when they called with the positive I was so shocked and surprised.... infertility is a crazy journey for sure. I'm praying for you guys!
Did you do a trigger shot? Do you think the earlier tests could have been the residual trigger in your system? Sometimes it takes a while for it to test out and for the body’s normal HCG to build up. Prayers.
I watch a channel called Phil and Alex who are going through infertility and she found that if she tested with first morning urine that her test would be lighter, she waited till later in the morning to test. I am praying so hard for you guys right now.
Feeling so hopeful for you right now. Fingers crossed a bright light will arrive, just like Calvin it could be completely out of the blue. Been watching you for many years😇
You guys have every right to be upset. It might still be early but it’s still hurts and it’s still disheartening. I’ll keep rooting for your guys success in trying for another baby.
For my 3rd it took a week later then should to get a positive. Hoping this little one just wants to be a surprise. No matter what happens I wish your family happiness.
I'm sorry so many emotions...I wish it wasn't so hard for so many of us...don't be scared to try something new. You are fortunate to have the means to do ivf go for it girlfriend...obviously we all support whatever you choose❤️ sending lots of love
Sorry for your struggles. Have you had your pituitary gland checked out? Sometimes if the Femara isn't working it might be because of the pituitary gland and the hormones causing a conflict. See if they can look into that. Especially if the clomid didn't work in the past and now you are having issues with the Femara not working. The doctors need to stop and say OK, now what is causing this not to be working, it has to be a hormonal gland. See if you can have them check out your pituitary gland.
I really think it worked this time or else they would have shared the entire journey up until 14dpo in one video! I am crossing my fingers that I am right!!!
Your feelings about struggling to convince are just as valid NOW as they were before having the boys. Do not let theses comments convince you otherwise ❤️
Welcome to today's video. We hope you had a great weekend! We encourage you to watch the video all the way through. Definitely some hills and valleys in this one. Thanks for spending your time with us. ❤️
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Ugh!!! I've been praying for you so hard lately. I was ligit crying with happiness when you tested positive and so heartbroken at the end. I'll continue to pray for you. 🙏
do you think you will try what you did with Jackson? or Calvin?
i hope its true that ellie is having a baby
Praying for you! This broke my heart but I know Gods plan and it will happen!
It really is something special to be able to witness how Jared just gives his all to you. Physically and mentally and spiritually always by your side. Not just throughout your guys hardships with pregnancies but throughout your marriage. Ellie, don’t ever feel like you have to explain why you do things this way. I think I would be just as excited to take tests and hang onto the “maybes” or “what ifs”. Its just another piece of of puzzle. A really freaking hard puzzle ha! .Although I’m sure Jared you know this, you’re willingness to just be is so special to watch. I’m not married and I don’t see kids in my future but you have no idea the impact you’ve made as a “father, brother” figure in my life. The excitement you have for Ellie and the way you constantly are there to lift her up and catch her when she falls make me so excited to find my person one day. The two of you really have something special. Thank you for sharing such vulnerable intimate moments💕Sending all the baby prayers and dust your way!! Xox
This comment! It's exactly what I was thinking! Jared you're an amazing parter in life. You got a good one Ellie!
This! Ellie you are so lucky to have him! I have an amazing husband but he is not where near this degree encourage and supportive! I felt so lonely though my 9 iuis and ivf! But he an amazing father.. not all men can be Jared lol
Agreed!!! I think we all need a Jared.
Jared’s qualities are so admirable. I definitely agree
Hello guys have you tried herbs it works, I tried it and got cure from herpes and infertility with the help of doc Okougbo RUclips channel
Don’t give up. You have every right to feel all the feels and your feelings are very valid. The anger, the sadness, and yes the excitement to take those tests too. Keep your heads up- you have a family people dream about having. And I know you will expand your family. It will happen. I think it’s time to go back to square one and go from there. You are stronger than you think- both of you. You can handle this. And if it’s gonna be your last baby- might as well give it all you’ve got. Right? We are all here supporting you in whatever decisions you make moving forward and during this journey. 💕💕
💯 percent agree !
I am currently going through a chemical pregnancy/early miscarriage. I am here with you. I know the devastation you feel. Thank you for your vulnerability. Sending love and baby dust.
Rooting for you guys! I’ve been watching since before Jackson. Thank you for being so open and honest with us throughout the years. You’ve helped me come to terms with my own fertility struggles and allow myself to enjoy the little things. Thank you.
SAME here!!
I just know you all will have a sweet little baby again! 💕💕 Sending you love! I lost my baby at 10weeks in February and I’m praying for a miracle now.
If you feel the tug in your heart for another baby, there’s a reason. There’s a little soul out there just waiting for the right time. I can feel it 💕 Prayers from Tennessee
I hate blue dye tests because they can be so tricky. I definitely recommend everyone stick to pink dye tests.
I know exactly how you feel. I have had two very early misses in the past year and just that excitement, that joy, that hope and expectation that comes in the few days of getting the faintest line, it is a gift and something I treasure. I would also rather have those moments, those special happy secret times, to hold onto forever, and to know that there was a moment when I was pregnant and all the sweet possibility that brings. Last month my Dad passed away and at the same exact time, early morning, I got a faint line of hope and it honestly carried me through those next few days in such a lighter and brighter way, sadly it got fainter and a few days later I got my cycle, and yet I was still so comforted by the thought that my Dad was in heaven taking care of that little baby "girl" and they were together until (and if) she is meant to come back down to me. If the tests make you happy, take them, there is so much heartache in this world and testing IS fun, and it is exciting, and something I look forward to even if it doesn't stick. I know you have a rainbow baby out there just waiting to come home, and it's so beautiful and loving the way Jared is right there with you in the emotions, you are so blessed.
Fertility treatments are so emotionally exhausting - I remember feeling *exactly* how you describe yourself after doing 6 months of letrozole and never seeing a super strong positive - mad, sad, and just so dang discouraged. I'm so hoping a baby is coming your way soon!!!!
I can’t imagine how hard this is. But you guys have 3 kids and you will have your 4th miracle! I know it doesn’t make it easier and you want it now- sending you guys all the love and fertile power!
Telling someone with infertility that they will have another baby doesn’t help. I know you’re trying to help but it’s one of the worst things to say..
@@missquinn861 and u can’t tell no one what to say
I love you guys… your journey with pregnancies is unreal… the amount of hope and love and desiring and pain and loss and sorrow. Such strength, such heart. I’m so sorry, your babes are so adorable and I know the Father has a great plan in all of this. Your rawness is what makes you so wonderful to watch in all of this. May God hold you in His loving arms and just pour in joy of the spirit and just peace and grace and rest. Peace and Ellie, these mamma hormones are no joke…. your system if you tracked emotions and hormones for the past decade… girl, you’ve been through it and are so strong. Just love just sending a bubble of love for you both.
I’m praying for you guys!! I’m doing my first transfer next month! I’ve started watching you guys before I found out I’d ever have to do IVF! I pray no one ever has to go through this but I’m hopeful to know people out there are going through the same thing. Sending all the love and good vibes!
One thing I’m so grateful to this channel for is the example you set for healthy and strong relationships. Both as spouses and with your children. Your impact is so great and will go to such good. Thanks from a longtime follower!
Last year I did 6 rounds of clomid with 2 failed IUI’s, gave up and got pregnant naturally and had a miscarriage by Christmas. So I totally get how you’re feeling. Were you told that your trigger shot will cause you to have a positive pregnancy test? The HCG in the shot causes positive tests up to 10DPIUI, it really sucks and makes you hopeful. I’m holding onto hope for you guys though, we are now just saving up for IVF at this point in hopes I naturally get pregnant again and it sticks somehow lol. Thank you for sharing your ttc journey with us, it’s nice to be able to relate with you through all the highs and lows. 💕
This is definitely a thought that we had and we even discussed it in our next video. I’m so sorry about your experience. Hope all goes well with you and we’d love to hear about it more! ❤️❤️
Glad you asked this, as I didn’t want to hurt feelings by asking, but so many women aren’t told to test out their trigger and it can end in heartbreak. Praying we all get our rainbows soon. 🥺
Hello @@ellieandjared
I can not imagine what your going through but how positive u are and ur still smiling which I feel like its bc you've been through this before and it is what it is but it probably still hurts.... my heart goes out to you guys. I think about Ellie all the time and I always say a prayer for her. 💖 you guys are the sweetest couple.
All the emotions with this video❤️ so many ups and downs..
What are you doing? "I'm sad." why? "I don't know"... So relatable 🙈
Thank you for sharing! Keeping you in my thoughts
I found our ivf journey more enjoyable than rounds and rounds of medicated cycles and iuis. It was more hopeful and busy and actually more economical then to keep trying.
Sending love and prayers
My hubby & I get to start mini IVF in 8 more days. We've been trying for almost 20 years. We finally saved up enough for mini ivf, I had my tubes removed bc they were so damaged. So getting pregnant naturally isn't in the cards for us. We may be broke now bc we had to pay in full but I have highHope that this is going to work for us. That after 20 years I'll finally get to bring a baby home from the hospital 💜
You guys and your vulnerability is so refreshing! You guys had gotten me through tough times and miss seeing you guys all the time. Love you guys!
If you did a trigger shot of HCG it will stay in your system for up to 12 days after the IUI. So you will test positive until then. If you’re truly pregnant it will get lighter, possibly even turn negative, but it will come back.
I'm really touched everytime I see you Ellie and jared in the Journey and struggles that it has been to conceive , of course never the less you have 3 beautiful little ángel miracles and I feel every single bit of your pain ,anxiety I have struggled with infertility I am 30 and have 1 healthly boy that is 11 now and it really takes a toll mentally and physically but I really try to look at you Ellie and keep having hope some days it's easier to get out of the funk and others it's hard. I hope with all my heart you get to have many more babies as you desire. Love your raw and realness in a time like this.
Your allowed to feel emotion’s..like Jared says take day by day do what you know is right for you 🙂 you’ve got this ❤️
Found you guys while searching for info while we were doing fertility treatment years ago. You had Jackson, after a while I got pregnant with my daughter. I feel those feelings again watching you all in this video and my heart is with you. Praying for you❤️
I can already tell this is going to make me emotional. Praying for ya’ll and your family!
Our order kiddos are the same age! I watched you and Missy and Katie when we were all pregnant together and had our babies in 2014! (can you believe they are 8 now! 😢) I personally have not had to go through what you ladies have but you inspired me so much I became a surrogate. I had my first Surro babe in 2019 and I’m so ready to do it again!! Rooting for you both!!! 🤞🤞🤞
You are amazing for doing this 🤰
I watched a lot of IUI RUclips videos of other women and IUI never worked with them. It wasn't until they went and did IVF they got pregnant. I wish you the best !!
I cried watching this, I was very hopeful for a positive and thought it be totally cool you and Missy being pregnant together. I hope and pray for the best of you 2. Love you guys! I’ve been watching since Calvin was born.
You guys got this through all the hills and valleys !!!!! 💚💚💚 Remember your first video at your tint apartment !!! You've got this !
This is so raw and honestly so beautiful. You guys are warriors💛
Don't give up i am so glad Jared is there for you that helps so much in a situation like this! I am sending you good vibes and baby dust your way! BTW never use a blue dye sometimes they give you a evap line quicker. Hugs to you! ♥️
I’m so sorry you guys are here yet again. I’ve followed along with you from struggling to fall pregnant with my first (I found your videos of when you found out you were pregnant with Calvin). I’ve since had 3 boys also and contrary to what some people think, it doesn’t get any easier, even though you already have beautiful children. The negative tests that you shine every way in the light with so much hope, the disappointment, the limbo of not knowing, the stress of next steps. We are all here with you with fingers and toes crossed for a positive outcome for you soon!
I share your story so often (people think you’re our closest friends! - and you are but one sided 😂)
I’m glad you both have each other to share this journey with 💕
All the best to you guys!!!! Im hoping so much for you to have another little one. Stay strong. Giving you all the love and hugs I can!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely rooting for you both. 🤍🤍🤍
I have 2 kids and we tried for 6 months for our 3rd. I thought there was something wrong with me. I had been stressing so much and testing for my ovulation, it was stressful plus life issues. Eventually I calmed myself and we tried February and thankfully im pregnant. Its the worst seeing those negative tests. It’s heartbreaking. I pray for yall. Hugs. The tears you have and heartbreak hits me in my stomach. I so want you to have that positive. Hugs guys
Also DO NOT take Walmart 5 days early equate test, i had a negative positive result and it was heartbreaking. With this pregnancy I almost couldn’t believe when I saw the 2nd line, i went crazy and took tests over and over, like crazy. U want that reassurance.
Feeling waves of emotion for you both I was really hoping for good news I was pregnant with my first daughter when you were pregnant with Tommy and this week I've been going through miscarriage with my second pregnancy lost at 10 weeks whatever stage of the journey you are at there is a grief beyond words when things are uncertain I hope we get our little miracles together again soon ❤️ sending you all the love in the world to help you through this.
Sending all the love and good vibes! I know I’m going to need help getting pregnant when the time comes and I hope to find someone as special and loving as Jared! Love from Buffalo ny!
Hey Neighbor! I’m in Salamanca!! Go Bills!!
Ellie and Jared you are so strong. Me and my husband have gone through these roller coaster of emotions twice, it never gets easier and you just don’t know how to feel, you have my full support I love you guys🤍
We’re currently trying for #3 and it’s taken longer than the other 2 so I’ve been finding comfort in rewatching your videos. I’ve been following you guys since 2015, you’re amazing! I love you guys and your family 💕✝️
good luck you guys!!! i wish you guys the best in whatever the results are!
As someone who went through 3 IVFs I just want to say that I feel what you are feeling! Take one day at the time. It’s hard, I know it is!
I will pray for your family as you go through this journey. I can understand your pain - my husband and I tried to get pregnant for almost 15 years, and negative tests never get easier. I hope a miracle happens and you can get pregnant again naturally.
I’m really really hopeful for your family. Sending so many prayers and positive vibes to you and your family ❤️
I’ve been watching you guys forever. I feel so hopeful for you both. Keeping you in my prayers. Thank you for sharing and for being so vulnerable xo! ❤️
If our infertility thaught us anything it is to be good at fighting. Fighting for that glimmer of hope. Fighting for a baby in our arms, for babies in our arms, fighting through hormones and medication. Because we know it will be worth it in the end, especially when it’s a second, third, fourth etc. Sending so much love and strength but most of all hope. ❤️
Sending so many prayers and positive vibes your way !! So hoping for great results !!!!!❤️❤️🙏
Sending love to you guys and know you’re in my prayers for your 4th miracle baby ❤️❤️
I’ve never clicked so fast omg!! Sending love and prayers💖
You’re the captain of your own journey! Never apologize for how you navigate 💕
My heart hurts for you both. I too have had an extensive fertility journey. I have had 4 ivf cycles. 3 were successful. I would recommend looking into maca root. I took it after my last ivf pregnancy to stabilize pcos hormones and got pregnant. It is a miracle.
I hope you guys get pregnant soon and then you and Missy could share your pregnancies together and you guys end up both having the most beautiful little girls and then being the best of friends Ally you have made me and become the best mom that I can and I cannot look up to a better role model I am praying for you Ellie and Jared thank you guys for being so open and honest this is one of the best things to watch as your guises progress with all three of your kids
Oh, Ellie and Jared….. I am so sorry. I was so hopeful that things would be more positive. Praying hard!
Poor sweet Ellie, I feel for you I had infertility problems. And I know how heartbreaking and frustrating it can be. Your a strong women and I know god has wonderful plans for you two.
Love you guys and saying prayers! I’ve been watching since Jackson and appreciate how open and raw your being!
I had to pause Bonnie's video to watch this
I've been here since Jackson was a baby!! And I had no kids lol got married 8 years later 3 kids and currently pregnant with baby #4 thank u for a happy memories and praying for your family
Hey Ellie and Jared ! Try day 11 ! DPO 11 ! I got a faint line that day and now 19wks pregnant 🤰 😘. God bless you both ! It will happen love ❤️ I just KNOW it !
My sister went through the same thing she tried for 2 years with everything and did ivf and she go pregnant ❤ you got this don't give up your so so close ❤❤❤
I'm so very sorry. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I know you are beyond happy for Missy and Bryan but I also know how much that's got to hurt too. Sending love, hugs and prayers from this grandma in Wilsonville Oregon.
Ah guys my heart goes out to you. Whatever you decide to do and whatever the outcome you guys love will take you through. ♥️♥️♥️
I am praying for you guys! We are currently trying for baby number 6. 1 living and 4 in heaven. Praying it happens for us
My heart hurts for you, praying for peace in what ever decision you make. God Bless!
I just love you guys. I’ve been watching since the beginning when we first started trying too- we have three beautiful boys too! I’m staying hopeful for you. It’s so unfair and frustrating and I really hope this has an upswing ❤️❤️❤️
Ahhhhhhhh one of the first. I was always a early tester to. Like this if you haven't seen the results but came to the comments
my heart aches for you both. I pray that you will get baby #4 soon. You both are so so strong. Sending you both so much love and positivity.
Don't be discouraged I did 7 rounds of clomid 3of letrozole 1round of iui with just letrozole and trigger and my successful round I did menopur letrozole and trigger after almost 4 years of infertility I had truly gotten to the point of giving up and my successful cycle I refused to test at homebecause I was so sure I wasn't
pregnant so I only did the blood test with the thought of getting ready for a new cycle and when they called with the positive I was so shocked and surprised.... infertility is a crazy journey for sure. I'm praying for you guys!
Did you do a trigger shot? Do you think the earlier tests could have been the residual trigger in your system? Sometimes it takes a while for it to test out and for the body’s normal HCG to build up. Prayers.
I watch a channel called Phil and Alex who are going through infertility and she found that if she tested with first morning urine that her test would be lighter, she waited till later in the morning to test. I am praying so hard for you guys right now.
I’m still praying for a positive outcome, encouragement and healing for you.
I loved Jared using the word Discouraged I'm sad for the struggle you guys are going through. But discouraged is a really great description word.
Feeling so hopeful for you right now. Fingers crossed a bright light will arrive, just like Calvin it could be completely out of the blue. Been watching you for many years😇
Praying for you guys! I keep hoping that you were too early and got some good news.
so much love for you guys!! 🖤
I’m really hoping for a positive
I’m so 😢 sorry. But the love between you both is so amazing it makes my heart so happy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys have every right to be upset. It might still be early but it’s still hurts and it’s still disheartening. I’ll keep rooting for your guys success in trying for another baby.
My heart goes out to you both. I could only imagine the roller coaster of emotion yous go through. But your in my thoughts & prayers
HIIIIII IM HAVE BEEN WATCHING U SINC3 UR TIME LAPSE VID AND I LOVETHE UPDATES U DO!😍❤️
For my 3rd it took a week later then should to get a positive. Hoping this little one just wants to be a surprise. No matter what happens I wish your family happiness.
I have PCOS and have fertility issues. I cried with you guys. Much love
I have had a chemical pregnancy a empty sac and partial molar pregnancy
🙏🏼 As hard as it is, thank you for sharing. My niece is going thru the same journey so I forward all of your videos. Wish you the best!! ❤
Ugh this video broke my heart!! Praying that you stay close to the Lord during this season of waiting for your miracle baby ❤
Have you guys considered doing IVF instead of IUI? I have read it has much higher success rates. Sending love!
I'm sorry so many emotions...I wish it wasn't so hard for so many of us...don't be scared to try something new. You are fortunate to have the means to do ivf go for it girlfriend...obviously we all support whatever you choose❤️ sending lots of love
I'm praying for you guys 🙏🙏🙏 currently 18 weeks along with my rainbow baby
Always take the pregnancy test in the morning when the urine is more concentrated.
Sorry for your struggles. Have you had your pituitary gland checked out? Sometimes if the Femara isn't working it might be because of the pituitary gland and the hormones causing a conflict. See if they can look into that. Especially if the clomid didn't work in the past and now you are having issues with the Femara not working. The doctors need to stop and say OK, now what is causing this not to be working, it has to be a hormonal gland. See if you can have them check out your pituitary gland.
My heart breaks for you guys. I teared up multiple times. I’m so sorry.
I was thinking about you guys yesterday! Love you guys so much
Both of you are amazing! Hang in there. Me and my husband have been struggling to get pregnant too, it is a hard journey.
God is with you through this!! I can’t imagine!! Praying
I really think it worked this time or else they would have shared the entire journey up until 14dpo in one video! I am crossing my fingers that I am right!!!
Blue Dye test are notorious for Evaporation lines. Walmart $0.88 cheapies and first response are the best in my opinion.
good luck guys! hope everything goes the right direction! stay positive🤍
Don’t give up!!! It will happen when the time is right.
Sending prayers ! Love you guys !!
I’m praying 🙏🏻 for you. Your hope for life in a world that seems to lose respect for the gift of life daily is medicine for my soul. Just know that.
Hugs and prayers to the both of you!! Been watching since video one!
Oh Ellie ❤️❤️ my heart and thoughts are with you guys. Keep faith 🙏🏻
Your feelings about struggling to convince are just as valid NOW as they were before having the boys. Do not let theses comments convince you otherwise ❤️