Nice floral arrangements, and good talk. I'm a 54 year-old guy, and from what I've witnessed in my own life, you're spot-on with everything you said. Sometimes it's difficult, but sometimes you have to cut yourself off from others, especially if you can't handle them at that point in your life. Like, I didn't have a very good relationship with my parents when I was in my 20ies, and I didn't cut myself off, and after some years, the relationship bettered until they moved on (they both passed away almost 20 years ago). But I often wondered if my life would have been much better had I severed my ties to them in my 20ies when my relationship with them wasn't so good. But I didn't have that strength, I didn't want my parents to be missing me, I wanted to be around whenever they needed me. With other people, I had no problems severing ties, however, despite it being sometimes difficult as well. Once, I worked for an employer again that I didn't like (because the first time around, I had quit out of fear of doing something bad), and the second time around (despite it not being very pleasant oftentimes), I persisted until he let me go. This provided me with the closure that I needed. So, I guess, there's two sides to the coin. Sometimes, closure is perhaps needed. I don't know what you've been through in your life, but whatever your gut feeling is telling you is probably the right decision. BTW, I was happy when you did light that third candle near the end, somehow! 😃
Being around toxic people for a long period of time made me lose interests and hobbies in a lot of things, including writing in my journal. Watching your video really made me realize that everything they do just reflects on them and how they're feeling and that we have nothing to do with it, it's their experience in life and one day they'll learn from their experience. We shouldn't let other people decide how we'll live our life just because of some stupid actions they do, because if we keep thinking about what they think, I don't think anyone is going to feel happy in this life and we're all just gonna spread negativity everywhere. Thank you so much Inayah for inspiring me and talking about your experiences. Thank you for being an example that good people like you still exist.
I lacked stability in genuinely all parts of my life: school, family, hobbies. And so my few "friends" were my only stability, so I ignored the way I felt around them just so I had some sort of stability. I didn't have many topics to talk about with them, they gossiped in a way which made me feel nasty, the way they were just plainly rude and disrespectful to others, the 'Idgf' attitude was way too prominent and whenever I offered doing something they made it abundantly clear how much they hated hanging out with me if it wasn't under their circumstances. They started getting cold and dropped me a week before my year 10 finals. I was devastated because their reasoning was me being too different from them... This went down at a point where I was severely depressed and had such a hard time and couldn't be a funny happy friend for them, but they hadn't asked if I was ok a single time. They were bad friends and I am grateful they dropped me like this. I am still grieving the fact that I have no friends right now, but I'm not losing hope and trying to be friendly to everyone around me and not letting the negativity get to me.
You don't really deserve such kind of friends you deserve better, and i think sometimes is better be alone it's more peaceful and comfortable , yeah hanging out with friends and peoole can be amusing and funny but at the same time troubles and problems comes from them , I am not saying all people are bad, it's just good to be alone for your peace of mind until you find good people who understand you and deserve your time. Take care
hi im going through the same thing! ive had friends since 4th grade and in our first years of uni (same city/uni, covid quarantines tho so online school & we fouldnt meet up as usual) they started drifting away, my main issue was that i wasnt getting the same energy i was giving, i respected the friendship a lot more than to just ghost and drop them off turns out the other person (my 'friend' of 10+ years) wanted to do just that 😃 i kept asking whats going on and in the end they just said hey we're in different stages in life and we should stop talking. looking back i realised i wasnt getting the wnergy i was giving and it wasnt fair for me so when i was maintaining other friendships i made that a very important factor yet i undermined the "respect" factor, so my next friendship lacked respect in so many ways theres a saying in my culture that if someone says something to you about someone else theyre probably saying stuff about you to someone else, so if they simply gossip unprompted about other people to u by dropping names and shit like 😬 probably doing the same about u. habits die hard or whatever lol. especially when u only get big reactions to negative things and when u share something positive its met with "okay nice". (that shows severe jealousy lol i was just too nice to see it, "i cant be happy for ur achievements but hey u did something SO STUPID YOU WEIRDO HAHAHAHA lets talk about how you FAILED") this friendship lasted for a year where i realised; some people just dont fit in with each other. maybe both of my ex friends arent bad people, they just dont match the way i live my life and that makes them "toxic" to me, other people would understand the "im gonna trauma dump everynow and then & ignore any complain u say" or "im gonna talk shit about other people infront of u" narrative but it really didnt match how my brain works or maybe they acted that way bec of something i did that allowed them to do that, regardless, not for me sometimes you have to look harder for people that match the way you think and yes humans are social in nature but that doesnt necessarily mean "braiding each others hair in sleepovers everynight" it could just mean saying hi and good morning to ur local cafe worker or having nice relationship with ur yoga coach. these relationships make us stronger bc the world is bigger than us and theres sooo many people willing to be nice to you just because you exist. keep those close to you and be nice to them itll get easier, take this as a message from the future
i aspire to be like you! i love film making, i cant quite grasp it, but one day i'll be a an amazing film making person and enjoy film making much more.
The window view feels like a metaphor of weathering a storm eventually transitioning to a calm sunny day and the little bird that perched on the tree branch was the cherry on top. I've been going through a lot of pain lately and this was a very timely video. Thank you for this beautiful message.
I found your channel like two weeks ago and I'm so grateful for that. My heart feels so soft and my thought and feelings feel heard and seen when I watch your videos. It can be so tiring to stay committed to this path of healing when you've been walking for so long and you still can't see the destination because it seems like it doesn't exist and there's people pulling you back to the start to your own toxicity. But it's videos like this that serve a great reminder to me why it's so important to not give up. Not only is every word you say something I have been needing to hear but also, knowing that I'm not alone and there are people like me out there somewhere and that I shouldn't give up hope. So thank you for your words and for the hope you give me by simply existing as yourself in this scary world. Also, the vibes of your videos with the flower arrangements and the candles are immaculate and you're so prettyy
I'm really glad that you are where you are at, and you help people doing the same thing for themselves. I've ways been a big supporter of "give to others what you would like to receive". At first I thought that it meant I should give my best to people who does not wish the best for me. It took me awhile but I understand that expectations for something I should receive that I was not giving to myself was the culprit of my problems. Now I understand that "giving others what you would like to receive" is all about unconditionnal love, with no egoist intentions. Its understanding that what you are trying to share is so powerful to your self that you want others to be enriched the same way. Its like sharing/replicating a toy, more of a tool that you know will help the person with its journey. I believe you embody this spirit really well with what you are doing with these videos. Once again, thank you Inayah ☺️
I am pretty sure that I have manifested you because you are not just a human being but living aesthetic and trust me. It is not only about liking the aesthetics. It is about the amount of mental peace it gives to your soul.🌷
i've been thinking about the things you addressed in your video several times recently, because i'm at the point of my life right now, when one person i'm extremely close with completely disregards me. and i do see, where this stems from and what's going on with this person, but i don't have that much empathy any more. it's true, that nobody should put up with bad things out of fear to lose friendship. it is the person who messes everything up who should make effort and try to figure things out within themselves and safe the relationship that falls apart because of them. it's very important for me to get a validation for this point of view from outside of my head, so thank you very much!
I have been going through the turmoil of discovering a betrayal from some family and friends of mine very recently and sitting with the discomfort knowing that I cannot allow them to continue being in my life when their actions don't align with my own values. I have been fairly secure in that decision but the pain is a lot and I thought maybe you'd have a video exploring this topic and I am so glad you did 💛 it's very important to know what one needs to do, but to have it validated and being told it's still possible (i've done this over and over again through my life) even when the person is incredibly close is so nice to have.
and i think it is important to note that people dont have to treat you like "shit" for you to cut off them, sometimes people treat you good but they just arent the type of people you enjoy being with, and it is completely alright to cut them off, or maybe they dont directly project their toxicity on you but are generally a toxic person and that is leaving a negative impact on you like maybe they judge everything others do harshly or body shame or face shame others and that makes you feel bad (this is very personal so like they can do other toxic things) and it is okay to leave them.
Initially, I started listening and watching your videos to improve my English, but now you are my first English-speaking blogger who has become really interesting
Thank you for your videos, I love them so much. I felt better about my life when I watched the part where you said that sometimes cutting people off is isolating and not easy. I did cut off a friendship group because of a unreciprocated friendship gone sour - and I was deeply disappointed in the lack of attempts of repair. It was as though I did not matter in the first place. A very humbling thought - but also I thought to myself, an actual real friend will reach out and reconnect no matter the fight or argument - but these people did not. With these standards, I lost 5 friends but I kept some level of sanity. It was still better than tiptoeing on eggshells around them, not knowing what triggers them or what made them dislike committing to me.
I stumble upon this channel but I know that it will grow and be one of the comfort channels I will watch because I resonate a lot with this and your video is honestly amazing
Hi, I don't normally comment on things, but I discovered your video's yesterday, and I find them so relaxing and eye opening. You've made me realize a lot of things, and for that, thank you. Keep making these videos so you can help more ppl like myself
i needed this. i recently started dating someone who... "negs" me a lot. for a bit i thought it was cute banter, but over the last couple weeks it has really started to get to me. i had just built up my confidence over the last few years, but i can already feel it slowly eroding away. i need to think about it more, but it might be time to cut the cord because i don't think she realizes what she's doing. i don't think she's a bad person for it, but i do think she needs to work on some stuff. i think i've been putting up with it because i don't want to be lonely, but that's never a good reason to stay.
I love you so much. you deserve so much, not just subscribers and likes but much more. only a person who has seen the worst and came through can speak to a soul, to my soul like this. I needed you in this part of my life and what's funny is that I see ur videos on my tube front page but refuse to press on them because I am a skeptical person when it comes to RUclips motivators/speakers, especially women (wizard of liz, etc) the way they preach doesn't inspire me but Lowkey irks me in how harsh, untrue, and un-useful most of the preaching is to my personal life and how I handle things. As a deep thinker who thinks through loops but still ends up at the truth I just wish I can clear up the fog and stress that comes out of that thought loop. I appreciate how you spoke to me, I appreciate how your advice and talk benefits people out there that are like me.
Thankyou so much for your vulnerability & honesty.....Spot on! 🙏 yes at 56 its very scary to make these moves, which i so need to do....yet struggle so much how to give the things that u discuss to myself 🙏🙏
You uploaded this at the perfect time. I have someone in my life who makes me feel like a checkmark on their tight schedule, and I’ve been conditioned to feel grateful for even that kind of attention. I’m slowly telling myself I deserve better, so thank you for this video
i was listening to this thinking that this channel stopped posting but i was wrong cause this video is only 4 days old, and it's getting on my page at the perfect timing, thanks for these words it's really inspiring never stop pls pls pls pls pls pls
Its beautiful and inspiring seeing you invest so much heart, self and language into well being, wisdom and knowing thyself. Its also very stoic, taking the responsibility of your own actions, recognizing the importance of our actions, reflections and experience, as it affects our vision of life, surrounding people, and own soul. Big hug from Argentina
i wanna thank you so much for your videos. you are almost 10 years younger than me, but as someone who has spent the last years of my 20s after covid, living isolated and unauthentic, your videos have really given me a newfound hope and perspective that i really needed. you remind me so much me in my early 20's regarding creativity, but with so much more emotional maturity and compassion. it goes to show that advice can come from any age.
I love watching your videos before school. You are soo soo pretty but also you have such a soothing voice haha and listening to you makes me feel that everything will be okay
I am eternally grateful that I found your channel. Your wisdom is truly incredible. Thank you for taking time to create such meaningful & aesthetic content. 🙏🏽 🥺💞
When you truly understand we each create our 'own' reality and that life is not happening to us, but through us, then the 3D struggle is over. No one has the ability to create in your own personal reality, unless of course, you believe they can, which is giving your power away to the holographic illusion and victimzing yourself. You are your own God, in that sense. There are no victims here, only creators.
I disagree with the sentiment that being a victim is the fault of the victim, but I do agree that we have more power than we think, and we can take steps to getting rid of the harmful people/things in our lives. sometimes people just want to control your life, and you can take steps to distance yourself from them (if you can, it depends on the situation) or you can wait for a while longer in hopes that they better themselves. it is your choice what to do, but keep in mind that you cannot "fix" someone
@@bluelad_ That’s only true if we’re still plugged-in to old earth framework, which suggests others have any create ability in our own reality. That’s victim consciousness and will only manifest victim experiences. The failure to learn and apply the true nature of reality via the conduit of Spiritual Physics/Reality Creation, is ultimately what’s holding humanity back from ascending and thus remain trapped in low vibrational, base level consciousness, aka the Matrix. Everything and everyone in the seemingly physicalised external reality is merely your mirror, all they are doing is reflecting your own state of being (beliefs, definitions and assumptions) back at you. Pointing 👉 ‘out there’ for the way you are feeling and what you are experiencing, is projection and simultaneously, disempowered victimisation. Just like your bathroom mirror, as an analogy, if you look in a mirror and see your reflection is frowning, you don't go over to the mirror and try to make the reflection smile, you clearly know that the only way to get the reflection to smile is to decide to smile first. Same, physical reality is not outer, it is inner, it’s just a reflection of you at every given moment, individually and collectively. So if you wish to change your outer physical reality, all you really need to do is to change something about yourself and you will see that change take place unerringly and effortlessly in the external. This isn’t a blame game, I’m not suggesting a victim has any conscious intent or desire to create said situation, but they most certainly created it subconsciously. There is no other way it could have manifest. Realising this, allows you to be more conscious your vibrational offering/output. Those with a negative charge (FEAR) have more of a gravitational pull to bring those experiences in to your reality.
thank you for this video and i hope you keep making contents like this! i watch your video every time my negative self talk starts and it feels like I can have better conversations with myself
I'm here for practising listening English because my English is not good . But your video is so great , thank u for this . I hope you will have good health and I hope you will be happy . I will support you ❤🎉
when we dont forgive ppl we make our lives worse in the process. Obviously its very hard to forgive people that have done us wrong but once you get it out of mine there is a peace gained. at least in my experience.
I really love your approach to self improvement and self love on this channel. All your wording resonates heavyyyyy. Enjoying the journey of getting to know myself and building internal stability for external prosperity
Hello Inayah. If you're reading this, I hope you're okay, my name is Santiago, I'm a writer too, and I have made a poem based on what you talked about in this video: "Candle ligth" At first, I tougth your ligth was so beautiful, it just used to iluminate the places and helped me to see, like a guidance, your ligth was like a protection to me, and I wanted to be close to you because I was feeling safe, but I didn't notice that you were diyng Candle, slowly, and you didn't care, but I did care, and when I realize that, I wanted to stop you, to stop you from consuming yourself, so I get more close to you, I was feeling responsable for you, and then you almost burned my hair, but that wasn't the only thing that you almost burned because at that moment I looked at my skin and it was hurted by your fire. I wanted to convince me that it was your fault, that your fire hurted me, that you almost burned my hair, that you made me tougth that your ligth was beautiful, but you were always a candle ligth, I could not change your fire because it was yours and it would always burn things, I was the one that was getting closer to you, I was the one that just acepted you consumig yourself knowing that it hurted me, you were just there, in the same place when I find you and when I left you, I just didn't wanted to see it, those actions were my responsability, but little me was scared of the dark, because there were my fears, so when I finded your ligth I convince myself that it was the only one that I would ever find, but at some point I acepted that I could not be just there keeping all that pain, and I just walked away. Now I'm here, in the dark, with my fears, I look at them, they look at me, I'm scared, but something inside me keeps me warm and I feel like I have to figth them. I did it, I figthed them, and sudenly I'm glowing, I'm iluminating the hole room, the hole world, the whole universe, I am ligth, an enternal ligth, I'm my own guidance, my own protector, my own warm keeper. Finally I realized that I have to face the dark, it is there and it is always be, but the decision is mine; to let it have control over me and acept things that I don't deserve, or figth it, knowing that I have the control, and that there's more enternals ligths in this world that are waiting to meet me. The idea came up when you say that the candles where too close to you hair. If you readed all this, thank you Inayah, it means a lot to me. Send you much love and thank you for existing in my reality. Pd: Love the flowers arrangement, it is beautiful
Your videos are amazing, would you consider doing a vid about love? I feel like you would give great advice about self sabotage the positive side or even just your experience in general
I just wanted to say you’re a huge inspiration for me. I really hope you see this comment. Your ideas just speak volumes. I really hope you see this comment 💕
im not sure if its our generation or the fact that were close in age and development, but you talk about things that im currently going through. its like getting advice from an older sibling 🤣
thank you so much for sharing you’re experiences and knowledge, i’ve been on my own journey recently towards self love and maintaining my peace. it’s nice to know im not alone and that i can get to the point you’re at now:)
You need a clapperboard to synchronize picture and sound. Ideally, the sound texture should match the intended imperfections of the image. Just a piece of advice
it's starting to become a habit that i sit at my desk, start to do some self care and i see that you've uploaded. excited to watch again🫶🏽
This makes me so happy ❤️
As a cis man, this channel has been helping me become more emotionally intelligent. Thank you.
Happy you’re here :)
Nice floral arrangements, and good talk. I'm a 54 year-old guy, and from what I've witnessed in my own life, you're spot-on with everything you said. Sometimes it's difficult, but sometimes you have to cut yourself off from others, especially if you can't handle them at that point in your life. Like, I didn't have a very good relationship with my parents when I was in my 20ies, and I didn't cut myself off, and after some years, the relationship bettered until they moved on (they both passed away almost 20 years ago). But I often wondered if my life would have been much better had I severed my ties to them in my 20ies when my relationship with them wasn't so good. But I didn't have that strength, I didn't want my parents to be missing me, I wanted to be around whenever they needed me. With other people, I had no problems severing ties, however, despite it being sometimes difficult as well. Once, I worked for an employer again that I didn't like (because the first time around, I had quit out of fear of doing something bad), and the second time around (despite it not being very pleasant oftentimes), I persisted until he let me go. This provided me with the closure that I needed. So, I guess, there's two sides to the coin. Sometimes, closure is perhaps needed. I don't know what you've been through in your life, but whatever your gut feeling is telling you is probably the right decision. BTW, I was happy when you did light that third candle near the end, somehow! 😃
Being around toxic people for a long period of time made me lose interests and hobbies in a lot of things, including writing in my journal. Watching your video really made me realize that everything they do just reflects on them and how they're feeling and that we have nothing to do with it, it's their experience in life and one day they'll learn from their experience. We shouldn't let other people decide how we'll live our life just because of some stupid actions they do, because if we keep thinking about what they think, I don't think anyone is going to feel happy in this life and we're all just gonna spread negativity everywhere.
Thank you so much Inayah for inspiring me and talking about your experiences. Thank you for being an example that good people like you still exist.
I lacked stability in genuinely all parts of my life: school, family, hobbies. And so my few "friends" were my only stability, so I ignored the way I felt around them just so I had some sort of stability. I didn't have many topics to talk about with them, they gossiped in a way which made me feel nasty, the way they were just plainly rude and disrespectful to others, the 'Idgf' attitude was way too prominent and whenever I offered doing something they made it abundantly clear how much they hated hanging out with me if it wasn't under their circumstances. They started getting cold and dropped me a week before my year 10 finals. I was devastated because their reasoning was me being too different from them... This went down at a point where I was severely depressed and had such a hard time and couldn't be a funny happy friend for them, but they hadn't asked if I was ok a single time. They were bad friends and I am grateful they dropped me like this. I am still grieving the fact that I have no friends right now, but I'm not losing hope and trying to be friendly to everyone around me and not letting the negativity get to me.
You don't really deserve such kind of friends you deserve better, and i think sometimes is better be alone it's more peaceful and comfortable , yeah hanging out with friends and peoole can be amusing and funny but at the same time troubles and problems comes from them , I am not saying all people are bad, it's just good to be alone for your peace of mind until you find good people who understand you and deserve your time.
Take care
hi im going through the same thing! ive had friends since 4th grade and in our first years of uni (same city/uni, covid quarantines tho so online school & we fouldnt meet up as usual) they started drifting away, my main issue was that i wasnt getting the same energy i was giving, i respected the friendship a lot more than to just ghost and drop them off turns out the other person (my 'friend' of 10+ years) wanted to do just that 😃 i kept asking whats going on and in the end they just said hey we're in different stages in life and we should stop talking. looking back i realised i wasnt getting the wnergy i was giving and it wasnt fair for me so when i was maintaining other friendships i made that a very important factor yet i undermined the "respect" factor, so my next friendship lacked respect in so many ways
theres a saying in my culture that if someone says something to you about someone else theyre probably saying stuff about you to someone else, so if they simply gossip unprompted about other people to u by dropping names and shit like 😬 probably doing the same about u. habits die hard or whatever lol. especially when u only get big reactions to negative things and when u share something positive its met with "okay nice". (that shows severe jealousy lol i was just too nice to see it, "i cant be happy for ur achievements but hey u did something SO STUPID YOU WEIRDO HAHAHAHA lets talk about how you FAILED")
this friendship lasted for a year where i realised; some people just dont fit in with each other. maybe both of my ex friends arent bad people, they just dont match the way i live my life and that makes them "toxic" to me, other people would understand the "im gonna trauma dump everynow and then & ignore any complain u say" or "im gonna talk shit about other people infront of u" narrative but it really didnt match how my brain works or maybe they acted that way bec of something i did that allowed them to do that, regardless, not for me
sometimes you have to look harder for people that match the way you think and yes humans are social in nature but that doesnt necessarily mean "braiding each others hair in sleepovers everynight" it could just mean saying hi and good morning to ur local cafe worker or having nice relationship with ur yoga coach. these relationships make us stronger bc the world is bigger than us and theres sooo many people willing to be nice to you just because you exist. keep those close to you and be nice to them
itll get easier, take this as a message from the future
Hello, I'm a huge film nerd and I really appreciate it when I see good filmmaking skills. This is art, not content.
I am very flattered by this
wth are you talking about
i aspire to be like you! i love film making, i cant quite grasp it, but one day i'll be a an amazing film making person and enjoy film making much more.
The window view feels like a metaphor of weathering a storm eventually transitioning to a calm sunny day and the little bird that perched on the tree branch was the cherry on top. I've been going through a lot of pain lately and this was a very timely video. Thank you for this beautiful message.
I found your channel like two weeks ago and I'm so grateful for that. My heart feels so soft and my thought and feelings feel heard and seen when I watch your videos. It can be so tiring to stay committed to this path of healing when you've been walking for so long and you still can't see the destination because it seems like it doesn't exist and there's people pulling you back to the start to your own toxicity. But it's videos like this that serve a great reminder to me why it's so important to not give up. Not only is every word you say something I have been needing to hear but also, knowing that I'm not alone and there are people like me out there somewhere and that I shouldn't give up hope. So thank you for your words and for the hope you give me by simply existing as yourself in this scary world. Also, the vibes of your videos with the flower arrangements and the candles are immaculate and you're so prettyy
I'm really glad that you are where you are at, and you help people doing the same thing for themselves.
I've ways been a big supporter of "give to others what you would like to receive".
At first I thought that it meant I should give my best to people who does not wish the best for me. It took me awhile but I understand that expectations for something I should receive that I was not giving to myself was the culprit of my problems.
Now I understand that "giving others what you would like to receive" is all about unconditionnal love, with no egoist intentions.
Its understanding that what you are trying to share is so powerful to your self that you want others to be enriched the same way.
Its like sharing/replicating a toy, more of a tool that you know will help the person with its journey.
I believe you embody this spirit really well with what you are doing with these videos.
Once again, thank you Inayah ☺️
I am pretty sure that I have manifested you because you are not just a human being but living aesthetic and trust me. It is not only about liking the aesthetics. It is about the amount of mental peace it gives to your soul.🌷
i've been thinking about the things you addressed in your video several times recently, because i'm at the point of my life right now, when one person i'm extremely close with completely disregards me. and i do see, where this stems from and what's going on with this person, but i don't have that much empathy any more. it's true, that nobody should put up with bad things out of fear to lose friendship. it is the person who messes everything up who should make effort and try to figure things out within themselves and safe the relationship that falls apart because of them. it's very important for me to get a validation for this point of view from outside of my head, so thank you very much!
I have been going through the turmoil of discovering a betrayal from some family and friends of mine very recently and sitting with the discomfort knowing that I cannot allow them to continue being in my life when their actions don't align with my own values. I have been fairly secure in that decision but the pain is a lot and I thought maybe you'd have a video exploring this topic and I am so glad you did 💛 it's very important to know what one needs to do, but to have it validated and being told it's still possible (i've done this over and over again through my life) even when the person is incredibly close is so nice to have.
and i think it is important to note that people dont have to treat you like "shit" for you to cut off them, sometimes people treat you good but they just arent the type of people you enjoy being with, and it is completely alright to cut them off, or maybe they dont directly project their toxicity on you but are generally a toxic person and that is leaving a negative impact on you like maybe they judge everything others do harshly or body shame or face shame others and that makes you feel bad (this is very personal so like they can do other toxic things) and it is okay to leave them.
Initially, I started listening and watching your videos to improve my English, but now you are my first English-speaking blogger who has become really interesting
You’re so beautiful and your energy is such a good feeling to me 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you for your videos, I love them so much. I felt better about my life when I watched the part where you said that sometimes cutting people off is isolating and not easy. I did cut off a friendship group because of a unreciprocated friendship gone sour - and I was deeply disappointed in the lack of attempts of repair. It was as though I did not matter in the first place. A very humbling thought - but also I thought to myself, an actual real friend will reach out and reconnect no matter the fight or argument - but these people did not. With these standards, I lost 5 friends but I kept some level of sanity. It was still better than tiptoeing on eggshells around them, not knowing what triggers them or what made them dislike committing to me.
I stumble upon this channel but I know that it will grow and be one of the comfort channels I will watch because I resonate a lot with this and your video is honestly amazing
inayah thank you for your beautiful, kind, encouraging messages ❤ your videos inspire me to not give up
Hi, I don't normally comment on things, but I discovered your video's yesterday, and I find them so relaxing and eye opening. You've made me realize a lot of things, and for that, thank you. Keep making these videos so you can help more ppl like myself
i needed this. i recently started dating someone who... "negs" me a lot. for a bit i thought it was cute banter, but over the last couple weeks it has really started to get to me. i had just built up my confidence over the last few years, but i can already feel it slowly eroding away. i need to think about it more, but it might be time to cut the cord because i don't think she realizes what she's doing. i don't think she's a bad person for it, but i do think she needs to work on some stuff. i think i've been putting up with it because i don't want to be lonely, but that's never a good reason to stay.
I love you so much. you deserve so much, not just subscribers and likes but much more. only a person who has seen the worst and came through can speak to a soul, to my soul like this. I needed you in this part of my life and what's funny is that I see ur videos on my tube front page but refuse to press on them because I am a skeptical person when it comes to RUclips motivators/speakers, especially women (wizard of liz, etc) the way they preach doesn't inspire me but Lowkey irks me in how harsh, untrue, and un-useful most of the preaching is to my personal life and how I handle things. As a deep thinker who thinks through loops but still ends up at the truth I just wish I can clear up the fog and stress that comes out of that thought loop. I appreciate how you spoke to me, I appreciate how your advice and talk benefits people out there that are like me.
Thankyou so much for your vulnerability & honesty.....Spot on! 🙏 yes at 56 its very scary to make these moves, which i so need to do....yet struggle so much how to give the things that u discuss to myself 🙏🙏
You uploaded this at the perfect time. I have someone in my life who makes me feel like a checkmark on their tight schedule, and I’ve been conditioned to feel grateful for even that kind of attention. I’m slowly telling myself I deserve better, so thank you for this video
Your videos are very therapeutic inayah I love the deep talking cause im a person who’s so into it and I love this thank you so much for this:)
you are literally my role model, i can't explain how warm and peaceful i feel while watching your videos while enjoying the picture SO much
This makes my heart feel so warm❤️ I appreciate you so much
I tend to listen to u while I'm doing my crafts! (crochet, draw etc.) It all made sense.
Omg why I just get to know such a beautiful and strong RUclipsr now this video gives me strength truly and thank youuuu
HOW I LOVE YOUR UNIQUE QUALITY OF ADVISING ‼ will never be tired of complementing you for it... tysm
i was listening to this thinking that this channel stopped posting but i was wrong cause this video is only 4 days old, and it's getting on my page at the perfect timing, thanks for these words it's really inspiring never stop pls pls pls pls pls pls
The set up is perfection ✨
this video couldn't have come at a better time for me
Its beautiful and inspiring seeing you invest so much heart, self and language into well being, wisdom and knowing thyself. Its also very stoic, taking the responsibility of your own actions, recognizing the importance of our actions, reflections and experience, as it affects our vision of life, surrounding people, and own soul. Big hug from Argentina
i wanna thank you so much for your videos. you are almost 10 years younger than me, but as someone who has spent the last years of my 20s after covid, living isolated and unauthentic, your videos have really given me a newfound hope and perspective that i really needed. you remind me so much me in my early 20's regarding creativity, but with so much more emotional maturity and compassion. it goes to show that advice can come from any age.
I’m so happy you’re here! Proud of you. We are on this journey together!!!
listening to your videos while im at the gym has genuinely helped me through some tough times. Thank you for your content❤
i feel called out. that means you’re saying the right things. subscribed - i hope to hear more of you !! 😭💗
Happy you’re here x
I can’t stop admiring you and enjoying your work. I like your atmosphere so much I want to teleport to you and hug you right now
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I love watching your videos before school. You are soo soo pretty but also you have such a soothing voice haha and listening to you makes me feel that everything will be okay
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oh i love this thumbnail - feels like a warm variation of the other ones on your most popular vids!!
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i love it sm
why is this soothing, why can't I stop listening to you, and I don't mean to
I am eternally grateful that I found your channel. Your wisdom is truly incredible. Thank you for taking time to create such meaningful & aesthetic content. 🙏🏽 🥺💞
Your words are really important, I love to hear your thoughts, and the process behind, it’s a relief of the spirit. Big love from Italy 🌷🩷
When you truly understand we each create our 'own' reality and that life is not happening to us, but through us, then the 3D struggle is over. No one has the ability to create in your own personal reality, unless of course, you believe they can, which is giving your power away to the holographic illusion and victimzing yourself. You are your own God, in that sense. There are no victims here, only creators.
I disagree with the sentiment that being a victim is the fault of the victim, but I do agree that we have more power than we think, and we can take steps to getting rid of the harmful people/things in our lives.
sometimes people just want to control your life, and you can take steps to distance yourself from them (if you can, it depends on the situation) or you can wait for a while longer in hopes that they better themselves. it is your choice what to do, but keep in mind that you cannot "fix" someone
@@bluelad_ That’s only true if we’re still plugged-in to old earth framework, which suggests others have any create ability in our own reality. That’s victim consciousness and will only manifest victim experiences. The failure to learn and apply the true nature of reality via the conduit of Spiritual Physics/Reality Creation, is ultimately what’s holding humanity back from ascending and thus remain trapped in low vibrational, base level consciousness, aka the Matrix.
Everything and everyone in the seemingly physicalised external reality is merely your mirror, all they are doing is reflecting your own state of being (beliefs, definitions and assumptions) back at you. Pointing 👉 ‘out there’ for the way you are feeling and what you are experiencing, is projection and simultaneously, disempowered victimisation. Just like your bathroom mirror, as an analogy, if you look in a mirror and see your reflection is frowning, you don't go over to the mirror and try to make the reflection smile, you clearly know that the only way to get the reflection to smile is to decide to smile first. Same, physical reality is not outer, it is inner, it’s just a reflection of you at every given moment, individually and collectively. So if you wish to change your outer physical reality, all you really need to do is to change something about yourself and you will see that change take place unerringly and effortlessly in the external.
This isn’t a blame game, I’m not suggesting a victim has any conscious intent or desire to create said situation, but they most certainly created it subconsciously. There is no other way it could have manifest. Realising this, allows you to be more conscious your vibrational offering/output. Those with a negative charge (FEAR) have more of a gravitational pull to bring those experiences in to your reality.
you feel like such a close friend
You are my friend!
so sweet🥹
thank you for this video and i hope you keep making contents like this! i watch your video every time my negative self talk starts and it feels like I can have better conversations with myself
I'm here for practising listening English because my English is not good . But your video is so great , thank u for this . I hope you will have good health and I hope you will be happy . I will support you ❤🎉
You are such a queen and a gift
i really appreciate you adding subtitles on your vids, it helps me focus better
The good godmother we need ❤
I knew who I was and I showed up with love for myself and others as well but it didn’t matter. People are still nasty.
Maaaaaaaan let me tell you! This came RIGHT ON TIME! And side note… your skin is very glowy!
appreciate it.sometime we just. Paymuch attention on thers so that wejust watching ourselves be struggling with these conflicts.
Love love love this video thank you for posting your healing journey from someone slowly improving myself from toxic cycles
We are on this journey together ❤️
another banger video from the one and only. i respect and love you too. never stop, you have such a GREAT influence
hello. you are magical. it was nice to do my anatomy homework while watching this video💖
Thanks for the kind words!
when we dont forgive ppl we make our lives worse in the process. Obviously its very hard to forgive people that have done us wrong but once you get it out of mine there is a peace gained. at least in my experience.
I love your vibes❤ thank you for sharing your thoughts❤
Very cool channel about cool lady and her cool opinions! The way you shoot videos is amazing too!
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I really love your approach to self improvement and self love on this channel. All your wording resonates heavyyyyy. Enjoying the journey of getting to know myself and building internal stability for external prosperity
I'm so happy because I find your channel
I always love your videos especially the one you are trimming the flowers love to watch you
Please upload frequently truly love you💘
Love you💕
Hello Inayah. If you're reading this, I hope you're okay, my name is Santiago, I'm a writer too, and I have made a poem based on what you talked about in this video:
"Candle ligth"
At first, I tougth your ligth was so beautiful, it just used to iluminate the places and helped me to see, like a guidance, your ligth was like a protection to me, and I wanted to be close to you because I was feeling safe, but I didn't notice that you were diyng Candle, slowly, and you didn't care, but I did care, and when I realize that, I wanted to stop you, to stop you from consuming yourself, so I get more close to you, I was feeling responsable for you, and then you almost burned my hair, but that wasn't the only thing that you almost burned because at that moment I looked at my skin and it was hurted by your fire. I wanted to convince me that it was your fault, that your fire hurted me, that you almost burned my hair, that you made me tougth that your ligth was beautiful, but you were always a candle ligth, I could not change your fire because it was yours and it would always burn things, I was the one that was getting closer to you, I was the one that just acepted you consumig yourself knowing that it hurted me, you were just there, in the same place when I find you and when I left you, I just didn't wanted to see it, those actions were my responsability, but little me was scared of the dark, because there were my fears, so when I finded your ligth I convince myself that it was the only one that I would ever find, but at some point I acepted that I could not be just there keeping all that pain, and I just walked away. Now I'm here, in the dark, with my fears, I look at them, they look at me, I'm scared, but something inside me keeps me warm and I feel like I have to figth them. I did it, I figthed them, and sudenly I'm glowing, I'm iluminating the hole room, the hole world, the whole universe, I am ligth, an enternal ligth, I'm my own guidance, my own protector, my own warm keeper. Finally I realized that I have to face the dark, it is there and it is always be, but the decision is mine; to let it have control over me and acept things that I don't deserve, or figth it, knowing that I have the control, and that there's more enternals ligths in this world that are waiting to meet me.
The idea came up when you say that the candles where too close to you hair. If you readed all this, thank you Inayah, it means a lot to me. Send you much love and thank you for existing in my reality.
Pd: Love the flowers arrangement, it is beautiful
Your videos are amazing, would you consider doing a vid about love? I feel like you would give great advice about self sabotage the positive side or even just your experience in general
I’m so so happy that I have found your channel 💖
I’m so so happy that you’re here ❤️
Hey, I really love your videos. Would you mind if I ask what camera do you use? (I really like the digital camera vibe😩)
Hi Inayah, pls consider making a podcast. It could be lovely if I can hear you anywhere in a form of a podcast. Love u content xoxo...
Coming soon ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, I really needed to hear this!
knew exactly what i needed...☀️
love when you upload this channel is so important to me
You’re so important to me :)
Love this background😊😊😊
I love the set up vibe!!!
I just wanted to say you’re a huge inspiration for me. I really hope you see this comment. Your ideas just speak volumes. I really hope you see this comment 💕
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Does anyone else also think that she looks like lady gaga?
Thank you so much for what you are doing ❤Love you ❤ You are so unique
This video came with such perfect timing for me
im so lucky i met this channel
that outro was just tooooo cute
Epic ❤. You’re on it. I’m so happy for you. 🌟
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im not sure if its our generation or the fact that were close in age and development, but you talk about things that im currently going through. its like getting advice from an older sibling 🤣
thank you so much for sharing you’re experiences and knowledge, i’ve been on my own journey recently towards self love and maintaining my peace. it’s nice to know im not alone and that i can get to the point you’re at now:)
so insightful! 👏🏾 thankful for you
Love you :)
your videos are amazing!
You need a clapperboard to synchronize picture and sound. Ideally, the sound texture should match the intended imperfections of the image.
Just a piece of advice
if there's any way you could ever make these into a podcast on spotify or something that'd be amazing
thank you so much for this
just in time😂❤
the crazy chick with the flowers you kinda reminde me of hanna Mckay from Dexter
Omg that's my favourite topic 💃
You are so Inspiring. Bless your soul *^,^*
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Thanks
So basically: How do I deal with myself
thanks a lot.
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i love you so muchhhh 🥹 your yt channel seems like my safe place
what's the name of the piece at the beginning of the video
You have pretty eyes and hair to match
What kind of camera do you use to film?
All of this .