Our First Positive Test! ...But It's Not Good

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  • Опубликовано: 23 окт 2024

Комментарии • 282

  • @ellieandjared
    @ellieandjared  2 года назад +281

    Hey guys! Thanks for being here. Boy! What a weird turn of events, right? Just wanted to reiterate that we filmed this a while back. We've already quarantined the whole family, have tested negative, and are vaccinated. Doesn't feel good to be kicked while we are down, but now we are feeling a lot better and we hope you all are doing well too. Thanks guys and hope we hope you have a great week.

    • @teeandkids937
      @teeandkids937 2 года назад +2

      ♥️♥️

    • @ambermac77
      @ambermac77 2 года назад +4

      Glad you all are feeling better!!

    • @brittneyvidrine5151
      @brittneyvidrine5151 2 года назад

      Glad y'all are better 😌

    • @bbyajcampos
      @bbyajcampos 2 года назад +1

      I’m glad you guys feel better. I have ovarian cysts too, have you tried ovasitol? It works for some people with pcos.

    • @mandigennuso2092
      @mandigennuso2092 2 года назад +1

      Do you think that’s why the IUI/pregnancy didn’t take is because you had Covid and didn’t know????

  • @OliversMommy102512
    @OliversMommy102512 2 года назад +68

    Femara with IUI was never enough for my PCOS body but when we switched to injectables (Folistim) with IUI and I was tested for alloimmune disorder and started the treatment for that, we got pregnant. There's so much more to try before having to switch to IVF 💜

  • @SuzanneM7
    @SuzanneM7 2 года назад +22

    Don’t give up, you’ve still got that feeling your family isn’t complete, it’s almost a primal feeling and it’s just as strong as that first baby hungry one where it feels like it comes from your soul. The moment your family is complete you will just know ✨

  • @sarahcarroll388
    @sarahcarroll388 2 года назад +8

    I just got over Covid for the first time (fully vaccinated) as well myself, the body aches with this variant are insane. Glad you’re all doing better now ❤️

  • @jessicabishop7055
    @jessicabishop7055 2 года назад +2

    Ellie and Jared- sending all my love and support from a person who can 100% relate. I’ve gone through 3 full rounds of IVF that have all failed. There are no words that can make it better, but I hope you are surrounded by warmth and love.

  • @ashemolen1847
    @ashemolen1847 2 года назад +18

    I actually really love this setup that you guys have had lately. So much love heading your way.❤️

  • @reeganstocker358
    @reeganstocker358 2 года назад +60

    So sorry to hear about covid. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way! (Also: You should link where that dress is from! It's so cute!)

  • @carmellaraffa6932
    @carmellaraffa6932 2 года назад +7

    I’m so sorry to hear you had Covid, happy to hear you are all feeling better! Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Ellie you are always in my prayers❤️

  • @alainabaty2002
    @alainabaty2002 2 года назад +30

    So sorry about all your struggles. I just did an IUI that was the exact same thing. I tested so early and got positive and then it slowly faded. It was a positive because of my trigger shot. Not fun stuff, but you aren’t alone. ❤️💕

  • @AHickmottLife
    @AHickmottLife 2 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry to you both I know your pain very well after 9 rounds of clomid 3 years TTC 2 miscarriages and a ectopic pregnancy. I couldn’t keep going anymore and took a break, I joined a gym to help my mental health and I was blessed with a miracle baby, born in January her name is Ellie 💕 hope that sends you a little bit of hope. I’m sending love, prayers and baby dust for your family. X

  • @cheyannehale1245
    @cheyannehale1245 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for saying it's not realistic to just be happy with the children you have. I've been hearing that from almost everyone in my life and internally I'm just like "don't say that to me". Of course I'm happy with my beautiful children I do have. But that doesn't mean there isn't an ache in my heart for the children I COULD have and WANT to have.

  • @amelicity
    @amelicity 2 года назад +14

    Look into Myo-Inositol & D-Chiro Inositol Blend.
    Keeping you guys in my thoughts! Glad you’re feeling better physically.
    Stay positive 💜

  • @caragiannetto3373
    @caragiannetto3373 2 года назад +1

    I also have avoided COVID this whole time and just tested positive the other day after attending my cousin's wedding. It is definitely the sickest I have ever felt, and I am vaccinated and boosted, so I can only imagine how I'd feel if I weren't. Glad you guys are doing better now.

  • @debcarpenter8519
    @debcarpenter8519 2 года назад +12

    Glad you're family is over covid and feeling better. Tough times, but I have a great feeling for your future!

  • @patriciamilczewski8009
    @patriciamilczewski8009 2 года назад +3

    Hello guys. I know it sounds so cliché but my prayers are with you. Jared you are a gem. Ellie is so lucky to have you as her husband. Ellie thank you for be so open and honest about what you are going through. You have a beautiful soul and are a wonderful mother. I've been watching you for so long I feel as if you were a part of my family. It's hard to know what to say sometimes in certain situations. I will continue to pray for your family. Sending much love

  • @MegBeth26
    @MegBeth26 2 года назад +1

    Hello, sorry to hear you had Covid my family had covid last October and it was really depressing for me. First I was exhausted and still had two kids to care for amd I was mourning the loss of my unborn baby who I lost at 20 weeks in July.
    One thing I was thankful for though, I was not pregnant when I had Covid. You can be thankful too. Perhaps God is just getting that out of the way and now you can get pregnant ❤ I will be praying for you as you decide what to do next 🙏

  • @Morgan-bj8wc
    @Morgan-bj8wc 2 года назад

    I feel your struggle ♥️ Seven yrs ago I started trying and then got quite sick for the next 5. Now back to trying and find out my husband has fertility issues and I’m 37. Thank you for sharing. It helps to not feel alone.

  • @janiapaige6459
    @janiapaige6459 2 года назад +19

    I remember being overjoyed with you finding out you were pregnant with Calvin ❤️ I’ll keep praying for you. And im glad you were able to find the humour in getting one positive test amongst many! You know the saying that laughter is the best medicine :)

  • @jaynebutterworth4447
    @jaynebutterworth4447 2 года назад +1

    Wow I just had Covid after over 2 years just like you, and the worst was the back pain! No one else has mentioned this symptom. I’m glad you’re feeling better and wish you luck with your next try.

  • @robinnieto2703
    @robinnieto2703 2 года назад +3

    Continuing to pray for you and whatever God has for the future. Thank you for sharing your journey. From the very first video until now, I’ve been right here going along the journey, through the ups and downs, tears and joy, you have both been a true blessing to others.

  • @mrsterp2399
    @mrsterp2399 2 года назад

    Ohhh guys! I'm so bummed for you too!!
    You have such beautiful positivity and love thru it all. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @lindseyklick4346
    @lindseyklick4346 2 года назад +1

    My thoughts and prayers are with you! A close friend is struggling right now with fertility and we watch you and it gives us hope for you and her both! ❤

  • @obuolyte
    @obuolyte 2 года назад

    I'm sorry you going through this... it's that hope you get and then lose, bummer.
    I loved when Jared said "we haven't been preventing"... it's our lives, 12 years keep trying, multiple tests, IUIs and just never happened and i don't think it will ever happen at this point. My dream is to get that positive test, never had such honor, have no idea what that feels like..
    Love you guys! And good luck! Fingers crossed!

  • @jdadams5487
    @jdadams5487 2 года назад +6

    I am so happy that you all are doing better and never give up trying I am keeping you all in my prayers 🙏❤️

  • @sararushton1458
    @sararushton1458 2 года назад +1

    It took me 7 years to make my daughter, 3 years of obgyn and 4 years at the fertility clinic. We had some medicines that didn’t work and then we did 3 rounds of IVF.

  • @bigmumma1969
    @bigmumma1969 2 года назад +10

    Sending you guys all the positivity,good vibes and love in the world ❤️❤️

  • @courtster5609
    @courtster5609 2 года назад +9

    I just want to send you guys some positive vibes and good thoughts! ❤️

  • @anthonyelizabethspiering4212
    @anthonyelizabethspiering4212 2 года назад

    I have PCOS too, and we experienced several years of fertility struggles after getting married. I actually had an ovarian wedge resection surgery to try and improve my PCOS symptoms. My understanding is that this is not a super common treatment for PCOS (I think it may have been a little more common at one time?), but I can’t say enough good things about how it’s helped me. My cycles have gone from totally unpredictable to almost completely normal. Best part is that I got pregnant twice, totally naturally, within the first 2 years after the surgery. I actually conceived, no joking, literally only 3 weeks post-surgery. Anyway, just something else to possibly look into if you aren’t familiar with it.

  • @TinaRusch1
    @TinaRusch1 2 года назад

    I had IVF for all of my kids. The third one was a donor egg. Making a decision about where to go when it’s not working is sooo hard! We tried for our baby for a really long time! At the last try, I said that it was going to be our last try, and it worked! I think I knew that it would. Good luck figuring it out! So hard!

  • @CB-ed7yh
    @CB-ed7yh 2 года назад +3

    Hello Ellie and Jared, I 'm so sad to hear that your pregnancytest is negative and the Covidtest was positive! But it' s nice to hear that you're feeling better now! I pray for you and your decisions and wish you all the best for your future! Thank you for sharing this journey with us! God bless you! Greetings from Germany 🙋🏼

  • @carli7937
    @carli7937 2 года назад

    You CAN be thankful for what you have and still want more.. its ok 🤍
    you are in my prayers 🥰

  • @carlyreid8611
    @carlyreid8611 2 года назад

    I’m so sorry it’s taking so long. Keep the faith ❤️Yes please link Ellie’s dress!

  • @lifebydimps5987
    @lifebydimps5987 2 года назад

    Hi Ellie! Just said a prayer for you!! Praying that you and Jared will be blessed with a sweet baby soon!❤️

  • @Madhattervibes78
    @Madhattervibes78 2 года назад

    I can't wait until you have another video to share. I have laughed, cried and prayed from the very start.

  • @danischannel6276
    @danischannel6276 2 года назад

    Lol take the medicine for the girl. That’s too sweet! I love you guys. So glad you all recovered from Covid. Fingers crossed for baby girl!

  • @Siennagehring
    @Siennagehring 2 года назад +2

    I had a miscarriage last month…. It’s horrible. And I can only imagine how hard this for you guys. I love you guys. I’ve watched you for years. Prayers for you guys from Utah:)

  • @Jodydubeau
    @Jodydubeau 2 года назад +8

    Sending more love and prayers your way and I’m glad you are feeling better 💕🙏

  • @FranklyDaphne
    @FranklyDaphne 2 года назад +21

    Sending positive thoughts your way! Love y’all

  • @amandanicole7955
    @amandanicole7955 2 года назад

    So sorry for all your negatives... And the positive. Trying is so hard. I've been trying for almost 10 years. We have a 14 and a 13 year old and we would be starting all over but we have tried everything and we feel this huge need to expand our family

  • @KMC39100
    @KMC39100 2 года назад

    I'm so sorry for this latest disappointment in your journey and am praying for you. I tested positive for Covid this week for the first time also and am isolating at home. Your blouse is lovely Ellie, where did you get it?

  • @jenpickett9484
    @jenpickett9484 2 года назад

    My family and I had Covid back in January it’s no fun!! Glad you’re all feeling better!! ❤

  • @kimcole1976
    @kimcole1976 2 года назад

    Man! We had not had Covid19 for the whole 2 yrs too and ended up getting it when my Mom moved in with us. So sorry to hear. It was miserable. All three of us experienced things differently. We didn’t think that is what we had. So sorry about the IUI.

  • @Lily12345-j
    @Lily12345-j 2 года назад +2

    Kids are sweet. My son the other day said to me that I should pray to God to have baby girl. I said but honey it's not for sure to be a girl, he said well just ask God nicely ❤️

  • @GoFishOffice
    @GoFishOffice 2 года назад

    I hope for a bright future full of your dreams...And I love the positivity!

  • @patticallihan8515
    @patticallihan8515 2 года назад +1

    So sorry you guys got the wrong positive. Wishing you all so many Blessings for the future. It will happen Ellie & Jared you guys feel it in your heart. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @JLV1111
    @JLV1111 2 года назад +4

    I'm so sorry! 🥺
    Ur boys are amazing ❤ Calvin saying take the medicine for a girl.
    I'm sending positive vibes ur way....... 🤞 calvin was a surprise, maybe baby 4 will be too!?!
    Maybe you gotta take ur pregnancy tests at Walmart for good luck! Lol

  • @danibarlow7914
    @danibarlow7914 2 года назад +1

    I’m sorry guys! Thank you for being so transparent. This is something that doesn’t get the attention it needs. I’ve been through 3 fresh IVF rounds. I’m an open book if you have questions!

  • @brookes4148
    @brookes4148 2 года назад

    So sorry for the negative tests and covid! I also went almost 2 yrs without getting it and then bam! Best wishes going forward with whatever you decide ❤️

  • @roseanngoldstein7762
    @roseanngoldstein7762 2 года назад

    So sorry to hear you both have COVID-19. Just live in the positive and grace and gratitude for all you have. Negativity brings negative. Be grateful for the blessings.

  • @davidmcclellan9959
    @davidmcclellan9959 2 года назад

    OH THANKS THANKS YOU LOVE DAVID

  • @kaseyrask3918
    @kaseyrask3918 2 года назад

    Have PCOS. My cycles have never really been regular at all what so ever. Had fertility treatment with first 2 kids. Second time had to do trigger HCG shots then when I got pregnant took progesterone tabs to make sure things stayed good and things went good. Got pregnant with my 3rd totally out of the blue with no treatment or nothing. My middle son must of been 5 months old and got pregnant never knew about it till this past September and ultrasound tech was like oh you are 25 weeks. I was like huh?!?!?!?

  • @HannahThompson
    @HannahThompson 2 года назад

    Praying for you and your beautiful family! Love you all!

  • @carolynczachura138
    @carolynczachura138 2 года назад

    Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers. Love your family.

  • @debdav7168
    @debdav7168 2 года назад +1

    Sending prayers!!!

  • @kimdrury6184
    @kimdrury6184 2 года назад

    Your such a great couple!! Sorry to hear about + covid test and - pregnancy test (s). Take a breath or two and do what is in your hearts and what you both want. Whatever is decided we are here for it all!!!

  • @janeowen266
    @janeowen266 2 года назад +1

    My heart goes out to you both but great to still see you smiling. Sending positive vibes & peace your way. ❤❤

  • @kathyparker9683
    @kathyparker9683 2 года назад

    I’m just so sad about this. I say God will direct your next step. Prayers

  • @colleenelliott40
    @colleenelliott40 2 года назад

    Ellie and Jared don’t give up stay strong. You will get another baby. 👶😇

  • @erinsoper2514
    @erinsoper2514 2 года назад +1

    Bless your hearts so glad the family is better, sending prayers for you and your family

  • @tracyclosson2188
    @tracyclosson2188 2 года назад

    I’m so sorry for your struggles that you’re going through! My thoughts are with you both! I don’t understand the pain directly, but I have brothers and their wives that do. My older brother and his wife lost 3 full term babies to LADD syndrome. I also have a younger brother who’s wife went through IVF. It was their only chance of having a healthy baby as they had to find an embryo that wasn’t affected by LADD syndrome. As for COVID, I don’t have it but my hubby and youngest daughter (4.5yrs) are currently quarantining in my bedroom. Hoping that the rest of us don’t catch it! Fingers crossed.

  • @kaitlinwheeler6382
    @kaitlinwheeler6382 2 года назад

    I've been watching your channel since 2015. This video was a decade vu of when you documented about trying to get pregnant the first time. I'm sorry you are going through this. I pray that whatever path you decide to take that it works out for you. Sending love. ❤

  • @jennabender8570
    @jennabender8570 2 года назад

    I understand that kind of tired. It’s like an “I’m tired of this season of life” kind of tired. It can be so hard to have to stay in that season when you just want to be over and through it.

  • @ashleydileo941
    @ashleydileo941 2 года назад

    Good luck guys and don't give up lots of love and prayers and baby dust

  • @ginamariedemeo
    @ginamariedemeo Год назад

    Who knew the next one would work!!! 😊

  • @Olivia-hx2in
    @Olivia-hx2in 2 года назад

    What’s so great about these days is that there are so many options. I KNOW you will have a baby. No matter how he or she gets here, you will have another. I cannot wait to meet them!

  • @fadilamehmedovic3227
    @fadilamehmedovic3227 2 года назад +1

    Hi ellie and jared. I really think it's probably not the right time! Just let it be have fun and maybe just try miracles will happen just like calvin :) that baby girl will come when she is ready... then u guys will see why it didnt happen now or then

  • @kimmcalamia
    @kimmcalamia 2 года назад +4

    Sending prayers 🙏 glad you all are feeling better..

  • @Pcoslifewithsuz
    @Pcoslifewithsuz 2 года назад +1

    So sorry you guys got covid - I got it in February for the first time ever too. Just be sure to look out for long covid/post covid symptoms. its been the worst.

  • @storytimeeeee
    @storytimeeeee 2 года назад

    It'll happen when it's time, it will 💕 Praying for you and also hope everyone is healthy now 🥰💕 also Calvin is right, his sister will come when she's ready.

  • @KaylaJohnson1995
    @KaylaJohnson1995 2 года назад

    OH NO :( I’m so sorry. I hope you both have a speedy recovery

  • @HeatherDeanthedeanslistblog
    @HeatherDeanthedeanslistblog 2 года назад

    My heart is just so sad for you. I’m sorry for the obstacles that have been in the way of growing your family.

  • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
    @Songwritersbehindthecurtain 2 года назад

    Congratulations 🍾🎉🎊🎈 guys.

  • @tracyzabelle
    @tracyzabelle 2 года назад

    Prayers you all feel better fast

  • @natahliajoy7606
    @natahliajoy7606 2 года назад

    I feel ya, me and my girl tested positive 2days ago... I'm asthmatic so I'm struggling but my girl is full of beans

  • @debbiemorgan6701
    @debbiemorgan6701 2 года назад

    Praying for you. Big hugs!

  • @nicolesc1995
    @nicolesc1995 2 года назад

    I tested positive last Tuesday for covid for the first time too! I’m very unwell though! I’m glad you guys are feeling better and sending baby dust your way ❤️

  • @sadielee1000
    @sadielee1000 2 года назад

    The whole video, I was thinking “I love that dress/shirt!” Come to find out it was as dress and its gorgeous!

  • @pivoine5929
    @pivoine5929 2 года назад

    You are so kind and i wish you to be positive for the good reason asap.

  • @jodijarvis3988
    @jodijarvis3988 2 года назад

    Praying for you guys. Remember God is in control. He makes all things beautiful, in his time. ❤️

  • @valeriecady8070
    @valeriecady8070 2 года назад

    Oh man I’m sorry you two and Calvin had Covid but so glad your ok now love you all

  • @chayabrody722
    @chayabrody722 2 года назад +2

    Oh wow! Sending love ur way and positivity

  • @brendabuckley9077
    @brendabuckley9077 2 года назад

    Prayers for you all...Covid sucks! I'm sorry this is happening to you. Glad you are all feeling better. God Bless!💕

  • @Meemaw1953
    @Meemaw1953 2 года назад

    Prayers for a new baby for you both. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Abida_
    @Abida_ 2 года назад +17

    Let’s appreciate that Ellie and Jared is making everyone’s day so much better with there video 🤍

  • @thevictoriagoogin
    @thevictoriagoogin 2 года назад +1

    While this is such a hard hurdle to deal with I just have to say, Ellie you are looking *STUNNING* bed for a week did you some good. I adore yalls relationship.

  • @JellyPoop99321
    @JellyPoop99321 2 года назад +1

    Sending positive thoughts & love. 💕 Glad y’all are feeling better in regards to covid. Also, where’s that link to Ellie’s dress? 😜

  • @colleenreimer
    @colleenreimer 2 года назад

    Such sweet and innocent boys 💙💙
    Was cute when Jared kinda giggled when he said Johnathan.

  • @AriGieros
    @AriGieros 2 года назад

    I am so sorry that you both tested positive for Covid.

  • @jamaicnmecrazy870
    @jamaicnmecrazy870 2 года назад

    Just know you are loved ❤️ by so many. We all love you guys and we are right by your side. When you feel happy 😃 we feel happy with you. We you feel sad we feel sad 😞 with you. ❤️

  • @joydempster6867
    @joydempster6867 2 года назад

    Glad you are all over covid guys I had the same symptoms as you Ellie I felt so sick from it .

  • @gregorywolford6005
    @gregorywolford6005 2 года назад

    I’ve had covid it was the worst. Couldn’t move couldn’t stand everything hurt. It lasted 3 days for me before i felt better. As for everything else I honestly hope it works out. Things happen in mysterious ways and it may be the case for you.

  • @fadilamehmedovic3227
    @fadilamehmedovic3227 2 года назад +1

    I send all my baby dust ur way ellie ur so strong! If u guys did IVF and or consider the last option is that u guys can do chromosome and have a girl 100% maybe something to think about. Or u guys can keep trying it is financially and emotionally physically keep ur head up god knows what hes doing

  • @Abby-er2kz
    @Abby-er2kz 2 года назад

    Praying for you guys!

  • @florencedonze705
    @florencedonze705 2 года назад

    Actually pregnancy tests work with the presence of hcG hormones and I think you mentioned the trigger shot contained this hormone as well...I hope its a plausible explanation :) hang in there🌞🥰you will get your girl eventually

  • @5littlewrestlers
    @5littlewrestlers 2 года назад +1

    I kind of know the feeling I've had 5 miscarriages and just a couple months ago had an ectopic pregnancy Sending prayers and baby dust your way

  • @taiesewilliams3279
    @taiesewilliams3279 2 года назад

    I’m glad that Everyone is feeling better

  • @michellemwells7775
    @michellemwells7775 2 года назад

    Glad you are all feeling better ❤️

  • @katewillis9470
    @katewillis9470 2 года назад

    I just had covid too and the back pain was by far the worst!!! Next was the congestion and ugh it all just freakin sucked!

  • @deirdrebannon382
    @deirdrebannon382 2 года назад

    Don’t give up 🙏🏻🙏🏻Have you ever tried Letrozole? Praying for you both to have a beautiful baby boy or girl 💙💗

  • @briellejade._
    @briellejade._ 2 года назад

    my family has covid right now and the back pain is something we had in common. Didn't even know that was a symptom, I thought it was a uti or something. Crazy we lasted two years and now finally got it.